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| 25 | The problem with online dating is women's selectiveness, not the ratio of men to womenThis is 100% true for me. When I used tinder for a bit I swiped right on maybe 1 out of 20 men, if even that. I felt like after viewing a few profiles they all started to look the same, it was just too much all at once. I read a reply on here once, maybe it was you, but it said the guy the woman knows in real life will always win over the chad she’s talking to online. I believe that to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 05:33 AM |
| 2 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?Men are typically larger and stronger than women and males are also the more predatory sex. Why does this have to be explained to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?I think most women can handle being told that a man intends to just string them along to get sex before they become involved with them. Most women just aren’t interested in those kind of arrangements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?I think very few women would be ok with it and that’s why some men lie. Women find it insulting because we know the bar for men, for sex at least, is low. Men’s standards are higher when it comes to women they’d actually have a relationship with or marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:36 PM |
| 1 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?Have you ever been in a relationship before? At the beginning of a relationship everyone puts their best foot forward, people are really good at hiding their flaws in the beginning. You spend a limited amount of time with someone and have to just take their word for it when they tell you who they are and what their intentions are. It can take a while before someone’s true colours start to show. People don’t go around advertising their red flags. Men who only want causal sex rarely say it upfront… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:27 AM |
| 5 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?Women are well aware that men will have sex with women they aren’t even attracted to. It’s different for women. Generally, if a woman is willing to have sex with you then she’s also willing to have a meaningful relationship with you. Men being upfront about their intentions isn’t an issue. If you tell a woman straight up that you’re not looking for anything serious and only want casual sex then she can decide if she’s happy with that arrangement. Men usually don’t do that though even if those ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 07:13 AM |
| 8 | Why are women often bothered by male attention, but men absolutely love female attention?I think I was about 12ish when I first started noticing men leering at my growing breasts. I remember it being very confusing feeling really uncomfortable about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 06:49 AM |
| 4 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?Casual sex is a lot riskier for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 06:30 AM |
| 1 | The sex ratio at birth is roughly 105 males to 100 females. Would humanity be better off if it was even? If it was 105 females to 100 males?It’s literally the opposite though. In Ireland at least it’s overwhelmingly males seeking asylum and I think the uk is the same too. Not sure about overall immigration but asfaik even with normal, legal immigration it’s still mostly males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Age gap relationships end in divorceSelf reported data yes? Take it with a grain of salt. For all we know women could include FWB type situations and people they’re literally just talking to but interested in as a relationship while men don’t. There’s no evidence that large swathes of women in their 20s are dating men in their 30s. I rarely see it, most couples I know IRL and see about day to day either are or look extremely close in age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 06:56 AM |
| 6 | The sex ratio at birth is roughly 105 males to 100 females. Would humanity be better off if it was even? If it was 105 females to 100 males?Some counties practice sex selective abortion and infanticide of females which could skew it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 06:42 AM |
| 27 | Age gap relationships end in divorceWe don’t and that’s why large age gap relationships aren’t that common. Women also prefer men in their 20s and 30s because men, just like women, are hotter when they’re younger. Young attractive women are not attracted to old men. Older rich men can buy the company of young beautiful women but that’s about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 06:36 AM |
| 2 | There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’tI don’t think it matters all that much either. I’m just parroting what people on this sub say - only virgins or very low body count women are high value or some shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:16 AM |
| 1 | There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’tUh I thought women with high body counts were automatically low value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:16 AM |
| 3 | There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’tIdk I’ve seen a lot of man whore types getting ridiculed and shamed by other men. If they’re genuinely just liked by women then men seem to respect them but if they’re sleeping with different women constantly and bragging about it all the time then they get laughed at. As others have said past school/young adult years it’s not cool, it’s cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standardsPersonally I could never do OLD because I can’t tell if I’m attracted to someone based off a few of their best photos. Calling isn’t going to be much help. I need to see the man in the flesh to know if I like him or not. Sometimes everything could look good on paper and you just don’t like how they carry themselves or how they make conversation. A coffee date just as an introduction is ideal for a first date when you don’t really know the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez , Jeff Bezos new wife, shows that looks at the most important thing in maintaining a long term relationship with a man.Idk man I googled Lauren Sanchez and in the very first photo that came up she looks rough as hell. Mutton dressed as lamb so they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 11:58 AM |
