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| 1 | Every year just gets worstStart training martial arts. I recommend Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Train every day for 6 months. The feeling that you will experience from this endeavor, that of being demoted back to a childlike state of incoordination and untapped potential, will introduce you to a language you never knew existed, and allow you to use that language to communicate with your fellow human beings in a manor you can’t comprehend at this time. This will give you a new perspective to utilize when reflecting on your life, … | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 10:07 AM |
| 2 | I think I found out why my social skills suckJiu Jitsu actually helped me recognize and learn to control this behavior a bit. A few months after I started I was rolling with an upper belt and he looks at me and just says “dude you need to chill the fuck out” because I was spazzing and trying to react and be faster than him instead of staying calm, controlling my breath, conserving energy, and focusing on my technique. That moment did a profoundly good job of embedding into my mind the importance of breath control and exercise as treatment … | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | RPers who have been on the brink, what stopped you from committing suicide?Start training Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. I bet my bottom dollar it’ll change your life in just a few months. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Anything I can improve on?Grab some drinks with her somewhere near your house, go back to yours, close. Easy. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 05:13 AM |
| 6 | 14 and never smoked weed. Should I do it?Coming from somebody who started smoking at 13, definitely wait. You’re gonna want to be as sharp as possible mentally for all the social shit you’re gonna have to learn in the next few years. Weed isn’t gonna help with that. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 05:08 AM |
| 131 | LTR asked why I dont just break up.Bruh I dare a bitch to tell me to sleep on the couch I swear I never understood how guys put up with that kind of attitude Edit: lmao y’all crazy for giving this bullshit ass comment gold thank you tho much appreciated | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 04:36 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriend potentially moving in with male roommates.There you go. The way I see it, women are going to do what they want, and you not doing what you want isn’t going to make them anymore likely to do what you want, so you might as well do what the fuck you want. Good luck out there, brother. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 05:06 AM |
| 8 | Girlfriend potentially moving in with male roommates.If your girl is hot then she’s gonna get attention from dudes everywhere she goes. She’s gonna do what she wants regardless. You tripping about shit like her living with dudes for a couple months isn’t gonna change that. On the bright side, if you’re only 3 months in then you should still be in the honeymoon stage and therefore she should still be heavily attracted to you. Keep her around as long as it suits you, and when you’re tired of her, next her. From my perspective, you’re making a mounta… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 04:42 AM |
| 6 | 36 dating 25 y/o, beta move to show her my stock portfolio?Reads as desperate. I wouldn’t. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What martial art do you recommend, and why?Ight then by that logic why even train when you could just be another skinny lil bitchboy with a concealed carry permit. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | What martial art do you recommend, and why?Lmao imagine thinking all there is to BJJ is triangles. You’re gonna get armdragged and choked out before you even know what hit you. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 09:33 PM |
| 6 | What martial art do you recommend, and why?BJJ, Muay Thai, and Wrestling. Also, if you have access to a legitimate Krav Maga gym, which is rare, I’d definitely give that a try. My buddy in my BJJ class has been training Krav for 3 years and he’s a damn savage with that stuff. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you “punish” your friends when they do stuff you don’t like (ex: flake/inconvenience you)?If you’re into that | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 04:16 AM |
| 23 | I lose interest in people over time. Is it a mental condition or I'm just out of sync socially? Like every girl I've ever thought I like, every friend I've ever had, i just lose interest interacting altogether. Any input? It frustrates me.I’m like this as well. Whenever I “figure somebody out” as in, I know what they’re gonna be doing at basically any given time, I start losing interest in them rapidly. What’s helped me is 2 things: #1 I only let people into my “inner circle” (lame terminology I know but bear with me) who are focused on growth and improving themselves. I’m not trying to hang around with slackers who are gonna be in the same place in a year as they are now. The growth I see in them keeps our relationship fresh and… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 03:15 AM |
| 0 | Man why the fuck i cant cum?!?!Gotta improve your stroke game | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Fitting inI deal with a lot of the same issues you’re going through so to preface I just wanted to say I feel your pain 100%. As for what you can do about it, I have a few suggestions: •Eat a big breakfast of protein and fat as soon as you wake up every morning. No carbs until your next meal. This has helped a lot with my anxiety/neuroticism. It’s not a magic cure, but it’s another tool in my toolbox. •Exercise intensely before any potentially stressful situation (i.e. socializing). Burns off cortisol and… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 09:13 AM |
