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You seem to have a keen insight on these "Redditor males." How did you learn so much about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 06:38 PM
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How do you figure that "most men on reddit" would ever force you to do anything? You are living in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 06:22 PM
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It is true that liberal values are in many ways idealistic. It also appears to me, sadly, that they are in decline. I am merely pointing out that calls for censorship are not compatible with liberal philosophy. Calling these people liberals is simply inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:48 PM
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Liberalism holds free speech as a high moral value. If they are purging things they don't want to hear, then they aren't liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:11 AM
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I'm not even sure that could be considered advocacy... dude just said he wishes it were true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:04 AM
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no, the correct response is screeching like a harpy. duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:32 PM
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Some of us are reasonable. Others see things in very black and white terms and constantly screech like harpies. Don't paint every PPD with the same brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:30 PM
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Haha GP is 100% sarcasm. Don't take it seriously. This sub is for playing with ideas. Sure, many of those ideas are dumb, but they can be fun anyway. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:23 PM
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Top tier in today's world is basically any woman. Obviously false. Not every woman has it easy. Just like not every man has it easy. Yeah, we know you have problems. Everyone does. But have some empathy for those on the other side. Or at least be honest about them. Thinking like this will distort your worldview into something ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:12 PM
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is it just me or does it seem like terplarpers have overrun everything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:10 PM
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looks pretty hot to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:08 PM
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great argument
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:14 PM
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Women have the choice not to bleed as well. Medical science is amazing nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:00 PM
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Are they though? I took Trump's ascendance as an indication that the SJWs are at the least not winning outright...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:51 PM
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The last post was intended to illustrate why this attitude is bad. If you don't believe you can improve your lot, then you are stuck where you are of your own accord. There is plenty of evidence indicating that you have the power to shape and improve your future, regardless of your existing circumstances. So why, then, would you want to remain stuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:22 PM
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You're right. You are destined for failure. Shoulda been born into success... better luck next time. In fact, it's not even worth playing the game. Why even bother trying since you are already clearly a loser? Might as well just sink into depression and embrace last place in life. I'd wish you luck, but you don't need it. You wouldn't know how to use it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:27 PM
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Sounds like a convenient buffer... "everyone successful had a better family life than me." That's a BS loser attitude. You have the power to redefine the goalposts for yourself. "Other guys have x" is just a poor excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:06 AM
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"If a woman rejects you for reading TRP and/or employing certain tactics then doesn’t that automatically make her a low value woman? It’s understood that in certain man/male orientated spaces not to let the woman know that you are using TRP strategies or any other methods on her. My question is when all is said and done, if she is truly a high value woman then shouldn’t she understand why you had to use certain strategies to attract a mate and shouldn’t she understand why you post certain things…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 06:28 PM
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*amoral
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:49 PM
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Is that why we have so many trans wackos coming out of the woodwork nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:40 PM
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You are missing his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:32 PM
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Benefits, burning, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:30 PM
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Bad? Sometimes. It's never as good as sex with someone you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:52 AM
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I read it more or less like you did. They had a fascinating and, ultimately, not very contentious discussion. How 87AudreyHorne came to that conclusion is a mystery to me. Zizek and Peterson both offered perspectives that were both thoughtful and thought provoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:12 AM
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Nah. Just a little hyperbole. OP's point is that most so-called incels are sabotaging themselves with incorrect beliefs about themselves and the world. Calling it a mental illness is pretty spot-on. Talking it out with a therapist sounds to me like it would be a good way to explore these issues and find a healthy road to personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:20 AM
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Breaking up with someone you like, respect, and care about is hard. It sounds like you have already decided that it's somewhat unfair for you to continue to lead her on. It also sounds like she's very nearly presented you with an ultimatum. You know where things go from here... it sucks but if you just aren't into it, you gotta do what you gotta do. Also, remember: we all get old, shrivel up, and lose our sex appeal anyway. And there is more to a relationship than sex. If everything else is work…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:17 PM
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You gotta admit though that most romantically frustrated guys could probably benefit from a new mindset. The way they are approaching things obviously does not work. And that is a mental adjustment. Does that mean they are all clinically mental? Of course not. But it's not such a big stretch to look at it as a mental illness of sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:58 PM
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The freedom to slut around was granted to western women in the 1960s with the advent of pharmaceutical birth control, which the women embraced only too enthusiastically. The chads of today are merely taking advantage of women's insistence on sexual freedom. Are you advocating that men as a group reassert their dominance and enforce monogamy with, say, laws granting women as property and the abolition of birth control drugs? Are you advocating for the removal of governmental incentives (welfare) …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 02:43 PM
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Maybe further the discourse by sharing the problem that you perceive? You throw insults, but there is no substance to your objection. There is nothing here but a juvenile outburst. What problem does this attitude cause? What logic is OP missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:19 AM
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ALWAYS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:34 PM
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alcohol is a hell of a drug...
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:51 PM
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those east coast girls love that homeless cock
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:48 PM
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You can't escape reality. But you can accept that your body looks the way it does and focus your worries on things you actually have control over. Looks are an important factor, but they are far from the only factor. Intelligence, confidence, humor, talent, skill, leadership, strength, style, status, wealth... there are many qualities that women find attractive in men. You can naturally develop many of those qualities in yourself with practice, planning, and self-application. Try not to get hung…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/19 06:29 AM
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Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:09 PM
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Then you enjoy masturbating to tentacle porn the maximum amount possible...
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:25 PM
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Lyniaastan
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:23 PM
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almost all women will blow a sexually attractive man within 10 minutes of meeting him fo sho, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:08 AM
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I think GP is referring to the in-recent-years vocal proportion of black people and women that are openly declaring perpetual victimhood status on account of their "intersectional identity." These people claim that because they belong to groups (black, female) that have been shown to be at a statistical disadvantage in certain measurable areas on average, they should personally be entitled to some kind of special treatment in those areas. So, in GP's view, rather than playing the game with the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:31 AM
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When it comes to human behavior, JP is an expert. He's been a clinical psychologist for 30 years, and as a consequence has had the experience of dealing with more human problems than any of us ever will. I'm not sure why you would conclude that JP thinks he's an "expert" on matters redpill, though given TRP's rise to prominence over the last several years I'm willing to bet he knows more about it that you think he does. Beyond just one narrow way of thinking or acting in order to get some poon, …
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:33 AM
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And it is still logically fallacious and an ad hominem. The difference here is that the technical opinion of Dr. X is not fully explored, perhaps because the jury could not understand it anyway. I am not a legal expert and so I can't adequately explain why this kind of argument is allowed in a court of law. I suspect that it is used to substantiate (or invalidate) matters of fact when the facts are unknown. "Ur incel, u don't have authority to know" will never be part of a process that aims at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:34 PM
