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| 5 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic? | Serge_Suppressor | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/08/23 04:03 AM |
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| 1 | The "Bear or man" question has made me lose faith in humanity.I'm a man. This doesnt bother me because it's not about me. No one is presenting an "average man" as "worse than a wild animal." They're saying they'd rather risk the possibility of an outlier bear than an outlier man. why are you so triggered by this? It's just women talking about their anxieties in a world where there are sexually predatory men who do terrible things when they think they can get away with it -- e.g. out in the woods, alone with some random woman. No one is really inviting bear… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Sex-selective IVF apparently favors girls in the USThe fact that you can't think of anyone current should tell you something. Andrew Tate is around, and a massively popular grifter. Valerie Solanas is long gone, and was a mentally ill oddball who never had a fraction of the influence, and was mostly seen as a curiosity or a cautionary tale about feminist anger or lesbianism. Like, the only point of comparison is that both hate the opposite sex. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/24 07:52 PM |
| 0 | The "Bear or man" question has made me lose faith in humanity.the overwhelming majority of bear encounters end with the bear running away. If you know what to do and keep your head in an encounter with a bear, you're all but guaranteed to be fine. Whereas a random man may be out looking for a victim. It's weird how triggered thin-skinned men get from this. No one is saying all men are bad or you personally are bad. They're saying that there are enough predatory men out there that they'd rather not deal with a strange man alone, because they can't know if h… | /r/MensRights | 08/05/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierHigher male sex drive is an adaptation specifically related to reproducing as often as possible to keep the species alive Nope. For most of human history, female fertility was pretty low most of the time, because people were nomadic often walking vast distances and experiencing frequent starvation. Male and female sex drive are both very high because sex was used as a way to cement the community. EDIT: If the high male sex drive were to maximize reproduction, it would be exclusively and reliably… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Are beautiful people more well equipped to survive?You're talking about subjective traits. If you find the person you're with very appealing in multiple ways, you're probably more likely to have a happy marriage and happy home, which no doubt will contribute to the health of your kids. As far as raising healthy kids, economic resources and susceptibility to diseases are the issues. Don't waste time on eugenic pseudoscience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Are beautiful people more well equipped to survive?IQ has only a moderate connection to genetics, and even less to do with intelligence — that's why poor people score worse and why you can study for the IQ test and do better next time. If high IQ parents adopt out their newborn to a poor family, that kid will generally have a lower IQ. The name is a misnomer. The IQ test was invented to measure a child's development compared to their peers at a particular point in time. Benet was explicit that it did not measure intelligence, and that he did not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierIow, media were indoctrinating you into this belief about gender even when you were a child. How do you separate that indoctrination from "natural" difference between men and women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierAre the majority of men on dating apps? Because if not, that doesn't prove he's an outlier.i also find them more at peace I am with myself, the less obsessional I am about sex. Men may want sex more generally, but I think the cultural expectation that you're supposed to chase skirts to prove your virility plays a bigger role than most think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierThe idea that any change in sex drive would have eliminated humanity is just silly. I'm sorry, but you have no way of knowing if that's true and there's no good reason to think it would be. And you're confusing biological drives with behaviors and attitudes. There certainly are issues with some of the ways men think about and act towards women in various cultures, but the problem is not biological drives as such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierThere's a reason most women don't go for this option — even if they have a high sex drive, and it's not about men's looks. A shitty male lover can injure a woman, and there are horny-angry men out there who want to do that. There are plenty of men with mediocre looks who don't struggle at all to get laid. I'd take having to put in a little extra effort to get laid over knowing that any guy I brought home or even a rando I passed in the street may be planning to rape and murder me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierThe consequences of chosing the wrong partner are much, much graver for women than men. It's easy for them to get into a relationship, but they might not make it out again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierThe inverted way this sub (and TRP in general) usees "normie" always fascinates me. All thesee folk theories about sex — that men are always horny by default, that women are these strange moon creatures whose arousal depends on ten different things aligning — go back centuries. They're what people are expected to believe, and what uninformed people tend to beliece Pseudo experts like PUAs preach this stuff because we've all been more or less conditioned to believe it already, so it's easy to sel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornierThis whole post sounds like you hang out with a lot of guys who obsess about sex and who women don't find desirable, tbh. Women's sex drives are on average different than mens qualitatively; they take longer to get into the mood, but also end up more into it for longer when they do. They're not less horny generally, they're less horny for casual encounters with guys they don't know who probably won't make them cum. Male drive isn't stronger — it's just more urgent (and part of that is cultural.)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 12:35 PM |
| – | The reality of dating for menIn our early slutty ape days, we spent a lot of time walking long distances with little food. Human fertility was much, much lower. Fertility rates shot up with the agricultural revolution, which led to a population boom, and all the ensuing troubles that caused, like periods of extreme scarcity, the growth of hierarchical systems, and a proprietary attitude towards land, livestock, children, and women. The fact that some bonobos are more successful at mating is completely irrelevant. The commen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 03:01 AM |
| – | The reality of dating for menIf we're talking about longstanding human evolutionary traits, we're talking about pre-industrial tribes, Amazonian and otherwise. Edit: And of course only pre-industrial tribes would believe it. you wouldn't expect a society with modern science to believe it, nor a largely monogamous society. Unfortunately, we can't study how humans lived 20,000 years ago, nor can we make inferences from pre-industrial tribes that live now. And we certainly can't say what they believed about paternity. But ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 02:36 AM |
| 1 | It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention.Right. And just because a relationship ends with a breakup doesn't mean it was a waste or a failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 02:04 AM |
| 0 | The reality of dating for menWe're talking about online dating, not the sex industry, and I made no claim to be explaining the sex industry. What factors in online dating did I fail to explain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 04:41 PM |
