Selfsatisfaction Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Purchased a "Pick-Up" book, and I don't agree with it. Opinions? It depends on what kinds of girls you're going after and the context. An inexperienced girl with low self-esteem will eat compliments up. Pretty girls have heard it all before and will assume any compliments you give them are simply to get in their pants.	/r/seduction	02/07/14 05:34 PM
4	Got engaged about 3 years after discovering r/seduction. Some stuff you might not think about when starting out. Or scoliosis.	/r/seduction	22/05/14 03:22 AM
1	What is your purpose for seddit? Seduction techniques. Nothing more, nothing less. Sometimes that involves bettering yourself, sometimes it involves putting a girl through an emotional roller coaster so she becomes addicted to your presence.	/r/seduction	16/05/14 02:39 AM
1	How do you lot fall in love? A healthy person can't help but develop feelings for someone they are dating, especially if they are sleeping with them. If you are only dating a single person, it is easy to confuse lust and being in the "honeymoon phase" of a relationship with actual love. And if you've been with them for years it becomes difficult to imagine life without them and you begin rationalizing certain events to fit the paradigm of you two being in love instead of seeing the truth in that one or both of you have been…	/r/seduction	13/05/14 07:35 PM
0	How do you lot fall in love? You cannot truly prevent yourself from falling in love, and you shouldn't try to. You just have to be steadfast in never letting your emotions influence your actions. You also have to be aware enough about yourself to know what love is. If you've been seeing the same person for a year or two and not even attempting to initiate intimacy with anyone else, then you are most likely just co-dependent and attached. If you are currently dating and sleeping with 4+ women and one really stands above the …	/r/seduction	13/05/14 05:30 PM
2	When you don't receive a response Fill her voice mail box. Each voice mail apologizing for the last. Seriously though, text her a week or so later with new plans. Don't bring up the lack of response. If she doesn't reply to your subsequent text, delete the number. Or don't. Honestly, dude it's finals season. People may forget to respond and then feel weird about responding hours or days later.	/r/seduction	08/05/14 04:03 PM
1	The Definitive Guide to Stop Girls Flaking I disagree completely. Surely you've met plenty of girls you deem hot enough to fuck but don't feel they necessarily fit the category of someone you would want to spend time with.	/r/seduction	06/05/14 05:39 AM
5	Can we stop posting about Tinder; it does nothing to contribute to self development. This sub is for seduction. Not self-development. You could post some sociopathic crap about how you tricked a girl into having sex with you by saying your little brother recently died and it would still be more appropriate than than the same feel-good trash that gets posted day after day on here.	/r/seduction	02/05/14 01:15 AM
1	The Mating Grounds: The Man's Guide to Sex and Dating- Tucker Max's New Blog That probably means the guy is on to something haha	/r/seduction	23/04/14 12:51 AM
4	Some bodylanguage tips. Useful for seeing if a girl's interested so you know if it's worth making a move. Nobody likes to shoot in the dark. Certainly saves time.	/r/seduction	14/04/14 05:39 AM
7	How I got out of a 5 year friend-zone I think it's more accurate to say he became a better version of himself. All of us have room for improvement.	/r/seduction	06/04/14 09:34 PM
6	[FR] Messed up and broke one of the major rules we uphold as a community. Don't give me too much credit. I'm pretty sure I heard that from the first Mass Effect, but it has served me well haha	/r/seduction	18/03/14 05:34 PM
5	[FR] Messed up and broke one of the major rules we uphold as a community. Reacting to it will give it legitimacy. Don't bother reacting or apologizing for it. If anyone asks just say, "she wanted me to be more than I was willing to be, and I respect her far too much to go into it anymore". You have to appear to be the bigger person here. Never have a bad thing to say about anyone behind their back, particularly this chick. People will forget once the next high school drama starts up. This reputation will probably even help you in the long run.	/r/seduction	18/03/14 05:30 PM
11	[FR] Messed up and broke one of the major rules we uphold as a community. I tend to explain to all parties that I will be seeing other people in addition to them. Don't feel bad though. Her feelings are not your responsibility.	/r/seduction	18/03/14 05:13 PM
