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DiscussionSen_ri/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:02 PM
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But people here don’t all believe in RP theories. You’re not describing me at all for example. I really just like arguing sometimes. It lets me release stress I think. I see some normal people here and some strange ones. The reason I know about this place is because I was reading a lot about feminism in college then I saw anti feminist rhetoric which led to manosphere and red pill being criticized. If you spend enough time on Reddit you come across these things. Edit: I actually didn’t start com…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:23 PM
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Leonardo DiCaprio isn’t attractive to me. He looked best in his 20’s. I saw some guy here mention this and now I have to agree. Men go bald, a lot fairly early even, they can’t age well if they go bald. Something like half of men in their 40’s are balding. Younger women are not into balding guys for the most part. Being a sugar baby is transactional sex. It’s like being a call girl but also going on dates and recieving gifts. Relationships based on money have nothing to do with actual attraction…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:18 PM
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What makes someone successful at dating? There are plenty of people here in LTR’s and I’d consider that successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:55 AM
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It’s mostly leaning red and black pill https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/l9lvs0/ppd_2021_survey/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:43 AM
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I was a virgin until 26 and prefer low n men. I have a low sex drive and am pretty picky with who I like romantically. I have a strong preference for short guys. My boyfriend is 5’6’’ and small framed. I really like how close in size we are. I’m certainly an outlier but I don’t think much of TRP applies to the majority. Like hypergamy is a thing. But AF/BB is referring to a subset. People these days marry for love more often than they used to. RP men seem bitter like FDS women do. Hating on peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:29 AM
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You could say the same for a really attractive inexperienced guy. But after a certain age people see it as a negative trait to be a virgin. People will wonder what’s wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:29 PM
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There are guys in the comments saying they want an experienced woman. You never heard about virgins being too much work? Like the idea they will be clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:14 PM
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Not true. Older virgins are not valued. Late 20’s as a virgin is routinely considered strange for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:12 PM
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Based on being a virgin until 26 as a woman I was not prized. Teenagers are heavily conflated with virginity. So most guys who say they prefer virgins are really thinking about teenagers because an older woman as a virgin is thought to be strange. I don’t know about Japan being a good example for what you mean. Because virginity rates in Japan are very high for men and women. Like 1/4 of adults in their 20’s and 30’s. A culture that simultaneously encourages virginity and promiscuity cannot exis…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:38 PM
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https://dqydj.com/body-fat-percentage-comparison-calculator-by-age/ Here’s a comparison tool to the average person at different ages. It also depends on method of measurement. A fit woman by calipers is 21-24% and by DEXA she is 26-29%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:50 AM
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Eh, Tess is an outlier if you look at the top plus size models. And some of them actually look fit https://www.vogue.com.au/fashion/news/these-are-the-most-famous-and-highest-paid-plussize-models-in-the-world/image-gallery/c56069b238e0213987a53beb4a392376
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:23 PM
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What are you arguing about exactly? I’ll keep commenting on things that seem somewhat relevant to me regardless. I’m just confused by what you’re getting at. Feel free to ignore me I guess. https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/03/on-late-in-life-virginity-loss/284412/ Age 25-29 virgins are 5% also so it’s not as rare as you seem to think. It depends on social circles I’m sure. Edit: By your post history you’re an extreme outlier yourself. Just on the opposite end of me. I don’t think …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:39 PM
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I see a lot of people saying skinny is back in or something along those lines. Tiktok is specifically notorious these days for allowing pro anorexia content to thrive. Tumblr used to be the place you’d see that most but they cracked down on thinspo content. Even when ‘thick’ was most popular it was all about being ‘slim thick’ so still having a small waist was valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:35 PM
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Should I not participate here? I’ve seen older virgins comment here without such scrutiny or is it because an older woman virgin is too strange for you? I’m a truly selective person. It’s contradictory to me that people here imply women are super selective and then say how that leads to AF/BB. I don’t understand their logic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:55 PM
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No it wouldn’t make him more attractive. He would seem more like a potential friend maybe. Edit: I wouldn’t be surprised if women who think otherwise were more likely to be involved in an affair. Affairs makes me first think about a husband stepping out on his wife with a woman who knows he’s married. I wonder if that scenario is truly more common though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:31 PM
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Humans seem most often predisposed to serial monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:24 PM
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Women can tell y’all about their desires all they want and you don’t want to listen anyway. We’re presumed to be liars. I’ve never seen AF/BB occur IRL. So I don’t think it’s common. I’m very selective. I was a virgin until 26 because no one was actually striking desire in me until I got to know my current boyfriend. We committed to each other quickly and have a great sex life. He is extremely attractive to me and would make a wonderful father. He is everything I’d want personally. Plenty of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:40 PM
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Madonna whore complex is the male equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:28 AM
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Why do you speak in absolutes? What do you think of all the average height guys in relationships? I prefer men around my height personally. It may be an unpopular opinion but its weird how you guys insist women like me don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:44 PM
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I think you underestimate the difference in strength between men and women. My boyfriend is 5’6’’ and clearly stronger than me at 5’4’’ and we’re both around 125lbs. And I like lifting. It seems that a lot of women have this misconception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:57 PM
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Any other military people here? I’ve been thinking about the ways relationships are different in the military. I assume my specific rate has some unique differences compared to others. I’m curious about others observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:21 PM
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Don’t rush things. You’re in high school and everyone is just figuring themselves out at that time. Around 18 is when young people these days first have sex. It’s common for people to have their first serious relationship at college age. I wasn’t in a serious relationship until 26. I’m glad I took all the time I needed to consider what I really wanted out of a relationship. I didn’t have sex until I actually wanted to because I was super attracted to a certain guy and we committed to each other …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:38 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qrxjwd/despite_trpers_desperately_wanting_it_to_be_true/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:59 PM
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Have you actually met women with little sexual experience and seen who they marry? Virgins until marriage have a strong preference for other virgins. Promiscuous men marry promiscuous women. It comes across as delusional to ignore this reality. I’ve only been with one man. I found it admirable that he was celibate for a couple years before dating me. Indicated he had self control to my mind. Promiscuous men are a turnoff to sexually conservative women. If you really look you’d see it was apparen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:20 AM
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https://www.bustle.com/articles/180845-what-its-like-to-lose-your-virginity-according-to-3000-college-women This random readers survey found over 50 percent of women said it hurt when they lost their virginity, although only 35 percent bled. This makes sense to me because I know that the hymen can tear from non sexual activity and it can be no blood or pain during sex for the first time when the woman is relaxed and they take things slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:35 AM
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Obviously, one of the most common reasons for premarital abstinence is religion, and NSFG data support such an interpretation.2 Figure 2 shows that women who marry as virgins are far more likely than other women to attend church at least once a week. It’s also noteworthy that virgin marriages increasingly became the domain of religious women between the 1980s and 2000s—and during the same years, the divorce rate for virgin brides continued to drop. These findings make sense in light of the fact …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:05 AM
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Really? I was an older virgin and literally no one pressured me to have sex. The reason most women have sex the first time out of pressure it’s coming from a boyfriend. I don’t think peer pressure is as significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:54 AM
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The guys quoted are just examples
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:20 AM
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Virgin women aren’t blank slates. A younger more sheltered woman might be more impressionable but even she has life experiences impacting her expectations in a relationship. I had some expectations when I started having sex. I read enough to know what was normal. I wasn’t naive or open to whatever was suggested to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:19 AM
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As an introverted, quiet, risk averse woman I rarely went on dates and didn’t start my first serious relationship until 26. Whenever I had tried dating before it didn’t sit well with me. I wasn’t really into it. I’m glad I was single before because I wouldn’t have been invested in a relationship back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:01 PM
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What age does the average man in the modern world want to get married? Wouldn’t it be late 20’s to early 30’s? But virginity is highly associated with teenagers, so I don’t think many men are thinking about virginity and marriage outside of a religious context. Considering most guys would like to have their time ‘playing the field’ I don’t think virginity is very valued. If they cared they would have married their high school sweetheart. https://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_60/82_dating_advic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:35 PM