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The important bit is that, if you are to present a proper argument, you must address the points that your opponent makes. Perhaps your opponent is not credible, but that does not matter if his argument is sound. His lack of authority does not necessarily make him wrong. For instance: John Drow lives underground. He asserts the sky is blue. Fiona Fallacy responds "He's lived underground his whole life! He's never seen the sky! His assertion must be false!" Fiona failed to address the salient part…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:26 PM
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I am not usually so rude to my fellow internet denizens, but you seem to be choosing willful idiocy here. An attack on credibility IS a personal attack, and the reason that it is considered a fallacy is because it fails to address the salient points of an argument. The given name for this fallacy is "ad hominem." Seriously, just google it. Educate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:26 PM
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This is the definition of ad hominem fallacy... in a sound logical argument you address the position a speaker takes rather than the speaker himself. The speaker may indeed be inexperienced, and may also indeed be obviously ill-informed on the subject matter. Responding to this fact rather than to the point he is making is still ad hominem, and still a faulty argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 02:48 PM
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You take all those risks upon yourself, and you claim it is for the benefit of us guys? Laughable, really. That birth control is for you and for your benefit, 100%. Why should I appreciate any of the risks you take in order to be free to fuck around without consequence? I would much rather you refuse to take those risks and instead carefully consider who you let inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 12:27 AM
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You shouldn't care about men's issues unless you want to. And you certainly don't owe anybody sex. However, your assertion that most men complaining about dating or sex are also asking for Sharia law is pretty extreme and from my point of view entirely out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 12:14 AM
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You are older, wiser, and probably better in every way today than you were back then. You simply gained some experience and mellowed the fuck out. It happens to everyone, and it's a good thing. The only thing you need now is to get your mojo back, and that's all about not giving a fuck what these relics from your past life think about the LostDevices of today.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:01 AM
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From the HuffPost article: “There’s not a lot of empirical support that there are trait differences between men and women,” she said. “This curriculum is shot through with that assumption.” There is a SHITTON of empirical support for trait differences between men and women. Why do equality idealogues refuse to acknowledge it?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 07:42 PM
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It's not just that American men "go for" 150 pound women. They really don't have a choice. When every woman is fat, fat is the only option. If the average American woman weighed 110 pounds, far fewer American men would "go for" the 150 pounders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:14 PM
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"all the ladies do"
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:23 PM
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Bodily mutilation as a punishment is absolutely savage and has no place in modern human society. I really don't think many of us would like living in a world where this kind of behavior was acceptable. No, rape isn't good, but bodily mutilation is so far beyond it in terms of severity and impact... making this argument you are making is outrageous. It is like something form the mind of a sociopath. If you truly believe what you are arguing here, you are one sick fuck. The guy deserves the severe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:38 AM
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100% agreement that these words have lost their meaning because too often they have been used to "cry wolf."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:18 PM
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there is no red and blue. everything is some shade of purple
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 05:08 PM
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You gotta get your sleep if you want to retain it, bro.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 12:15 AM
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It's just woman logic. From a man's perspective, it makes little sense. From a woman's perspective, she just doesn't want seed from a man that will give her weak, passive offspring. If she does the initiating, she doesn't get to vet men for assertiveness. So, she gets real close and acts all coy in order to figure out if he has the chutzpah to go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:18 PM
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those behaviors never mean nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:14 PM
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Unpopular opinion: people who use acronyms in top level posts should be required to spell them out. failure to do so has consequence of thread deletion by the mods
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 07:59 PM
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but that one is good too
/r/askTRP16/09/19 01:39 PM
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I think this is an unqualified response, and that men today prefer exactly the kinds of women they did hundreds of years ago: healthy, well-proportioned and with facial beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:43 PM
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Now that we have established that TRP has strong ties to the far-right and neoreactionaryism we never established that. you claimed it, backed it up poorly, and were rebuffed by pretty much everyone in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:03 PM
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Something does seem to be interfering with your ability to reason. The identity of one who has an idea is irrelevant to the accuracy of that idea. The content of the argument, the idea itself, must be refuted. Your logic seems to be: GLO is a WN. GLO is a TRPer. WN is bad. Therefore, all TRP ideas are WN ideas and are bad. That is faulty reasoning, disingenuous and brutalist. It focuses on the speaker, condemning all of his words and disregarding all nuance in the content of his speech. If TRP i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:53 AM
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Did you check?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:06 AM
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Feminism covers a range of broad philosophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:19 PM
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This is pretty much exactly what TheBluePill sub is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:57 PM
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If he's the only one who understands, how can you (by your own definition one who does not understand) judge his understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:56 PM
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The blue pill doesn't help anybody, because there is no blue pill. Either the world is red to you, or you are still asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:42 PM
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As long as you are willing and able to cope with the (very probable) outcome that the status quo will not significantly change, yep. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:47 PM
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Pragmatism vs. Idealism You gonna pull out your weapons and lead a revolution? I didn't think so. Successful men deal with reality. Reality is: nobody is looking out for you except you. So you better goddamn look out for yourself and wrap that shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:28 PM
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This has nothing to do with shame and everything to do with not selling yourself down the river. Perhaps the game is rigged, but we all know what the rules are. You can bitch about it all you want, but it wont count for anything once she's got your paycheck by the balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:03 PM
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"shoulda kept it in your pants asshole" You can bet this is what I'm telling my buddy if he knocks up some random broad. Fair is fair and reality is reality. If you cant reconcile these concepts, good luck dude. Have fun indignantly paying child support for the next 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:47 PM
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"Currently pursuing a virgin (at least I am quite sure of it)" "Also, maybe there is a way to confirm whether or not she is a virgin in playful banter way?" XD
/r/askTRP16/08/19 07:43 AM
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Debbie Does Dallas
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:59 AM
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Yes, western society generally shames men for having primal urges directed at the most sexually desirable mates. Yes, corporate actors use sexually stimulating images of those same most desirable mates in an attempt to appeal to men. For the most part, it works. All of us must deal with this. It is not weird, or creepy, or wrong. It's just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:38 PM
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Fail faster. Fail harder than you ever have before. Go out and make it your goal to get rejected by every attractive woman you can find. Do it 5, 10, 20 times a day. Make it into a game, and try to craft the game so that you will actually have fun while doing it. One idea: bring a competitive friend and keep score. Pretty soon you'll find that women are, for the most part, very polite and tolerant of clumsy male advances. Also, after so many planned fails in a row, the outcome just won't matter …
/r/askTRP02/08/19 06:22 PM
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This is the FI at work. Either you make the girl yours, or you crumble under societal pressure. She will never be with the guys that crumble.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:23 PM
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Nowhere. That's why they say it's amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 10:21 PM
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Participating in PPD isn't cruising the field. This sub is for intellectualizing about the red pill material and examining its merits (or lack thereof.) That task simply cannot be accomplished without explaining, rationalizing, defending. You can't convince a woman to fuck you using logic. But you need logic if you want to meaningfully grapple with ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 05:56 PM
