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| 3 | Unsatisfied with a “good” man.Damaged. You are 100% the problem and I hope he finds a better girlfriend | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Bf doesn’t enjoy having sex with me? What am I doing wrong?Welp --- thank god hes just your bf and its already been 2 years. Im sorry but hes indeed lost interest. Dont ignore your intuition. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/24 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Where can I go to find a man who is open to me being a stay at home wife?That's what I did. We spent many years married and childless to get our lives together so I could be a SAHM when the kids were born. We have accomplished this--- live frugally during those years and it can be done quite easily. And yes...America has so many of the problems it has socially because children are shoved into day care before one like it's normal. I think that being a SAHM is so far in the distance that you don't necessarily need to search for a man based on that specificity. Find a g… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/24 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Is it unreasonable to want a provider, but to not want kids?In short: Yes you are being unreasonable. Its an unfair deal for a man. Unless you find an intentionally child free man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/23 04:54 PM |
| 10 | told friends I never say no to sexI haven't turned my husband down in most likely 6 or 7 years. We're pretty in sync tho...so we both know that if it's the end of a long day and we need to sleep instead. We also shower before hand and watch a movie so that usually means we're both up to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/23 05:00 PM |
| 18 | How quickly do you sleep with a new partner?In this climate....as a successfully married youngish woman...I would suggest waiting until it is an official relationship. Once in a relationship officially STILL make them wait for a month to get to know them more. It's good for the respect and excitement to take it slow. If you already have a child tho the rules are different.....cuz you didn't make the last guy take it slow before marriage clearly. No offense just saying it's how guys think. You'll just rack up casual sex if you don't. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/23 02:42 AM |
| 1 | My Boyfriend is S*it Testing Me - How to respondHeres a thought---if you went down the path of marriage with the person---are you comfortable with your son potentially turning out the same way as the sneering brother who threw a jab at you the first time he met you?This dude was raised to be a bully by BULLIES. Hell crush your self esteem and then dump you after you dont have any more fight in you. OR stay with you as an emotional play toy --then make your children the same way. DUMP HIM and tell him WHY so he can LEARN !!!! This sounds lik… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | My Boyfriend is S*it Testing Me - How to respondMaam. This is wildly inappropriate on your part. I have the right to state my opinion nor did i name call or say anything offensive. The audacity for you to defend this mans behavior when another woman says his behavior is enough to leave him over. Great job mod! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/23 03:55 PM |
| – | My Boyfriend is S*it Testing Me - How to respondHeres a thought---if you went down the path of marriage with the person---are you comfortable with your son potentially turning out the same way as the sneering brother who threw a jab at you the first time he met you? This dude was raised to be a bully by BULLIES. Hell crush your self esteem and then dump you after you dont have any more fight in you. DUMP HIM and tell him WHY so he can LEARN !!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/23 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Being cheated on - how do I go on w this heartbreakA woman's intuition and spiritual clarity should never be ignored. Don't worry about it. This is fate getting you closer to your husband. It's not personal. He's just going in another direction and so are you. He's not the One...and that's ok. He's a jerk tho 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/23 03:45 PM |
| 12 | Being cheated on - how do I go on w this heartbreakAww it's okay! Try not to let this affect your self esteem. And make sure not to make it the opening conversation when dating new guys that your ex cheated etc All relationship la fail until you meet your husband wife in the dating realm I'm proud of you for seeing the signs and following through. Keep going !! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/23 03:08 PM |
| 8 | Stuck in a situationship, now 26, is all lost for me if I want children (multiple)?So you're main problem right now is housing. You have to find the cheapest rental that will take you both. Then work 3 jobs to pay off whatever is on y'all's credit score that are holding you back. Either that or both of you break up and find people with better credit scores that love you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/23 04:36 AM |
| 3 | I want to get skinny to make our relationship better—help.It's pretty easy: Run 2 miles a day. 6 days a Week. Add in a class that you don't have to think about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/23 12:33 AM |
| 1 | He wants to make money equalI would thanks him passionately for his offer...as he's showing real appreciation for how you supported him.....but tell him that a marriage proposal or a really nice gift would be more than enough. Hint hint lol Side note Kids are a no go until he marries you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Cheating Dilemma: do you let your partner know that you know?Whoa Whoa Whoa Redpill doesn't mean you stay and get cheated on ... especially if it's not your husband. If you get cheated on by your husband the way to address it would be to sign y'all up for counseling and let him know the reason is because youve found out about his cheating. You should pack your stuff / have him pack and live a part while y'all work it out. Discuss honestly why it happened, how BOTH of you can improve, and agree to the terms of the relationship when trying again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/23 08:57 PM |
