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SendNotSpendThyMoney/r/seduction29/10/19 12:51 PM
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Who is telling you there is? It’s the only appropriate response to rudeness - leave.
/r/seduction03/06/26 06:06 PM
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The problem is most of us have done things we like, with people we liked, and even nurtured sociable hobbies. I don’t know if you’re targeting the hermit demographic that sits at his computer all day or what. Most of us have been out with our friends and had a good time. Most of us have done social things. It didn’t generate opportunities. Approaching generates opportunities.
/r/seduction05/05/20 10:27 PM
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Until someone can replicate - in a systematic way - a method for getting attractive women to approach a broad cross section of different types of guys, I’m not buying it. The only known systematic way for a guy to have the opportunity to meet attractive women is to do the approaching and to do it often. It goes without saying that this gives you an opportunity. I’m going with the proven method.
/r/seduction05/05/20 10:06 PM
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It’s great that you can let them approach you but for a lot of guys - maybe the majority - this will never happen. You seem to be pretending there is some magic signal or air that you can send out that makes them approach you. There is for you, there isn’t for most of us. I somewhat agree that a place like a bar is not as ideal as we’re led to believe, if that’s what you’re implying, but the vast majority of us will have to approach early and often for any kind of semi-regular success.
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:18 PM
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I have similar thoughts. Everything I do is pretty much useless once the handshake was no longer viable. I am just hoping it makes a comeback at some point. I can't really establish anything with someone at a three foot distance, much less (more?) with a six foot buffer.
/r/seduction11/04/20 05:54 PM
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I don’t see how this could be. Watching porn inspired me to go and approach people because I saw what other guys were doing and wanted to do it myself. I doubt I’d be motivated in quite the same way if I had never seen porn.
/r/seduction16/03/20 02:41 PM
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Not sure what npc is but she could still be omitting information - either intentionally or unintentionally. It’s memorable to you because it almost never happens. You didn’t discover a secret world.
/r/seduction02/03/20 03:55 PM
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It happens to some guys. It is rare for most guys. You don’t have enough information to know if there is more going on here. I’m not sure you can know even with more information. Nobody commenting on here - so far removed from this event and relying on your reporting alone - will be able to give you any insight of use.
/r/seduction02/03/20 02:45 PM
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10% and you’ve got it made in the shade. I’m not sure something like a 40% success rate would even be practicable if you’re working in volume. It is possible to sleep with only so many in a day/week/month.
/r/seduction28/02/20 04:02 AM
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The only thing that works is volume. Everything else is folk psychology. Although, I'd like to see more high volume field reports and trends (in context).
/r/seduction27/02/20 02:02 AM
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I’m in a similar but probably worse situation - I live in a small town. A lot of the time, I think you just have to follow up with people that you didn’t necessarily have initial success with. I know people here advise against this but if that’s all you have to work with, you can only work with what you have.
/r/seduction21/02/20 02:21 PM
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Sounds great but most of the time, the only people we are talking to are people ambivalent about meeting. It’s not ideal and we’d rather have someone who is willing to meet without a lot of effort on our part but you can only work with what you have.
/r/seduction10/02/20 04:16 PM
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Unless she is a public figure, I doubt this is real. Even in NY, no one is approached this often.
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:59 PM
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I think even if you take away all of the factors working against average guys in online dating, it’s just a matter of upside potential. Your upside is limited online - to people using the app or site - whereas in the public square your upside is almost limitless.
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:37 PM
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Fools errand. In my experience, no one really understands body language or nonverbal communication that well. “Signals,” mean different things for different people. I think you are looking for shortcuts that don’t exist.
/r/seduction02/02/20 11:20 PM
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No I know. Just curious about follow-up and how they went.
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:19 PM
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I would normally say she wasn’t interested but why bring up that she is interested in meeting new friends to a strange guy? It seems as though she could have left it at having a boyfriend. Not sure this is a complete failure.
/r/seduction31/01/20 06:59 PM
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Why not? Interested customers is a part of the job too. It’s not his problem if she can’t handle turning down guys.
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:52 PM
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Sorry man. I know my hearing is bad but I couldn’t hear any of this. I know people here think they know everything about body language but if I can’t hear the exchange there is not much I can do with the information.
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:44 PM
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I can’t speak for the guys you’ve known - there are always anomalous cases - but it can be used to a great advantage that most of us will never have access to.
/r/seduction31/10/19 11:16 AM
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It’s all relative to where you live. In NY or LA, you’d probably have to earn close to $1mm a year or have over $10mm liquid. In most of middle America, $250k a year would probably do it.
/r/seduction31/10/19 01:32 AM
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I lived in NY, over 10 years ago, so I'm not sure how much change there has been but it was incredibly easy there. Back then, chicks would start conversations with you. I was too young and didn't realize it wasn't normal. I can't go back at this point but if some guy were to tell me they couldn't get a date and it was a big deal to them, I would tell them to do what they could to move to NY. It's just so much easier. I sure blew it.
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:49 PM
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First of all, financial independence and the kind of money you need to tip the scales in your favor are worlds apart. Most of us won't ever have it. You can't flaunt it, it's just bad form. If you seem like a nice enough, likable guy and she finds out you have money, you add a substantial layer of intrigue. You have to seem very much like a regular, normal guy because if you're too conspicuous about your wealth it looks like you're using it as a ploy. You are, but it can't seem that way. Once ag…
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:43 PM
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Almost every female wants to land a guy with money long-term - even those that say they are indifferent or averse to wealth accumulation - and they’ll often do whatever they have to do if they think they can seal something up long-term.
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:48 PM
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If you have a lot of money - and that is an incredibly relative thing - I would think you’re at a great advantage. Of course, showing it without showing it is probably a difficult needle to thread but I’m convinced, from what I’ve seen, that money can cure a lot of ills in this arena.
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:24 PM
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Need to adapt in what way?
/r/seduction29/10/19 06:05 PM
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I honestly have no interest in internet dating. The idea of sending out a message to someone who may or may not be real, may or may not look like anything resembling their pictures, may or may not ever get your message, and may or may not ever read your message seems like a huge waste of time. I certainly expect failure for the first 100 attempts, at least. I’m just wondering if the terrain is any different for guys our age. I could see why it would be better and could see why it would be worse.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:40 PM
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