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| 0 | Worried I will come off as career driven or too educated when I’m not. Should I avoid a masters try to change into a helping career?Yea, I think you should transition out. Nursing doesn’t require a nursing degree. You can also do a trade like dental hygienist or an ultrasound tech. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/26 06:54 PM |
| 15 | I feel like not being ready to have kids is holding me back in relationshipsYou can’t find anyone to relate to, because the only person you need to talk to is a therapist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/26 08:07 AM |
| 11 | I'm consistently being called "independent" by men I go on first dates with and I'm wondering if this is pushing them away and how to change thatYou can’t negotiate attraction, I am of the mind that you find these guys that call you independent to be losers. That’s okay. You probably just should stick with guys who are more successful than you or at the same level. You don’t want to limit your pool, but it is obvious that is what you like. No point in denying it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/26 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What did your partner get you for Christmas?A trip to Europe and some jewellery from tiffany. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/25 07:56 PM |
| 22 | Career women, do you regret it ?No regrets. At all. I have a career. It is not my life at all. You can have a career and still lead a fulfilling life outside of it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/25 03:17 AM |
| 4 | Boys Sowing Wild Oats vs. Girls Staying PureAccurate, I lost my virginity to my husband and he only had slept with one other person. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/25 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Childfree red pill women?I am married, don’t want kids, and a breadwinner. 🫡 | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/25 08:15 PM |
| 3 | How to ACTUALLY tell if a guy doesn't watch pornI personally think we are going to see more and more research that shows all addiction have a genetic component. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/25 04:34 PM |
| 19 | How to ACTUALLY tell if a guy doesn't watch pornI personally believe that addiction is genetic, some people are just more prone to addiction. When I was younger I did loads of drugs, but was able to stop no problem. My peers struggled now with serious addictions. I don’t think I had better willpower, it just I am genetically less likely to be an addict. I don’t get the same dopamine hits. That being said if your potential partner has to do all this because they can’t have a healthy relationship with porn. I personally would move on. I have no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/25 01:10 PM |
| 4 | how do i find a man who believes in traditional values?You are 16, you have plenty of time to meet guys when you are older. Go to a big college in the south, plenty of men like that assuming in the USAs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/25 03:01 PM |
| 4 | How do women who wants to marry the 1st guy they’ve been with sexually date?As someone who is not a trad wife at all who married my one and only. I say three things. Be okay with being single. Have good standards and boundaries, and do not engage with me who cross or don’t meet them. Let them know you are looking for marriage early. I told my husband in our first date. He felt the same. The big thing is to be upfront to filter and be willing to drop guys. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/25 06:50 PM |
| 8 | I (30F) am at crossroads with my relationship! (28M)You determine what marriage looks like for you. My husband and I are child free. Our marriage is a reflection of our want and needs. You don’t necessarily have to make sacrifices for your marriage. The internet is a giant emotional vampire that profits in our emotions. Don’t let the internet influence your real life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Anyone notice that many women can't stand males having hobbies?Why though? It not like you are the only women who feel this way. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/25 04:32 PM |
| 2 | How to inspire husband to earn more?Sorry, you can’t inspire someone to make more money. I think you have the right idea. Increasing one’s income oftentimes takes a lot of work and from what you say your husband is content and happy. Video games are very expensive as well though I saw that in your past post about buying a gift more than $50 gifts. I’m wondering if you need to reevaluate your budget with your husband to see if you’re getting the ability to spend money on things you like. Maybe be vocal about things you want, while … | /r/RedPillWives | 05/06/25 03:49 PM |
| 6 | I feel absolutely awful of not wanting kidsI think it is very admirable and shows your maturity. That you can come to conclusions that kids are not for you even with the amount of pressure you are feeling. I am also childfree. You should talk to your boyfriend more. See how he feels. Some people never think to deeply about not having kids or realize that it is an option. My husband did not think about it, I feel if he was with someone who wanted kids he would have had them. lol now he is extremely against kids. I would also open up about… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/25 12:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you balance realism vs idealism when vetting men?I agree. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | I joined this subreddit after my experience!Yuck. men have needs, but women should have standards. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How can a man deal with unwanted advances from an older woman at work?As a feminist, you should know that being nice doesn’t make it less uncomfortable. What you are saying is no different to when men say cat calling is not bad because, they are just giving women compliments. being nice is how all predators/ harassers/ start of as. Your age, gender, relationships status. Does not give you the right to overstep boundaries that other people set. He is uncomfortable, if it is a misunderstanding HR can handle it that’s their job. My god | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 08:12 AM |