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It isn't rape if it's your wife. It's probably best to keep it civil though--the courts will rape you if she wants out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:11 PM
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It's a feedback loop: stature leads to rejection, rejection leads to attitude, attitude contributes to more rejection. You gotta have some resilience, man. Being defeated is a most unattractive thing--women want to fuck winners, not losers. Figure out how to become a winner despite your limitations. Look, if you want to fail forever, go ahead and continue to think this way. I know short folks who have found love and happiness. I see no reason you couldn't do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:50 PM
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No offense, but now you sound like one of the repulsive men I was talking about above. Having this attitude definitely will hold you back. Yeah, if you're short, you're at a disadvantage. If you want to allow that to defeat you, it will. Being defeated is far more unattractive than being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 06:31 AM
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These phenomena are not mutually exclusive. I believe both of the below points to be true: Most women, given the choice, would choose a mate that is taller than themselves. Short guys will have to overcome this somehow if they want to compete with taller guys out in the SMP. Guys who complain about their height to total strangers online are self-defeating and unattractive. Wasting time and energy complaining about something that can't be changed while projecting insecurity and feelings of inadeq…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 04:26 AM
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yeah that is some BS
/r/askTRP11/07/19 02:54 PM
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It seems we have more than one definition, given the other responses. Guess I'm too old to be down with the hip lingo anymore. We used to call these people "losers."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:44 AM
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Women will never be comfortable with men openly discussing how to game the female selection process. The most "misogynistic" things that are promoted in TRP are things like AWALT, which is really just another way of saying "prepare for the worst and cover your ass," because, in reality, women are only trying to get their own in the evolutionary marketplace just like the men are. Women aren't going to cater to men's strategy--in fact, they will do exactly the opposite and exercise their own strat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 08:47 PM
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^ I think this is closer to the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 08:33 PM
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Assuming you are not a troll: This is 100% normal. Dicks point upward when they are fully erect. Kids these days... they have access to an Internet overflowing with porn and somehow they don't even know what a dick looks like.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:22 PM
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I would give you a thousand upvotes if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:49 PM
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Amused mastery and agree & amplify are just part of the roadmap for holding frame and becoming socially adept. If you are acting like a childish clown and telling cringey jokes then you probably don't properly understand what these terms are meant to communicate. Cocky & funny doesn't work for everybody. If you are not genuinely inspired to act that way, then don't. To you and to others it will seem fake and weird, and it will probably creep people out. But remember: girls just wanna have fun. I…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:54 AM
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I'm a man. If I watch a movie, between the music and the drama, I can get all teary eyed. If it's a really sad movie, sometimes it's worse than that. And once I'm engaged with the film it's pretty much totally out of my control. My options are: vet movies before I bring them to date night, or avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 04:15 PM
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For starters, it seems pretty likely that more than 5% of men exposed to these ideas will land in the purple camp. So already the math doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 07:21 AM
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If the "winner" she shagged had the wherewithal to fulfill all of the points I mentioned above, he wouldn't need to be punished. Probably he failed to construct an appropriate social context (oh shit they know, and they disapprove) and so he put her in a bad situation. Yeah the game is rigged. Genetic studies have demonstrated that in human evolutionary history, less than 40% of men passed on their genes along with more than 80% of women--that's twice as many women. Nature don't care what's fair…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 02:22 AM
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I've got one more reason for your "why" list: dealing with both female social constructs and interaction-level fitness tests (from normative restrictions on sexual behavior to flirtatious coyness all the way through to dealing with last minute resistance) is an evolutionary filter for men. The only men that will survive the social consequences and have the opportunity to continue their evolutionary line are those with the wherewithal to: be attractive enough (physically, socially, mentally) cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 12:26 AM
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When I was at university I took a class on human sexuality. There was a study presented in which men from various cultures were shown hundreds of pictures of female faces and asked to rate them in order of attractiveness. Across the world, men rated the female faces most attractive clustered around age 17.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 05:51 AM
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No good comes out of pining for an unattainable woman with childish fantasy. If you are having bad daydreams, put them out of your mind when they crop up and instead focus on something useful--like accomplishing a personal goal.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:39 AM
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It isn't your fault. Why be mad at yourself? If anything, be mad at society for lying to you. Instead of self loathing, take what you now know and use it to improve your life. There will be MANY opportunities in the future. You wanna miss those too?
/r/askTRP11/05/19 07:36 PM
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Come up with a sinister backstory for your life as a serial killer. Drop subtle hints about it on every date. Make it like a fun little puzzle for her to solve. Watch as she puts the pieces together and deduces that she's about to be your next victim. Disclaimer: don't do this.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 01:03 AM
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It seems to me mainly a vehicle for low-investment hookups. If you are looking for a relationship look elsewhere.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 12:58 AM
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Competition anxiety AKA "playing hard to get" is a game women use on men all the time. It predates TRP by centuries. There is nothing inherently expliotative about showing a woman that you have value to other women. If you do it right, she will love it--she wants to be with a man that other women want. Like anything else you can take it to a place where it becomes cruel and hurtful. And that is the fault of the people involved, not the ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:42 PM
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Is it sexist to recognize that normative behaviors for men and women are different, and conduct yourself accordingly? Not in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 03:12 AM
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You are actually pretty good at this, but I'm done playing your game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 01:00 AM
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In clown world, where "objective" equals "muh feels." What a laughable response.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 12:55 AM
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It's also not objective to paint it as uncharitably as possible by making assertions like TRP "intends to exploit" women. If you are going to throw your weight on one side of the scale, someone is going to throw their weight on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 12:36 AM
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This logic is like concluding that knowledge is bad on the basis that bad people will use it for bad things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 07:12 PM
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It seems to me you are the one pretending that TRP is designed to provide a moral framework: one that encourages exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:28 PM
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I agree. My point is that TRP does not necessarily advocate doing "exploitative" things. People may take any set of ideas to an extreme and use them for evil. It is those people who are evil, not the ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:17 PM
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I think "intends to exploit" is a straight up misrepresentation of TRP... For example, I read TRP and I believe I have been able to benefit my life and my relationships with the ideas found within. Does that make me an "exploiter?" I don't think anyone I know would say so. Self improvement is an earnest goal, and certain kinds of self-improvement are more likely to attract attention from the ladies. Where's the exploitation in that? Every individual has to make moral decisions about how they wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 03:01 PM
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The blue pill sub isn't for real debate or even intelligent discourse... It's just a bunch of wankers poking fun at incels. We don't need them here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 05:53 PM
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We are all in this boat, brother. Find what it is you love in life and pursue it. Nothin' ain't worth a damn until you assign value to it. So decide what it is you value and build your life from there.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 12:05 AM
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The female representative raises a forest of straw men... that woman actually looked like she was personally affronted that anyone might be concerned about male suicide rates and boys falling behind in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:33 PM
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Maybe by pointing out the parts of 20th century western history he is ignoring?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:34 PM
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This guy clearly chooses the blue pill. Perhaps ignorance is bliss, but ignorance is also ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:56 PM
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Every bad actor finds a way to rationalize their bad behavior. Don't think you are any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:52 PM
4

