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My whole response to you was nuked for "circlejerking" even though it echos the same sentiments as many other responses that remain up. I can only assume its because I included some factual information that some of the mods here did not like. Like the part about non reciprocal abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:14 PM
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Thinking back on one of my past relationships. My ex would often lash out in public whenever I would say or do something to embarrass her. Intentionally or not. Just a little clip round the back of the head, they were never particularly hard or painful but I definitely felt them and looking back, imagine the stark difference with which people would have viewed the situation if she had embarrassed me and I'd clipped her around the back of the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:31 PM
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Hmm. I'm going to.download and read through the actual PDF from the CDC, because 2 accounts of their data directly conflict. One says 67.4 report exclusively female perpetrators and the other says 67.4 exclusively male perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:41 PM
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I don't want to sound like a doomer, but I honestly don't know how we go about opening people's eyes to the double standard. As it isn't a double standard of convenience, it's one of intentional discomfort. Posts like yours are definitely the first step though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:23 PM
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Thats a nice bit of cherry picked data from the CDC. But we are talking about domestic violence within relationships. Here is what the CDC says about that. The CDC has stated that 43.8% of lesbian women reported experiencing physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners. The study notes that, out of those 43.8%, two thirds (67.4%) reported exclusively female perpetrators
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:20 PM
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Hopefully posts like yours can bring some awareness and be the first step along the road to changing our culture somewhat. As doubtful as that is. People don't like uncomfortable truths, so they try to handwave away facts that they don't like. Women are the more casually violent sex in relationships. Now I know this is going to be highly controversial to I will preface this by saying that by "more" I mean more frequently, not that they do more damage. It's why western society likes to focus on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:01 PM
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This is an interesting point. I'd imagine they probably don't. Does anybody else remember those colourful charity wristbands that were all the rage for a while? When I think back to my school days, almost everybody I knew to be a bully wore anti bullying wristbands with pride. It might be easy to just write it off as virtue signalling, and that might have something to do with it. But I think if anyone genuinely asked those kids if they thought of themselves as bullies, they would say no. And if …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:56 PM
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My point is that many things that women here claim to have no knowledge or awareness of, such as who they are attracted to, is NOT a part of the subconscious. It is very much conscious. I'm not claiming women are slaves to their subconscious desires. I'm saying women are claiming that to mask their very real conscious desires. Claiming "I am attracted to B" when the truth is "I am attracted to A which is mutually exclusive with B" has nothing to do with the subconscious or anything like that. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:02 PM
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Because we’re expected to take y’all at your words. If people tend to say what makes them look good then apply that rhetoric across the board. Men aren't using their subconscious and their lack of awareness about it to remove accountability from themselves. The amount of comments I see from women here saying stuff like. "We aren't intentionally lying, we sometimes just aren't aware of our own subconscious desires and thoughts." is ridiculous. While I don't agree with the redpill sentiment of "wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:39 PM
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Very true. That leaves us with a question doesn't it? Are women lying about, or at the very least hyperbolising the way their chosen men treat them? Or is there a specific subset of top tier men that the majority of women are attracted to? Top tier men that say, don't have to show women basic human decency in order to get what they want out of them. Dating is after all, a game of supply and demand. Top tier men are in high demand and short supply, it would logically make sense that women are wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:26 PM
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It really doesn't. The vast, VAST majority of men actually treat women better than they treat men. I.e. treating them better than the average human being. The fact that women are almost exclusively dating men that treat them poorly to the extent that "we just want to be treated as human beings" is a regular complaint is extremely telling of what women value in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:44 AM
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Don't forget shower and get a haircut. Shower. Haircut. Treat women like people. It's that simple!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:34 AM
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No because the patriarchy is a conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:23 PM
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If people took it at face value, places like PPD, TRP etc wouldn't exist. Everybody knows people like to virtue signal, especially on the Internet where you can't fact check an anonymous username. It's what makes places like PPD useful imo. Because even through all the virtue signalling most people on here include little snippets of truth in their posts. You just have to pay attention so that you are able to spot them. In fact, I'd even go a step further that the only person people are trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:31 PM
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Haha. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:58 AM
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You don't understand women. Women get off on the feeling that their life is in your hands. Especially during sex. That if you wanted to, you have the power to, and could end her at any moment. Women are disgusted by men who don't have the power or the means to hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:15 AM
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A lot of women just block upvote women that disagree with men on here. The content of the post is irrelevant. As a guy I have posted stuff on here critical of men, got maybe 3 or 4 upvotes, had a woman type "^ this" under my post and get upwards of 30 upvotes. On the flipside they also block downvote posts critical of women, no matter if its a man or woman doing the criticising. There was a post here the other week where a female user made a post where she made about 100 criticisms of men, and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:30 AM
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Fun fact. MMA boyfriend actually didn't lose that fight. He got hurt early but turned things around and stopped the other guy. She actually fought the same night and lost her fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:39 AM
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Pretty obvious why, even though you are correct. Demographic that tends not to orgasm during sex is women. Women also tend to put the burden of making her orgasm on men. Your post is essentially telling them that they need to take responsibility for not reaching climax instead of blaming their sex partner, or expecting the man to just "get it" and know what she likes inherently. In short, you asked women to have some accountability. Always results in downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:05 AM
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The best is when they ask for a source. You provide one, they immediately dismiss it and say "That's from (insert publication here), I'm not reading that." Then they ask for a credible source. You provide 3 more sources all saying the same thing. They say "no, not those, I said credible sources." Then you ask what they mean by credible. Turns out it just means one that they agree with politically or ideologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:23 PM
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It's easier for people to believe that the world is somehow just, and that it is just according to their own specific worldview. Obviously it's fallacious, but it's more comforting than the reality that good things happen to bad people and vice versa. Could also be that people just don't think their positions through and their desire to hurt the feelings of whoever they are disagreeing with overrides basic logic. For example women telling incels they are alone and always will be because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:46 PM
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They are all offshoots of left wing thought and come out of leftist movements. The left encompasses more than your tankie groups dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:02 PM
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One of the threads on the main page got me thinking. Anybody else notice how left wing rhetoric often relies on people not taking it at face value? They say one thing that sounds very controversial on the surface, recieve appropriate backlash, then claim X thing doesn't literally mean X thing, it means Y. Then when you ask why they don't just say Y then, they never have a good answer, or they call you names and double down on X. Examples are; Kill all men- "Doesnt literally mean we want to kill …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:52 PM
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The thing is, what women now describe as "toxic masculinity" is actually just masculinity. And it's masculinity (not confidence in and of itself, that's simply a part of masculinity) that women are attracted to. They are quite literally biologically predisposed to find it attractive. Masculinity leads men to be confident, dominant, unafraid to not go with the flow, DGAF attitude, slightly dangerous. All of these traits are highly alluring to women. It's why in a room of ten men. Women will ignor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:45 PM
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Not sure. I'm a man. Any time I disagree with woman on reddit I get called some variation of incel/virgin/loser. I've been posting on PPD on and off for the past 5 years, most of that time I was in a relationship. As of recently in in a relationship again. I have never experienced a time on here where I haven't been called those things or seen other men been called those things. So it rings hollow to claim it has ever been taboo, and a post where people virtue signal that it's wrong and people s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:49 PM
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Imagine being shocked that a supremacy group has double standards for people who don't fall within what their supremacy group advocates for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:35 PM
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It is. Unfortunately a lot of people who live in the real world don't live in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:33 PM
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Reddit has no bearing on wider society. Its essentially a bubble. An echo chamber. And its also full of people that love to virtue signal how great a person they are. I wonder how many people on here have stood on a hypothetical soapbox about how virgin shaming is wrong, and then gone on to call people an incel because they said something they didn't like. If Reddit was indicative of reality, Kamala Harris would have won the US election, in a landslide that broke all records.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:27 PM
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Only thing I disagree with is that it allowed people to virgin shame men again. This never went out of fashion or became taboo. It's always happened and always will. It just changed the verbiage from virgin/loser/creep (anything that signals a man's undesirability to women) to incel. It just made it easier by creating an all encompassing term. There has never been any push back against virgin shaming men like there has been with slut shaming women. Because people don't care about men's plights a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:07 PM
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This is because victimhood has become a social currency. If we stopped living in a world where being a victim got you things in life, if western society stopped being a victimocracy, then this would all cease.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 11:38 AM
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They've been laughing at them though? I will concede though, it may be a punishment to the leftist numales in the poly/cuck community that they were sometimes sleeping with. Left wing men will be the ones being punished for right leaning men's actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:11 PM
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I'm sure they could get laid, but we are talking blue haired (or bald) overweight women with a bunch of tattoos and nose rings, always the nose rings. Really these women taking themselves off the market is not a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:02 PM
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Have you seen them? It's "voluntary" and If you ask most men their terms are entirely acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:56 PM
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Have you seen the women saying they are going full 4B? Let's just say their terms are acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:15 PM
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I kind of agree with this. Kamala could have been anyone. The issue is the party's message, and perhaps even more important than the party itself, the messages and ideologies of the supporters of the party. When you so outwardly hate men, you can't be surprised when men don't vote for you. Even the cringey "white dudes for Kamala" campaign had to shit on men while trying to attract them to their side. Like "finally a place where us white men can gather and for once we aren't even wearing KKK uni…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:53 PM
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Leftist freakout compliation channels are going to be eating well for the next few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:00 PM
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Holy based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:48 PM
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Yeah. Saying they are no longer going to be having untold amounts of unprotected sex with strangers is not the flex American women seem to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:39 PM
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Hey now, Kamala had Dick Cheney and the white supremacist Richard Spencer!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:20 PM
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He's literally me!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:17 PM
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You'd fit in well with most friend groups in the UK. The more we like you the worse we treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:10 PM
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Reddit nerds? Outside? Does not compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:55 PM
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Not to mention all the "anti-racists" now openly calling Latinos racial slurs on r/politics Shouldn't be a surprise though, anybody who has seen how white leftists treat black guys who aren't Dems knew this is how they would react.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:50 PM
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Women won't last. Remember covid during lockdowns? Thots were going stir crazy because they hadn't had their dick appointment in 2 weeks. Single guys are used to going months without sex. We'll see who caves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:26 AM
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I've long since stopped believing that women are simply naive in these situations. They don't just accept free drink after free drink thinking the guy is only being kind. It's like when the dude asks her to come back to his, and then she is shocked when he attempts to make a move on her. No way she thought he actually just wanted to show her his lego collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:07 AM
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Probably many bordering on most. The male fantasy in romcoms is that the woman finally sees how great and kind and caring the geeky beta orbiter is and ends up with him over the douchey jock Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:02 AM
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Its something you just have to get used to and put up with. I'm no threat to women, never have been and never will be. Women still cross the street to avoid me when we just happen to be going the same way when I'm on my way home. People are rightfully protective of kids, but I do think western society has taken it a bit far. There have been multiple stories of dads out and about with their young kids having the police called on them because some random bystanders assumed he was a kidnapper.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:52 AM
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Pass. Smoking is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:45 AM
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There already is no patriarchy. It's a conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:32 AM
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Nope. Caring about how their partner compares to others is something women care about. Men couldn't care less. If I'm attracted to her why would I care if anybody else is or isn't? In fact, if she isn't constantly being hit on or in flirtatious situations with other dudes I call that a bonus. I would prefer other me to not find her attractive and not be trying to poach her. When women rock up to a party with their man, they want him to turn heads, to make other women in the room jealous. When a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:51 PM
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Listing all of those Japanese games is kind of pointless, because nobody said there's a lack of straight female characters in games. They said there's a lack of straight female protagonists. Persona and Ys, female characters in those JRPGs are NPCs, and they are RPGs anyway, which means player choice is involved. You make a good point about Bayonetta. I do recall her being straight because I remember progressive twitter threw a shit fit about it. Maybe you can't go as far as to say Lara Croft us…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:37 PM
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Oh I completely agree with you on that. Voting with your wallet will course correct the industry, in time. The ideologues that have infested every level of the the gaming industry will fight it every step of the way, but eventually the investors will want to stop hemorrhaging money. My disagreement with you isn't ideological or trying to dismiss the plethora of great RPGs out there. My point is, even if you can make an albino Polynesian with ginger hair in an RPG, that doesn't mean there isn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:21 PM
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Most of these modern games starring canonical lesbians are made by progressives with a deliberate mission statement to avert the "male gaze" so if your implication is they make these women lesbians to titilate men I'm going to have to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:10 PM
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Basically every first party Sony title has a female protagonist these days. Usually having replaced the previous male lead. Elly in TLOU (replaced Joel) and she's a lesbian. Aloy in the Horizon games (Lesbian) Atsu in Ghost of Yotei (replaced Jin Sakai) *not out yet so jury is out on Lesbian status but highly likely being a Sony title Tomb Raider reboots (Lara was straight in the original trilogy but was made lesbian in the side content of the reboot trilogy) Max in Life is Strange. Lesbian. Ken…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:05 PM
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I just replied to you elsewhere. It isn't cherry picking. The key word here being canonically. RPGs are a genre defined by player choice. If a Polynesian gamer complained that there is a lack of Polynesian protagonists in games, listing RPGs as examples of games with those types of protagonists would be a cop out, as you, the player can create anybody you like. And it wouldn't change that there aren't really any games with Polynesian protagonists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:47 PM
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Why would it be disingenuous? If his hypothesis is that there's a lack of canonically straight female protagonists (which is a sound hypothesis, as it's true), then it makes no sense to include RPGs. Where the protagonist is neither canonocally straight, or even canonically female.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:43 PM
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Any insult loses it's sting when people are called it for even the smallest transgressions, or even nothing at all. Being called a misogynist by a PPD woman doesn't mean anything, beyond that you disagreed with her. Being called an incel might upset an actual incel, maybe. But for the most part it doesn't mean anything anymore. It means whatever any given woman wants it to mean in the exact instant she calls you it. I got called incel on here a bunch whilst in the midst of a 6 year long relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:27 PM
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He said not counting RPGs. I think he means female protagonists that are canonically straight, not ones where you can choose who you romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:20 PM
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It's made by progressives, so small bordering on none existent. Making the women feminine is a risk too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:16 PM
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Tomb Raider got a reboot and while she doesn't have any romantic partners in the games they gave her a girlfriend in the side comics. So nope, Lara Croft has joined the LGBT community along with every other modern female game protagonist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:12 PM
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None. Especially in first party Sony titles. Every protagonist these days is a lesbian, and they always keep that information for the 2nd game when people are already somewhat invested. At best you can play RPGs where you have a bunch of men and women to choose to date, but canonically straight female protagonists are rare with a capital R.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:11 PM
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I know the pair of cucks from Good Mythical Morning. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:08 PM
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"Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat" - Hillary Clinton "Women though saved through the noble sacrifice of men, were in the equally hard position of having to see the ship go down" - An unnamed suffragette who gave an interview to the New York Times about the Titanic sinking. To feminists, men aren't even the primary victims of their own deaths. Women are. Even when men die to protect women, women are most affected. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:52 PM
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Karen is great! So much more well spoken (or written in this case) than I am though. She actually used to post on PPD years and years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:29 PM
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But again, where's the equality? Why are feminists not concerned about making up 50% of oil rigs workers? Deep sea fishermen? Loggers? Trash collectors? Long haul drivers? Sewage divers? Oh right, it doesn't matter if men are over represented in all the grimy, dirty, dangerous jobs that nobody wants to do. But God forbid they get paid more than the average hairdresser or babysitter because that's like, literally misogyny and oppression or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:40 PM
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I agree in that I don't think Feminism and misandry are the same thing, but I do think misandry is baked into feminism at it's core and has been for a long time. I remember reading an article on a feminist site years ago protesting the gap between women's and men's workplace injuries and deaths closing. And the crazy part is, women's workplace deaths weren't increasing, men's were just decreasing. And it was made out to be a huge issue for women. Less men dying at work should be celebrated, inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:46 PM
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I would say they infantilise women, rather than dehumanise them. Feminists (ironically) treat women as objects, who go through life with the world and men acting upon them, rather than as agents who act upon the world. Removing women's agency allows them to hide from the consequences of their own actions and shirk any kind of accountability. And it is entirely intentional, a feature of feminism rather than a bug. It is logical when you remember feminism uses a Marxian framework where there alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:03 PM
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Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:54 PM
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My issue is, feminism is uniquely appealing to misandrists in a way that say, egalitarianism isn't, for obvious reasons. I don't think it's fair to say misandrists are masquerading as feminists, as there isn't much of a distinction to begin with. Look at the majority of feminist literature, it is steeped in misandry and has been from the start. And as you said, its interesting how no women or self described feminists call out the misandry within their own movement. Yet they all crawl out of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:42 PM
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What is the noble cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:34 PM
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A subset of women are there just for validation. I've started talking to women on apps who have said they're just looking for followers on Instagram. And another I thought I was clicking with said she wasn't looking for a relationship, she just wanted a partner to shoot some onlyfans scenes with. Instant next.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:17 PM
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Ohhh yeah. My bad, I totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:12 PM
