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DiscussionSeniorBootLance/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:53 PM
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Aaaand no one is denying that, I’m highlighting that as a society we give women a free pass in almost all things including laws surrounding emotional and psychological abuse, a form of abuse found frequently enough in men but overwhelmingly used more frequently by female abusers, we treat them like children because it’s (1) very profitable for big business and (2) it’s beneficial to government to keep men suppressed with laws that favor women over them and (3) becomes a self-replicating pattern …
/r/MensRights02/02/24 05:38 AM
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Blondes or “blondes”/brunettes with an inferiority complex?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/24 02:56 PM
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Psychological abuse isn’t a matter of opinion… Wow. Just wow.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 09:53 PM
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I’m very glad you said that :) Have you ever wondered why it’s so consistent? Why the vast overwhelming majority of serial killers tend to come from single abusive mothers?
/r/MensRights31/01/24 05:30 PM
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Emotional abuse certainly counts as abuse, doesn’t it? Emotional manipulation? Screaming fits? Women strike their kids as well and have custody in single parent homes far more often, leaving them greater chances to do harm then men.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 05:28 PM
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Single mom = single mom, sometimes mommy cheats and gets child total custody anyway, sometimes she never married, sometimes she’s a godmother, don’t put all blame on men, women are capable of being held accountable as equals as well you know.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 05:07 PM
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Women are perfectly able to raise to raise children alone, the question is money. Do you don’t think women who abuse and/or neglect their kids in single mother households shouldn’t be held accountable for their actions? Do you think they should be held to a lesser standard compared to that of a man? You first, I owe you nothing.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 05:05 PM
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And how many of those men are raised by single moms again??? Go be subversive somewhere else.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 01:40 PM
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IIRC the FDA just recently and quietly announced something about adjusting the threshold of informed consent to the point that if the FDA (a non elected bureaucracy) believes that something ”probably” wont hurt you that they maintain the right to experiment on a person without their informed consent. Can’t remember the post but it scared me deeply, I’ll try to find it real quick.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 11:42 PM
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Big enough following -> oh hey everyone here’s my Etsy!
/r/MensRights25/01/24 02:26 PM
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If they fall for it, it’s time to pack up and leave.
/r/MensRights24/01/24 05:44 AM
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Learn the differences in behavior between female and male narcissism, anti social personality disorder, etc all cluster B personality disorders and manipulative personality disorders and avoid them. Never go somewhere private with these types of people, especially including the feminine ones because they can easily swindle you out of your resources.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 01:21 PM
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Oof, ok.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 02:36 PM
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I heard it was beginning to fade away but I guess I’m wrong. Shame, I considered tourism there but if the culture shifted that much then I don’t want to risk a false accusation from a local woman for her financial gain, I’ll just spend my money in Pakistan instead.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 12:58 PM
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Remember #believeallwomen ? That’s going to make a comeback.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 12:39 PM
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Everyone has the right to be stupid. Stop undermining the men who wish they were intact and had more sensation down there. Many circumcised men are literally numb but if we speak out against it publicly we are shunned as inferior men with defective genitals. Which many of us never would have been if we had just been left intact. I’m happy that you’re proud of your penises ability to only feel a fraction of the pleasure it would’ve felt if it were intact, good for you, and if you were recently ci…
/r/MensRights18/01/24 11:01 PM
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Many of us why are circumcised completely disagree with you because we read the research and anecdotal complaints of men cut as adults who say they lose a ton of sensation because (shocker) amputating 50% of your nerve endings including the ridged band and the frenulum means you feel less down there forever. Stop normalizing it. You’re okay with being circumcised, good for you but seriously stfu, we want to end circumcision and you saying “I’m CuT aNd I lIkE iT” only serves to continue the abuse…
/r/MensRights18/01/24 10:11 PM
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Why bring up “other academics have looked into the matter and said nah” if you cant confirm that there isn’t a conflict of interest? Until proven otherwise everything you said is meaningless.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 03:48 AM
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Just asking, how close of a relationship does she have with those other academics? Only asking because I’m certain there’s a nerd version of the bro code out there.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 03:38 AM
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Aren’t there like several investigations going on about her now?
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:43 AM
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What’s the ratio between foreign mother born to native mother born? I’d love to see something that says “immigrant mothers are X% more likely to marry and have children than native Spanish women”.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:31 AM
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As nice as it would be to ban this psyop, we can’t because they’ll “set a new precedent” and use their past action of banning TikTok to ban or outright censor all sorts of information that they’ll just say is suspected of being chinese information warfare.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 09:05 AM
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Back when I was still bothering with Instagram some pages I followed that sometimes they had a problem with people with extreme political and racial views (all types, not just white supremacy or far right shit but it was more common in English speaking groups) seeping into their spaces so every once in a while they’d have a “purge” by posting content so offensive to these people that they’d either out themselves or just leave the groups.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 10:45 AM
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Behavior like yours is why the MRA movement doesn’t get off of the ground, too many shameful “men” (children) knocking others down to feel better about themselves. Effectively a saboteur. You should consider changing your behavior.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 07:41 AM
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Uhhuh
/r/MensRights10/01/24 07:26 AM
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Ehh, I agree that communities need a center to justify spending time with each other but the church has destroyed itself from within. Used to be Christian myself but I’ve met too many men just in my own family who were sexually abused in church or in church related functions (camp, choir) to think that the Church was still gods house. Priests, deacons and ministers of all kinds of Christian sects have been known to be shuffled around after an allegation pops up. The church ruined its own reputat…
/r/MensRights09/01/24 11:49 PM
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Cowardice and reproduction IMO: If they speak up they risk all of the consequences of both a legal system and a society can throw at them. They’ll be branded cowards, traitors, and hardly a woman in existence would reproduce without them because it’s only “the warrior caste” (or, in reality, the survivors of the warrior caste) that has ultimate desirability in the eyes of the masses. IIRC I believe that the reason some people believe we even think like this is a result from our hunter-gatherer d…
/r/MensRights07/01/24 02:29 PM
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Go to the police. Just do it. It’ll be okay in the end.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 11:49 PM
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You don’t hire smart people to enforce rules, you hire people just smart enough to know how to enforce them. Intelligent cops ask questions.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:23 PM
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Then a book deal.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:21 PM
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Or for good men to just stay away from all women unless there are obvious security cameras nearby.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 06:16 PM
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What? Of course that seed could do that, but the point of evil eugenicists is to prevent the woman from having kids in this situation. Male DNA is t the sole thing that determines intelligence, it’s a combination of both parents.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 10:07 AM
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Can we just be honest with ourselves for a moment and admit to ourselves that whether or not this movement is organized or a naturally occurring phenomenon in western society that it has the effect of a eugenics campaign by getting these easily manipulated mothers out of the gene pool in an indirect way? Like if a movement can’t convince the mom to get her tubes tied but it can convince her that her kids are transgender it has the safe effect in the long run by literally ending that specific lin…
/r/MensRights20/12/23 10:40 PM
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Attack them where it hurts. Their money.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 06:00 PM
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Why not try to infiltrate the universities and school boards and try to reverse it from within? That’s how they did it to you after all.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 07:03 AM
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Women are incapable of abuse under this system. It’s in the wording. It’s to protect women. The list of things they are protecting women from is not complete though. It also protects women from prosecution. This will be selectively enforced.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 07:02 AM
