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| 21 | What’s the point of all the gender whining? | Discussion | Sensitive_Low3558 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:06 PM |
| 13 | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other things | Debate | Sensitive_Low3558 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:36 PM |
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| 5 | Men are less emotionally open and more prone to bottle things up because women are not ready to see some parts of men and straight disagree with some of their feelings.Yes, I have a wonderful therapist right now who is a woman and I would say she has HELPED ME lol. As well as a therapist before her who was a woman that HELPED ME lol. Of course men can be therapists, you said women are never obligated to help men and I’m finding the holes in your logic. Maybe you need to talk to your therapist about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:39 AM |
| 8 | Men are less emotionally open and more prone to bottle things up because women are not ready to see some parts of men and straight disagree with some of their feelings.I think you have a fundamental misunderstanding of what therapy is because you’re arguing with me on everything that therapists actually do for you just to continue to say that women DoN’t HaVe To HeLp MeN. Ok whatever lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:32 AM |
| -2 | What kind of women usually date autistic men?Disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:31 AM |
| -1 | What kind of women usually date autistic men?Autistic women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:30 AM |
| 6 | Men are less emotionally open and more prone to bottle things up because women are not ready to see some parts of men and straight disagree with some of their feelings.This is semantic in my opinion because I consider what you said to be the therapist helping you, but fine. I’ll revise. A woman that you pay for emotional labor is obligated to perform that emotional labor, correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:29 AM |
| 1 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsBecause, and get ready for this, one has to do with ADULTS and one has to do with CHILDREN. Wow, the age of majority, what a concept | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:27 AM |
| 10 | Men are less emotionally open and more prone to bottle things up because women are not ready to see some parts of men and straight disagree with some of their feelings.No? You need to take a break from the Internet if you thought I meant a therapist is going to have sex with you. That’s crazy lol. A therapist who is a WOMAN that you PAY for HELP is going to HELP you, CORRECT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:23 AM |
| 8 | Men are less emotionally open and more prone to bottle things up because women are not ready to see some parts of men and straight disagree with some of their feelings.What if the therapist is a woman is she not obligated to help you if you pay her lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:02 AM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.She’s right though, at no point are women automatically given custody. A judge reviews the case and determines custody from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:40 AM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Not in Israel lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:38 AM |
| 5 | Guys Like Andrew Tate, Justin Waller, and Myron Gaines are just glorified Betabuxxers, and i dont even hate those guys, but its the truth.You got a lot of men to talk to then lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 11:20 AM |
| 5 | Guys Like Andrew Tate, Justin Waller, and Myron Gaines are just glorified Betabuxxers, and i dont even hate those guys, but its the truth.So if women didn’t have sex with men then men would still love them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Guys Like Andrew Tate, Justin Waller, and Myron Gaines are just glorified Betabuxxers, and i dont even hate those guys, but its the truth.You can just ignore the power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 10:43 AM |
| 5 | Guys Like Andrew Tate, Justin Waller, and Myron Gaines are just glorified Betabuxxers, and i dont even hate those guys, but its the truth.Ok so according to this thought process men are also only attracted to what women can give them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 10:42 AM |
| 2 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsThat’s not how that works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsRidiculous comparison and you know it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you try to avoid men who don't have empathy for women's issues?What about the Xanny Family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 12:25 PM |
| 0 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsPeople simultaneously say it’s the oldest profession and say it should be illegal. That just doesn’t make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:35 AM |
| 0 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsDriving a taxi makes you a loser? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:34 AM |
| 1 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsAll jobs are different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:33 AM |
| 1 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsAbsolutely nobody said minors should do this job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:33 AM |
| 1 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsYes it was, there were brothels at railroad camps. Men constantly argue that they only perform labor in order to have sex then argue against the required component of having sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:31 AM |
| 2 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsMalcolm X wrote about this in his autobiography. He was a chauffeur for high profile clients that were pro segregation but paid for Black women to dominate and degrade them in the bedroom. This was eighty years ago. People don’t change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:28 AM |
| 1 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsIt’s true though lol there were working girls at the railroad camps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:27 AM |
| 2 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsDon’t you advocate going to prostitutes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:27 AM |
| -1 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsNo job is “just like any job”, the line of argumentation is pointless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:25 AM |
| 1 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsYet people still want to consume those products or engage in those services, so somebody must provide those goods or services and be compensated for their labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:24 AM |
| – | Your "Pills" are useless if you don't understand how to audit the person in front of you.AI post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?And why would I ever spend any time at these so called “elite institutions” with these so called “upper middle class” individuals that are too stupid to say the words “upper middle class” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Are you stating that at these intellectually bankrupt so called “elite institutions” that the students widely use the letters “UMC” instead of saying the words “upper middle class”? Is that your contention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:11 PM |