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Not sure about dating apps, but singles meet ups this is the mindset for sure. You always see women online complaining about going to singles events and there being no men there. And it's obvious why there are no men there. Any man that needs to go to a singles event is not a man the women there will be interested in. The men they want don't need to attend them, and the men that would need to attend them know better than to go to their own metaphorical public execution.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:11 PM
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Who is being censored? "I won't date you if you sleep around and are in debt" is not censorship? Or is there a new definition i'm not aware of?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:57 PM
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Yup. This is how they rationalise their fabled "creep detector" which is actually pretty ingenious on their part. They have successfully managed to mask their disgust for unattractive and/or socially awkward men as a danger detector, so they get to both brutally reject and insult men they find gross, and receive empathy and pity for it at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:23 PM
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What exactly is dangerous about "You should be financially responsible and not be promiscuous"? Ahhhh, so men can only have women approved preferences and standards? Thanks for the memo, but we decide what we find attractive, not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:17 PM
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Because for men sex IS the reward. For women sex is the means that they use to get to the reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:10 PM
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FDS used to advocate for sleeping with their ex while making the new guy they're dating wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:08 PM
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So what? Are men just not supoosed to vet their potential partners now? Is there a single preference that men are allowed to have? Men are either shamed for their preferences by saying they're insecure, overly judgemental, not a real man etc, or we are told having standards is harmful to women. Imagine if I said it's damaging to men that women want a financially responsible guy who can hold down a job, I would get laughed out of the room, and rightly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:59 PM
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This is true in my experience. Used to he part of a mixed gender friend group. Three girls were in the group. One of them I got on really well with, same sense of humour, same likes dislikes. One I got on with but didn't really trust as she was one of those people that gossip constantly the moment somebody left the room. The third one I kind of had an adversarial relationship with. We were polar opposites. She was ultra left wing, ultra feminist, and I often pushed back against her insane conclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:19 AM
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That isn't a glass ceiling though. Half your country won't vote for one of the two political parties no matter who they put forward. That doesn't mean that Reps or Dems have a glass ceiling preventing them from being elected. And trust me, being from a country that has had 3 female prime ministers, they are no better at governing than men are. Almost every politician is incompetent, duplicitous, hypocritical and corrupt, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:11 AM
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Do you think Conservative sources are less trustworthy than leftist ones? You realise the largest voter base for left wing political groups are single or divorced women right? You think left leaning "studies" just come up with single women being the happiest group out of nowhere? Or do you think they might just have a vested interest in keeping their largest demographic of voters in tact?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:52 PM
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Back when I started posting on PPD 5 or so years back, the blue pill advice was "Dating is easy. If you are normal and a good person then people will want to be with you and you won't need help. Regular platitudes work. If they don't work for you, you aren't normal and you probably aren't a good person. You're a defective loser that deserves to be lonely."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:55 AM
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That isn't even slut shaming. That's just male sexuality shaming. Even a man who is a virgin's sexuality is seen as disgusting and corruptive. It's just more boys are gross throw rocks at them BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:28 PM
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Fantastic post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:57 AM
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Yup. Never seen a woman call a guy a fuckboy that hasn't slept with said fuckboy. Fuckboy just means "I slept with you and you didn't commit, how dare you!".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:53 AM
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What got him in trouble was her making a false accusation BECAUSE she found him creepy. Which the person I responded to said would never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:55 PM
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No one is sending you there for looking creepy. https://www.ibtimes.sg/pennsylvania-woman-lied-about-man-attempting-rape-kidnap-her-because-he-looked-creepy-gets-him-74660
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:54 AM
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How do you have a consensual and peaceful transfer of the means of production? What happens when you can't convince people to give up their hard earned shit for people they will never know or care about? Your only option then is violence. How would you use legal means to take people's stuff away from them? A democratic vote? Let's say I buy a cake and cut it into 10 slices. You and 9 others all want a slice. I say I didn't buy it for you, I bought it for me. You say we put it to a vote and you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:41 AM
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Agree with this so much. Most people that lack confidence and social skills as adults, were bullied while still developing. Whether that be at school, college, both. They were never given the chance to socialise with people besides others like themself. Outside if mental illness and other mental or physical conditions people may have. Bullying and ostracism are the biggest reasons for people being socially inept as adults. People think you can just fake confidence or it grows in a vacuum. The tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:02 AM
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This thread has incredible mean girl energy considering it's coming from a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:53 AM
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Rare but it does happen. Be this guy, where you didn't even say hi. Just happened to live in the same neighbourhood as a woman that thought he looked creepy. She made false allegations about him raping her and attempted kidnapping. She even used an injury she received courtesy of her dementia ridden grandmother as evidence of his assault. He spent 31 days in prison based on nothing more than her word. https://www.ibtimes.sg/pennsylvania-woman-lied-about-man-attempting-rape-kidnap-her-because-he-…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:45 AM
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Yeah. The go to I see aimed at pro life women from leftists is "I hope you get raped, then you'll see how important abortion is. You'll be begging for one then." Absolutely vile behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:43 PM
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They always were. Some are just going mask off lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:03 PM
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Also hello again! I just came across you in PCM too. Commented in your thread. Small world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:42 PM
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Same obviously. I'm saying it makes sense to be prejudiced against communists and pedophiles. It does not make sense to be prejudiced against men or a specific race of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:21 PM
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It's a choice to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:14 PM
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Those are choices. Being born a certain race or biological sex is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:13 PM
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I have. They are fine with fully gay men because they aren't in their dating pool. They are even fine with bisexual men as long as they too, stay out of their dating pool. But the moment they find out a guy they are dating or interested in is bi, particularly if he has bottomed for other men. Then it becomes "I just can't see him as masculine anymore." There isn't anything bigoted about sexual preference, obviously. But the reason why women reject bisexual men is steeped in bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:55 PM
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This is true. I was watching one of those street interview channels on YT. This one was in London, which is basically the San Francisco of the UK in terms of progressivism. They were going around asking young couples their gender identity, and sexual orientation. Not even kidding, basically every single white woman said they were non-binary, and many gave neo pronouns, claimed to be bisexual or just the very non descript "queer" etc. All of them were dating tall, attractive white guys. When the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:25 AM
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Only in a victimocracy. Unfortunately that is exactly what the anglosphere is right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:47 PM
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There's a reason 'Stormfront or SJW?' is a thing. Dehumanisation is not solely an actor of the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:00 PM
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Yeah. You're talking about the bigotry of low expectations. Then there's the bigotry, outright racism and slurs directed towards "minorities" that don't vote correctly. The open bigotry towards groups they deem to be "oppressors" or privileged etc. The bigotry on the left takes many forms, but it is most certainly there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:34 PM
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The very idea of bigotry is inherently subjective. The idea is that it's an unreasonable distrust or disdain for a certain group, or groups. Unreasonable is going to be different for each person. It's essentially an opinion. If a certain group is inherently more likely to mug others, and this is scientifically proven, it's still going to come down to people's opinions on whether your distrust of said group is reasonable or not. This is the basis for many IRL cases that happen right now in the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:44 PM
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I think it's about equal between men and women. Women ARE more prone to social contagion. So whatever the political or social doctrine of the time is, women are far more likely to conform to said doctrine. The social contagion thing is interesting, because I think it leads to women being bigoted in socially acceptable, or even encouraged ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:04 PM
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Right. But just because that isn't what people mean by bigotry doesn't make it NOT bigotry. That's the point. Many of the people you are talking about, the "I'm a woman on the left so of COURSE I can't be bigoted" types. Are, in fact, bigoted. Socially approved or encouraged bigotry is still bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:55 PM
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They also do this with fat women. It's become a meme, but that's because there's truth in it. For all the women all over the Internet praising Lizzo as a queen and saying she's gorgeous etc. Tell those same women that they look like Lizzo and they do NOT take it as a compliment. This is why virtue signalling is not proof of virtue. It's entirely superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:51 PM
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It’s EXTREMELY taboo now to be bigoted racially in any way. This is highly dependant on who you are and who the target of your racial bigotry is. The idea that any significant percentage of young western female would be “bigoted” and risk their reputation is laughable. The only girls who are brave enough to have non-media approved opinions You say this like media approved opinions aren't or cannot be themselves bigoted. Which many are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:28 PM
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No. I'm just saying the left is every bit as bigoted as the right is. Its only the targets of their bigotry that is different. The left is more weasle-y with their bigotry by arguing that they are "punching up" and other such nonsense. Or by arguing that you CAN'T be bigoted to certain groups, which is highly convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:15 PM
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You think there's no bigotry on the left? Lol. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:08 PM
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The bluest women espouse the deepest red pills all the time on here. Then immediately deny it and attempt to gaslight you even as you repeat their own words back to them. It's actually fascinating and deserves to be studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:56 PM
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Yup. Halo effect for handsome guys. Devil horns effect for ugly guys. This is not surprising in the least. People assign positive qualities to people they find attractive and negative qualities to people they find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:50 PM
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Fair enough. As for myself, I don't want a virgin. I just don't want a promiscuous woman. I find promiscuity in general gross. Not just promiscuous women. I find promiscuous men to be disgusting as well. The difference is, I'm not trying to build a life and have have a relationship and possibly have kids with a man. I only ever receive push back and insults for saying I find promiscuous women off-putting however. Nobody bats an eye when I say manwhores are gross, which is interesting. I wish you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:58 AM
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I meant in the sense that it doesn't make men who still wouldn't be getting laid any happier. Women select the same few percentages of guys for hookups. So the logic that everybody would be happier if society destigmatised women sleeping around is false. Promiscuous women might be happier, that's about it. As for finding a guy that doesn't care about N count. It's never gonna be a sure thing right? Lots of men that care lie and say they don't because they don't want to lose their opportunity to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:49 AM
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Well, yeah of course it applies to men too. Promiscuity is bad across the board. If you read through PPD for long enough you'll see most women don't want to date a high N man either. The only difference is, other women don't get their knickers in a twist and call them insecure losers for it. They just reserve the namecalling for when men say THEY want a low N partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:10 AM
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For relationships? Sure. Most men care about it. For hookups and STRs he doesn't. With women he has no intention of committing to it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:07 AM
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"If men stopped shaming women about N count. We would be able to have more casual sex and more men would be able to get validation and it would make everybody a lot happier." Just saw words to this affect in one of the main threads. Lmao. No it would not make "everybody" happier. Chad having even more casual sex than he already is, does nothing for all the other men. Certainly not the men who care about N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:57 AM
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And a little place called PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:41 AM
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Lmao. Sounds like she just wanted somebody to weed her garden for her without her needing to pay a professional to do it. Doing it under the guise of a date is pretty clever and sneaky. The guy should suggest a 2nd date at his house as he needs his laundry doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:38 AM
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It's a case by case basis imo. Some women I've been on dates with have said they admire me for not having Instagram or twitter or Facebook and they would do the same if it wasn't essential (they weren't addicted). Then I've had others think it's weird and say stuff like "why wouldn't you want to update people on your life unless you have something to hide?" I'm like "calm down fed, most people I know wouldn't give a shit about my day to day goings on and I'm not so self important to assume they …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:48 PM
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Another Brit here and can confirm. The only people at school who were meaner to loner nerdy boys than the popular guys that bullied and ostracised them, were the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:26 AM
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Yeah, exactly this. Popular girls bullied the loner nerdy guys just as much as the popular guys did. The geekier girls didn't get involved at all. PPD women make up something ludicrous that goes against basic reality and almost everybody's lived experience daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:59 AM
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Again. Depends on the setting. The good looking guy will have more success at the house party, sure. There the musician is just another guy. The band member will have more success at one of his gigs. His status there infinitely outstrips the good looking guy. So I disagree. A good looking guy won't ALWAYS outcompete a guy with higher status. It's contextual. And to be clear, I am by no means underestimating the value of looks. I think the one thing black pillers are correct about is that your lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:51 PM
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This is why I said setting is important. Those musicians would not have had been getting laid like tile if they had been out busking in the street. And yeah, I never said the talent itself is what is attractive, hence why being good at gaming doesn't raise your status. It is simply one of many ways you can raise your status, depending on the thing you show competence in and the setting. I don’t like status because it’s seeming hard to define and even harder to actually work on. If you instead fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:59 AM
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Depends on the setting. I'd say the most universal way is through competence or talent. I've seen penniless, average looking musicians captivate the room in bars and clubs with their playing/singing and being crowded by women after the show. It's also important to note that you must be competent at something which women find to be worthwhile or otherwise useful. Being competent at League of Legends isn't going to help no matter how good you are. Of course, looks and wealth can also be used to ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:53 AM
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Truthpill is status > looks > wealth > game
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:09 AM
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Big Thomas Hobbes fan I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:09 AM
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You know whether someone is trustworthy after some time has passed, but people immediately rate based on what they are attracted to. They are willing to overlook the lack of trustworthiness (and bad behavior) to a huge degree if they are attracted to you. Kind of disagree. Again, people don't overlook a lack of trustworthiness if you are attractive, the exception being if they already know you and are already aware that aren't trustworthy. If you are attractive people will assume that you are wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:41 AM
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Yeah, I'm adding to your message. Your two points aren't separate. They are linked. You said women either don't consider you attractive OR they don't consider you trustworthy enough. I'm saying that one stems from the other. If you are attractive enough, women (and men) will project trustworthiness onto you whether you are or aren't. If you are ugly you have to prove said trustworthiness, but even if you do it doesn't mean a woman will be intimate with you. Trustworthy ugly men are often put in …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:15 AM
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Being trustworthy plays into being attractive. Halo effect is a thing. People project positive qualities onto people they find attractive, and assign negative qualities to people they find physically unappealing. This thread would be more useful if you'd just said "if you aren't attractive you have to work harder to get women to be intimate with you." But then, everybody already knows that which makes it kind of pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:06 AM
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Be careful with these common sense takes. They aren't popular round these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:02 PM
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PPD women try not to defend false rape accusers challenge. Impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:44 PM
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Of course I think every single accusation should be investigated thoroughly. Every accusation taken completely seriously. That is not the same thing as believe women or believe all women. That is more, investigate but verify. Believe women leads to shit like this https://www.ibtimes.sg/pennsylvania-woman-lied-about-man-attempting-rape-kidnap-her-because-he-looked-creepy-gets-him-74660 Where an woman accused a guy of rape and kidnapping because she thought he looked creepy. He was sent to jail fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:29 PM
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Rough estimate that is "believe all women is sound logic" and 'only 2% of rape accusations are false accusers" which is using the EXACT same data that you use to say rape is under prosecuted. The exact same shitty investigating. It's laughable and completely devoid of logic. If rapes are being under prosecuted due to shitty investigating then false accusations are absolutely also being under prosecuted due to the exact same shitty investigating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:15 PM
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This is a deliberate tactic they use. Around 2 or 3% of all rape accusations result in there being a false accusations proven. Around 5% of rape convictions result in there being a conviction and an actual rape proven. Over 90% of cases are thrown out by the police or the courts due to a lack of evidence. Feminists will always mention how rape is under prosecuted, and they use the 5% statistic as their evidence for that. But then they turn around and use the statistics of convicted false accuser…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:05 PM
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Even calling it a wage gap is disingenuous. It's an earnings gap. Paying people differently for the exact same work is illegal. Men take different, higher paying jobs, take more overtime, less leave etc. No shit on average they earn more on aggregate than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:55 PM
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This logic doesn't fly. Only like 5% of rape accusations result in an actual conviction. That leaves over 90% of cases that are thrown out due to a lack of evidence. So are we assuming that every single false accuser gets caught and almost no actual rapists get caught? Are all of those cases that are thrown out rapists that got away with it? None of them are false accusers that got away with it? Saying only 2% of cases are false accusations is just as absurd as saying only the 5% that result in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:45 PM
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My most downvoted PPD post back in the day was in a thread about this topic. I said women who come forward with allegations should be taken seriously and it should be looked into but they shouldn't be automatically believed. Not sure which side of the debate I pissed off. Maybe both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:35 PM
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Yup. Same with approaching. Cold approach vs the slow "friends first" approach. If you are the kind of guy that has to ask for advice on how/which way to approach women, then unfortunately, the answer is likely to be neither for you. Both are acceptable if you are attractive Neither are acceptable if you are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:56 PM
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I don't think we disagree, at least not entirely. Of course being hot is the trump card. If you are hot it doesn't matter if you are nice or not. What I'm saying (and what the data shows is) if a man finds 2 women equally attractive, he will choose the one who is nicer. When a woman finds 2 men equally attractive, she will choose the man who is less nice. Less agreeable, more socially domineering, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:43 PM
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Are you okay? Where the hell did I say most men are assholes that mistreat women? Are you having hallucinations? You taking your meds?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:23 PM
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What you or I think of men has nothing to do with it. It's been found that that men who do not display "benevolent sexism" but rather treat women equally to their fellow man, are perceived by women to be more sexist, less supportive of female professionals, less of a good father and husband and more likely to perpetuate domestic violence. Ratings of men with low benevolent sexism are considered equal to men with a high amount of hostile sexism. The implication is this, that most people have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:52 PM
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Also, the tall rich handsome nerd (he watches a mainstream Marvel movie occasionally).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:44 AM
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When men treat women the same way they treat other men, women think the guy is being hostile, sexist and degrading. Women really don't want men to treat them the way they treat other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:41 AM