| 2 | The reality of dating for menSuch as? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | The reality of dating for menIt's just not the case. Human sexual selection is sperm selection. It's why your genitals are large compared to your body vis a vis other animals, why you can have sex all year long instead of going into heat, and why your dong is shaped like a plunger. If you go far enough back, paternity was not even a concept in the modern sense. The "father" was the mother's primary partner. Humans are the slut ape. Women are more selective because they have more to lose. We don't live in in tribes like we u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 03:31 PM |
| 10 | The reality of dating for menThe beginning was interesting. Stopped reading when you started with the pseudoscience. Treating the UX of dating apps, an extremely new phenomenon, as reflective of ageless biological truths is nonsensical for obvious reasons. It would be interesting to see a post actually examining the cultural, design, and psychological factors behind men's and women's experiences on a dating app, rather than fall back on internet folk theories of evopsych. This was not that post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention.Good point. You should avoid relationships of any sort, friendships included. If you really see love as nothing more than an investment with an expected return and feel cheated by a partner for simply not preferring you or theoretically falling out of love with you one day, than all you'll do is spread your resentment to friends and romantic partners. You're right to remove yourself from the dating pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:15 AM |
| 1 | It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention.Lots of people have been in relationships for decades and will tell you you're wrong. Yeah, both women and men fall out of love sometimes. With the right person, you can also stay in love, despite all the challenges a relationship faces. Been together with my partner for about 20 years, and looking forward to several decades more, Goddess willing. You should spend some time thinking about the fact that being emotionally invested in a person doesn't mean you literally own them. They can leave you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Machismo is not what prevents men from relating to each otherGood for you, I guess? I'm not sure what you mean by "self-righteous lib men," since people on this sub generally don't understand what "liberal" mean and the nuttier ones actually think it's a synonym for "left." Regardless, glad you found your people, even if it's completely off-topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Machismo is not what prevents men from relating to each otherI'm glad those men understood your problems and fears. What point are you making? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 08:57 PM |
| 30 | Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them?A few things: Cheating is bad. Abusing children is much, much worse. They're not equivalent accusations. You can cheat once and basically be a good person — a good person who did a bad thing. If you abuse kids, you're a piece of shit. That sort of medical exam is much more invasive than a blood test, and probably going to be really traumatic for the child. That being said, yeah, a lot of guys are creepy and paranoid about paternity tests. It's often because they don't want responsibility for the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Machismo is not what prevents men from relating to each otherSource: me and my friends calling each other "f****t" and punching each other in the arm since middle school /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Machismo is not what prevents men from relating to each otherSpoken like someone who lives in a little bubble, protected from the outside world. If you've never met a group of men who aren't macho or homophobic, that's on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Machismo is not what prevents men from relating to each otherOne wrong article accusing a frat of rape several years ago, and based on that, you're gonna assert men have no male only spaces? Invite your bros over to watch the game. Voila, a male only space, and no one will demonize it or trying to stop you from doing it. Cc As for machismo, you said in your own post that men can still practice machismo and be physically affectionate with each other so you completely undercut your whole point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Radical individualism is what is making dating so hard for everyone nowadaysYes! And it's okay to want something because it makes someone else happy, or to feel good about backing up your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?Wow. You're a fragile one, aren't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?Talk to some women about their worst boyfriend sometime, and you'll get all the evidence you need. Or hell, read some stories online about women in abusive relationships with shitbag men. Anyone who thinks women only "date up" hasn't even thought about the issue, much less talked to a woman. If you have two closed groups that mostly pair off one-to-one, the myth you believe is mathematically impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?Gonna assume this isn't a larp, although I'm not convinced. A lot of guys like curvy girls. And you aren't just your appearance, anyway. Maybe there are other things about you guys find attractive. I've met girls who maybe I wouldn't find sexy in a picture, but just had an energy — a way of carrying themselves — that was hot. But in general, sex holds less risk for men. If there weren't so many guys who are complete psychos (and if so many of those psychos weren't fighting tooth and nail to erod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Men who are not obsessed with women are also demonizedSeriously. It's such a weird, neurotic way of coping. Coming up with these absurd folk theories about human interaction because some woman rolled her eyes when you were bothering about Call of Duty. Edit: I think it's even weirder than that a lot of the time. Like they come up with these theories because they imagined some woman rolling her eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Men who are not obsessed with women are also demonizedSounds like you hang out with a pretty catty group of people if everyone is always shaming everyone. Outside of Internet arguments and the occasional guilt trip from my parents, I honestly can't remember the last time anyone, man or woman, shamed me about anything. I think the last time it happened to me in a romantic context must have been in middle school. It sort of made sense then, because everyone was kind of childish and insecure, and viewed dating and friendship like a competition. Fortun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Men who are not obsessed with women are also demonizedWho demonizes men for having hobbies and interests? Like yeah, if you're fanatically obsessed with something to the point where it's all you'll talk about some people might not want to hang out with you, but no one cares about you watching football or playing COD or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Why would it trigger me? I've got a great relationship with the love of my life. You believe what your anecdotal experience has shown you, and I'll believe what mine has shown me. I know enough about evolutionary psychology to know it's pseudoscience based on myths about ancient societies we really know almost nothing about. What we do know is that human hunter-gatherers were communal and non-monogamous — it's why your dong is shaped like a plunger and you can have sex all year long, instead of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Lmfao. You people are the funniest. Cry more. https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DXs9eSdW0AAWxgg?format=jpg&name=900x900 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Oppression olympicsYes. The Overton window has shifted far to the right in America. Here's a song from 1966 from a left wing songwriter saying exactly the same things about liberals I am right now. This shit really isn't that hard to research. No one on the left considers liberals left. We never have. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3cdqQ2BdgOA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Oppression olympicsRight on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:46 AM |