| 0 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?I know the class distinctions, I do not know of the acronyms. The acronyms are not widely used except by you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:05 PM |
| 0 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Call your representative for this great injustice that has occurred against men and tell them that the SCOTUS voiding of affirmative action is incorrect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?“Widely used” by who, I have never seen this before in my life before today. I’m aggy because intellectual laziness has caused the rise of fascism in my country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?So this is really interesting because the third citation actually answers your question if you bothered to fucking read them instead of asking ChatGPT for evidence. “Thus, it is possible for males to increase their reproductive success without paying the cost of parental investment either by dishonestly mimicking the courtship behavior of other males that do invest highly in offspring and therefore get to mate, or by forcing females to mate with them (Gross, 1996). This deceitful tactic is often… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Sex is a trap, especially for men.This would be a volcel take if anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 10:58 AM |
| 4 | Sex is a trap, especially for men.It’s not brainwashing it’s just experiencing how fucked up humanity is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 10:56 AM |
| -1 | Sex is a trap, especially for men.What’s the edge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Okay, so I looked for the first study and that is already not the title: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12625439/ Provide the titles of the studies, I’m not going to cross reference the scholar’s entire bibliography because you’re unable to cite them properly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?That is absolutely not true at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Then make your own business | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 12:25 PM |
| 7 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?No, men with higher education do not want to marry high school dropouts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 12:13 PM |
| 0 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?I was addressing the point that men don’t care about a woman’s education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 12:12 PM |
| 7 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?STEM college graduates also must take humanities classes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Provide evidence for your claims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:15 AM |
| 9 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?I think women know who Barack Obama is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:12 AM |
| 0 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?I read the last woman talking about checking his privilege, wondered when the hell this article could have been published, saw 2018, and went “Yeah that’s right” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Hence men in America acting like having a passport is something that was completely impossible to have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Why would you want to break into management, “coochie4sale” Otherwise though your last two statements I agree with 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:57 AM |
| 6 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Elon Musk has five baby mamas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:54 AM |
| 6 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Please provide a factual basis for your claims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:53 AM |
| – | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?I haven’t heard someone say “the browns” for twenty years, congratulations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:50 AM |
| – | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?What’s “UMC”, can you all stop using acronyms for everything and take the fifteen extra seconds to type out what the hell you’re talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:49 AM |
| 13 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?The “less education” you’re referring to is the man having a PhD and the woman having a master’s degree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:46 AM |
| 8 | No One Is Winning the Gender WarsSo walk away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 11:06 AM |
| 5 | No One Is Winning the Gender Wars“From those that shouldn’t have it” Bias detected, opinion disregarded By the “adults”, do you mean “men”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 11:05 AM |
| 1 | No One Is Winning the Gender WarsFrame it not cynically then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 11:04 AM |
| 12 | No One Is Winning the Gender WarsY’all need to stop making up fucking pills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 11:01 AM |
| 3 | No One Is Winning the Gender WarsAt this point men and women who can’t get along need to shut up and let the ones who can get along lead by example. Gender based discourse has been mainstream for 4 years now, your boomer neighbor knows what “hypergamy” is. If you have complaints, then don’t engage. Why are these people even trying to date when they hate the other gender so much? Just don’t fucking date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 10:59 AM |
| 1 | It's better to be the mistress than the wifeDumbest shit I’ve read in the past 72 hours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 10:53 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than menWhat is the evidence for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:52 PM |
| – | Is it possible that Gen Z /alpha men can do better with women than previous generations?Then leave them alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.What am I LARPing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.I’m not a virgin and I haven’t lived with my mother for years. You don’t date prostitutes, you pay them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Younger girls don’t want to date men their father’s age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Delete this AI slop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.I have a problem with him because he should stick to his own age but I agree with your second statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Nobody’s compelling you to get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Ok then don’t date, what’s the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.You have to be consistent, this behavior is equally weird from women as with men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Then don’t date women, problem solved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:44 AM |