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Also, and this is something no woman would ever admit but is readily evident to everybody on the face of the planet. A part of masculinity that women find attractive requires men to kind of be assholes to lower value men. It's not just about a man being able to dominate her, it's even more important for a man to have the capacity to dominate (and if needed, enact violence upon) other men. This is why bullies are successful with women and bullying victims aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:26 PM
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I mean... why else do you think they post here? They found one of the only socially approved ways to bully people as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:20 PM
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This is false. Men absolutely DO care about how nice women are. Looks absolutely play a factor but all the date we have on this concludes that men like niceness over the opposite and women prefer a lack of niceness. Men care about niceness in a partner inversely with women. While niceness puts women off, men actually prefer nice women. https://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/263424760_Why_Do_Men_Prefer_Nice_Women_Ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:17 PM
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This. Women would sooner forgive cruelty than a moment of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:45 PM
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In the UK there was an epidemic of female prison guards all sleeping with, starting relationships with, and getting pregnant to male felons. To the point where some male prisons had to sack most of their female prison officers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:40 PM
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I've seen more women defend proven false accusers than I have men defending proven rapists tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:41 PM
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Women on PPD told me that grinding with guys in the club and having simulated sex via dry humping is not sexual. Nor is it cheating or a breach of trust if you do so with a guy that isn't your partner. Everything can be redefined so long as the result is women always come out on top and are unable to do anything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:42 PM
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This isn't strictly true. It holds for MOST in groups, but there are 2 notable exceptions. Men have an outgroup bias when it comes to biological sex. And white leftists are the only group that have an outgroup bias in regards to race.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:41 PM
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Oh women are extremely empathetic... to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:38 PM
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This. When I told PPD about my ex cheating on me seemingly out of the blue and running off to be the side chick of a married man, PPD women told me it was my fault. They said if they were her and they were still my gf after 5 years and not my fiancé or wife they would have done the same thing. Truly the empathetic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:36 PM
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Not really. Its using the same standards for women as OP is using for men. It brings the hypocrites out of the woodwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:20 PM
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It sure is. And I agreed its unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:07 PM
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Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:03 PM
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Sure and let's also agree that it's not ethical to go to a club as a woman in a relationship either. And in a club it isn't just looking, it's being hit on, getting drinks bought for you, dancing, grinding. All while being inebriated. The question for a non single woman should be, why are you at a place which is about being drunk and flirtatious with the opposite sex? Any woman who puts herself in this position simply doesn't respect her partner, and on the same token, don't use the "I just like…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:58 PM
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Yes. Most social issues discussed on PPD including this one can be boiled down to one simple sentence. Women want equal and special at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:07 AM
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There is no real difference between a cold or a warm approach in reality. It all depends on how attractive you are. Both are acceptable or neither are, depending on the man doing them. Cold approach as an attractive man- "I met this really cute guy at the gym/train station/wherever, we just got talking and really hit it off. We're going on a date next week." Cold approach as an unattractive man- "Ewww this weirdo just came up to me straight out of the blue and tried hitting on me. It was really …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:04 PM
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At the end of the day, your woman is going to get hit on. If she's anywhere even remotely average looking or above, she's going to get hit on fairly regularly. You likely aren't even aware of the vast majority of the times it happens. She gets hit on in person while she's out and about, she gets guys hitting on her in her DMs, she has people hitting on her more than you will ever know. One thing I've learned throughout my relationships and the relationships of my friends and people i am close to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:17 PM
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Well that's the paradox of the female fantasy. They want to tame the bad boy, only to lose interest should they ever succeed in taming him. Once he's tamed he's boring like the other guys, so she will find another bad boy to last after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:09 PM
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But only to her. If the hot jerk was nice to everyone she wouldn't find him interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:26 PM
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Yeesh. Whatever floats your boat my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:44 PM
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Would YOU approach any of the women here? Women on PPD =/= normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:31 PM
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Women here desperately want us all to believe we live in a patriarchy that exists to benefit men and doesn't take even women's legitimate accusations seriously. When in reality, our society is so heavily invested in protecting women, that men are pre-emptively punished based on a woman's word alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:31 PM
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I wouldn't hold my breath either. Every response under this post has been from a man. Women's silence about stuff like this speaks volumes. Yet every day we see some version of "why care about being called creepy? It doesn't affect anything" or "False allegations don't really happen, men are scared about stuff that they will never have to experience."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:23 PM
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And also attack her own grandmother and accuse you of being the one that did it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:55 AM
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Holy fuck, anybody else hear about the woman who made false accusations and got a guy put in prison for over 30 days just because she thought he looked creepy? And the best part is, the guy didn't even know her. Imagine, literally being put in jail because a woman found you so ugly your mere existence made her uncomfortable. https://www.ibtimes.sg/pennsylvania-woman-lied-about-man-attempting-rape-kidnap-her-because-he-looked-creepy-gets-him-74660 The societal power women hold is insane and extre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:51 AM
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Every sitcom is like that, whether it's about black or white people. Husband is a lazy fat idiot who is constantly checked by his younger, smarter, attractive wife. I don't know how people come out of watching them with the conclusion that they hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:54 PM
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Probably because a lot of the men that people claim hate women, actually don't. They are hurt and frustrated and lash out at women because they want nothing more than to be with them and accepted by them but can't for whatever reason. True hate is when you want to distance yourself from them entirely, like radfems for example. Who have proposed things like reducing the population of men by 90%, curfews for men to be allowed in public, engage in political lesbianism despite being straight because…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:21 PM
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As a man from a country where under the law men cannot be raped by women, but I can be accused of it at the drop of a hat. I have no doubt I understand consent far more than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:57 AM
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No it doesn't. It depends on the man and whether he decides he retracts his consent upon seeing her without makeup. You said it yourself at the end of your post. Even if the makeup is minimal and she looks basically the same but with less blemishes or whatever. If those blemishes mean the guy wouldn't have slept with her, congrats. Rape. If a woman lies about her N count and her true number is a dealbreaker for the guy. Rape. If a woman states she only dates men who are 6 foot and taller, and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:46 AM
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Cool. So by the same logic all men can now claim they have been raped by women who wear makeup. I would not have consented if I knew what she really looked like. She lied about her appearance, rape by deception. What fun playing games around the issue of consent is, people really should lay in the beds that they made after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:33 AM
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Sure. I never said Just world was unique to Blue Pill. I was disputing your point that the 'just world' hypothesis was not a part of the BP world view or BP arguments on here back in the day, when it absolutely was. It was the foundation of them in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:23 PM
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That's exactly what just world fallacy is though. All bullying uses some form of just world fallacy to justify itself. "People get what they deserve" is the core principle for all of it. If you are good you will have good outcomes in life, if you have bad outcomes in life that must mean its because YOU are bad, so therefore anything negative that happens to you is deserved. Balance is restored, the world is just. I'm not saying just world fallacy is unique to the Blue Pill, only that it was a ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:11 PM
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I don't know if the definitions of RP and BP have changed so much as the people that post here don't really ascribe to them anymore. This sub stopped being RP vs BP years ago and became more men vs women. This is due to people from a slew of banned subs migrating here. All the incels came here, MRAs came here, the FDS people and the TERFs/Radfems migrated here etc. Moderation is too heavy handed and very unevenly applied but that's also likely why the sub has survived all the admin purges that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:21 AM
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Here's your issue. You can't use logic to persuade somebody their belief is wrong, when that person didn't use logic to come to that belief to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:35 AM
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Yup. Similar to the similar TikTok trend where people were going around asking women "do we (as a society) need men?" and almost all of them say no. Men are useless, they do more bad than good, men are toxic etc. Then they mirrored it with them going around asking guys "do we need women?" and every guy was like yes, of course we need women. Women make life fun, make life worth living. Women complete us. Women are nice to look at. The complete opposite of what women said about men. We (people in …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:15 AM
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Male privilege and benefitting from the conspiracy that is patriarchy are basically original sin in those places.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:07 PM
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Well yeah, I don't have any sympathy for the ones that get angry at all men for the actions of a few, or just because nobody paid attention to them when they were fat. And no I didn't hang out with them, they treated me like crap when I was a geek. I hung out with the nice girls who were quiet, and personally I found those girls prettier anyway. Less makeup and no bad attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:06 PM
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I don't know why a lot of guys on the Internet are getting angry or upset by the 'man or bear' question. I think the whole thing is hilarious. It's exposing to normies to how unhinged and divorced from reality many people are. It's also shown me how it isn't just PPD women that don't understand how analogies work, it seems to be a lot of women in general. Someone on twitter said "10 people die from cyanide poisoning each year, 3000 from alcohol poisoning. Ill take the glass of cyanide every time…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:04 PM
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I'm a guy but I think it depends on how the guys treated them beforehand. Not paying attention to fat chicks is one thing, but being rude or mean and then being attracted and hitting on them when they lose weight would be insulting. I can kind of relate because although I was never fat, growing up I was very nerdy looking, and my head hadn't grown into my ears yet. I had a big glow up around 17 or so and a bunch of the mean girls from my school and college all of a sudden wanted to hang out and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:46 PM
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When will this strawman die? I've been posting here for years and I've never once seen anybody here advocate for women to be forced to date men they arent attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:52 PM
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Fair enough. Most of the answers you are getting so far aren't answering your question anyway. They are saying what they think men would ask, not what they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:24 PM
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Half the Q4W posts in this sub should be questions for men. If you want to know what men would ask why not just ask men? Ohhhhh, because what you actually want is for the PPD kweens to strawman men with the goal of dunking on them. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:17 PM
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They arent trying to help the lonely guys out in the first place. They try to help the sex workers make a quick buck. You ever notice most AWFLs are against men using sex workers or watching them, or paying for them, but they are all incredibly pro sex work? Same disconnect. Women using sex to make money = good. Men actually paying those sex workers = bad and makes him undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:45 PM
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This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:22 PM
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"You can't just say feminists hate men, there are different kinds of feminism and we all believe different things." Radfems/TERFs - "Men are the problem." Lib/Intersectional fems- "Straight, cis, white men are the problem."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:28 PM
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Your assumptions are well founded. You are way less likely to get a call back if your recruiter is a woman and you aren't one. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0165176519303428
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:16 PM
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Well thats the point isn't it? If the KKK had a syndicated television show where they yelled racial slurs for an hour do you think the majority of say, white people would be in here defending or minimalising it? Probably not, yet that's the majority of the comments in here. The problem OP has isn't The View itself. Its that our society has become so toxic and misandric that shows like The View are able to air the views that they do with no real pushback, and actively garners defense and deflecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:14 PM
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Welcome to PPD women. This is 100% of their posts here. Belittling comments, ad homenims, concern trolling, and dismissive sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:56 PM
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Smart and acts like a smartass is bad. Dumb but acts like a smartass is even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:49 PM
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None. I don't do the casual sex thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:42 AM
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It has nothing to do with women thinking men enjoy it. Women are the ones who enjoy and are turned on by it. I am painfully vanilla compared to every single woman I've ever been with. I'm over the moon with regular foreplay and sex, getting to look at her and see her body. Every woman I have ever been with has been into some sort of submission/degradation/pain fetish. The most vanilla women I've been with were into spanking, choking, hair pulling and very rough sex at the very minimum. Then on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:01 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me. Women truly do have a superpower. How they can take a scenario, where women are willingly using mens feelings for them to extract favours and resources for their own benefit, to go and engage in something they know would kill these men inside if they knew, and turn the women into a victim. Truly amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:19 AM
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You could say the same about the women. They knew these guys had feelings for them, if they didn't, they would have been honest and said "drive me to my dick appointment" instead of lying about who they were going to see. So these women were well aware of what the orbiters were hoping for, and kept them around because they were useful, paid for things and drove them around like a personal chauffeur. Also, you can be a genuine friend to somebody that you have romantic feelings for, it isn't nefar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:02 AM
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I don't know what they told other people. I just know what my friend told me and what some of the girls themselves said about the guys. They were regular orbiters. Plying the girls with favours and niceties and friendship in the hopes that they would eventually see what great guys they were and fall for them. I doubt any of them would have willingly drove them to my friend's apartment if they were aware they were taking them to have NSA sex with a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:11 PM
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Could you elaborate? Which guys? The orbiters? I didnt know them personally. I only knew my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:59 PM
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Yeah, I used to hang out with a guy I would unironically describe as a Chad. (past tense since our mutual friend group ditched him after he slept with my best friends' gf at the time). He used to have girls go over to his place. Some of these girls would have their beta orbiter who they told they were going to see a friend, drive them there, have him fuck them, then have the beta orbiters come pick them back up afterwards. Callous. This kind of shit is why I tell guys not to simp for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:12 PM
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Because they DO care. They just don't specifically care about him having a high N count on its own, because that in turn is something they don't want to be judged on and they don't want to be a hypocrite about it. However, if he acquired his N count in an unconventional way, like seeing 15 sex workers, or he is bi and 7 or 8 of his sexual partners were other men, then all of a sudden we start having a problem. His N count also matters if it's too low. People saying peoples sexual history doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:57 PM
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With my ex, it wasn't because she had already found the answer. She just wanted to vent for venting's sake. It was more important for her that I listened because it showed (to her) that I cared. To me it went against every single instinct as a partner. I wanted whatever was happening to cause her distress or grief to stop ASAP, so offering solutions was my way of showing I cared. But feelings don't care about what is logical, offering solutions frustrated her and made her upset. What I actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:47 PM
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Hear this a lot but ime it doesn't tend to play out all that much. Ask a room full of women what they rate themselves and every other woman in the room and you will get a chorus of "10" echoed back at you. Ask a room full of men and there will be mixed answers, low ratings and hurt feelings. I'm aware the replies to this will be "This isn't because women are delusional it's because we have social nause and know not to hurt people's feelings to their faces" but you see this play out online as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:20 AM
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Not one bit. Natural >>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:05 AM
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Unpopular post with hypocrites incoming. If sex and intimate relationships aren't a need, and lonely men should just accept their lot in life and go without. Then the women that say this should stop arguing that access to abortion should be legal and/or a human right. The fuck it should. Sex isn't a need right? If you don't want to get pregnant then just don't have sex. It's as easy as that. And the thing is, in this scenario women would STILL have it better than those lonely men. Because women …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:12 PM
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There are other jobs than the hard dirty, dangerous ones nobody wants to do. They will just take easier, lower paying work that doesn't keep society running without a hitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:30 PM
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Does this go for abortion too then? Sex isn't a need right? So if you don't want to get pregnant just don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:29 PM
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I would say for the vast majority of all men throughout history, "no" is true here. However, I think if you look back through history, various sultans, kings and such were an example of unshackled male sexuality. Multiple wives, concubines and other lovers at their beck and call. I think we generally recognise however, that unshackled male sexuality is bad for women, the majority of men, and more importantly, bad for society which is why we have always suppressed it. We USED to recognise that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:16 PM
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This shouldn't be surprising for anybody who has read any of the studies showing unattractive people cheat more than attractive people do. Looks are genetic as well and looks are a factor in how likely a man or woman is to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:03 PM
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You don't even have to be married. Interest in me from women goes way up when I'm in a relationship and they become aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:44 AM
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My long term gf of 5 years left me to be the side chick of a married man. Taken men have always been more attractive to women. Preselection is a thing. And there have been studies showing women find pictures of the exact same man MORE attractive when he is pictured in close proximity to a girlfriend or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:40 AM
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They want you to stop having a sexual desire or motive that pertains to them. They don't want the benefits that you having a sexual desire or motive towards women to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:47 AM
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If you don't like playing a skewed game then you might be laying off dating for more than a while. The whole thing is skewed. Not just fitness. You gotta be making good money just to have a chance with broke women. If you're looking for an even playing field then trying to date women is going to be a lesson in frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:01 PM
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Both of those people are highly unlikely to exist. A woman with 25 bodies is not likely to have been exclusively with saints, nor is even likely to be mentally stable herself. A woman who has been with 5 guys and all of them being stalkers and criminals is only slightly more likely, but again, women who exclusively date those types of guy generally have something going wrong mentally themselves. Why you'd take either is the real question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:00 PM
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Because a lot of women genuinely feel like they have been wronged or victimised when an ugly man dares to exist within her vicinity. I've told this story before on here, but one time I was hanging out with my ex and a bunch of her friends, we had sat down at a table in the bar and were just hanging out. A guy came over and asked to borrow a spare chair from our table so he could go and sit with his own friend group. He was clearly socially awkward, anxious, stuttered over his words and blinked a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:03 PM
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Yup. The halo effect is universally true and has been documented as something both men and women engage in. Both men and women treat good looking people better than unattractive people, and it's not restricted to just the opposite gender either, this even holds true for their own. Men treat good looking men better and women treat good looking women better. I think the main difference here is that men are generally more honest about it. Men admit they will put up with shitty behaviour from hot ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:32 PM
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I said "by trying to paint ugly or socially awkward men as dangerous or creepy". The two are separate. Though you can't deny creepy has always carried connotations of danger, unease, and deviance when used against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:21 PM