| 2 | What is your mission?I wouldn’t say I’ve achieved any of them outside of getting laid a few times but I wouldn’t even say that’s particularly impressive or noteworthy. As for everything else I’m just steadily working towards those goals by going to the gym, taking trips to mountains to ride, getting scuba certifications, etc. As for the compound, I’m currently looking into going to a trade school once I finish my business degree, and then once I get that figured out I’m going to finance the compound with a friend of… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 08:42 PM |
| 2 | What is your mission?Overall: Be of maximum utility to the people around me. Be a better man than I was yesterday. Specifically: Teach Snowboarding, BJJ, and Scuba Diving. Build my own sustainable compound out in the middle of nowhere out of shipping containers, solar panels, etc. Travel and see/do cool shit. Be as dangerous as possible, and as a consequence, be able to protect those around me. Edit: oh and get pussy I guess. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | How to find proper male therapist?Make sure the person your seeing’s treatment plan is based on ACTION. This video of Jordan Peterson talking to Jocko Willink basically set my standard for what I look for in a therapist/psychiatrist/whatever. I’m not trying to sit in your little office and bitch about my problems for $30/hour. I want a gameplan. I want strategies. I want somebody who knows their shit and is going to contribute knowledge to my life that I can use to help myself. I DON’T need a shoulder to cry on. I hope this was … | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 06:47 AM |
| 3 | How to have a personality that stands out, makes you likeable?All I see is one of our fellow man who’s struggling and is asking for help. If his questions are so retarded, then it should be simpler to just answer them rather than take all that time out of your day to make some stupid ass comment demeaning him for asking a question which you deem to not be up to par. Who the fuck are you (or who is anybody for that matter) to say a question is retarded when you can’t even answer it yourself? Quote him the section of the sidebar that answers his question, if… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here have any advice for public speaking?This video really helped me take my public speaking skills to the next level after I had stagnated for a while. Now obviously you have to practice and memorize what you’re going to say, but how you address the group your giving the speech to is critical as well. Good luck brother, hope this helps you. Edit: I’d also recommend working out at some point in the day before you give the presentation, if possible. Draining that cortisol through exercise will make you a lot less nervous and more relaxe… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 06:15 AM |
| 5 | How to have a personality that stands out, makes you likeable?Everything wrong with this sub encapsulated in a single comment. Either contribute or fuck off loser. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Seeking validationIn the spirit of transparency I might just be fucking autistic and people are just giving me trash responses so I’ll shut up and go away. Haven’t ruled that out quite yet. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:12 AM |
| 9 | Seeking validationBeen wondering about this myself. Seems super rare where I’m at that people actually want to talk about the things they’ve accomplished and the things they’re proud of. I always jump at the chance to tell people about cool shit I’m doing/working on, but when I ask people about what they do, a staggering amount reply with something to the effect of “drink wine and watch The Office”. Gives me fucking anxiety because I have no idea how to interact with somebody who’s threshold for satisfaction is s… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Just Lifting vs Lift/BJJI smell weakness. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Guys, i'm broken, would love to hear from you...Becoming a member of a tribe has helped me immensely with a lot of the issues you’re struggling with. It’s been killing me to be away from my martial arts gym and my teammates these past few weeks (broken collarbone). Being a part of a focused goal oriented group is massively beneficial to mental health in this day and age just as it’s always been throughout our history as a species. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How did you construct your social circle?How do you personally deal with purely social situations (like parties, clubs, bars, etc) with no overarching structure (like a sport/competition/goal oriented setting would have)? As far as I can tell, the goal for unstructured socializing is “make the environment you’re sharing with others pleasant and engaging through your use of the spoken word”. I don’t know how to do that without a frame of reference for what people are trying to accomplish, and it seems to me a lot of people don’t care to… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | what did you all replace Porn/Video games with?Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, lifting, BMX, Snowboarding (when I get the opportunity), woodworking | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How did you construct your social circle?What kind of plans do you make when you want to hang out with your friends? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 11:35 PM |
| 1 | How did you construct your social circle?What do you do when you hang out with people? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 11:34 PM |
| 5 | I’ve had this problem twice where I bring a chick back to my place, I’m escalating, but we don’t go all the way. Why does this happen and how can I deal with it?Similar thing happened to me with a girl I brought home, only I ended up fucking her that night. We get to my house, put on a movie, start making out on my couch in my room. After making out for a few minutes I started rubbing her pussy through her leggings and after a minute she tells me to stop. I stopped and asked her if she still wanted to make out, (I think some people on this sub would say me asking that was a fuck up, but I did end up smashing so do with that what you will) she says yes s… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | What do your social circles value and how do you (personally) contribute it?Bruh every time with this fucking subreddit. u/alpha-zach , what characteristics about YOURSELF are deemed useful/appealing to the people you interact with on a daily basis? Is that narrow enough for you? You gonna sack up and answer me now “alpha” zach? | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 12:50 AM |
