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Please film this interaction. I'm 90% sure it'd go viral
/r/seduction04/08/24 03:18 AM
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No women have ever been attracted to me even when I had a social life and felt better about myself, I’ve heard people make remarks about my looks before and I’ve posted on r/amiugly and people told me I am indeed ugly. If a guy is average looking he will meet some women who think he’s attractive, I’ve never met any. I haven’t even had friends who are women.
/r/seduction29/10/22 12:50 AM
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Has there ever been any evidence to back up you not meeting those “standards”? You’re truly getting in your own way here. It’s not like you walk down the street and girls look at you in disgust, you’re an average looking guy. Sorry you’re not Channing Tatum. I’m just here to give advice, it’s up to you how you proceed but I’ll finish it with this; you’re 30 years old, grow up, stop wallowing in your own self doubt. From a woman’s perspective, it’s pathetic. Women don’t want pathetic men.
/r/seduction29/10/22 12:38 AM
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Firstly you need to fix how you view yourself. Women don’t care about attractiveness to the same extent that men do, use this to your advantage. Get good at socialising, flirting and exerting confidence. Tbh you’re not even a bad looking dude, add your current confidence level though and you become unattractive.
/r/seduction29/10/22 12:29 AM
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Wait till they grab out a cig and light it for them. Edit: /s
/r/seduction28/10/22 10:51 PM
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Relate your opener to her instagram profile- do NOT mention you matched on bumble. If your opener is witty enough and related to her, you might be able to get a response.
/r/seduction26/10/22 10:11 PM
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Seduction and basketball are not the same thing.
/r/seduction26/10/22 10:06 PM
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Hahah why?
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:44 PM
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Just talk to her. If you go in with a list of potential talking points from people on reddit, you’ll come off as a MASSIVE creep. Seduction is one of those things that you have to learn yourself, tap into your inner self or whatever. Just talk.
/r/seduction26/10/22 11:12 AM
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Lmao you didn’t even read the post did you? He literally stated that her behaviour is odd around him (not typical of someone in her role) yet you completely ignore that and give your opinion anyway? You’d make a terrible lawyer
/r/seduction26/10/22 11:01 AM
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‘Make her melt’ with your words, not your hands.
/r/seduction26/10/22 10:28 AM
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I agree with you, but you’re forgetting women are different to men. Women are more emotional and allow that emotion to dictate their actions, thus what women find attractive isn’t as black and white as you’re stating it is.
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:11 AM
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Used you for sex. Move on. Also in future, NEVER send a second message if you’ve been left on read. Making it very easy for her to ghost yo ass.
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:46 AM
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What is it that you disagree with? I didn’t read it all but based on half the points he made, i think he makes valid points that will work in practice.
/r/seduction18/10/22 10:54 AM
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You fucked that one up my man, no rectifying that situation. To answer your question, relate your conversation to the immediate environment.
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:10 AM
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It’s a bad idea. They get showered with compliments daily from guys they won’t think twice about. Complimenting a girl as soon as you meet automatically puts you into their ‘simp’ category and then you’ve lost all hope.
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:11 AM
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I can’t believe you got that at a strip club, all the clubs I’ve been to only let you feel them up above the waist
/r/seduction11/10/22 06:05 AM
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Yeah I’m my opinion you will have to put up with it if you want to continue dating her. That’s not to say there’s not a few things you can do to assert your dominance when out in public. From a bystanders point of view, is it clear you two are in a relationship? Do you have your arm around her? Do you make affectionate displays in public? Guys wouldn’t bother you if it was clear you are together. In terms of her texting guys, she seems to love getting attention from them and it would be borderli…
/r/seduction10/10/22 01:31 AM
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She’s into you, don’t overthink it and just be yourself. That’s worked up to this stage, there’s no point in changing your strategy.
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:23 PM
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Winning them over is a solid achievement. To me it makes looks unimportant.
/r/seduction07/10/22 10:04 PM
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I've never heard about these standards.
/r/seduction05/10/22 01:18 AM
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On what grounds?
/r/seduction03/10/22 03:23 AM
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Aight, you do you.
/r/seduction03/10/22 03:22 AM
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Social interaction and a relationship with sex are 2 different things. Social interaction doesn’t involve love (generally) and that’s the whole basis for my argument. So again I ask, what’s your point?
/r/seduction03/10/22 03:05 AM
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I agree, social interaction is important. What’s your point?
/r/seduction03/10/22 03:01 AM
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You’re comparing yourself to a baby and acting like it’s a valid argument…
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:54 AM
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Excuse me, you dropped something……. My jaw Edit: /s
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:41 AM
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Unfortunately I’m not the one that came up with it, I wish I was though. You know what, follow the urge to have intimacy and let it hold off your depression for a short while but mark my words, you will never be in control or your emotions. You will live each day with one thing to live for and when that one thing eventually goes away (because statistically, it will) your depression will be back but most likely worse and You won’t be able to climb out of the pit of despair that comes with going t…
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:14 AM
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You don’t need a relationship, you need water and food. You’re lying to yourself in order to warrant your feelings.