Yes, you are right. It would be immoral to enter a marriage and then just refuse sex. In practice I think the actualities are more nuanced than this, however. People generally don't plan to deadbeadroom their partners with premeditated malicious intent. It happens more like this: over time, dynamics change, and without careful attendance the garden withers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:12 PM
1

Just your body and immediate surroundings. You can focus on your breath if you want to. Put all thoughts out of your mind and just be aware of being. If you want to give it a try, read up on it, there are plenty of resources to be found online.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 01:20 AM
3

You could try mindfulness meditation. Look it up... basically you just empty your mind of thoughts and go into observer mode. Do this for 15 or 20 minutes every day and soon enough you will find it easier to take a step back from immediate phenomena. It quiets your mind somewhat and teaches you to digest things a bit before reacting.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:29 PM
2

For the record, this has not been my experience. Every time I have cared to investigate, it turns out she started seeing someone else either during or immediately after the end of the relationship. I interpret this to mean that these women found someone they believed to be a better option, and so ended the relationship. We may be stuck on differences between a man that makes a woman "unhappy" and a man that is not the "best possible choice of mates." If I was making these women unhappy they may …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 11:17 PM
1

I think there is a nuance here that is worth pointing out: What is an illusion? What is a benefit? Can a benefit be illusory? Illusory to whom? Consider: you are selling something and I am buying it. You consider it worthless. I consider it valuable. We trade. Who has received benefit? Where is the illusion?
/r/askTRP22/04/19 06:50 PM
1

I think you will find, upon closer examination, that the individuals and organizations who operate on win-win principals are those which are most likely to succeed long-term. But that is exactly how most of the world works. Almost every large entity, organization and structure in the world work that way. Nature eliminated others via selection. By exploiting others more than I am exploited, I can turn this around. This is juvenile thinking. Life is not a zero-sum game. Benefit does not equal expl…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 06:00 PM
1

Operating like this is morally wrong and if you feel bad about it, then you probably won't be able to change your feelings on the matter. There are plenty of win-win solutions. Go with one of those: genuinely contribute and then feel good about knowing that. Others will feel good about it too.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 04:58 PM
4

This isn't playful or intriguing... it's just a straight-up childish insult. Girls who are this brazen with their bullshit are tiring in private and embarrassing to take out in public. I wouldn't waste my time with her.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 03:10 PM
2

This is essentially "let's just be friends" right? Friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:55 PM
3

It's been said, but you really need to read the sidebar. You don't "get it" yet. You are coming from a place of fear, insecurity, and inexperience and your viewpoint is all too understandable. Quiet confidence is what you want to have, and your desire to explain yourself and the internal worry accompanying that are exactly the opposite of quiet confidence. The nervous energy is radiating out of you right now like a halo of insecurity. Take it easy, nothing happened. If she gets upset over this, …
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:53 PM
4

If our brains didn't have the ability to subconsciously evaluate these things our ancestors would have died off waaay back when they were lizards. We wouldn't have the ability to recognize danger. Our brains are sensitive to the people around us because through a long portion of our evolutionary past those people were intimately tied to our survival. We needed to be sure they were not dangerous, we could trust them, rely on them in times of hardship. To some extent, this is true even today. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:07 PM
4

It's really just a fancy way of saying "you aren't special." Everybody evaluates the people around them. You do it too. You can't help it, and neither can they. It's a basic survival instinct. Anyway, you can choose to be miserable over the fact that other people's brains can't stop constantly evaluating you. I would suggest this is a bad choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:23 PM
1

GP's surfing analogy is on point. I'm gonna add to it with a paraphrase from that Pirates movie you probably watched as a kid: "The only rules that really matter are these: what a man can do and what a man can’t do. For instance, you can accept that women are hypergamous and good people, or you can’t. As a man, you are going to have to square with that someday. No amount of indignant moralizing on your part is going to change basic facts of biology, savvy?" So, are you gonna choose to surf that …
/r/askTRP14/04/19 03:19 PM
0

Biologically speaking, for a man, PIV could be viewed as the entire point of his life. Don't be ashamed of your own sexual needs and desires. If your wife isn't fulfilling it, get it elsewhere. She is apparently not interested in your dick anymore, so what business does she have giving a fuck what you do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 09:33 AM
4

If you are uncomfortable in the relationship, leave. It is unlikely he will change.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/19 02:56 AM
0

best find a corner and start crying
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:01 AM
1

It is categorically false to claim it is next to impossible to build muscle after age 21. The assertion is ridiculous. If you do the work, you will see the gains. The studies that have been done show that gains do dropoff with age but the dropoff is minimal. Yeah, the young bucks have an advantage here, but it's something like an average healthy 20 year old has a 15% advantage over an average healthy 55 year old. There is no excuse for not hitting the gym no matter your age. Still in your 20s? Y…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:31 AM
5