| 0 | What do your social circles value and how do you (personally) contribute it?That’s why I’m asking you, personally. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 05:09 PM |
| 0 | What do your social circles value and how do you (personally) contribute it?I’m trying to learn how to be a competent, socially useful member of society. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | What should I be contributing to social interactions?So you can add value to a conversation about something as trivial as the weather? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | What should I be contributing to social interactions?Finally something I can actually work with, thank you. What do you do personally when the topic at hand is pretty inconsequential (like small talk or other bullshit conversation)? Do you speak or stay quiet? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What should I be contributing to social interactions?How do you personally do that? Name a specific skill that falls into the category of value. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 06:43 AM |
| 1 | What should I be contributing to social interactions?And we’re all very impressed. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 05:36 AM |
| 0 | What should I be contributing to social interactions?Well not being a dick wouldn’t be a bad start. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 05:28 AM |
| 0 | What should I be contributing to social interactions?How is what I asked stupid? | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 05:19 AM |
| 0 | What should I be contributing to social interactions?You really can’t help me out here, Mr. Endorsed Contributor? | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 04:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys contribute to the lives of those around you?How do you help them? Like what specifically do you do? | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Just broke my collarbone snowboarding. Any suggestions for what I should do the next 3 months besides homework and video games?I read all but the last 1. Kind of outgrew that stuff so I don’t have much interest now in reading it. Definitely helped my vocabulary when I was a little kid tho. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Just broke my collarbone snowboarding. Any suggestions for what I should do the next 3 months besides homework and video games?How’d you break yours? Read Eragon when I was a little kid, used to love that shit, haven’t heard of the other one. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Just broke my collarbone snowboarding. Any suggestions for what I should do the next 3 months besides homework and video games?Will do. Definitely been meaning to listen to Mastery by Greene. Also will check out The Alchemist by Coelho. A lot of my favorite artists cite those books as some of their favorites. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Just broke my collarbone snowboarding. Any suggestions for what I should do the next 3 months besides homework and video games?I don’t think I’ll be able to exercise much (even legs) as I assume holding a barbell or kicking would be excruciating on my collarbone/shoulder. Might just hit the stationary bike for a few weeks, see if I can get my cardio up. Thanks for not being a dick like these other asshats btw. Idk what stick has been shoved up their asses. Any recommendation for books? Doesn’t have to be TRP-centric. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Just broke my collarbone snowboarding. Any suggestions for what I should do the next 3 months besides homework and video games?Name 1 thing you’ve accomplished. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Just broke my collarbone snowboarding. Any suggestions for what I should do the next 3 months besides homework and video games?I can’t hold a barbell with a broken collarbone. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Just broke my collarbone snowboarding. Any suggestions for what I should do the next 3 months besides homework and video games?I can’t leg press my shoulders would be resting against the machine. I also think explosive movements like kicking would be excruciating on my injury. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Just broke my collarbone snowboarding. Any suggestions for what I should do the next 3 months besides homework and video games?I can’t train Jiu Jitsu or Muay Thai. I can’t lift weights. I can’t ride my bike. I can’t snowboard. Anybody got suggestions for good books on tape? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 09:21 PM |
| 0 | LTR adviceI might be in the wrong but I’d personally rather just get head from a nice church girl rather than fuck club sluts or whatever (assuming the head is good, if it’s trash then that’s a different story). I’d ride it out OP, if your goal is a LTR, it would seem that you have a lot going for you in this scenario, and I wouldn’t make sex the end all be all (but if sex really means that much to you then do what you want). | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 11:12 PM |
| 0 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.What’d he say? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 05:43 PM |
| 69 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.Why not cash in yourself on all the free shit she gets from those weirdos? That’s what I’ve done in the past when my LTRs has orbiters (although I wasn’t aware of all the TRP terminology at the time). One time this dude sent my gf at the time and I dinner to my house (on the assumption it was just for her) and when I saw him a few days later I made a point of audaciously thanking him for dinner the other night. The look on his face when he realized I was fucking his dream girl and that he bought… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Experiments II: Guys, unless you are really hot you are probably better off not wasting your…Cool hamster bro | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/03/19 10:39 PM |