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We started pissing in different rooms to prevent sex crimes. The men want that to stay normal, but pretentious women are now trespassing into the men’s restrooms because they think having different places to piss is sexist. Fuck it, at this point if I hear struggling in the bathroom I am not going to intervene because at this point I will be accused of sexism by “denying female empowerment” through intervening and people will say “oi, so you think women aren’t capable of self defense because the…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 07:56 PM
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Without coercion it becomes a self solving problem. Career women don’t have lots of babies, they have careers. They basically eugenics themselves out of existence. Cold, but true, and requires having to put up with fewer women’s marches. We don’t need to keep them in the kitchen barefoot and constantly pregnant, we need to realize that they have political power and the only way political power is ever stripped from any demographic is through violence. This whole “all men need to be men” thing on…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 07:11 PM
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Zoom out and look at the issues from a 30,000 foot view and you’ll see that it is more than a labour vs Tory/democrat vs republican issue. You’ll find that the anti male cancer is everywhere. Gender equality is good, but stomping on men isn’t gender equality and the right is guilty of their own version of it called “traditional gender roles”, those very things you fetishize, because they encourage male destruction at the benefit of women. “Traditional gender roles” got you here, and Trump won’t …
/r/MensRights19/12/23 06:59 PM
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“GEE WHIZ I SURE AM PROUD OF HAVING A DESENSITIZED COCK AND SLAVING AWAY FOR SIXTY HOURS A WEEK FOR A WIFE WHO HATES ME BECAUSE I BARELY SPEND TIME WITH HER AND A SON WHO DESPISES ME FOR HAVING HIS JUNK SLICED UP JUST SO THAT HE LOOKS LIKE MINE. WOW I AM SO PROUD THAT I GET TO LOSE MY LEGS IN THE NEXT GREAT WAR! WAIT, MY TRADITIONAL GENDER ROLE AS A MAN IS KICKING IN WHEN I GET DIVORCED AND SHE TAKES EVERYTHING I OWN? THATS AWESOME I AM SO PROUD OF MY CULTURE FOR FINANCIALLY, PHYSICALLY AND EMOT…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 06:48 PM
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We basically need a digital toolkit to teach men how to spot BPD and how to deescalate and avoid.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 11:04 PM
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It’s not sexist if it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:03 PM
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He is not saying that the man in question is owed this by his girlfriend, he is saying that his only support available in our society is her. She will be his only crutch to lean on while she has many more. He isn’t being misogynistic, he is recognizing the empathy gap disparity. Our society treats men as if they are emotionless automatons, only capable of the “big five” feelings: hungry, happy, horny, angry, and sleepy.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 06:21 PM
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Is “nice guy” still an under handed insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:30 PM
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Exactly, there have been a lot of white women in America caught having sex with children and dogs recently, so if anything they have adequately proven that they too are equally capable of sexual degeneracy. YAY EQUALITY (sobs)
/r/MensRights26/11/23 05:26 AM
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Doesn’t that also include white people doing that to themselves as well though? (See federal level government representatives in Scotland for a recent example) WHY THE FUCK AM I BEING DOWNVOTED FOR ASKING A SINCERE QUESTION???
/r/MensRights26/11/23 05:24 AM
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Let’s address the issue instead of attacking the poster. Infighting like this only serves to degrade the cause. Attack the idea, not the man.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 04:41 PM
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How bad is it there?
/r/MensRights25/11/23 12:55 AM
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What do you think the specific agenda is? Not hating obviously, I just don’t understand the other side’s narrative.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 09:06 PM
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Staying away from there forever then.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/23 06:53 PM
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Seriously, just start shaming them. We have to do it carefully though. Needs to be a precision strike, can’t get them allied with the feminists. Gonna have to use precise speech to specifically single out their toxic behaviors.
/r/MensRights21/11/23 05:21 AM
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Of course not, respect does not equal “white knighting” and degrading oneself for a chance at copulation. Respect is (to a degree) the baseline that every human owes every other human. “Simping” or “white knighting” is being willing to allow oneself to be subjugated for the chance of sex. Basically, I think we should frown on men who throw themselves in the dirt to appease people for the chance of an orgasm, just like how we should frown upon men who throw other men under the bus for the same th…
/r/MensRights20/11/23 11:22 PM
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What country is this so I know to avoid it?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/11/23 11:01 PM
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How is it apartheid?
/r/MensRights20/11/23 08:58 PM
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We just need to normalize that being a simp is equivalent to being a piece of shit. Really. We need to inoculate the people against the idea. It should be better associated with weakness.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 02:35 PM
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If you are in America then you absolutely need to see this court case through. Domestic violence cases are typically gendered in America, she will get a slap on the wrist while if the tables were turned you would’ve been decked by the police the moment they showed up and would likely be in prison right now unlike her who is “arrested” at home. For the sake of your children you need to dot every I and cross every T. Save all of your documents and be ready for the worst. She’ll probably want a div…
/r/MensRights20/11/23 02:33 AM
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Ah okay I misunderstood my bad
/r/MensRights20/11/23 12:51 AM
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Is it entitlement? Each person could leave at any point. Seems to be an attempt at preserving the nuclear family ideal.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 12:48 AM
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It’s the old male disposability argument. Women make boys and girls. Boys become soldiers. Girls become women. Women make boys and girls. Boys become soldiers. Girls become women. Women… You get the idea. We will need peace on earth to end this.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 07:17 AM
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Then I think we solved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:14 PM
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Wouldn’t a lack of dark triad traits be indicative of a woman who is safer to leave with the children unattended from an evolutionary perspective? Dark triad traits in a mother with an infant/infants wouldn’t be beneficial to the species long term due to an increased likelihood of mother on child violence, likely out of frustration inherent to raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:32 PM
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Discriminating against non-binary/gender fluid/gender nonconforming people is a crime in many states. Also… It’s perfectly legal in many states (jurisdiction permitting, of course) to secretly record people without consent provided the person recording genuinely believes that a crime is being committed… So if OP identifies a certain way other than their gender assigned at birth or their chromosomal status and believes they is being discriminated against then perhaps the law is on their side! The…
/r/MensRights17/11/23 12:36 AM
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bold of you to assume that these are my original genitals!
/r/MensRights17/11/23 12:16 AM
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Eh, depends on how you frame it. He must be gay! (In HR) “comments like that make me feel marginalized and uncomfortable and I’m just not sure how much of that makes sense to tolerate in todays work environment! Is there a way to progress past this and make sure the work environment isn’t negatively affected or becomes a space where these comments are being tolerated?” Learn to speak woke-e-neese
/r/MensRights17/11/23 12:09 AM
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Or just go straight to HR.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 11:41 PM
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Real mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:41 PM
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Ask better questions and you’ll have better debates because all I learned is that a Redditor seems to equate child birth to defecation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:40 PM
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That is my answer. I refuse to answer with a simple yes or no because it was a terrible quality question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:38 PM
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The point of the feeling of hunger is to nourish your body, not to make you a poop factory. What is the evolutionary point of satiating hunger? It is to keep the human alive. What is the evolutionary point of satiating horniness? It is to make more humans. Who taught you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:16 PM
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I forgot the /s, I was striving for dark humor tbh, my bad. Lol Seriously though, probably best not to reproduce with genital cutters, they tend to make it a family tradition. Source? I’m an American male… and my father is adept that sex was only meant for reproduction instead of pleasure and told me in simple terms that he had mine cut for that very reason. Speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:57 PM
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This isn't about me or my life, I'm talking generally about what the average woman experiences in relationships with men. how can you speak for the average woman? As for my graphic response, your response proves my point. First, no, I’m not an addict, thanks :) second, you dodge my question entirely, so I’ll simplify it. Why can’t you just ask what you want in a simple and direct manner?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:52 PM
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Basically, I foresee a lot a of child free women having rosters of handsome fuck buddies to rotate through. No need for kids and sex whenever desired? Why not? As for the sexless dudes, there is technological advances that will make it easier for them to get by. Or religion, lol. Or just becoming a volcel and staying celibate 🤷🏼‍♂️. Who knows. And I was talking about the guy seeking greener pastures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:59 AM