And the option not to cut one's own wrists.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 06:50 PM
3

I have never heard a man brag about his wife or girl being subservient/submissive. I rarely hear other men complain about their wife/GF either, although that does happen sometimes. Far more frequently than either of those things, I hear something along the lines of "if only" or "gotta check with the boss" or "blah blah the ole' ball and chain." Basically lighthearted comments indicating that they are choosing to accommodate their partner instead of what they really would rather in order to ease …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:40 AM
1

I am limited to my own experience and in that experience: I definitely get a better response from women when I am well groomed, in shape, and dressed well. Perhaps I can see a point about not coming across as try-hard. End of day though, self-respect is an attractive trait and taking care of ones self is a good indicator of that. I'd say owning it is the answer. If you are a guy who likes to look good, don't fold to these women. Agree and amplify, flip the script, tease her about being jealous o…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 03:17 AM
5

Is this even a real question? You will look better, to everyone, if you get into top physical shape. You will become strong and capable of accomplishing greater work with your body. You will be keeping your body in good working condition and preventing it from deteriorating as you age. If you don't want to go to the gym, that's your choice, but don't fool yourself into believing there's no benefit to doing so. The benefits are plentiful and obvious, and go far beyond just attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:53 AM
1

WTF does having good hygiene and style have to do with being "high maintenence?" Also, no woman is turned off by these things. You need to learn to recognize a shit test when you see one.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:42 AM
1

We could quibble over definitions here. I would posit that once a man feels any degree of the "ooey-gooeys" over a woman, he's entering a danger zone of sorts. In the end though, I don't think where the line between "chemistry" and "oneitis" is drawn matters all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:59 PM
2

My current thinking on this: It is my belief that "chemistry" as you put it can be described in Red Pill terms as follows: "tingles" for gals, and "oneitis" for guys. Chemically in the body, this is an analogous response in both men and women: a rush of endorphins, sweaty palms, a feeling in the pit of the stomach, etc. According to my theory, this is why it is frustrating for guys who are new to the dating game or who buy in to the narrative of the zeitgeist: Women with "tingles" get laid, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 07:59 PM
1

GP's rhetoric will not resonate with your target audience. Women are not "oppressed" and in certain ways they are given distinct advantages. You could argue that historically women were oppressed, but the oppression narrative is part of what pushes these people to the fringes they are at. If you want to try to build a bridge rather than a wall, you should stick to things that a) won't trigger these people and b) are undisputably factually correct. Truth is, plenty of women have made valuable con…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/19 04:52 PM
8

Being drunk is like thinking you have impeccable inner game. Really though, you are fooling yourself if you believe that having alcohol in your body improves you in any meaningful way. If you can do it drunk, you can do it better sober.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 01:23 AM
5

you are ultra overanalyzing this, dude stop giving so many fucks about what this one girl will think about one offhanded response you had. the lack of self-assuredness that led you to make this post is the mistake chill the fuck out and have a good time on your date
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:56 AM
1

Don't do it for women, and don't do it for us. Do it only for you.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:01 AM
1

Smash.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:06 AM
11

This sub is supposed to be about self-improvement, not how to be a con artist.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:24 AM
2

"come suck my lollipop"
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:58 AM
1

Guy has too much free time... fuck you, guy.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:18 AM
2

Marijuana.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:06 AM
12

As a consequence, the subjective experience of women should be discounted to align with reality. "As a consequence, reality should be discounted to align with the subjective experience of women." FTFY
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 01:35 AM
5

The big questions can be answered by TRP: you're on your own, buddy. Nihilism is all there is. Make something of your life to combat the nihilism, or don't. Your choice and we certainly can't help you with it.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 08:21 PM
2

But, but, but... getting cucked by your stepkids would be so humiliating!
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 12:38 PM
34

Dismissively: "Nope. Totally boring."
/r/askTRP02/03/19 04:15 PM
5

How exactly are nudes not porn?
/r/askTRP01/03/19 10:48 PM
32

Man evolved in tandem with woman's hypergamy, and there is a successful evolutionary strategy in being the provider: sex leads to children, even if the woman is merely acquiescing to it in an obligatory, transactional fashion. Some men play the red side, others, the blue. Which way is "right?" Each man must decide that for himself.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:17 AM
14

Careful, though! The state (or her lawyers) might find a way to make your non-traditional ceremony legally binding.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 04:01 AM
-1

You should try it and find out for yourself.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:56 PM
3

You die penniless and alone. Or, you do some work, raise your value, and slay the world. Come to think of it, every man is in this boat. Nobody cares about your problems. Find a way to deal with it. Or don't. Your life is your responsibility.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:53 PM
1

Groom yourself regularly. Don't dress like a slob. Nobody cares about your hairstyle. Your baldness can become a buffer against interacting with women, but only you can choose to use it that way.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:20 AM
2

She told you "no" several times and you didn't hear it. "Maybe" means "no." Mixed signals are not mixed. If she anything less than "hell yes!" enthusiastic about meeting up, realize she is probably not interested and not worth your time. Girls who are into you don't make excuses and they don't flake out.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 10:40 PM
1

It happens to most guys, some sooner than later. You'll get over it like the rest of us do. Many women are attracted to bald guys, so don't feel bad. As long as you keep yourself groomed and dressed appropriately, and you don't let it affect your confidence, you will be the only one who cares. I find my remaining hair looks best kept very short or shaved. For your own sense of machismo you can grow a big, manly beard to go with your new chrome dome. I did and it rocks.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 10:25 PM
14

"Good times beget weak men." Normally followed by: "Weak men beget hard times." "Hard times beget strong men." "Strong men beget good times." Or some variation thereof. Correlating the proverb to current evidence, we should be located somewhere on the the downswing of the good times.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:11 PM
2

The same way you talk to anyone... open your mouth and start a conversation.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:28 AM
21

Stick your head in ALL the buckets. Only swallow the good bits you find in each. The rest can be safely discarded.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 07:30 PM
1

Tell him. Don't sugar coat it. Let him figure the rest out for himself.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 11:44 PM
0