| 2 | You have three wishes, what dating behaviors in men/women would you change?Like a shallow Hal type of thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:32 AM |
| 7 | Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture?Much worse imo. Encouraging the native population to have bigger families and providing assistance to them would be much more preferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:19 AM |
| 3 | how abnormal is it for women compared to men to have a very high libido?I’ve heard of the Coolidge effect and it doesn’t surprise me at all seeing as humans love novelty. I don’t think it’s sinister either, its normal to lose some of the intense sexual desire you can have at the beginning of the relationship. It’s helps to keep having new experiences with your partner and not to let things get too stale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 12:37 PM |
| 0 | how abnormal is it for women compared to men to have a very high libido?Damn, that is interesting. Any idea how true it is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:28 AM |
| 31 | how abnormal is it for women compared to men to have a very high libido?In my first two relationships I had the higher libido and it was frustrating and led to the relationship ending both times. I know how men feel when they keep trying to initiate sex with their partner and get rejected. It’s very disheartening and a real blow to the ego. Because of those relationships I thought I was the problem, I thought I was abnormal. My husband has a higher libido than me most of the time, when I’m ovulating mine is higher. I think men usually have a spontaneous sex drive an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Is there a point being tall starts to become unattractive to most women?Around 6’4” is the cut off and when it’s stats to look a bit freaky to me. Between 5’9” - 6’1” is the perfect height for a man imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding.Women generally aren’t into overly feminine men who care that much about their looks. It’s that simple. Just look at him for Christ’s sake, what value would he bring to woman’s life? He doesn’t look like a protector or a provider. Women don’t just want a piece of arm candy or a trophy husband, they want a man that’s actually useful. That lad looks about as useful as a chocolate teapot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 05:49 AM |
| 2 | There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding.Dressing well and dressing trendy aren’t the same thing. The guy follows trends and likes to show off brands. You see guys like him everywhere with their skin too tan, teeth too white, wearing their “fresh drip” they got from pandabuy. If you’re trying to attract a woman who aspires to be an influencer, is too tan, has teeth that are too white and follows trends to a tee then that aesthetic is probably perfect but otherwise it’s very cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 03:32 PM |
| 10 | There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding.The man is clearly in love with his own reflection which is very unattractive. His face really isn’t great either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:17 PM |
| 7 | is it wrong to want a feminine woman ?Men do childish things too, how many men are obsessed with video games or collect children’s toys as a hobby? We wouldn’t say those things are masculine because it’s mostly men doing it. We acknowledge that it’s childish behaviour being displayed by a grown adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 04:58 PM |
| 9 | is it wrong to want a feminine woman ?Apparently an estimated 6% of the entire worlds population are genuine arachnophobes. We can safely conclude that most women aren’t afraid of spiders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 04:08 PM |
| 16 | is it wrong to want a feminine woman ?No but what you’re describing is childish behaviour. Love of soft toys, cartoons and fear of spiders aren’t feminine qualities they’re juvenile qualities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 03:56 PM |
| 14 | is it wrong to want a feminine woman ?No, that’s what you seem to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 03:50 PM |
| 26 | is it wrong to want a feminine woman ?It sounds like you’re more interested in dating a 5 year old girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 03:46 PM |
| 8 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?I thought the last guy didn’t belong either, I think he’s above average too. Even example 2 of average joe isn’t unattractive. He just needs to get a haircut and maybe lose a few pounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think a lot of people would disagree about Julia Roberts being attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI disagree. She was a pick me. A beer guzzlin’, sports watchin’ fun gal. Usually those girls get the guy in rom coms and they usually make the pretty rich girl a snobby bitch but Diaz’s character was not only pretty and wealthy but also sweet and kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWatched the 1997 movie “My Best Friends Wedding” last night. Hadn’t seen it for years. For anyone who hasn’t seen it, it’s a total red pill movie. Woman in her late 20s learns that her male best friend is getting married to a young, beautiful and sweet 20 year old woman and decides right there and then that he’s the one and they were always meant to be together. She makes a show of herself trying to sabotage the wedding, displaying serous pick-me behaviour and tries to make her friend jealous by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Non-Americans, what country do you live in, and do you think it has a better dating culture than the USA?If you’re deeply religious you would probably find someone within your religious community. If you’re introverted your extroverted friends or coworkers will take you out and get the foot in the door for you. If you don’t drink, well I don’t know what to tell you, I don’t know a whole lot of Irish people that don’t drink at least a little bit. Pub culture is very strong here, pubs are like community hubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:29 AM |
