SelfishStoic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
116	The Co-opting of Manosphere/TRP is here	Meta	SelfishStoic	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 06:25 AM
1	Hostile Work Environment Advice		SelfishStoic	/r/askTRP	02/12/14 06:16 AM
0	Contesting Nothing Can Be Known	Red Pill Theory	SelfishStoic	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/14 07:31 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Proud feminist is totally fine with his wife divorcing her after he inherited money The man insults his own parents. But what can they expect. They raised an unloyal son, so they deserved it. His disposition is their fault until his adulthood and his own after adulthood. I pity him the whole way through. But he deserves ridicule in adulthood.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/16 03:31 AM
8	Canada Environment Minister: Climate Change is Sexist Actually "rape" the word is very complicated. Not saying its not bad thing and women aren't the primary victims. But the origins of the word and the crime is actually as a front to men. When your sister, wife or daughter got raped it was an insult to you and your family. And so people within your gang, tribe or society would punish the rapist. It really isn't about the women. That being said people haven't sat down and updated what rape means post "women's liberation", and that's why it means li…	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/16 03:10 AM
1	Woman refuses to date guy during college because he's 'not her type'. Messages him years later when she finds out he has a great job. Gets told she's not a gold digger. From the beta pool of characteristics. Beta is survivalistic. Alpha is idealistic.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/16 08:12 AM
13	Woman refuses to date guy during college because he's 'not her type'. Messages him years later when she finds out he has a great job. Gets told she's not a gold digger. This guy's got it. The perspective is correct. He was not attractive for a decade. But if he is attractive now, get a younger girl, don't get a middle aged girl who was with Chad. The problem is he spent a decade investing in beta traits. And by omission of talking about it I assume he cultivated no alpha traits. So a young girl won't give him the time of day. He's damned if he does or doesn't. He is by definition beta. "Re-Skilling" will take a lot of time. Maybe won't be culturally acceptable …	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/16 08:05 AM
3	Standard of Living vs. Quality of life A big thing about this is, a "bad salary" in not an indicator of future bad salaries. If you do good work within a company with a decent name, it is very easy to market yourself above your pay grade and make as much as 80% jumps in salary. I made a similar jump from about average pay to much more. All about marketing and ability. Don't get stuck in the mindset that you are "branded". This way you can work for a "bad salary company", and then switch into a '"good salary company" later. But if you…	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/15 01:23 PM
7	Never lose that Killer Instinct. NEVER Very similar to the excerpt from the alchemist "Let me tell you what will happen. You'll be the counselor of the oasis. You have enough gold to buy many sheep and many camels. You'll marry Fatima, and you'll both be happy for a year. You'll learn to love the desert, and you'll get to know every one of the fifty thousand palms. You'll watch them as they grow, demonstrating how the world is always changing. And you'll get better and better at understanding omens, because the desert is the best tea…	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/15 11:29 AM
5	Is Bachelorhood After 30 Rare? Getting too far into the specific "evils" like this takes either alot of leaps of faith or pages and pages of text. I think my explanation above is very broad; and if you try to fit in all the "evils", you see in your world like feminism into that paradigm you will see alot of the interconnections. Very simply in regards to feminism; Feminism in the workforce makes it very easy to increase the amount of available labor in menial tasks (what use to be accomplished by 1 man in 40 hours of work to …	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/15 01:24 AM
6	Is Bachelorhood After 30 Rare? I don't think jcromero was on the same train of thought as NeoreactionSafe. I think I understand NeoreactionSafe's assertions better. Ultimately what NeoreactionSafe is talking about is the evils of Socialism/Communism By undermining small groups, which closely represent individual's ambitions and desires, and redirecting people into collective ideas and visions, you are able to leverage individuals’ energy and efforts to a single goal. Those single goals are directed by the most wealthy and pow…	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/15 12:57 AM