| 0 | Oppression olympicsWhat are you talking about? What do you imagine that dopey show has to do with feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Oppression olympicsLiberals are centrists, and the people called "blue pill" are generally liberals. It you're talking about people who love the Democratic party and think war with Russia is a good idea, those people are center to center-right. Politically, they're maybe 3 degrees to the left of neocons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Oppression olympicsThere's definitely a divide and conquer strategy by the ruling class, which is reflected in both red pill and centrist (blue pill) ideology. IDK what you mean by "new age feminism," though. There are definitely radical feminist traditions which see the oppression of women as deeply connected to the oppression of the working class and of minorities under capitalism. And of course, there are liberal feminists who are really only concerned with letting women play oppressor as much as men do. But e.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you want your daughters to date a redpiller?People who throw footballs also like to watch other people throw footballs. Lots of active people like sports. It really doesn't sound like you know what women like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 11:13 PM |
| 1 | If mens nature is used to justify looking at sexy women then there's nothing wrong with women being wearyThat's because there's nothing I'm not comprehending. Women don't make themselves targets by dressing cute. Abusive men attack women because they're abusive men. That's as simple as I can make it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | If mens nature is used to justify looking at sexy women then there's nothing wrong with women being wearyAre you talking about being looked at, or being harassed and/or insulted? You start by saying, women should cover up "to not make yourself a target of the ill-intended," and then switch to, "if being looked at bothers you...." I've never met someone who is bothered just by being looked at. And if, as you say, "those individuals are going to do what they want anyway," that leaves no logical reason for women to cover up, unless they prefer to cover up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 08:02 AM |
| 1 | If mens nature is used to justify looking at sexy women then there's nothing wrong with women being wearySlight quibble with the word "every" here, but otherwise I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:54 AM |
| 1 | If mens nature is used to justify looking at sexy women then there's nothing wrong with women being wearyThe source you shared directly contradicts your assertion about creepy men. • Some individual-level risk factors: Poor coping skills, low self-esteem, and sexual attraction or sexual preoccupation. (Tabachnick & Klein, 2011). • Some family-level risk factors: Difficulty establishing and/or maintaining appropriate intimate relationships and/or a chaotic, unstable, or violent home environment (Tabachnick & Klein, 2011). • Some community–level risk factors include: May have difficulty developing me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:41 AM |
| 2 | If mens nature is used to justify looking at sexy women then there's nothing wrong with women being wearyObviously, it's what you said that makes you wrong. Being patronizing just shows that you already kind of know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:35 AM |
| 2 | If mens nature is used to justify looking at sexy women then there's nothing wrong with women being wearyIf a man says "men can't help themselves in sexual situations," what he's really saying is, "I don't feel I should have to take any responsibility for my own actions." Lots of us men control ourselves without any problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:29 AM |
| – | NOT PILLED YET - But this might do it. What do you all think?You're right. The lying is a big red flag. Some people just like attention even if they're not looking, but idk, it does sort of seem like she's got one foot out the door and isnt willing to own it. Best of luck to you. Sorry your gf is being so shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you want your daughters to date a redpiller?It means you have the theory of knowledge of a third-rate science fiction movie, wherein just through taking a pill (or a certain set of opinions) you can always know that you're right and everyone else is wrong, without the need to think seriously or struggle with ambiguity, complexity, or the limits of your own perspective. It means seeing the world like a fundamentalist or a cult member. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: Would you want your daughters to date a redpiller?For real. Like, I don't personally like team sports, but there's nothing alarming about liking team sports. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you want your daughters to date a redpiller?Way worse. The team sports guy sounds kind of basic and dull, but there's nothing worrying about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you want your daughters to date a redpiller?That's a non-answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.You live in a fantasy. It really sounds like you don't know how to love and are projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:20 AM |
| – | NOT PILLED YET - But this might do it. What do you all think?I don't understand why your girlfriend being shady should pill you one way or the other. No one says women can't be shady, but falling for an entire fantasy worldview like trp because one girl was dishonest with you seems pretty irrational. Also, why would your appearance would factor in at all? Clearly she thinks you're attractive — I mean, she's dating you. But as for your question, it depends: was she actively looking for other guys, or did she just have the profile up? Personally, if it were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Creative people are emotional people, and a lot of women are attracted to creative men. You can believe whatever silly superstition you want to about women. My girl loves my weird, emotional ass. And of all the fragile, complex, passionate writers and musicians and artists and people like that who I know, even the basket cases have no trouble finding love. The men who end up alone are the empty-eyed work units who couldn't even tell you what they're feeling. You're confusing what you like in men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Women don't like mental weakness in men and since alcohol hides this, this might lead to women ending up with men with alcoholism. In what world does alcohol hide "mental weakness?" Like, have you never seen someone drunk? IDK what you mean by "mental weakness," but I can tell you that getting better at recognizing and communicating my feelings has made my own relationship a lot better. When I used to just get prickly and not be able to say what I was feeling, it would put a strain on my relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Nah dude. A bitch is a man who broods or acts cold for weeks because he's scared of his girl seeing him cry for half an hour. Dudes trying to be hard act like babies. Nothing makes you look weaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Guys who stuff down their emotions are the most easily manipulable people on Earth, my dude. Doubly so if they do it because they're scared of losing their "position of power." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:36 AM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.What do women have to do with it? Many men drink alcohol because they're afraid of their emotions, but it's not like being an alcoholic gives you pull. And guys who numb their emotions tend to be some of the moodiest, least logical people out there. They're constantly running from themselves — it's an inherently irrational place to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Also, you look far weaker conspicuously running from your emotions than you do just owning them. It's like half an hour crying and talking about your feelings vs weeks pouting and brooding because feelings are scary. There isn't much that's more melodramatic than a dude trying to play the stoic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.That's absolute nonsense. You're afraid of being seen as weak, and using pseudo-scientific nonsense to cover your fear. Stop living in fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Sorry dude, but if you're so terrified of your gf seeing you in a moment of weakness that you can't cry around her, you're living a life of fear and cowardice. I've cried around my gf many times, and she can't get enough of me. It's a normal, human thing to be sad sometimes. Being able to express emotions without fear is part of what makes a man. I'm sorry about your friend. Get over the toxic bullshit and ask your gf for a hug. You'll feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here gone to a doctor to try to get meds to help ignore the blackpill?He doesn't care about what random normies think. He just fantasizes that they're trying to hurt him somehow to justify his own selfish mindset. That's completely different. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here gone to a doctor to try to get meds to help ignore the blackpill?You sound incredibly selfish. Your whole post was about how you hate people and think they're evil and out to get you. That's a very selfish way to look at the world. You said in the comment above that even someone standing in an aisle makes you hate them — as if you don't constantly daydream yourself. Most people are a lot less selfish than you. That's okay, you can become better, but you have to stop deluding yourself that everyone is out to get you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here gone to a doctor to try to get meds to help ignore the blackpill?Depression has plunged you into delusion. You're not seeing "truths," you're wallowing in self-deception, because when you're miserable you get to focus entirely on yourself. Yeah, try getting some medicine — I hope it shakes you out of your narcissistic fixation. "It must be true because it makes me feel bad," is no way to live life. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 04:35 AM |
| -1 | Women Are Also Blue-Pilled (Deep Insights)Why is "As we all know" always followed by the most deranged, delusional shit imaginable? | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 04:30 AM |
| 6 | Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man?I think there's a time/place/manner thing whee some men are so emotionally blocked up that they don't know how to open up in a way that doesn't overwhelm their partner, or else they oscillate between the rage they use to bury emotion and the emotions themselves in a way that can be jarring or scary to be around. Or they think that because a woman isn't willing an able to process or help at a certain time, it means they don't care. It's a lack of patience and perspective. This stuff takes time, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man?That's pity train bullshit. Women love seeing you open up to them, because it builds intimacy and communication. Those voices that say your emotions don't matter are coming from you. That doesn't mean unload every bit of anguish at the first conceivable moment. Many guys are so used to repressing emotions that sometimes they struggle to express them clearly or in a way their partner can process. But if you want a lasting, loving relationship where you truly feel safe and cared for, it's somethin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man?Do you consider that a negative sign, I hope? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man?Guys with really strong feelings about who women are and what they really like or want. It's a good sign a dude is living in his fantasy and doesn't listen to actual women. "Staceys," "smv," "hypergame," "the wall," and any of that corny ass "men are from Mars women are from Venus" PC crap are signs that a guy only sees women as projections of his own fantasy life. They're just not people capable of forming relationships with women. Being a judge bitch. Guys who think the music they listen to or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:15 AM |
| 1 | "Men aren't entitled to sex or relationships." Well "women aren't entitled to protection or safety from men".Or, split the check. Or have a picnic. Or, take someone out to dinner knowing you might not get laid bc it's really not that big a deal. This is such a non-issue. | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/09/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | "Men aren't entitled to sex or relationships." Well "women aren't entitled to protection or safety from men".No one is forcing men to buy women dinner. If you don't want to take someone on a date, you're already free to not take her on a date. | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/09/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | "Men aren't entitled to sex or relationships." Well "women aren't entitled to protection or safety from men".So you really not see the difference between "I'm not obliged to have sex with you," and "It's actually okay for me to rape, beat, or murder you?" For example, if I wanted to stick my dick in your ass and you said no, then by your logic, it would be fine for me to hold you down and shove it in. | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/09/23 03:36 PM |
| 0 | JustPearlythings and other female creators are a net positive to men’s rights as they spread heaps of awareness on issues even if they’re just doing it to ‘grift’. Awareness and knowledge on men’s rights and issues should be spread as far and wide as possible! Thoughts?If Warren Farrell can grift, why can't Pearly? It's a positive development that MRAs are moving towards being an equal opportunity grifter support group. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Autistic trans man confirms that autistic girls are treated better than autistic guysI'm glad very few autistic people agree with you, and hope you get right with yourself, my dude. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 02:39 AM |
| -5 | Autistic trans man confirms that autistic girls are treated better than autistic guysThe studies say that: 1st: NTs tend to see autistic ppl as less trustworthy on first meeting. Unfortunate, but not surprising since paralinguistic things like eye contact and mirroring, which are difficult and unnatural for many autistic ppl are a big part of how NTs get a first impression of people. Since it covers the 1st ten seconds, the obvious solution is to, you know, hang for more than 10 seconds. The second says more autistic women are in relationships than autistic men, by a large margi… | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 09:43 PM |
| 2 | If women have made it abundantly clear they are actively repelled by subservient beta behavior, why are there still so many simps/white knights?Think about a flat earth debate sub. For flat earthers, it's an environment where they can share their fringe beliefs, surrounded by fellow wingnuts who will affirm those beliefs, even if they have no evidence. As for round earthers, most would rather not bother debating basic facts with people who deny them and don't accept evidence. That's this sub in a nutshell. It's mostly a red pill circle jerk. The name implies one side took a magical pill that allows them to see the truth without even hav… | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 08:20 PM |
| 0 | If women have made it abundantly clear they are actively repelled by subservient beta behavior, why are there still so many simps/white knights?This is how abuse is passed on. You had no model for a loving, affectionate relationship, so you don't know how to have one and think it's impossible. Maybe your saintly uncle is the same way — he chose being kind over being in a relationship, because he thinks it has to be one or the other. As for your friend, her rejecting you and dating this other guy aren't necessarily connected. Sometimes you just like someone as a friend, and don't feel that spark, and that's okay. Idk why she chose him — … | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 08:01 PM |
| -1 | If women have made it abundantly clear they are actively repelled by subservient beta behavior, why are there still so many simps/white knights?Am partnered. Am extremely sweet and affectionate to my partner, and she adores me. But don't let that stop you from believing nonsense. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | If women have made it abundantly clear they are actively repelled by subservient beta behavior, why are there still so many simps/white knights?Some women end up with abusive men. Some men end up with abusive women. There's no mystery here, once you remove the part you're imagining: most people — women, as well as men — like to be treated well. Also, "alpha" and "beta" aren't really useful ways to describe most relationship dynamics. There's always give and take, and people's dynamics and roles in their romantic relationships don't necessarily reflect their roles in their friendships, work life, family relationships, etc. Stop thinking … | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 07:46 PM |