The way I see it you two options: Ignore it. Let it roll off. Do your best to do your job to the best of your ability. Don't get riled up, don't defend yourself, and don't antagonize the bitch. Give a reasonable observer the chance to notice that she is the crazy one and you are just trying to do your job. It sounds like your boss probably knows this already. But if you can't take the heat... get out of the fire. There are other places to work. Find one.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:12 AM
3

"I’m already an over thinker and tend to overdo it when it comes to trying to self improve , and end up looking and feeling like I’m going in the opposite direction. I know this sounds dumb, but looking for some reassurance here." 1) Lose the self-deprecating attitude. Think like this and you have already lost. 2) Go forth and improve thyself. Emphasis on "go forth." You can't improve if you don't take action and make an attempt. 3) Don't look to others for approval. Not to us, not to anybody. Y…
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:37 PM
4

Strap a leash around her neck and only feed her when she's been a good girl.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 01:12 PM
5

So what you are saying is: "She's never yours. She just wants to fuck you now."
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 01:50 PM
2

Sounds like you've got a self-esteem issue. Your words are worthwhile, and if you don't think so you've got some self-exploration to do. It sounds like this woman was unimpressed. Perhaps she was not speaking the same language you were? In any case, you should not be judging yourself based on some trivial external measure. Best to assume she is mistaken (after all she is not the sole arbiter of value in the universe--that's your job) and move on.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:59 PM
5

You don't need them. Obviously, no man does. You seem to be looking for someone to justify this conclusion for you, but we can't truly do that. You'll have to justify it for yourself.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:59 PM
1

You are only as ugly as you think you are. Think of your natural biological gifts and default state as a blank canvas. 80% of what a woman will think of your appearance is what you paint on that canvas. And the other 20% YOU CANNOT CONTROL. So... don't worry about what God granted you. Start building the appearance you want to have.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:15 AM
0

"LTR potentially giving a blowjob two hours away."
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:18 PM
4

You are absolutely correct that Monk Mode can be a trap if you are not careful. But it does not necessarily have to be so. If you use your Monk Mode time to focus on self-improvement and elevating your fundamentals, it can lead you to better outcomes on the other side. For truly checked-out, slovenly dudes it can be a necessary first step to focus inwardly and find something like self-respect before stepping up to the plate. Just remember--if you are using Monk Mode to avoid unpleasant things fo…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 03:52 PM
1

Only you can decide that.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 03:21 PM
7

Aim low: 1) Pick something you KNOW you can easily accomplish. Make it your daily goal. 2) DO IT. Revel in your victory! If you are frustrated with a lack of progress, aim lower. And don't beat yourself up for only accomplishing something small: every victory, no matter how insignificant, is a genuine victory. For me, an example I used in my own head was this: "Pick up the sock." Such a simple task, putting away a sock. But the mindset of picking up that one sock was all it took to clean up all …
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:54 PM
4

Is water wet? Dress nice always. Don't overdress. It really isn't very complicated.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:23 AM
3

Did you read what I wrote above? Your whole mindset screams "I fear she thinks I am unworthy" and "I have an inferiority complex." Chill a bit and take it easy. If she smells you attempting to boost your image with silly lies about social proof it will only communicate low value. Quit looking at your GF like she is the only unicorn in the world. She isn't a unicorn and there are many others like her.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:31 PM
4

Both parties gotta have some interest or nothing is ever gonna happen, but you don't want to put pressure on a woman by appearing fragile or over-eager. You need outcome independence. You must be in a mental place where where no one woman matters much to you, especially not one you haven't even asked out yet. Imagine if you asked 20 women out every week, and every week you went out on dates with three of them. Would you really care about how any one woman responded to you? Without an attitude of…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 03:59 AM
7

Demonstrate. Don't explicate. Telling her ANYTHING in order to improve your status in her eyes is a mistake. Simply BE a better man and she will notice.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 03:18 AM
1

10/10 would fuck again
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:05 PM
2

Means "no."
/r/askTRP17/11/18 07:32 AM
3

You gotta calibrate it... every woman is different.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 05:13 PM
4

No. You beat up the woman. She's the one who cheated.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 01:01 PM
12

"Avoiding failure?" Failure is a necessary step on the road to success. All of us need to fail many times in order to grow as men. I think what you meant to say is "avoiding the wrath of a righteously indignant woman-child." Other than that I'd say you are on point.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 07:29 AM
2

While what you are saying is of course sometimes true, in this case the meaning of the word "liberal" is pretty well established and not at all trivial. Liberals are, first and foremost, believers in free speech and would not advocate eradicating a space that so-called "incels" created in order to associate with one another. Liberals even enshrined the freedom of assembly in the US Constitution. Much of what we have in western society today is a result of what liberals past have fought for. No, …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 02:42 PM
5

If there's grass on the field... play ball.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:32 PM
3

The death of these distinctions is toxic to modern thought. The fact that you actually get what I am saying indicates there is still hope. Since you do understand, please do your part to preserve critical political thinking: use the appropriate terminology.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:20 PM
0

I think you are confusing liberals with leftists.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:46 PM
1

Easy: with a bullet.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:25 PM
1

I think you are the one with the poor interpretation (if you even read the article at all.) "Beta" behavior is not patronizing... it's accomodating. In this study, women were shown to be attracted to the men who patronize them, treating them like lost children. This is an "Alpha" behavior.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 02:38 PM
3

Fuck her.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:41 PM
1

We can only show you the door. You have to step through it. RP is about discovering for yourself how the world really is by stripping away the illusion laid out for you by the FI. Just go do your best and be skeptical of everything a woman says. If you are sincere in your efforts, you'll be redpilled before you know it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 01:19 PM
1

it’s been shown that you have a significant amount of control over what data you can give them This is a comforting lie. There are shades of gray to many things, social media being one of them. The gray is in your head. Use it.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 01:10 PM
3

Your jawline is fine. You have a chin. The only things you can really do if you have lost the genetic lottery in this area is to: a) grow a beard to hide your defect b) shell out the $$$ for an implant Lucky for you, you don't need either. Stop making mental excuses and go slay.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:11 PM
4

It's 100% not necessary. The problem is that Facebook and their ilk (the other "social media" providers du jour) have no respect for the rights and privacy of users. Their business model is flat-out to steal your data and use it against you. Lifting ain't gonna stop you from getting used as long as you continue to give your data away...
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:06 PM
1

That word, I do not think it means what you think it means... Why would you "crawl back" to something you literally never use?
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:03 PM
11

