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Outdoor cardio? Interval walk run around lake for 20 min.? Nearby, lots of people, some place familiar... then cool down, grab smoothie, etc
/r/seduction13/07/26 05:10 PM
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Learn to focus: Separate tasks- Exercise schedule Grooming Posture Non-needy communication Learn about women Outfit Psych yourself up, encourage yourself Remain calm; being comfortable is confidence Etc. -Do not power-lift 7 days a week. If you must work out, alternate between cardio and rest a day. -Do not leave the house without a shower/bath; rinse well, don't smell! Trim your stray hairs/beard -Stand up straight like it's feeling weird, lol, keep your eyes up and keep your chin away from you…
/r/seduction02/07/26 03:34 AM
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D'yo funky azz breff be bumpin'? Lol
/r/seduction30/06/26 08:11 PM
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Do not ever complement their looks dude. That is the opener and the reason that you're constantly swinging and missing because you are not engaging their brains you are straight up giving them a decision to make right off the bat which will generally be a no. Every dude will always wants physical attraction; What sets you apart will be the things you notice and how you make somebody feel and illicit emotions. "I like your necklace" is far better, but not some magic phrase. Work in the moment wit…
/r/seduction29/06/26 02:16 PM
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Bro wut?
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:48 PM
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Get out there now. Go. Do not wait for an answer. Move your ass. It will "just happen" when you are not sitting on the internet asking for permission. Once you have an idea of what it is like, every moment is a chance to interact. You don't just go out and "do game"; you "are game" because you "have game". It's you, you develop game and if something "just happens" you can apply game fundamentals to not fuck it up. First: clean, groom, co-ordinate, posture, move your ass, GO
/r/seduction28/06/26 03:10 PM
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Dude. Ditch him. Work on your game alone. Read, practice, practice, style, posture, grooming, exercise, self reliance, confidence, charm.
/r/seduction27/06/26 11:15 PM
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Your approach is clearly too direct and that puts a lot of women on defense. You need to take stock and refine your technique. My number one rule is do not complement their looks so you are straight up barging in. Good having the courage to do what you are attempting so don't let the Terminally bitchy vindictive types Bring you down.
/r/seduction20/06/26 11:18 PM
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Talk. Talk to everybody. Talk to dudes- nice kicks, cool car, nod head. Talk to the cashier lady- how are you today, I like your broach, these strawberries are great, lovely sweater. Talk. Get used to speaking to everyone with absolutely no expectations of results. Make chat with zero risk, be polite, don't be needy. Stand up straight, speak clearly, work on posture. Keep one foot turned toward your next intended destination. Do not compliment looks. Engage on emotional level- you clearly like b…
/r/seduction16/06/26 02:48 PM
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Don't stare, just start talking like you are already friends.
/r/seduction28/04/26 05:54 PM
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be playful, challenge them
/r/seduction28/04/26 01:54 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction28/04/26 12:15 AM
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Counter point - it doesn't take a long time to get coffee if you are otherwise engaged
/r/seduction24/04/26 02:42 AM
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What is the status report?
/r/seduction22/04/26 03:00 AM
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When you build inner-game, you will realize they are all around, and they have friends, sisters, and daughters; also, you need to potentially drive, so budget a room. Don't drive drunk.
/r/seduction19/04/26 04:38 PM
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Here's a classic: "How to Succeed With Women" https://www.amazon.com/How-Succeed-Women-Revised-Updated/dp/0735204357 - Very honest, wide ranging, and covers women's psychology and engaging emotional perspectives. Then there is the more aggressive classic: "The Mystery Method" This is a pick up artist (PUA) book: https://www.amazon.com/Mystery-Method-Beautiful-Women-Into/dp/0312360118 Understanding the dynamics in this book is more important than attempting some of the extreme routines or over th…
/r/seduction12/04/26 04:06 AM
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That's what I mean by building attraction and game. It's not magic words. If you haven't built attraction then you will not be able to proceed with asking for the date or moving on to another location. Edit: You can always shoot your shot. That is a great step in overcoming fear of rejection and being bold so that is a positive step That would be greatly enhanced and more effective by understanding building attraction~~~~
/r/seduction12/04/26 03:33 AM
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Reading is a great step; well, it's half a step because practicing what you read is your actual life. The idea of building attraction and game and or cold approach Is to offer you the opportunity to interact with various potential girlfriends so that you can have a chance to meet somebody that is your type. Chit chat to strangers, don't chase, keep your cool. Don't complement looks, don't interrogate. Do the real ground work every day as you read recommended sources
/r/seduction12/04/26 03:01 AM
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Good practical advice. You need to say something. To add: Many of these guys don't understand inner-game, working on style and grooming, and body position.
