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| 2 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itIf you have a genuine connection with someone they will answer your text. Bars are rarely a place to find genuine connections. Look elsewhere imo. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 03:42 AM |
| 16 | You won’t get her by needing herNo one in the world is that stable. We all have bad days. To believe otherwise is to misunderstand the human condition. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love meDo you not text with your friends a lot? I have a conversation with at least two of my friends every day, a lot of times on the phone, and talk to my mother every day. My girlfriend and I text good morning, when she gets to work, in between jobs, have a phone conversation on her way home, throughout the night as we're doing stuff independently, and play a few turns of scrabble before saying goodnight. We've been dating a year and a half though and only see her every three days on average with no… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:54 PM |
| 10 | Life is easier after stopping trying to dateTbh "trying to get good with women" probably shouldn't be something you pursue directly. Living a happy, social, moderately successful life while occasionally looking for a woman to share that with has always worked for me and I'm by no means conventionally attractive. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Do people go to bars alone? Male or femaleI go to pubs, bars, and restaurants alone all the time and I'm not even trying to meet women right now. I like to be in public for food, a coffee, some light reading, stand up comedy, see a band play, anything. Sometimes you strike up a conversation, sometimes you don't. It's just nice to be around other people sometimes, and if I want to do something I just do it. I don't need a posse with me to hold my hand or inflate my ego. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Dating after Nuclear war?Muscles a Chad doesn't make | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Age Objection: "you re too old for me"Don't use pickup lines | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 12:22 PM |
| 6 | Giving a girl from my hometown a ride back from campus. She’s super hot. How do I not make it awkward and werid?This is basically IASIP "because of the implications" in a nutshell. Just focus on having fun. If it's a good time ask her out to coffee or a drink after you arrive and take it from there. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 04:31 PM |
| 62 | Here's what I've been doing on Tinder to get a casual fling every couple of months.People love to call others who intentionally manipulate people and the world for their own benefit "sociopaths." They want everyone to just "be themselves" and roll the dice to see if things work out, but that's not how anything works besides for the exceptionally lucky. As OP harbors no ill will and seeks for everyone to have a good time I'd say he objectively isn't. | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | There's really only 1 method that truly works and you don't really need to know anything else.This is true RE /u/ImJustSo's comment about Jung. People like to identify with the moniker 'introvert" because it makes them feel included in some sort of repressed group instead of admitting that they simply haven't put the time into learning basic interactive skills, accepting themselves, and overcoming their insecurities. It's almost always an excuse to protect a fragile ego. | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | There's really only 1 method that truly works and you don't really need to know anything else.I am very lucky to have two medium sized co-ed social groups I hang out with every week who both know each other and total around 12-14 people. I don't get laid through them but it makes me so happy that I would not hesitate to cull any girl that didn't get along with them bc I value the opinion of my friends way more and it shows. Moving to another city would obliterate that confidence for me and change my strategy for finding a partner entirely. | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Swallow this.Not so much advice as much as it is a concession. Shorter guys look fatter faster, but on the flip side, they look jacked and muscular way faster than tall guys. | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Swallow this.Women are just as capable of being mislead if they are just friends. These behaviors only come out in abusive/stalky types when in private with romantic partners. If you are actually questioning yourself it is as simple as personally knowing whether you've done any of these things or not. There's no value in having others serve as your conscience. Social value is good for everyone, but repeat predators tend to ironically have a good amount of it. How many times have you heard that a murderer was… | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 04:21 AM |
| 4 | Swallow this.Develop a great body. The face does matter, but fashionable, tailored clothes on a hot body with some social chops will solve most problems. | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 10:40 PM |
| – | Swallow this.To be frank, plenty of people love and support men who are accused of all sorts of fuckery for one simple fact, they don't behave like that around their friends so it must be a lie. I've known several guys who are well-liked and were some of the best of my friends but they end up having secrets they keep about their love lives, like abuse, or even rape that comes out much later. It takes years of these kinds of accusations from multiple sources for it to whittle down the respect they hold enough… | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 10:35 PM |
| – | Friend used me for sex to rebound. Caught feelings but she got back with her ex. Any advice to get over her.Don't check her social and don't talk to her for now. Find something that will actively consume your mind in a good way like a new personal project or a challenging book. Dress well, continue taking care of yourself, and stay social outside of the internet. Also, consider just finding someone else to sleep with. They say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else and it works tbh. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 06:55 AM |
| 1 | DamnPeople do talk to each other out in the real world. Sometimes they even make jokes! | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:07 PM |
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