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Because you control for confounding variables if you’re trying to answer a question like this of course. If they didn’t control for race it would obfuscate the relationship between political association. If Black conservatives were thinner than Black liberals they could detect that though. The result isn’t a large difference. But it’s not surprising to me because the red states are generally more obese than the blue states.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:51 AM
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The chance of pregnancy from one act of sex is low. Women ovulate at different times and even during ovulation it’s like 30% chance. a single act of intercourse between a young couple has on average a one in 20 chance of pregnancy That aside if you you already know that 50 women and 1 man results in more pregnancies than 50 men and 1 woman then you should understand why women are valued more. Women are the bottleneck to reproduction. Men are more easily replaceable in their role.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:38 AM
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After controlling for poverty rate, percent African American and Latino populations, educational attainment, and spatial autocorrelation in the error term, we found that higher county-level obesity prevalence rates were associated with higher levels of support for the 2012 Republican Party presidential candidate. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4692249/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:07 AM
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That’s a common opinion among women with low partner counts. There’s evidence showing promiscuous people settle down with each other and low partner count people with each other. Think about the repercussions of what you’re saying. If women like promiscuous men they wouldn’t have a low partner count for very long at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:30 PM
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If that were true why does the average woman find casual sex less enjoyable than relationship sex? Like they report less orgasms. A subset of women enjoy casual sex more. I think your perspective is skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:44 PM
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I enjoy porn more than my boyfriend for sure, he thinks it’s too fake usually, so yeah I wouldn’t care. I also cannot be with him very much due to work so watching porn to facilitate masturbation is what I’d expect to occur. I’m pretty sure more conservative folks care about that which is interesting because conservative states watch the most porn. There’s this fear about ignoring your partner in favor of porn. I find that hard to relate to because real life sex is so much better. I would assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:44 AM
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Why don’t you just join some ultra religious group like Mormonism? You can exist in a subculture that shares similar beliefs to you. Would you be upset by people in your ideal world still hooking up just not having PIV? Because that’s what a lot folks do already. Also child support in marriage is not a thing, so by removing child support and birth control you would place a huge amount of children into poverty. Or into families with parents that resent one another so not a very loving home. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:22 AM
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Yeah I wouldn’t date a guy like that. With my boyfriend I didn’t ask about his history very much but wanted to get an idea of how experienced he was. It appealed to me that he wasn’t looking for a relationship or hookups for a couple years until meeting me. It made me think he has self control and won’t cheat on me out of some impulsive thing. I want a guy who takes relationships seriously. And I’d prefer someone being comfortable single the way I was comfortable with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:21 PM
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Only to the very young lol. Based on the last survey largest age group here is 18-24 (38.7%) then 25-30 (31.3%). 50’s is getting old to me and 7.9% were over 40 here. Maybe older people are more active in comments though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:03 PM
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I personally would like casting to be based more on talent than looks. I don’t see the need to be historically accurate for fictional stories. What did you think about the Avatar movie Shyamalan did where people were upset about the cast of white kids? The casting didn’t bother me due to looks but due to the talent being meh. When I found out the main character of the movie 21 was based on a real person it rubbed me the wrong way that his character was made White instead of Asian. This is primar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:51 PM
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I would worry about being fetishized, a guy just wanting to have sex, and the prospect of sex being painful or not pleasurable. I think choosing the right partner is it’s own struggle as well. I don’t see what’s good about going on lots of dates that lead to no relationship. When I tried OLD I found it not worth the time to talk and meet with people just for it to go nowhere. I gave up quickly because it was too exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:51 PM
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I’ve had crushes on guys considered unconventionally attractive. My boyfriend would have to look hot to me. I wouldn’t want to have sex if I didn’t feel attracted to him. What other people think could just be annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:21 PM
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27F with my boyfriend at 26
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:29 AM
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I don’t think being 5’7’’ is that bad for dating. It’s a real struggle to be the average height of a woman as a man. My BF is 5’6’’. I prefer shorter guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:40 PM
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So you had virgin GFs and it didn’t work out. That’s what they said. That finding a virgin to settle down with is hard because you need to be compatible as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:50 PM
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That’s not how that works. How many times a day can a man ejaculate before sperm quantity is depleted? 3 or 4 times a day apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:10 AM
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Polygyny encourages serial monogamy in men. Serial monogamy increases reproductive success in men but not in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:53 PM
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Think about this logically. If more men approach you then more low quality men approach as well. I don’t think quality relationships fall into anyone’s lap aside from just being lucky. Too many people get taken advantage of, so it’s necessary for everyone to be vetting potential partners. Also many beautiful people meet LTRs at social events which is still the case for folks in general. If you struggle to get dates you’ll have to be more social and put yourself out there. As an introvert that’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:18 PM
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The researchers phrased it as slightly above average. 5-6’’ is average so pretty common. 6-7’’ is above average so not unusual. 7-8’’ is large and seems more what people think of as pornstar penis. If you think of 6-7’’ as large I guess I see your perspective better. I still think the amount of women who prefer average is significant and shouldn’t be accused of trying to look nice or something. Because women’s vaginas vary in size as well and that’ll impact preferences as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:36 PM
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You think women who go to sex parties are representative? I would think women looking for porn star sized guys would be more likely to show up though. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4558040/ Here’s a study that found women preferred slightly above average sized. But a bit bigger for ONS. To be frank I can see most women being into the novelty of it but a significantly larger penis makes sex more difficult with needing more fore play. And the significant amount of women who say they…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:19 PM
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They already date each other. People into hookups tend to settle down with one of those hookups. I’ve only been with 1 guy. Promiscuous men are a turnoff to me. We wouldn’t be able to click.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:29 PM
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I notice people that are good looking regularly. They’re not frequently my type exactly though. The physical traits I like in a guy are close to my height, lean, physically fit, shaggy hair, big eyes, bubble butt, wide shoulders. My boyfriend doesn’t have all that but potentially could so he’s pretty ideal for me physically. I wouldn’t say I feel attracted to anyone without getting to know them first though. I have to feel safe and relaxed around them first. I like that he engages in witty bante…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:24 AM
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There is more consensus for what men find attractive. Why do you think plastic surgery is way more common among women? If a certain look wasn’t popular for attracting men I don’t think so many women would be getting plastic surgery. Like why do young women choose to get breast implants? Or Brazilian butt lift? Y’all complain a lot about height standards here but even that doesn’t appear to be a consensus on what attracts women. Most women have a wide range of heights they find attractive. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:54 PM
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Women have lower sex drive than men on average correct? Therefore, average women want less sex than average men. As much sex as women want is not the same as what men want. As far as I can tell a similar amount of men and women engage in casual sex. But frequent sex comes with relationships for the average person. Personally left to my own devices my sex drive seems low but peaks a couple times throughout a month. With my boyfriend he just knows how to get me in the mood for sex so I’m intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:42 PM
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Are you trolling? Monogamy is expected. Any other arrangements are outside the norm. I’ve mostly heard of polyamorous couples where they both have boyfriend/girlfriend on the side or both have sex with another women. Never heard of what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:17 PM
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https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2378023121996854?__cf_chl_jschl_tk__=4YIXBvjbYLOxJsBmfodj3LznR3.2X6RYqkxuPFsuolU-1639508387-0-gaNycGzNB-U The decline in casual sex is apparent for both women and men. In 2007, 31 percent of the young unpartnered women reported having sexual intercourse during the past month, but in 2017 only 22 percent did so. The percentage of men who reported engaging in casual sex dropped from 38 percent in 2007 to 24 percent in 2017.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:06 PM
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But women are a minority in OLD so more young women are meeting guys IRL. 76.9% of Tinder users in 2020 were male.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:44 PM
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If casual sex leaves more than 80% of women and 60% of men left not completely satisfied why is that considered the prize? Seems more like a gamble. They think this could be really fun but more likely it’ll be disappointing is the reality. Especially for women. A minority get more enjoyment from casual sex than relationship sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:05 PM