/r/seduction11/04/26 04:27 AM
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Give me the basic convo from seeing her - to walking away. I can't take wild guesses. Walking sitting what? Details. Her reaction. Good-byes. Etc. same exam???
/r/seduction10/04/26 12:35 AM
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What step did you take? How is anyone supposed to answer if they don't know what you already said to her? Did you introduce yourself? Is she in your class? Do you see her every day?
/r/seduction09/04/26 02:01 PM
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First of all you need to get better at talking to people who are not in your direct daily contact. I know that sounds counterintuitive but You need to be able to hold a conversation with the absolute stranger so that you can be quick on your feet when it comes to flirting. Also you need to understand the concept of building attraction; Words can be used to build attraction so the good news is anybody can start from scratch. The bad news is it takes a little practice to get good at thinking on yo…
/r/seduction08/04/26 01:59 AM
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Do not complement their looks. An effective complement shares insight into a woman's interests. Do not rely on using a complement to open dialogue.
/r/seduction08/04/26 12:58 AM
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It's OK that you need help but clearly if you build/built attraction you would not have a pattern of rejections to inquire about. Your question is vague, you're clearly young, And you are not telling the whole story for sure. Please give us a running log of your successes so that we may better help you identify problems on your awkward aftermath of your rejections. You gotta take the first steps in understanding building attraction; You can also use quite a bit of help with understanding female …
/r/seduction08/04/26 12:09 AM
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You didn't build attraction. You asked someone out. They now feel awkward. Why are you still around them? Are you in school together? Are you coworkers? You have absolutely zero game; and, that is what you need to be learning here on this forum.
/r/seduction07/04/26 11:34 PM
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Dude, hilarious, this is actually a relevant inquiry... you could use this question in a mixed set to further conversation and sort potential matches. Groups enjoy binary challenge questions. Go find the answer yourself, in a face to face conversation, with a group that includes an available woman or women.
/r/seduction07/04/26 02:56 AM
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Bro.🚩🚩🚩 Great idea.🚩🚩🚩 What could go wrong.🦀🦀🦀
/r/seduction04/04/26 11:12 PM
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Stay away from complementing looks. Try to engage emotions. "Riding horses is amazing, I love the connection you can build with the horse; once the horse gets to know you, it's like you're totally in sync."--"You probably like bungee jumping or skydiving or something." If you can keep the convo going, realize she needs to get back to work. Establish a future meet-up, etc. Good luck.
/r/seduction31/03/26 03:59 PM
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Next time ask her if she is a farmer. She is bound to laugh. If she asks why you asked, Tell her she looks strong like the responsible type and that she probably has to keep everybody else in line at work. Ask her if she is going to dig potatoes and plant corn after work. (Don't try to play some Hollywood BS and expect her to be impressed that you were some kind of filmmaker; just leave that out of it. IF... she asks about it, don't ramble on about it, just say that you have a drive to be creati…
/r/seduction30/03/26 12:18 PM
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You gotta remember some people on this site are telling you how to be a pick up artist if indeed they are capable of doing so... others are trying to give advice to absolute beginners who don't know their ass from a hole in the ground so take it with a grain of salt of what you were trying to accomplish. Some are just trying to meet a girl, at all;because, that may require a more sensitive and delicate approach and calibration and surely seeking out who wants to have sex but... But... the same S…
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:17 AM
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Dude, "Neg" time Big time old school confident Little sister treatment... etc.
