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ScienceSelfishaltruist181/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 03:20 AM
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I realise this is apart of your anger phase, but you got to realise that TRP is kinda also like that. We are group of men discussing sexual strategy to increase our SMV. I think you have to see your own hypocrisy and realise that your anger is coming from your idealism ; the belief that woman should be unicorns and not what they actually are... (which is just woman) Woman aren't to blame for your anger, you are. Change your perspective on the issue, you've learnt that you have an issue with what…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 05:53 PM
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You cant change the world, you are one human, your weak and you die easy. Your yelling at the wind, no one cares about this here. I get that your in the anger phase and blaming the world on your problems, but the first step is accepting the reality of your situation, not how you would like it to be and not this over fetishized view you have on the world. You believe everything is out there to get men and your not wrong in your statement, but you are wrong about how much that exists in the world.…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 02:46 PM
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Only problem with this is she got my dad when she was 18 not 40.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 09:56 PM
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Question, if you were female would you much rather sleep with the captain of the hockey team or the vice captain? It's hypergamy man, you want the person on top of the social ladder, not the bottom. My point is having sex isn't the pinnacle of being an alpha, leading other men is.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 02:33 PM
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Well true excellence and the ability to play the political game. There was study done involving a survey on four types of people. People who work well and get along with others People who work well but don't get along with others People who don't work well but get along with others. And people who are dead shits. They found that other than 1st group, people would much prefer to work with a complete Luddite who's good with people, than a genius who's an asshole to everyone.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 02:29 PM
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For example say you use the whole "you have to do X otherwise Il break up with you" first time she might cry and do what you want, the second time she might be hurt and do what you want, by maybe the fifth time she will see your full of shit and she will shrug it off. My advice is honesty. Explain what you want and if you don't get say you can find a girl who will do what you want. Don't do this to manipulate or even with malious, it's just a fact. It's honesty, you can get another girl, but you…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 02:17 PM
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The term for that is the dread game, thing about the dread game is it effectiveness decrease with time and it's potentency decreases with use.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 01:41 PM
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How do you carry yourself to comfort a parent who is dying? How do you motivate your friends to rise with you instead of leaving them behind. Yeah I get that, i think that stuff would just get shot down as off topic. I do get what you mean, there's not a space on TRP for male bonding or discussing life events, its more about sharing of information on gaining SMV. I wish there was an off topic board, I'd love more ways to talk about gaining power and leading people. I think it'd be very valuable …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 01:01 PM
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if you do have an outlier women how to adjust the approach The point i was trying to make is you will lose your power to control the relationship. If she knows you think this, she will have all the control in the relationship. She doesn't like your friend mark? well hes gone, otherwise you lose her. She doesn't like your parents? Well your no longer spending Christmas with them. The only real answer i can think of is to pretend like you have a billion other girls so she would fear losing you.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 12:54 PM
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Your not wrong, but its still just shows that because of the content that's discussed here we are not wanted and that even if we do follow the rules, we are still at the mercy of people who want to silence us.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 12:39 PM
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You kinda answer your own question there, yes if you can get a rich girl who has higher social status to marry you then go for it, but its abit of a fallacy. Why would a woman with higher social status who's rich want to marry you? Sleep with you sure, but why would she commit? TRP teaches about the hypergamy nature of woman, or to put it shortly, the reason why woman marry up and never down.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 12:35 PM
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This is interesting, my mothers parents were blue collard workers, and she herself works as corporate leadership. She is a feminist with typical values that you'd expect (minus the misandry). My mom had me when she was 18 and then immediately had to enter the rat race of a corporate office. First I'm sure it was to try and support and raise me, later she started to love it, and now she is hugely successful. I think she was able to achieve this because of her lack of need to settle down, because …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 12:21 PM
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in a sexless relationship, letting someone with the maturity of teenage tell me whats right.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 12:09 PM
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Improving your body will give you confidence. If your standing around with a bunch a guys who are all skinny shits, and you look like a Greek god, do you think you feel pretty good in that situation? If you don't, you practice till you do. Improving your SMV is about two things, looking good to other people and looking good for yourself. If you look good, you will probably feel good, and in accordance with that you will act confidently.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 12:08 PM
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If your SMV (sexual market value) is high enough and you generally act in a alpha way, you can get your girl (whom from now I'm referring to as a plate) to probably do anything you want. Your plate will put up with this if she doesn't want to lose you. There's a huge problem with all this though and it relates to you, abundance. If your scared to lose your plate, your plate will have the power in the relationship. Abundance is about not being bound to one plate, (so as in you would have multiple…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 12:04 PM
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Step one, lift Step two, organise your lifting into a routine and create a time management plan Step three, start reading books on how to lift better and apply to your lifting Step four, start using your gains from lifting to learn how to talk to people Step five, With your chiseled body from lifting, talk to the opposite sex Step six, repeat step five till you get laid Step seven, realise that females only like you for your SMV (sexual market value) and are hypergamous (meaning to mate or join …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 11:49 AM