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This study is really meh. It’s just asking if given only attractiveness as a description would they hookup. It compares men to women. Not women’s choice for casual or LTR. I’d be curious now to see how men and women compare for this question in terms of an LTR. Why do y’all think temporary coupling is more valuable? If women frequently express sexual dissatisfaction with casual sex then why would that be considered preferable sex to most women? Reality is that most women have better sex in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:23 AM
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That varies by race and includes couples that don’t raise the child together so a lot of single moms. I found 2008 data saying 28% of unwed women who gave birth within a year were cohabiting. For all racial and ethnic groups combined, 39.6 percent of births in the United States were out-of-wedlock. For blacks, the number is 69.4 percent; for American Indians/Alaska Natives, 68.2 percent (Native Hawaiians/Other Pacific Islanders were at 50.4 percent); for Hispanics, 51.8 percent; for whites, 28.2…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:30 PM
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I know it happens but I wouldn’t say it’s typical. Seems more like how people act when dating than in an LTR. And I don’t think that’s surprising with dating since it’s been made pretty casual. My first thought is that this is like the female equivalent of pump and dump. If she’s always just stringing you along after the honeymoon period ends you need to look for women who take relationships more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:00 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4b6ruz/male_promiscuity_and_infidelity_turns_out_male/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:37 AM
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Leftist are more likely to be pro legalization. Conservatives are least likely to be pro legalization. The most likely to be against it are conservative women. It’s a topic big politicians aren’t entertaining because they are an older generation like 60 on average and the most Americans are pro criminalization. When you think about it why would conservative women be in favor? Liberal feminist include the pro sex types as well. Not the case for conservative women. Also US Congress is very Christi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:27 PM
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I’m a woman. I guess I’m blue pill. I’m in the military so it’s like 80% men in general and for my rate it’s like 90%. Most of my friends here are guys. I talk normally around them. I think my friends share your viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:54 PM
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Most women are with average height men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:37 PM
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27F 1. My BF had at least a few other partners. It came up a bit because I brought up my lack of experience. I guess over a couple dozen would make me question things. I just wouldn’t want to date a player who doesn’t take relationships seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:36 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4b6ruz/male_promiscuity_and_infidelity_turns_out_male/ People I know IRL aren’t worried about the past. They care about if they click as a couple. I only started seeing fast marriages since I joined the military. They just want the quick benefits and don’t worry about the consequences of a failed marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:12 PM
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Data shows promiscuous men and women are more likely to cheat. It applies to both. Most normal people don’t think about these things though. Divorce is less common among millennials than older generations because people are waiting to marry at later ages. https://time.com/5434949/divorce-rate-children-marriage-benefits/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:20 PM
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The idea that a majority of women want 20% of men is bullshit. This is the crux of my disagreement. What a minority of women into casual sex want is not the same thing as what most women want. When you’re talking about women into casual sex you’re talking about 20% of women. As a woman with 0 interest in casual sex. What promiscuous people do is irrelevant to me. I think you’re not gathering that I’m talking about LTR what women desire varies broadly. I’m not trying to convince you that 5’6’’ gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:02 PM
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Your claim applies to men as well. I haven’t met any men IRL that care about this stuff. I have seen plenty of women who are/were porn actresses or only fans models get married to know it doesn’t matter that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:34 PM
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If average height women are in relationships with average height men by and large I don’t see how that proves most women want tall men. Average height woman in the US is 5’3.8’’ and man is 5’9.3’’. 5’6’’ man is 13.1 percentile. 5’0.4’’ woman is 11.2 percentile. You’re treating an average difference in height like a minimum requirement which is silly. The min is below the average just like the max is above the average. A little under 10% of couples had a 0-5cm difference or a 25-30cm difference. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:14 PM
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Most want taller men. I see an average height difference between couples was found to be 5.6’’ which is like the average difference in height between men and women. More men want casual sex than women do. This causes the disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:59 AM
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This is why the 80/20 stuff as described here is silly. I’ve only ever been strongly attracted to one man and he’s 5’6’’. Preferences can vary quite a bit among women. The 80/20 thing doesn’t make sense for describing attraction broadly. It makes more sense for describing who gets the most casual sex. I’ve seen it apply to men and women though, that a minority have the most casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:41 AM
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I disagree with your idea of traditional men. I think traditional men are providers, protectors, assertive, aggressive, and a leader. Most people are employed, so I don’t know why you specify that then say high earning. The other things lean towards gender dimorphism, like things that differentiate men from women. I don’t think modern women want traditional men because some women are comfortable taking on that role partially or fully. Your idea of traditional women is also odd. A traditional wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:39 PM
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Where do y’all see this? I see a survey found 39% of heterosexual couples met online. So a majority met offline. And meeting online included things like through friends on Facebook. Meeting through friends is the most popular way committed relationships begin. I met my boyfriend offline and we had some friends in common. I’m around a lot of folks in their 20’s. Of the committed relationships a significant majority met offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:53 PM
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You’re not talking about modern times. JUNE 13, 2019 – About 61.6% of men (74.7 million men) age 15 and over are fathers, and of those, 72.2 million men have a biological child, according to a new Men's Fertility and Fatherhood: 2014 report released today by the U.S. Census Bureau.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:19 PM
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That’s not true. I see a survey found 39% of heterosexual couples met online. So a majority met offline. And meeting online included things like through friends on Facebook. Meeting through friends is the most popular way committed relationships begin. I met my boyfriend offline and we had some friends in common. I’m around a lot of folks in their 20’s. Of the committed relationships a significant majority met offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:37 PM
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Guy #2 Honestly neither is the type I would pick but #1 is too promiscuous and incompatible with me. He’s a guy from a romance novel that doesn’t appeal to me. I have no interest in that kind of lifestyle. #2 has traits more similar to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:56 PM
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I’m INTJ. BF is ISFP. I am more argumentative and he is more neurotic. I try to logic through things and he is more passionate. We tend to conflict on me wanting to make solid plans and him wanting to keep things open-ended. I feel like we agree on most things though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:24 AM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-real-housewives-of-america-dads-income-and-moms-work Plenty of mothers are stay at home moms. They’re just not the majority. Most mothers want to do at least part time work, they are not being forced to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:54 AM
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Average lifespan is 78 vs ~69 in the 50’s. We’re not doing terrible these days. Some people just aren’t traditional conservative minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:08 AM
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I always thought people here exaggerated the differences between men and women. But I think you’re doing what you’re accusing others of doing. If men and women have different sex drives on average then of course interest in casual sex wouldn’t be the same. ~1/3 of women say they’ve been on a date and felt pressured for sex. Men and women both want commitment but there’s a gendered difference in timing. Younger women have a higher percentage wanting commitment now. I believe this is also shown in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:18 PM
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These are weird questions. Most attention I’ve gotten from guys are ones I’m not interested in. A couple guys I wanted a second date with didn’t respond to me. I’m pretty sure that’s normal. Also when dating apps are a sausage fest I don’t understand how guys are surprised by the outcome. But the title made me think of how Susan Boyle is doing. So turns out she was diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome as an adult, cared for her mother in her family’s home until she died. She lost weight after being …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:24 PM
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Unmarried women are more democrat. Married women are more even. Married white women lean republican. In 2008 and 2012, Barack Obama stirred passions in many corners as the first African American presidential nominee. His biography may also have spoken to unmarried women, as he was raised by a single mother. Obama won 70 percent of unmarried women and 74 percent of single mothers in his first victory over John McCain, and then 67 percent of unmarried women and 75 percent of single mothers in his …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:20 AM
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Yeah. I guess my interest in sex is based on me wanting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:22 PM
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I don’t looksmax myself so it’s never been something I prioritized in others. I always liked guys who were funny. I have to become friends with someone before I like them. I assume looks matter more for hookups. I remember reading that women on average preferred taller guys for hookups compared to long term relationships. Edit: I think I should mention I tend to like guys around my looks level. I think that’s typical for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:08 PM
