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| 4 | Why do I keep getting destroyed by the charming guy?This very sounds like you’re an older dude who mistook your younger female co-workers perfunctory workplace friendliness for interest. Now you’re upset that she’s more comfortable around the funny charming and SAFE man than she is around the older weirdo who doesn’t know that co-workers being polite doesn’t equal attraction. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 02:46 PM |
| 18 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.Sir, I hate to break it to you but if you’re wearing 4 inch lifts everyone knows and they’re just polite enough to talk about behind your back instead of to your face | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 05:30 AM |
| 4 | Is it worth dating a girl you're embarrassed to be with for experience?You’d be wasting both of your time and doing something cruel that you’ll likely regret later | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | If you're dating a girl you're not that into, but you can't find someone better, what do you do?Don’t waste her time, Christ that’s a no brainer | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:12 AM |
| 2 | If you're dating a girl you're not that into, but you can't find someone better, what do you do?Yeeeerp | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:12 AM |
| 15 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?Same. I’m not a huge stickler about that kind of thing but 50 makes me feel like I’m using the neighborhood dildo. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 04:55 AM |
| 5 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?Same, exactly | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 04:54 AM |
| 7 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?Be honest about that too! For me it’s not a deal breaker in this day and age because dating is pretty hard for men. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 04:53 AM |
| 39 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?Be honest and accept that some women don’t want to sleep with men who’ve slept with a ton of women. If they don’t want to sleep with you because of your number then THEY DO NOT WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU and you don’t get to negotiate that by being dishonest. Plenty of women don’t care anyway, and why do you even want to be with someone who’s not into who you are a person? Just be honest. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 03:02 AM |
| 4 | Where do people here live where every woman has impossible standards?I haven’t met women with impossible standards, I’ve only met women who don’t value sex/relationships enough to deal with bottom of the barrel bullshit when they could be happy and unbothered while alone. Basically, I know a lot of women who are happy and fulfilled enough that they’d only consider a relationship which adds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 03:59 AM |
| 16 | Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male?Oh my god men are really out here going to religious congregations they don’t align with as “strategy” to meet women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Men have a hard time attracting women nowadays due to a lack of opportunities to showcase functional strength.This is such a weird take because even if you’re correct about what gets women horny…literally just…pick up something heavy. Good Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 08:34 AM |
| – | Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women?Yes, but the threshold is SO much lower than a lot of men think.…Honestly, I would consider myself to be a lady with a relatively high looks threshold and it isn’t even all that high PLUS a lot of aspects are negotiable if a guy wins me over by being a genuinely fun person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Do women need a “comparison” to know if she’s aroused?I needed a comparison to understand that I wasn’t actually asexual but rather just sexually repulsed by my first boyfriend. When I later met a man I actually was hot for it was INSANE. Like I didn’t know I could be that wet or cum so hard or be so ravenous for another person. I realized that I’d actually just been disgusted by my first bf rather than being someone who didn’t like sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 05:48 AM |
| 24 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI mean…I’ve had a man say to my face in a professional environment that (and I’m really boiling this down) in a fair world he’d be able to buy my companionship with enough “good citizen points” or whatever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.The thing is -in my view at least- the bar for women isn’t so much low as it is weird in a way where looks are SO disproportionately valued that attractive women can get away with being utter garbage in every other aspect, and women who aren’t hot but are essentially super heroes in every other capacity are regarded as being low tier and disposable. I’m fortunate to be a physically fit/attractive AND independently wealthy/successful woman who can also cook/clean/keep a lovely house. Basically I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 11:08 PM |
| 4 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.You lost me at the misuse of “digress”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: You’re out with a male friend and your purse gets snatched in a mall, do you expect him to chase after the thief?No, of course not. I don’t even expect my husband to do it (I mean I expect him to do it because I know who he is as a person and just based on that I know he’d probably go aptly beat anyone who stole from me into a pulp BUT I don’t like demand that of him). When my husband was briefly in a wheelchair after a surgery some asshole tried to steal his phone and run. I ended up chasing the guy down and getting the phone back. But it was a split second choice I made because I felt pretty instinctivel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: We always hear about 50/50 vs men paying 100% but what about 80/20?Newp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Are men naturally polygamous?Congrats on being a narcissist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 02:35 AM |
| 9 | Are a majority of women Bi?Also very weird to be jealous of OR celebrate a groomer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Grief is the only situation a man can express emotion to his romantic partnerMen have no problem anger. They struggle with vulnerability. If a woman who you’re appropriately close to attacks you for showing vulnerability then yeah that’s a trash person and get her out of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?I’ve been told that everything about my experiences/attraction to men should be taken with a grain of salt because I’m bisexual so…salt sprinkled…. But personally, I’ve been creeped out by plenty of dudes who are generically good-looking and who I know for a fact that other women were practically drooling over. Also, being ugly doesn’t immediately make you creepy although I WILL say that ugly men have a much smaller margin of error before I’m creeped out. I go to the gym a lot and this is where … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Sir…danger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:41 AM |
| 17 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Hmm, I love sex and am woman. I’d have sex in some capacity (sometimes you just wanna suck a dick from the back or edge a dude 5 times) every day if I could -and we often do for weeks at a time-. I’m bisexual so I’ve been told I “don’t count” but I think I should qualify. Have you considered that maybe you’re not very sexy? I don’t mean lookswise, although maybe, but just in terms of your behavior? Like maybe you’re bad in bed OR you’re a man child in other areas of life? The only partner I didn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment?I’d love to watch straight porn but all the men are absolutely hideous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 03:00 AM |
| 12 | Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment?He’s always bald and like 50 too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment?Bondage mostly (being either dominant or submissive depending on my masturbatory mood) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 02:55 AM |