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It is genetic, and life experiences can override genetics. That sexual feeling called lust is the sexual desire to reproduce. Now don’t get me wrong I’m not trying to be a creep and demand you have kids. If what you described is your personal life experience then in fact please don’t, not only is it humane for you not to do so in your situation not to, but it’ll be profitable for me. See above. I just find it silly that you can’t equate lust to the biological, subconscious desire to reproduce. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:55 AM
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Only idiots shame women for literally having more vagina to feel against their cocks. Think about it like a reasonable man. Why on earth would someone feel something as fantastic as a vagina on a bare cock and think to himself “gee, this feeling is so great but you what would make it better? Less of it!” If you ever come across someone like that in the wild warn everyone with a vagina because men with the genes that tell them that having less vagina touching their ducks should not breed and pass…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:41 AM
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Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:08 AM
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At least there is money to be made. Plus it’s a self solving problem. Women who want kids will be more desirable in the long run as men typically want childless lives less often then women do, so the market will shift. I’d respectfully recommend that you consider stating your desire to be childless immediately in the relationship and frequently remind whatever man you find since, you know, men only want to “cum and go”🤷🏼‍♂️ No hate, just restating what you described. Plus, it’ll make your life e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:02 AM
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You’d aid yourself that all the man cares about is impregnating you and ditching you. Assuming that you believe that to be true, then by that logic, yeah, it falls on you since you believe that men are nothing but bipedal cum dispensers. So stay away from loser cum dispensers and choose winner cum dispensers instead. I’m literally just using your logic here. “All men want is [blank]”… okay then ma’am I’ll steel man this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:58 AM
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Honestly, I think only looking 3-5 years is a little short sighted. 20-30 years is likely better because out of the currently available batch of women, the ones who are prone to wanting babies will likely have the most while the women who don’t want kids simply won’t pass their genetics on to the next generation. Forgive me please for using the “eugenics” word, but it seems that some women are committing acts of eugenics against themselves for various reasons and I am fully supportive of that ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:52 AM
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So your problem isn’t the test per se, but when and how it is requested? Ok that is reasonable. I will say that stating that all men think like this is blatantly sexist though, because keep in mind that, we’ll, this is Reddit. The 10/10 heroic paramedics who donate blood every week and have excellent relationships with both of their parents because they have perfect emotional intelligence are rare here. That’s like walking into a homeless shelter thinking you’ll find someone good with money. Tec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:27 AM
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The hint is the word letting. That’s a serious question that the sexually selective side of the species should consider, “is this dude gonna be a loser if he knocks me up?” Plus, men wanting to know who the father is is valid. Hookup culture dominates dating, it’s a meat market. Plus it’s good for women too. Babies still do get switched at hospitals. Sometimes for stupid reasons like a nurse being careless, or even racist. I remember my auntie talking about horror stories when she was a nurse ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:00 AM
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So, you think all men care more about having as much sex with as many women as possible more than raising their children? What kind of men are you surrounded by in life? Like seriously, if I were wherever you lived I would move because if I were surrounded by a community that normalized that then I’d try to escape it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:46 AM
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Well if she has nothing to hide, then there is nothing to fear. Tennessee is accepting it as standard for unmarried couples, possibly for married couples too. Apparently there are a significant percentage of children who are not the descendants of the man on the birth certificate and it effected women seeking child support laws. Seems to me just another reason to be very selective about who you decide to risk making a baby with. Don’t want him to ask that question? Then don’t let him cum inside …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:42 AM
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What kind of men are you dating that aren’t empathetic, aren’t capable of screenshoting an emotional description wheel online to refer to when at a loss for words to describe their feelings, can feed themselves and enthusiastically ask you how you like your pussy ate out?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:07 AM
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We don’t hate the players we hate the game, and the game keeps getting more difficult as time goes by. Your statement is too broad of a generalization to be more serious than lashing out. Look at japan. They’re way ahead of us as far as this phenomenon is going. They’re way ahead of us with this “game”, and many men simply gave up and chose another game to play: video games. It’s easy to mock and understandably so, but if you refuse to understand their perspectives then you’ll willfully never un…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:00 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:33 AM
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Personally I thought it was a culture of strong families.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 06:35 AM
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I see it too. Lots of Asian hate in the news these days, my biggest question is why? What’s the excuse to hate Asian people?
/r/MensRights14/11/23 04:01 AM
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It’s not “only male” that is the problem, the fact that abuse towards those who are “only male” is so overlooked in society that many men are going monk mode and opting out because they see that society sees them as “only male”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:54 PM
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Did I say I was anti marriage? No. What would you replace egalitarianism with? How would you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:41 PM
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Pre feminist structures work if women are worth fighting over as if they’re property, which (1) they’ve demonstrated that collectively they’re just as capable of being awful people like men and (2) they are not property. Turns out women shouldn’t be put on a pedestal and are just our equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:17 PM
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That is no excuse to find it acceptable to diddle kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:06 PM
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You base your moral compass on a law written by another human who was probably paid to write that law? Fuck dude, that means that with enough money I could get a law passed legalizing butt f@cking sheep but only on thursdays and you’d say “Well it’s legal so that means it’s okay! 🤷🏼‍♂️” Don’t vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:59 PM
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The over abundance of rich people.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 03:56 PM
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No I agree. Male only religious spaces can be very creepy, especially as a child. Literally speaking from experience. Myself, my dad, and many friends I’ve met have had similar bad experiences in male only spaces in America where they were mostly focused on religion but people ended up getting hurt/molested. Hell, look at the Boy Scouts controversy (always thought that the men there were creeps) or the Baptist Church investigations in the south.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:43 PM
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Yeah it’s a one way street in the UK and Australia, their cultures seem to believe that only women are capable of receiving abuse.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 07:27 AM
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Germany recognizes constant berating and criticizing as abuse too? Huh, ya know I’m looking at moving out of America one day, might have to look at Germany.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 05:06 AM
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Empires rise and fall Time to pack out bags, who wants to boof bullion and swim to Malta with me?
/r/MensRights13/11/23 05:03 AM
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I just like the part of the title in parentheses (WITH THEIR WORDS) Like ladies, that’s part of the problem. I would never expect a woman to protect me unless she was a paid law enforcement or medical practitioner and chivalry is dead (thankfully) sooo, deal with it. It’s literally like we are approaching “fend for yourselves like the men do” time and people still complain as if: Women: we demand equality! Men: ok. Women: no not like that… Men: welcome to the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:15 AM
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Is “post simp” bitterness really bitterness at all, or is it just a rational response to a change in the environment? After all, no one is owed a man risking their lives to save them. They are not entitled to a personal super man. If a woman is being hurt in public and a man physically interferes he risks serious injury, being confused with the perpetrator by law enforcement when they arrive, death, and if he grabs her to pull her away from danger he risks lawsuit for non consensual touching. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:54 PM
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(Very taboo) Correlation between suicide rates of both uncircumcised and circumcised men (neonatal, adolescent and adult if possible) I know it’s weird but America is the only country that cuts its sons for reasons other than religion. It would be interesting to see what the conclusion is.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 06:03 AM
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“Oi, ya mad cuz ya can’t say “cute” in pubs to lasses anymore because some orangey lookin’ lass might yell “misogyny” while her gal pal records and sends the video to your boss, just to get ya fired and arrested for having testosterone without a loicense? Have you considered throwing your life away for the crown instead?”
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:06 AM
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That minister will end up subtly encouraging men to join the army by years end, guaranteed
/r/MensRights12/11/23 12:49 AM
4