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Help & FAQs How is the face beauty measured or calculated? PrettyScale measures the face beauty by studying and testing the placement and sizes of different face features. The results are based on the face shape, distance between eyes and lips, mouth size and face symmetry. Sometimes golden ratio is also used in determining the results. Results can be different based on how you place lines and dots on your face according to instructions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:20 PM
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https://www.prettyscale.com/ Came across this again and thought of y’all :) Me and BF got 77% and 74% face. We are actually looks matched. I don’t believe this works very well though. It probably depends on how nice your photo is. What do y’all think?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:12 PM
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You don’t want to be with a guy chasing youthful women. Those guys will leave you for younger women. Look at Leonardo DiCaprio. Relationships that last are based on more than looks. Everybody gets older. Most women don’t worry about that until ~30 though. You’re definitely overreacting. This subreddit will do that. People here have extreme opinions on dating. You gotta go out there and get your own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:00 AM
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His parents didn’t mind us sharing a room. That seems to be common these days but it depends on culture. Because a lot of people are less religious these days. My Christian family would be more traditional about sleeping arrangements.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:07 AM
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Average US man is middle aged making 66k a year. 5’9’’ 200lbs. Average US woman is middle aged making 52k a year. 5’3.5’’ 171lbs. A BMI ~30 is common. That’s the line for obesity. 42.5% of adults 20 and over are obese with prevalence being the highest for middle aged folks. I don’t believe everyone wants to date average people. I personally wouldn’t date an average person because I’m not average. Me and my boyfriend are 125-130lbs. I’m 5’4’’ and he’s 5’6’’. For our age (late 20’s) we’re ~68 perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:44 PM
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A primary reason for Bi phobia is people assuming bisexual men don’t exists. They are though of like gay men. And they assume bisexual people can’t be monogamous. If the primary reason is jealousy then it’s called being insecure. One woman at Pride last year assumed I was gay. When I clarified my sexuality, she went into a long monologue about how she is "too jealous and insecure" to date a bisexual man. She told me how worrying about other women was stressful enough, and she wouldn’t be able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:43 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:00 PM
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Who do you think promiscuous women are having sex with? I’m pretty sure it’s the promiscuous men. Women with little experience are looking for an LTR not hookups. Or else they’d have more experience you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:43 PM
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The surveys I’ve seen on partner count shows men and women agree on a few partners as ideal for LTR. Women and men believe a more promiscuous partner is more likely to cheat so not ideal for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:33 PM
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You never heard the term fuckboy? I see that used as an insult all the time. I remember the Jonas Brothers having purity rings and a large teen girl fan base. Is virgin shaming something a lot of men do to each other? Because I see slut/fuckboy shaming as more common. I really can’t remember the last time I saw something about virgin shaming. I’m from the US but maybe it’s different for white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:16 PM
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Most men would prefer a virgin woman to a non virgin. Most women would prefer a non virgin man to a virgin man. This is just basic observable reality. I don’t think this is true at all based on my observations. Most of my friends are guys and they don’t want to marry virgins. Guys in this sub are not representative, honestly more insecure people here. Virgin women prefer virgin men or a guy who’s been in a few LTR’s not promiscuous men is the However, perhaps surprisingly, the two sexes agreed o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:42 PM
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I’m bisexual and I honestly used to think I’d prefer to date women. Thought guys had weird expectations. But my first relationship ended up being with a guy. He’s a lot like me personality wise so we clicked. Just a straight guy. I think people here are prone to over analyzing. And I remain unconvinced these things apply to most straight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:06 PM
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You’re not responding to their argument here. Most women want a guy within a few years older. They never said all women want twinks. Women want beauty and a provider. Male desirability to women peaks in the late 20s and does not fall below the average for all men until 36. Other research indicates that women, irrespective of their own age, are attracted to men who are the same age or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:56 AM
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Response to large age gaps is largely just disgust. If your partner is old enough to be your parent people find that to be off-putting. Most people assume the younger one is a sugar baby/ gold digger. The larger the gap the more people assume it’s not a serious relationship. According to a 2014 study from Emory University, couples with a one-year age difference have a mere three percent chance of getting divorced. When you bump the age gap up to five years, the chance of divorce goes up to 18 pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:12 AM
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I don’t find RP describes me at all. I got my first boyfriend when I was 26. No interest in casual sex. I see these guys as hyper focused on a subset of women and trying to make broad generalizations based on anecdotes. Reality is that promiscuous women are having lots of sex with other promiscuous men. Ages 20-24: Among women, 35% had had 0-1 partner, 29% had had 2-4 partners, 23% had had 5-9 partners, and 13% had had 10+ partners. Among men, 32% had had 0-1 partner, 25% had had 2-4 partners, 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:36 PM
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https://morningconsult.com/2021/02/11/online-dating-stigma-amid-pandemic/ This says couples meeting through apps increased from 10% to 13% from 2018 to 2021. Based on the gen z sentiments towards online dating being less positive than millennials and women having a slight negative perception I don’t think your predictions are realistic. I’m a young millennial woman and have a dislike for dating apps. I met my boyfriend in 2020 through work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:57 AM
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No quality is better if you intend to marry one guy. There are a lot of guys that I don’t care if they find me attractive. What’s the value in that? I would never date an older guy for example. Personally this is part of why I didn’t like online dating. Wading through a bunch of poor matches felt like a waste of time. I’ve only had one relationship. So my perspective on things is to be very selective. I want something to last, not interested in serial monogamy to find the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:18 PM
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Traveling around the world is not practical for everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:13 PM
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I don’t see how that’s relevant. I never watched that movie but recall plenty of people making fun of instead of celebrating it. The movie has a poor rotten tomatoes score. So I don’t think most people liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:21 PM
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https://www.yourfertility.org.au/everyone/age They’re being hypocritical about fertility with men and women. Men over 40 have always been having kids, and well the same is true for over 35 women. That’s just the point fertility declines for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:39 AM
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I just get annoyed with people conflating a birth in your early 30’s with a birth in your late 30’s. I also believe obese women have higher risk pregnancies than healthy women in their late 30’s. Also it’s weird when people make it seem like a new thing. Because women have been having geriatric pregnancies for centuries. They just started earlier in the 1700’s for example so ended up with 10 kids total giving birth between 20-40 years old. We all know that most men like college age women. And we…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:12 AM
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Everyone knows young pretty women get the most attention. You don’t need tons of attention for a successful relationship though. Personally I don’t see the appeal of quantity. I just needed one person that I fell in love with. Quantity is better if you want to play the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:28 AM
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30 is not a geriatric pregnancy. It’s a normal age for pregnancy. No increased risk. Your reasoning about number of eggs is faulty. Young teens have a lot of eggs and increased risk with pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:00 AM
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Women at 30 are childbearing age. Before puberty we were losing 10,000 eggs a month. We had 1-2mil eggs at birth. 300-400k at puberty (~12 years old). So we lose most eggs before childbearing age. After puberty it slows down. Then late 30’s is a significant drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:27 AM
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They do. Age difference actually increases for older couples. https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/whats-the-average-age-difference-in-a-couple/ IDK why guys here insist women over 30 have a hard time because women in their 20’s are more desirable. The older a guy is the less desirable he is to young women. A 10 year gap is more practical so you’re likely to see 20’s with 30’s and 30’s with 40’s. Also there are just way more older men than there are young women. And you have to consider that mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:11 AM
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Nah. If your theory was correct then female CEO’s would earn more on average wouldn’t they? But that’s not the case, they earn less on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:11 PM
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Well if that’s how he feels then he shouldn’t lie about it. I don’t think people should force themselves into monogamy if that’s not what they want. More people are into open relationships these days so there are a lot of people out there not into monogamy and dating each other. Cheating on someone and being deceptive shows disrespect to their significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:31 PM
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You should ask this sort of question to men too. I don’t find fat guys attractive so I wouldn’t date a guy I’m not attracted to. I don’t want to be with any guy who’d go behind my back if he just had the chance instead of being honest with me. All people should be honest about whether or not they want monogamy. My boyfriend is skinny and says he’s not interested in non-monogamy. That’s just another thing we match up on. It seems like more of a hassle than appealing to us. I don’t think men are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:51 PM