| 3 | Non-Americans, what country do you live in, and do you think it has a better dating culture than the USA?I’m also Irish living in the uk and I agree with everything you said. English men seem to be a lot more reserved when it comes to approaching women than Irish men. I grew up in Cork and Cork men seem to very outgoing compared to the men where I’m currently living. People in Ireland are friendlier too, it’s much more common to strike up a conversation with a total stranger in a queue or at a bus stop. I think the fact that so many Irish people would literally talk to a brick wall really helps. We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Non-Americans, what country do you live in, and do you think it has a better dating culture than the USA?I did all my dating in Ireland, I don’t really have anything to compare it to but it wasn’t difficult. There’s loads and loads of pubs where I live that are busy nearly every night of the week and that’s where a lot of people meet each other. It’s not unusual for a man to approach a woman he likes in a bar in Ireland. People mingle and mix a lot when out in pubs and clubs. Dating seems quite casual too, we’d normally just go for a few drinks in a pub or a coffee for a first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:03 AM |
| 6 | How many of you would reject this guy because he is redpilled?He cares way too much about his appearance and his online image to be taken seriously. The kind of women he would attract would be the female equivalent of him, a trendy instagram girl who posts carefully posed bikini pictures and goes for a certain aesthetic on their social media profiles. Actually a lot of normal women would laugh at a man like this, he’s a bit cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.That depends on each individual woman, some have nothing to offer, some have more. But what about you? Maybe some women do only have sex offer but you have nothing. You won’t even open your wallet, no woman wants a man so tight only dogs can hear his farts. What do you think women should date and have sex with you? It sounds like you might be the entitled one buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Why can’t you just tell me what it is that you have to offer? You’re the one who said women have nothing to bring to the table besides sex so you must have something to offer yourself and I’d like to know what you believe it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I can’t tell you what some random woman that I don’t know brings to the table. That’s for you to decide while you’re dating her. What do you bring though? If you believe all women provide is sex then surely you must be providing something also? What is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.So tell me what you think you bring to the table then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.If your goal is to exchange money for sex then perhaps normal dating isn’t for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.What do you bring to the table? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.I said just for the free meal. Of course you’re being judged on your ability to provide among other things. If a woman is on a date with you chances are she already finds you attractive and you’re now being judged on your other traits, qualities and actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Whether you like it or not you’re being judged on your ability to provide. Being a tight ass on the first date isn’t usually a good sign. I don’t think a man should have to pay for everything in a relationship where both people are working but the offer, on the first date at least, is always nice. I’d say the number of women just going on dates with men just for the free meal is small and they exist mainly in the online dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:55 AM |
| -1 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Men who expect women to split the bill are cheap. I always split the bill on the first date but I would never accept a second date from someone who didn’t at least offer to pay the whole thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:36 AM |
| 3 | CMV: This Medium Article from a middle-aged female author asking 'Where are all the good men' perfectly explains men's dating complaintsYoung people are led to believe, through tv, movies and even their peers that the goal is to find “the one” your “one true love” and when it happens you’ll just know it. This is obviously a fantasy. Women definitely have this belief more so than men, rom coms are mainly aimed at women and teen girls after all. Even in action movies and other genres how many times does the badass and often ruthless protagonist actually turn out to be a big softy and his realisation of his bad boy ways are brought… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:33 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pills conception of Female Hypergamy is largely pseudo-scientificAs the west becomes more and more secular it’s no surprise that the idea of marriage falls out of favour. There’s less societal benefits and less utility to marriage these days. There’s no stigma attached to living with a partner for years and even having children but not marrying. I know a lot of couples living in this kind of situation. You wouldn’t believe the amount of women I know claiming single mother benefits while living with their partner who is working full time. If they get married t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:36 AM |
| 6 | The Red Pills conception of Female Hypergamy is largely pseudo-scientificThe same can be said for men when it comes to marriage. How many men wish their wife was slimmer, had bigger breasts, was prettier? You talk about wants and desires as if they’re exclusive to women. Most people don’t instantly get married as soon as they meet. If most women are marrying in their late 20s then the chances are they’ve been with their partner for at least a year, likely a lot longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 06:11 AM |
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