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I always disagreed with the definition of Alpha TRP has. I agree with mostly the standard dogma about strength, power and building yourself up (e.g. self improvement) what I disagree with is the perceived selfishness and loner attitude you have to act like to be an alpha. TRP (as in what most posters seem to use the definition of alpha as) always describes an alpha as this stoic lone wolf. An alpha needs a pack to be an alpha, ergo, the TRP doesnt teach men how to be alphas, only how to increase…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 11:33 AM
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I disagree that it's not a tool, it helps identify someones pain so you can relate to them. It relays information to us. Our eyes are tools to see, our taste buds are tools to identify rotten foods. Its information to help us better deal with a situation.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 08:38 AM
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Hunger is also passive by that statement. Empathy is a tool to be used or observed. It gives us knowledge of how someone is feeling because we have felt that exact experience. So why should I help that person? Now its no longer a question empathy but altruism. Altruism by its very definition means "a selfless concern for the well-being of others", which does not exist in this world because all concern and action for someone else will be born out of selfishness. Why should i help that person? Bec…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 02:45 AM
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Reminds me of what Jordan Peterson said in his book. He was going on about a guy who's goal in life was "to be able to get point where he could just drink martini's on the beach everyday". He put aptly by saying "if you have any sense of all, after a week of this you feel disgusting". Men need something to do, we need something to aim for, if we dont have anything we will die, literally. They found that men who retire younger die younger. sources: http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?do…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 04:30 PM
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Why? That's easier, its empathy. I think most people here started life as a blue pilled dude, and seeing someone going through the same pain that you went through can be just as torturous as experiencing it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 04:19 PM
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The lesson isn't to make yourself abundant but to use your power to achieve abundance.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 12:44 PM
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I think it's more like everyone is the enermy or very least a combatant. It's why the first rule of TRP is you don't talk about TRP. Your a spy in a enermy land, if you reveal your true nature you will be crucified for it. So you hide your true self and instead use your knowledge of the enermy to get what you want. You're awake and you know that those around you will do there best to make sure no one else awakens.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 04:49 PM
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This post kinda doesn't need to exist. Your not opening new ideas to people, the title is click bait and the article is more about you than it is about the red pill. Your pride is just abit too overwhelming my dude. I think a big part of the red pill is not giving a fuck about what people think, but in the sense of if its concerning your pride. Girl doesn't like you for your nose.. who cares! Girl doesn't want to talk to you.. next! someone said you have a weird smell.. hmmmm, maybe you should l…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 04:40 PM
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He does kinda have a point though, hes pointing out what red pill philosophy considers alpha. It seems that these days if your not spinning ten plates you're a beta. I thinks its something that a lot of people who have been here awhile understand. That the red pills definition of alpha will only get you so far. I think after going through the anger phase, you go through the self improvement phase. Your goals are no longer to have sex, but to improve your life, and sex becomes no longer the cente…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 01:33 PM
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Thought so, I remember downloading this like a couple of years ago. Found it the other day when I was going through my hardrive.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 01:46 PM
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To be fair, people are still lobotomized today, but usually in cases of severe epilepsy where if you don't get a bit of your brain sliced off you will die from the brain damaged caused by your seizures. I honestly think it will get the same sort of stigma as having your child get a tattoo or having your child have plastic surgery (when its unwarranted). Also source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4234051/
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 02:34 PM
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God don't use the word "normies", it just speaks 4chan.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 01:50 AM
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It's just a preconception about pitbulls, it use to be that german shepards were the vicious dog that you never left alone with your kids, now its pitbulls.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 01:48 AM
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I know its said alot here but "hard times make strong men, strong men make good times, good times make weak men, weak men make hard times" This is very much becoming hard times for men very fast. Honestly the red pill is evidence of that. Weak men come here because they are faced with hard times, the red pill makes them into strong men. So the irony of it all is feminism, which is now oppressing men, to make them more weak, is making us stronger and smarter.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 10:43 AM
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Honestly both hilarious and scary at the same time. On one hand your decreasing the combat effectiveness of a unit having integration between the sex's and the other its like, they see the statistics, they see that those squads are jokes compared to the others. How do they justify using the military as a political tool. While decreasing your ability to fight someone. What if they have to be combat ready? Do they see action and just fucking cry while gun shots go on around them?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 10:36 AM
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When you say it like that you make think of the Catholic church. The Catholic church told its follows what morals to follow and how they should live their life. The red pill tells its readers how they should live their life. Which in turn creates new morals based on the questions of "should i do this or that" and "if i do that am i showing alpha traits". Its a scary parallel, the catholic church was a control structure used to makes sure the masses of the lower class didn't go around rapping and…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 10:30 AM
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To argue another counter to that point would be to say that TRP morals align with concepts of alpha and beta behavior. What is alpha and will increase your sexual prowess is right and what is beta and will decrease your sexual prowess is wrong. Morals are the reflection of the values of a community and the TRP is a collection of individuals who share similar interests, so it fits the definition of community. So in a way the TRP has a set of morals, and has its own "right" and "wrong".
