SerenelyKo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	What’s your take on a man with a low libido?		SerenelyKo	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 02:14 PM
16	What are these “high standards” that women have?		SerenelyKo	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/20 05:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	When did you experience key sexual and relationship events? 1) 14 2) 19 3) 13 4) 19 5) 19	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 06:28 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. I think you misunderstand, I believe they mean that you fix yourself before you go out and date, not fix your partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 06:00 PM
2	Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy? So if one of your best bros was feeling down would you give him a blow job? If not, you obviously don’t care about him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/20 11:05 PM
6	Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get Rpilled A balance can be struck. A woman who is happy to make you dinner and clean up after you and take care of you when you’re sick is providing “mommy love”. But when the man doesn’t reciprocate with the “daddy love” (being respectable, attractive, dependable, etc), then the woman would instead feel taken advantage of. The ideal relationship is one where the man is able to be respectable which will in turn lead the woman to want to provide service for him. Then both sides are getting what they want. …	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/20 01:47 PM
16	Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get Rpilled Respect is the main thing here. Women don’t want to feel like they are the caretakers of men. It makes them feel like mommies, and mommies shouldn’t be attracted to their babies. Women want someone they can respect and admire. When a man falls into complacency, they essentially take that water balloon full of respect and jab a bunch of holes in it. Slowly, it’ll deflate until all that is left is a sad, soggy ballon. Don’t be a sad soggy balloon.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/20 02:48 PM
6	Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU No? Doing it with a condom isn’t about pleasure, it’s about safety	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 02:05 PM
0	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? It’s been mentioned in other comments. Sex stopped when I was 130lbs. Currently I am fat at 185lbs and 5’5”	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 04:22 PM
1	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? Should have clarified. Sex was never consistent. In the first year, it was a maximum of once or twice a week of sexual encounters, but usually stuck moreso around once every two weeks. Half the time it was just me sucking him off so we’d at least have some kind of sex. Will definitely take that “don’t downgrade” point to heart.	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 04:21 PM
1	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? Small town, not much access to “hookers”. No phone for affairs, and I’ve made it abundantly clear to him that if he wants to go have sex with other women, I’d be happy to have an open relationship.	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 04:11 PM
3	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? I must say that I’m loving the fact that my bullshit is getting called out so hard in this post. I need to diet and I need to stick with it. Then I need to decide if I’m willing to stick around to see if it’s possible for his libido to get sorted out. Logically it all makes sense, it’s the willpower that’s the hard part.	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 04:07 PM
1	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? Don’t plan on having kids, but I wouldn’t ask him to take anything that could permanently effect his ability to do so. In case things end between the two of us, I wouldn’t want to jeopardize if he wants kids with someone later.	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 04:04 PM
1	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? I’ve never asked him to weigh himself in front of me. But I’d estimate around 240-250lbs at around 6’1” or 6’2”?	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 04:02 PM
2	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? Ranting on Reddit, escapism (video games, anime, etc.), masturbating. Trying to focus on the good things when I can	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 03:43 PM
1	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? 25 (M). Been together since I was 19 and he was 20 Edit: no morning wood. No erections while cuddling or sleeping in bed. He’s overweight, less so than I. I’d say he’s in chubby bordering on fat, whereas I am just fat. Not that I’m as wide as I am tall or anything, but still.	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 03:39 PM
1	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? Most of those posts are usually in the heights of frustration with him. Need a place to vent, y’know? I definitely need to lose weight. The reason why I lurk on this “terrible” and “misogynistic” (/s) subreddits is because a lot of the advice is universal. Own yourself, and all that. I’ve been breaking out of our codependent dynamic (I think you guys would put it as I’m stepping out of his frame?). Not wrapping myself completely with him has helped. Now just the physical work lol. Would weight s…	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 03:37 PM
1	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? I think you’re the voice in my head that wakes me up at 3 in the morning haha.	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 03:31 PM
4	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? 😂 He had one, and when it crapped out he just cancelled it and didn’t get a new one. He uses my phone if he needs to call someone, wants to play a mobile game, etc.	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 03:28 PM
0	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? Not married, dating but cohabitating. How would you explain the refusal of an open relationship then? Just jealousy of not wanting his “woman” to sleep with other men, so he’d be willing to not sleep with people he’s attracted with either?	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 02:49 PM
3	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? 😂 I wish	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 02:47 PM
3	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? So I don’t feel like looking up the chart, but I think I’m in the second “block” of Obese. 185lbs at 5’5”. Sex stopped when I was al 130lbs. I’ve asked him if it’s an attraction issue, and have offered up an alternative of an open relationship if he’s just not sexually attracted to me, but he shot that down hella fast	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 02:41 PM
7	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? He does not take medication. Went to a therapist once before meeting me but then stopped. He’s not diagnosed depressed, but it’s possible I suppose. He’s claimed to have had a lot of sex with his ex girlfriend in a flippant sort of way, as in a “I’ve been there, but now I have you for love and commitment (and definitely not sex)”. Cheating is a near 0 possibility. He doesn’t have a phone, all of our friends are mutual, and he spends 99% of his time with me.	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 02:35 PM
6	What’s your take on a man with a low libido? Oh god. Not married. Have explicitly told him I cannot get involved with a legal commitment if he won’t even sleep with me.	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 02:31 PM
2	Q4Women How much does penis size matter to you? Sure?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 02:17 PM