High n-count dude is attractive. Knowing he has a high n-count (or probably does) is proof to her of his value. When she sees other women swooning, she knows he's banging or has the opportunity to bang. That just makes him more attractive.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 10:32 PM
14

This is why they are legally required to tell you that... because it is literally true.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 10:09 AM
3

Literally any type that you want. The important part is to be a man. Don't take shit from anyone and go for what you want in life.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 10:49 PM
2

TRP indicates that banging a lower value chick will change your valuation in the eyes of other women. If you want to fuck a hottie, don't let her see you with a dog.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 08:09 PM
5

"Exciting" was a fine response. Short and dismissive. I agree with the poster above who said you still have a shot. Women don't shit test if they aren't interested.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 12:41 PM
1

This is how evolution works, my friend. Only those who are strong enough to overcome all the adversity you mention will ever get the chance to spread their seed at all. Nature is actively working against you in order to better the species in the long run.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:35 PM
7

Nobody who really wants a kiss... If you're not sure, use the hair test--if she lets you in close to play with her hair, she won't reject a kiss.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:50 AM
2

So mount a proper criticism then. "Making your bed does not help to motivate because..." "Taking a cold shower does not help to build willpower because..." etc. Just because the advice is in your view generic does not make it bad advice. Maybe you won't use it, but someone else with an aim to start building himself will.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 01:48 PM
2

Why do people downvote this? OP is trying to open a discussion by prompting people to contribute. Mods, you should start banning anyone that responds with useless, negative commentary in response to honest and relevant discussion. This place is becoming like crabs in a bucket.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 01:01 PM
1

The point is to force yourself to endure the shower. It won't kill you. In fact, it is only uncomfortable for the first few seconds. After that it's not difficult. You do your business, faster than you might if it was warm, and you get on with your life. Edit: Just took a cold shower and can confirm it was both refreshing and rewarding. I made that shower my bitch.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 12:58 PM
8

u/Joeycrackem, the negative responses to this post have prompted me to speak up--I think this is a fine post and foundational to red-pill thinking. This post contains some really solid advice. Thanks for reminding us that fundamentals are important.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 12:54 PM
0

You gotta learn to walk before you can run.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 12:51 PM
2

RealityBitesU's response was not a criticism. It was blatant, unqualified negativity. The fact that it got so many upvotes is indicative of the declining quality of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 12:50 PM
5

Spend your time at school exploring your options and figure out what you LOVE to do. Get a degree in that. You've got the funds to take your time and get excellent instruction in that field, whatever it may be. Then, spend the rest of your life reaping the rewards. Based on your OP, it sounds like business may be for you... it's where you make your small beans turn into big ones. Just make sure you take the time to get a proper education on the subject before you go and blow everything on risky …
/r/askTRP26/03/18 01:20 PM
1

Stoicism is a nice concept, but people are human. You want to prove to yourself that you are some macho shit by dancing with the fire? Go right ahead... ain't nobody gonna stop you. If I am stuck in a hole, I do what I can to climb the fuck out. I don't sit in there and pretend there is no hole.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:54 PM
4

But you gotta admit, it just doesn't "rage" like it did when you were 20. Do you remember high school? Getting boners at totally random and inappropriate times, like for example during a math test, for no reason at all? Ah the good old days...
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:26 AM
2

I'm with this guy... enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:24 AM
1

TRP is not about simple tricks. TRP encourages personal growth and in fact, I would argue, discourages the use of "tricks" entirely. Grow yourself. Become the best you that you can be for yourself. Everything else follows.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:21 AM
1

Sounds like you got it all figured out, bro.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 10:57 PM
1

Think of it as giving her something--maybe something like a good pounding--rather than taking something away.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 09:41 PM
1

Really dude? Dump her. Find someone who will respect you. Also, find some respect for yourself.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:26 PM
1

"It'll be the best damn rape you've ever had."
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:14 PM
1

also i have a serious laziness problem like i dread even walking to a convience store of even to make a sale its just not worth it anymore This is a classic symptom. Also, studies have shown that there is a correlation between depression and marijuana use. Weed changes your brain chemistry... if you find you feel addicted, you may have become dependent on it as a form of self treatment.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 03:44 PM
1

If you think it is holding you back, yes. Absolutely. If you find yourself bored without weed it means you habitually spend your time getting high and wasting time and that's what your body is now naturally inclined to do. Find some positive activities to engage in. It will take care of your boredom and distract you from smoking. Also based on your post it sounds like you may be suffering from some form of depression. I am not a doctor, but you may want to talk to a professional if you think thi…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 08:31 AM
1

Not really... "alpha" is just a given woman's perception of you. Either she sees you as a highly desirable fuck or she does not. You can label yourself whatever you want. Nothing will change the above.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:24 PM
4

Welcome to TRP. It does not matter if you want to keep up the "game" or not. Either you do and she remains interested, or you don't and she eventually loses interest. TRP preaches that you learn how to become a man with strong frame--one who can continue the "game" indefinitely with a minimum of effort.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:14 PM
1

It was a no, bro. You can try again, but by the "fuck yes" principle, this is a fail.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:25 PM
2

I would say thinking about it in this way is not helpful. Instead think of it this way: the involuntary body language and vocal cues that you display are an evolved indicator of your internal state. Others can sense your mood and your attitude by subconsciously observing them. "Alpha" and "beta" are just states of mind. If you are a confident man in a relaxed, playful mood those signals will come across more as "alpha." If you are nervous, self-loating, and full of doubt, those signals will come…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 07:43 PM
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If you used porn for an extended period, it can take several months to feel attraction to real women like a normal person again. Keep at it and don't get discouraged.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:59 AM
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From American Heritage dictionary: Apology n. An acknowledgment expressing regret or asking pardon for a fault or offense n. A formal justification or defense n. An explanation or excuse Yes, everyone does make mistakes. The question is this: are you the sort of person who expresses regrets, asks for pardons, and offers justifications and excuses? Or are you the sort of person who stands by what you are and what you believe? If a man does the best he can do by his own measure, nobody can reasona…
/r/becomeaman30/01/18 09:56 PM
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Accept responsibility? Absolutely. Act apologetic? Not good. You are a grown man. You make your choices, you live with the consequences. That's life. You've got nothing to apologize for. The best way to "apologize" to a woman is by confidently and unflinchingly showing her the best damn time of her life despite the fact that she might not approve of your less appealing qualities. Groveling and saying how sorry you are is just pathetic.
/r/becomeaman30/01/18 12:33 AM
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"Stereotypical white guy?" Dude looks like Chad Thundercock. You even named him "Chad." What did you expect?
/r/askTRP26/01/18 01:58 AM
1