Rockefellers Rothchilds There’s a lot.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 12:48 AM
5

One worth jumping down, imo
/r/MensRights11/11/23 11:03 PM
3

“I’m going to stubbornly stick to my beliefs and expect everyone else to abide by them” Excited to vote for trump this election cycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:24 PM
2

That is not at all what I meant. Like, wow. Research Icelandic dating culture and gender relations, that is what I meant. (FFS just immediately assumed I meant make all women free use sex objects, wtf who hurt you?)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:59 PM
1

After reading about dating and social/gender norms in Iceland I seriously think we need to copy and paste that here immediately. They look like they have it figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:12 PM
1

We need egalitarianism in dating asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:06 PM
22

Cough overseas bank accounts cough
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:11 PM
-8

As a man who recognizes that you’re more likely to have a degree and therefore are more likely to achieve positions of governmental power than I am in this current age I’d like to formally request that if you are ever elected ruler of your nation, please launch the nukes. Our species is clearly so petty that we insist on destroying ourselves over the stupidest of reasons. Hell, we frequently surgically modify the genitals of infants with minimal or no anesthesia for the sake of “social norms”. J…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 11:42 PM
4

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure… Now is the time to truly level the playing field for an egalitarian society IMO. White women have tilted the table in their favor for decades and have made it obvious for more than a few years now.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 11:34 PM
8

A really good cure for this (and so many other social issues) would be an adjustment of consent laws for non security/crime related photography. As in, if you record people in public for social media without censoring their faces (exceptions made for recording crimes in progress) of people unless consent is given then very harsh penalties should be applied.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 11:29 PM
29

Status chasers. It’s a dick clit measuring contest.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 10:56 PM
16

My biggest concern is where the former contributors, writers and editors and up continuing their careers. Where will their influence spread to now, and how will it be countered in the future? We must, as men, plan ahead for the future and develop plans for all contingencies, starting with the most likely/realistic and working out way down to the most impractical.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 06:40 PM
1

I slightly disagree. “Strategic copulation” is a thing that still occurs today, though very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:46 PM
6

Sure they lose it too, but realistically how frequently does that happen compared to the other way around? So much for egalitarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:13 PM
0

“Only men would make a virus to kill themselves” We’re any of those hoops you jumped through on fire per chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:49 PM
-5

Side bar: (1) what am I supposed to do with this sudden empty feeling I have, and (2) would this explain why so many American men are “cut” at birth, to control their sexuality so that (prior to the invention of printed, then digital pornography) their only option to achieve “release” was with a woman, further incentivizing him to chase and subjugate himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:26 AM
5

FFS 🤦🏻‍♂️ lol
/r/MensRights08/11/23 01:19 AM
14

D-cell, specifically.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 10:38 PM
2

Great observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:19 PM
4

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:22 AM
4

Just seems like op is putting off a “you must be this rich to find love” vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:35 AM
5

Next time just say that you’re materialistic and seek status symbols to flaunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:29 AM
2

No problem, and personally I’m more of neutral pill I guess. It’s just good to learn things in a semi anonymous social platform. And yeah, it does sound frustrating, like how some male focused things are frustrating to communicate to women. We really are equal (whoop dee do big surprise)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:16 AM
2

Saving this for later. Appreciate you for posting this, but I’m exhausted and it’s 1am in my time zone. Thanks for the info though, I’ll be sure to start having iron supplements around more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:12 AM
3

I had no idea it was that high! 30%?!?! Why isn’t this public knowledge? And sincerely thank you, the more ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:12 AM
3

Yeah, I’ve just heard the headache line so much that it leads me to believe that there could be another reason sometimes. Not trying to justify being pushy btw, no means no we aren’t Neanderthals. I think it might be due to differences in lived experiences and better education may help alleviate some (but sadly not all) of this. I guess my “problem” (hate to say it that way but my lack of eloquence is reading it’s ugly head) isn’t in the content of the sentence “I have a headache” but more so in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:51 AM
6

No problem. Hopefully my opinion wasn’t too out there. I realize now I didn’t completely register the part where you mentioned bleeding, which is extremely reasonable and I should’ve considered that. Was there something I missed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:27 AM
43

Personally, I’d just prefer a cool, calm “no thanks hun, I’m not in the mood” and if I follow up with an offer to cuddle instead, another “no thanks I’m [insert what her reason is here is], that’s all”. The “I have a headache” line is a classic line used in so many forms of media that I think when men hear it, we just assume a greater possibility of being lied to in the moment, and personally just being told no while also communicating that there isn’t animosity for respectful attempts at seduct…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:24 AM
23

+1 to this. Your traumatic experiences could help future wrongfully accused men. Respectfully, I hope you: (1) are doing as well as you can mentally and that you’ve taken proper measures to ensure your mental health is in as close to tip top shape given the terrible circumstances, and (2) considered sharing your insights in an anonymous manner that could be beneficial to others and protect yourself at the same time. Best of wished to you and your family.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 12:34 AM
25

Respectfully, where do you see these changes happening? I don’t ask to be a contrarian btw, I’m just eagerly seeking signs of hope.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 05:52 PM
10

Behavior like that? Nah, that’s ugly af.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/11/23 11:00 PM
1

Wrong. That “preference” was derived via subversive tactics. That preference was granted via the ability to manipulate the “women are wonderful” effect. All we to is sit here, cross our arms and complain on the internet without actively strategizing! Assigning blame and pointing fingers like that is part of the problem, and using their own tactics against them, and improving their own tactics through research, trial and error will prevail. “YoU mIsSeD tHe PaRt…” that’s unconstructive.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 08:52 PM
7

Then there needs to be a movement to change the law from within. These feminist movements, they did not just complain online, they actually did something, and not just write stupid signs or silly protests. They went to college, achieved successful positions of power and used them to further their goals. No one in this sub is doing that. At. All. Unless that part of it changes, nothing ever will. It’s time to get to work.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 04:40 PM
11

Note to self: Don’t. Date. Nurses. Especially. From. The. UK.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 03:01 PM
1

Nothing prevents it. Then it would fall onto supervision and reporting and the ToS agreement signed by the students and/or their parents at the beginning of every school year which would expire at the end of the school year. Basically, all interactions between students on campus between staff and other students would be subject. And we live in an AI age now. It’s definitely within the realm of possibility, and is already done at the nation state level.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 01:25 AM
4

Well what would we rather have: Over reach during school hours, or the same rate of sexual assault and sexual assault allegations?
/r/MensRights03/11/23 07:46 PM
6

Well, for those private moments, however I’m thinking about monitoring children’s digital devices while they attend public school. Want your child to attend public school? Agree to the new ToS and press accept for the school to monitor your child’s text messages so that the school can protect its employees.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 06:54 PM
9

It is possible to record without audio after all. Just hit mute and keep hands to yourselves.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 06:40 PM
45

We are really getting to a point where we need cameras all over schools. At least there is AI to track kids, maybe a Chinese system social credit system to track school children to prevent false accusations could work? Too dystopian?
/r/MensRights03/11/23 05:47 PM
6

It’s too broad a brush in my opinion, like taking a hammer to a fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:30 PM
4

He’s arguing context matters and that the same language that is used to correctly describe creeps is also used to describe otherwise innocent but “unconventional looking”/ugly people, sometimes to the detriment of their careers or personal safety. Accusing someone of being a creep for having scars or lack of facial symmetry could lead to someone getting their butt kicked for no good reason other than some white girl decided to be a bully. (I say white girl because when I think of the stereotypic…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:27 PM
13

And being too tolerant of such behaviors at an individual level has resulted in a culture of societal acceptance of it. Basically, by being overly tolerant of therapeutic speak to deride men we’ve essentially coddled and infantilized women to the point that society accepts this behavior as normal. Basically, women are treated like kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:17 PM
1

“Man up and risk it” this person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:25 PM
–

Isn’t mgtow for guys who aren’t happy but gave up anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:48 PM
-2

Right. Which we have, so, I’m not worried.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 04:16 PM
9

For now. Between tech being developed involving artificial wombs, uterus transplant surgeries being developed for XY males to gestate their own fetuses (thanks transhumanists) and surrogacy being here to stay men can reproduce without a female partner, the key is to just be able to afford one of those options. They’re grip on reproductive power is slowly slipping.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 11:01 AM
19

According to Hillary Clinton they do because they’re fathers, husbands and sons die in war. Can’t remember where I read that quote but it’s out there. Sheesh.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 02:29 AM
7

Bye
/r/MensRights28/10/23 07:17 PM
15

It’s 2023 and everything is expensive especially that. Get your priorities straight.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/23 06:33 PM
5

Always the white ones too…
/r/MensRights28/10/23 12:17 AM
2

farmers markets?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:40 AM
17

Routine neo-natal circumcision (men don’t have bodily autonomy at birth in America and every seems ok with it for some reason) Biased court system (divorce, civil, criminal) A cultural conversation about the gender empathy gap
/r/MensRights25/10/23 06:19 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:19 AM
2

Holup… we are in a post feminist society? No offense intended but I literally thought we were in a feminist society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:32 AM
1

As something for us to compare to. Everything’s version of fat is different. Mines definitely from yours. Like, which celebrity do you look most like?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:43 AM
1