| 5 | Is it common for women to have been "Alpha widowed"? Do women have trouble "falling for" new men that havent met the standards of better looking or higher status men of thier past. Do these men have to "work harder" to make up for the failed comparison?Slightly different experience because I’m a bisexual woman but I had to go to therapy to get over one of my ex girlfriends (which felt insane because I broke up with her and knew I didn’t want her back as a partner) because our sexual chemistry was SO amazing that everyone else fell short to the point that I’d get so bored and unsatisfied mid-sex that I’d usually just stop midway through because it felt so painfully dull and pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Preferences don't changeMy preferences changed because I started off just assuming I must like what I was “supposed” to like. But then I started to realized what actually turns me on and it’s drastically different than what a woman like me is expected to want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Men and women, have you ever been the "Chad/Stacy" who she/he was cheating with? What are your feelings on it now?Never been the other woman but I get flirted with constantly by married men and when they cross a definitive line I always contact the wife and tell her what’s up because that’s what I’d want. About half the time the wife is grateful or at least polite. The other half of the wives have been FURIOUS WITH ME IMMEDIATELY. I mean like RAGING that I had obviously tried to steal their man and it was MY fault for tempting him…I mean some of these women have gone BONKERS off the rails and kind of scared… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Confusion“That’s how women are” Jesus Christ and you wonder why you’re single! Why do you even want to be with any women if we’re so god damn repulsive? | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 04:40 PM |
| 24 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapOther “studies” have shown that child free women are actually happier:) It’s men who are actually deeply sad when they’re old and alone. Women get lonelier when they’re young but as we age we’re happier and happier with our own company. Men just get lonelier and more desperate for companionship as they age. But see that’s just my opinion that I’ve observed and concluded based on life experience….see how that works? How you can have a thought -a belief even- but not feel as if it’s most definitel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do women believe they get to decide on what constitutes a real man?….sir. Please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | She said she was on Birth Control?Don’t raw anyone without mutual commitment | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful.I used to date ugly men because I was dumb pick-me girl and thought I was enlightened and “saw past shallow things”….yeah, nothing quite so sobering as being cheated on by the solid 3 who you thought would cherish you forever and then watching him cry-wheeze that he “had to cheat because he’s so insecure about being with someone so much hotter than him so he needed to cheat with big-birtha to feel ‘safe’”…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 10:04 PM |
| 31 | As a guy Imma be honest, I think more guys should really work on self-establishment and self-actualization before getting into any relationship, even if it isn't seriousSometimes these posts I read on here truly make me wonder if I live in a different reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:54 AM |
| 0 | Love is dead and Hollywood killed itNun or group government housing….not really great choices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 06:55 PM |
| 3 | What men usually say when they approach you?You know I know I’m supposed to say “oh my god DO NOT be jealous! It’s awful! I hate it!”….but in truth, it is sometimes very flattering, sometimes (the nicer and more complimentary times) it truly does brighten my day, and I’d be lying if I didn’t say that it bolsters my self-esteem. Of course there are many times that have been fucking terrifying (I’ve been chased and even had to physically defend myself from men who were furious at having been rejected). Other times have been annoying, frustr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks SituationsI simply do not understand why any women are apparently actively ok with (and it seems even actively perpetuating?!) being in a sexless relationship. Like, why are women getting into relationships with like the plan of not being very (or at all, apparently?!) sexual with the man who they’re choosing to be with!? This is insane behavior! Idk…maybe it’s because I dated mostly women until I was in my 20’s and like I said maybe ALSO because I have never once factored things like money/status into my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 11:15 PM |
| 27 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks SituationsAs a woman this concept boggles my mind….just…date the man you’re sexually attracted to? What is the disconnect here? Is it money? Is it because I was raised with money and have my own money that I’ve never prioritized anything other than “do I like him and want to bang him?” when considering who to date? I just do not understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:58 PM |
| 3 | What men usually say when they approach you?I live in America but I’d have to agree that it far more cute than “modelesque”. I’ll admit I have pretty great proportions (that I’m thankful for) and I’m fit and have clear skin/good hair etc…but I’m like 5’3” so nothing super special to look at. I have a softer face and big eyes and I think this just makes me look super approachable rather than “too gorgeous to ignore”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:36 PM |
| 0 | What men usually say when they approach you?Nerp! I am, however, apparently “eye catching” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:16 PM |
| 8 | What men usually say when they approach you?No, hot guys can be creepy. Some of the most upsetting things I’ve had said to me has been by highly attractive/confident men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 05:27 AM |
| 5 | What men usually say when they approach you?I get hit on all the time (most days that I leave the house) and it really runs the gambit. Sometimes it’s polite, sometimes insanely sexual, compliments, requests/questions, sometimes it’s playful, sometimes it turns menacing. Many times saying I’m married doesn’t put an end to it, and I’ve been begged, screamed at, offered money, followed, demanded, threatened, cried at, and once I had a man ask for my number then -when I said no- try to get a police officer to chase me down by telling the off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 05:22 AM |
| -1 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.Maybe I’m an outlier but as a woman who’s painfully horny on a regular basis and has sex with my husband most days but would prefer it to be multiple times every day….have to disagree. Definitely have a sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Is obesity a primary factor in dissatisfaction with the “economics” of dating?Maybe? When I was like 165 people were generally a little shocked when I disclosed my weight (like to the point that my doctor assumed her digital scale was wrong when she weighed me) but I kind of just assumed most of them were being polite or at least exaggerating the reaction? I guess maybe I just had a very blessed distribution of my excess weight and I do have a LOT of leg muscle…but like….the one in the wedding dress? She’s certainly at least 190! I literally just scrolled through my pictu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Is obesity a primary factor in dissatisfaction with the “economics” of dating?First of all…Jesus absolute Christ either those women are lying about their weight or they all carry it terribly or have almost NO muscle in their body composition. I’m 5’3” and although I’ve since lost weight I have pictures from when I was 165lbs and I looked NOTHING close to that fat and sloppy! I was a size s/m shirt for gods sake! Granted I carry a lot of my weight in my thighs/butt but HOLY HELL the disparity cannot be that big, can it?! I feel like several of those women are well over 200… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 02:04 AM |