Get fit. Come up with a plan and execute it. It doesn't matter where you start. Get moving.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:10 PM
1

Bury your face in those hooters and blow her some raspberries! Or, you know, pretend like you've seen boobies before. Just enjoy them and continue with the fun!
/r/askTRP20/01/18 11:45 PM
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Given the context I'm assuming this is high school. He was being rude. I don't think "shut up, faggot" is a bad response, but you don't want to be pissed because you lose frame that way. Once he is done with his interruption, respond with your counter-insult in a tone of voice that says "go away, you don't matter" while making a dismissive motion with your hand. Then immediately continue with what you were saying. In this way you can marginalize his interruption and show that you are not bothere…
/r/askTRP20/01/18 11:34 PM
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Been there, done that. Don't beat yourself up too hard... you made it to the final stage and simply stopped playing. Everything you did, right up until you quit, was working. You've got a very good chance of success next time.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 10:36 PM
2

"I'd be sexier with you sitting on my cock."
/r/askTRP16/01/18 04:29 PM
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"Netflix & Chill & Get Falsely Accused" Not the catchiest title, I know, but accurate.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 11:05 PM
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It is refreshing to hear a reasoned female argument that begins to approach the perspective that the current climate--and these accusations--are fucking bonkers. I don't think she was hard enough on the anonymous girl-child, but she obviously disapproves of her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 11:00 PM
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It sounds to me like you have made some very smart choices and are setting yourself up for a solid financial future. You just need some social activities to meet some people. You can meet high-quality women at volunteer activities... brainless bimbos don't have time for that sort of thing.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 06:53 PM
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I think we need a larger sample size.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:43 PM
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Agree and amplify, my friend. "Nope. I do nothing at all in the gym." Then flex your huge biceps.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 03:54 PM
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Much like TRP, there is good information to be gleaned from the public education system. Unfortunately, it is mixed into a heap of rubbish that will mislead you if you are not careful. You must use your wits to sort the useful bits from the trash.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 09:31 PM
1

This is in fact why they are called unicorns...
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:49 PM
1

Dump those friends. Find new friends that like to go to the gym and push a 600lb sled around until 1AM instead of drinking.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:44 PM
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Discipline is only part of the equation--the "push" part. You can push yourself to go get things done, and sometimes that push helps to get you through. The more you push yourself, the better you will become at pushing yourself. Motivation is another part--the "pull" part. When you are motivated you don't have to push yourself, because you want to accomplish things. You can build motivation by setting goals and keeping your eye on the prize. If you really want the goal, it becomes easier to work…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:25 PM
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Totally normal. You just need to cringe enough that you learn to avoid all cringeworthy behaviors. Get out there and cringe some more. The more and the harder you cringe the faster you will learn. Someday, sooner than you think, you'll be cringeproof.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 11:00 AM
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GFTOW. It's all already been said by others in this thread. Live and learn.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:55 AM
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If you have to ask this question... the answer is probably no.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:31 PM
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kick her in the teeth
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:15 PM
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If she gets suspicious, slice off your arm and let her count the rings...
/r/askTRP03/12/17 08:21 AM
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You got it: learn from your mistakes and move on.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:30 PM
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True story. Should have written "until you develop them."
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 07:03 PM
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What he means is: Form your own opinions. Don't follow some kind of ideological mold. If you lack critical thinking skills, staying away from other people's ideology entirely might be the best course for you.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 04:59 PM
1

she wants the d, bro
/r/askTRP18/10/17 01:49 PM
0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1poHj60l7qs
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 01:36 PM
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If you use porn, stop.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 08:36 PM
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If you can, get a job at the local gym--putting it on the path of least resistance will help with consistency and motivation.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:36 PM
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On mental point of origin, because I feel it is usually explained in too many words: Know that you are the most important person in your life. Do nothing you don't want to do; be comfortable saying no. Own your desires. Make no excuses. Be honest with yourself. Go for whatever it is that you want, unapologetically and enthusiastically. And finally: be confident enough that no force can shake you from the above, even for an instant.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 08:36 PM
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^ this guy fucks
/r/askTRP15/09/17 03:37 PM
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and you are a piece of shit
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 09:10 PM
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The juice ain't worth the squeeze, my friend.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 10:31 PM
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1) Wear what's comfortable 2) Try to look reasonably well-put-together 3) Wear it like you own it
/r/askTRP01/09/17 10:25 PM
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Try talking to yourself when you are out in the world. Modify the script to fit what you think would work for you. "I am a badass who can handle any situation." Just reciting that in my head once makes me walk taller and prouder. After saying it a couple times every day... it has become true for me. Now that I'm a badass who can handle anything... status doesn't matter anymore. Either I think the guy is a prat (and maybe I tell him so,) or I like the guy and I try to make friends. Remember: you …
/r/askTRP01/09/17 03:39 AM
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Realize this: TRP is full of some scummy, hateful people. Not everyone who reads the subreddit or "subscribes to TRP ideas" is like that. Everything that is posted to that sub has to be taken with a grain of salt. There is some truth in what those guys preach, but it is not the ultimate truth. Your ex, like most guys that read TRP, probably does not buy in to much of what is preached over there. No thinking person can. He is probably a normal dude just trying to make it in the world, like everyo…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/16 12:02 AM
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True and true. This is elementary RedPill thinking. You have more control than you realize. The real question: can you carry it through to reality?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 11:28 PM
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I think what he is saying is that Jews have learned how to play the game, and that on the whole they are more aware and willing to pass that knowledge on to their offspring. It's not that Jews are superior human beings--it's that they have had a harder time of it and are better prepared to educate their children in the proper manner. As a male raised by western society and become aware of the RedPill (realistic) perspective as an adult, you can bet my boys will have a proper education if I ever …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 11:17 PM
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I have been reading TRP for 6 or 8 months now. I have read the entire sidebar. I have also read all of The Rational Male. These ideas make sense to me and gel with my life experiences. I just feel like I am fighting an uphill battle and I've been losing it for so long that it has drained me of the hope I once had for positive change.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 07:59 PM
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What demotivates you? How can I identify what demotivates me?
/r/askTRP20/06/15 07:51 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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