Do you have units of measurement? It may sound like a smart ass question but I promise it’s sincere. Perhaps a preferred BMI, or just a standard height and weight ratio? Even a body double would help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:44 AM
2

That was an enlightening google search. May I also suggest staying away from leftist white women as well? Malcolm X was right after all.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 07:20 PM
2

Now I’ve never mailed cheesecake before, but damnit it’d be funny to mail you a slice!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:36 PM
2

Weed free? No. Weed ‘spensive. Weed cum in cake? No. Weed come in cake? Sometimes, only if you nice tho. Def not on first date. After we join each others tribes? Then yes, but no sneaky weed into cake or I send smoke signal to cave lawyer. Oogabooga
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:59 PM
2

https://www.thecheesecakefactory.com/about-us We don’t need alleys anymore, we get them to come to us now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:56 PM
6

Literally ask any US Marine and they at least have heard of a story.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/23 04:50 PM
39

It’s a self solving problem. To be very cold about it, if there is some grand plan to reduce the human population as an act of protest then they are basically committing an act of eugenics against themselves in the name of virtue. The human species only needs a few dozen fertile, healthy humans to survive to avoid inbreeding after all.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 04:03 AM
-20

The moderators aren’t moderating. Simple as.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 10:17 PM
2

Cool 😎 Still a bit salty for asking for info, but I forgot that this is Reddit and everyone assumes you’re screaming “SoUrCe???” like a neck beard whenever you ask for info.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 02:45 AM
7

Me neither. I think they just assumed I’m an enemy because I’m asking for knowledge. Wtf.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 01:19 AM
-5

Could you please elaborate? Where specifically is this happening? (Why the downvotes? I’m not denying the existence of anything I’m literally asking for information. I swear the people who downvoted literally assumed I’m in denial.)
/r/MensRights04/10/23 05:40 PM
8

YES!!! (I am against the draft as well, but I see the utility in making the draft gender neutral because it isn’t 1776 anymore and there is an abundance of women to replace the people lost in war instead of back then when the global population was probably less than 10 percent of what it is today)
/r/MensRights30/09/23 03:43 PM
18

It was an effective tactic in the feminist movement. Some feminists even resorted to bombings in London way back in the day. Edit: I DO NOT CONDONE VIOLENCE!
/r/MensRights30/09/23 05:29 AM
38

Basically they’re mostly normies and we outnumber them with both geniuses and idiots, right?
/r/MensRights22/09/23 12:00 PM
2

Thanks for the info! Comment saved.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 02:21 AM
11

Oh that makes sense. What are these common law marriage rules you’re talking about? Have a link?
/r/MensRights15/09/23 07:42 PM
20

Where are you from? I want to know so I can avoid it like the plague.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 07:07 PM
1

I guess there is dignitas in Geneva for that
/r/MensRights02/09/23 06:19 PM
6

A viable option, certainly, however that could set a cultural precedent where your own children may consider it even more normal than it is now to discard you in an elder care facility to just eat jello and wither away.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 06:02 PM
13

I think then the only real (but probably significant) long term burden is the inevitable need to establish infrastructure to support the inevitable large population of elderly people compared to the rest of society. Gone are the days of elders having 6 (or more) grand children to support them, now it may be inverted, leaving the young to be heavily taxed to maintain state institutions devoted to elder care. Side note: this makes me very concerned about future pandemics as well… 😬
/r/MensRights02/09/23 04:09 PM
9

Americas history of eugenics (especially pre-WW2) is astonishing. Worth researching really
/r/MensRights29/08/23 04:11 PM
8

Yeah, that’s more of a Nordic thing, I’m more worried about infant circumcision, suicide rates and the draft, thanks.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:22 AM
17

I want a “perfect match”, sure I could’ve worded that better but attacking my character was a dick move.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 10:49 AM
14

You chose the worst possible interpretation of what I said and tried to drag me through the comments.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 10:41 AM
16

You misinterpreted that very, very badly.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 10:34 AM
10

Perfect match for me, duh. No one is actually perfect.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 10:31 AM
134

All I can say is that unless an excellent opportunity literally presents itself to me (family member randomly introduces me to a vetted, trusted, near perfect person for example) that I am not looking.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 03:53 AM
1

Well it’ll (probably) be a little easier for you though so at least there’s that. You should really be recording every action between you and her, basically forever. You already have a target on your back now and she likely won’t forget that. She strikes me as the “if I can’t have him no woman can” and if that’s the case, you may still be a target after a break up because little miss psycho here knows that you’re her competition for him.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:13 AM
8

To answer that last question (I’m no expert btw) Short answer: male disposability hypothesis Long answer: it’s been this one sided for a very long time and it’s surprisingly common in America. People just know now that women are favored over men in the legal system, so it’s inevitable that where there is an incentive to take advantage of something like that someone inevitably will. People literally make memes about this. Imagine being in his shoes, he is staring down the possibility of a literal…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 02:42 AM
2

Signed it!
/r/MensRights20/08/23 11:47 AM
1

perhaps replace “lonely” with “alone” and I’ll agree. Semantics, sure, but it matters.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 10:06 PM
82

Currently in American culture the only person looking out for a man is that man. No one else. A woman would never risk her life for me. If I try to help a woman, whether it be with heavy luggage or her being victimized in a very violent crime, I risk being labeled the bad guy in some way too because people can try to twist things to their own benefit. I offer to help lift something heavy and I’m a sexist denying her the ability to help herself, but if I don’t I’m an asshole. If I stop a violent …
/r/MensRights08/08/23 04:18 PM
-7

Downvoted because politics isn’t going to solve this problem… or any problem in 2023. (Oh I kNoW lEtS pAsS a LaW bEcAuSe ThAt AlWaYs WoRkS) Meanwhile some of us are saving up for a flight to Geneva Switzerland for a 1 time only visit to dignitas.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 02:31 AM
3

So the demographic that probably identifies the most with Barbie is white women, which is probably the same demographic dumping their boyfriends over a movie. Solution seems simple to me; if she dumps you over a movie, don’t fight it and just let her go and afterwards stop dating American white women 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/MensRights07/08/23 08:30 PM
3

New life goal unlocked: MOVING TO TENNESSEE!
/r/MensRights07/08/23 08:24 PM
28

As a white man, it’s both. Culturally speaking white women in America are just proud of being awful people who use emotional manipulation to get by in life.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 04:04 AM
10

u/Sorry-Charge-697 welcome aboard! Please keep in mind that this sub contains everything from bitter incels to legitimate philosophers, the under educated to the upper class, short, tall, skinny and ehh-not so much. It’s a cluster fuck sometimes but we all agree that being a man in generally low key shitty from mental health problems being underestimated, suicide rates being under recognized, our genital autonomy isn’t as protected at birth as a woman’s is and we’re seen as the bad guys because …
/r/MensRights06/08/23 02:30 AM
2

How the hell does a man even do that? I’ve asked before and I’ve basically been told that only women should be worried. Asking for myself, because seriously idk how to vet anyone.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 02:19 AM
3

… I’m ready for the nukes.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 06:50 PM
4

What kind of feminism did they prescribe to? I need to know how to spot it so that I can avoid them.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 06:44 PM
10

Thanks :)
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:34 AM
33

No disrespect intended to you at all, but they are the reason why I really hope this technology works out. https://www.freethink.com/futurology/artificial-wombs-ectogenesis#:~:text=They%20don't%20yet%20exist,Environment%20for%20Neonatal%20Development”). https://weather.com/en-IN/india/health/news/2023-05-27-japanese-researchers-to-produce-babies-in-laboratories# Men were “replaceable” with the advent of sperm banks, but this tech will change gender relations forever by equalizing the playing fie…
/r/MensRights26/07/23 12:53 AM
1

Incel = bad Volcel = good, pass the popcorn before the mushroom clouds start showing up.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 10:18 PM
3