/r/seduction18/03/26 07:06 PM
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Don't go out with the dude. End of story. you wanna go out with the girl right? not that dude right? Then cut them off. go to your places by yourself don't tell him where you're going and let it flow. solo game is the only game that works. nobody can be trusted as a wingman as far as I can tell. nobody wants to follow the rules and don't know what the fuck they're doing. A friend should not make you feel worse when you hang out with them. be aware You will still need social proof so you will nee…
/r/seduction16/03/26 02:56 PM
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NO
/r/seduction14/03/26 09:48 PM
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My man do not listen to these negative people down-voting your post. It is spot on and every newbie should definitely read this. This is a very typical experience and yes an expensive lesson that you will not forget easily. "People who don't get it don't get that they don't get it." Most guys don't put two and two together and repeat the process you described add Infinitum. I did not actually read where you asked for advice and appreciate your assessment. What your post was missing was an approa…
/r/seduction08/03/26 05:38 PM
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Proof is you get no pussy or else you would understand this phenomenon. Proof is every guy who finally gets a girlfriend realizes how many girls look interested in him once he does have a girl with him. Old and timeless as the sea itself, do some research
/r/seduction03/03/26 11:26 PM
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https://c.tenor.com/hmv71i6lA9IAAAAd/80s-online-dating.gif
/r/seduction26/02/26 03:49 PM
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No.
/r/seduction03/02/26 10:52 PM
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Theres always a pattern. The hairstyle that looks best on You is going to make you more confident. If you get more attention w the hair... well; its called peacocking.
/r/seduction16/01/26 07:33 PM
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Dude it's all you see or feel or think about. Let go of all expectations first. If you can't do that you cannot progress; Everything you do will be trying too hard with the mental blockage that you think you need to overcome something. Do not go solo camping there are movies made about people who go solo camping do not ever do that! - solo shopping though however can be rewarding and you don't even have to buy anything. Go to a clothing store - do not make yourself creepy to the woman or pe…
/r/seduction22/12/25 05:08 PM
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Bullshit. Seduction techniques last a lifetime of rewarding partnership, and also help greatly in cultivating business relationships. It is your own morals that make the difference; don't project your regrets on other people.
/r/seduction08/12/25 03:58 AM
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Hmm ... No
/r/seduction03/12/25 05:49 AM
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Learn this: Never chase
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:42 AM
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Lots of people missing the point. It's a defense mechanism. The operative phrase is "I'm not sure". Lol shit test: maintain frame. Plenty of good responses. If this is happening to you a lot you are getting to the point where the debate is even in question so they are giving you a chance to prove that you are the lame ass they think you could be; or... the guy who doesn't give a shit what she thinks and is rocksolid in his vibe . Plenty of responses in the cocky funny sentiment  "you're go…
/r/seduction26/10/25 05:10 PM
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Yes https://media.tenor.com/nRGEAAQstUEAAAAM/robert-redford-nod.gif
/r/seduction26/10/25 04:50 PM
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Please talk like a coherent adult in this subreddit if you want actual good advice. Then translate your findings back to the appropriate dialect of your choice. Acting like a grown man is one of the fundamentals.
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:41 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction09/10/25 09:39 PM
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Roll your eyes to the back of your head a start drooling to avoid the creepy stare
/r/seduction09/10/25 05:10 PM
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If this is a serious question I have to applaud the creativity. I'm not sure it will be as effective as sacking up and getting out of the house, but I do think there is good value in mental training; read some books, wash your hair face armpits ass balls feet, trim your stray hairs, put on your best outfit, then go shopping for new clothes (you don't have to buy anything especially if you don't like it)... ask for opinions of the people who work there and remember the ladies are there for their…
/r/seduction22/09/25 02:57 AM
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You answered your own question. Telling a girl that you think she is attractive is only a reward if she is into you. Since you're not sure yet it is best not to attempt to reward her as she hasn't earned any reward. If there was a simple guidebook to women we would be sharing it but I can say if there was one one of the first rules on picking up women would be do not complement her looks rule number one. However, More experienced gentlemen will be able to calibrate what the vibe is in the mome…
/r/seduction19/09/25 09:17 PM
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Inner game. Never lose that edge even when committed. Always date your girl. You are your own man; she chooses to be with you. Continue to blaze your trail and sit tall in the saddle, partner. Works every time.