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 04:44 AM
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The red pill isn't exactly amoral. To play devils advocate, you could argue that TRP is morally good. It promotes happiness, a healthy lifestyle, an emphasis on knowledge, learning and gaining power. The red pill just isn't socially acceptable. To counter my own point though, morals are more to do with perspective and culture.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 03:42 PM
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What George Orwell said in 1984 is coming to pass, with the doublespeak language feminists use, how some words and statements are becoming increasingly taboo to say to the point of self censorship and how sex is been increasingly seen as evil. George Orwell was wrong about one thing though, the people perpetrating it. This isnt America censoring us, its not some evil corporation or some evil government, its just your regular Joe who deletes a comment so it can further his/her narrative. Which is…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 02:49 PM
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Honestly, someone should offer the uber driver a job for his quick thinking and his ability to stay calm in a crises situation.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 06:55 PM
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Frame is how you frame your life, its a way to give perspective. What your talking about is just simple red pill ideology. Well kinda, you've given the steps on how to get a basic frame but not really anything else. Frame is meant so you can give your life context, to put yourself back into the picture and then never breaking it. Which here, at the red pill generally refers to being an alpha. So now your frame is that of an alpha, you take on qualities of an alpha and now you basically are one..…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 09:00 PM
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Go to india, you can pay a woman 20k to have your child for you. Its yours and no one has the ability to take the kid away from you. http://hbowatch.com/vice-the-line-drawn-in-the-sand-outsourcing-embryos/ Its a vice story about it
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 02:42 AM
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I'm not qualified to talk about frame just because my explaining skills are shocking at best, recommend you read Gorilla Mindset or look at our sidebar to get to really know about frame. Endorsed is just how we distinguish people at the red pill who know what they are talking about between people who don't know what they are talking about. Edit: basic grammar stuff
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 02:34 AM
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I can kinda relate to him, I have a LTR at the moment who hates feminism, had sex with one other guy before me blah blah blah. I don't think op is putting pussy on a pedestal. In my own experience I wouldn't feel bad to drop my LTR and move on in a heart beat, saying that, she is a high quality woman which i can recognise. Much like op who's found a higher quality woman and recognises it and doesn't want to damage the wears so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:16 AM
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Why? Because I want my genes to continue and be successful. I want my children and my children's children to have the best chance of survival. This environment here is no place to raise children to be successful.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 04:00 AM
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If it wasn't for the fact that Muslims culture so directly opposes western values then it would be great. Muslims aren't bad, the problem is that they are so radically different in their beliefs to western society. This situation now, can only cause conflict between the two values and by extension the people who believe in them. There was a period in time where Muslims where the pinnacle of scholarly knowledge and teachings, but war and exploitation has left them a people with only a culture and…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 09:50 AM
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This made me crack my shit
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 06:21 AM
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Saying that, Australia has some very strong ties to the US and China. China is more of a trade relationship, but if some third party was to invade, I'm sure both these nations would step in.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 06:14 AM
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Well don't compare us to china to much. A third of the what a Chinese solider learns is Marxist theory or in other words Chinese propaganda.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 06:03 AM
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Oh yeah dude, western world is fucked, we are probably the last generation to have such riches. So start building your resources, move away from the western world and be self-sufficient.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 06:01 AM
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I don't know about you, but once i get enough resources under me I'll find somewhere isolated have 60 children and live out my days teaching my kids how to be Machiavellian altruists.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 05:56 AM
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My LTR had no opinion on it at first (either way),explained some of my views and now she shares me anti-feminist videos.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 05:49 AM
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You know what agriculture equals? Cavities, this is actually how we know if a civilisation had agriculture.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 07:10 AM
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You know, I'm okay being a space age technological man. Yeah theres a lot of shit to be weary of, but at least we have medicine, education, lots of fucking luxuries, laws, access to all of human knowledge at our finger tips and a pretty high chance of passing on our genes. I think that's pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 07:08 AM
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Way ahead of you. Signing up to the freemasons during my break.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 10:57 AM