| 5 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Can you please stop saying “prime women” it’s weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Reproducing causes failure to thrive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:43 AM |
| – | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Why did you just assume her dating lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.By me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:39 AM |
| 5 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.What does that have to do with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:39 AM |
| 0 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Except it wasn’t an anecdote, it was stating attractiveness is the reason, not age. Why are you saying I’m feminine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:37 AM |
| 5 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.You contradicted yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:31 AM |
| 10 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Kinda weird to think people are attractive because of their age ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:11 AM |
| 9 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.You just said a whole load of bullshit that’s based on nothing but your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:06 AM |
| -1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Sounds like they’re loaded on drugs to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Why would you depend on a man lol that’s a nightmare not a dream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.They don’t like it but not because of “brute instinct” that doesn’t mean anything. Also yea women don’t want to be abused and dumped | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Why would you care about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Women don’t have an option to not want to it ain’t the 1950’s get it how you live or see you in the shelter lil sis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:47 PM |
| 10 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.None of this is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Why would a woman ever engage in a long term relationship with a man then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.That’s literally what fertile means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.You’re weird bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Women can get their own resources tf you on about lil sis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:39 PM |
| -3 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Damn you sound like a dude lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:38 PM |
| -1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Loaded with what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.They stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:37 PM |
| 21 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.They want the ability to impregnate but they don’t actually want a pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.They are shamed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:35 PM |
| 7 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.“Young fertile woman” tf does a 48 year old man need with a “fertile women” that sperm is geriatric | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:35 PM |
| 7 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Why would you want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.No because on a primal level he couldn’t do it either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.What the hell does “in their prime” mean lil bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:33 PM |
| 1 | A relationship is not trading commitment for sexI mean what if she just doesn’t like it anymore, is that a possibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 10:46 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Incorrect, it could be in society’s best interest if it was framed properly, as in men have autonomy and freedom to not mate with women. It was beat into men’s heads that it is a requirement for them to provide for a family and reproduce. How about we simply don’t do that and allow men to their own devices? If it isn’t seen as a requirement for social status, which is entirely a social construct, then it isn’t a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 12:09 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Incorrect because it is not in society’s best interest to have starving women on the street because men want to have a workplace segregated from women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 12:05 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.I said it NEEDS to not be seen that way. Because you just build up resentment against men who can’t compete and men who can’t compete and who have nothing to lose will be violent which is not in anyone’s best interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 12:02 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.There’s no such thing as quotas, the sex based discrimination laws are in place to prevent employers from discriminating against higher qualified women in the workplace because they are women. Employment opportunities must be fair so you can have food in your belly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:59 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Why should society care about an evolutionary failing that is outside of the individual’s control? Are you saying men who don’t reproduce should be penalized? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:57 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.I’m not talking about sex, I’m talking about the concept of power. If one person has more power the other person has less because that is what the concept of power is. Empowering one group comes at the cost of disempowering another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:56 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.That depends on your definition of “winning”. In truth even the concept of biologically winning by making a copy of yourself is a cope. The universe doesn’t care if you win or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:53 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.I never understood this argument, would you enjoy a life without electricity or something? Men benefit from modern life whether or not they date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:49 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Legalize sex work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:48 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Nothing in life is black and white like this. It’s never this principle must be universally applied or it’s bankrupt. That’s not how anything works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:47 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.You’re basically advocating for gendered civil war | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:46 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.It shouldn’t but everyone should vote in their own interests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:41 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Ok but it does disempower men, it’s the same as billionaires saying they’re not depriving people from money by hoarding it. Everything is a zero sum game. Stop the lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:39 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.There’s nothing that can be done to try to make it fair without imposing on others’ individual rights | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:37 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Agreed but then men’s inability to date needs to not been seen as a failing on the man’s part since it’s out of their control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Some of the best advice men can be given is to stop caring too much about women.So then make your peace with that and do something else with your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Women want a wedding, not marriage.I can agree that some women want to have a wedding and don’t care for marriage but this is true of some men too except they don’t even want the wedding! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 11:03 AM |