/r/seduction31/08/25 12:33 AM
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Take that maybe as a yes. Pick an event that you are already interested in, ask her to join- or - Start furiously reading about cold approach, and look for advice on this sub, etc., to quickly find a strategy that you are comfortable with, then grab your nuts and go; good luck.
/r/seduction20/08/25 06:58 PM
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Funny story- turned out to be the best lesson, but learned, the hard way, that you can come on too strong with the Romantic texting. ... It's OK to piss them off a little bit, but, in the same measure, you cannot be offensive to their ideals. Provoking positive emotions, about experiences, is the more rewarding line of conversation. Push pull is absolutely useful in creating an exciting dynamic.
/r/seduction19/08/25 04:32 AM
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When you are in command of the stage and the crowd is into your show. Not after she is already at your house. Source- I am a performing musician.
/r/seduction06/08/25 11:15 PM
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Yes! Then sadly wave to them, over your shoulder, like Eeyore the donkey from Winnie the Pooh. They will immediately sense your loneliness and rush over to sleep with you! ////S
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:46 AM
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The girls you are not attracted to, you weren't treating special because you don't give a shit; now do the same thing with the girls you are attracted to.
/r/seduction26/07/25 04:09 PM
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Common sense will get you through most of life in most situations. If you are not aware of danger, evolution will take care of itself; but that being said, if you know how to start a conversation or make a comment and be genuine, there is no situation where missing an opportunity to meet a great woman is acceptable. 
/r/seduction11/07/25 06:47 PM
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Teases are a secret: you have to earn a challenge point. See how easy that was. A tease doesn't have to be a neg. If she says she's a model, you ask her if she is a hand model. If you straight up insult them, you may find yourself by yourself. A tease might have to come straight out of the gate or it might have to wait for some rapport being built. Calibrate.
/r/seduction04/06/25 03:34 AM
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Hilariously brutal response in a good way. Edit: I agree with your assessment.
/r/seduction28/05/25 02:59 AM
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Don't chase.
/r/seduction27/05/25 12:31 AM
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Another thread said Naples Italy was a terrible place to go for women because the men there are a bunch of creeps so take that for what it's worth 
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:13 PM
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Transition: emotion Women are emotional creatures, and if you can tap into that understanding, and relate to how the subject at hand makes you feel, and makes them feel, and have insight on that, they will express themselves to you and you get a chance to challenge them. If a woman makes a remark in a challenge to prove herself then you can then become the prize  . (Transition hi how are you doing - transition do you want to go out? - transition instant date? - transition you have not made it…
/r/seduction25/05/25 03:43 AM
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Less impacted by what? I am just stating a dynamic that occurs in nature. If the group vibe is that: you are cool, it is much easier for a potential interest to decide to be comfortable with forward progress into personal shared intimacy. That is a fact. You cannot escape being impacted by that fact. You may overcome it, but it exists. If you dismiss the other people in the group, you may get voted out survivor style.  You have to separate the concept of being one on one with the persona…
/r/seduction25/05/25 03:22 AM
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Remember that social proof is one of the most important factors in attraction. If the group approves then it is easier for her to feel comfortable around you. Work on talking to people more, so when you're in a group you can actually have practice in going with the flow; you should always try to be somewhat talkative, to keep up your spontaneous abilities: so remember to complement or comment to random people when it is safe to do so, and you should naturally get better at your weakness. Edit…
/r/seduction24/05/25 01:39 AM
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let me respond to anybody who has this question; it is a fair question; because reading is different than actual practice and action: Do you want to Put effort into yourself and Actually learn something? Or do you just want to wait till someone gives you a magic Reddit answer? Because reading is exactly what you are doing right now. Reading the right stuff can help a lot. Reading takes time and it is fair to question the investment of time it takes especially when you are not sure of the r…
/r/seduction03/05/25 03:21 PM
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10,000 feet deep
/r/seduction03/05/25 02:59 PM
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Continue to be the man that she was attracted to. Take care of your business and when it comes time, treat her like you are dating her.