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:08 AM
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No it’s not abnormal, the reason my words are harsh is because you’re not accepting the root cause of your depression (your negative thoughts). The vast majority of males all crave intimacy, it’s just a biological urge the we have to deal with. Deal with it and stop letting it control you
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:05 AM
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They provide happiness and fulfilment because of the emotion love. The blinding emotion that causes people to go from relationship to relationship without ever working on themselves. Do you know what happens if you keep relying on it to get by? You become a shell of a man who can’t cope without a woman by your side. In other words, weak
/r/seduction02/10/22 11:51 PM
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Your depression is not caused by a lack of intimacy. Your depression is caused by your non stop negative thoughts about not having the intimacy you so badly want. See how I used ‘want’ not ‘need’? I’m sorry mate but someone needs to say it, grow the fuck Up. Women aren’t here to make you feel better about yourself.
/r/seduction02/10/22 11:48 PM
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ioi??
/r/seduction01/10/22 10:41 PM
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Are you saying you can’t adopt the mindset?
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:37 PM
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Yeah I’ve adopted this mindset, it works rather well. The reason you’re having trouble achieving this mentality is because you’re lying to yourself. You need a legitimate reason that will be extremely personal to you in order to fully adopt the mindset. The reason I came up with is; I feel relationships are unnecessary and only hold you back from achieving goals. In terms of not caring whether or not I got sex, the amount of time and money you have to put in just isn’t worth it. These reasons mo…
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:08 AM
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Bro you’re literally an average looking dude and glasses don’t change that in the slightest. Why are you purposely putting yourself down? Lift yourself up and I promise, the women will come to you
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:09 PM
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Confidence
/r/seduction22/09/22 11:42 AM
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He has the confidence that women want. They are naturally drawn to his confidence. You don’t yet have that confidence. Get the confidence
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:20 PM
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You texted her three times?! How far apart were the texts? By doing that you’ve shot yourself in the foot. Maybe she would have replied but was just busy, but now she will never reply because by sending three texts in a row, she will be thinking you’re desperate and needy and girls don’t want desperate and needy guys. You played this all the wrong way my friend. Whoever told you to be yourself is lying. fake it till you make it or you won’t get anywhere.
/r/seduction21/09/22 09:54 PM
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So the girls obviously know their being filmed for YouTube? Wouldn’t be surprised if they’re being paid
/r/seduction20/09/22 09:03 PM
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Is there legitimate evidence of him sleeping with 6 women per month or did he say that on his twitter feed? Because if he did, then he doesn’t sleep with 6 women per month and lacking a basic amount of confidence, he felt the need to tell people of his “success”
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:28 PM
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And remember, you can get as ripped as you want But without flaunting yourself and seeing proof that women are attracted to you, you won’t gain the confidence necessary.
/r/seduction16/09/22 10:58 PM
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It’s hard because it’s a personal thing and everyone will find different ways to gain confidence. I’m not a professional or anything but what worked for me was the old adage ‘fake it till you make it’. I started going out by myself once a week with the goal of socialising- not only to women. When I go out, I portray the utmost confidence in myself. My shoulders are always back, my chest slightly puffed and a small smile on my face. Practice this in the mirror to see the difference. This has work…
/r/seduction16/09/22 10:56 PM
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I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, all those guys that don’t seem to add value, most likely have an innate confidence in themselves and women see this. Those guys aren’t worrying about what value they add or if they get rejected. They’ve probably never even asked themselves if they’re good enough. This is the difference between them and you.
/r/seduction16/09/22 10:49 PM
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I believe actual seduction is a personal thing so you can’t really give concrete advice. All you can really do is give little shoves in the right direction, hoping that person will find their own way to seduce women.
/r/seduction16/09/22 10:40 PM
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I know you said other than confidence but confidence really is the key. I don’t mean having confidence, I mean showing it.
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:09 PM
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If they don’t respond, never send a follow up text. This will make you come off as desperate, not working your favour.
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:58 AM
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Women can smell fear my man. You need to exert maximum confidence to attract them.