| 21 | Awarness of the red pill makes me depressedYou’re most definitely not done for if you’re rich and/or high social status. You’re gonna sit here and tell me Lil Pump gets bitches because of his looks? Ight. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Literally what do you talk about with girls/people?I have a similar issue as you do (without the memory problems) when I’m expected to socialize and socializing is the ONLY thing to do in that situation and I have no cues as to what the people around me are interested in. It’s really stressful for me actually. I know people on this sub hate when I say this, but Xanax helps me a lot in these situations. I don’t want it to be a crutch and I don’t take it regularly but it actually makes talking to strangers enjoyable and smooth rather than nerve-ra… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | How do you contribute to your social circle?Yea I feel you like talking about the subject at hand (asking for help/advice in my martial arts class, or complimenting somebody on their riding, for example) and then branching off into different conversations is easy, but if I’m around people I know nothing about, then I have no frame of reference for what should be discussed or what knowledge I have that should be contributed. Idk shits befuddling. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 04:19 AM |
| 2 | How do you contribute to your social circle?I never just “hang out” with people, that’s why I’m asking. Whenever I’m around people were always focused on a shared activity (martial arts, bmx, snowboarding, etc) and socializing comes second. Sitting around just talking at this point is pretty stressful for me as I don’t know what the focus is or what I should be aiming to contribute (plus I get bored/anxious just sitting around). Might sound autistic as fuck but it’s my struggle at this point in time. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 12:47 PM |
| 4 | How do you contribute to your social circle?What shit do you make happen? | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Massive crying spells & panic attacks over the last week - what to do?Some of your issues sound like Seasonal Affective Disorder. I recommend ordering a 10,000 lux light box off amazon. It’ll simulate the sun’s rays (which it sounds like you’re not getting enough of) when you look at it and should help regulate your circadian rhythm if you use it as soon as you wake up everyday. Good luck brother. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 12:07 AM |
| 6 | People around me are making me depressed, self-doubting. I can't even express myself anymore.Dude. Why the fuck do you care what those faggots think? Fuck em. If you have time to worry about what they have to say, then you’re not working hard enough. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 06:53 PM |
| 14 | What to talk about at bars/partiesI’m curious about this as well | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 12:06 AM |
| 7 | Which realisations have shattered/changed your world view the most? (Trp or not)It’ll probably sound like some hippy dippy drug shit to most but that consciousness is one singular encompassing entity and that the “boundary” we perceive between ourselves and others is just an evolutionary defense mechanism. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 05:08 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when a girl cries after sex?Ima keep it real with you, it ain’t lookin good Chief. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Is being a sugar daddy pathetic?Fuck what the bitch thinks and fuck what all these dickheads on the internet think. It’s your life to do with as you please. If that means paying for some fire pussy then pay for some fire pussy. If that means never giving a bitch a dime then never give a bitch a dime. It’s all up to you man. That’s the real alpha shit. Doing what you want with no regard for what anybody else has to say about it. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How males date vs how females date?Imagine being so butthurt about feminism you never get pussy again | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Pressured to go back to old school from my bluepill daysI wouldn’t worry about it. From the tone of your post, it sounds like you’ve got your shit together. That’s more than a lot of people can say. If it was me, and granted I’m kind of petty when it comes to stuff like this, I’d go back just to show off my growth. Like “yeah you thought I wasn’t shit? I accomplished more yesterday than you have all week.” Plus you said you’re only going to visit your parents, which I think is a pretty important thing to do, especially if you’re not gonna see them fo… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 05:27 PM |
| 2 | LTR going to slute city in 5 weeks. Don't trust it. Leaving her. Help with logistics plz?If you’re still asking for advice I’d say turn down the bitterness and turn up the blue pill lovey dovey bs and ride it out for a while longer til you figure out an optimal living situation. From my perspective that’s the most pragmatic thing to do in your situation. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:38 AM |
| 2 | LTR going to slute city in 5 weeks. Don't trust it. Leaving her. Help with logistics plz?You’re only getting cucked if you’re a retard...which you’re not since you’re aware of what’s going on. Why go through all that drama and bullshit just so you can say you’re taking the red-pill moral high ground? That’s not the hill I would choose to die on, personally. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:31 AM |
| 11 | Best books for social skills?After you finish how to win friends and influence people, I’d recommend reading the 48 laws of power as well. I think they complement each other nicely. Also, every relationship has an integrated power dynamic, so learning how to observe it and potentially alter it is very worthwhile imo. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 02:49 AM |
| 8 | LTR going to slute city in 5 weeks. Don't trust it. Leaving her. Help with logistics plz?Girls use guys for money all the time. You’re in a situation to do the opposite. Why not take advantage of it? It’s not like you have to marry the bitch. And since she’ll be out of town getting fucked anyway, why not have some girls over yourself while she’s gone? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 02:39 AM |
