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Don’t go back to an ex. The time and effort you put into that could be used for self improvement and that is going to pay off WAY more than chasing another human or trying to convince them to come back. She left, accept it, improve.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:52 PM
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Triple plot twist: she charged him with the knife because she fucked his best friend and he found out.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:41 AM
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Definitely this. Puts her in the spotlight right away and let’s her know that you’re completely aware of what she’s doing and that you’re confident and direct enough to call her out on it.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:26 AM
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If she’s making it known she’s having a “great” life, she’s most likely not having one at all. Most people don’t run around talking about how amazing their life is because if it’s as they say they’re gonna be too busy living that life than telling other people about it or posting about it on social media. I’d say most likely scenario is she sees you’re doing good, seeing the high value she’s lost, and she wants a piece of that back and is using the “great” life so she doesn’t seem too desperate …
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:10 AM
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I’ve always felt it was just a bad idea in general to associate with women you work with outside the workplace. There might be some genuinely decent women who are just looking for a fun time out every now and then and some drinks but there is no way to tell which ones are that way and which ones will be crazy the next day and this day and age all it takes is ONE of them to be that way and boom. Careers ruined at best, rape charges at worst. Even hanging out with most men after work is a bad idea…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:03 AM
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Yeah, pretty new to RP and all that, fail to see how that changes anything I’ve said so far. Sure, I could be wrong but so far it seems the whole point of RP is to accept all of this as normal, because it is. She’s either ignoring him as a shit test or because she’s legitimately not interested, she had a legitimate reason for the Friday but ghosted after that. After what I am guessing is one or two weeks give or take of being ignored I’m gonna go with not interested, for whichever reason, and I’…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:19 AM
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Yeah. I’m gonna go with the “another guy” theory. Along with almost everyone else here. Soooooo maybe use your brain?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:57 AM
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Last relationship went the same way, completely obsessed to not talking at all. Broke up with her, two days later she moved in with her ex. So there’s your answer buddy.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:44 AM
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Yeah. They were married pretty much as soon as our divorce was finalized, that he also paid half of all the fees for, so that poor kid is going to get his ass torn open after the divorce and one or two more kids pop out. Well at least now I know that it’s not going to stop though. Just do my best to minimize my responses and hold frame like you said. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 05:42 PM
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Rhetorical question I know. Because the pill has yet to go all the way down and i haven’t gotten the full IDGAF and while she doesn’t see it the shit still annoys me. Lift, read side bar, self improvement.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 05:20 PM
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In my 15-24 age range when I was with her? Yeah. I was half fucking nuts myself but the three years after we’ve split and divorced it’s been way better than it used to be.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 05:09 PM
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That’s part of my point. It doesn’t matter what I do or say. I be pleasant and try to make small talk when she drops the kids off, she tries to be my friend, I tell her to knock it off and we aren’t friends, she tries to argue about it. I ignore her when she drops the kids off, she tries to argue about how we still need to talk and that we need to be “friendly like we used to be” with each other, I again say no we only need to talk about the kids. Argument tries to follow. I be an asshole, case …
/r/askMRP08/02/19 05:05 PM
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Awww that’s cute. We can use the word faggot. I’m not meaning this particular case. This is just most recent. I just mean does the bullshit from her ever stop in general. I can be pleasant, ignore her, or be sarcastic. End result is the same which is exactly why the question was pointed towards people who are divorced with kids.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 04:56 PM
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And yes. I know NOW. Don’t stick your dick in crazy. Wish I had known that before I did it.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 04:52 PM
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I have plans tonight and my mom and little sister are keeping the kids for me (I didn’t tell her this) but all I did was ask what time she was going to drop the kids off so I knew what to tell my family as far as what time I would be dropping them off to them. She called saying she didn’t have time to really text but said it would be in the afternoon and sarcastically asked “why? You got plans or something?” So me being me and hearing that tone just said “Yep. Sure do, going to get some pussy to…
/r/askMRP08/02/19 04:45 PM
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I don’t personally know him but they moved in together a month after dating, got married 5 months after dating and he gave her a family vehicle no one was using anymore so just from that I’m going to assume beta as fuck.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 04:33 PM
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I have no doubt he is. Poor guy was 19 when they met and has mom and dad money. He is probably getting destroyed right now.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 03:55 PM
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She’s had to get the kids early two times because of a concert I had planned and she has other people look at my Facebook to see where I’m going, who I’m going with and what I’m doing. So I guess that’s “not having my shit together” because I do more than sit around the house all day like she’s used to me doing. That’s just my guess though.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 03:54 PM
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She’s been remarried for about 6 months now and if anything they’ve seem to have gotten worse.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 03:51 PM
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Read and noted. Thanks for the reply. I will do my best to detach as much as possible and hopefully she’ll get the hint but I doubt it. That pussy has been through hell and back because of me and whoever she all decided to fuck during our marriage so definitely not interested lol.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 12:42 AM
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I’m still in transition I’ll admit. Working on learning more and trying to apply things as I can and I can see a difference and understand situations better now but it’s not quite to where it’s a flawless process for me. If I’m not actively thinking most of the time though a lot of the stuff gets lost for a while.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:37 PM
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Thankfully I have no child support payments so that sucks to hear man. We drop off and pick up at each other’s houses but she don’t come in mine and I don’t go in hers, I like your idea though of just mondays at school.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:34 PM
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I’m still working on the full IDGAF attitude so definitely solid advice. Give less fucks!