| -4 | Autistic trans man confirms that autistic girls are treated better than autistic guysOh, well if it's one person's opinion, it must be true. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 07:39 PM |
| 0 | How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)?I didn't say she's dominant. Very few couples actually have one partner that's always dominant, and dominance is only a useful way of thinking about a few aspects of relationships. She's dominant sometimes, I am other times, and no one is a good deal of the time. Gender has already become radically less rigid than it was even in the nineties, much less in the fifties (the era conservatives actually mean when they say "traditional.") Boys act in gender non-conforming ways and, in a lot of communi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 11:59 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about society making men "obligated" to lead a relationship (asking a girl out, initiating the first kiss, proposing, etc)?This is one of the reasons that the breakdown of fairly longstanding gender roles, which so many conservatives rage about, is actually a really good thing for both men and women. As a man who was originally pursued by my partner, it was awesome, and my relationship is fucking amazing. The less we see thinks as rigid gender dualities, the more we can understand our own needs and desires and figure out what works for us. And yeah, there are tons of guys who are unfulfilled because want their partn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people think 'small talk' is idiot shit for morons to do while we more refined types quote from Aristotle and chuckle smugly. Personally, it helped me connect with people and I found it hugely powerful.Best thing I've read on this sub maybe ever. Also, quoting Aristotle and chuckling smugly is idiot shit for morons to do. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/09/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Gonna guess you mean incels' rights to post. Without incels posting fewer guys will be tricked into blaming all their problems on women and genetics. They'll work on themselves instead, and have relationships. Incel problem solved. Pretty good idea. I support the Petroleum Mine solution of banning Incel posts. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?The answer, as I've said before, is that it depends. In my own relationship, I was pursued initially before I said, "yes," and we both hear a "no" sometimes. But sex isn't a simple yes/no question. It's what do we do, should we try xyz, what feels good to you, are you still into it, are you close, want to go another round, etc.? And like other forms of social intercourse, each time has its own particulars But since you're an extremely online virgin ruled by resentment, you view it as a cutscene … | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?Not trying to insult you here, but the question is relevant: are you a virgin? You seem to view sex as like that scene in the never ending story with the sphinxes, where it's some incredibly perilous test against a giant titty monster statue thing with laser eyes. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?Right. So the man say "I want sex," and the woman says, "I want sex," and then they have sex. Whatever labels you apply, it happens if and only if both people say, "yes." It's like a binary AND operation. Would a truth table help? | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?Both people, obviously. You're assuming every man everywhere is automatically available for sex at all times and with everyone, which is obviously false. For sex to occur consensually between two people two people need to decide to have sex. Again, as always you don't think about your own actions. It's just mommy unfairly denying you in your head. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?Not what I said in the comment you were responding to. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?Literally exactly what you said, but keep sticking your fingers in your ears and chanting, "no, you!" if you want. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?Damn, dude. You must have to wrap it around your waist a couple times and wear it as a belt. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?It's a little insulting that you think heterosexual men are too stupid to understand the concept "assigned male at birth." Please tune down the misandry, ma'am. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?Are you a teenager? Because most adult men have a lot more control than that. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?Crazy how you have no responsibility for any of your actions, whereas women are to blame for everything that happens to them. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?False. I'm with someone who pursued me. Many men are. Men may pursue women more often than women pursue men, but both happen. Pursuing someone is a choice. If I ask someone out to lunch and they say, "yes," we are both choosing to get lunch together. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?You've really never met a married or partnered man who's not "Chad?" I highly recommend leaving the basement and watching people, because the overwhelming majority of partnered men don't remotely resemble the ultramasculine erotic cartoon you spend so much time thinking about and resenting. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?First your problem is that women say "no" to shitbags, now your problem is that some of them say "yes?" Seems like you just have a problem with women, no matter what they do. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?So guys automatically consent to all sexual encounters? | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?Everyone involved in sex chooses when it occurs. If I wanted you to give me your car and you refused, would that be grounds to "dismiss everything you say?" What if some dude wanted to pound your ass and you refused? It's incredibly entitled to think people owe you their body just because you desire it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?What do you mean by "generalizations are generally true?" It's trivially easy to make false generalizations. This is weirdly difficult to get TRP people to understand, but believing a thing doesn't make it true. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do "red pill" ideologues always make women alien and exotic?The difference between virtually any two women or any two men is larger than the difference between the average man and the average woman. That's what you're missing. Preferences of the group as a whole matter way, way less than you think, because you're not trying to date women as a collective entity. You're trying to date a woman. A lot of the dudes I knew in college who got the most play were short guys. Were they ruled out as partners by some women just for being short? Probably. But there a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/09/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Women care about personality and good character a lot over looks, my experienceYou really should check out forums where women complain about dates. Women quite frequently say, "I thought he was cute, but he ended up doing creepy things/being boring/annoying/patronizing/etc. It's an incredibly common experience among both men and women to find someone attractive, but then lose the attraction bc of their personality. Like near universal among people who go on more than a few different dates. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/08/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I overdosed on Chadfish tinder experiments and I cant do this anymoreYou're literally quoting me thinking of other things. Is this a bit? Because it's not landing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/08/23 03:31 AM |
| 0 | I overdosed on Chadfish tinder experiments and I cant do this anymoreWhat does that mean "near universally more loved?" Lots of short dudes married to women who chose them over some taller dude she could have picked. Biases like that are subtle. They work over populations, and are never anywhere near universal. Might women on average tend to prefer taller guys, all else being equal? Certainly seems plausible. Does almost every single woman prefer the tallest guy possible? Of course not — individual tastes vary a lot more than that. Edit: you should listen to the … | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/08/23 03:15 AM |