| -1 | First time Tinder date help.Xanax | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Activated red pill, but I started fallen for my cousin?ROLL TIDE | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 05:56 AM |
| 8 | Do any of you guys have the desire to be part of a "tribe"?The one I go to teaches BJJ, Muay Thai, No-Gi/Wrestling, and MMA. I don’t have any experience with boxing gyms yet. From my experience, the whole cycle of being a beginner in the rookie BJJ class, graduating to the main class, finally finding your footing with sparring after getting your ass kicked for a couple months, and then testing out and honing your skills on the new crop of freshly graduated rookies, really forges a strong bond within the team because we all know that we’ve all been throu… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 02:34 AM |
| 28 | Do any of you guys have the desire to be part of a "tribe"?I’d highly recommend joining a martial arts gym. I’ve found massive amounts of camaraderie with my teammates at mine. Also the common theme of self improvement and responsibility is very present and permeates through the whole space. Can’t speak more highly of my experience. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:56 PM |
| 13 | Do any of you guys have the desire to be part of a "tribe"?And for retards who have never opened a 20th century history text book. The holocaust pales in comparison to the atrocities that occurred in the Soviet Union and Mao’s China. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:53 PM |
| 8 | Betrayed by my teammates, should I seek revenge?Outwork him. If you’re head and shoulders above mike in terms of competence, why the hell would they want him as goalie over you? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 12:32 AM |
| 7 | Is being an Alpha Male based more on Nature or Nurture? Can anyone be an Alpha?Looks/genetics wise definitely born. There’s no debating that. However, if you commit your life to being really outstanding at something, then you can make yourself an alpha in that given dominance hierarchy through learned competence. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Fixing sleep cycle/bad sleep habits QUICK?3mg in the ones with L-Theanine. Ones without are 5mg. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Fixing sleep cycle/bad sleep habits QUICK?Intense exercise and melatonin. I like the kind from Walgreens with L-Theanine in it. I’m 160lbs and I take 2 pills a night when I get back from the gym. Adjust dose based on your weight. Make sure you take it 2 hours before you want to go to bed. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | “Are we exclusive?”What’s wrong with showing you’re open to exclusivity? Even if you wanted to see other girls on the side, wouldn’t it be pragmatic just to feign exclusivity to keep the relationship stable? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 06:49 AM |
| 7 | Last night I got into my first real dispute with a total stranger; did I hold frame or act like a cuck?Honestly, why would you take the time to comment if you care so little about his post? | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 02:07 AM |
| 1 | How many times did you get oneitis before you had a breakthrough?Once lmao | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:45 AM |
| 4 | Girls say I have 'psychopath charisma'. But I am actually NOT confident, so I really want to know what makes them think thisDidn’t know this. My ADHD makes me want to talk fast so I don’t forget what I’m saying. Definitely gonna try to start slowing down when I talk. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | My GF has stayed out partying all night till mid afternoon the following day 2 weekends in a row. What do I say?Break that shit off chief | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | What do you do if an acquaintance wont pay you back?this. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 09:44 PM |
| 5 | I'm a a depressed stereotypical nerd with no positive attributes to make up for it.Incremental improvements. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Haven't been out for years.. how bad is it?Lmao shoutout to your creative writing class | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 02:43 AM |
| 2 | I'm a typical Indian nerdOh well if you really have the capacity to go to an Ivy League school then you got bigger fish to fry than dealing with cliques and trying to be popular. Granted, good social skills are probably pretty crucial when going into the political realm, but I think my point still stands. If I were you I’d spend a few weeks to a month charting out trajectories for your various goals and really figure out where your passions lie and what courses of action would be most pragmatic. Because based on what yo… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 02:16 AM |
| 0 | I'm a typical Indian nerdAlright so when you get done with high school just go to some bitching state party school and flex your ass off. Use that money to throw sick parties and do cool shit and just rack up that social proof and start pulling girls. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 01:42 AM |