| 8 | I’m tired of modern day relationships.Join a church and find someone's unmarried sons. I would keep your virginity too since you've come this far. The young men out here are broke and social media shocked. Find and older guy. I was married at 22 to 27 year old and 12 years later I'm glad we did. I didn't miss anything out in the streets by getting married young. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/23 06:37 AM |
| 2 | How can I accept the fact that I'm a whore?All you need to do is get up every morning and do a 30 minute work out in your room. This will drastically improve your entire life. Who knows you might find a former manwhore who doesnt care. You can for sure bag a great average guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/23 04:47 PM |
| 35 | Single at 31 - how do I not freak out?Okay --- you must make your life conducive to attracting a husband and creating a family. Create a space in your home and start collecting things for your husband and children. Journal about it etc. Keep your eyes open for single men your age. Go out into the world a lot. Not clubs, but places where single men are ie FOOD! Single men are in line at the quick food places, coffee shops, sports stores. Size a guy up and if you don't see a wedding ring present yourself. "Excuse me do you know where … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/23 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youWhat are you anxious about ? That's something you could journal about to help sort your thoughts. If y'all have been together for 4 years there isn't much to be nervous about. I'm sure y'all will get married in the next year and ride off into he sunset. Your already DOING the long term relationship...... | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Pretty privilege is everywhere and is actually the strongest discrimination on earth??Being in shape, having hobbies, and genuine will take you almost as far as being conventionally pretty in the face. Many men have told me that pretty women are often BORING personality wise. Cultivate yourself , get in ripped shape and you can compete with "pretty" women too. Besides --the man for you is out there and will be attracted to you specifically for his own reasons. its not a catch all just to want "pretty" but that does attract them initially. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youYou should just ask sis. "I would love for this awesome relationship to lead to marriage, honey. Is this something you'd want to do in the next year?" You shouldnt keep waiting around for it--Yall have been together almost half a decade. Also yes you have sent mixed messages by saying you "hate weddings"--its not advised to say that to your man. It will make him apprehensive that you will reject him if he asks because you hate weddings. Even if you say "i support marriage" but still say you hate… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youThe reason to propose due to a time line is because at the 2 year mark you are already doing everything that a married couple would do without the wonderful official standing of the marriage certificate. why wait for 5 years of being together since you are living like a married couple anyway? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 03:11 PM |
| 6 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youY'all could literally buy some nice clothes and have your parents come to his new home with the justice of the peace and get on with it. I never understand people needing to wait for the marriage certificate but not living together for years.. or a baby for example. ...what difference would it make if you've already been together for years, will be living together, and he's having you move intot he house he bought? Ding ding ding just get married ! Marriage IS a stabilization tool.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youYou don't need to be financially stable. Hire a justice of the peace and ride off into the sunset. The ones who spend oddles on their wedding usually don't make it because of all the pressure...it makes you start to dislike each other. Marriage IS the stabilizer.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 03:15 AM |
| 20 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youAbsofreakinglutely. This is 100% facts. My husband met me and proposed in 3 months . We've been married for 12 years now. I do not understand all the hemming and hawing about simply signing the marriage certificate. People will play house for YEARS. Like what is the difference??!!! Your doing EVERYTHING but signing the doc ! Engagement shouldn't last more than a year. And honestly a relationship shouldnt last more than 1-2 years without a proposal. Otherwise it's just placeholder status. And you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/23 03:11 AM |
| -2 | I'm immature, anxious, and on the verge of sabotaging my relationship. What should I do 🥺It's is not very expensive and you for sure can afford it. The stuff you have going on is either going to be helped with therapy or continue to be baggage you carry through your life.. There are sliding scales for therapy based on incme. There's also virtual that's flat fee. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/23 02:51 AM |
| 5 | I'm immature, anxious, and on the verge of sabotaging my relationship. What should I do 🥺A therapist would really help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/23 05:55 PM |
| 41 | Boyfriend traveling with a female friend without telling me. Is this wrong or I'm just being over?Dump him and move on. Hes a liar and a jerk. Ive been married for 12 years. If a man will take another woman on vacation and as his plus one ---HE IS NOT SERIOUS ABOUT YOU. Redpill DOES NOT mean you sit by being submissive while a (mere bf)man takes another woman on vacation, omits the info, and then shows up to a wedding with her. Hes hooking up with her for SURE. Dont you DARE let him lie to you and convince you otherwise. Yall have to learn not to let a man tell you more than once that he doe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/23 03:52 PM |