| 2 | How to convince a ugly coper?My stats at what? I've been with the same woman for over 15 years, if that's what you're asking. I am tall, but also hairy, fat, bald, underemployed, and gratuitously fucking weird. Idk, did that cover it? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I overdosed on Chadfish tinder experiments and I cant do this anymoreIt's subjective and culturally defined, and varies in different cultures and different times. But when a subjective belief is widespread, it's subjectivity doesn't stop it from having a real effect. It's like how musical taste is subjective, and changes constantly, but bands doing what's popular at the moment are still going to be more successful on average than those doing something that goes against current trends. "Subjective" doesn't mean irrelevant or imaginary. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 08:38 PM |
| 0 | I overdosed on Chadfish tinder experiments and I cant do this anymoreI mean, it sucks in that it's unfair I guess, but compared to e.g. upwards wealth distribution, famine, war, and all the other bad shit happening, it's a pretty small injustice. Like, no shit, life isn't fair. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 08:33 PM |
| -6 | I overdosed on Chadfish tinder experiments and I cant do this anymoreEven if "Chad" existed and all the things you imagine him doing successfully were real, why would that mean "none of this bullshit ever fucking mattered?" Were you improving your social skills for Chad's benefit, or were you doing it to make your own life better? This world is unfair in many, many ways. A tiny proportion of the pop control the majority of the wealth. Western countries like the US go around starting wars with impunity. CEOs crash the world economy over and over, and every time th… | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How to convince a ugly coper?Name checks out. Burning one for you tonight, brother. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 05:57 PM |
| 0 | How to convince a ugly coper?No. That's a delusional belief. I'm sure it seems real and unquestionably true to you — that's how delusional beliefs work. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 05:52 PM |
| -2 | How to convince a ugly coper?What makes you think masturbation isn't healthy? I'm guessing when you masturbate, it makes you feel pathetic for not having a woman. If that's the case, masturbation isn't really the problem. Maybe your friend isn't like that, and is just a young guy enjoying himself. Knowing his own body and what gives him pleasure is important — it will make him a better partner when he does get a gf. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How to convince a ugly coper?Not all things that are depressing are reality, my dude. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How to convince a ugly coper?OP isn't even coming up with ways to get laid — he's trying to convince his friend he'll never get laid without medical intervention. What a fucked up thing to believe at 16. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 05:46 PM |
| 0 | How to convince a ugly coper?Why? You think having lower self-esteem is going to improve the guy's chances? Lots of dudes get little to none in high school and even college, and end up in happy relationships. I'm one of them. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How to convince a ugly coper?He sounds happy. You're a teenager, right? Lots of dudes jerk off a lot at that age. It doesn't mean there's something wrong with him. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | How to convince a ugly coper?So dude is trying to improve himself and staying positive? Good for him — idk how old you are, but you sound too young to believe this nonsense for bitter old men. It sounds like you've got body dysmorphia tbh. I really hope you go see a therapist who can help you work through your issues. Spend a couple hours people watching in a public place, and you'll see plenty of dudes who look worse than you walking around with girlfriends or wives. Your problem isn't your looks, it's your low self-esteem… | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Humans are a tournament mating strategy species.I write like someone who sees shit with his own eyes instead of repeating made up nonsense to make himself feel better. I don't care how long you've been "on the streets" (whatever you mean by that.) You talk like every socially isolated basement dweller who's mad at women over their personal failures. I get that all conservatives and reactionaries operate by the principle of "if I say it enough, it becomes true," but the rest of us demand a little evidence for extraordinary claims, and you've p… | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 02:53 PM |
| 2 | All finding and chasing women now seems pointlessExtremely taken. Why do you ask? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 02:17 PM |
| 0 | Humans are a tournament mating strategy species.Where do you get that from? Go hang out with musicians sometime. Like half of them are dudes with women who are more successful than them. You imagine it's rare, because it serves your narrative. But that shit is extremely common. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 02:14 PM |
| 2 | All finding and chasing women now seems pointlessI'm a man. Why do you ask? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Humans are a tournament mating strategy species.And women will do the same. I know lots of couples where the woman is more outgoing, attractive, and has her shit more together than the man. Hell, I'm in one. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 01:44 PM |
| 2 | it's just men who imagine some deep love?Your whole comment is a fantasy. Can you actually tell? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 09:15 AM |
| -1 | it's just men who imagine some deep love?You're insecure about your height and think you're unlovable, so therefore women can't love? Dude, I know short guys with gfs and wives who adore them. Like ride or die, follow you to the ends of the Earth type of shit. Stop projecting your own insecurity onto women — all you're doing is sabotaging yourself. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Humans are a tournament mating strategy species.In what sense have men's preferences evolved beyond women's? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Humans are a tournament mating strategy species.It's nerdy to use logic and common sense, I guess. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 04:44 AM |
| 1 | All finding and chasing women now seems pointlessFalling for a more sophisticated scam doesn't necessarily make one a more sophisticated person. And the idea that crypto will continue to build value indefinitely strains credulity more than e.g. some modeling agent thinking a particular woman has talent and being willing to pay a small advance. The difference between getting rich from taking a risk and losing your shirt on a scam often just comes down to luck, or the right tip at the right time. The entire system of financial capitalism is a sc… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 07:54 PM |
| 0 | All finding and chasing women now seems pointlessSo you had a bad experience and it's the fault of all women? Way to cheat yourself out of positive experiences. As for getting conned, how many techy dudes have lost 5 or 6 figures to a rug pull? Are they all dumb? Because they sure aren't smarter than the woman you called "dumb." Everyone is someone's sucker — the important thing is not to fall for it again. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 07:09 PM |
| -2 | When Chad says something, it must be true?I'd say wise women, attractive or otherwise, tend not to waste their time trying to convince themselves that your fantasy of alphas/betas/chads/Stacy's/etc. is true. They're like wise men in that respect. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 06:45 PM |