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Women have every right to have an ick at any men they choose for whatever reason they choose. The issue is them masking that ick reflex as a danger detector, and the problems it causes is twofold. Firstly, by trying to paint ugly or socially awkward men as dangerous or creepy or otherwise nefarious, it harms these men's already low status and prospects, not only in dating, but also in every day life. If you fit the profile, or behaviour of the type of man that women are always calling creepy, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:05 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself. She just knows the awkward bumbling loser is a raging misogynist but the fuckboy who has slept with half the town is secretly hiding a heart of gold. Their creep detector isn't broken, it just isn't a creep detector and never was. Women lie about this constantly. It's a visceral ick response to low status, ugly, socially inept or otherwise low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:01 PM
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Just don't compete for a woman. It isn't worth it. SHE invariably isn't worth it either. Also, ironically enough, if 2 men are vying for her attention, a woman is always drawn to the guy that cares less, so by taking yourself out of the equation and not caring you are more likely to end up with her anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:55 PM
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It was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:18 AM
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So when are we changing the sub name to BluePillNoDebate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:44 PM
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This is what happens when you deliberately select for an all female/simp mod team.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:22 PM
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My sister has for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:56 AM
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Its a reddit thing man. I've seen capitalism being blamed for just about everything on this weird website.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:55 AM
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That just means more N count threads and discussion in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:09 PM
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Aragon (The Lord of the Rings) Oh Dae Su (Oldboy) Dr Ian Malcolm (Jurassic Park - 1st film only) Mark Corrigan (Peep Show) Hawkeye (The Last of the Mohicans)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:18 PM
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We are friends now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:29 PM
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Can't name a top 5 because its always in flux for me, but I have to give a shout out to Kingdom Come: Deliverance. Probably the most immersive rpg I've ever played.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:12 PM
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No. "Wage gap" is an earnings gap It is illegal to pay two people different wages for the exact same work. Men earn more than women when taken as an overall aggregate because they take higher paying jobs, work more overtime, take less time off etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:52 PM
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Commies BTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:29 PM
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8 in looks 5 in money 2 in personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:03 PM
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The issue isn't that "flirting doesn't always mean I'm trying to escalate" The issue is that men on PPD are constantly being told by the women here that cold approaching is bad and you shouldn't approach a woman under any circumstance UNLESS she flirts or gives other IOIs. But also don't try to escalate even if she does flirt because she's just flirting to have fun, fuck the fact that she's deliberately toying with your emotions. I know the copy and paste response will be "just don't be autistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:51 PM
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"Lol, just because I flirt with people I have zero interest in doesn't mean I'm leading them on." Do people just have no self awareness anymore or are we being trolled?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:35 PM
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Germany is bad at a lot of things. They are pretty much the ground zero.of terrible ideologies. Nazism, Marxism, Postmodernism, Protestantism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:37 AM
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Tankie empathy moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:24 AM
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Humans are conditioned to get tired when they see signs of aggression?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:00 AM
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I like how some people on here post and then reply to their own shit and converse with themself and people just ignore it or act like its completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:00 AM
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Onlyfans. There's even a theory that these "red pill" podcasts are actually just schemes to signal boost and advertise these women's onlyfans accounts. This is because this was exactly what the popular twitter account "Onlyfans girls posting their Ls" was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:48 PM
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Trolls. Never read Three Billy Goats Gruff as a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:40 PM
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Don't feed creatures that live under bridges.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:38 PM
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Lmao. You took out the part of the post that explains why I care, then ask why I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:32 PM
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Oh hey. I'm vent 2. Do you realise that my "vent" is not about women dating assholes right? Its about people like YOU who see men who are frustrated by that and use mental gymnastics to argue that their frustration and the way they express it makes these men WORSE than the assholes and bullies and deserve to be unhappy because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:15 PM
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I agree, you can only change yourself and maybe a few select people you are close to who truly value what you think and have to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:03 PM
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Both women and men treat men worse than they treat women. Women have an in-group bias when it comes to biological sex and men have an out-group bias. So while you aren't wrong, women also need to stop being assholes to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:56 PM
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This. So many women are used to being treated preferentially by both men and other women that when they are treated or talked to the same way as a man would be, they mistake it for misogyny, mistreatment and even abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:23 PM
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Nah. Simps are a blight on this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:34 PM
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It's generally a response to women going "Haha you can't get laid, neckbeard, I can" no? Like "Big deal you can get laid, guys will fuck anything it doesn't mean you're special or even desirable." It comes from women being unable to frame an argument beyond denying men they don't like the use of their holes while claiming other men want to use their holes. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:06 PM
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Every generation thinks it invented everything. Forget sex, every generation thinks they have mastered politics, economics, socionomics. They think they can "fix" society and correct where every previous generation was mistaken. Every generation thinks they are the ones that will bring about utopia. Basically the young and dumb are also smug and self righteous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:45 PM
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It really doesn't. Confidence doesn't grow in a vacuum, it's based on positive affirmations and results. A guy who is happy approaching despite never having any semblance of success is either severely neurodivergent to the point where he is unable to comprehend what's going wrong, or he's totally delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:59 PM
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Tbf I see a lot of guys here with that mindset as well. So many dudes here think "after 1000 rejections you stop caring and it makes approaching easier, because you aren't invested in the outcome anymore." It's like, nah. A guy who is 0-1000 is going a to be a mental wreck with his confidence truly shattered in every respect. To be anything else at that point is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:52 PM
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I think it's like... because it's their idea, they get to have the illusion of control That sounds a lot like they're huffing copium. It reminds me of all the prog men writing articles in the mid 2010s about why women should be allowed to open up the relationship on their end. The point of them was to promote allowing women in relationships to sleep around, but most of them were the house husbands trying and failing to rationalise why it's a good thing despite it making them so unhappy. They all…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:37 PM
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Same. There are a bunch of fetishes I don't get (like foot stuff, feet really gross me out) but being a cuck has to be the top of the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:32 PM
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Male empowerment is about how to better yourself. How to improve and become great. The hero's story. Female empowerment is you are perfect exactly as you are, and it's the world's job to recognise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:11 PM
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I personally think they are bait for a certain specific poster who will take it at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:52 PM
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But nobody gets angry, I'm just confused as to what the purpose behind these posts are. Who are they supposed to make angry? Actual incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:47 PM
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"Bro I only slayed 5 times this week. Didn't fuck at all on Tuesday or Thursday. And one of them was a double dip! So it was only 4 women. God damn I hate being an incel." I can't tell if these kinds of posts are legit mental patients or a seriously weird attempt to humble brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:44 PM
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Then you might be a sex addict. "I get sex once a week" and calling yourself a semi incel, trying to compare your experience to people who are completely starved of any kind of intimacy. Again, respectfully sir, get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:40 PM
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Semi inceldom is not sleeping with 3 different women in the span of a month. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:37 PM
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Women are actually the primary abusers in straight relationships where there is non reciprocal domestic violence as well, so I don't think it's the lack of fear due to lesser strength. Most relationships with DV are ones where the violence is reciprocal, as in both people in the relationship both abuse and are abused. But in relationships where only one partner abuses the other, women make up the majority of the people that are the abuser in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:15 PM
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Unattractive men being interested in a woman are one of two things. Invisible or an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:01 PM
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Ehhhh. I have a sister, it never really helped with talking to other girls. I get what you mean though. It's similar in the sense that you don't see your sister in the same light as the girls you'd like to date, just as you don't with the tomboy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:59 PM
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According to you there are only two genders. Women and strawmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:48 PM
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I think a lot of guys need a tomboy friend at school. I (somewhat) got over my crippling fear of talking to girls by hanging out with girls who were "one of the guys" so to speak. Now that nobody goes anywhere and spend all their time on the Internet though, AI might be a more realistic option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:46 PM
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The thing you have to realise is women will never be blunt as a first option. Women in general always want to be seen as virtuous. She is never going to outright say "all the men around me are beneath me". She is going to say she can't find a date. It's like when women say they want a guy "exactly like you". She means a guy who is hot that is as nice to her as you are, but actually saying that would be callous. So she says she wants somebody exactly like you, but not you because you are like a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:30 PM
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"Cant find a date" for a woman means can't find somebody she likes. Not that nobody is interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:17 PM
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Yes. Most 'Nice Guy' frustration doesn't come from "Why do women date men who are assholes to them" It often means "Why do women claim to like nice guys but date bullies who are assholes to ME".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:09 PM
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Because it's bougie. No substance but still expensive. Caviar is small and there's nothing to it but it's expensive as hell because it's "high class". Some women will order the most frivolous, expensive shit as a shit test just to see if the guy will start sweating. This is why the coffee date is a hot topic right now. Coffee date weeds out this kind of shit right off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:38 AM
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Yeah they aren't forever alone because they have no suitors. Its because they won't go near their male equivalents with a 10 foot pole. A bunch of the old femcel subs went private because they were being inundated by incels asking them out on dates. Incels saw them and thought "Wow they're the female versions of US, we should date each other!" And the femcels were like "nawww, we forever alone because we look like Harvey Weinstien in a dress, but we're still holding out for Brad Pitt."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:00 PM
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Or congratu-fuckin'-lations in a heavy New York accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:49 PM
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OK yeah thats odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:56 PM
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22.78% of men aged 18-24 reporting having had 3 sexual partners vs 0.49% for women This is just more of what we already know. Women are sharing the same guys, whether they know it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:54 PM
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The slew of downvotes tells me the braindead leftoids have found my equality of opportunity good, generational collective revenge bad posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:46 AM
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1.Toby Everybody else sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:42 AM
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Blue pilled rhetoric and reality don't belong in the same sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:38 AM
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Holy shit. Actual genuine blue pill rhetoric making a return on PPD? There's a thread right now attempting to explain that your looks and lack of status and wealth aren't what holds people back. Its just your personality duh! This is the first genuine blue pilled OP I've seen in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:35 PM
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Those are the female version of the dumbasses saying “I don't love sluts, but I just fuck them”. In both cases, it's low quality You're aware this was YOUR argument no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:26 PM
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I saw one "new ick unlocked" video where it was just her husband playing with their daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:13 PM
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How is it NOT disenfranchising people? Telling people "no, higher education is closed off to you even though you surpassed the qualification standards because your ancestors had it good in the past" is straight up discrimination based on race, or sex. Educational institutions support AA because they support everything collectivist. They are lost at this point. I know they want to correct disenfranchisement. I'm not saying their goal is wrong, I'm saying their solution is wrong. It will breed mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:10 PM
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Holy fuck, imagine disenfranchising people and telling them its a good thing and that they shouldn't feel resentment over it. No. Discriminating against people now to make up for other discrimination is supporting the original discrimination. Discriminating against people who didn't DO the discriminating by the way. You correct discrimination by levelling the playing field for everybody going forward. Everybody deserves the same opportunity, not the same outcome. It isn't correction, it's reveng…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:00 PM
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Preaching to the choir. I just want to see the hamster do it's thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:50 PM
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Cool. How does that change the argument though? How does discriminating against a group of people to make up for the discrimination against another group of people solve the issue of discrimination? You are just fueling future resentment of the people you are discriminating against now, then others will have to he discriminated against to make up for their discrimination. And it goes on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:48 PM
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Its weird that your argument is "men fuck sluts therefore men love sluts" But when applied to bad boys your argument was "just because all women try out and fuck bad boys doesn't mean women love bad boys." Pick a damn hand already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:47 PM
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Probably because you don't correct for past discrimination with more discrimination. Just like you don't solve racism with more racism. If your goal is to end the cycle, you don't keep the cycle going.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:44 PM
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Just a reminder: Guys who truly find sluts to be disgusting never give hoes a second of their time. Hey look it's me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:26 PM
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Oh no you've caught the ire of the local tankie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:21 PM
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You are expecting coherence from people that think Pewdiepie is a fascist. But people in NY proudly flying swastika flags and chanting "Gas the Jews " aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:59 PM
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Poorest for the fiscal lefoids. Least white, cisgendered, straight or male for the social leftoids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:54 PM
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I saw a leftist on PCM attempt to address this. His argument was essentially "I don't care that they disagree with my lifestyle because I value human lives over petty disagreements." Everybody responded with things like "Cool, but they don't." And "What about raping women and murdering infants is pro human life?" Or they just memed him by saying things like "I support murderers of homosexuals because I value human life" He had no answers and ducked out of his own thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:51 PM
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It does sound too nuts to be true, but people's delusions run deep, especially in cases where its to convince themselves they aren't a bad person. I see it all the time with people who claim to be vegetarians because they don't like cruelty to animals but they eat fish or chicken. I'm like "You're not a vegetarian you literally eat the flesh of animals" And they say stuff like "Fish aren't the same they don't have feelings."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:06 PM
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Of course its TwoX lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:49 PM
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This can't be real surely? I've seen women on PPD try to argue that grinding with random dudes in clubs isn't sexual but not that fucking another guy isn't cheating if he wears a rubber.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:46 PM
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You'll notice I never mentioned looks. Social nous is a large part of women finding a man attractive. But this is largely irrelevant as it doesn't change the overall point. Women are not lying when they say they don't like cold approaching as a concept, but as with most everything else, it isn't the behaviour they don't like so much as most of the men doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:20 PM
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Again. Women do not register your cold approach as a cold approach if she is attracted to you. Woman "Do not cold approach women, it's inappropriate, we have shit to do just let us get on with our day harassment free." Okay how did you meet your boyfriend? "We just got talking at the gym". Just got talking eh? Who came over and said something first? "He did." So he cold approached you? "NO!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:00 PM
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You are looking at it from a male perspective. Bare in mind women find 80% of men unattractive. The men who are matching with your catfish experiment that you see as "decent." Women are matching with those same guys and going "ewww why do all these hideous ghouls think they're worth my time?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:45 PM
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Correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:42 PM
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Hamas or Western white women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:41 PM
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I'm enjoying all the Western white women tacitly or blatantly approving of hamas and saying moronic shit like "this is what decolonisation looks like" I saw a video of some dumb Australian woman who said she knew the Aboriginals were coming for them too and when they do she will accept her fate because she deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:37 PM
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Is Density the fat version of Destiny?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:28 PM
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Yeah you'll do just fine with white trend hopping gen Z girls. Wishing you luck bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:26 PM
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People who are actually disgusted by sluts don't want to be around them and avoid them. Hey look this is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:24 PM
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Its current year bro. Just identify as Korean. Mental illness is trendy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:21 PM
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Is he Korean? If so then yes. All gen Z girls will likely be down bad for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:10 PM
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It's one of those things where your view changes depending on the point of view you're looking at it from. Guys who are extremely unsuccessful with women are going to call BS because they know damn well they get refused because they are ugly. They think that women would be down all the time if the guy is hot enough. Relatively successful men are able to see the truth in it. Anybody who has been in relationships with women knows that a lot of the time it doesn't come down to how sexy she finds yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:02 PM
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Thirsty dudes and simps will be the downfall of western civilisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:57 PM
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Women aren't saying that. Creep doesn't mean "men who are a danger to women" in womanspeak. It means awkward loser guys who have bad social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:55 PM
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Yes. I've seen both men and women get away with all sorts because they're attractive. My friend served as the only guy on jury duty and all the other jurors were women. A dude had beaten the shit out of an old man with an iron bar. The defendant had been trying to steal the old guy's car and when the car's owner tried to stop him from stealing it, the defendant put him in a coma. The women all declared him innocent because they all thought he was really hot. My friend was outvoted even though he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:05 PM
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What if he is? It's irrelevant though. That isn't why he's a player. He's a player because he's hot. There are chill guys who are fun to be around who are ugly too. These guys generally aren't forming soft harems with a rotation of women all sleeping with him. There are also guys who are not chill and fun to be around, but they sure are hot, and they are players too. Personality is at most a minor factor in being a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:56 PM
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It isn't rocket science. Women like hot men. They don't like ugly men. Both ugly men and hot men can be rapists. If it was all about safety then the safe ugly men would also get laid and shared around. Safe ugly men don't fuck. Both the safe and the dangerous hot men fuck. It's about being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:47 PM