Probably his ex wife who probably scored that sweet, sweet alimony money after “gifting” her assets to her mom prior to the divorce. (knowledge source: the women in my family who get drunk in front of me)
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/23 02:16 AM
1

r/circumcisiongrief & r/foreskin_restoration may help too. All three have helped me a lot with much needed advice and opportunities to grow from reading about other men processing their feelings regarding their discomfort at their discovery of being made the sexual equivalent of colorblind because “my pappy did it to me that’s why I did it to you”. To think it started as a way to prevent blindness, seizures and literal damnation…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 01:20 AM
2

Feminism used to stand for something good in the past. Now, it strikes me as an extension of tyranny, a group of once slighted women (or those raised and/or taught by them), who fancy themselves saviors when they seem to seek vengeance, to be the next “men” and to right histories wrongs by committing wrongs themselves. Allegedly they are shedding more members than they can gain, but the damage is done. For me, the word feminism is forever tainted with bitterness, hatred, manipulation and revenge…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 08:48 PM
10

I’d say it’s an excellent example of the hypocrisy found throughout all humanity, and that the women who use such message boards are really good at camouflaging their power behind a veil of feminine innocence via the women are wonderful effect, but idk if it meets the criteria for being oppressive. I think such spaces are essentially power vacuums for toxic people to fill for their own gain, that’s for sure. Really has “we are going shield ourselves from toxicity with toxicity” vibes too. Please…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 08:06 PM
33

Projection. AWDTSG aka Are We Dating The Same Guy is an excellent example worthy of independent research.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 05:17 PM
87

Male disposability hypothesis confirmed. If a forcefully conscripted Ukrainian man is literally castrated by Russians and the video is broadcasted to the whole world clearly a white woman in America is the most affected. No wonder so many Millennials and Gen Z guys don’t want to date compared to previous generations, they understand their worth in society better. (Edit: apologies in advance for focusing more on gender than race, even as a white guy it’s obvious as hell to me and it’s nice to see…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 08:55 AM
2

That statement “Yes he is the kind of men women mean when we say “we don’t like men”” is kind of toxic tbh and that kind of linguistic laziness in failing to be specific is the reason why some men flock towards people like Tate. The generalizations is the reason why his marketing almost worked on me and it’s one reason why so many men seem unwilling to date even the most beautiful of women. Please be more careful with your language, thanks.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 04:18 PM
2

For the sake of fairness and the presumption of innocence until proven guilty, investigations and trials sometimes take a very long time to resolve. Tbh I think he’s probably a tool, but perhaps a well meaning tool. Definitely puts off a “I go to the club way too much” vibe.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 02:12 PM
1

Neo-libs and Neo-Cons, my favorite Warhawks.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 10:43 PM
6

Because of the scar tissue left behind. I already said why. It isn’t natural to amputate something off of someone without consent. That’s why my son will be left intact and unmutilated. I’m tired of all of this online copium I see of people who never bothered to see which countries get circ’d the most and which ones need the most viagra and cialis. “ThErEs StUdIeS”, yeah, American studies, and it’s well known that our pharmaceutical industry is corrupt. European pharmaceutical industries realize…
/r/MensRights10/06/23 03:08 PM
25

How would you know if I am fine? You are not my doctor! You’re just spreading copium on the internet.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 02:53 PM
21

I’m circ’d and I feel mutilated. My most sensitive erogenous zones were amputated because my family wanted to ensure I didn’t damn my soul to hell with unclean behavior. My sensitivity is almost gone, so much so that touching my inner forearm is just as sensitive. I wish I had it back. Allegedly it’s analogous to FGM type 1A where the hood and sometimes inner labia are removed to preserve structures but deny pleasure. I feel like a lesser man because of this and I’m tired of lying and saying I’m…
/r/MensRights10/06/23 02:41 PM
2

If we don’t stand up just a little bit for ourselves then it’ll just. Keep. Happening. Forever.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 05:06 AM
21

Ehh, I’m a straight guy and there have been a few times where some slime ball looking dude (was in cali at the time) was definitely giving me “get in my van” eyes. Maybe that’s the good ole church camp trauma coming to the surface and I’m projecting in the moment but still I kinda get that part of the argument. There is a big difference between checking out of the corner of one’s eye and just mouth breathing with spit dripping out of your mouth hole with a visible erection.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 05:14 PM
2

There’s hope for greater understanding in each other’s unique problems. That’s enough for me for now.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 09:52 PM
-1

So the trick is to make men care about themselves more? Perhaps through digital outreach?
/r/MensRights06/06/23 09:15 PM
-3

No simps, no boomer 80s era bravado, and practice self awareness to be better able to identify the women are wonderful effect, got it!
/r/MensRights06/06/23 08:13 PM
3

Soo… simps are the problem? Asking because that’s a serious question.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 07:19 PM
-35

So how do we make this mainstream? I really believe that if we treated this effectively this could lead to a positive feedback loop of positive legislative and social action that would be beneficial to women and the LGBT 🏳️‍🌈 crowd as well. Literally one building up another.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 05:46 PM
127

Male disposability hypothesis is… interesting, and quite sad.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 04:28 PM
19

I’m the Marines I was always told one simple rule: always stay away from the women. It paid off for me, there’s were TONS of rumors on 29 palms of false allegations. It’s just part of the culture of the military 🤷🏼‍♂️ don’t believe me? Ask a veteran younger than, say, 30-35 years old.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 08:33 PM
6

Hey u/ISNT_A_ROBOT you seem rather enlightened, could you educate them on what a MAP really is? It’ll help this community a lot.
/r/MensRights03/06/23 01:53 PM
3

Ehh, read their posts (edit: said literature at first) and you’ll realize that there is a logical pattern to many of their most popular writers arguments. If identified it can be understood in the moment better.
/r/MensRights03/06/23 05:28 AM
2

Repopulation privilege. I will say that I’m beyond ready for peace though between MRA and feminists. I’m tired of it all.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 11:59 PM
67

As soon as we develop artificial wombs there will be no excuse for them to go to the front lines as well.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 08:35 PM
18

Even if she starts the violence, just run away. Literally run away. She isn’t worth it even if you’ve been married for 30 years with a dozen kids. Take off.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 02:34 PM
3

A man can’t be accused of poor communication if he doesn’t talk to people at all 😂 I think of this as exposure therapy though. 100 steps forward, 98.5 steps back. At least there’s drugs and alcohol.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 01:50 PM
9

Even with everything you’ve mentioned here and in other threads (which is great btw!!!) I still doubt I would risk it. I see the movement like I see many movements in America right now, and that is like a gang, and it has its own history of toxicity, manipulation, infiltration from malcontents (both private and public sector), corruption and violence to boot. Best I can do as a straight guy is stay OFP at this point and I strongly encourage other men to do the same. I appreciate that you say the…
/r/MensRights30/05/23 01:20 PM
1

I just think that we as a society should put greater barriers to entry to marriage. Anyone over 18 (sometimes even younger) can get married in America rather easily. Either that or we get government out of marriage entirely and normalize “spiritual/religious marriage” and cohabitation. If god needs to preside over your marriage fine.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 10:09 PM
1

Saved and screen shotted, thanks.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 09:37 PM
2

Any suggestions for what to put in them?
/r/MensRights29/05/23 09:25 PM
2

I’m 28m, never married but I was engaged once if that counts for hardly anything. I’m sorry for your divorce bud, I hope it at least ends as well as it can and that there’s no kids involved.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 09:16 PM
3

That’s not enough. Why should any man bother reproducing when the moment a woman is bored she can opt out via no fault divorce, drag him through a divorce court system that has no system of appeals in many states that will result in probably terribly high alimony that will gut his ability to provide for himself and a future family/relationship, take his fucking home, drag him through a custody battle where he will be lucky to see his kids more than 7 days a month and so much more that I forget? …
/r/MensRights29/05/23 08:50 PM
8

Tbh I’m all for reasonable accommodations for the differences in height, strength, the burden of menstruation and the burden of child birth. It’s when legislation and society dictates that I be a protector for someone who probably wouldn’t protect me (only men can be drafted), a provider for someone who wouldn’t provide for me (#1 cause of divorces which are majority initiated by women anyway is the man losing his job), stand up for someone in society against sex crimes when I know they disregar…
/r/MensRights29/05/23 08:19 PM
18