| -1 | When Chad says something, it must be true?Where did you even get that interpretation? When someone you like says something mean about your appearance it can hurt your feelings. Clearly she's not assuming it is true (and I have no idea why you assume the dude is a Chad) or else she wouldn't be looking for advice and feedback from others. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Humans are a tournament mating strategy species.Being childfree is great. Believing in superstitious phantoms like smv is less great. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 06:23 PM |
| -1 | Humans are a tournament mating strategy species."Alphas" and "betas" aren't a real thing. People have different strengths, levels of confidence, etc in different situations, and hierarchies are generally pretty fluid, outside of e.g. formalized government and business structures. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Humans are a tournament mating strategy species.Humans actually evolved to live in bands, and genes were passed on through sperm competition. I.e., since everyone was fucking everyone, it was down to whose swimmers could make it first. It's why e.g. your dick is shaped like a plunger, your genitals are pretty big compared to your body (vis a vis most other critters) and humans can have sex more or less any time instead of periodically going into heat like most apes. EDIT: the book Sex at Dawn gives a really solid and accessible natural histor… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 06:16 PM |
| 2 | it's just men who imagine some deep love?Yeah, women fall in love. Why wouldn't they? | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 06:11 PM |
| 4 | What are the views of people on this server on Transmaxxing?It's largely made up. Certain fetish posters and right wing fear mongers are really horny for the idea of men being manipulated into becoming women. It's way easier to just have sex with a gay man as a man than to transition. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 06:10 PM |
| 3 | What are the views of people on this server on Transmaxxing?You ever been fucked in the ass? It doesn't actually require transitioning, and you've got a prostate up there to help you have a good time with it. And trans women who haven't had bottom surgery can also do all the normal dick-haver things anyway. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 06:07 PM |
| 2 | When you think of Chad, what people come to mind?Yeah. Could be worse — I really feel for women named Karen, lol. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/08/23 01:52 PM |
| 2 | When you think of Chad, what people come to mind?This quiet, gentle guy I know named Chad. Also, the Chadroulette skit. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0hcZVqY21wI | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/08/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsWhat false claim did I make? Every example I shared is something multiple right wingers have argued to me. You're projecting. The right constantly calls the left emotional, but none of you can justify it. It's just propaganda. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/08/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsI don't follow. Who's recruiting "academic college kids,"what does it have to do with reverse racism, and what is being obfuscated? | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/08/23 06:45 AM |
| 1 | What's everyone's take on this?Wait, you're saying someone isn't a real manly man unless they're swaggering and catty? Congratulations, you've made every drag queen an alpha, which is unironically a big improvement. It's funny how "traditional" never goes back more than a decade or so, because no stoic, old-time working man fits into your box. No wonder TRP showed up for trump with his blathering about hair spray and celebrity goss. All I know is the toughest fuckers I know don't care about any of this silliness. Bring tough … | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/08/23 05:20 AM |
| 2 | What's everyone's take on this?There are lots of traditionally masculine blue pill men. A lot of the redpill men who fetishize masculinity do so because they're ashamed of their own gender presentation (or at least how they perceived themselves.) They're not, on average, a more "manly" group. And many of the far left guys I know look like this guy. It's only in the right wing imagination that there's any contradiction. The issue isn't whether or not you fit into "traditional" (really a misnomer) gender roles, but whether you … | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/08/23 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsEquating left and liberal IS label shifting. Politically, most liberals have more in common with the right than the left. Go back a few decades, and no one thought the terms meant anything remotely similar. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/08/23 05:34 PM |
| 2 | What's everyone's take on this?Redpill doesn't own being buff and having a beard. They didn't invent those things. And he's saying crowder is a child, not that he's feminine in some way. Again, not remotely redpill. IDK what you mean by displaying dominance — he's alone in a room, reading a script, so who is he dominating exactly? He seems confident, but that's hardly the same thing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/08/23 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsNah. Sounds like you got left and right confused. I mean, everyone uses emotional appeals at times, but the right specifically mobilizes fear of outsiders to get people to fight against their own interests: Everyone is a groomer. Everyone is coming for your children. Everyone who criticize you is actually trying to take away your free speech. Immigrants are invading. Gays are destroying straight marriage. The drag queen reading stories to toddlers is actually part of a secret plot to turn little… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/08/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsIt's hilarious that you still think "liberal" and "left" mean the same thing. You must be a liberal. No wonder the right sucks at everything right now. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/08/23 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsIf you're looking at baboon asses and thinking, "hmm..." the problem isn't women, my dude. It's a you problem, and that's good news. You can't change 99% of women, but you can change yourself. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/08/23 09:13 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?The difference between improving for yourself and improving for others is sort of artificial, in that our identities, self-images, and experiences are bound up with our relationships, the information and media we consume (which comes from other people) our socialization, schooling, and other experiences. We're really doing both or neither when we improve. even the idea that a particular course of action is "improving," and the concept of self-improvement are bound up with both cultural ideas (ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:48 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?This makes sense, because there is no "sexual/dating marketplace," anymore than there is a "friendship marketplace" or a "family marketplace." There are just people forming relationships with each other. People have the right and the ability to be transactional about this stuff, but it's absurd to assume all relationships are transactional and outside competition always exists. If you lose your partner, it wasn't meant to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | What is stopping a betabux from doing a pump and dump?Who fucking cares where it originated? Incels say it constantly, which is the claim I made. Maybe instead of blathering about whoever first said the stupid myths you believe like it matters, may you could reflect on the fact they're complete nonsense? Because believing AFBB is about as ignorant as a human being can get. Or are you gonna tell me phrenology is real next because I couldn't tell you offhand who invented it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What is stopping a betabux from doing a pump and dump?Because: Having someone to wake up next to and spend your life with is nice, Most people aren't incels who see women as sex dispensers, and Sex with someone you know, love, and are sexually compatible with gets better over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What is stopping a betabux from doing a pump and dump?Not as the wide social and cultural phenomenon it's supposed to be in incel mythology. You have awkward teens who grow into successful adults — both men and women. And there are rich guys with trophy wives. But the "alpha fux beta bux" thing in incel mythology describes very, very few real life relationships, and even in those cases is generally a huge oversimplification. You treat it as a "dating strategy," as if all women have the same tastes and wants, and make the same compromises as they ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:38 PM |