| 17 | Most people are in denial about ‘platonic’ friendshipsAs a bisexual who’s “turned” two people who thought they were ace….no one is safe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:01 AM |
| 2 | How bad is negociated attraction really, as in being liked for something you provide?I literally mentioned how I spoil my husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 05:21 PM |
| 13 | How bad is negociated attraction really, as in being liked for something you provide?It’s true that she ended up happier by being with someone who appreciates her. She nearly killed herself when he left her though. I mean it shattered her and totally blindsided her because she thought they were happy and she’d have done anything for him. She was happy being with him. She was happy to be a mom and a wife. She found something new they she never imagined for herself when he left, but she wasn’t unhappy before that. But my dad killed all of his happiness. He wasn’t exactly depressed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 06:58 AM |
| 12 | How bad is negociated attraction really, as in being liked for something you provide?I’m not sure. It really seemed like the culmination of a lot of life choices for my dad. Starting with trying to trade my mom in. I have a few of my own issues with my mom but putting those things aside she LOVED and sided with him and took care of him. He wouldn’t have died crying and begging for her to help him if he’d cherished the one woman patient and unique enough to adore him the way she did…he’d probably still be alive now tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 05:09 AM |
| 14 | How bad is negociated attraction really, as in being liked for something you provide?I mean, personally I could never feel fulfilled or even have an orgasm with a man I didn’t think was actually into me….BUT I also understand that as a woman (and more than that: a woman who paid for a lot of natural looking cosmetic surgery so that I don’t look like my ugly dad) I have had a lot more acceptable options and opportunities to seek genuine affection from people who want me. I know there are a lot of young people (particularly young men) who are living frustrated and alone and they’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 04:42 AM |
| 42 | How bad is negociated attraction really, as in being liked for something you provide?So, I can only speak from seeing my fathers life experience in real time. He cheated on my mother who was devoted to him when he had absolutely nothing and raised his kids while he made his fortune -but she had the gall to be the same age as him- and left her for his 20yo secretary. He thought she really really liked him for him and not for his money. She was a very good actress and even outside parties seemed to believe she might actually like him….Oh, except she was cheating on him the entire … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 04:11 AM |
| 10 | How do you get a guy to put his arm around you when you're sitting on the couch next to each other?You’ve never been an ugly girl, clearly. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 04:31 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Go ahead tbh, I agree about high n count men and women as a bisexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 06:29 AM |
| 7 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Complicated question. If it’s 100% a consensual and self-inflicted situation made by an adult whose of sound mind and not being influenced, persuaded or abused. Sure. But as someone who’s worked with sex workers and ex-sex workers that’s INCREDIBLY rare. Even the ones who “adore” their work will eventually admit to a dozen or so “nightmare level disgusting” clients from whom they still have lingering trauma. “But that’s all part of the job”….yeah…and is it a job you’d have started and continued … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 05:23 AM |
| 6 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Well…I don’t want to be with a man who’s gone to sex workers because I don’t want to be with a man who conceptualizes sex like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 05:16 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Of trafficked women, yes. Unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 05:14 AM |
| 3 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?I think you’re misunderstanding pain and discomfort as being inherently traumatic…not the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 01:50 AM |
| 4 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Trauma is not the only way to grow. Experience: yes. But not necessarily trauma. People who romanticize trauma as some magic thing that makes you better and wise are typically sort of dumb tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 01:29 AM |
| 2 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Well, it was more than “uncomfortable” or was pretty traumatic at the time, actually. I think it’s fair to express empathy for someone for a stressful event they went through, especially one that they didn’t in any way ask for. Of course it taught me some things about life and all that…but yeah, I probably could have learned those things without being menaced and stalked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 12:41 AM |
| 3 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?It’s ok, I was going to need a restraining order against this man at some point anyway. He was incredibly deluded, and apparently has gone on to having at least 2 (that I know of) more women filing against him. I think people who give this kind of advice are trying to interpret the actions of an unstable person through their own stable-minded lens. Their solutions makes sense when they assume that this obsessive man is thinking essentially in the same way they think but just “Extra hung up”. But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 12:38 AM |
| 57 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?I was once, as a very dumb young lady, advised to agree to a date with a guy who was obsessive about me just so he’d feel he’d been “at least given a shot” and would finally accept my rejection as “valid and informed” (a rejection that was like going on and had been given very clearly for a year)….it didn’t work and I needed to get a restraining order. Would not recommend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?Oh absolutely! I’m married but if I were on the dating market -as a successful, very physically fit, attractive (I have to assume according to feedback), attentive, wealthy and generous, kind and loyal woman who’s a great chef and an amazing home maker- I should be so lucky to meet a man who can do everything I do! My husband is wonderful in many ways I’m not though, and I him for those things too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 03:28 AM |
| 10 | Do you support a publicly accessible domestic violence offender registry, similar to the sex offender registry?All about choice, my friend. If some dumb bimbo knows damn well that a man is a straight up abuser and wants him anyway, she’s welcomed to him but, as a representative of women in possession of at least half a brain cell, I’d personally like a registry to avoid these men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 09:06 PM |
| 12 | Do you support a publicly accessible domestic violence offender registry, similar to the sex offender registry?Wrongly convicted more than once? Nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Everyone Peaks and Hits the Wall Even A-List CelebritiesThis is also…pretty clearly -to me- an eating disorder related decline in looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?This is true! Which is why I’m a really big advocate for supporting men’s mental health and social issues. Obviously it’s best to start young and simply not mentally and socially screw our boys over to behind with…but it’s never to late or too far gone to find help through therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:48 AM |