3	CMV: Men are more emotional than women. Women are more emotive than men. I’d say that I (24F) am more unemotional than average. I have a hard time empathizing with others and dealing with other people when they get emotional. I’m an INTJ, if that matters. However, I’ve always been a crier. I tear up at movies and funny videos. Sometimes I’ll be lying in bed thinking about characters from fiction and how they felt when things happen to them (I’m a Dungeon Master, so figuring out what my NPCs are thinking is important), and that’ll cause me to cry. I cry all the tome i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 01:52 PM
2	Q4Women How much does penis size matter to you? To be honest, I don’t know. I’ve only had one partner who I’ve not slept with in four years. Not that I have a lot of experience but I think he’s above average (6 inches or more I’d estimate?) and while I loved the sex until it was abruptly stopped on me, I had an issue where no matter how wet I would get, after intercourse I’d have been a small amount of bleeding. I’d probably not have to deal with that if he was smaller, which would have been nice. Many (probably most) women (including myself)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 01:42 PM
1	What are the pros AND cons of being in a relationship with you? Not that I really pay much attention to politics anymore... I did probably around four years ago, but now I’m just focusing on me and my life. Which in the eyes of some hard leftists makes you part of the problem and a pussy in the eyes of some hard right wingers. You can’t win lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 11:44 PM
2	What are the pros AND cons of being in a relationship with you? Left leaning centrist. I’m in Canada, and voting is a chore because all of the options are terrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 10:42 PM
2	What are the pros AND cons of being in a relationship with you? Me, 24F PROS: 1) I speak all “love languages” to varying degrees. I will buy you presents that remind me of you. I will bring you home snacks or drinks if I noticed you’re out. I’ll rub your back and make you dinners. I want to learn about your hobbies. I love physical intimacy and sex. I will verbally tell you how much I love you and what I like about you. 2) I am independent. I don’t want constantly be taken care of by someone. This means I’m not here to take your money. Now, if we’re renting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 02:26 PM
1	The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality. Put yourself in situations where you’re more likely to be pursued. Clubs, hobby groups, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 10:24 AM
2	The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality. Bruh. I’m the one who asked out my boyfriend. Who has refused to have sex with me in four years. You know not of sexual frustrations, Bucko. Just because women typically aren’t asking out strangers on the street doesn’t mean they don’t pursue men. Women are going to pursue men that they’re comfortable with and know to some degree. Maybe try joining some clubs or something. Every man that I’ve flirted with I knew previously either through a club or shared hobby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 10:22 AM
6	The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality. Yikes. No. Forcing anyone to be with anyone is disgusting. If men were to end their roles of pursuers in the dynamic, women would then be forced to step up to the plate. Why can’t people if all stripes just learn to be happy with themselves then accept another person into their life if it’s right for them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 11:29 PM
9	The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality. What would be the best solution in your opinion then? I can’t see anything that would work shy of forcing women to pursue guys they don’t like	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 05:31 PM
1	What are these “high standards” that women have? See, I like/love people for who they are. But love isn’t enough to sustain a LTR. A man or woman who loves their partner, but gets assaulted by them shouldn’t be in that relationship, no matter how much they may be in love. Similarly, though to a much lesser extent, two people with conflicting life goals should not be in a relationship even if they’re in love, because it’ll undoubtably cause pain for one or both sides. A man who wants children shouldn’t seek a LTR with a child free woman. You ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 02:01 PM
1	What are these “high standards” that women have? Nice, kind, caring and generous all fall under the same category: Nice When you say guys want a woman who “isn’t fat”, what you really mean is “is attractive.” Would you date a balding woman who wears ratty sweatpants and shirts with stains and holes in them? So, the male requirement of “being attractive” encompasses the “fit” and “well dressed” parts of what you listed. Which just leaves “earning more than her” and “have a lot of friends”. The earnings one I believe is only something really hel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 11:32 AM
2	What are these “high standards” that women have? How can you both be so crazy but at complete opposites of the spectrum	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 11:21 AM
1	What are these “high standards” that women have? I mean... do you not have many of these same standards? Maybe you should just raise yours? Why accept a clingy girl who constantly texts you and demands you call her? Why accept a girl who never treats you or does anything for you? Why accept a women who can’t take care of her own home? Why accept a woman who is not resourceful enough to fix a problem when it arises? The other things I’d say aren’t fixed. I personally don’t care if my partner makes “a lot of money”, so long as we have enough to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 11:19 AM
1	What are these “high standards” that women have? You had me in the first half, chief. Counter argument: it’s not specifically that men are the ones that need to jump through hoops, it’s that whoever has the least power in the dynamic needs to jump through them. If you’re aiming for hot girls who want rich men, yes you will need to contort yourself in every direction in order to get their attention. However, if you’re aiming for “meh” girls, your power in the dynamic goes up and thus she needs to start jumping through more hoops for you. This i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 11:13 AM
1	What are these “high standards” that women have? “Stupid-ass tricks”.... such as... getting to know a person? If you’re just looking for sex, yes looks and confidence are going to be the only important factor. If you’re looking for a LTR then you get to let all those other positive qualities shine through.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 11:06 AM
1	What are these “high standards” that women have? I guess it’s true that women hardly ever “date down”, but I feel like a part of that is women are more likely to put an inordinate amount of effort into their appearance than men? Clothes and makeup can turn a “meh” girl into a cute or pretty one. Once you get those “meh” girls who don’t care about clothes and makeup, they can’t find anyone because men flock to the more conventionally attractive woman. I also don’t think you can just assume all women are constantly dating up by looking from the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 10:48 AM
-2	What are these “high standards” that women have? See like... to me those do seem like unreasonable expectations, but I also don’t see women who have those expectations of men? In my circles it’s mostly “be respectful, hit it off, and have similar likes”	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/20 06:28 PM