9	The Nature of Feminine Social Circles Most men follow this model as well. If the alpha see's you are trying to "become better" you might be excluded from the group. Its always important to know what context makes your friends your "friends". I've seen myself in this situation with two groups of friends, where I have been excluded by the alpha, due to "trying to become better". Its not always the case, there are alphas who are secure in themselves, but those who arn't might be scared of power struggles. A good test is, to see if you …	/r/TheRedPill	19/10/15 02:05 AM
6	Female friend while walking through the campus of a technical university: "Wow, men here are actually handsome." Ehh, this has alot of logical leaps to fit your narrative. I've been to school as an engineer, and its not pretty, most guys are unattractive, unshaven, don't lift and don't socialize. If they do socialize, their topics are wholly science, anime, video games and computers. There are some engineers that get girls but not a whole lot, and even then its 6s at best. There may be a Chad, but that's only one of them. Girls only say things like that to put themselves a cut above. Its a back-handed comp…	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/15 01:52 AM
1	They're waking up -- /r/relationships discovers the AF/BB divide when a woman 'takes it slow' with OP for the first three months by fucking a dude on the side Lol, AF/BB will always exist! just cause people learn a few ways of identifying it using some indicators doesn't mean shit. The end result is betas will get a bit more play, but just enough to feel like the girl "cares about him". The loyalties still lie with the alphas, the game doesn't end, it only evolves.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/15 05:11 PM
1	Honestly, why not commit suicide? "Enjoy the decline" by Aaron Clarey is a very good book for practical direction. I probably should re-read it because I've gotten too far into my head with philosophy that I'm having a hard time relating and acting in a practical matter. Philosophy is however the ultimate answer for self-actualizing. As you read and think about philosophy, the nature of psychology, physics, economics, religion and even politics begins to make a lot of sense. In the end there is no "you against the world", but a …	/r/askTRP	03/03/15 07:39 AM
11	Man paying 30k for someone else's child Yup all because they want beta bux. The crazy part about it all is this case: http://www.people.com/people/mobile/article/0,,20900929,00.html Since it effects the woman, paternity tests are apparently legal without court order. (The man and woman get it before going to court) and usable as evidence in the law. I wonder how the judge hamstered breaking the law.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/15 05:28 AM
6	19 year old girl and 27 year old guy Agree, but she is a blank canvas (more so than older women) in terms of indoctrination (yougogirlism). So she is less likely to do the whole feminist thing.	/r/askTRP	05/02/15 05:05 PM
1	I'm a high school student having the topic "Men and Women should go back to their traditional roles". What are some thing's that Trp think I should talk about? I agree with STFU. However if you are inclined to "make a change", you have to understand the dynamics of extremes. Most people can't identify with the extremes, but extremes play a big role in shaping the minds of people as it makes lesser extreme ideas seem reasonable. Its important to understand that change happens by"peering over the edge" of the status quo. Let the extremes (TRP included) do its work by justifying your "mild approach" by doing the heavy lifting. Take notes from Gone Girl if…	/r/askTRP	03/02/15 06:40 PM
1	The Red Pill is the radical notion that women are people. Lol if you need to resort to ad hominem attacks you are clearly at a loss. My comprehension skills are anything but. You assume that because my analysis results in such a basic structure it must then be wrong and ignore my position. I merely simplified all the variations you experience, think system of equations and how complicated Einstein's formulas were before he got down to E=mc<sup>2.</sup> The proof you need to get to that point is massive, but his answer is simple and correct. If you can'…	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/15 04:12 PM
-1	The Red Pill is the radical notion that women are people. I tend to disagree. I think there is only one axis. I use to think myself a "lefty libertarian", but really that's just me drawing an arbitrary line in the sand where I feel comfortable, which is really just leftism (in the sense that it should all appease me). As for totalitarianism on the right, I agree conservatives believes in a level of totalitarianism (not as much as socialists). That's why they aren't libertarian. However it is libertarian beliefs that give rise to the conservative morals…	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/15 08:22 AM
3	The Red Pill is the radical notion that women are people. Perhaps you are right. But within the space he describes, between Democratic Socialism and Totalitarianism he sides with the right. Right to left belief systems are: Libertarian(Far right)> Conservative>Socialism>Totalitarian (Far left). So while he takes the left position over all; His writings in the narrow space of Socialism vs Totalitarianism side with the right(Socialism, in this narrow space). He ultimately unwittingly describes the slippery slope which is leftism in an effort to curb its …	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/15 02:42 AM