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Incel communities full of young single men seem way more miserable to me. And the depressed wife in the suburbs on antidepressants is a thing. Is there any data showing single women are more likely to be depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:10 PM
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I’ve seen way more men be shamed for simping, especially IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:43 PM
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But women settle down at an earlier age than men do. And the picky women aren’t jumping between guys, they are staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:34 PM
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I don’t think it matters if 10% of women in their late 20’s like to date guys in their 40’s because the same sort of gap will apply to the 35 year old women. Like 10% of 35 year olds dating guys in their 50’s. Most women want to date guys around their age at every age group. So wouldn’t the ones who like to date older also exist in every age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:17 AM
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You watch too much porn. The average vagina is said to be 4.5in. Most women are not size queens. It’s actually painful to have sex with a penis that’s too large for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:30 PM
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A little above or below my height of 5’4’’. But I haven’t met many guys shorter than me. I’ve only had one relationship and my BF is 5’6’’
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:52 AM
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Well I prefer short men and never like chiseled features. I prefer a beautiful looking guy to the handsome guys. The desirability of women dating online peaks at 18 and for men it peaks at 50. So men of the widest age range are messaging the 18 year olds. I don’t see how a bunch of women having a fixation on tall men is any different from a bunch of men having a fixation on young women. In reality people don’t date based on singular traits of a spouse. Actually what do you have to say about the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:32 AM
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Yes. Currently. I came across this sub years ago when I was looking into anti feminist views. I didn’t stick around then because I had nothing to say about dating when I was single. I suppose I come here recently out of boredom. I’m curious about the thought process of other people and it’s engaging to read threads here except for when it gets repetitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:02 AM
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People literally die sleeping on the street. It’s not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:34 PM
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How can someone be a failure of a woman? Also how can someone be a failure of a man? My relationship developed naturally and had nothing to do with following any tenants or strategy for dating. That sort of thing just doesn’t appeal to some folks. I don’t understand why people glamorize the past. Relationships of the past had just as many difficulties. Those relationships of the past are where most divorces come from. https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2018-09-25/millennials-are-causing-the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:05 PM
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Over 20 is not a boy anymore though. I understood older to mean relative so like 20-30 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:59 PM
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In nearly half the births (49%) to mothers ages 15-17, the father is 20 or older; fewer than one in five of these births involve fathers under age 18. For the youngest mothers, under age 15, there are few births, but more than half of fathers are over 18 and more than one-fourth are 20 and older.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:22 PM
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https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/sjop.12631 Overall, unattractive participants judged themselves to be of about average attractiveness and they showed very little awareness that strangers do not share this view. In contrast, attractive participants had more insights into how attractive they actually are. If anything, they underestimated their attractiveness. Overestimating your attractiveness is not specific to women. Men do the same thing. Why do all the guys on dating apps send…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:07 PM
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They take a lot more pictures than what they post. Gotta get the perfect shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:11 PM
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I had no interest in having sex as a teen. Wanted a relationship at the end of college but dating was awkward. My first feelings of lust was at the age of 26. I was just fine with masturbation until then, but suddenly I was really fixated on this guy. In the infatuation stage with my BF we would spend weekends having sex multiple times a day. I had the impression that the average woman reaches her sexual peak in her 30’s. Meaning more sexually satisfied. Because it seems to take time for women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:32 PM
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I think it’s good to match up with people you’re compatible with. Just avoid people that don’t share your priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:15 PM
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I’m confused because it seems like we agree. I said there is overlap but I really don’t think most of the women talking about emotional connections were into casual sex. Saying you need a connection is different from making yourself wait an arbitrary amount of time. Yeah The reason they change is because their priorities changed. Filtering out guys who prioritize sex is their objective if they have an arbitrary time to wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:55 PM
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If you tried some new food and hated it you’re going to avoid that food from now on. Why would she keep doing something she didn’t enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:48 PM
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She didn’t say she had an arbitrary time to wait. She doesn’t want to have sex until she feels comfortable with that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:41 PM
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I don’t think the women who have one night stands and the women who say they need to develop an emotional connection before sex are the same and people can change overtime. There’s overlap but I don’t think that’s the case for most. A lot of women have tried casual sex and found it unfulfilling so that’s one reason for people to change overtime how they approach relationships. I see one survey saying 66% of people had at least 1 one night stand and 81% of the women were dissatisfied by their exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:12 PM
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I want to support him and make him feel better. I have seen him crying and angry crying. I don’t like to see him being angry but he’s back to himself pretty quickly if he just lets it all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:54 PM
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I hit puberty a little before my 14th birthday. In high school I looked more like a middle schooler. Now that I’m in my late 20’s I seem like I’m ~20 to other people. When I was in school a few guys showed interest but I wasn’t very responsive. I just wasn’t interested in romantic relationships for a while. I’m glad I didn’t get into relationships earlier. But it was difficult for me to start trying to date in my mid 20’s. I was really lost and unsure what I wanted. I’m happy with my current rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:19 PM
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It is estimated that, in the United States, 47.8% of people aged 14–49 have HSV-1, while 11.9% of Americans in the same age group have HSV-2 (Herpes Simplex Virus, 2017) Most people that get it are asymptomatic so you really never know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:18 AM
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I’ve never used tinder. I asked my current boyfriend to go out with me. He assumed I just wanted to be friends so I let him know I wanted to go out. Men swipe right just to maximize numbers and increase chances of a date. I don’t see the point in that. Quality over quantity makes more sense. It’s something like less than 10% of women who are comfortable approaching a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:10 PM
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Everyone doesn’t think only white people can be racist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:50 PM
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I don’t care about moving to Japan or Korea. I’m happy being American :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:04 PM
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It’s a problem to xenophobic people it seems because they think having more immigrants will make the country worse because it’s not the same or something. US is built off immigration so I don’t see the issue here. https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/18/technology/replacement-theory.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:28 AM
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Infidelity in the United States is said to be responsible for 20-40% of divorces. This is a finding by the American Psychological Association. Furthermore, there are several sources of data on the link between cheating and divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:15 PM
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OP’s replies in here show that he doesn’t care about victims of abuse though. The example here literally broke up because of the abuse. Rihanna dated multiple guys after Chris Brown. IDK why they were specified for this argument. “My trust was totally lost with her, she hated me after that. I tried everything, she didn’t care. She just didn’t trust me after that,” Brown recalled of what led to their 2009 fight in his June 2017 documentary, Welcome to My Life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:19 AM
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Looks like young women prefer full heads of hair. I mean men tend to lose hair with age. It makes them seem older when men have a bald head. And it can also be seen as a more masculine look. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mating-game/201612/do-women-find-bald-men-be-more-attractive I wonder if it depends on ethnicity as well. Like European men have the highest rates of baldness and Asian men the lowest. So I’d assume if it’s more common women there are more accepting of baldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:28 PM
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But your 6’1’’ requirement excludes nearly 90% of men in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:26 PM
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Around my height of 5’4’’ so like 5’2’’-5’6’’ Face is more important than height preference, and he has to be fun to talk with and see eye to eye with me on important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:21 AM
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Around my height is a short guy, I’m 5’4’’. My boyfriend is 5’6’’. I like the way we fit together I suppose, I don’t have to look up at him. It just feels good. I don’t think very many women have a height preference the way you describe it, that sounds a bit odd. I’ve seen most saying dating a taller guy makes them feel smaller and that’s why they prefer it. More like it’s safer to have a tall guy protect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:48 PM
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You’re wrong I prefer short men. Women who prefer short or average height men exist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:17 PM
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It has broad reach Doesn't matter if shes short, tall, medium, white, black asian ect, all women prefer a tall man. I’m responding to this generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:12 PM