| 0 | I'm a typical Indian nerdYou said you go to private school right? Are you/your family abnormally wealthy? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Do you know any women who agree with TRP and their hyperhamy?I hope you take this question in the spirit it’s intended and that’s not to demean your morals or anything like that. Do you ever feel it’s wrong to be taking advantage of guys monetarily like that? Or is that just the price we have to pay for thousands of years of treating women like shit? Btw thank you for speaking so candidly about this. It’s becoming ever increasingly harder to have genuine conversations about this stuff in real life. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Do you know any women who agree with TRP and their hyperhamy?Would you say girls are “naturally red pilled” like a lot of people on this sub claim? Do you agree with concepts like “the wall” and “alpha fucks beta bucks”? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How to be of worth to other people?It’s not that I’m not open to the advice it’s that I heard all that shit a year ago and it seems very surface level and patronizing at this point in my development. Nobody answered the question in the title. All they said was delete social media, nofap, hang with friends often (how am I supposed to do that if I’m not viewed as worth hanging out with?), meditate, improve. I’ve heard it a thousand times before and I’m not arguing against it or saying it’s wrong, it just doesn’t answer the question… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | How to be of worth to other people?My life is doing pretty well actually. I’ve learned a ton of new skills in the past few years, I have my own house, no student loan debt, and my relationship with my parents has never been better. I’m just trying to figure out how others play into this, because as of now, I have no idea how socializing could be a part of my life. But maybe I’m just another asshole who doesn’t deserve it anyway. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How to be of worth to other people?I don’t need to use reddit to talk about that shit because I have access to real life resources for all of them. But have it your way. Have fun bitching about hypergamy, fake ass wanna be alpha dickhead. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How to be of worth to other people?Actually I’m not hanging around with anybody because the nihilistic drug use that’s all the rage in my town disgusts me. All that effort into chastising me and you still can’t answer the fucking question. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How to be of worth to other people?I do interesting shit all the time. I snowboard, scuba dive, bmx, train martial arts, critique music, practice woodworking, build shit, fish, camp, hike, etc. These motherfuckers don’t care. It’s all about drinking and smoking weed. All I hear is “no more mr nice guy” this, “no more mr nice guy” that, but whenever I tell somebody to address the question at hand and stop dicking around with me, I’m suddenly an asshole. Hypocrisy much? Also I never blamed my choices on anybody but myself. I did my… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 01:33 PM |
| -1 | How to be of worth to other people?I’ve been subbed here for years. 2. I’m only an asshole to people that fuck with me and try to play armchair psychologist. 3. Answer the question or fuck off dickhead I’m trying to get real life answers here not read chicken soup for the soul. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 01:23 PM |
| 0 | How to be of worth to other people?Yea I’ve read 48 laws of power too. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 11:58 AM |
| 0 | How to be of worth to other people?You’re still not addressing my question chief. I KNOW I’m socially incompetent. That’s not me being self deprecating, that’s me being honest and admitting my faults as a man. Now either address the question directly or take your typed mental masturbation to another post. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 11:19 AM |
| 2 | How to be of worth to other people?And here I thought I wouldn’t get the usual hippy dippy “it’s all in your head maaan” bullshit at the red pill. Thanks for nothing dickhead. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 10:49 AM |
| 23 | What to look for in a BJJ class?Make sure your instructor is an IBJJF certified black belt. Make sure the gym is clean. I’ve been told MRSA’s a real bitch. Make sure there is a good amount of students around your weightclass. The variation in training partners will keep you on your toes and your game sharp. Since you’ve only been training a month, you might want to find a gym with a rookie class so you can build your foundation a bit more before you start getting repeatedly tapped for half an hour every class. I’d also try to … | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s pathetic to hire a personal trainer to help your with form and such?No | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Going to a Halloween party with 30 - 50 peopleWhy do people care so much if you drink or not? | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 11:27 AM |
| 7 | Infamous N-CountGod help us. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How can I be confident in interacting with people if my track record for inclusion and respect by my peers in the past has been abysmal?I have no idea how to go about doing that. If you have any tips, I’m all ears. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How can I be confident in interacting with people if my track record for inclusion and respect by my peers in the past has been abysmal?Read it a few times. It actually does work, but only sometimes, and only if the people are participating in the same activity I am (riding bikes, martial arts,). People out in public or in my college classes treat me pretty coldly or ignore me all together. Even in the clubs I joined, which should have demonstrated similar interest, I was either mildly disrespected or just ignored, even though I was using the same methods that brought success in other scenarios. I guess you win some you lose som… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How can I be confident in interacting with people if my track record for inclusion and respect by my peers in the past has been abysmal?Different group. None of the people from my past give 2 fucks about my existence. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How old are the majority of yall? I'm 21 and I can't help but noticed that beta "men" my age are glorified for their beta-ness.Aren’t girls just going to go for the guys with the best genetics regardless of if they’re alpha or beta? Assuming the ratio of desirable to undesirable genes doesn’t change, won’t the demand just stay the same? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 11:47 AM |
| 3 | I made a pdf containing asktrp's sidebar.Thanks brother | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 01:57 AM |