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Well vague enough for you to back up my point and agree with me. For some reason that made me chuckle.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 10:39 AM
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So true mojo, I'm pretty sure the ancient Greeks preferred a smaller penis's and thought that large ones were disgusting (so they made their statues with smaller genitals), that could just be some bs I heard, but it does illustrate my point.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 12:34 AM
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What are you twelve? Most girls lost there virginity at 15. So if your looking for a virgin your most likely going to be a paedophile or your gonna be fucking some fat chick who couldn't even get a beta boy to fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 02:25 AM
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Its funny. I'm socialist but i would never vote for a left party. I find that I have more values in common with the right. The world is upside down.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 11:33 AM
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Okay, I'm calling you on your shit. IQ is't a good measure of intelligence. IQ tells you how well you do on a test and how you will do with your schooling (which is what it was invented for). It doesn't show how successful you are going to be, how well you can survive, how well you can solve a problem, all that it shows is where your abilities are in relation to school (generally not a lot of schools in a middle of war torn country in Africa). If we go down this path there is a study that says o…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 11:25 AM
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You kinda just answered your own question, you just said a guy kept it up for about a year. So how long can you keep it up? See if you can beat that guys record of a year.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 03:34 PM
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What a dog can do: guard you, rescue you, wake you up in the case of a fire, companionship, and is always loyal. What a girl can do: Blame you for her mistakes, take half of your money, accuse you of rape, take your children away from you, and sex. I personal would chose the dog every-time.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 03:20 PM
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Just reverse the question. Say your chatting up a girl and she says " so what do you do" you put it back on her, saying something like "I'll tell you if you tell me what you do first" then change the subject while shes talking about her self. If your really smooth she wont even notice. Most people love talking about themselves way more then they love hearing about other people, so 9 times out 10 this will work.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 07:01 AM
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I... it's just I feel that to many of us, we are stuck is this hatred of the world because of the bullshit that surrounds us. It makes me think about when i was stuck at this stage and i felt so helpless to change anything around me. I was blaming everything and i was so so angry. So when I saw your comment it kinda made me go "I need to say something to snap him out of it" You were probably just making an offhanded comment, saying "this is why everything is shit" and what you said is true. So i…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 11:48 AM
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i resent the insinuation that men ever had control of women. This is not accepting the world as it is, but getting angry over what you want it to be, this is little more then day dreaming. To day dream about better times is not going to get you anyway. Its good to want, if you want something you go get it. But to be angry about not having something( in this case a world which doesnt match what you want it to be) is what children do. Men look at the world as it is and strive to make it into what …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 01:23 PM
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i put all my sources at the end, but the one your looking for is: Altruism: Its characteristics and evolution http://www.pnas.org/content/75/1/385.full.pdf This is a little heavy, but read if you want. I recommend just googling altruism and evolution and read the some of the shit it comes up with. Sorry, I probably should link you to a site, but cant be assed.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 11:59 PM
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Its a very good point. A person who loves his people will always have his people as a weakness, but your people are also your strength. When WW II came around, the US government convinced its people to buy war bonds, which they did and they also joined the army in the masses. Saying all that, as an individual, would you rather have an altruistic leader at the helm of your nation or one who only cares for himself.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:09 AM
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reset where our moral compass is pointing Kinda reminds me of what Nietzsche said about renouncing tradition values is favour of pagan values. In other words, we shouldn't be ashamed of being envious of others and we should embrace it in order to find out what we truly want. The problem is that everyone sees everything in black and white. There cannot even be a concept of grey. Every indulgence is seen as impure and now we should be ashamed to be selfish. Edit: made some gramar changes
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 03:52 AM
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I just want to say, I see mgtow as a noble ideal. I hate that I have this urge to have sex. Don't get me wrong, sex feels great and I'm not gonna stop. But I wish I didn't have this craving for it. It makes me feel less in control. Now, If a man can reject these urges and live a life without for filling them (even self pleasure), i respect that. I'm 6'3 and probably 8 or 9 in looks (so op, mgtow isnt just for the dudes who cant get laid) and I hope someday i can give up woman all together and ha…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 08:25 AM
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