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It isn't their ideal arrangement. People are saying they prefer being in a soft harem of a successful, highly attractive man than being in a committed loyal relationship with a broke ugly loser. Of course, they would PREFER to have Chad all to themselves, but they will take sharing him over many other scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:39 PM
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Haha. My girlfriend of 5 years left me to be the side hoe of a married Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:35 PM
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This is not a new thing whatsoever. Our ancestral gene pool is comprised of almost double the female dna than it is male dna. Whatever you want to call it, af/bb, 80/20 etc. Women have been either unknowingly or willingly sharing the top percentage of men since our species was in it's infancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:08 PM
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Yeah she's the kind of "fact checker" to deboonk that Hillary destroyed her laptop with a hammer because in actual fact she had an assistant do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:10 PM
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I got dumped and told by my long term partner that she was cheating on me with a married man on my birthday. I got you beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:07 PM
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Its exactly what you said here. People are speaking from the limited view they get from their own bubbles. Lonely, socially awkward guys who have almost entirely male hobbies and friends groups. These guys who are virgins and their entire friend groups are virgins are going to assume that this is a common occurance for young men. Popular guys and women, with mixed sex friend groups, are getting into relationships and seeing their peers have no issue doing the same. They are telling the group of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:56 PM
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When I was at secindary school/ 6th form college scene kids were all the rage. Bright colours, weird dyed hair and they all listened to My Chemical Romance, Fall Out Boy and Panic at the Disco.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:28 PM
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She will never understand the sheer hubris of saying Someone who makes my needs a priority while I'm taking care of the rest of life's chaos. Sure. It's totally reasonable to want a guy who has his own shit going on, his own work, household duties separate from your own, social life to deal with, and also not only does, but actively wants to put you and your wants and needs above his own. To take care of all your shit on top of his own. And you can bet, if he ever needs to vent or complain about…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:47 PM
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"The Patriarchy" is a conspiracy theory and never existed. Certainly doesn't exist today. It's essentially sin in a prominent non theist religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:37 PM
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"It's so freely available" Woman spotted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:50 PM
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Sex positivity is exactly like body positivity. In that it's just for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:48 PM
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I got a mod message saying don't block people on PPD the other day. Wtf? Nah Jannie you are not going to tell me that I have to put up with insufferable bad faith people. You don't get to tell me how I curate my own feed. Get back to sweeping the floor. Mods don't even follow their own rules here anyway. I was blocked by a jannie on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:25 AM
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Agreed. The primary purpose of marriage is and always has been the success of a couple's offspring. It was never about ensuring men's nor women's happiness. Though that is a noble goal and a very welcome bonus if it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:17 PM
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Let me know when all of western media starts subverting entertainment to protect men's egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:34 PM
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Women don't care about being judged by their looks as much as men do? Is this why all of Hollywood, gaming, comics, commercials etc is all about body positivity for women 24/7 and intentionally uglifies all its female characters to "subvert toxic beauty standards" while keeping all the male characters as muscular, super attractive hunks that have to become extremely unhealthy just to shoot top less scenes. Women handle being judged on appearance well? Are you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:27 PM
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Yup. Radfems hate all men, no matter what colour, shape or political affiliation they come in. Many are political lesbians and have taken measures to keep male interaction to an absolute minimum in their lives. Libfems are the ones who rage against gender norms but uphold them because it's what they are sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:20 PM
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Even if it does reach 50/50, it won't be something for men to look forward to. Women do not share their wealth with the men in their lives. They keep it for themselves, and they share it with their kids if they have any. Women being equal or primary breadwinners is not good news for men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:16 PM
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Yeah I don't think most men are trash either, hence the quotation marks. And yes a lot of women's dating woes are self imposed, but you also can't negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:58 PM
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Attractive women say dating is hard for them because they have to filter out the legions of "trash" that aren't worth their time. "High value" men are rare, the supply doesn't meet the demand. So dating is hard for attractive women sure, just in entirely different ways than it is hard for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:06 PM
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Her money, her choice. As long as I am allowed to spend whatever I want on things that I enjoy that add no benefit to my or her life too. Generally that's never been the case in any of my relationships in the past though. My money has always been "our money" so I can't spend money on stupid shit but her money is her money so she can do whatever she likes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:36 PM
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Men accrue wealth in order to provide for a woman and their future children. Women accrue wealth to be independent of men. Any man who's ever been in a relationship knows this. Your money is "our money". Her money is her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:21 AM
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Can't argue with any of that. Agreed on all points.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:20 PM
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That's true. Which is why I neither understand nor advocate for men here to be asking for women's permission to approach or thoughts on the ethicality of approaching women. Regardless of the answers or "advice" given to them, the options remain the same. Either shoot their shot and risk rejection or even wrath, or remain alone. Sitting around and waiting for love to fall into your lap only works in the movies. Asking permission from people who at best, don't have your best interest at heart, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:09 PM
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The "friends first" thing works the exact same way cold approaching does. If she thinks you are attractive she will think the best of you and project positive intentions onto you, she will assume the friendship to be true and assume stronger feelings developed naturally for you both. If she doesn't find you attractive she will project nefarious intentions onto you and believe you only pretended to be her friend to manipulate her and get into her pants. Both cold approaching and playing the long …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:56 PM
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What are you even talking about? A cold approach is any approach a man makes when he doesn't previously know the woman. That's it. It doesn't have to be a place where it isn't normal for a man to approach. Going up to a woman at a bar or a nightclub is still a cold approach. And no, that isn't the inkwell's definition. I got that from reading what women here write about cold approaches. They don't like them, full stop. Except that isn't how it works in reality. The cold approach isn't what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:45 AM
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What? No. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:22 AM
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That's the point. Women aren't lying when they say they don't like the idea of being cold approached. The thing is, if she finds you attractive she won't even register your cold approach as a cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:13 AM
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That's because there is no "right place" to approach. There isn't even a "right way" to approach. There is only the matter of whether you are the right guy or not. If she finds you attractive, any place, any time is acceptable to approach her. If she doesn't, there will never be a correct place or way to approach her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:12 AM
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Women don't even register "cold approaches" as a cold approach if they are attracted to you. Then it becomes "we just got talking and hit it off".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:09 AM
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I don't really understand why guys here ask women their opinion on approaching. It's like they are asking for permission to approach girls irl. You don't need the permission of random women on the Internet who do not and never will care about you or your success or happiness. If you follow the rules PPD women set out for men then you will certainly die alone, unhappy and regretful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:07 AM
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They incite visceral reactions because they're potentially damaging to your reputation whether or not they're true This is why "creep" is a go-to insult aimed at men by women. It not only implies all the usual stuff women insult men for 'turns women off', makes them 'feel uneasy' etc, but it also tarnishes his reputation with everybody else in the vicinity that happens to hear the insult. Ostracisation is a key part of insults. Children engage in this as early as preschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:13 AM
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Moved here cause the janniecels both suck and blow at the same time. It depends on what wins the argument. Women here will constantly say that they dress up and put makeup on for the validation of other women or for themselves. The argument conveniently switches up when they need to argue about "harmful" beauty standards then all of a sudden its because they are imposed upon them by men. They will claim they only shave their legs and pits because men expect it and having to do so is oppressive. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:52 PM
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No it isn't a new trend. Young women in every generation like feminine "progressive men" and switch and start liking more traditionally masculine men as they get older. KPop guys are just this generation's version of the feminine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:23 PM
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People who shouldn't be respected in any capacity online but somehow are, are a dime a dozen. Look at Hassan Piker, dude is an actual brainlet who could be out-debated by an average intelligence 11 year old. Yet he makes millions of dollars from people even dumber people than him who wait on his every word with baited breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:07 PM
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It's funny. The last time I was called a pearl clutcher on PPD was when I expressed concern that a self admitted child rapist was a moderator here telling us all that we were less moral people than him. Seems calling people pearl clutcher is for those that like telling on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:07 PM
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The Internet? Terrifying? Not at all. I think there are a lot of slimeballs who constantly let their true colours slip, but I'm not intimidated. It's words on a screen bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:00 PM
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Pearl clutching is someone who makes a public show of outrage about something most normal people don't consider a big deal. Of course, most normal people would consider a person castrating someone and destroying their genitals to be a big deal. So it says more about him than it does about the guy he's calling a pearl clutcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:53 PM
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She's definitely lived a full and interesting life. Wonder how it must feel knowing that quite a few of the most revered love songs of all time were written about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:24 PM
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Bill Weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:44 PM
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So did Clapton. Kind of the risk you take when you're dating drunken coked up rockstars with hoards of women lining up to sleep with them at every show.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:41 PM
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Looks like a Chad Bill Gates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:34 PM
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Yeah I just can't think of anyone else who has had two of the most famous musicians to ever live write so many songs about them. Harrison wrote Something, I Needed You, If I Needed Someone and a bunch of others about her. Clapton wrote Layla, Bell Bottom Blues, and Wonderful Tonight about her. For Clapton those 3 songs alone would probably all make his top 5 ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:31 PM
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The story of Patti Boyd is one of the strangest and most fascinating out there. Some of the best love songs of all time were written about and for her. She was George Harrison from the Beatles' wife and he wrote "Something" about her. A song Frank Sinatra called the greatest love song ever written. Eric Clapton, famed guitarist and George Harrison's best friend also fell in love with her when he used to hang at their house and write music together. He wrote "Layla" about her which is about falli…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:21 PM
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All breeds of feminism are the same at their core. Radfems- men are the problem Libfems- Cis, white men are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:56 PM
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Yeah I know. Men cheat more at every age range except for like 18-29 iirc. That's why it's odd to see every infidelity subreddit being over represented by women. It's worth noting that a lot of people in infidelity spaces are those who accessories to cheating, not necessarily the adulterer themself. It stands to reason that if more men are cheating then more women are going to be accessories to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:52 AM
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I just realised now that reads like a backhanded compliment but it wasn't supposed to be lol. I respect the shitposting too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:49 AM
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Yeah but sometimes when you aren't trolling you have some decent points so its always worth throwing something out there with you to see what you get back. Usually it will be sex jokes but there's the occasional gem in there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:38 AM
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It's more that men cheat knowing it's wrong. They don't care and do it anyway. Women are more neurotic so when they cheat or become an accessory to cheating, they seek out like-minded people to assure them that they're doing nothing wrong. That's like 90% of the posts on these adultery and infidelity subs. It's just women telling each other that they aren't the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:34 AM
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Told you all. i get downvoted for it every time but go on any infidelity subreddit and you'll see the ratio is like 80-20 in favour of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:28 AM
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after a lifetime of situations hips Lmao. What a meme. After spending her entire 20s riding the cock carousel, she hit her 30s and decided to give a guy she admits she wasnt attracted to a chance, made him wait months for sex. He gave up and moved on. Proof is right there in the pudding. Won't stop PPD women claiming women make you wait when they're REAAAAAALLLY into you and that they only make you wait because they don't want to ruin things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:08 PM
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No. It isn't. Marriage isn't an exchange where a man trades labour and resources for sex. Men can get sex without marriage. Traditional marriage, cohabitation and the nuclear family is and always has been for the benefit of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:43 PM
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Game being the be all and end all in dating. That everything you devote time to in life should be in pursuit of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:37 PM
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Having sex with your partner in order to have children or just for mutual pleasure is not sex work though. Unless the husband is directly giving his wife money return for sleeping with him it's explicitly not sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:37 PM
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I sell my body to my employer every day for 8 to 12 hours. By this one simple measure everybody woth a job is a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:31 PM
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It absolutely is. Status > Looks > Wealth >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Game (Sorry RPers but game doesn't mean shit without the other stuff)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:57 PM
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Yes. The good thing for most men is that status is relative. You are never going to be able to compete with world famous celebrities or athletes, but you don't need to. As long as you have decent status when compared with your peers you should do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:30 PM
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Yes, because they have wealth (relative to their age group) but without any status. This is why guys like that can't get laid to save their life but broke local musicians still have groupies after every show. Wealth alone allows you to buy sexual intimacy with a woman, which very few men are ever going to be content with. Status will have women wanting to be sexually intimate with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:27 PM
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Too many men here confuse status with wealth. They can and often do align but they are not the same thing. Status leads to genuine sexual attraction. Wealth does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:12 PM
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Sort of. Status leads to genuine attraction. Money doesn't. That's the difference. A lot of guys conflate status with money, or assume you can't get money without the status. You can be a broke as fuck musician but if you play your sappy love songs to a crowd full of women and have them all eating from the palm of your hand then you can guarantee the majority of those women will want to fuck you by the end of the set. That is status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:07 PM
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Ignoring the minefield of what is considered "high quality" here. I'd say everybody cares but lower quality people have had to learn to be able to compromise on their ideals a lot more. If you are a short, fat, balding man with an average income but you are holding out for Margo Robbie then everybody is going to let you know how delusional and unreasonable you are. Its natural that your standards are going to drop even if Margo Robbie remains your ideal. However if you are a tall, in shape, high…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:01 PM
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Couple of things. Men are judged for having sex. Not sure where this lie that men get universally praised for banging a bunch of women came from but I've never seen it happen in real life. Also, it isn't women's sexuality that is considered obscene. Its literally the opposite. Women are seen as pure and become less pure every time a dirty disgusting male touches her. The penis corrupts. This is not even just propagated by men. Women, despite complaining about the results of this worldview, show …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:40 PM
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Dude is a well known woman beater that still has legions of women who would give anything just to be with him for one night. I'd say he's pretty successful in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:56 PM
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Most men aren't having casual sex to begin with. Between men that can't get sex outside of commitment and guys that aren't into casual sex there's a significant bunch of men for whom an average 2 partners a year is astronomical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:24 PM
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Cheating always sucks. Its always a bad thing and the person cheating is always a piece of shit, regardless of the gender. I agree with RPers that the reasons men and women cheat TEND to be different, but that doesn't excuse it one bit. Neither sex's reasons are better than the other's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:06 PM
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You absolutely do. When you're getting invited to Brian Singer's naked pool parties for boys aged 15 and under. You know its going to be a fucked up life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:40 AM
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What about when all the steroid use turns her clit into a small dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:38 AM
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He won't care. Actors and people in Hollyweird are an odd bunch. Cuckoldry would be one of the least weird things to learn a Hollywood actor is into.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:35 AM
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To be clear. Cope isn't against PPD rules. Accusing people of cope is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:30 AM
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If everybody gets into shape and becomes happy with how they look, they lose their audience. Its no different than a political party that claims to be fighting poverty whilst keeping people in poverty. So those people keep voting for them cycle after cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:26 AM
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Not a woman or a short guy, but the ones I've heard most are "I can't feel feminine if I'm bigger than the man" and "I don't feel protected like I do when I'm with a big guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:23 AM
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Thanks. It destroyed me at the time but now I see it as a lesson learned. Won't do long distance again. I still cherish the 5 years we were together and have a lot of amazing memories from it. We visited New Zealand (the country of her birth) together which is still the best thing I've ever done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:42 PM
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It wasn't the only factor. But my ex and I went long distance after she got a new job and had to move to a new city for it. She made new friends in the new city, started going out drinking and partying more and more with them instead of staying in and face timing me or hanging out some other way like we had done at the start. Her new friends had no emotional connection to me whatsoever, they didn't know me so of course they didn't care one bit for me. They encouraged her to start dating and flir…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:28 PM
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Kind of difficult to describe. They're all slightly different. Depends on how big her mouth is, how big her teeth are in comparison. Lots of stuff. I think overall it's the suction sensation I'm not too fond of. And teeth. Some girls are really bad at keeping their teeth out of it, some guys like girls using their teeth, but I'm definitely not one of them. I'd definitely recommend having one if you get the opportunity. Just that for me the actual pleasure comes from a woman wanting to do that wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:16 PM
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Not really? They just don't feel that good in comparison to actual sex. Even masturbation feels better. The high comes from a woman wanting to put your dick in her mouth. The actual sensation is always pretty meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:04 PM
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That's the case for everything, not just tattoos. Attractive people make traits more attractive. Unattractive people make those same traits less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:01 PM
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This may be controversial but they are honestly overrated. Inb4 "You've just never had a really good one bro you just be getting women who suck at giving head".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:59 PM
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It sure does. Killed my relationship. Well, it was one of a few factors but definitely a huge part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:23 PM
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Lol. Exactly like the MGTOW guys who are like "I'm done with women and relationships. Did you hear me? I SAID I'M DONE. Anyone want to convince me I'm making a mistake and to give women another shot? Anyone? Just one will do. Please?" And women are just like "lol bye".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:19 PM
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These threads always presuppose that bottom rung men are on par with bottom rung women. They aren't. Super attractive women experience dating and interest from the opposite sex in a way no man can comprehend. Average women experience dating the same as top tier men do. The ugliest and most maladjusted women have dating lives comparable to the average man. No women experience dating the same way bottom of the barrel men do. There are no women in their league. Top tier women and bottom tier men ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:08 PM