| – | It's not cheating if you are honest about itHe doesn’t care about being a good person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 12:04 PM |
| – | It's not cheating if you are honest about itThis is the third time I’m going to tell you to divorce your wife, you clearly hate her and you’re not in a state to contribute to a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 12:03 PM |
| – | It's not cheating if you are honest about itSociopaths enjoy attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 11:56 AM |
| – | It's not cheating if you are honest about itIf you mean in determining fault vs no fault sure they don’t care, but they will care in terms of the divorce judgment. The reason not to engage in adultery isn’t because of divorce court btw, it’s to not hurt your spouse. You should be a man and divorce your wife since you hate her so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 11:54 AM |
| – | It's not cheating if you are honest about itLol how is it a moot point lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 11:52 AM |
| – | It's not cheating if you are honest about itHe’s not denying being morally bankrupt, he doesn’t care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 11:48 AM |
| – | It's not cheating if you are honest about itThey have authority to stop you but they can’t put a chastity cage around your penis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 11:47 AM |
| – | It's not cheating if you are honest about itYou clearly hate your wife why don’t you just leave lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 11:46 AM |
| – | It's not cheating if you are honest about itIt’s called a marriage contract | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 11:45 AM |
| 7 | Most women can defend their “sexual” standards, but not their “relationship” standards.How’d you make an AI generated post that sounds exactly like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 01:07 AM |
| 2 | It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first date“Masculinity” is a social construct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 08:16 PM |
| 3 | It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first dateYou change society by being the change you want to see. For example, I’m not interested in dating women, so I don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 08:16 PM |
| 3 | It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first dateMen are giving up on dating then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 08:14 PM |
| 1 | It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first dateThat’s ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 08:13 PM |
| 0 | It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first dateJust tell them you’re getting separate checks when the dinner is over and if they want to walk out let them get the theft charge, no skin off your back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 08:12 PM |
| – | Men need to adapt to a world where they may permanently fail romantically. Any method to survive that eventuality is fair gameYeah except other people don’t consent to men’s violence. I don’t want to die in the grocery store because a random man hasn’t made peace with not being the subject of women’s romantic interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 08:03 PM |
| – | Men need to adapt to a world where they may permanently fail romantically. Any method to survive that eventuality is fair gameI agree with you except men don’t need to hypnotize themselves or whatever, moreso just need to accept life is suffering like you said and that it’s ok and nobody’s fault if they “aren’t picked”. It’s asinine to judge someone because of other people choosing not to be with them romantically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Women's indecisiveness and overloaded lifestyle isn't talked enough aboutNobody needs to do anything you described | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:57 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsIt’s not a personal attack, it’s a description of behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:54 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI’m a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:53 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 06:24 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsHave influence in your real life not Reels comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 06:21 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI told you other ways to meet your needs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:36 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsNot unlovable but unable to maintain a romantic relationship in the 21st century which is a very specific context. Maybe you could in the 20th or 22nd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:32 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsLife is meaningless and everyone must determine a meaning to their life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:31 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsReally? You don’t like coffee or pizza? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:29 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI don’t care what they say. It does need to be said because people won’t stop complaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:25 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsYour partner might die before you in old age, then what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:24 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThere’s other things to do. You can pay for sex and find love in community and friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:24 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsIt’s out of your control. Can’t compete or complain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:23 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThat’s all a social construct that you engage in. I don’t care if a man is an incel or not. It has no bearing on my opinion of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:19 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsDon’t think that’s true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:18 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsNot true, I am suspect of strangers regardless of their gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:18 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThen change the culture by not caring so much. Literally the point of my post. My mother was trying to shame a couple men in the family who are single and I told her it’s rude and to shut up about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:17 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsIf that’s what makes you happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:13 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI have woman friends that check in on me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:09 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI would say that regarding the orgasm gap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:05 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI found a partner after I decided to leave it alone lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:03 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThey might love them for a lay but not when they’re being actively abused by them in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 02:01 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsYou’re in the largest city in the country with a socialist mayor and Central fucking Park and you “don’t know where to start”? Bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:55 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsNobody said that it would be. Nothing in life is 100% guaranteed success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:45 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsTime to find something else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:44 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsIt applies to women too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:41 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI am debating the comments and I don’t find it to be playing semantics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:39 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsSure but that became exhausting for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:36 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsHell I tend toward the misanthropic, and so do some women! They can hate people and rescue animals together. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:33 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsNikola Tesla was doing the sex denying lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:32 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsCompanionship can be found platonically. At no point did I say people should do without companionship. I said very specifically dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:31 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThey weren’t lol. Did I say there was a difference? If anything that’s why I’m talking about it. I’m not in a relationship with a cis woman right now either. I’m not interested lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:29 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsCertainly is if you can’t afford rent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:26 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsYou’re so focused on sex, you may need treatment for being a sex addict or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:25 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI wouldn’t consider anything I did “dating”. I had sex with some men, some transgender folks, and a couple of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:24 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsHahaha wow. Sociopath alert. No wonder why women don’t like you. I don’t know what “sexual self esteem” is. If you put your self esteem on your ability to have sex that’s on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:23 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsBecause I was fine going without until I met someone very special to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:21 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsWell before I met my partner I had casual sex partners and I’m also queer. I find being in a relationship to be a lot different than having sex with random people. In fact I don’t even want to do that anymore. I’m not heterosexually successful if that’s what you mean to say, nor do I really want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:19 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsInteresting that you put the primary motivation of men as power. I never considered that. I think mostly because my primary motivation is to be around people I like and for everyone else to leave me alone! Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:16 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsSo that they can be happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:14 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThe opposite really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:11 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsAgreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:11 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsMan you all are crazy. First I have someone comparing economic status to this then to victims of war. Do you think the child with no limbs in Gaza wants to hear you whine about not having a girlfriend? Get a clue. Stop outsourcing your self esteem to validation from women and you won’t have this problem. God gave you JILL for a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:09 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI do get it, they are different parts of life and honestly I don’t want to engage further in this with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:08 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI disagree with that, nobody needs to better themselves, they just need to accept their lot in life and do what makes them happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:07 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThen do content creation less and chill in the park or invite your neighbors over or volunteer which is free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:06 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThey should want to make it better for themselves while they’re here Also, obligatory quote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:06 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsYou’re working 80 hours a week at minimum wage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:03 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsNo, I do, it just isn’t the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:02 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsRelationships are a lot of work and I’m actually in couple’s counseling right now. It depends on what you think is “better”. I’m very happy to be in it but it’s not some magical stress free thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:01 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThere it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:59 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThey don’t want to hear that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:56 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI have no objections | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:56 