| 4 | I made a pdf containing asktrp's sidebar.Whenever I search it it says I don’t have access to it or it’s been removed, but I was subscribed and everything. Do you know how I can access the sidebar? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 08:48 PM |
| 8 | TRP Quarantined??? What is this shit?What in the fuck is this bullshit? | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 02:09 AM |
| 3 | I've been insecure my whole life. How do you even start to build confidence?If you do end up going the BJJ route, OP, make sure you at least take a No-Gi/Wrestling class, preferably in addition to a Gi class. Rolling in the Gi is fun and a little bit more beginner friendly imo, but No-Gi/Wrestling is more applicable in a street fight. I’d also highly recommend Muay Thai. If you do your homework and find an upstanding gym, it will be a very enriching and beneficial experience for you. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Plate sent a snapchat of her and another guy in bed togetherI mean trp lauds concepts like applying dread and push/pull. This just looks like the female equivalent of that. Might be a bit over the top but the parallels are still there. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Plate sent a snapchat of her and another guy in bed togetherGenuinely asking: is it not hypocritical to say a girl has issues for sleeping with another guy while simultaneously spinning plates? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 05:51 PM |
| 11 | Got a couple of female orbiters. How do I make the best of this situation?Next time you’re around them why don’t you just ask why they never bring any of their friends with them? Doesn’t sound needy to me. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 08:19 PM |
| 6 | Friend’s GF has a guy stop over at her house after a night out, thoughts on this situation?Now that you put it that way you’ve definitely won me over. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Friend’s GF has a guy stop over at her house after a night out, thoughts on this situation?I think you make good points, however, women are neurotic as all fuck. If OP’s friend is as high value as he’s making him out to be, the girl could have been so freaked out over the idea of losing him/people thinking she slept with that loser dude that she worked herself up into tears. It’s a tough call though. If it were my friend, I’d present them both your point and mine and have him pick between the two. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Social Skills and ADHDI’ve been pretty much sober for a few years now after self medicating for a good chunk of my adolescence so I’m not thrilled about the idea of having to intoxicate myself in order to secure social interaction. Potential hamstering on my part aside, when you started going out with those people, did they invite you or did you invite yourself? What did you talk about with them? After a night out, how did you decide if it was successful or not? | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How to handle douchebags at bar ?Got it, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 08:04 AM |
| 1 | How to handle douchebags at bar ?Can you explain the legal implications part? | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Did I have an absolutely terrible sex experience, or is something wrong with me?Sounds like you just weren’t that attracted to her. Similar situation happened to me a few months ago, except I did fuck the girl and I’ve regretted it ever since. My advice is only fuck girls you actually primally want to fuck, don’t try to rationalize it. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you done shrooms, how was it?If you decide to do them I’d only take a micro dose to start out (maybe 0.1 to 0.3 grams). See how that works out. If you take too much, you might see some shit you aren’t prepared to handle. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 04:53 PM |
| 22 | What's a good way to make friends and meet girls?For making new friends, I can’t recommend joining a martial arts gym enough. My gym is the most positive learning environment I’ve ever been in and you meet at least one new person every class who has the same desire to improve themselves as you do. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Can't cum during sexSame thing happened to me you just gotta figure out your stroke game. After I lost my virginity I didn’t cum with the girl til like the 10th time we had sex. After that I just figured it out and I never had the problem again. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 02:16 AM |
| 7 | How normies escalate/have sex in few dates?Dudes got aspergers lay off him dickhead | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 09:57 PM |
| -1 | Is it a good idea to plate your plate’s friend?I’d do it | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | How to treat depression?Lmao yea especially when people just want nitpick your advice and point of view | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How to treat depression?Ok I wasn’t trying to talk down to you or anything I just think starting with the simplest explanations can often save a lot of time | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 07:35 PM |
| 4 | How to treat depression?To start I’d make sure you’re eating enough, exercising, sleeping, socializing, getting enough sun, and having sex (if possible). If those needs are all getting met then I’d do some deeper research and see if you can figure something else out, maybe antidepressants if you’re comfortable with the potential risks involved in taking them. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | I've been an active user of braincels and mgtow for half a year and I want to get out of thisCan’t recommend joining a Brazilian Jiu jitsu/MMA gym enough. You wouldn’t expect it but my gym is the most accepting positive learning environment I’ve ever been in, and I went to “one of the best high schools” in my state. I can’t tell you the amount of times a higher belt has seen me struggling with a technique and stayed after class to help me with it. Really great guys. Also, it’ll give you that social interaction you need and it’s a hell of a workout. And since literally everybody has been… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 01:40 AM |