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Try years. PPD is an endless cycle of the same topics being repeated over and over for all time. People were saying that stuff when I first started lurking here years ago before I even started posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:00 PM
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This comes from a lack of understanding from men. When women say they care about a man's personality. They don't mean they are attracted to good moral people. Bullies are the most sexually successful men throughout school, higher education and beyond, their personality is what directly leads to their sexual success, but it sure as shit isn't that they are good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:46 PM
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All of this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:36 PM
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his date were very beautiful (she is) Press X to doubt. I've seen the people that tend to be involved in polyamory, and they look like stereotypical reddit mods. Though that does lead me to a question. Do the people they are dating even know? Like, it seems mentioning "I have a partner at home but we are open" would be a pretty important thing to mention to a date who may be strictly monogamous, no? I wonder if many of these people even mention the fact that they're in an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:12 PM
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Ehhhh, almost all lies come from a place of self service. The nature of the thing you are lying about may be lesser or worse, but the lie itself is still morally wrong. In this case N count being less bad than rape doesn't mean lying to a potential romantic partner about something that is important to them is also more okay. If you know that somebody cares about N count because they have very different views in regards to sex, relationships, intimacy, decency etc. They believe sex is something y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:06 PM
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Of course. The literal point is that rape is worse. Rape being worse is crucial to the overall logical point being made here. If their point was "Having a high N is okay, besides you can just lie about it." That would be one thing, but their post was "body count is okay BECAUSE you can just lie about it." The argument here is not a moral one comparing rape to promiscuity. The argument is that saying "X is okay BECAUSE you can lie about it" is wrong because you can use that exact same argument fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:37 PM
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It's that but its also just a descriptive word that is shorthand for involuntarily celibate. It's kind of like "black lives matter" the statement vs "black lives matter" the organisation. In both cases the movement has poisoned and brought negative connotations to the original meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:32 PM
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Ahhh, you are both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:23 PM
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Thats because that isn't the logic as has already been explained to you. He wasnt comparing N count and rape. Either you are being disingenuous or dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:17 PM
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The point is he wasn't advocating for people to lie about crimes. The point is the logic of "X is fine BECAUSE you can just lie about it" is faulty because you can also apply that exact same logic to crimes like rape, or murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:11 PM
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He isn't. He's comparing the logic behind "X doesn't matter as long as you can lie about it." If you're going to pick and choose what is okay and not okay to lie about, then you're just being disingenuous at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:29 PM
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I think there are different levels of needs. There are the basic ones, like food, sleep etc that you will die if you don't have them. Then there are other things like companionship, where you won't directly die if you suffer crippling isolation. But it will have a tremendously large impact upon your mental health to the point of severe depression and/or even suicide. I would say sex is a subcategory that falls under the companionship umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:39 PM
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she is often the influence or veto vote behind someone else's purchase. Can vouch for this. My ex was an expert at getting me "gifts" with my own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:56 PM
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The last 5 or more purges haven't lasted a week. That's why they just call it purge now and not purge week. I miss when it lasted a lot longer but we also used to have a lot more people with a sense of humour that posted here. Now we always have humourless NPCs who complain about purge about 3 hours in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:47 PM
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Indeed. Chad is for the party years. All he has to provide is his D and the validation of sleeping with him and that's good enough between the ages of 18 and THE WALL. Beta bux is for when women realise overnight what a "real man is" at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:44 PM
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Well, my best friend just lost his long term girlfriend to her "friend" she told not to worry about. He knew that friend was into her but felt like he couldn't do anything because he didn't want to seem insecure. I think the more common belief is that men can't be platonic friends with women when there is some level of attraction. Every woman denies knowing their male friends want to fuck, but they know. There are so many videos on YT where women deny any knowledge of their male friends being at…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:41 PM
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That 180 was so quick my head is still spinning gurl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:35 PM
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Because Chad doesn't wine and dine women lol. Especially at 5 star restaurants. He doesn't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:24 PM
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You are welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:25 AM
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I'll be honest. I ain't reading that either. This time it is laziness. And apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:22 AM
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I only read 2 lines because that's all you needed to discredit your own thread premise. I didn't not read it out of laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:02 AM
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Not going to read the whole thing because I'm 2 lines in and already the premise of this thread is flawed. Men on PPD aren't trying to get laid from their exploits in this sub. Nor do they think that is going to be the outcome of them venting about women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:28 AM
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Literally just had somebody say that most men are worthless and would be better off not existing, that her letting them know that IS showing empathy to men. You couldn't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:30 PM
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Haha reverse favouritism maybe. I've only ever been insulted by the mods on here. One called me a "bad egg" and another called me a "fucking loser" one time during a previous purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:54 PM
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I like that theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:47 PM
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According to urban dictionary we might be being insulted in a number of ways. Either we are gay men. Or we are inadequate and inferior. Or we spew outrageous nonsense with total conviction in what we are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:32 PM
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Tip me over and pour me out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:24 PM
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If you aren't talking about how most men dying would be a good thing then my post isn't talking about you. Probably. I mention empathy because many of the most callous, ghoulish takes I see here regularly come from people who talk about their empathy in their flair or mention how women are more empathetic than men. Men are talking about how they don't want to date promiscuous women. Women are talking about how most men are useless and should die out. And going into threads about men's mental hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:09 PM
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Well I'm British so I definitely fit in there but I'm not seeing the connection with everybody else tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:59 PM
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You don't understand you bitter incel. Looks ARE secondary to personality. Guys like Jeremy Meeks are secretly harbouring a heart of gold, they just hide it really really well. We can tell that the socially awkward bumbling, nerd who is a 3/10 is a disgusting misogynist who feels entitled to our bodies. While the hot guy who almost has as many felonies as he does baby mamas is actually a really nice guy! He's the only one who understands us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:22 PM
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I haven't seen the clip either but I know who Miriam Nakamoto is and I've heard her talk about it before. So I'll explain the clip. Basically she is a female kickboxer who who dumped her boyfriend (also a kickboxer) because he got hurt in a fight and he reacted by turning his back and acting submissive and she said it grossed her out on a visceral level. Despite her losing her fight that night and her boyfriend overcoming adversity and going on to win. The point of the thread is that women are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:39 PM
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Woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:35 PM
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Appreciate it. Now I have a chance to win something too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:31 PM
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Enough to make me depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:28 PM
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THERE ISN'T A CATGORY FOR WORST! worst is a superlative though. u/Mrs_Degree whats with the lack of equality for the shit posters?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:25 PM
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No all your threads are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:22 PM
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Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:15 PM
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You are welcome. But it was more for the benefit of the other dumb women here. They need mansplaining to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:09 PM
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PPD women- I pride myself on my empathy. Also PPD women- Anyone who isn't directly improving my life according to what I value should die off. Hell even if they are improving my life they should just die and I would be happier for it, because I don't value them or the work they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:06 PM
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I like that you gave women their own category for funniest thread or comment. Because, y'know. Women aren't funny and they wouldn't have a chance of winning otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:57 PM
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Ladies and gentlemen. I give you, the empathetic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:38 PM
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Who said women couldn't? The fact is though that women don't. Nobody wants to do the dirty, dangerous, thankless jobs that keep society running smoothly. Nobody is stopping women from being deep sea fisherwomen now, or going and working in the sewers. Or on oil rigs. These are all necessary jobs that need doing, but weirdly women don't want to do them, and even more interestingly the more gender parity in a country (like in most of Scandinavia) even less women do these types of jobs than the nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:36 PM
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The hilarity of this comment is that the people with this mindset are more of a waste than the people they are talking about. Yes "men" didn't build my house, a few select men did. You know who didn't build my house? Or design or make my car? Or the roads, or the infrastructure of the entire country I live in? Women. Yet you don't hear men ever talking about how we don't need women and the world would significantly improve if they ceased to exist, because ultimately we recognise that women offer…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:27 PM
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Holy fuck. Saying I need men because they improve my life is misogyny now. Based and empathy pilled, truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:49 PM
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ppders will argue until they are blue in the face that a square is actually a circle. Tell me about it. I particularly like it when you talk about a scenario, and PPDers respond and tell you that you are talking about something completely different and attempt to gaslight you that something you see regularly on the internet doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:41 PM
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Lmao no it isn't. "The world would be a better place without men" has nothing to do with sexual relationships. Almost any time I see people talking about how men are useless and a net negative for the world, its hardly ever about not wanting to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:32 PM
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I'll never understand the "we don't need men/we would be better off if men didn’t exist" line of thinking. Hell, I'm a man and I need men. The house I live in was built by men, the roads I drive on were built by men. The car I drive on those roads with was made by men. I can see at night because the lampposts were made and maintained by men. My life would be infinitely worse if men weren't responsible for keeping western society up and running. Almost every quality of life comfort I have in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:24 PM
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Mate guarding is in no way a separate mating strategy from wanting to procreate with as many women as possible. We see this in other species. Lions mate guard like a motherfucker but they also fuck every female in their pride. Mate guarding is just another aspect of the same mating strategy I laid out. They are not two distinct mating strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:06 PM
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This is the total inverse of reality. Male mating strategy is to impregnate as many women as possible to ensure his line continues. Commitment is a sacrifice because men are abandoning their mating strategy. Women's mating strategy is to secure a high value man that has the resources to provide a quality life to their offspring and who has the capabilities to protect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:34 PM
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Sure I get that. What I don't get is how asking somebody if they are okay is being uncivil or making things personal. If somebody comes out and calls you a child molester because you say, I dunno, "communism is bad" then you are probably going to be confused and inquire as to their mental health. I can't recall if the other person was reprimanded or not. At the time I felt aggrieved because there was no "be civil" under their comment calling me a pedo and I mentioned that to you, to which you re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:19 PM
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Once a poster here called me a pedo for criticising the political left. I responded by asking them if they were okay. Why am I the one that you told to "be civil" and "dont make things personal"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:09 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:47 PM
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Thats because we currently live in a victimocracy. Your merit and importance within society is determined by your level of perceived oppression. They adopt the language because it works for the feminists. They don't realise it won't work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:41 PM
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You can be a misogynist whilst correcting women who falsely attribute certain preferences to misogyny. "Yes I'm a misogynist, but preferring non promiscuous women has nothing to do with misogyny. You are simply dumb."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:36 PM
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This is simply untrue. Fat mens weight is commented on less but when it is talked about, it is universally negative. The difference is that there isn't a movement for fat men that tries to browbeat society into finding them sexually attractive. Fat men aren't screeching about harmful beauty standards and defacing and vandalising posters of Chris Hemsworth on the London underground, the way fat activists did with the "beach body ready" posters. When a fat male celebrity loses weight, like Ethan S…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:13 PM
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Fat shaming is only seen as negative when it's aimed at women. Nobody refers to fat guys as plus sized or big, beautiful men. It's stuff like slob, fatass, fat fuck, lardo. There are female specific insults for being fat too, like landwhale, but only women have positive words associated with being overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:40 PM
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Also, I reserve the right to judge and insult you for being a video game playing, porn addicted loser even though I'd prefer you exist like that instead of encroaching upon my life. I still need men like you to exist and be good little worker drones that keep society up and running so that me and the men I am attracted to can maintain the lifestyles we are accustomed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:08 PM
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Because men prefer younger. Trump is ancient and Biden is a reanimated corpse. Not a woman but this is purge, fuck the rules!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:02 PM
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It means that it's bunk. Its shaming language with no basis in reality. It's specifically used to attach negative connotations to the man, much like "male gaze" is. White guy is attracted to Asian women = yellow fever. Yellow fever = fetish. Fetish = bad. Therefore White guy bad. White guy isn't attracted to Asian women = racism. Racism = bad. Therefore White guy bad. Either way the White guy is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:44 AM
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That's called sharting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:39 AM
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Sexual dimorphism is not behavior but it results in behaviour. Yes. If you tell people to be vegan but you eat meat, then you are a hypocrite. However, if you are a vegan but will still have a preference to date people who eat meat, not so much. Herein lies the difference. Men aren't telling women to be virgins whilst being promiscuous themselves. They are simply expressing their desire for non promiscuity in a mate. They are not demanding behaviour, they are simply selecting for it. No no. Agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:21 AM
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No no. Rest assured It harms his chances with most women. This fantasy that low N women prefer low N men is exactly that. A fantasy. Most women are disgusted by male virgins and sexually inexperienced men. Its why the go to insults aimed at men by women are all things that signal how unpopular he is with women. Virgin. Creep. Loser. Incel. Neckbeard. A male virgin is not seen as pure, or wholesome. Hes seen as gross, maladaptive, defective. Hypocrisy is seen as bad most of the time sure. But wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:45 AM
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I'm saying there's nuance. It's hypocritical in the basic sense of the word sure. The argument you have to prove is that hypocrisy is automatically a bad thing though If men care about purity and women don't, then there's no real argument to say men shouldn't engage in promiscuity themselves and still select against it. Why would men not be hypocrites when it benefits them to be? Women actively select for sexually experienced men. It makes no sense for a man to be chaste and HARM his chances of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:24 AM
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It isn't hypocrisy though. Women care inversely about N count. They are more likely to be grossed out by a guy being a virgin than they are a man who has slept his way through half a village. Its like being disgusted or annoyed that men want feminine women who are smaller than themselves when women want masculine men who are taller than they are. Its almost as though men and women value different qualities in each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:14 AM
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The penis corrupts. This isn't even a male only perception. Look at women that won't date bisexual men who have had experiences or relationships with men. Both men and women who have had a dick in them are seen as "lesser". If women want to get rid of the N count stigma then first we have to get rid of the "men are disgusting and corrupt everything they touch" stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:06 AM
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Don't need to. Thats the whole point of those games though. They couldn't run without constant payment flowing in, and almost all of them are played primarly by women. I'm sure kids make up a huge percentage too with games like Fortnite. Grown men are generally the group that rages against microtransactions in any form of gaming. Which is funny because it's generally men who fall for shit like NFTs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:57 PM
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Most microtransaction laden money grabbing mobile games are played by women. That statement and this data are not incongruent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:49 PM
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Its a bunch of factors all put together. Men don't have support networks the way women do. Its seen as weak for me to ask for help, he's supposed to get himself out of any bad situation. Men attempt suicide in more violent and (unfortunately) successful ways. Women generally attempt suicide by taking pills, which has a really low fatality rate, plus many take the pills and then immediately call a friend telling them what they have done so luckily an ambulance will reach them before they OD. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:25 PM
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Hey man hit me up if you need to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:30 AM
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Thank you. I'm glad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:26 AM
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Some guys don't have that friend. And those guys may be the ones that go on to actually commit suicide. Honestly it terrifies me knowing our conversation and me being there for one of my lifelong best friends might be the only reason he's still around today. That if I had just been busy that day, or blown him off to go and do something else when he asked if we could talk, that I might be talking about him in the past tense right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:13 AM
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To an extent, but many feel like even if they did reach out nobody would care. I had a friend talk to me about having suicidal thoughts about 2 years back and thank god he did because it might be the reason he's here today. The main thing he said that really stuck with me is "If I stopped existing today nobody would care. I can count on one hand the amount of people that would come to my funeral and that includes you, my step dad and my brother and sister." I get the feeling that this isn't exac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:06 AM
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Men's suicide rates would suggest that isolation doesn't work all that well. In many cases men aren't isolating themselves as you suggested. The isolation is forced upon them because they either don't have, or feel like they don't have anybody to reach out to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:57 AM
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You make a fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:47 PM
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No you are mistaken you out of touch old man. Women can't give birth any less than 4 years apart and 6 if you care about the harm pregnancy does to a woman's body!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:47 PM
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Well, only your definition matters anyway since I have ceased to be alive. The possibility of my very existence is r/badwomensanatomy according to some on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:44 PM
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I'm pretty sure I just got called an out of touch, self referential manchild because I said women are capable of giving birth more than once every 4-6 years. I guess I don't exist then, considering I'm only a year younger than my sister. PPD is wild these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:28 PM
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What you have to remember is, people here aren't stupid, they're disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:16 PM
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Thats an odd response. I don't remember implying any such thing. I do know of many channels that have been demonetised for wrongthink however, despite not actually breaking any rules or going against YT terms of service.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:01 PM
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Imagine thinking YT channels only ever get demonetised for breaking rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:54 PM
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PPD has always been full of just world nonsense. Its actually an improvement on what it used to be a few years ago, back when people still actively identified as blue pilled more often. "Bad people end up in relationships with other bad people so don't envy them" "If you can't get a relationship its because you deserve to be alone.". PPD has always had its share of just world fallacy, platitudes and of course the good old "fuck you, got mine" mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:39 PM