| 25 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?Sure by a stranger. I’m more likely to be physically attacked by any man I may casually know….I had to physically maim a colleague (someone I knew for years) in self defense last year because he was trying to put me in his car for god knows what purpose. That’s the scary part. It could be our neighbor or pharmacist or coworker or mail man. It’s rarely some random in a bush, it’s the guy you’ve waved hello to a hundred times. And of course only a small number of men are predators. But we can’t te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:54 AM |
| 109 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?Whenever I speak to men who take the stance of being annoyed or upset about women’s caution, or see men speaking that way, I see it as just one of the biggest and most difficult to resolve misunderstandings between genders. It is genuinely a DIFFICULT practice in abstract thought for men to comprehend the mental toll of the constant threats women face (and the never knowing if a threat is “oh I’ll be groped” “I’m going to be raped” or “I’m dying today” when they -as men- do not live under that c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons dating and marriage are so bad in the western world is you will never be the best at everything for your partner. There will always be, in their past someone better than you at something be it sex, money, looks etcEven if you ARE the best your partner has ever had in every arena you’ll have issues! According (emphatically) to my husband I’m the smartest, kindest, wealthiest, most helpful partner and the one he’s felt the most attracted to and had the best sex with. Same goes for him (though he’s not the wealthiest but I don’t have to value that as I have my own money and value other things MUCH more highly). We have a GREAT relationship but we still need to communicate and like navigate shit and being “th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:52 AM |
| 10 | Are women just more queer than men?There are a lot more bisexual men than those who self-report as bi. The number of dudes I’ve spoken to who’ve said “well I’m straight so I’m not just down to fuck around with any guy, but if he’s like…my type and he’s being like super cool and nice to me..I mean yeah there’s definitely some men I’d sleep with!”….sir… I think so many men think that because they’re willing to fuck almost any woman they run into that if they don’t feel that way about men, it means they’re not into men. But nah. Bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Are women just more queer than men?This is really fun world building buddy. You’re doing a good job. Very creative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Describe your perfect helpmateDoes being with someone who sexually excites you not matter to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Describe your perfect helpmateYou wanted someone specifically who wasn’t supremely attractive? Someone who you recognize as being below average looking, and who knows she’s below average looking? I’m wondering why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | To the women who get upset at bitter men what's your longest dry spell?I’m sorry that you’re asexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 08:36 AM |
| 4 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesAs a woman who’s only been with 5 men, I disagree anecdotally because most of my attractive female friends have been with 10+. My number is also lower because I was sure I was a full lesbian until I was in my 20’s and met the first man I’d ever had any physical desire for. Personally I don’t know how women are out here sleeping with 30 guys a year between the ages of 18-25 because I haven’t run into 30 men between the ages of 18-25 who met even my bare minimum expectations of visible hygiene req… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever been absolutely destroyed by a relationship that only lasted a month or so and cannot bounce back?The dangers in punching above your weight class. Doesn’t ever last and makes you feel like anything less isn’t enough. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Do most guys have to change who they are to be attractive to women?Yeah but it’s a lot more subtraction than addition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Dead bedrooms are likely not a result of settling, but of women having a higher degree of the coolidge effect than most people think.Yeah, that’s my point and that’s definitely what I’ve been guilty of; not noticing that the person I was dating was a useless and repulsive child until we’d dated a little while. I have to admit that one man I dated…I honestly wonder now if he was a little mentally disabled. He could obliviously pass as just being quirky and off-beat when in limited social situations but we moved in together briefly (thank Christ it was planned to be temporary from the start) and I realized that OH NO this perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 07:44 AM |
| 16 | Dead bedrooms are likely not a result of settling, but of women having a higher degree of the coolidge effect than most people think.I think this only happens when women get disillusioned with the person they’re with. I’ve had this with both women and men I’ve dated. You cannot make yourself attracted to someone you’ve lost all respect for and you can’t respect an adult toddler | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 05:59 AM |
| 4 | Attractive women of PPD: How often do you get approached?Yeah, this one threw me for a loop when it started happening while we were dating. I thinks it’s a two factor thing. Race: every man who’s ever done this has been white. I’m white and my husband isn’t (he’s Latino but he’s uncharacteristically enormous and very tall so most people assume Samoan or Persian). A lot of the white guys who’ve done this have explicitly brought up race by informing me that I’m FAR too beautiful to think I need to stoop to the level of being with a brown man (stoop?? ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 04:11 AM |
| 31 | Question for women: Why do you willingly have children knowing the father won’t be around?Yerp. I thank every god in every pantheon of every religion that I had a miscarriage when I got pregnant due to a mistake at my pharmacy during the first year of dating my husband. Because even though I’d already scheduled the abortion (I caught it so early that I was going to wait a week to have a proper procedure) had been completely decided for years that I never wanted children, never EVER wanted to go through pregnancy or birth, would be RUINING my life plans by having a baby, would be RUIN… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 12:45 AM |
| 12 | Attractive women of PPD: How often do you get approached?35F but because of genetics I look considerably younger and I think that probably impacts the sheer quantity of men who approach me (ex: I don’t think teenage boys -who come up to me A LOT in any public space where they happen to be- would still be coming up to me if they knew on sight that I could biologically be their mom). I personally feel that other than being in very good shape I’m pretty average but being in good shape probably puts me just a little above average. In terms of how often I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem?Curious if you’d want to be with a woman who didn’t make you feel sexually excited/make your dick hard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?You wildly misunderstood what I was saying. Player = incel mindset in an attractive man who’s successful with women because of his looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?They both dehumanize women and treat sex as something they’re entitled to. Players are often just successful/attractive incels. Players bear women just as much ill will and hold them in similarly poor esteem as incels do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | This kinda confirms some red pill theory.Sir, I’ve learned I can maim a man in self defense and he’ll still want to have sex with me. Y’all are relentless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 05:19 AM |