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Women aren’t a monolith on anything that includes height. Have you seriously never seen a woman dating a short guy? Well here is a couple that got married and had a baby together with 6’8’’ woman and 5’4’’ man. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2252626/Worlds-tallest-teen-girl-towers-boyfriend-enjoy-romantic-walk-Brazilian-beach.html I don’t find tall guys attractive. I prefer short men. That may be an unpopular opinion but it’s not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:09 PM
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I see a stat saying roughly 40% of teens haven’t had sex by graduation. That seems like the rough numbers for my classmates in high school. I did not have sex until well into my 20’s. A lot of folks don’t start seriously dating until college and the goal for most folks is to settle down so I don’t think casual sex is very frequent at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:45 PM
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Symmetric face is a scientific metric. It’s not some sort of preference people have but something people tend to agree upon as attractive. But what if I told you Lena Dunham has a highly symmetrical face? Because so many men and women criticize her looks in spite of that https://www.nickiswift.com/2418/celebs-scientifically-beautiful-faces/ When it comes to penis size this is something men care about much more than women do. A lot of men seem to admire a larger penis, which is what we see in por…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:02 PM
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https://relationshipsinamerica.com/marriage-and-divorce/whos-more-interested-in-marrying-men-or-women All we can state for sure is that men perceive women as more interested in marriage, but the data doesn’t really suggest that their perceptions are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:23 PM
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That’s a terrible article. Most women are straight. This is what people mean by scientific studies being centered around men for a long time. That’s less of a problem these days. But basically women don’t process sexual stimuli the same way as men, that doesn’t mean they’re all gay/bi. It’s like how symptoms of a heart attack are different in women than men. https://academic.oup.com/scan/article/15/4/447/5838126 Results of the current study constrain hypotheses of female erotic flexibility, sugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:07 PM
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That’s not what my relationship is like at all. I am a very low maintenance woman, so I don’t get dolled up and my boyfriend calls me beautiful all the time. And our sex drive is fairly compatible. He’s not a daily sex type. Being in a relationship shouldn’t feel like a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:20 AM
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I think there is more differences within men or women as a group than there are differences between the groups. Like there’s plenty of variety you know. But I’ve noticed more women find underweight women very beautiful like fashion models or Kpop idols. Another thing is I think women like a cinched waspy waist a lot more than men do. Men more admire voluptuous women with large breast, butts or hips. Personally I think women like Megan Thee Stallion are really beautiful like Amazonian.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:15 AM
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I asked my boyfriend out. I’ll let him know he’s genetically gifted. As a woman most compliments I’d get came from family and friends. Not many random people would approach me. I’d rather not have a lot of random attention. I don’t try maximize my appearance. In general women put more effort into their appearance being appealing. In your opposite world men would have to be that way and held in higher regards for their beauty. I think the women that want a lot attention work hard in order to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:07 PM
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Too high is a more common negative trait than too low Eight percent of respondents said they were “somewhat likely” or “very likely” to end a relationship if their partner had too few sexual partners. But what is “too few”? According to the survey, women said 1.9 partners was too conservative, while men said 2.3. On the flipside, 30 percent of people said they were “somewhat likely” or “very likely” to end a relationship if their partner had too many sexual partners. Women are generally more fle…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:45 AM
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Online dating can be popular with most people not online dating at the same time. Because plurality is not a majority. If 39% of couples met dating online then 61% met offline. So the other commenter was just saying most women aren’t dating online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:09 PM
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Yeah they refuse to believe otherwise. I‘ve only felt lust towards my boyfriend and he’s not the stereotypical hot guy these guys are obsessed with. Some women like myself like short guys for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:01 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/814691/share-of-us-internet-users-who-use-tinder-by-gender/ https://www.statista.com/statistics/814698/share-of-us-internet-users-who-use-tinder-by-age/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:51 PM
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I did not get those intense feelings until I was 26. I was a late bloomer and I had to get to know him before I developed feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:27 PM
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I had to get more relaxed and comfortable with the idea, then it didn’t hurt but was uncomfortable. It felt better after the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:41 PM
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I didn’t have sex until I was 26. I assumed the first time would be painful. It didn’t seem worth the risk, like I just wasn’t really into dating anyone and the thought of STDs and pregnancy was off putting. When I got into my first relationship it became something I wanted to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:35 PM
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When I was a XS US I would get M from Asian brands
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 11:26 PM
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Women’s libido is known to generally fluctuate along with hormone fluctuations. Being more horny at certain times of the month doesn’t change my perspective on relationships. Before I had a boyfriend I would just masturbate more. Being horny didn’t make me want to date. Being lonely was a motivator though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:31 AM
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Your link is to choices in speed date matches. The link I referenced has a larger population and is of married couples that had children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:58 PM
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https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/how-common-is-it-for-a-man-to-be-shorter-than-his-partner/ Well just look at average height difference between couples. 14.1cm or 5.6in. An average difference of 25cm is not practical. Like it’s going to end up being close to the average difference in height between men and women. Me and my boyfriend are less than a year apart. I’m 5’4’’ and he’s 5’6’’.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:18 PM
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The thought of casual sex is gross to me. I don’t see value in getting lots of attention for looks. Dating apps are unappealing. In a relationship I always wanted a partner who liked me for my intellect more than looks. I don’t put effort into being more approachable and attractive. Never wear makeup, used to wear baggy clothes all the time, and even now I just throw whatever shirt and pants on. I’ve always been thin ~18BMI in high school and college, ~21 BMI now. I always looked younger than I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:48 PM
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Dude when I said teenagers I meant teens so under 20. They have high fertility and increased risk with pregnancy. There’s no sudden decline in fertility at 25. Women get pregnant easily in late 20’s to early 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:58 PM
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Women have always been having children in their 40’s. It was always occurring until menopause because no highly effective birth control. Fertility does not equal health. Teenage girls have high fertility but increased health risk with pregnancy. But women’s fertility takes a sharp decline at 40-ish I believe. Women in their late 20’s and early 30’s do not regularly struggle with fertility, that’s not an issue at that age. The late 20’s to early 30’s is not described as a high risk pregnancy at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:24 PM
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A fetus starts with ~6m eggs and that drops to 1-2m at birth. Most eggs die quickly. At puberty a girl has 300-400k eggs. Late 20’s and early 30’s is the best time for a woman to have babies in terms of optimal health for the mother and baby. Having babies younger only matters if you’re trying to maximize your family size.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:28 PM
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That’s not even what the study claims. “ This shows us that how women appear in public does not mean that we know anything about their sexual role preferences. Men are simple, but women’s sexual responses remain a mystery.” The vast majority of women are straight. If all women were bi or gay there’d be way more women in relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:57 AM
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Looking at Hollywood heart throbs throughout the years should give a decent idea for what that looks like I suppose. Personally I can recognize someone like Will Smith or Brad Pitt as widely attractive especially in their younger years. But that’s not the type of guy I’m physically attracted to. I like quiet nerdy/geeky types with more of a pretty boy look. I like big pretty eyes. Thin guys or a little more muscle is who I take notice of. I think the biggest factor you have a lot of control over…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:02 PM
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You’re a similar size to my boyfriend (125lbs 5’6’’). He used to be a bit thinner and that made me worry about him losing too much weight. If you’re healthy at that size and just have a small frame you’re fine. But if you look bony you’d benefit from gaining weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:46 PM
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UMC is upper middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:39 PM
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All women want is money and looks? That’s a worse generalization than there’s someone out there for everyone. Women are individuals and have their own preferences in a partner. I agree that single people can be happy outside of relationships. If you’re single and worried about finding a partner that sucks. Non-romantic relationships are worth building as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:53 AM
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People should be encouraged to get some exercise in for good health. A healthy weight with a sedentary lifestyle just leads to high levels of body fat with low muscle. I haven’t seen 2000kcal as some minimum guideline. WHO uses an average of 2100kcal for providing aid to countries with starving people. Personally eating ~1600kcal made me underweight. Studies show office workers typically have a PAL of ~1.4 to 1.69. For a 40 year old 120lbs 5’3’’ woman that’s 1600-2000kcal. Average American eats …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:00 AM