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A lot of people here are socially maladjusted and seem shocked by everyday realities. The same people who shocked pikachu face about men and women treating each other differently also don't get things like code switching. Do you talk to your close friends the same way you talk to your parents, or teachers, or boss? Of course not. Everybody acts differently around others for all sorts of reasons, whether it's due to hierarchy, gender, closeness, whether you are romantically involved or not, or an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:27 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:21 PM
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Like befriending women only because you want to potentially sleep with them or their friends. The problem with this is, the only person who knows that this is happening is the person doing it. If you came out and said this it would obviously be considered to be a bad thing by both men and women. It doesn't actually matter at the end of the day though, because positive or negative intentions will be attributed to you regardless of your actual intentions depending on whether the other person recip…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:16 PM
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It seems to have been approved and re-upped because the OP is back. It just said "deleted" before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:28 PM
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I'm not sure why people are getting so hung up on this point. I never said it is the norm. I am talking of what women are biologically capable of. And no, I am not saying this is universally the case. My sister and I are 14 months apart, my grandmother on my dad's side had 7 children between the ages of 22 and 31. Women are absolutely capable of giving birth more than once every 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:20 PM
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Have you been reported to the suicide prevention bot thing yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:08 PM
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She is attractive though. Obviously overweight but if she was at a healthy weight she would be a stunner. If people are saying stuff like "you are perfect as you are" then yeah thats a little much but if people are saying "the foundation is all there, with a little weight loss and working on yourself there are the makings of a very attractive woman" then that's just true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:03 PM
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Kind of like how all the new age they/them or "queer" (which inevitably means bi) female celebrities only have a history of dating tall, buff, masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:39 PM
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Lmao. I love when you piss somebody off so much they go through your history and downvote your last 50 comments out of spite. Don't use this word much but that's the epitome of triggered. As an aside, why is it the only people who tell you to "learn history" or "go read a book" have absolutely no clue what they are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:36 PM
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No you miss the point. The fact that more men survived shipwrecks throughout history than women did is not proof that the "women and children first" sentiment was a lie. At least not by itself. If there are better articles that do show proof then provide them, instead of linking to that garbage article that references some ideologically captured feminist historian claiming it was a ploy to prevent women's sufferage, which there is absolutely no basis for whatsoever. If you go into a study with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:33 PM
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Thats interesting but it doesn't really go into why women have a lower survival rate. It might just be that women are less physically equipped to survive disasters and harsh elements. Nowhere in the article does it prove the claim that the sentiment behind "women and children" first was a lie or not actually being carried out. It's pretty shoddy and a bunch of baseless deductions from my reading. Women and children first resulted in 3 women surviving to every 1 man on the Titanic, but throughout…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:03 PM
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I'm literally just talking about if from a biological standpoint. "Out of touch" yes science and biological facts are out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:51 PM
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Not really. Humanity has always valued women to a greater degree than men, since long before single motherhood was commonplace. "Women and children first" policies have been a thing for centuries. Women have inherent value because they can carry children. Men can't. If civilisation went caput then it would be far more beneficial to have 1000 women and 100 men survive than the other way around. Due to the simple fact a single man can get all of those women pregnant, whereas the women can only get…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:41 PM
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Mostly the part about men being constantly horny and thinking about fucking everything that moves, and equating it with having a different morality. We are hornier than women. We are not mindless animals that can't control ourselves whenever a woman is in our vicinity. I see attractive women every day. I can't say I've ever thought about having sex with any of them. At most it will be a "wow she is beautiful" but it never goes beyond that. Men for the most part are just tying to go about their d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:30 PM
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I don't agree with everything here but thats fair. It may well be that the women complaining about sexualised fictional characters and the ones that go out half naked are two different groups of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:19 PM
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I think you missed their point. You said that women are dressing provocatively because they are innocent and naive in regards to male horniness. Yet women have no trouble recognising it when it comes to fictional depictions of women. If women are arguing "This character needs to be more covered up because it is attracting the male gaze and sets a bad example" then how do they reconcile that with them going out wearing barely anything or defending the women that do? Don't these real life women al…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:08 PM
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It's beyond naive though, to the point of unbelievability. Its human nature to notice things that stand out. Its like going to rural Africa and dressing like this and being offended when people stare and point. Yes you can dress however you like, you can't and do not get to control how other people respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:00 PM
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Its more women can dress however the fuck they want but men aren't allowed to notice. Quiet from MGSV had tons of articles written about her, about how her depiction was harmful or damaging to women. The male gaze, objectification, you name it. Because she's half naked and the in-game excuse for it is dumb (she breathes through her skin, which means she should actually be fully nude for it to make sense but w/e). Yet for a good few years after release every other woman at cons everywhere were dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:40 PM
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The only men that are "good" at flirting are men who are well versed in it. You can't develop skills in something If you are never given the opportunity or get shut down early whenever you try. If a guy is fantastic at flirting and building chemistry then you can be sure he's done the exact same thing with many women before you, and gotten the desired results. It requires a level of confidence and self assuredness, which people forget is not a switch you can turn off and on. Confidence is built …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:09 PM
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Well they don't know. I suppose. Studies that use self reporting's accuracy relies on the honesty of the people reporting. That's why they aren't really that useful. We know from various self reported N count studies that people can't really be trusted to be truthful. Both men and women's answers changed depending on whether they were told they were being subjected to a lie detector or not. Men gave a higher number when not taking a polygraph and women gave a lower number.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:02 PM
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How do who know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:56 PM
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There's surprisingly a lot of these studies out there. There's another one that shows women report having more orgasms with rich men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:49 PM
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They said it was a rant lol. I have seen similar things to what you described though. I remember seeing a thread on here once where somebody posted a link to a study that found women self reported higher orgasm rates with taller men than shorter men. They just posted the study and asked for people's thoughts on it, a jannie deleted it for "no incel content".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:40 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:33 PM
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Damn. I hate when you spend a long time responding to an OP, compiling a bunch of statistics and research and data and taking to time put together a well thought out response. And then they immediately delete their thread right after you hit send. Edit- Never mind they didn't delete a jannie did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:28 PM
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I actually disagree. I lean more on the side of nature over nurture in this one. I think this is a natural inborn preference for women that all human beings seem to have. https://www.jove.com/science-education/11068/in-and-out-groups Women have been shown to have a strong in-group bias in favour of other women. Meaning that they generally like, trust and favour women over men. Men have been shown to lack the mechanism that bolsters the automatic own group preference, and in many cases actually d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:23 PM
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They aren't talking about actual incels. They are talking about how "incel" has become just another insult for women to throw out at men who they disagree with to attack their sexual prowess. I have been called an incel on PPD about 300 times by various women. I was in a relationship for nearly all of that time. If women only called men who identified as incels that then there would be no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:51 AM
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Damn auto correct. Hugh Jackman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:17 AM
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Depends on the type of porn but in general I would say it's not cheating. Its like saying that watching a romcom is cheating or a perfume advert with a shirtless Hugh Jackson or whatever. I would say subscribing to a girl's onlyfans or watching girls on cam sites qualifies as some kind of cheating though. Anything that involves some kind of interaction with the person on screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:15 AM
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Hes not 35 so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:45 PM
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Its not a new phenomenon. In the mid 2010s when there was a surge of MRA stuff the only MRAs who gained any traction or a slight bit of popularity were women. Its happening now even with the only people being taken seriously calling out anti white narratives and sentiments being from people who aren't white themself like Charlie Cheon. Basically, unless you are a woman, or not white etc, its impossible to advocate for your own in-group without being seen as the bad guy. So to get a certain group…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:35 PM
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I didn't realise that the Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition was to advertise plus size shape wear to women. I could have sworn that it was always traditionally aimed at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:17 PM
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Holy fuck go back to WitchesVsPatriarchy you're too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:15 PM
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Because those men were generally the showrunners. I thought the point of all those comedies was to make people laugh but maybe that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:13 PM
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Is the point of those to engineer society to promote those men as being beautiful to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:08 PM
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There's no point except to be entertaining. You just demolished your own counter argument genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:02 PM
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Some of those are sitcoms. Not really romcoms. They aren't really promoting a message and even guys think it's laughable that some fat guy in his 40s who works at a paper factory or some other low paying job has a thin attractive wife 15 years his junior. Besides the point of them is not to get society to accept fat schlubby as attractive the way the fat acceptance and body positivity moments are for women. This is why PPD is so laughable. "Men bad men bad men bad". On an issue that clearly isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:58 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:48 PM
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Its not men who started entire movements to try to strongarm society into thinking their unattractive specimens are actually gorgeous. Let me know the next time you see posters and billboards with some fat hairy bald guy with the caption "this is what a REAL man looks like" on it. Or when a public advert of an attractive man in good shape is vandalised because it enforces "harmful beauty standards" because in fact all men are gorgeous no matter what they look like. We have movements and campaign…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:23 PM
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Lol. This would go the exact opposite of the way you think it would. If a woman sees one guy has 0 matches and another guy has 25, she is obviously going to go for the guy that has 25 matches. Preselection. The other women obviously see something in him so he's doing something right etc. This would not make things more even at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:33 PM
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Depends on what you mean by efficient. In terms of having the highest success rate regardless of other factors? Being famous is pretty much the top of the top. Doesn't matter if you look like Brad Pitt or Danny Devito. Both get laid like tile. Doesn't matter if you're relatively normal or a psychotic freak like Jared Leto, you'll still have women literally queueing to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:46 PM
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Depends on the two he has. A man can be short and overweight and still get girls if he's rich and/or a celebrity. Danny Devito was a notorious womaniser who cheated on his wife multiple times. Poor and any of the others I would agree, he has zero chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:40 PM
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Why do I get the feeling this lady screeches whenever she sees somebody refer to women as "females" on the Internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:29 PM
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Its called Lost Judgment. Its a sequel to a game called Judgment. Which also had an excellent story. And yes thats how its spelled I didn't unintentionally misspell Judgement lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:23 PM
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I'm playing a video game now where this is exactly the case. A man made a public scene of him groping a woman at a train station, got arrested and is now being charged with assault and sexual battery. However, the man who committed the groping was a decoy lookalike. He did this to cover up the fact that at the same time he was secretly committing the murder of a young man who was guilty of bullying his son to the point of suicide. The story has me hooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:20 PM
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Nah I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:14 PM
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Its PPD. Every woman here has a 4 foot tall, fat, balding Indian friend with bad teeth and severe autism who puts any Chad to shame. If he can do it so can you fellas!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:11 PM
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And the 5 ONS?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:33 PM
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You see when guys say "I'm a nice guy, why can't I get a girlfriend?" They aren't saying "I am nice I am entitled to sex now" They are saying "If guys like this can get all these women why can't I even attract a single one?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:30 PM
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There's also a lot of times when somebody makes a thread and a mod makes it a CMV after the fact because they "stated an opinion" so now they have to defend it even if it wasn't their original intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:15 PM
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Quickest way to get downvotes on any subreddit, PPD included. Imply communism isn't the best thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:07 PM
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Exactly. Men and women don't care about the same things. It's why the go to insult for a woman is "slut/hoe/thot" Anything that signals how "easy" she is. Whereas the go to insult for a man is "loser/virgin/neckbeard/creep". Basically anything that signals how undesirable he is to women. Even women who are virgins generally say they don't want to lose their virginity to a guy who is himself a virgin. They want somebody with experience and knows what he's doing. They aren't double standards, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:20 PM
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Yeah but their argument doesn't say it can't be effective. They said it makes you an asshole. Which is true. You can both be correct and an asshole. That's life though. "Don't judge a book by it's cover" is something literally everybody is taught as a kid, and is also something close to 0% of people apply in their daily lives, because it's advice that goes against human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:08 PM
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Nah no need to CYV this is most likely true. A lot of guys have been disqualified before they ever decided to enter the dating game. Having male centric or nerdy hobbies growing up can be a major detriment to a man's dating success later on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:49 PM
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Wow. Actually a reasonable response. Good post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:43 PM
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Unfortunately yes. Its understandable from a biological point of view, given men being stronger and a larger physical threat coupled with women generally having higher levels of neuroses and it starts to make sense why we treat men and women differently in this way. But coming from a society that supposedly prides itself on equality it's disheartening. I've had my junk grabbed and my shirt lifted up by women in bars, and while it did make me feel uncomfortable, nobody around has ever batted an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:33 PM
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I agree but life isn't fair. Creepy is up to the person being creeped out to determine unfortunately. If a woman finds a guy creepy just for being ugly or socially awkward and in her personal vicinity then it might be harsh, it might be cruel, but on the other hand she probably does on some level feel genuinely creeped out. Regardless of the man's intentions. Creepy means to make someone feel uneasy or unpleasant. Ugly men do genuinely make a lot of women feel this way whether they are acting in…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:28 PM
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Absolutely. But every little revolutionary utopian envisions themselves as the one putting people against the wall. They never realise they will be up against the wall themselves with the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:52 PM
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Women can be creepy, as they can definitely elicit feelings of unpleasantness or unease in other people. The difference is, women generally have to do a lot more/go way further than a man does to be considered creepy. For example, women are almost never called creepy just for being socially inept, or neurodivergent. Or hell, being ugly whilst within the vicinity of somebody else. A woman generally has to do something incredibly dangerous, or psychotic. We're talking stalking, or something of tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:02 PM
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It has mostly failed this far but has been steadily taking hold the last few decades. Mostly due to it's spread through academia/the education system, the arts and even the sciences to a lesser extent. We are currently smack in the middle of the demoralisation stage. The economic ideas can only take hold once the social ideas are firmly embedded. Colleges and universities all over the west are raising fine little revolutionaries who see it as their life's mission to upend capitalism and bring ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:50 PM
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The dissolution of the nuclear family is not a capitalist concept, of that I can assure you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:49 PM
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Sexual objectification is not the only form of objectification. Its the only one the west cares about because its the only kind that primarily affects women. And most of the time it doesn't even fit the requirements. Men finding women physically attractive is not objectification, men commenting on finding women physically attractive is not objectification. Women dressing up provocatively for certain men only to be disgusted when other men notice is not objectification. Besides this is heavily de…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:01 PM
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Yeah thats why I said you can still agree with the message. The message can still be a good one even if the person delivering it isn't being honest or upfront about why they are spreading the message. I was just responding that some of these guys are in fact grifters. They make money off of it and are actively lying about caring about the men they claim to be advocating for. Again, doesn't make his message invalid, but Andrew Tate absolutely does not give a fuck about you, and would jump at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:38 PM
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Even if you agree with their overall message it's hard to deny some of them are grifters. Andrew Tate literally made a decent part of his fortune running camgirl scams. Pretending to be women falling in love with lonely men (you know, the same men he claims to advocate and stick up for) getting them to fork over all their money, then splitting. Not saying you can't agree with that these guys are saying, but not all of them have your best interests at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:09 PM
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Its honestly impressive how, despite men having a much higher sex drive, more frequent levels of horniness, testosterone etc, that women are STILL closing the cheating/infidelity gap year on year and have actually surpassed them in one age category.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:55 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:03 PM
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A thing a lot of people on PPD could learn. If somebody makes a claim, then yes. The onus is on them to provide evidence to back up that claim, but only the claim that they actually made. Not whatever you conjured up in your head that you wish they would have said because it would be more convenient to argue against. Half of my interactions here go something like this. -Not all apples are red. -Whats your definition of apple? -Er, it's an apple, just Google it and you'll see what I'm talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:54 PM
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It's reddit what do you expect? There's a reason people post that type of shit here instead of places where people engage in critical thinking. Like the person below me said, bunch of idiots who will lap this shit up every day of the week and twice on Sundays. Updoots giving them the only dopamine rush they'll ever receive. So its just an endless ocean of "I'm so sorry this happened to you" and "Some creepy old man told me to smile, sexism!!!" Edit- To be fair some people came close to calling h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:20 PM
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Yeah this is totally not a made up scenario from the OP who spends most of her time posting in r/feminism r/WitchesVsPatriarchy and r/SistersofLilith It's amazing how these women who hate men keep having these totally real interactions with men that reinforce their worldview!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:08 PM
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I haven't posted on here in a good while and I can't see any of the people I'm talking about here anymore so I don't think they are still actively posting. At least I assume so. One of them was a regular poster, who said "it isn't pedophilia, girls are post-pubescent at 12" Then in another thread she said "men caring about a woman's N count is paedophilia." You couldn't make it up. Yeah there are some who are logically consistent but it's a case of few and far in-between. Most are too ideologica…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:02 PM
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Know of would be more accurate. I don't personally hang out with people like that. Go on any mainstream subreddit and say you didnt get vaccinated against covid. Then go on a christian subreddit and say "hail satan" I can guarantee you that the response you get in the Christian sub will be less zealous and less extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:27 PM
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The word is quite literally self explanatory. To make a god of. To worship. To exalt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:20 PM