Sounds to me like the best thing a man without kids can do right now is acquire as many material resources as he can, avoid toxic women, wear condoms every single time without exceptions to avoid making dependents until either society resolves it’s serious social issues or the system collapses. Also build a network, dodge the draft, stay clean from porn and make male friends.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 06:00 PM
2

Have you considered that maybe, just maybe, a lot of men would treat women better in the west if women did the same? We’re equals, which means we are equally capable of treating each other terribly in very unique ways. the female half needs to “woman up” and act like equals because the longer this culture of “I’m equal to men but also special at the same time” makes me thankful your being replaced by foreign born women escaping war zones. Besides, we can’t have racist white people in America if …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:15 PM
4

Excuse me are we equals now or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:55 PM
5

Please, women did it for years to men. To allow women at large to get away with it too would be inherently sexist because we would be coddling you emotionally because of your chromosomes. I refuse to be sexist so I insist men at large hold women to an equal standard to avoid future sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:08 PM
7

So, basically I shouldn’t work out for women but for myself instead and just let natural selection take it’s course?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:59 PM
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I read a while ago that men used to be better at “policing their own” in a pre-digital world. It was very effective to get a man to stop physically harassing a woman in public in typically “male dominated” spaces of the day because of the simple implicit threat of said pervert being beaten to a bloody pulp. Men don’t care about threats in comment sections, and I think this generation of men who grew up digitally doesn’t take threats from other men seriously anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:40 PM
2

Then those are women I won’t bother with. I don’t NEED to be married, it would be nice though. However good character is needed for me to marry someone, otherwise I’ll just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:10 PM
2

Personality mattering more? Debatable, but character blows looks out of the water like a tow boat hitting a large naval mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:15 AM
1

As a straight man, now has never been a better time to be a “mid” woman in my opinion. If you have centrist-leaning political views, aren’t an extremist, have no mental health issues and are just typically feminine relative to your cultures local standards there is a very good chance that you’ll be ahead of the game 90% of the time. Like that’s the bar for me right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:18 PM
1

EXCELLENT CHOICE TO DEFEND YOUR SON!
/r/MensRights24/05/23 09:05 PM
10

I don’t believe any of that at all. “Hey I’m a 9/10 with bear perfect symmetry but I found a freckle please reassure me that my status in my friend group is where it should be” gtfo and find a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:57 PM
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Oh I have hope! We’ve certainly seen gains in the last few decades!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:39 PM
2

Plus we used to get mocked relentlessly for it. Fathers would even hide that their sons got hurt for various reasons including shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:38 PM
1

Wait, is Americas tax code written to incentivize reproduction? Do we hate each other so much in this country that we need financial incentives to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:24 PM
1

What kind of men do you have in your life again? I feel plenty to clean my own space, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:21 PM
2

Of course! However I don’t see it going the other way around in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:19 PM
5

Exactly! This makes it not worth it to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:55 PM
3

Oh definitely, I see many deer heads and ultra large flat screens in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:54 PM
6

Some straight men get SA’d by gay men. Sometimes when we are boys or when we are grown. We don’t report because people care less about it when it happens to us. I could forgive a man for being homophobic towards gay men if I knew he was hurt by one. Doesn’t excuse the rest of them, but if I knew that happened to one I’d understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:50 PM
2

We talking catch-and-release in this lake? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:01 PM
3

White collar crime doesn’t equate to a chemical spill that created a superfund site. It’s not at all what I did. Don’t put words in my mouth it’s manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:35 PM
1

So, pay to play? Noice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:22 PM
5

Seriously, using marriage fraud as a reason to enter America for the purpose entering America? To commit terrorism? When there are sponges with more secure borders? Please 😂 don’t be ridiculous. And what does a chemical spill effecting my home state have to do with this? Also, that was offensive as f*ck btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:21 PM
4

Don’t like terrorism? Blame the US intelligence apparatus and Americas insistence on starting wars for profit. Also the immigration laws here in America are a joke. Strict as hell to get through the proper route but if I wanted to I could book a flight to Canada, claim asylum status and literally walk across the border into Maine then use whatever means financially available to me to drive south to Mew York. From there, use your imagination. Source: Former Marine who was present during the fall …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:15 PM
7

If it’s only between safe consenting adults, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:55 PM
0

Oh I wasn’t talking about divorce, I just think it’s silly to need a license to get married in America. Always seemed silly to me. As for divorce, as a man I see nothing but downsides. It’s clearly biased against me and I’ve seen the damage it’s done to men in my family while women in my family who got divorced seem to benefit. Say all you want but you are a woman, you are biased to see things from a woman’s perspective including divorce. Divorce is probably my biggest turn off for marriage anyw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:52 PM
-2

What is love? Is it just familiarity over time? Chemical reactions? A dance in a more esoteric plane of existence between astral projections of the souls of earth bound bodies? Wiener and Vajayjay feelings? Could you define love?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:43 PM
3

Probably not talking about teens since we are talking about marriage, but you go ahead and enjoy living in Utah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:18 PM
7

So that explains why I still cry at 28 when I think of church camp… thanks internet stranger! You did more for me than therapy! (lol, seriously though I genuinely hope you have a great day)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:53 PM
1

It still happens in Christian families across America to this day. In my own family there was uproar when a female cousin gave birth and her father, a deacon and church elder, discovered that she wished for her son to remain natural. She had him mutilated to satisfy the grandfathers wishes. There are many interpretations of Christianity in America, and many still actively encourage mutilation…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:44 PM
8

Plus “bringing back religion” means making circumcision in all forms both male and female even more mainstream than it already is. Ick no thanks they can keep the barbarism to themselves. (Inb4: ThAtS dIsReSpEcTfUl. I know. It’s more disrespectful to violate the autonomy of a person who can’t consent to unnecessary cosmetic surgery who can’t consent.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:41 AM
2

You don’t need to believe me, just google it and read an as unbiased source as you can find, not msnbc or fox. Either you’ll see then, or wait till you’re married with kids and get divorced, and then see who gets to have the most custody 9/10 times or who has to pay more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:19 AM
9

I disagree about the divorce law comment being a myth. It’s the biggest reason why I don’t want to date anymore. I don’t hate women and I’m not redpilled, I hate americas court system.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:44 AM
2

Then with all due respect, will you please teach me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:40 AM
4

I disagree. I believe In egalitarianism between the sexes, and even if you wish to be treated like an inferior I choose to hold you to a higher standard. Clearly you’re angry and lashing out but this only furthers the divide in an already chaotic society. We can set a better example, or be like Emperor Nero and play the fiddle while Rome burns.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:39 AM
1

I’m ugly. My face is naturally uneven and I have two facial scars on the left side of my face, one from a childhood accident along my chin line which required many stitches to sew shut. I grew out my beard because people frequently stared at it. I accept it now. I don’t actually rate people by numbers I’m not a psychopath, it’s just undeniable that people frequently use that as a metric in society. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:36 AM
4

May I ask what it was that triggered you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:27 AM
5

Ok clearly I was mistaken to rate like that, but at least in America (that’s where I live, idk about you though) the stereotypical expectations for a man to live up to in an American woman’s eyes is “6ft, 6 figures, 6 pack, 6 inches”. Women toxically rate men as well and to deny the fact that women have equally participated in the dating divide as far as mainstreaming a shitty rating system as well would, in my eyes, be equivalent to coddling women by succumbing to the Women Are Wonderful Effect…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:26 AM
2

It’s common enough in culture that I’ve had women I’ve dated “rate me” to my face while we were together. I’m sorry that you’re clearly hurting so much that you feel it’s necessary to lash out like this but I promise you it won’t help in the long run. Also, the part where you said “zero trust or respect” was clearly an assumption about my character. I’ll forgive that. I hope you’re ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:19 AM
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Can confirm this is sooooo incorrect. I’d shoot myself in the foot for a 5/10 partner that would never cheat or emotionally manipulate me, give me space to open up emotionally to her and wouldn’t share my business with her friends, would just generally respect me so I could do the same and if we divorced would be fair and realize that the divorce courts in the USA do not allow for appeals so would at least be fair with custody and not debt trap me for life where my only way out would be unalivin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:04 PM
3