| 1 | What should be my respectable one rep max on the bench?What does PW mean? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Best Martial arts/fighting stylesBrazilian Jiu Jitsu and Muay Thai, if your local gym offers a no-Gi/wrestling class take that as well. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Drunk hookup keeps apologizing for feeling sick and not going the whole 9 yardsNot sure how you guys feel about it but in my experience if a girl asks if you hate her she really wants to fuck you/enjoys fucking you. Just my 2 cents. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Any military guys on here feel like they're trapped until EAOS? How do you cope?Upvote for Gucci reference | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Want to get into MMA, no fighting experienceI said it once and I’ll say it again, my buddy is a competent fighter. He currently trains Gi, no Gi, Muay Thai, and krav. He wouldn’t speak as highly as he does of his krav training if it wasn’t legitimate. Also, in case this wasn’t clear, I haven’t trained krav myself so I’m really not the one to argue these points to, I have nothing to gain by krav being legitimate or illegitimate, I’m just trying to pass on knowledge given to me by a fellow fighter who’s word I respect. Also, even I know the… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Want to get into MMA, no fighting experienceYou’re right I should have phrased that better. What I was trying to convey is “if you want to spar in a realistic fashion, then BJJ and Muay Thai are the way to go”. I personally haven’t trained any Krav Maga yet aside from my buddy showing me a move here and there, however, from what he’s told me, Krav sparring is a lot slower and gentler than BJJ/MT sparring, on the account of the serious injury you could inflict on somebody with Krav techniques. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 06:10 AM |
| 0 | Want to get into MMA, no fighting experienceIf you just want to be able to protect yourself and/or fuck people up with no regard for their safety then Krav Maga is the way to go. My buddy I train BJJ and Muay Thai with has been doing it for 3 years and dude is a full fledged savage. If you’re looking to spar with people and don’t necessarily want to be sending people straight to the hospital when they fuck with you, then I would say BJJ and Muay Thai are the way to go. That being said, wouldn’t hurt to do all 3. To finish, as dude above s… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 03:23 AM |
| 11 | Social proof and frame examplesWhat would you have done if the girl told you to fuck off when you went to get the chair back? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Being A People-Pleaser: what it actually means, and how to rid yourself of this disgusting conditionCan somebody with more knowledge of this topic explain to me the difference between people-pleasing and manners/politeness and upholding the social contract? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 06:28 PM |
| 6 | The wreckage of Feminism is here and its hilarious.Pick your burden, carry it, and become strong. OSS. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | A scary truth I am learning about success in both life and with women.Major props my man. Sounds like you really have your shit together. You’re a credit to the species. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Concealed Intentions and Plausible Deniability (Day/Campus Game)Question: How do you “get vouched for by all the chads and stacies”? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 07:16 AM |
| 3 | The journey so far (And how I could have got where I am faster)It’s not about looking taller it’s about being healthier and being able to protect women if the need were to arise. I guarantee more women would feel safer with a swole dude who’s 5’9” than a skinny dude who’s 6’2”. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/17 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Got Machiavellied By My MMA CoachUnrelated but I just started bjj and Muay Thai training last week. You enjoying it? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 03:20 AM |
| 4 | To the man shooting 3's in the gym todayIf he's handsome and takes care of himself how isn't he a Chad? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/17 08:09 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 08What do you guys do when a "friend" steals from you? I've always been told to go to the police but I have no proof of who it was, only a few suspects. FYI the value of what was stolen is very inconsequential to me (<$100). However, the act seems more like an attack on my character in a way than one on my resources. Any advice would be appreciated. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Need help with working outThanks for the advice man btw not sure if this makes a difference but I'm 19 y/o | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Need help with working outThis is exactly what I was looking for thank you | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Need help with working outSimply confessing my ignorance. I personally find great satisfaction in passing on knowledge to those who want it. If they don't want to help me that's fine. I'll figure it out eventually. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Need help with working outFYI I can easily lift the bar. I'm decently strong for my size. Thank you for your advice I appreciate it | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Need help with working outAy I saw your post earlier looks like you really know your shit thanks for the advice my man | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 04:45 AM |
| -1 | Need help with working outWant to help me make a plan because I have no idea what my plan should be | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Need help with working outWell can we have a conversation then? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Need help with working outDoes 5x5 mean 5 reps 5 sets? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Need help with working outI have no idea what squat dead bench overhead press chin ups bent over rows means | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 11:53 PM |
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