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:04 AM
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Yes it's fine and just treat your masters like it's more important than any alcohol; don't go to the bars for the drinking. First few times get there early leave early say hi find out the bartenders name and be cool pleasant comfortable as hell by yourself relax like you just wanna get off your feet for a minute and then head out, the bartenders will start recognizing you and then the people will think that you're friends with the bartenders then you'll be talking to groups of people and again …
/r/seduction02/05/25 12:45 AM
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I'm glad you admit your motives. Here is the flaw in your argument: You make a lot of assumptions about people's character, whether it is saying that women are low value or that men are creepy. You make assumptions about people and how they are going to handle the tools that they learn to forward their way out of loneliness. You don't understand that there are a lot of men that are cripplingly shy and have no other instruction on how to break out of their slump and potentially be alone for a …
/r/seduction29/04/25 03:38 AM
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You were the one who said "... on the street random places and nightclubs" So if that's not what you meant, let's set that aside for a moment. First off: this post is about "when did cold approach become easier for you?" You clearly did not have an answer to that. You in fact suggested that you should not do cold approach; because you fundamentally do not understand the concept of using "cold approach" to cultivate the opportunity to meet the kind of person are you looking for. What cold …
/r/seduction29/04/25 02:20 AM
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Why are you assuming that Cold approach is for bars and nightclubs? You are giving bad advice. Look at what subReddit you are in. First of all that is a ridiculous response and absolutely not true and second of all if you knew what you're talking about you would know that. A lot of guys are on here looking for good advice and a lot of guys are on here giving pointers and breaking down explanations so you don't seem to be one of those guys you should probably just read until you learn more
/r/seduction28/04/25 09:40 PM
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Right for me as far as, "when did Cold approach get easier?", that is kind of the answer. -When it felt like a natural interaction.- I think the cold approach is what really pushes your boundaries on fear; and the natural conversation (that you initiate with people who are not romantic interest) and every day stuff helps teach you how to talk relaxed, so they both kind of help each other if you get what I'm saying.  You have to work on talking to anybody and everybody; Combine that with ov…
/r/seduction28/04/25 03:13 AM
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Just gave your comment a second read. Yes absolutely my shorter friend has a great personality other than just being funny he is responsive and understanding as well and is quick to make friends. Spot on. He doesn't hide from his height in fact he makes jokes about it and confronts it and has a woman that he is true to as a husband but doesn't seem to have a problem with attracting people.
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:21 AM
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If you are actually serious, you need to reread everything that you have written, because you should see exactly how you're self sabotaging. Girls will literally come to you if you are respectful and suave. Being suave means being cool and having a detachment from the need to act out.  girls can tell exactly what your motivation is and you will shut yourself down because they can sense that you were just trying to get laid and you will absolutely not get laid. So ask yourself do you want to b…
/r/seduction27/04/25 03:36 AM
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! nice Cold approach, solo day game - in a random  environment, makes meeting people in close proximity, in a warm social environment, much easier; The next time you go into that place, there could be a pretty girl that sees a bunch of people smiling as you approach them.  That should score you one or more points. I don't want to try to add anything, I also didn't want to just say "this"; because that would seem low effort. Just wanted to say that was very well put.