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2000kcal isn’t a lot of food actually. The average American eats a lot more than that. I burn ~2100kcal a day as a 120lbs woman. Average calories available per person was ~2900kcal is the 60’s and it’s ~3800kcal now. People do waste some of that food but 3000kcal is more of a high amount of food.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:17 AM
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A minority of women prioritize tallness. Facial attractiveness takes priority in most cases. So I think a tall guy with a below average face can attract more women who prioritize tallness. A guys eyes is the physical trait that grabs my attention personally. I don’t find tall guys attractive. I prefer shorter to average height guys. BF is 5’6’’
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:33 AM
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Father’s age seems to be relevant but a smaller factor in why autism prevalence has increased https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-real-reasons-autism-rates-are-up-in-the-u-s/ Age of first time mother was 21 in 1970, and 26 in 2018. And 27 to 31 for men. Before birth control methods made family planning easy women would just get married and start having children until ~40 when the ability to carry a pregnancy to term drops. It’s worth mentioning that the age for pregnancy with minimal …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:59 PM
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If you think the sample was skewed towards older age groups then that would be why you can’t just combine percentages without knowing the populations. I just found the average of the age groups overall for singles is 32% because I’m assuming the age groups have the same number of people by averaging them. Men get 31.5%. Women get 32.25%. If you average below 50’s and over 50’s you get the 50% more single men under 50 and the 50% more single women over 50 results.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:00 PM
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Yeah fixed it. Wow I never noticed how much that breaks down for 40’s+
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:26 PM
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You need to see the raw data to know the size of each age group before you can combine them though. Why is there an even split for singles overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:17 PM
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Where are you seeing under 50 vs over 50 data? But in looking for some perspective I found the median US adult is 47 years old. https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/whats-the-average-age-difference-in-a-couple/ This data shows that older people are more likely to have age gap relationships. With straight people in their 40’s having 4-5 year gap typically. It seems pretty common for women in their 40’s to date men in their 50’s. I don’t understand how your theory would result in 31% of men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:57 PM
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Its because Reddit is mostly younger men. It’s specifically young men and old women that are more likely single. So a decent amount of younger women date older men. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ This link says 31% of men and women are single with 51% 18-29 men vs 32% 18-29 women being single. Then 21% of 65+ men vs 49% of 65+ women are single. This is my opinion but just based on age the thought of dating younger guys is more off putting than…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:38 PM
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In your scenario 1 man and 1 woman found a match with each other. The man had to approach to find a match. Women are not quick to initiate a date the way men are, that’s the way it’s always been. What do you make of this data I’ve seen others mention https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ So 31% of men and women overall are single but younger men (18-29 at 51%) and older women (65+ at 49%) are most likely to be single. Seems to show women dating up in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:02 PM
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Yeah he is White. Similar personality and interest to myself so we became friends easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:11 AM
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https://www.netimperative.com/2019/04/05/online-dating-trends-men-outnumber-women-on-tinder-by-9-to-1-while-grinder-wins-for-age-diversity/ If men dramatically outnumber women on dating apps then that’s completely different dynamics from real life. In apps men are overly abundant and women are scarce. It’s never easy to find someone you’ll actually fall in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:26 AM
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I started my first serious relationship at 26 so I was single for a long time. For most of my life I would have preferred to be less noticeable, so I wouldn’t try to get much attention. I’ve always been thin, never wear makeup, and dress for comfort outside of special occasions. I think I’m pretty but I didn’t get much attention from guys because I’m not a very social person. I tried getting to know a couple guys that were interested in dating me, but I didn’t like them back so I said let’s be f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:33 PM
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The sticker price for a vaginal birth in 2010 ranged from an average of $12,599 for women with Medicaid to about $16,165 for women with private (including employer-provided) insurance, according to a 2013 report by Truven Health Analytics Marketscan. They still have medical bills to pay and not everyone is eligible for Medicaid. Poor people are more like to declare bankruptcy and have high debt relative to their income. You do realize poor people aren’t choosing to have bigger families, in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:36 PM
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You mentioned the standards of white women who happen to prefer white men. Average height 20-39 white man is 5’10’’. Average age to marry at is 32. College graduates just entering the workforce make less, therefore not getting married and having children until later in life when they have a higher income. It’s been shown women care about earning prospects more than just money, so if the guy has a good earning potential she’s more likely to marry him. Again though the preferences of college educa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:09 PM
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Medicaid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:48 PM
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That doesn’t answer any of my questions. Birth rates don’t relate to dating standards the way you seem to think. Why are you offended that college educated white women seem to want college educated white men that make not that much more than average for their demographic. Average white men are 5’10’’ so 5’11’’ is not far from average. And women have relative height preferences. So I believe women around 5’5’’ are more likely to say they prefer men that height. And only fit women tend to show bia…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:44 PM
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Women in households living below the poverty line have the highest birth rates. What makes you think birth rates have to do with unrealistic dating standards? The ability to plan your family, and limit your number of children, is a separate topic. People have always had more children than they actually wanted. Do you want people to have more children than they can properly raise? I don’t see a good majority of women demanding the things you say, you’re being pretty specific. If you want to talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:23 PM
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No the opposite is happening. Annually 700k women are sterilized and 500k men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:39 AM
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More women opt for sterilization than men it seems. I’ve thought about it myself. Didn’t even consider asking my partner to get a vasectomy. That would be his own decision. https://www.everydayhealth.com/womens-health/tubal-ligation-permanent-female-sterilization-misunderstood-birth-control-method/ Sterilization for women and men is the most common method of birth control in the United States, according to a study published in Obstetrics & Gynecology in March 2019, used by nearly half (47.3 perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:42 AM
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Most women don’t make height a priority. Facial attractiveness is always most important to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:54 PM
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Most women don’t have a 6’ tall requirement though. In general women prefer taller men just like men prefer shorter women. For those that do have strict height requirements it’s because that’s what they find attractive. No point in dating someone you’re not attracted to. Personally I prefer men close to my height (5’4’’), more than a six inch difference seems like too much to me like awkward. I know a guy that would only date women with natural blond hair and blue eyes. Apparently 1 in 20 Americ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:47 AM
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I believe they are saying short men have normal relationships too, but it becomes notably difficult to date when you’re shorter than the average woman. I can’t find a consensus on women having a common ideal height for a man. Most women date average height men so I don’t see how many could have a strong preference for tall. I prefer shorter guys, BF is 5’6’’. I’ve never had a crush on a tall guy. There is a point considered too tall as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:12 PM
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Some women are not childless by choice. Why wouldn’t your assumptions apply to childfree men? Poorer and less educated people tend to have more children. Higher income and more educated women tend to be child free by choice. I don’t see any evidence that they are more unhappy. “ Psychologist Paul Dolan made the case that women who never married or have children are among the happiest subgroup in the United States by analyzing American Time Use Survey”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:15 PM
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“ when porn is viewed as something only men watch, it reinforces perceptions that women are not as sexual as men. This feeds into heteronormative assumptions of women’s sexuality as biologically passive.” https://open.library.ubc.ca/cIRcle/collections/ubctheses/24/items/1.0071149 Since porn is taboo you are not going to see many people especially women talking about it frankly. I think it’s clear based on the erotic literature women tend to read that they also consume porn that shows violence to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:38 AM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-apes/202003/how-racial-minorities-view-interracial-couples
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:58 PM
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Celebrities are a small portion of the population. Most age gap relationships are between normal people. The person above clearly said among people they know. They don’t know Leo. Based on some US data 11.2 percent of married couples have a husband 6-9 years older than their wife. Leo was more attractive to me when he was younger though. He looks like a lot of middle aged men do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:39 PM
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Nope dudes care about penis size way more than women. Most women are with average sized men and happy. Size queens are a certain group of people not the average. https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/what-makes-a-penis-attractive-to-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:18 PM
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Paternal age has an effect on the child. Advanced paternal age is not “totally fine” https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paternal_age_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:03 PM