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:10 PM
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There could be multiple reasons you’re not getting attention back. When you’re walking around, how’s your posture? Are your shoulders back and chest slightly puffed to exert confidence? How’s your fashion? Do you look like you take care of yourself? Once those two steps are completed, you can start working on the approach. When you approach women, do you change your ‘opener’ to match the environment/situation? If all you have in your arsenal is “hi” then I can confidently say (with my shoulders …
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:39 AM
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Don't work on yourself for women. That makes you weak willed and women don't like weak willed men. All the guys that don't have stable jobs, still live with their parents blah blah blah and still get women are confident in themselves and most likely have 'I don't give a fuck' attitude. Women are drawn to this attitude.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:12 AM
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Since you clearly have the looks, you need to focus on other aspects that will increase your attractiveness to women. These other aspects in my opinion are confidence and fashion. Start on fashion first as this will help gain confidence. Wear better fitting clothes, experiment with what clothes suit you and create good looking outfits. Once you’ve sorted your fashion, you Can start on confidence. I don’t mean actually being confident, this is where you will implement “fake it till you make it”. …
/r/seduction03/09/22 11:22 PM
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Go alone to a bar and put your social hat on. Forget about women for now, just simply go and introduce yourself to people and start a conversation. Once you’ve met a few people, you’ll naturally have more confidence and you may be ready to start approaching women.
/r/seduction03/09/22 11:04 PM
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The only way you’ll find out if she likes you or not is to ask her out, no one other then yourself can confirm her romantic interest.
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:15 AM
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This is more like 60%, there’s a lot more variables then just plain attractiveness
/r/seduction26/08/22 11:19 PM
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Agreed, I think of a coffee date as a precursor to the actual date, like a trial period
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:19 AM
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The reason you can’t get sex on the first date is because you clearly lack the confidence required to bed a woman. Complaining about it like there’s nothing you can do is weak, women don’t like weak men.
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:28 PM
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Pay for it. I went through a stage where I paid for sex once every couple of months. I learnt quite a bit.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:49 AM
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I'm glad I could be of encouragement! Best of luck for future endeavours.
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:13 AM
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You now just need to set a time and place. Try not to leave it too long.
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:17 AM
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Think of it this way, the worst thing that can happen is you find out how he feels and you make him feel attractive (a woman came and asked him out for crying out loud). If you don’t do it, he won’t feel attractive and you won’t know how he feels. This is the only path forward. To add to this, think of Schrödinger’s cat. If you don’t know what this is, a cat is put in a box with poison gas that may or may not have gone off. Therefore the cat can be thought of as both alive and dead at the same t…
/r/seduction02/08/22 01:22 AM
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Do you ask the girls for their number? You’re already approaching, you’re good at making conversation with them, all you’re missing is the confirmation of whether or not they’re attracted to you. You can get this by asking for the number
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:48 AM
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Girls don’t care about looks as much as men as do😂 you can quite easily change their perception of you through a social interaction.
/r/seduction01/08/22 09:08 AM
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You might be coming on too hard. What do you generally say/do when you approach a girl? Do you build any rapport before announcing your interest and asking for the number?
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:55 AM
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When I go to a bar alone (which I do quite often) I go with the goal to socialise and a secondary goal of talking to women. I’ll socialise with some guys first, make some new friends, become comfortable in the environment and then slowly work my way to talking to women. Just having casual conversations. Remembering the primary goal is just to socialise
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:32 AM
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Depending on the woman, this could potentially work. Everyone here saying it won’t work under any circumstances are incorrect. No one 100% understands what goes through a woman’s mind and what will work when picking them up. Stop thinking you know everything and giving OP downvotes. He just asked a simple question.
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:18 PM
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Some women will initiate something sexual by the third date but majority won’t. It’s up to the man to initiate as it plays into the whole ‘chicks love confident dudes’
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:19 AM
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Start with the environment you’re in, have some good small talk, maybe a bit of flirting (once you get good enough). Avoid the boring questions like what do you do, keep the conversation in the moment.
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:14 AM
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I completely understand where you’re coming from as I’m the same way. In order to change that I’m doing exactly what PrettyBoiWayne has said. Im going to a different pub every weekend by myself and socialising with people, I’ll usually start with other males, make some rounds, get a feel for the room and make myself known. From that point I’ve created a comfortable environment where I know multiple people and I’ll start talking to girls. Not flirting, just simple listening and responding. I can …
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:32 AM
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Honestly man, you’re most likely imagining things. The safe bet would be to casually have a conversation with her, build up rapport and then ask her out. If you ask her out now, you’ll most likely fail.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:02 AM
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When was rape mentioned?
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:34 AM
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If women are interested, they’ll make the first move? I call BULLSHIT
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:32 AM
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That’s the issue with texting, you can’t form an actual bond with the person you’re speaking too. Thus, they can very easily get bored and stop replying all together. I’ve had it done to me and I’ve done it to others. You can’t compare online dating to the real world.
/r/seduction10/06/22 07:23 AM
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Ouss what a good idea
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:25 AM
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Well said
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:49 AM
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Wake up early just so she can have a few more minutes with you? That’s the cringiest shit I’ve ever read😂 women aren’t so black and white like you make them out to be.
/r/seduction30/05/22 07:54 PM
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