Agreed on misandry. It’s very obvious when researching the typical results of divorce courts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:34 AM
1

Hard pass. Between two equally attractive women, if one had a normal 9-5 and another was an OF model, I’d take a chance with the 9-5er every time. I need to look after myself and I don’t need the risk of creeps tracking an IP address, or her showing me other red flags that I consider likely to exist with such a career choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:29 AM
1

Would I rather lose my left foot or my right foot? One is freedom and fun but no purpose. The other is no freedom, no fun and purpose (until the lack of sex finally and ironically screws me over in divorce court because she isn’t attracted to me anymore, and everyone knows that they are stacked heavily in favor of the woman to the point that the man is enslaved) For purpose I’d risk divorce and permanent financial castration. For fun I risk being called a player until the depression gets me. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:12 PM
3

Idk. I think it’s a national cultural issue. My issue was the double standard that was common in so many past attempts at relationships that I’ve had. I’ve relocated many times throughout the country for work. Though I haven’t had relationships in every state I lived in, I’ve dated in Virginia, California and Maine and it was consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:39 PM
2

Mostly TikTok and instagram. Lots of ladies openly brag about cheating on social media, and it’s almost like people forget that men have accounts too. Plus there seems to be double standards between the genders from how we treat cheaters to divorce to sentencing of violent crimes. Lotta guys are just realizing that there isn’t much of a point in trying anymore, so we just wish y’all well and decide to love life and have fun instead. Granted there are plenty of guys who give the rest of us a bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:27 PM
9

My solution was always simple. If she got to keep her male friends I got to keep my female friends. It was always held against me even though it was usually my idea to hold ourselves to an equal standard, and ultimately these relationships ended in failure. The fact that I had female friends was usually mentioned in break ups too. I have never cheated and never seduced a female friend of mine because I see them as strictly friends, BUT when I heard of a few of my exes hooking up with their male …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:16 PM
1

I can help with that too… so I’m told… in Minecraft… allegedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:36 PM
1

I was projecting a bit. I abandoned my former faith over a decade ago now, well before I began to even notice how our culture was shifting. I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:32 AM
1

For the record I don’t recommend anyone do anything that isn’t explicitly allowed within their respective jurisdiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:34 PM
3

That depends, are you trying to get really fucked up or are you willing to sacrifice an entire weekend to determine if you’re willing to forgive your adversaries and move on to a place of emotional peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:25 PM
2

😎 🍄 👌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:24 PM
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What about the group that says “it would be great to have a best friend, mutual emotional support, a helping hand in the home, family, someone who understands that we each have physical sexual needs that are triggered differently, a trusted confidant who will honor privacy (nobody needs to know each others kinks/preferences other than each other, ESPECIALLY friends), and a source of motivation for each other when it comes to pursuing our own goals in life all in the same person? seriously, is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:37 AM
5

Please take it from a man who identifies as one of this group. I am choosing to look at this as an opportunity to better focus on myself emotionally, physically and professionally. Since there are fewer people in my life who I can now count on to support me emotionally when I need it, and since I have a history of struggling with AND SUCCESSFULLY SUCCEEDING AGAINST depression and panic disorder that was acquired when other hurt me as a boy, I’ve observed that this is both an equally difficult an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:30 AM
2

Thank you I needed that 😭 ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:49 AM
2

THANK YOU! 🙏 Don’t get me wrong, I know I have a pretty high sex drive compared to the average man. (28M, I quit smoking after I EAS’d, I’m giving up the toxic addiction of internet “youknowwhat” and drink so little even my very extended Christian family has called me a teetotaler!) BUT, I also realize that this sexual energy of mine is also mine to control and wield responsibly. I wish there were easier ways to resist it though because many many women seem to use their knowledge of man’s inheri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:48 PM
1

Not really, often I’m actually quite sick of that symptom of masculinity. Don’t get me wrong, I like the healthy masculine ideal of physical and mental strength and resilience and the sexual energy that comes with being a man, it’s very pleasant! But… it can be a strange burden that if brought up in society, even among other men in private, will result in a man being relentlessly mocked as weak and seen as feminine which can be devastating for someone who wishes to be seen as masculine. It’s why…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:00 PM
1

Install an artificial womb and I’ll buy one. Or just save up and move to a better country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:08 PM
1

I never said all women. I said you. You’re putting words in my mouth. (Edit) also, very interesting that you hyper focused on a single flaw in my logic, which I admit to, but you say nothing about my comments about character… hmm… 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:02 PM
2

Ah I see how I misunderstood, I assumed too quickly and thought you meant domestic violence. My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:00 PM
10

Up-dooted, saved, and screenshotted. You saved one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:29 PM
0

We are both vile, aren’t we? Also, that’s 96% of reported crimes. We don’t self report because it’ll make us look and feel weak in society, and I’ve met plenty of women who are intelligent and self aware enough to realize that the legal system is stack in their favor right now. Victim Olympics? Nah, more like just choosing to not play any Olympic Games at all. I’m not talking about the rich, stop shifting blame. I’m specifically talking about you and women like you. (Edited for clarity)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:06 PM
1

If demanding that you look in the mirror and recognize the character flaws your movement clearly ignores like how so many men should do too, then that’s just fine. Call me an incel, as much as that stings it’s ok because I know it’s just a word. Hell, if calling for equality in how we measure our own character within various social movements makes me evil in your eyes, that’s fine too. It’ll be my own little scarlet letter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:02 PM
2

Yeah, but let’s please consider how this language may affect the other half of the species. Please don’t get me confused with some super-sissy, I’m a fucking former pre-wokeism Marine damn it, and I recognize that some people may focus on certain words either out of fear or recognition of an opportunity to use them against us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:50 AM
1

Society told us that you look at us men as a emotional burden, sexual deviants and are best valued as a status symbol among other females and a resource of food water shelter and wealth. It’s reinforced by terrible social norms that on the surface seems benign but to us is a death to our mental health by 1000 cuts. Take Xmas and birthdays for example. Society says it’s expected of me to buy you expensive jewelry and clothes other shiny and expensive things while it’s strange for me to receive an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:38 AM
5

Perv troll. Definitely a perv troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:17 AM
1

I said what I said and I stand by it. I don’t care that you are tired because we are all so tired of you. I encourage male scientists to create a pill that can temporarily strip an XY man of all sexual desires that he can take daily just so that I won’t even be tempted to reconsider you any more. I’ll focus on myself instead. And if that isn’t enough and we do manage to develop a boner blocking pill, we American men could always consider just creating a large scale social movement where we just …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:51 AM
2

Hope that true love can be found in my lifetime. Re-normalizing sexual and romantic commitment. Unbiased divorce courts that won’t guarantee that almost all of my income will be given to my ex AND depriving me almost all rights to see my child (Only a few days a month? Tell me I don’t matter without saying it.) For women to recognize that men get raped a lot too and that we don’t report it because society expects us to be quiet just because we can’t carry a child. (My own family scoffed and mock…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:23 AM
2

Thanks and much love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:19 AM
3

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:19 AM
5

No hate here, just tired. I’m just so tired. Go reread what I wrote. Men are bombarded every day about issues we didn’t even have a say in. I’m pro choice and pro women’s rights and advancement in all career fields. The insights of women (ESPECIALLY of the elderly ones, my god the joys they have brought into my life) are not just appreciated but desperately needed, but there are still people who accuse me online of “spewing hate” just because I wish to draw attention to my sides issues too. We k…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:59 PM
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Evolution says I am more disposable than a woman is. There is a growing culture in the STEM field to find a “replacement” for men’s role in reproduction. Western religions say it is my duty and purpose to serve, fight and die for my nations given ruling class because god put them there to rule over me. Many popular and influential women have popularized hating men. Some for valid reasons, others less valid. I was valued for my strength and encouraged to become a weapon for a resource war (I’m a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:26 PM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:28 AM
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