| 10 | How can a man deal with unwanted advances from an older woman at work?Real Answer, do not return her behavior by saying sexual innuendo. First you need to document your interactions, keep a diary. Second if she sends you a message forward it to your hr /supervisor saying that you uncomfortable and would like to stay professional. With her in it do not ever be afraid of sharing in sort of written proof with a boss or supervisor. My husband went through something similar, it is good you are catching early. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/24 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Budgeting 101: How To Live Simply As A Domestic, Traditional WomanI use to have a very concrete meal prep but I have been struggling. My husband has developed a lot of food aversion and I can’t handle fatty foods. It been a struggle. We also cut out rice because it affects our gut and I used to primarily cook Asian foods. That being said I’ll definitely try out the carbonara. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/06/24 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Female with High Testosterone - How to Kill the Man In MeI have a very similar relationship and I also have PCOS, but even with PCOS your T levels are nowhere near the levels of a healthy male. In addition, my husband and I went through something similar where he was comparing his success to mine and he also went back to school for his masters and went to making zero. Our relationship really struggled at the time and we both needed to grow up some. Honestly, our relationship didn’t get better because of me. It was honestly my husband who changed not m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/24 01:03 PM |
| 12 | So, We've Decided to Ban the MenGreat changes | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/24 11:08 PM |
| 3 | How to feel beautiful?Yes I lost ten pounds and my body has changed so much | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/24 02:58 PM |
| 8 | How to feel beautiful?Pole dancing classes has completely changed my relationship with my body and I think for the first time in my life. I am just happy with my body. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/24 04:17 AM |
| 3 | I got what I thought I should want, and I miss what I threw awayAlso have you talked to him? Like it okay to bring the problem to him . I went through something similar with my husband as I was making more money and doing most of the household chores. Honestly I blamed him for a while, but after having thinking about it, I felt less of a woman if I allowed him to clean as I was micromanaging to the point where he didn’t want to try. Finally I just went to him and now I do no cleaning, I rather work lol. I hate it and he honestly loves cleaning. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/24 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Work and marriageI make way more and my husband still takes me out on dates and pay. We take care of each other it is not that deep. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Are there any overweight women here with successful marriages?I have BED and gained over 80lbs, honestly I glad I did because when I was skinnier I was always afraid he would leave me if I gained weight. I am fat now, and know he loves me at any size. No kids, or anything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/24 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Is anybody here a survivor of Schrödinger’s PatriarchyNever expected to see a positive take on feminism. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/23 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Seeking words of encouragementI am not a SAHM, but I think this advice is helpful for anyone. It sounds like you are experiencing burnout. Which is totally normal. Your feelings you have are literally warning signs that you are missing something. Life is all about balance nobody should be 100% dedicated to one thing thier entire life. We are humans and we have a complex range of feelings and emotions. What do you do outside of being a wife and a mother? A lot of people mentioning self-care. How often do you exercise. I work … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/23 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Is it better to invest on a Masters Degree or Plastic Surgery?You need the plastic surgery, it changed my life…. Go for it | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/23 03:00 AM |
| 5 | What careers/jobs should women have before hopefully being SAHW/SAHM?Become a receptionist or admin work. You can work in places with High earners like law firm, corporate offices etc.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/22 01:28 PM |
| 8 | Where do you ladies fall on the trad wife to modern wife spectrum?95% modern 5% trad Modern - Sole Earner, High Earner, Male Dominated Careers, AntiNatalist, Pro Choice, Don’t want children, lots of stereotypical male hobbies. Don’t really dress up or wear make up, I don’t clean, Atheist, bachelor degree in Chinese and Comp Sci, travel solo often(Although I’m engaged) Pansexual, love debating. I am a strong ENTP. Very analytical… My God is Logic is my motto. Consider my relationship pretty egalitarian. Don’t really want a male led relationship. I like to build… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | I am projected to earn 2-3x more than my boyfriend once I graduate. How do I use RP strategies to make sure he still feel masculine and like a leader in the house?I am a high earner, currently making 200k a year and my Fiancé is at 0 right now as he is in a master program . Like most people said if you are not comparing his worth to it. It should be a non issue. I find the men who may be offended about this in scenarios where the wife isn’t belittling him are dead beats. If he has his own career and is contributing then I don’t see why he would feel anything towards his ego. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it a core tenet in the RedPill sphere that the woman in a heterosexual relationship doesn't work, only works part time, or only works from home (or some combination of the two)?You can work it is your life. Im sure you know as a child free woman there are gonna be people who tell you, that you need to have kids to be happy. Just like there are people who tell you, work won’t make you happy. But only you know what will make you happy and I promise you if you are happy, happy relationships will follow. From a fellow child free women who loves her career. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/08/21 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Why is a woman’s income to the household not given a lot of value ?I never wanted to be a stay at home wife. I saw the toll it took on my dad having too work himself just to provide for us and my family. I always thought if my mom just got a part-time job it would help ease his burden just a little bit. Covid forced my dad out of work and this has honestly been the happiest I have seen him in years. In truth I think this is the first time he had a vacation in years. I got my first job at fourteen and been working, ever since. I have always made it a goal that I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Just how successful are your close friends in dating/romance?You know for the longest time I have been the only one in a committed relationship, but with covid my friends have started to settle down. I think we are all just reaching that age were we are ready to settle. Mind you most of my friends are gay, except one other one. I believe that is why they struggle to find someone. They have a smaller pool, especially in the locations they live in. I definitely give lots of advice, but in most cases it just timing. No, I was the first to get into a relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 05:37 PM |
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