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsYes I understand your point but it isn’t a good comparison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:55 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsIdk why you keep comparing economic status to relationship status it just isn’t an apt comparison to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:55 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsI have a few woman friends and I don’t think they’re so stupid as to think I don’t find them attractive and vice versa, the point is we’ve made an agreement to have a platonic relationship and that we both value that platonic relationship. It’s really not that hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:53 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsYeah but I didn’t “have it” until I was 26 years old. I would have been equally, but differently, content if I never found a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:51 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsBecause it’s a pay to play society. I didn’t make this debate post to debate economics and tax structure so stick to the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:50 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsAnd yet when I tell lonely men to make friends with women they say it’s a waste of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:47 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsAnd the alternative, forcing people to be in relationships with them, is equally extremely cruel. I essentially had done this before I found my current partner and I wasn’t too upset about it. There are pros and cons to everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:46 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsFirst of all progressive tax structure makes it so rich people pay more taxes Second of all you need money to do anything in life so completely ridiculous comparison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 12:44 PM |
| – | Women will almost never be available to the public. Most men have no choice.What the hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?I was very thoroughly convinced I would be single for life when I was so your argument doesn’t hold water, I really just wanted to eat and live to the next day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 07:58 AM |
| -1 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?Bro I literally said that in a comma right fucking after the words you quoted like genuinely do you know how to read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?There’s environmental harm to driving your car, clearly we don’t stop doing things because of environmental harm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:34 AM |
| -1 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?You can’t control if I choose to engage or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?However you cannot force people to interact with you. AI might be better than nothing for those who can’t interact with others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:29 AM |
| -1 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?Because it’s just not a good argument to say we should prevent deaths, of course we should but guess what, we are all going to die in some way shape or form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?First paragraph was a runaway train of logic, there is no proof the machine is going to make them hurt themselves or others. I’m saying some people see the abstinence from procreation as a harm to society and humanity. In the end it’s always subjective if something hurts someone or doesn’t hurt someone. I don’t think it’s a good criteria as anything can be construed as harmful or not harmful depending on how you look at it. Btw I never want children myself, but these are actual arguments by peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Bumble is proof that women have to been taught to be very lazy when it comes to courtshipThen stop teaching them that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?You could say not having children hurts yourself and the environment because you contribute to the plummeting birth rate. Lots of religious people seem to think it hurts them if I don’t have children. The person dating the AI doesn’t actually want to date a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:20 AM |
| 8 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?What the dog doin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?If you didn’t cry about the innocents killed by Israel today I don’t wanna hear this argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?This is the same argument against childfree people though. If people see children as a burden, this tells me they never wanted to be parents. So it’s better for them to never be parents. Same with these AI relationships. They are not interested in real relationships, AI gives them what they need without harming others. What’s the harm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:15 AM |
| 7 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?What’s the long term damage? I’m not for AI relationships you just stated there will be long term damage without specifying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:13 AM |
| 7 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?Then you sound like a sociopath brother when I was single I still worked cause I wanted food in my belly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:12 AM |
| 6 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?First argument isn’t a good argument, your partner can withdraw out of the relationship at anytime too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:11 AM |
| – | Bumble is proof that women have to been taught to be very lazy when it comes to courtshipCap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Bumble is proof that women have to been taught to be very lazy when it comes to courtshipBy who | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:08 AM |
| – | Dating is random/messy and cannot be predicted by either Red or Blue pill approachesAll the obligations of a boyfriend? Lmao, so you have power of attorney over her assets in case of her infirmity? Get a fucking clue kid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 11:53 AM |
| – | Dating is random/messy and cannot be predicted by either Red or Blue pill approachesBro’s never heard of having friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 10:20 AM |
| 9 | Men need to take charge and make most of the decisions in a relationshipLogic defined by conservative men is just male feelings. It isn’t actually logical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 11:10 AM |
| 8 | Men need to take charge and make most of the decisions in a relationshipThis is the dumbest thing I’ve ever read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 11:06 AM |
| – | What’s the point of all the gender whining?This really doesn’t make any sense. I’ve heard this talking point ad nauseum. You do understand the government is staffed with… men… right? “Female superiority”? In what way lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 10:54 AM |