| 14 | This kinda confirms some red pill theory.Here’s the thing. If I find a man attractive and want to get to know him and he says “I have a girlfriend” then I’m done. He’s taken and unless I feel like I actually want to be just friends I remove myself. When I was single I didn’t make it a habit to cozy up to men I found immediately attractive if they were taken because it felt icky. If I find a man unattractive (and assume he’s single) and he’s trying to engage with me I’m going to be coldish because I don’t want him to think I’m showing m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:47 AM |
| 9 | This kinda confirms some red pill theory.This works on men too, but this is not how you find a decent partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Would you want your son / daughter dating a woman/ man like you?Yes, but me as who I am NOW not my 19yo or younger self. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 12:26 AM |
| 3 | why should men be ok marrying a 28 yr old woman?My best friends husband just left her for a woman 10 years and 50lbs heavier because he’s head over heels for her….women stay having options but you simply do not know who you are yet when you’re that young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Women low-key bully each other into hypergamyI’ve seen/experienced this not so much in regard to looks but personally/success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 05:48 PM |
| – | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Did you know that there’s a gray area? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of straight guys who go to gay clubs to get chicks?Do you not like free food and drinks? Gay men are GENEROUS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think men are more right wing than women?“Logical”….in reference to the party that’s aligned itself with “Christian Values”?….nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?35 but I am blessed (cursed? blursed?) to have always looked a lot younger than I am, it’s just kind of a thing that runs in my family (brothers are in their 50’s and look like babies still, dad is almost 80 and passes for his 50’s, could pass for 40’s tbh if he got some cosmetic surgeries, grandma died at 102 and looked upsettingly younger than her nursing home compatriots). I looked like a middle schooler until a couple years after college…at which point I looked like a high schooler which was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?Thank you but I’ve been called bitchy and unreasonable for all of this. I’ve been told I’d “give some hot guy the time of day” or “be less of a cunt to someone taller”. I even had an older man stop me after he’d seen me get to the point of having to take my pepper spray out and point it at a guy and tell me “you know, you should give young men like that more of a chance! If you go around dismissing everyone one day when you’re old they’ll stop showing up”…sir. I tucking hope so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?I don’t know about all women but for me, as a woman who’s been super polite, kind, and patient about unwanted advances for all my life, I’m kinda done. I don’t care about being nice or polite or saving anyone’s feelings anymore. Men don’t seem to appreciate kind let downs they’re just angry about the rejection and for the most part I’m in just as much danger if I’m polite as I’d be if I was rude. After a lifetime of harassment and a recent experience with attempted sexual violence that forced me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 6 | What do you think of straight guys who go to gay clubs to get chicks?I mean effectively straight because I married a man lol But bisexual is probably more accurate, although I never intend to act on it I do still find women to be sexually attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 01:26 AM |
| 22 | What do you think of straight guys who go to gay clubs to get chicks?I thought I was a lesbian for the majority of my dating life. I did eventually realize I like men (I just didn’t like the men I saw straight women lusting over so I assumed I must not find any men attractive if I couldn’t even see the value in the “peak” men), but it certainly wasn’t because some dude hit on me at a gay bar. The lack of social awareness it takes to do that is enough of a turn off in itself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Are there more undateable men than undateable women?So, this isn’t so much my take as it is the observation of a male friend of mine who’s wife just died so he’s feeling fairly philosophical and not all his tales are going to be reflective of what he thinks in a normal headspace. Anyway, he think that men are more willing to “settle” (meaning that there are more women viewed as “datable” by men then men viewed as datable by women overall) for a number of reasons: He thinks boys are often not taught how to preform (or even given any awareness of) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 12:05 AM |
| 0 | You're now the head of society , you can make 5 laws related to correcting the wrongs you see in the society regarding The so called "Battle of the Sexes". What laws do you pick?Not in a way that usually evens out to any actual profit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | You're now the head of society , you can make 5 laws related to correcting the wrongs you see in the society regarding The so called "Battle of the Sexes". What laws do you pick?1: Unconditional universal basic income. Doesn’t matter who you are, what you’ve done, how much money you’ve saved or spent or how much you make at work each month. Every adult gets a monthly payout of a survival wage. You don’t get more for having a whole mess of underage kids either. 2: Universal health care that includes social and psychological services as well as options for companionship (those with mental deficits can apply to enroll in a sexual therapy program where trained sex therapist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes?It depends on the relationship, the circumstances of the break-up, and who you both are as people. I haven’t had a single male ex who “wanted to remain friends” and didn’t have the fantasy that we’d eventually get back together. I’m friends with some of my ex girlfriends but that happened after taking years long breaks from speaking to each other and basically being entirely different people when we became friends again. I don’t think you can cleanly transition from relationship to friendship wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 10:23 PM |
| 10 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.Yep. Fortunately I dodged ever actually being used as a human jerk sock when I single but it was so tiring to do the detective work it takes to simply not be used like a hole that happens to have a lady around it that I sometimes thought “you know I should just fucking let them bang me out and then see if they stay or go after! Sure, I’d be getting used by someone with ulterior motives but it would be a hell of a lot more efficient”. My husband was the first guy I ever actually had a “fuck it. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:43 PM |
| 33 | The "I Have A Boyfriend" Excuse - What To Say (+Infield)This is the worst dating advice I’ve seen in a decade. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 06:44 AM |
| 4 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?More like 50 but whatever makes you feel less responsible for your own loneliness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 03:01 AM |
| 4 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?Then congratulations on being a certified snack! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 02:48 AM |
| 5 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?You’re someone’s cup of tea! My husband feels ugly when he looks in the mirror. “Just a fat brown guy who’s getting angry man wrinkles” is what he says. He looks at pictures of the two of us and feels like he’s tricked me somehow because I look like should “with a Henry Cavill lookalike”. But when I see us I feel like I’m the one who lucked out. And hey I know realistically he’s maybe not gonna rev everyone’s engine, but to me he’s so fucking hot. Everyday I look at him and wonder how on earth I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 12:56 AM |
| 2 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?Well my husband is not Mexican (and would be pretty offended to be referred to as such) and neither have any other boyfriends been…lumberjack shaped is correct though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 12:49 AM |