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They need to wash up after sex. That’s bacteria from upset ph balance. https://www.wellandgood.com/washing-vagina-after-sex/ The sperm can swim up but that fluid of ejaculate will leak out soon. The vagina is self cleaning. Women produce fluids that leak out the vagina every day. So no that stuff doesn’t stay inside for days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:14 AM
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Nitpicking here but 5’6’’ would be the same distance from average as 6’2’’.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:26 AM
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Nope, you can’t treat large groups of people like a monolith. I think promiscuous guys are unattractive and I expect male celebrities to be promiscuous. Plus he’s too old to look good to me. I don’t find wealth attractive either, I think rich people do a lot of personal damage to the environment. I want to live a simple life. https://www.discovermagazine.com/health/how-many-notches-on-your-bedpost-make-you-most-attractive-the-answer-might-surprise-you It’s interesting to me that men in the surve…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:00 PM
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https://relationshipsinamerica.com/relationships-and-sex/how-many-people-have-americans-had-sex-with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:50 PM
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You’re being ridiculous. 0.04% of the English speaking world is famous. There’s an estimated 11,800 professional athletes in the US. There are 614 billionaires in the US. These small to tiny groups of people do not affect the lives of average folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:07 PM
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https://verilymag.com/2015/10/men-women-casual-sex-differences
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:08 PM
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That comes from women being more selective or ‘picky’. If you have specific preferences than there are not a whole lot of men who fit your preferences. More options doesn’t equal more success unless your idea of success is getting with as many people as you’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:14 PM
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I’m 26F and just stumbled into a relationship with a guy my age who shares my values. I wouldn’t be into promiscuous people either. And we are both agnostic, so I know it’s more common in religious folks but the non-religious folks can have those ideals too. I think people really overestimate how many young folks are into hook up culture like this article has some interesting data. 35% of the college students didn’t like hook up culture. Plenty of people want a serious relationship, but it can t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:15 PM
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r/childfree You don’t need to coerce people into not having children. The opposite is far more common. We are not all the same dude. Some people don’t want kids. Some people don’t care about spreading their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:04 PM
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It’s hard to say. If you’re open to surrogacy then I think you have more options in that case. But most people in general want to pass on their genes. You will probably find more young guys that really want biological kids. I am similar to you, but after becoming sexually active I changed my mind a bit. I talked about preferring to adopt with my boyfriend (I think he fits your idea of a blue pill guy except we don’t have that breadwinner and caregiver division) and he really wants to have a gran…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:16 AM
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That’s not a fair comparison at all. Pregnancy is a big deal dude. https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/staying-healthy-during-pregnancy/4-common-pregnancy-complications Complications aside, you have to be pregnant for some time which is not very easy you have to adjust to big changes in your body, it will be very painful to give birth, things like tearing should be expected particularly with the first pregnancy, and something like 10-20% of new mothers experience postp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:01 AM
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That’s a huge exaggeration. The significant differences are for very short guys like 5’4’’ and they still go on dates too. Here’s the only study I could find on the topic https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704915604563. I skimmed through it and only saw it mentioned 5’7’’-6’3’’ men had no statistically significant difference in current relationship status. They didn’t cover that question much since there wasn’t a trend. They found a trend with number of sexual partners. Very short…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:38 AM
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Depends on the woman. I have never seen the appeal in tall guys. It looks silly to me to be with someone way taller than me. I’ve never found fat guys attractive, he needs to take care of his health. Based on things like this it looks like in general height preferences are more relative and taller women are more open to dating shorter men. I’ve noticed this just in regular life and with people online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:58 AM
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No. I seem to have a high sex drive and I thought sex was very risky and not worth it until I met a guy that was ideal for me at 26 years old. I did ask him out though it took a while, we were friends at first. I would not appreciate any dick pics, or being flirted with a lot. I think sexting is risky and unappealing. Women with a higher sex drive don’t necessarily have the same perspective as men. The fact that women get pregnant is a big factor in how women act with dating. Men have more satis…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:05 AM
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She’s mentioned her weight before. She is a plus size model 5’9’’ 185-195lbs. She is very curvy, I wouldn’t call her chubby because she works out and stays fit. She used to be a typical sized model https://www.instagram.com/p/BPYHG5gAtEL/?igshid=12eg61kylses7
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:27 PM
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I see a lot of people say face is most important and while I agree that’s true, I can’t make a general statement about that. Specific people have strong but specific preferences. The ratios I mentioned are more universally appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:39 AM
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Yeah based on this https://blogs.chapman.edu/crean/2015/09/29/new-research-analyzes-height-weight-income-and-more-in-regards-to-sex-and-dating/ Height doesn’t dramatically effect the number of sexual partners men have until he’s shorter than a lot of women and even then they aren’t well below the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:59 AM
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Iskra Lawrence is who I think of as curvy and overweight, I think she’s around 27-28 BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:34 AM
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I’m sure it depends on genetics like the 0.7 for women is not very attainable for all. I’m female with 38.5 inch shoulders and 26 inch waist circumference so 1.48 ratio. At the leanest I’m comfortable with waist is down to 24.5 inches with 38 inch shoulders so 1.55.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:06 PM
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That’s a weird thing to say lol. I’m actually attracted to women. Cara is not a sex symbol. Brittney Spears, Sofia Vergara, Jennifer Lopez, and Scarlet Johansson are sex symbols.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 04:02 PM
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I’m in the military and we met at work. I don’t have past relationships to compare but things have moved along quickly. We’ve known each other for ~6 months, I wanted to date him after ~3 months, and we’ve only really been together 1 month. Yet we’re already saying I love you. We’re very attached to each other and sex has been great. When we were officially together we started to hang out alone for a couple hours everyday. I was only just able to move out the barracks last week so it’s nicer to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:58 PM
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It’s a matter of preference I guess. I find softer features most attractive. I don’t think a good model look is considered beautiful to most people though. The modeling world likes unique more than pretty looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:11 AM
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I don’t know what to tell you. I never called her unattractive. I see a lot of women who look as pretty as her when I walk around town. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I think. You could look at my boyfriend and think he’s average while I think he’s beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 11:52 PM
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Fashion models don’t need to look pretty they are supposed be showcasing the clothing. I don’t think Cara without makeup looks very noteworthy https://i.imgur.com/qXlv5zN.jpg. There are plenty of average people that I really like because they appeal to my personal preferences. So maybe she appeals to you but I know a lot of people say she’s more average than a typical celebrity so she came to mind as an example. Wait why are you so offended? I said in my original comment I think most people are …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 11:27 PM
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Cara Delevigne. I think average people look quite pretty when putting effort into their appearance and being fit. Without being all dressed up Cara looks like an everyday woman to me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 09:50 PM
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I find him to be below average since he has an awkward face but as far as dating goes he seems to have beautiful girlfriends anyway. People like to put him in list for ‘ugly but hot people’. Personality matters a lot in a real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:30 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/BmOpF2j I think a large majority of people are average looking but with enough effort average folks can look pretty or handsome. With celebrities it’s easy to think of below average guys but not women so I ended up using a famous murderer as an example. I always think face is most important for physical attractiveness but a fit body is also important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:45 PM
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I went on dates my junior year with a guy who liked me a lot but I didn’t feel a strong attraction and asked to be friends. That was the most dates I had been on with someone until this year. No I was thinking I could be asexual or aromatic in high school. I started feeling lonely my last couple years of college. But even then I really wanted a close friend at that time. 26 Female I was a little embarrassed to be so inexperienced with my current boyfriend but things are going so smoothly regardl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 08:56 PM
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Why respond to me when that’s not what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 05:09 PM
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I personally don’t assume that. If you’re comparing equal height and weight the woman would have to train for years to be as strong as the man is naturally. It’s possible but unlikely. For women who like to lift weights I think my perspective is common. My boyfriend is 5’6’’ and I’m 5’4’’. He’s like 10lbs heavier than me and I like that I can pick him up but I still feel that he is stronger than me especially his upper body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:32 PM
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