14	I need help. Girl keeps flaking on me and I don't know what to do. Any ideas? That was beautiful. I hope your story gets more guys to wake up and stop chasing girls who only want attention.	/r/seduction	16/03/14 02:19 PM
10	JustBetaThings - "I have a troll face on a strawberry tattooed on my ass... I was trying to help a friend practice as she was an aspiring tattoo artist." Was there ever a distinction?	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/14 03:27 PM
1	Subreddit geared towards the art of conversation?(And other specifics) These are decent ideas. The influx new guys asking the same questions and promoting their cookie cutter pua blogs is a problem but the huge population of white knights we have now is a straight up threat. It's really getting tiring seeing the same "Hey man don't hit on a girl with a boyfriend! Show some damn class. There are plenty of fish in the sea. It says they're in a relationship on facebook so she basically is that guy's property hur dur." I have to check out that texting sub. I really can…	/r/seduction	28/02/14 02:46 PM
3	How do you show intent without coming off as creepy/unattractive? What do you do to show intent? My go to is kino based on the dicarlo escalation ladder.	/r/seduction	28/02/14 02:31 PM
8	If you're not in the mood Would you be up for doing an in-depth field report?	/r/seduction	07/02/14 01:51 PM
7	What is a clever way to respond when a girl asks, "are you asking me on a date?" or "is this a date?" Yes.	/r/seduction	13/01/14 04:20 AM
1	Is it better to have conversation topics already picked and in a certain order or just let lose and enjoy whatever conversation pops up? Conversations are very fluid in nature. What happens if she latches on to a topic she really likes or segues onto a related topic? If you're nervous its not a bad idea to have a mental list of things you would like to talk about, but try to go with the flow.	/r/seduction	30/11/13 03:44 AM
8	Girls that you just aren't feeling? God, yes. Once you have actual abundance you really start choosing quality over quantity. A pretty face with nothing but air behind it has little appeal for me anymore.	/r/seduction	30/11/13 03:40 AM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma) I'd say go on radio silence for a bit. Like several weeks. She's getting a nice ego boost from you but still has the boyfriend for all her other needs so she's gonna keep you on the hook. Go out with other girls, pick up a hobby, etc. Maybe you'll even find a few better quality girls who won't waste time.	/r/seduction	22/07/13 11:47 PM
1	What's up r/seduction? I know this isn't your cup of tea, but in the gay community we have a problem with "mean gay guys", so do you think you could give any guys like me some advice? Seduction is seduction. As you mentioned, the meanest is nothing more than a bitch-shield. The best thing to do would be either agreeing and escalating or making fun of the person in a non-mean spirited way. I'm sure you've seen good examples on seddit. And as for the second example, I would make fun of them just like any girl who craves attention. I might have responded "aww don't worry little fella! We'll get to you once the grown ups are done talking" while giving a condescending pat on the s…	/r/seduction	08/03/13 04:06 PM
1	22[M] Decent game and ability to pick up women, Should I settle for 6s and 7s if nothing else? You decide what is worthy of your time. I believe you can gain something from interacting with nearly anyone. If you feel you are only getting girls who rate a 6-7 on your personal scale maybe you still have some residual self esteem issues from the past that are subconsciously effecting which girls you approach. How often do you go for girls you rate above that level? If your goal is to have sex regularly your going to have to talk to 6's and 7's. If your goal is to seduce beautiful women then …	/r/seduction	10/02/13 02:33 PM
2	Seddit, i sinned tonight....i was clingy and told a girl that i was very into that i loved her. Ted Mosby here. We're all human and are vulnerable to relapses to our old AFC ways, especially when alcohol is involved. To stop being clingy you should follow your roommate's advice and focus on improving on other aspects of your life; improve your grades, go to the gym, learn another language, adopt a few hobbies, etc. And talk to multiple girls to avoid getting too attached to one in particular. As for the alcohol we can't help you. You really have to examine yourself and see if you're an addict or not. If y…	/r/seduction	10/02/13 02:05 PM