7	The Red Pill is the radical notion that women are people. Orwell was absolutely against leftism. He despised communism and pointed out all the inequities that necessarily exist because of it. Double think as he described it is a necessary tool of leftism in order to seem like a means of freedom and justice despite the curtailing of. In addition the whole concept of double thing is rooted in leftism, because it impossible to say freedom and regulation in the same breath without twisting the meanings. Edit: Orwell was a socialist, you guys are right. I a…	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/15 01:39 AM
1	TRP shower thought: Women's advice to "just be yourself" is probably the most self-serving advice of all time. Exactly. And the fact of the matter and the way markets work says that the post wall woman (Now low value) is equal to the beta provider (Always low value). Fair is fair, and the markets work. We are just mad no one let us know about markets. But there is nothing wrong with them. This lack of knowledge of markets upheld by liberalism and feminism is what led men to over value the pussy and undervalue the dick. Ultimately the market price makes sense, but we could be much better as a whole if we …	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/15 02:01 AM
3	TRP shower thought: Women's advice to "just be yourself" is probably the most self-serving advice of all time. A woman values resources and strength and uses sex to get it. A man values sex and uses resources and strength to get it. I'm not saying women don't enjoy sex. Just that for women, as dave chappelle said, "their test in life is material" where as guys "test" is sex. Edit: the point is this is not a double standard. Ugly girls suffer the same fate as beta men. There really are no double standards in life, only shallow analysis.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/15 11:47 PM
11	TRP shower thought: Women's advice to "just be yourself" is probably the most self-serving advice of all time. I posted this before but: What a lot of people don't realize about this advice is that it is in fact true. It's just that you aren't really a man in the eyes of the people saying it unless you are already "alpha". So really being alpha is a pre-req for be yourself. Its not a lie, its just not helpful. Women are only really concerned with alpha men. Beta men just arn't in their reality,at-least not as men, more like tools to fix cars, homes, computers and as financial vehicles. Just like ugly wom…	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/15 02:51 PM
1	Taking care of your face Checkout /r/SkincareAddiction The Sub is mostly dominated by woman, but it is very accurate. There is really no need to post; just read and check the sidebar. Most people have been mislead in terms of skincare into using harsh chemicals and exfoliants. Really the key is moisturizing, and cleansing. It makes a world of difference in a matter of weeks not months.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/15 10:41 PM
7	If you saw Atlas, the giant who holds the world on his shoulders, if you saw that he stood...his arms trembling but still trying to hold the world aloft with the last of his strength, and the greater his effort the heavier the world bore down upon his shoulders - What would you tell him? I want to get this right. Conservatism is the right way to go for America and the greater part of the world today. However know that it is only the right path in this environment. Conservatism is necessary today because it fights all the adversaries of non-accountability that the left attempts. If conservatism were to go away and libertarian politics were to be in its place at this very moment, America and the rest of the world would collapse due to the current structure and culture resulting in…	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/14 06:06 PM
2	Contesting Nothing Can Be Known Right so in that example; polygamy applies to all men, but due to survival's dictation and its interaction with their belief in their own subjective reality (life experience), they have concluded a certain approach yeilds better results. The accountant will not try to get many women but will gamble because his understanding is that it is something within his power and will enhance his survivability where as multiple women is not within his "reality". This isn't to say that he couldn't be more po…	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/14 08:51 AM
3	lol Sweden, the cuck capital of the world, this is unbelievable. (Try not to die laughing) This is all true. Taking up more space is a cue from body language that shows high status. Women do this too, the way a hot/high status woman stands/sits is far more assertive and takes up far more room than her body requires (excessive room) when compared to an uglier or even fatter woman (fatter woman's bodies require more room, but less excessive room). The point is it simply targets men which is just a symptom of Apex fallacy(ie: you aren't really a man in the eyes of women unless you are al…	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/14 12:09 AM