| – | What’s the point of all the gender whining?What about if the dog bites? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 10:53 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Have you ever considered that they want to have sex with you because you paid? Nobody’s forcing anything. You’re being overly dramatic. Why don’t you go find one of those AuDHD women and get with one of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:27 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Any hierarchy. And yes some women are attracted to regional directors or whatever. Firefighters are on a hierarchy of masculine activities. Musicians are on a hierarchy of being a free spirit and etc. They have status but in a different context you’re used to. Why does data show one third of Gen Z will always be single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?I really don’t understand your first point about me LARPing. Maybe I’m too slow. “Campaigns of cultural colonialism” - white men when other people not in their demographic speak challenge [IMPOSSIBLE] They are victims of those things because they were actual crimes, and a ragebait tweet before the term “ragebait” existed is not. Everyone in the West can see what’s happening in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:22 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?You’re deliberately obfuscating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?I’m not a conservative lol. Don’t know what gave you that impression. You’re not a victim of someone tweeting about “manspreading” 10 years ago. I’m American and I care about American issues. Sorry if that offends you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Married boomers often have children and grandchildren. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Go read the average donation Fresh and Fit get and come back to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Status is just your level in a hierarchy. Tallness is silly. How is it 80/20 bullshit that a bunch of people are going to be single? The data literally shows that to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?It’s been exposed, now go from there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:27 PM |
| 2 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Nobody “needs” replacement rate levels. Humans adapt to the situation at hand. Social construction is a fact, not a theory. We design our societies around our needs. All social norms and etc. are social construction. Of course women would feel that way, they were denied autonomy in Western civilization for centuries. What the hell is the “mating market”? Nobody got anywhere by sitting around all day. People have talked about this for upwards of fifteen years and it’s been mainstream for three. E… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?I specifically define whining as expressing a problem without a solution. It’s fine to bring attention to a problem. It’s fine to discuss a problem. But at a certain point, the next step just isn’t happening. And that makes it “whining”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:24 PM |
| 0 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Do you want to have sex or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:22 PM |
| 0 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Dysfunctional wheel gets replaced with platonic friendship or other relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:21 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?So how many red pillers are contacting their representatives about the most important issue of the day, “WOMEN DON’T LIKE ME” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Yes? How would running for local office not be high status… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:18 PM |
| 3 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Number one, I don’t really see a problem in the population shrinking. It likely needs to be done and we’ve dealt with it before. Black Plague, Spanish Flu. Number two, what is “female leadership” lol. I don’t go to any man to get my knowledge on what a man is, friend. Number three, you’ve all talked enough. Time to get some solutions on the table. Three years isn’t enough talking? Number four, don’t say “Woke”. It’s a misappropriation of AAVE by MAGAs. And you wouldn’t happen to be a MAGA, would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?The 2010’s were last decade, friend. I think women got the message once their right to health care (abortion) was taken away from them. I agree with that but did all of you have competent mothers or something? I learned early on women are not all that lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:15 PM |
| 2 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?I like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?It has a lot to do with what you posted. Did you miss the keywords you put in the comment? Feminism is still about rights, they just took away the right to health care (abortion). It’s only ~10% because most women want a man that makes more than them and most men want their woman to stay at home. If you want the alimony to equalize then get men and women to change their preferences. Women need compensation for putting their careers on hold to care for a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:12 PM |
| 0 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?I agree with both of those things and don’t think either is an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:09 PM |
| 3 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Mostly because I heard about the stuff a decade ago. Again it just surprised me that it seemingly became mainstream out of nowhere. Once you “expose the truth” you need a solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:08 PM |
| 0 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Go to Nevada and pay for it. It isn’t all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:07 PM |
| 2 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?What’s the big issue though? Whether women understand they’re going to be single or not, who cares? It’s their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:07 PM |
| 3 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Great, so what’s the solution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:06 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?You have a solution there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:03 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?First of all I want to make it clear I don’t even agree with the red pill nonsense, it’s funny how everyone with “blue pill” in their name is foaming at the mouth about it. Anyways, as far as I can tell, they mean someone with money or someone with social capital. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:02 PM |
| 6 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?What’s wrong with women having rights? That’s all that feminism is. You don’t like paying your taxes? So people with low income should just starve to death or what? Also, fun fact, if the woman has more money in the divorce she actually pays alimony to the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 04:08 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Ahh I apologize I thought the first sentence was your personal experience. My misread and my fault. I agree and I’m the same as you. I’ve always marched to the beat of my own drum. I deleted all social media except Reddit and YouTube years ago now and DO NOT miss it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:38 AM |