/r/seduction27/04/25 03:08 AM
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Being in college... I would hesitate to give any advice that would steer you away from your goal of getting your degree because that can land you a job that can afford you money to be able to do things in the future without having constraints and being able to make your own decisions without being concerned about your next paycheck if you somehow land some kind of successful job in the future of course that may not be your end goal but having said that... Do you have a career in mind? Are there…
/r/seduction27/04/25 02:40 AM
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Yep and a lot of those groups can help you build social credit when you are the social butterfly in the future when they recognize you and are comfortable to say hi and smile and they have friends and other girls in the bar or the club or wherever it may be that you are will see this and it automatically builds attraction social credit they say right. A lot of beginners skip the sociaBility part. They think it's all about zeroing in on the girl and attempting to convince her of something, but to…
/r/seduction27/04/25 02:25 AM
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I don't understand your question then because you said you meet girls which implies that somehow you do the interaction which means your volume of amount of girls that you are meeting which is an opportunity to make connections regardless. So I am going to indulge and take in good faith that you are searching for some kind of answer. Are you asking where to meet single girls? Do you live near a college? Are you simply asking about cold approach or are you looking for places that will have acti…
/r/seduction27/04/25 01:57 AM
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First mistake is asking them if they are single or not. They can sense your intentions from a mile away; that's what game is about. Edit: In other words they will tell you that they are not single because they don't want to interact with you because you were asking them if they are single: it's a loop.
/r/seduction26/04/25 05:11 PM
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If you are meeting them, that is volume. If you are initiating conversation, that is practice. If you are learning how to detach the outcome from the process and remain emotionally stable... that is part of the process, and that is practice. When you do get the opportunity you will not be as likely to fumble your chances of getting to know that person. If you are using an extreme mathematical example then you are not genuine in wanting to put in the effort.  The example would clearly have yo…
/r/seduction26/04/25 04:08 PM
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You are right but... This was not a post on how to get women. I'm trying to find ways to not write a book every time I make a small post of nuance.  My point stands: do not let physical characteristics or monetary value stop you from having the self-confidence; that is it is the simple removal of psychological barriers and self defeat-ism to begin the process of understanding what it does take to be engaging and interesting and attractive; those are all a separate but massively important topi…
/r/seduction26/04/25 03:49 PM
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Edit: also I am not in London. 
/r/seduction26/04/25 03:47 AM
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Yeah that advice was kind of for the general sentiment (public) and not really expecting it to be fully valuable for you specifically. A good wingman has its own dynamic and I appreciate that you are just throwing out social invitation. Just a reminder to not wait for the perfect scenario, to encourage you or anybody else who may read the post and find value in a good wingman. So best of luck in either scenario! Edit: also I am not in London. Edit 2: I am leaving my original edit that I res…
/r/seduction26/04/25 03:46 AM
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Didn't forget it just don't want to write a book every time I post lol
/r/seduction26/04/25 03:32 AM
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I agree with the simplicity of that assessment. Practice is possible in so many ways to build conversationalism. He said he's in a small city. Must be a very small city. But seriously that sounds like external circumstances and nothing to do with actual game or psychology. Once you are actually practicing: There are a lot of potential failure points: Hygiene and style Posture and confidence Conversation  This is assuming she is even available. Etc. Because there are different levels to …
/r/seduction26/04/25 02:22 AM
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A piece of advice about a wingman: it helps if you have different types that you like and also if there is respect to who has started their initial interaction versus you competing against your supposed wingman. Props to you if you find a proper wingman. That said: if you say you were going out I assume that it may be to a club or to a bar or pub of some sort;  so here would be my advice if you are waiting for your prospective wingman and have not found an adequate one yet. (also the same a…
/r/seduction23/04/25 03:25 AM
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You should be Googling the tea shops to see which ones have the most interesting decor and best rating. You should also see what other cool places there are very close to that tea shop. --The tea shop at Main and fourth looks interesting. Cool vibes. Resist the urge to text her until she gets back in touch with you.
/r/seduction23/04/25 03:04 AM
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Get to it. Get a shower, trim your stray hairs, put on your best outfit, and put any little tidbit of theory to practice. If you're chasing you're failing. Don't be a creep. Be ready to find out 1 million reasons why it will not work with that particular girl. You clearly don't have a girlfriend yet, so there is no one special one; so stop with that nonsense and get out there good luck.
/r/seduction22/04/25 09:37 PM
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