2	Australian Perspective on The Red Pill? From my understanding America is similar to Australia. But lets forget about cultural similarities for a moment. The fact of the matter is AWALT is not simply western women, its all women. The only difference is how much they can get away with. In the middle east and parts of non-westernized Asia, woman cannot get away with as much hypergamous behavior so they don't. I'm sure you have heard of the problem with mail-order brides, who eventually become "westernized". I think Eddie Murfy said it be…	/r/askTRP	22/11/14 04:31 AM
2	The Hotter the Girl, the Weaker the Self Esteem and the Higher the Entitlement That's such a minute thing. The girl who gains .5 / starts to sag a bit as in your example still knows she's hot. She feels relatively worse than how she felt before those .5 lb. Are you saying that we should amplify that relative feeling and make it seem like its worse than it is. Good luck with that, considering she will still receive all the external validation simply by looking around herself and seeing less attractive girls. This analysis, if you really mean it to be relative like you say i…	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/14 08:28 PM
3	The Hotter the Girl, the Weaker the Self Esteem and the Higher the Entitlement I'm calling BS on this article. Its just incorrect. Women who are at "1/10", still do not work for what they have. They get what they have through entitlements via government requirements, and by manipulating other low SMV women into buying into their frame. They have low-self esteem and self-worth, they do not think they are capable of doing anything at all, however they dilute others with their "glass-ceiling" argument to garner more entitlements. People like to talk about beauty like it is be…	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/14 06:46 PM
4	"Gyms should get rid of mirrors and ban Lycra to encourage more fat people to lose weight, the Public Health Minister has said." Telegraph.co is just a tabloid/clickbait site. This article is designed for people like us to get outraged. They use the psychology of people who "Get it" vs those who don't to create outrage. While I agree that it is a sign of the fact that everything is becoming feminized, understand that by discussing it we contribute to the legitimacy of its existence. This is the same for anything by Dailymail, Salon, HuffPo ,Jezebel or even Times. When NYT,WSJ,CNN,ABC,MSNBC and FOX start talking about it, …	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/14 09:47 PM
5	A Word of Caution For Newbies and Vets Alike: How PPD Works I'm glad other people feel the same way. I made the thread "The Co-opting of Manosphere/TRP is here" addressing this very issue. They will try to enter this space. However I don't think its as organized as you think. Its more like water, if there is a crack, they will seep in. Its a constantly applied force on all mediums of communication. I like to think of all the "Devil's lies" on a physics level, Feminism and a lot of left wing thinking is like Entropy, which is the tendency of the world to …	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/14 04:45 AM
11	Shocker: Women have stronger orgasms with rich hot guys A note on "Be yourself". What a lot of people don't realize about this advice is that it is in fact true. It's just that you aren't really a man in the eyes of the people saying it unless you are already "alpha". So really being alpha is a pre-req for be yourself. Its not a lie, its just not helpful.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/14 05:20 PM
14	Never Take the Couch That is great. The crabs in a bucket model is something I have not explored in that context, but it is definitely applicable. It is jealousy of our freedom, a freedom they failed to achieve. Also I liked how you tied it back to a mechanism of social cohesion. I blamed it on sheer jealousy, with a zero sum model IE:" you look good, so i look worse". Social cohesion likely grew out of a zero-sum mindset, but I think I need to ponder that further.	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/14 12:12 AM
20	Using Feminism to your Advantage This post has alot of falsehoods. Obviously there is no Intellectual advantage in a girl saturated with women studies for 4-8 years in college depending on her degree. Spiritual/Sexual would be true if women's only SMV commodity to men weren't their looks and low notch count. These two are the only differentiation a man can make on a woman, so you can bet she will still lie about it and put on airs, even in a short term relationship. Economically we never really owed women in the short-run anywa…	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/14 02:14 AM
2	Thoughts on crying? This is going to sound brutal, but crying is something that babies do because they know no other way to express discomfort or remove it. Men should express discomfort by removing uncomfortable stimulus. The few occasions where it makes sense are un-rectifiable situations like death of a loved one. But even that should be handled stoic, and accepted as a part of life. Its difficult to do so in death, but its something to aspire to be.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/14 01:52 AM