| 3 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?Yeah if there was an Instagram of dudes like that I’d be into it! Shoulders. Shirtless pics in general….not to be gross but I like a good attractive set of balls, like a nude crotch shot from below (hard or soft dick is fine) and there’s a little cheek involved…oh butts! Back muscles!….and just lots of their pretty faces! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 08:06 PM |
| 15 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?Hilarious because my husband often says “why do you like me so much? I’m just latinto human shrek!” So yes. Yes, apparently shrek can absolutely work my pussy out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 05:03 PM |
| 16 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?For me (this isn’t universal at all, as most of my straight female friends cannot relate in the least and think I’m a mutant for it) there absolutely are men that make me just VORACIOUSLY horny. It’s not Chris Hemsworth (or whoever the new “hot male lead man” of any given moment is) looking dudes either (don’t like white men, or blonde hair, or low body fat percentage). I like a tallish (I’m short so doesn’t have to be more than 5’9” if the proportions are correct) guy with VERY broad squared of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 04:30 PM |
| 23 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?I do genuinely talk this way about my husband because he’s so fucking hot to me…the gag is that he’s super shy and feels fat and it makes him blush…men think they want this but then when they get it they are not ready | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Everyone talks about how women settle (and won't settle). But the fact of the matter is that almost all men settle for a woman to get a relationship.I don’t know where you live but I’ve spent a decent amount of time in several areas of the US and without exception I’ve noticed the opposite of what you’re describing (at least in the looks department). Most couples seem to be either basically evenly matched or the woman is at least 30% more attractive than the guy (I’m not even including relationships where the woman is clearly a gold digger, that’s just long-game prostitution in my book and they both know it’s not a real relationship). In the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | People who actually have mutually healthy relationships but you just lurk here or post: Why are you here exactly?I joined this sub quite a long time ago when I was in a very bad relationship and then having a bad time dating. Happily married now but I’m here for the discourse! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 12:35 AM |
| 4 | Most men don't care that they're not their girlfriend's "first choice", they're just happy to have sex and companionshipMy husband isn’t the hottest guy I’ve ever been with but he’s the one I’ve been most excited about and turned on by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 12:03 AM |
| 8 | Women trying to change youWhat are they trying to change specifically? I’ll admit that (I guess technically?) I’m guilty of this with my husband but only when it came to one very antiquated “way of thinking” that was neither realistic, pragmatic, or healthy. He basically didn’t want me to ever leave my house (like not even go into my own damn yard with my huge dog!) without him (even with friends!) because that’s the way he saw his dad treat his mom, and his father had told him it was because something bad WOULD eventual… | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Does kino in first dates actually work? I've had a negative kino reaction...The only time I didn’t want a man to touch me was when I wasn’t attracted to him physically and needed him to really do the most for a few weeks to make me like his personality | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 10:43 AM |
| 0 | Does anyone here date women they’re not attracted to for practice?Why? How do you get/stay hard?? | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 08:02 AM |
| 10 | Does anyone here date women they’re not attracted to for practice?That’s fair and no real harm. Used to do this with men in college when I wasn’t confident hitting on guys I was attracted to yet (had just realized I wasn’t a full blown lesbian). It’s a good confidence builder! | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | If women suddenly switched to being the stronger sex, how would it affect dating dynamics?I’d sure as shit start going outside alone at night, and spend less on pepper spray | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Red pillers lack empathyYou’re like my husband probably. Masculine looking af, could chop down a a tree and build you a canoe. Very feminine about sex. My ideal and the ideal for many women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriendsYou’re right and you’re wrong. I was in a 4 year relationship with a man I cared about but was sexually repulsed by (I was young and didn’t understand that I could like talking to a person and recognize that he was generically good looking and still not be sexually excited about him). When we had sex I pretty much went dead inside and left my body because otherwise I would have probably thrown up or something. I was not passionate at all. In fact I had Mahler convinced I must be asexual because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities areWe talked about it a lot actually, he basically said he realized that he was predominantly afraid of “not having the upper hand” but he realized that was a really toxic view to take (his parents marriage is as bad as it gets, and all of his past relationships have been with women who will openly and shameless admit to this day that they never cared about him). He had a very adversarial approach to ALL social dynamics, but once he shifted his mind to thinking of me as his teammate he felt better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 04:59 AM |
| 5 | Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities areMy husband admitted to me that he straight up almost dumped me a year into us dating because he “couldn’t deny that I’m smarter than he is” (fwiw, I have always thought he was much smarter than me and never cared) and he was used to being the smartest guy in the room so it was messing with him. By his account, he grappled with it for a while because he kept feeling paranoid that I looked down on him (I never did, and even he admits that I never even implied it) and he would feel incredibly insec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | You (PPD Men) should forget about women and focus on an education and a career.I could say this exact same thing to young women. It’s exceedingly hard to find a compatible man who’s going to treat you well, hasn’t given himself PIED, is respectful of the relationship/doesn’t talk to other women given the chance, will contribute to any amount of housework (or just like not make unnecessarily more for you to do), has ever once used face wash, won’t use you financially, wont physically abuse abuse you or try to isolate and control you (I don’t have a single female friend who’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?I don’t think there is anything wrong with asking about weight (though I’d probably ask more about fitness to be more polite or (if you dont care about being polite and want helpful specs) measurements. But also (sorry, incoming Ted Talk about body types) bear in mind that you don’t know what any given weight looks like on any given woman because of muscle mass/fat distribution. A lady could be literally underweight and still look chubby (skinny fat) or technically over weight and look great. I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:11 PM |
| 22 | What the "average man is" versus what women think the average man is...I’ve heard a lot of guys say this but reject a ton of women who fit that criteria because “she’s a bit chubby” or “her nose is big” or “she has no tits or ass”…the average woman isn’t hot, most aren’t eye catching or even that “cute”. They’re just some lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?You’re fine! A lot of people who’ve met us in person have asked FAR more invasive questions. A male friend of his once took me aside to ask me if I had body dysmorphia…so, yeah you aren’t out of line in the least! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:56 AM |