| -7 | What are your best tips for a first date?Let him pay. Dress elegantly vs sexy. Thank him for dinner. Ask what he wants to do in the next five years. Let him know what you want in the next five years. Mention that dating these days is a bit tricky because you reserve sex until a few months after being in an official relationship. Avoid any news celebrity or political gossips. Focus on the restaurant, and asking him questions about what his days are like. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/23 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Tips for nun mode?Yea....don't freaking sleep with anyone until y'all have been an official everyday couple for at least 2 months. Keeping your legs closed vets out the jerks. No sex until in a relationship for a few months. Same advice my husband gave out daughter and she's had long relationships. It also makes things romantic. You should tell a guy upfront that you only have sex in relationships after a few months of getting to know each other. He'll know what's coming then and act accordingly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Tips for nun mode?Totally plan to date after boot camp. There is nothing wrong with dating in A school from a pool of paid, ambitious, in shape, fully std tested men. Pick a good one who wants a full relationship and enjoy the experience a serious relationship gives you to become a good wife. My daughter joined the Navy. The recruiters told her to not date on base eye roll. I'm like so you finally get into a pool of ambitious young men with money and clean physicals ...and plan on not dating? Meanwhile just meeti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/23 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Climatizing to being a RPWYep...it's very telling. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/23 12:09 AM |
| 2 | No women to share wedding planning joy withJoin some local Facebook groups. Ask if anyone is interested in helping you plan your wedding / come to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Is there a feminine „Andrew Tate Counterpart talking about similar values but only for Women online?people have been exposing her for years. I wont share links to the big threads because her stans will blow it up. https://www.tiktok.com/@jouelzy/video/7229818986479832366?_r=1&_t=8c5Jq1Sopml&social_sharing=v2 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Is there a feminine „Andrew Tate Counterpart talking about similar values but only for Women online?LOL Me and my friends have known her on social media since 2010. She doesnt own her own makeup brand---she has a company white label it then puts her own spin on it. Thats hardly a makeup brand. LOL She doesnt do anything but sit at home --so selling relabeled makeup is right up her alley. I know aloooooooot. The groups she manages are fucked up towards any women who dont kiss her narc ass too. You dont know enough lol Ill leave it at that. Knowing what i know and remember before the latest iden… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/23 05:40 PM |
| -4 | Is there a feminine „Andrew Tate Counterpart talking about similar values but only for Women online?Calm down. I stated facts. AT has large businesses, has a specific skill set, and is wealthy. Y'all waste so much time saying ridiculous stuff. Where did I mAkE hIm sOunD goOd...by stating facts... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/23 01:18 PM |
| -14 | Is there a feminine „Andrew Tate Counterpart talking about similar values but only for Women online?She is nothing like AT LOL. She has no large businesses, doesn't have a huge skill (martial arts) nor is she wealthy like AT. Her husband is very much older than her, and she admits she married him for money. His previous wife had issues with Shera acting funny wth the step child. She's called him ugly and old...says she doesn't care about him, refused to cook for him....they had a screaming match on live one time where he over heard her talking shit about him...and said okay let's get a divorce… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/23 10:01 PM |
| 17 | Is there a feminine „Andrew Tate Counterpart talking about similar values but only for Women online?Oh hell no. Shera is a grifter. And her marriage is NOTHING to be advising from. The women I know who followed her back in 2010 when she was her real self would die laughing at her for a suggestion. She's a chameleon that just says whatever to get superchats. Her marriage has had cheating, almost divorce, previous wife issues, screaming matches on live....she's called him ugly and old.....she's def not a respectable wife...unless that's who she's masquerading as these days 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Having a hard time biting my tongue recently.Its okay to use common sense and take the lead in day to day decisions. What you are asking is if you should hold your intelligence back for the sake of some idealized dynamic. No just be feminine while making decisions. For sure go and ask the neighbors where the mailbox is. You could say to him I'm going over to chat with the neighbors, did you want to come with me? Then to chat with them and find out the info. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/23 06:01 PM |
| 3 | how do i level up in terms of getting my career and school life together? i really need someone older than me to guide meFind a mentor in person. Listen to Dan Pena about mentors. Someone in person, has one thing in common to do together, much older, living the life you hope to have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/23 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Those of you who have no personal income and stay home with your kids, what does your financial situation look like?My DH pays all the bills with his income. I work part time from home at the company I worked for before becoming a SAHM. I can buy whatever I want at any given time. No need to ask permission but of course I talk with my husband first if it's something big. However I'm frugal so it's usually not anything major. Since it's my line of work and area of expertise, I personally created and maintain a balance and flow sheet of our finances. I report to him all of it in detail, though he likes to know … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/23 12:18 AM |
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