| 0 | If you want another blackpill, visit plastic surgery subredditsSure. I'm not saying it's always the wrong choice or even frivolous. just that the greater prevalence of cosmetic surgery among women is because women are under much greater pressure to look a certain way. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 06:17 PM |
| 0 | If I need to be perfectly happy alone for a partner to find a partner to like me, why would I want a partner in the first place?I've never seen anyone say "you need to be totally happy to find a partner." Not once. I can't even conceive of what it would mean to be "perfectly happy" — alone or with someone else. Where have you been where people say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:06 PM |
| 11 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?You made my day with this, buddy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:03 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?They generally improve for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:55 PM |
| – | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guyInferring from the fact that he personally is very horny for tongues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:40 PM |
| – | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guyThat old meat tongue. Like Leech Woman in Puppet Masters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guyA lot of women just don't like the meat tongue. My GF and I have a very passionate relationship that's been going on for a couple decades, but we don't really put our tongue in each other's mouths. Really don't remember our first kiss itself. I mean, I remember the night and the feeling of this is happening, but I couldn't tell you how we kissed. We were drunk, and it was probably pretty awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:06 PM |
| 21 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Can't imagine why she wouldn't go through the extra effort for a dude who talks about her like discount clothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsMaybe. But just because you're not telling someone you hate them to their face doesn't mean you're not making your feelings obvious. If you're looking at someone with intense hatred and disgust, they can feel it — and why would you want that persons sympathy anyway? And women can see incels encouraging violent behavior on incel boards, fantasizing about violence, and calling men like Elliot Rogers heroes. And even those who don't actively encourage that behavior rarely ever call it out. Also, th… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsI think people who are extremely angry and hostile to women online are also extremely angry and hostile to women irl. Like no kidding, nearly everyone talks differently online than they do face-to-face. That doesn't mean what you seem to think it means. A lot of these guys are much worse in person, because they stalk, threaten, manipulate or even assault women. And because it's scarier to have some wingnut rage junkie screaming at you than typing at you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 03:18 PM |
| 2 | What is stopping a betabux from doing a pump and dump?My point is that "alpha" and "beta" don't really mean anything. They were terms invented by a scientist to describe wolf behavior, but it turned out they don't even do that. The guy later disavowed his theory, because it turns out wolves only aggressively enforce hierarchy when they're in captivity and under a lot of stress. It's all just a fantasy based on pretty recent pop culture cliches. The fact that the people believing the fantasy call themselves "red pilled" is deeply ironic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | What is stopping a betabux from doing a pump and dump?Lots of simps get laid. Unless you tautogically define a simp as someone who flatters women but doesn't get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | What is stopping a betabux from doing a pump and dump?So now you're saying chads don't pump and dump? Edit: If being beta is defined by not getting laid, then your belief is a tautology — people who don't get laid don't get laid. And a "betabuxx" must be a kind of alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 02:46 PM |
| 2 | What is stopping a betabux from doing a pump and dump?You really haven't met a lot of left wing dudes. There are definitely awkward guys who have trouble meeting women, but there are also "bluepilled" guys who get laid constantly because they treat women in a friendly, respectful way and aren't ruled by resentment. The most promiscuous dudes I've ever met were very affectionate, non-confrontational hippyish guys who you'd probably consider betas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 02:22 PM |
| 1 | What is stopping a betabux from doing a pump and dump?Because a "betabux" is something made up by people who believe completely imaginary and wildly unscientific things about human attraction, dating, authority, power, gender, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the birth control pill has affected politics and women’s mating preferences?He's Hell Comes to Frogtown pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 02:14 PM |
| -2 | If you want another blackpill, visit plastic surgery subredditsYeah. Sucks that so many women feel pressure to alter their bodies, even when there's no real need for it. Really shows how much misogyny harms women and tells them they're never good enough. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsPeople downvoting you for telling this guy to take responsibility for his own actions is just wild. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsBoy is bullied. Boy joins a therapy group. Boy lashes out at a girl, calls her a fake and tries to get her kicked out because she's making an effort and finding friends. Counsellor does the right thing, and stops the boy from bullying the girl. FTFY You guys love using words like "logic," "statistics," and "facts," but those words aren't magical invocations. Saying "logic" or "facts" doesn't make your statements logical or factual. Saying "statistics" doesn't fool anyone into thinking you have a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussions53% of adults are married, and 62% of adults are married or cohabitating with a partner. And that doesn't even count people who are dating but living apart. If women were only attracted to 10% of men, and that 10% were mostly chads who liked to play the field, marriage rates would be <3%. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2021/10/05/rising-share-of-u-s-adults-are-living-without-a-spouse-or-partner/ | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsHow dare you think of your own pleasure instead of stroking the egos of men who hate you! /s | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsCrazy that you've never talked to an actual woman. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 01:03 PM |
| -2 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussionsGee, can't imagine why someone wouldn't want to be your friend after you call them a toilet. They must just hate you for your looks, I guess. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 12:51 PM |
| -1 | Never seen a woman express any empathy for male problems in any of these dating discussions"Am I having trouble with women because I call them cold, illogical, emotional subhumans, and resent them for not stroking my ego or cosigning my Nazi pseudo-science? No! It is the women to blame!" | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | "Do you like my dissected boobs?"It's amazing you think your pathological need to patronize and lecture your wife about how right you are and how wrong she is is somehow something she's doing to you. I agree it's good to stop lecturing and overexplaining, but maybe a little self-awareness might help you avoid future conflict? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/23 03:30 PM |
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