| 0 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?Hah, no. He’s technically “obese” but he’s got a really big frame and a lot of muscle (he got a dexa scan recently and his muscle mass comes out to weighing about 20lbs more than my ENTIRE body) so he’s probably actually just overweight. But I like that body type a lot though: HUGE broad guy built like a barn with a lot of muscle covered in some nice soft squish. I’ve dated men with abs and I realized I only thought that’s what I liked because that’s what I thought I was supposed to like…but I’d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:01 AM |
| 2 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?I think so, but then again he happens to be exactly my type in a lot of ways (and I’ve gleaned from talking to other women that I seem to enjoy certain facial features that a lot of women don’t like in men…maybe because I’m bi, but who knows why any of us have our preferences) But the general reaction we get from people is that I’m “out of his league” and most people assume he’s got a lot of money. We get lots of jokes about me being a “trophy wife” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 02:23 AM |
| 6 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?Absolutely. I have and always will make and have more money than my husband. Never gave it a second thought while we were dating and it’s had no impact on my desire to be with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 10:57 PM |
| 5 | "Hes hot...but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him"Well, quit it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 8 | "Hes hot...but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him"She might be doing a poor job expressing it but I kind of understand where she’s coming from. I’ve dated and been friends with “reformed nerds” before and no matter how hot they’d gotten or how impossible it was to tell they used to be ugly goobers in high schools they literally all still had this angry nerd “hot girls are always mean to me!😤” chip on their shoulder and used that as an excuse to mistreat me under the guise of “you think you’re all that and someone needs to knock you down a peg! … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 06:31 AM |
| 6 | Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up?Not from any self-respecting woman I know. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up?Oh strong disagree | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 05:47 PM |
| 3 | "Just look at all the average couples in walmart" - What, the couples who are not attracted to eachother?My husband, while having handsome features, is definitely not “gigachad supreme”. In fact apparently the general public sees him as rather “meh” (which I DO NOT understand because I can’t imagine looking at that man and not immediately wanting to jump on him) because I get asked all the time “so…what’s up with that?” in various ways by people who I guess are expecting me to tell that he’s rich (he’s not). Part of it is definitely that, despite being 2 years younger, he looks a decent bit older t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 05:02 PM |
| 8 | If 80% of women are going after the top 20% of men, what are the remaining 20% of women doing?I was very fat and had a hormone imbalance that made me retain water in my face and also have rashes all over my body. Fixed my health issue. Skin cleared. Lost weight. Got cosmetic surgery. BIG difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 12 | If 80% of women are going after the top 20% of men, what are the remaining 20% of women doing?as a woman who lived as a 2 for a long time before working hard and paying a lot of money to become an 8: they’re single female versions of incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men who are obsessed with dating much younger women seriously overstate the desire that younger women might have towards them? (Kinda NSFW)My dad is a very generically handsome guy and has always looked young for his age. He was a super young 50 and REALLY could have found a good and loving partner with ease if he hadn’t deluded himself into thinking hot young women could ever actually love/desire/care for him. But he’d left my mom for his 29yo secretary, who promised him he was the love of her life. He was gutted when, right before he was planning to propose, she excitedly told him she was pregnant…because he’d had vasectomy. He t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Do men who are obsessed with dating much younger women seriously overstate the desire that younger women might have towards them? (Kinda NSFW)Hilarious generalization. I live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 04:17 AM |
| 2 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”If someone I was dating genuinely asked me this question my answer would be “nothing to your table, buddy” and that would be that. In reality I know I bring a lot of tangible things to the table, probably more than most women. I make very good money and statistically I’ll be the bread-winner in any relationship, I’m an excellent cook and I love to cook and bake (healthy food comfort food, all of it), I’m in great shape and if you want to get into better shape I have experience as a personal trai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 04:16 PM |
| 12 | How to ask out a waitress?Sir, that’s an act of terrorism. | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 06:32 AM |
| 24 | Do men who are obsessed with dating much younger women seriously overstate the desire that younger women might have towards them? (Kinda NSFW)Yup. My dad is in his 70’s and lonely as hell because when he got divorced in his 50’s he only dated ladies in their 30’s who wanted his money and cheated on him with men they were actually attracted to. Now he’s old and too tired to date, and he’s constantly telling me he’s so sad that he didn’t try to meet someone who actually liked him when he had the chance. I have a friend from high school who I thought was the exception. She married a guy 15 years older than us and seemed super happy. She … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Unpopular opinion: You don't need to marry to have a life-time relationship 😀Not entirely sure I know what you’re asking with “why marry with the state?”. I don’t know what you mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:59 AM |
| 7 | Unpopular opinion: You don't need to marry to have a life-time relationship 😀She claims it’s because she “doesn’t like the concept”…but tbh I think it’s probably because she doesn’t love him like a partner (maybe just as a friend, who knows. I’m not super friendly with her but from what her husband says I can assume she’s not all that into him), stays with him for security/due to having a kid together, and plans to eventually leave him when she’s done with her degree (which he’s paying). I think in her mind she doesn’t want to be tied down to a person she’s not in love w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 22 | Unpopular opinion: You don't need to marry to have a life-time relationship 😀You’re not * wrong* but if someone is your partner and you intend to remain partners there are a lot of benefits to being married. That’s why I feel like oftentimes it’s a big red flag if someone you’ve been with for years is super opposed to being married. Like for me and my husband, it would have been supremely stupid for us to not get married (tax reasons, but also he now gets to use my health insurance which is better than anything he’d be able to get himself). My husband felt weird about us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 03:48 AM |