| 2 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?I agree with the rest of your comment as well and thank you for commenting. I guess I don’t normally comment agreement because that’s what the little updoot is for. But I appreciate your perspective and thank you for offering it and your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:31 AM |
| 3 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?The women are whining too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:30 AM |
| 4 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Talk to my mother and you will learn very quickly that women are not wonderful. Although I love her even so. I envy those who ever thought that all women were wonderful. Must have had female caregivers that were not emotionally incestuous and abusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:22 AM |
| 8 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Squeaky wheel gets the grease but dysfunctional wheel gets replaced. There is only so much whining one can tolerate before one tunes it out. See our President. As for your questions: What can one expect from a relationship? Unconditional love. I can say I feel that with my partner. There is nothing he can do that will make not love him. Yes they are worth the trouble. What else are you going to do with your life? Whine about them on Reddit? Not necessarily. I am in my first relationship and I st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:21 AM |
| 4 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?What do you mean like “traditional men”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:16 AM |
| 4 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?You can always go to Nevada and pay for it if you do choose. But trust me it really isn’t all that, getting laid. I do enjoy having a partner although I am with a man. So a lot of this debate doesn’t apply to me because I’m bi. I have talked to my female friends and there is an ick when it comes to seeing bi men romantically, but whatever. I’m happily paired off and want to stay that way. I hope you find a partner soon, friend. If not, make friends. Sometimes close friendships can be close to pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:15 AM |
| 5 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?You can always get a roommate or live with platonic friend(s) to address the second income issue so I wouldn’t even give people that out tbh. Lots of entitlement from men, coming from a man. And trust me I have my own issues. But I was taught whatever problems come my way, I have to deal with them. Not whine about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:12 AM |
| 2 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?This is true but people are whining outside of Reddit too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:09 AM |
| 3 | What’s the point of all the gender whining?Great, I’ll know for next time. I can’t change it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:08 AM |
| – | Supply is the major reason for women's struggle in DatingTrue for some folks but definitely not all. I think this is why being single should be normalized in society. People are frothing at the mouth at marriage and birth rates but is it worth the pain people in unfulfilling relationships are in? Yet if someone is single people will go out of their way to shame them or denigrate them for “dying alone”. Doesn’t really make sense lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:29 PM |
| – | Supply is the major reason for women's struggle in DatingToriyama is rolling in his grave rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:25 PM |
| 2 | How conditional is your love?This was a good comment. I was raised by my grandparents and have their older values deeply ingrained in me. You explained the idea of unconditional love very well. I look at mainstream culture and wonder how they could misunderstand the idea of love so much. It all seems so transactional and based on material satisfaction. We are not meant to be so rationally self-interested, it used to be shamed in society. Yet now it seems if you have any spiritual attunement and experience real love you're t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?No, relationships take work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | People that play games, why? Be honest.People play games because of fear and selfishness. Nothing more to it than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | "You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life?Need to talk about your problems to find the right solution to them. Sounds like you just don’t want to do the work therapy asks you to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | "You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life?Need to talk about your problems to find the right solution to them. Sounds like you just don’t want to do the work therapy asks you to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | "You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life?Bro’s never heard of Freud or Jung before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:52 PM |
| – | I think progressive capitalism is ruining society and making finding partner harder for men and womenYet you follow tradition just because it’s there lol. I started your journey, now have intellectual curiosity and the ability to be wrong or don’t. I don’t care, however if you’re honest with yourself you know you do not focus 8+ hours a day at your workplace. It just does not happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 04:44 AM |
| – | I think progressive capitalism is ruining society and making finding partner harder for men and womenhttps://blog.amazingmarvin.com/how-many-hours-can-you-actually-be-productive-in-a-day/ Sauce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:50 PM |
| – | Should abortion require the permission of the father?Ideally both parents should have a say, but it isn’t possible in practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:38 PM |
| – | Should abortion require the permission of the father?No, the woman has more risk in carrying a pregnancy so it’s her decision. I say this as a socially libertarian leaning man. Ideally, yes, but the world isn’t ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:33 PM |
| – | I think progressive capitalism is ruining society and making finding partner harder for men and women40 hours is overworking, the average human can’t perform any more than 4 hours of deep work a day. Realistically we should only be working 20 hours a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:23 PM |
| 3 | In the coming decades, we will see a resurgence of marriages and monogamyBro you need to chill out with your fetishes and fantasies lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:18 PM |
| 2 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menPersonally I need to jack off or I get irritable and unfocused on my work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Women largely objectify themselves for validation and profit and pretend it's empowering.Pretty sure he’s saying it isn’t the first time it’s happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 09:03 PM |
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