1	The Co-opting of Manosphere/TRP is here i suppose that could be true. But it isn't. I've been lurking for a very long time. Really i thought this was an important issue so I made an account for the occasion. I have read the entire sidebar, and quite a few additional books off of Redpill books and a library someone posted a few months ago. But then again you only have my words as proof.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/14 12:30 AM
2	The Co-opting of Manosphere/TRP is here Thats a strong stance, and if the core group of TRP can be "on the perimeter" I don't see why you wouldn't be able to hold back co-opting, but you guys would have to maintain a very strong frame. Also I don't think that process is exclusive to women, I think its everyone. People in general will try fit themselves (a square peg), into a culture. (a round hole). The point is that these two groups do not naturally fit into TRP which is a heterosexual male space, and are more likely to reshape the r…	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 07:27 PM
1	I struggle to see the point of female friends you aren't sleeping with Having female friends is almost entirely speculative. Yes you can have them and genuinely enjoy their company. But it is important to continual check the premise of your friendship because there is always sexual tension between men and women. If you have even the slightest desire to fuck her odds are you aren't really friends.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 07:19 PM
3	The Co-opting of Manosphere/TRP is here I appreciate the removal of the self-victimization posts due to my supposed "homophobia". The following subscription of mine has very little to do with my OP. In a tangent to the main purpose of this post. I'd actually like to take a second to talk about the curious existence of gays, which I have formulated to be the result of purely market forces. Which comes down to coercion, and confusion. I theorize that homosexuality is just like bipolar disorder and schizophrenia in that it is a mental di…	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 06:50 PM
7	The Co-opting of Manosphere/TRP is here I was going to bring that up as an example of woman penetrating TRP with their own agenda, but I thought it would be too political for people to handle. But she clearly tries to gain preferential treatment in (1) being a girl and (2) being related to GLO. No one applied Tits or GTFO, like everyone seems to think they do. EDIT: Also she could have conveyed the message without those details. So why did she include them? Think about it.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 04:18 PM
1	Banning lone adults from society. Already starting. Not anything new, if i recall correctly the same thing happened at Lego land, obviously that was a private park, but increasingly we see "Must be accompanied by a child" as a standard for men in places where children are. Also, the whole concept of marriage as a government institution shames non-committal behavior, by quite literally making non-married men pay more taxes, and yes non-married women also, but they have everything to gain from marriage.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 03:34 PM
1	Why is it or isn't okay to have sex with your friends sister? Your friends work to help you. If one of them turns around and hurt you / your family, then they aren't really friends now are they. With a friend its betrayal, with a random its much less worse. Also,a negative reaction does exist for any guy that pumps and dumps your sister, however since he is not "part of your crew", you have little recourse in the way of modern society.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 04:19 AM
16	Why is it or isn't okay to have sex with your friends sister? It simply comes down to the fact that your friend is in "your crew". We here at redpill (and the subconsciously every man in the world) have associated high notch count in females as a sign that a woman is less capable of being "marriage material". Now unless you have intentions to marry her, or intentions to get close enough to her that you are likely to think about that, you are harming her chances of being seen as "marriage material". This typically will be problematic for her, her family and…	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/14 05:45 PM
2	Is it alright to get help for depression? Really the only way to not become depressed is to stop depending on externalizes and becoming outcome independent. This goes for females, work and any endeavor in your life. You basically have to go for what you want, but not be invested in the results but rather the process. In the end, you can get a harem, but all those girls will become old and ugly eventually. You can amass a fortune, but anyone can steal it from you. In the end the only thing that matters is how you change. The sooner you c…	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/14 04:38 PM