| 14 | Men need to stop validating women to get upperhand in SMPI think you’re forgetting that a lot of women would rather be alone than with someone supremely shitty. Literally just improve yourself a little, sir. Jesus Christ. I don’t know any remotely decent men who are struggling THAT hard to find a partner. You know who’s struggling? Like, regardless of their job (minimum wage or even lack thereof), height, or level of baldness I do not know even one guy who’s clean, fit, nice, and interesting that has any amount of trouble dating. I do hear a LOT of co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltShe’d been with 3 men prior to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI agree she never should have married the guy. She loves the hell out of him but he’s always going to resent her for being out of his league. There’s a reason he was a virgin when he met her at 35 and I think she was far too forgiving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltNo he knew less than a year into dating. Like, as soon as he asked she told him honestly. He pretended to be fine with it but started throwing it in her face once they were married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI mean…from men. Literally from talking to men I was either seeing or friends with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 09:57 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltYeah there’s not but a lot of men ARE. My cousins husband is literally mad at her 5 years into their marriage because she’s been with more partners than he has. She says he brings it up in every fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 09:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI guess I’m thinking of guys being upset when they’re virgins or have been with only 1-2 women by their late 20’s and their partner is in their late 20’s and has been with something like 4-8 men. That’s the most common scenario I’ve heard men complain about, and it’s the one I’m most familiar with personally since I’ve been only 5 men and prior to meeting my husband (when it was 4 men) I had multiple guys I went on dates with express outright anger that I had “double their body count”. Like, sir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 09:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltOnly if you’re like ANGRY about a potential partners sexual past, or if you’re mean or resentful towards your partner for having been with more partners than you, then a little bit yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:20 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltThe only men I’ve know to give a single shit about body counts are men who either sexually inexperienced and/or very insecure about their sexual prowess and have some real pr perceived defect: (small dick, weird dick, foreskin shame, strange balls, minute men, ED, can’t cum, poor/unsuccessful form etc.). I’ve always assumed this was because these guys didn’t want to be compared to anyone else since they thought they’d inevitably be judged unfavorably. I know a friend who feels this was and said … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others?It sounds like you have a fetish for fake breasts…which yeah you’re gonna be harder about the sex that involves your fetish. I have a fetish for being choked. So if I was two guys and one guy liked to choke me vs the guy who didn’t want to choke me…I mean I’d end up sort of bored with vanilla sex dude compared to being with the person who’s DIRECTLY indulging my fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:24 PM |
| 2 | When a woman say "I don't know if I ever experienced an orgasm"...I totally agree with EVERYTHING ELSE you said but as a bisexual lady who’s been with a lot of women and talks to a lot of ladies: I don’t think any women can’t orgasm, and very few are going to struggle when they’re alone. Honestly , if they’re saying they can’t even do it when they’re alone I think that usually is just to make a guy feel less shitty that he can’t get her there. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 01:36 AM |
| 11 | Women, how many female friends do you know that have had casual sex while on a trip?I think every single woman I know, excluding myself when I was single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:56 PM |
| 2 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Girl more for you then, I cannot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 11:06 PM |
| 21 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Shallowest one is weird but non-negotiable: It’s a particular nostril shape. I actually feel a bit bad about it, because I’ve been told recently it’s associated with Jewish genetics (literally had no idea, the main person I think of from my past as having it was catholic af). But my pussy would not allow me to be intimate with someone who has that nose. Absolutely not happening, sorry If that makes me anti-Semitic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?Personally, I did the whole “fall for him before having sex” thing with my first serious bf and…oh boy. Disaster. I was not for one goddamn second attracted to that man. But I was young and dumb, and didn’t realize that until I’d already become very fond and emotionally attached to him…then we went to have sex and I had to literally hold back nauseated gagging. Repulsed. Absolutely repulsed. I developed an alcohol probable for the first time in my life literally just because it was the only way … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 06:22 PM |
| 6 | BP is completely ignorant about how very hot women think or view the worldLiterally not one. I’m talking anything 10+ (though I think most of the women I’m thinking of here the average gap would be 15ish years, with some gaps between 10-15 and some gaps between 15-30). Some of them are pretty open about it, I work with a woman who’s flat out said “yeah, he doesn’t turn me on at all but I can fantasize about the pool boy until he’s done fucking me…because being married to him means I have a fucking pool and that’s better than being turned on”, but most women are a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 03:58 AM |
| 18 | BP is completely ignorant about how very hot women think or view the worldOne probably-fictional model who works at google, wow! As a woman who doesn’t have to worry about being taken care of because I have a trust fund (I know, I’m sorry) and a very nice job: The idea of dating a man that much older than me makes me want to projectile vomit. When I’ve spoken to women who DO date those men who are so much older than them, their reason for wanting to be with them has never been actual attraction. Money/stability mostly. Then sometimes status. Safety is one I’ve also he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you?Yeah, I see this thought-process all the time, and it’s confounding to me. I’ve always wondered if maybe it’s because I’m bisexual so my attraction is a little different or if this is just a very incorrect assumption overall that men have made about women, but I am SO turned off knowing a guy who’s showing interest in me has been with a huge number of women (hot women included). I’m not jealous (he wants me now), and I’m threatened, I’m just like…ick, sir. Honestly, a guy who has a bunch of exes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 02:57 PM |
| 124 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.Communication is important for issues where the problem is genuine misunderstanding. For example: my husband and I come from vastly different backgrounds and consequently have had wildly different expectations, impressions, and assumptions. We are not always automatically on the same page, but what’s important to me is that we both want to be on the same page, and that he puts in just as much effort to effectively communicate with me as I do with him. 99% of the potential issues we could have in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testI don’t understand this at all...are other women out here actually doing this? I mean I understand the concept of “testing” I suppose but moreso for like “will you take care of me” or “will you still like me when there are times I can’t be perfect”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you secretly like a tiny bit of objectification from your partner?Yes. I need it to feel desired | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Do women really mean, “You and me forever,” or is it a ploy?I mean it when I say this to my husband. He’s the only person I’ve said it to, because I’ve not felt that way with anyone else. He was skeptical for a while, if I really did want him and only him forever but years of affirmation and reassurance have made him feel confident that I’m his and he’s mine and I wouldn’t have it any other way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 08:26 AM |
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