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:32 PM
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Oh yeah for sure. Just a pain in the ass having her trying to start something anytime I have to talk to her about the kids.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:19 PM
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Now that you say it I remember reading that in either the sidebar, Rational Male, or maybe both. Gonna give em a read again and try to make it stick a little better this time.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:18 PM
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In the past she did a few times and me being the dumb heartbroken beta I was at the time caved in instantly each time. Definitely not happening again lol
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:06 PM
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I figured an ex wife would be more worried about shit testing her current husband than her ex but having it pointed out definitely makes it click. Thanks!
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:05 PM
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Gotcha. Thanks!
/r/askTRP07/02/19 09:54 PM
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The cringe levels are high with this one? I think the retardation level is high with this one. What are your goals for this “girlfriend” cause if you’re looking for love, go over to relationship advice or something. RP isn’t “get a girlfriend for Valentine’s Day and fall in love” it’s “improve yourself, fuck bitches”
/r/askTRP07/02/19 11:19 AM
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Would you prefer they said your middle name or something?
/r/askTRP07/02/19 11:07 AM
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Believe me I am well aware my BMI is out of control. At one point I was in the military and running a 14 minute two mile (which to someone my size was outstanding) but somehow over the years I’ve just settled into the bullshit. Summer is fucking miserable (northwest Louisiana) and I’m always sweating my ass off, I comfort eat, and I’ve been ok with it for the most part until now. I’m tired of being a welcome mat and I’m tired of always being so tired and hurting from everyday activities. Somethi…
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:37 AM
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I can relate to both ends of this spectrum sadly. Back in the day because I would be building shit in Minecraft until recently and now because I realize the “get shit done” sentiment. Appreciate you reminding man! Gonna get back on that shit tomorrow!
/r/askTRP19/01/19 04:10 AM
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I’ll add them to my list man thanks!
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:25 PM
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Currently I have Meditations, Philosophy as a Way of Life , and The Daily Stoic on my tablet to read.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:25 PM
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I’ll definitely keep it all mind. That’s bad ass overcoming all that though man and kudos to you. Definitely an inspiration! Appreciate the insight on everything.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:26 AM
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After reading more it seems like I had this at one point but lost it in the past few years. Maybe not as strong as others such as you, for sure but to some degree at least. Hoping to get it back to some extent because I lost frame in a bad way not that long ago and working on rebuilding it but I’ll definitely delve deeper into reading about it after getting some confirmation about it.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:04 AM
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I feel like someone has recommended this to me before and I forgot. Will add it to the list!
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:36 AM
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Will add it to the list! Thanks
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:36 AM
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Will definitely check it out!
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:02 AM
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I originally was turned onto this book after my divorce ( I was the epitome of a beta cuck during it) and holy shit. It definitely started TRP for me. I would go as far to say it should be required reading for any man honestly. It didn’t change immediately but I would find myself going to do things I would have never thought much about, getting something for someone at work, going to offer help, etc and as soon as I realized it I would say no which was HUGE for me. That was a year and a half ago…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:59 AM
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Yeah no clue on the proper way to box so I’ll hard pass making my body any worse, as far as running it’s just damn near impossible for me at this point. An ankle surgery I had as a kid never really healed right and after years of working on concrete it’s just gotten worse.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 05:30 PM
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Nothing’s stopping me from those in particular. I’ve just always felt like they haven’t had THAT much of an impact really but hey, if it keeps me busy then it’s worth a shot lol
/r/askTRP01/01/19 05:30 PM
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I can definitely second this. Just a simple body spray (amber from red spice) had a female at work going “oh lord, you smell good. I’m at work you don’t need to be doing that to me!” So definitely pay attention to this guys! It’s something so simple that can have a serious effect!
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