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Of course you don't. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:18 PM
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Simple really. Somebody that lacks the belief in a god or any gods, and doesn't deify anything else as a replacement for a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:11 PM
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I'm not American but I do agree. It's spreading for sure but it started out as a very American centric thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:57 PM
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This is why you don't take the opinions of PPD women seriously. Most of them don't post here anymore as it was a number of years ago, but I've seen women on here defend actual paedophilia. An 18 year old sleeping with a 12 year olds to be exact, (because the 18 year old was a male feminist who often made posts they agreed with) and go on to complain about an age gap in fully adult relationships in other threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:54 PM
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"Love is love" *unless its between a 30 year old man and a 20 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:36 PM
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Most people these days are religious whether they identify as such or not. A lot of self described atheists just replaced god with the state, big pharma, or social justice or whatever other ideology they have dedicated their whole life and identity towards. They find their "community" at marches and protests, or online on places like reddit and twitter. As an actual athiest it's mind boggling to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:33 PM
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Holy fuck. Attractive people are treated better than unattractive people. In other news water is wet. More to come at 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:33 PM
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True. From what I recall they never actually went on the dates because the men behind the accounts were all incels and not actually tall good looking guys. They generally just posted the initial conversations and flirting that occurred. I remember one saying he was a pedo and the woman who matched with him said something like "I stole some bubblegum when I was 13. I guess that makes us both criminals huh?" But generally it was more generic stuff. Like a woman putting "Dont message me if all you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:38 PM
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If I had to guess. He's referring to "Chadfishing" experiments incels conducted a few years ago. Basically they made fake accounts using pictures of male models but filled their profiles with really heinous shit like being a white supremacist, paedophile etc. They still got tons of matches and attractive women interested in them regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:29 PM
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I'm not. He's good looking, ambitious, has a good job, has status due to having an attractive hobby that he's good at. His height really isn't a factor at that point. He's also still a good deal taller than she is,, she's 5'2.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:05 PM
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This. As someone who is just a shade under 6'3, according to PPD I should be gigachad swimming in women my entire life. Yet no. I'm average in looks, not the most outgoing or visibly confident guy, I'm fairly low dominance around other men so I don't particularly come across as "alpha" etc. I'm living proof that height on its own is not some kind of super aphrodisiac to women. My girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me with a married man who is 6 inches shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:39 PM
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Might as well just list the things men can do. Its going to be a lot shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:17 PM
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Yeah I know. The USA is the center of the universe if you are American. Your argument is its preselection because American women are only noticing him now that he's dating an American celebrity? That doesn't really fit the bill too well. Because they are only just discovering him BECAUSE he's dating an American celebrity. It would be preselection if he was already well known but nobody found him attractive until he started dating this Megan lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:52 PM
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Worldwide Lukaku is infinitely more famous than she is and it won't even be particularly close.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:35 PM
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Yup. As somebody who is reluctantly and tentatively pro choice, in limited situations. I would have a lot more respect for people that just admitted that they prioritise the life of the mother over the life of the child instead of all this "a fetus isn't a human, its just a clump of cells" argument. Which makes no sense. Every human on this planet is literally a clump of cells if you want to simplify everything down to an absurd degree. The only thing that dehumanising the child does is convince…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:29 PM
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Human fetuses can't. Some fetuses can and do live outside of the embryonic sac. Kangaroo joeys for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:23 PM
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Yeah people will just argue the opposite of whatever people on the "other side" are saying. For the other side to always be wrong, it becomes a necessity that your side always has to be right. There's no give and take whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:09 PM
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Most women here would probably admit that being promiscuous is undesirable if you took them out of this environment and asked them somewhere else. PPD has been men vs women for years at this point. People on both sides will defend arguments they know are wrong because to do otherwise would be conceding a "win" to the other side, which nobody wants to do. That's why you get people here that appear to hold completely contradicting beliefs from thread to thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:58 PM
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It doesn't do much good for men to complain Should have ended it there. Men complaining does not and will never achieve anything because quite simply. Nobody cares. Women don't care that some guys are struggling. Guys that aren't struggling are happy that other guys are struggling because "less competition". Men who are complaining as a form of catharsis I understand, but it makes me laugh when I see guys complaining to women here about their height or hair or whatever it is that holds them back…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:47 PM
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Haha I got banned from there ages ago for upvoting a single comment in a gaming subreddit they deemed to he haram. Good to know PPD has now joined the ranks of the "alt right". Imagine trying to actually keep up with the purity spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:20 AM
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Watching most movies feels like that now. They're all written by a bunch of people who think they're better than you telling you that they are the adult in the room and that you should listen to "the message" and live your life how they decree you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:14 AM
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It always amazes me when women tell you about their sexual experiences like you're going to find it hot. Almost like they are saying it in a "If things go well you could he in for some of that too" kind of way. They don't realise most guys are going to be totally turned off by them talking explicitly abiut what they have done with other guys. I've cut off quite a few dates after women were telling me about giving guys blowjobs in previous dates. One girl I was on a date with casually told me she…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:25 AM
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Lack of attention span. Went on a date with a girl who could not stop checking her Instagram every 5 seconds. She was nice and friendly and all of that, she was engaged in our conversations, but every few seconds of downtime or quiet she would whip the phone out and check her comments under her pictures. She came across as a little self obsessed, likely addicted to online validation. She took multiple selfies during the date and couldn't even stop checking her phone when we went to see a movie. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:10 PM
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It's more that the average looking woman IS attractive to a majority of men. It doesn't mean they don't see them as average, it's just that average is attractive to them. Women's views are clearly more skewed when they rate the vast majority of men "below average" when it's statistically impossible and not how averages work, according to normal distribution. Average should be the majority, not below average. It's possible and actually likely that women just don't find average to be attractive. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:42 PM
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Holy fuuuuuu I've never been anywhere where people flip flop on their OWN arguments so much to avoid ever being wrong before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:26 PM
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I'm aware the two are divorced. My message is more to those women who don't understand why men would rather be sexually desired than be thought of as useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:55 PM
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Same, and that's why I don't understand why so many on PPD are so unable, or unwilling to understand the sentiment. I would think everybody, male or female should be able to relate to wanting to be valued and desired for who they are. That is all men want, the same as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:27 PM
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Key word here is openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:10 PM
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This is exactly the issue. "Husband material" means "you have the qualities of a man who I would like to cohabitate with and would be a good father to my children" Being the "casual sex guy" means women feel actual, genuine sexual desire, which is a whole other thing. Women don't understand why men would rather be the latter than the former. We don't. We would rather be both! But since too many women have separated the two in their minds, the latter is ultimately the better deal. I would rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:07 PM
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Ahem. Something something this is why more men claim to be single than women. Everybody has been saying this and getting shot down even though it's the obviously correct answer. The women who are "in a relationship" are all dating the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:09 PM
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This one is easy. It's "both" if you are attractive. It's "neither" if you're unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:46 PM
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It's not women. It's a people thing. My best friend started dating a woman off tinder after just 2 dates, who's profile was every cliche red flag in the book. I warned him and he ignored everything I said to him. They've been together over two years now and she seems to be a great girl. I'm happy to eat my words on this one. I would never have jumped right in and probably would have vetted her thoroughly beforehand. Yet here we are, he jumped right in at the deep end and they are living together…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:17 AM
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First part I never said so I'm disregarding that. I would love to see the study that says "women like assholes." First of all, I only said that I was using it as an example to demonstrate the type of arguments I see here, secondly, sure here you go. https://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269 https://www.spring.org.uk/2017/12/quality-women-more-attractive.php?fbclid=IwAR1yog0Vb4pCM56vmkek-TBo2ddYltYFb4Wpk-IeCy6h2A9drYbthqCzHXE https://archive.is/ZGvcF https://…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:28 AM
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Other factors being important doesn't explain why almost every woman on PPD claims that women as a group, like the opposite of what the statistics actually show that they like though. Theres also the fact that sometimes, its a meaningless distinction. For example. If the claim is that women are attracted to assholes. Stats show this, studies show this, every guy here can attest to knowing assholes who are absolutely drowning in interested women etc. It doesn't really matter if women like them be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:13 AM
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You can't really fully analyze behavior or thoughts This is the point. This is why you watch what they do, not what they say. Because behaviour tends to show patterns a lot more than thoughts do. Men value watching womens behaviour and make deductions based on that. Women here get angry when we won't listen to them dictating to us a female nature that simply doesn't exist in reality. It's an idealised, sanitised, sugar-coated female nature at best, and worst a duplicitous reimagining that is the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:52 AM
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That sounds like your preselection kicked in. Once your friends approved of him and some of them even indicated an admiration for him your disgust disappeared along with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:55 PM
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That isn't red pill. The part where women are uncomfortable and find men to be creepy based on their appearance is reality. Again, I'm not saying it's useless. I'm saying it isn't what you are claiming it to be. You keep doing this, you say I am claiming women's creep detector is useless. I am not. I am telling you, it isn't a creep detector.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:09 AM
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I'm not red pill, I don't subscribe to their beliefs and neither did I ever claim that good guys do not get through. I haven't said any of those things. I'm not saying "women's method of weeding out creepy guys fails sometimes and is therefore useless." I am saying it isn't a creep radar to begin with. What women are calling their creep radar isn't a creep radar at all. It's a post hoc rationalisation of why they feel uncomfortable around ugly, socially awkward, low value men. I'm not even going…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:38 AM
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It literally isn't a test. It's seeing a guy is ugly or socially awkward and having a visceral "ewww" response. Nobody is denying these guys make women uncomfortable, we know they do, we are saying the reasons women state for this are false. They claim they get "bad vibes" or "dangerous" from them, when we are noticing that the guys are just ugly, or shy, or socially awkward. Are there ugly and socially inept creeps? Sure, but the point remains is you aren't finding these guys creepy because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:25 AM
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They don't realise that the analogy is the bad deal, not the women = cars part. There was no comparison to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:19 AM
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No. I'm saying "your creep detector isn't a creep detector at all."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:07 AM
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No I don't use any social media. Unless you count PPD but I don't post pics here either for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:15 PM
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Yeah. I was in shape when we got together and I never got out of shape. She knew I was never a flight risk though so the lack of dread game was probably what allowed her to be comfortable in letting herself go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:13 PM
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My ex proved it. Got fat during our relationship. Lost all the weight again when she started emotionally cheating and pursuing another guy because she wanted to impress him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:08 PM
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That "some of the time" just so happens to be when a guy is ugly. It isn't a creep detector. It's called having eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:33 AM
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Honesty would indeed solve everything. Women should say that when they talk about "creeps" they don't mean guys who are abusive, they don't mean bullies. They don't mean womanisers, they don't mean men who are actually dangerous. This is what men visualise when women talk about creeps, but this isn't who they are talking about. They mean ugly, socially awkward bumbling loser guys who are at the bottom of the social hierarchy. The issue arises from their choice of the word "creep" here. Because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:37 AM
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I don't think anybody argues against that. The issue arises when women and bloops argue that women have this special 6th sense that helps them to sniff out insincerity/creepiness/bad vibes etc. When in actuality the guy is just usually ugly and/or socially inept. If this was truly the case then these pump and dump situations, domestic abuse and whatnot would never happen. If women can tell you are a creep from just looking at you or from a single interaction, then these guys would never get a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:29 AM
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In this case so are women though. I've heard my female friends be polite to a dude's face and then start calling him creepy or weird or a loser the moment he's out of earshot. Direct and honest is not talking shit about people behind their back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:21 AM
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This. If they don't see you as a threat, or know you aren't one then they can and will be pretty brutal. I've seen people ask out girls who are part of a group and had gotten of the worst responses. These women just crushed them with their vitriol or open disgust. One on one they will be polite because they don't want to offend a guy who might not take the truth all that well, a guy who might just lash out right back. But when that threat is gone? They have no issue lashing out at dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:12 AM
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Women's own choices are. I cracked it boys! Women = Patriarchy. Edit- 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:06 AM
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Nah apparently they would because they just enjoy the danger. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:35 AM
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You aren't addressing the point at all. Why is patriarchy to blame for YOUR personal choices? It's a very simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:30 AM
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Wealthy people in this country have zero danger involved in their jobs What part of without using apex fallacy do you not understand? I know many men who have chosen to do just that. A lot seem to enjoy the solitude and simplicity involved with manual labor jobs. Maybe they even like the danger some. Emphasis mine. I can tell you have never worked a blue collar job in your life, and don't interact with blue collar men. Nobody enjoys the possibility of being seriously injured or worse in order to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:22 AM
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Is this a serious post? Do you honestly not believe that risk factor has anything to do with salary? You don't think that the level of sacrifice in certain jobs is a factor in why they pay more than others You don't see why men (and to a far lesser extent women) who spend months at a time away from their family on oil rigs out at sea, a dangerous and unforgiving job which demands sacrifice in many areas, pays more than pink collar jobs with a O% mortality rate where you get to be flexible with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:53 AM
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Literally zero percent of people who have worked in construction, be they men or women, question why it pays more than being a hairdresser or wiping old folks butts for a living does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:43 AM
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Women choosing to work less dangerous, lower paying jobs. Women choosing to take more time off, work less overtime, women choosing to work more flexible jobs so that they can better balance work and family life. In essence. Women's own personal choices are patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:37 AM
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No seriously. They're really quite heavy and I need an expert in the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:05 AM
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That wasn't the statement I responded to. I have some goalposts I need moving if you're looking for work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:02 AM
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"Women are being executed in the middle East. This shows society hates women." Reply and actually show the figures of people being executed. Show that roughly 3% of all people being executed in the middle east are women and this percentage has remained consistent for a long time. Tries to explain that a tiny percentage of executions in the middle east being women is hardly proof that there is a war on women. Is downvoted, naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:07 AM
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Tom Hanks was a regular on Epstein Island and was pretty nonchalant about the casting couch culture in Hollyweird. I remember him being asked about it during the whole Weinstein thing and his answer was pretty much "that's just the way it is." Some of Hanks' characters might be good role models, i don't know. The man himself? Definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:35 PM
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He has young disaffected men's best interest at heart. To a lot of people that alone is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:33 PM
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You forgot the other argument. "That doesn't happen, and if it does, it's not that bad, and if it is, it's not a big deal, and if it is, it isn't our fault, and if it is, We didn't mean it, and if we did, that's a good thing and you deserve it."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:13 AM
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In group bias leads to things like the "Women are wonderful" effect. Which is primarily upheld and believed BY women. It's why men take "You aren't like other guys" as a huge compliment" While women take "you aren't like other girls" as an insult. Women think women are wonderful by default, while men don't think that way about other men. This is what leads to the empathy gap. When a woman talks about how terribly a man/men have treated her. She gets sympathy and told how brave she is. When a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:12 PM
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Just Gen Z, American women things. I don't think I've ever seen a woman do anything close to this in public. I have seen women awkwardly posing in public for selfies with their phone camera on a timer, but I've seen a pair of guys do that once too. The guys might have even been more cringey, because they took their shirts off just for the picture and then 0ut them back on again afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:03 PM
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A woman will sooner forgive cruelty than a weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:39 PM
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PPD has always been the same recycled topics over and over, but now it seems to be the most basic, low hanging fruit stuff that I'm completely shocked people think is important enough to make a thread about. "Looks affect how well you do in dating. Discuss." How do you even have a discussion there? It's like. "Ummm, we know?" This is why I mostly just stick to the daily thread these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:30 PM
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So many "no shit, Sherlock" threads at the moment. More than I remember there being when I was last here anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:17 PM
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This is just how a woman responds to anything you do if she doesn't find you attractive. The devil horns effects, opposite of the Halo effect. If she thinks you are hot, all of those things are good and she will see the virtue in them. If she thinks you are beneath her, all of those things become a detriment and she will look to find nefarious intent in everything you say and everything you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:53 PM
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Hugh Jackman's wife is his beard. No way that dude is hetero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:56 PM
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To be fair I can see this happening in California. It is the pedo capital of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:34 AM
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I'm not. The women in my life are as much of an authority as anybody here though. I'm just sick of all the weirdos making shit up on here 24/7 and never getting called on it. You can lie to yourselves all you like, just remember. Nobody who actually has a life outside of reddit believes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:31 AM
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I do. It is because they aren't in a constant competition with men like women here are and have no incentive to lie or make "the other side" look bad. No, it isn't a common occurance, most of the women I've asked about this have said they can count the amount of times they have been catcalled on one hand, in their entire life. Again, people here think everybody is terminally online and will just unquestioningly accept whatever claims they make. All anybody has to do to discredit most of the bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:26 AM
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I have asked. I've shown some of them comments from. PPD and they all think it's wack. Most say they would never leave their home if this was a common thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:18 AM
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It probably wouldn't bother me so much if they didn't call everything that makes a woman look even slightly bad a LARP or a creative writing exercise. But then they constantly come up with this shit and expect people to believe it as though we don't know any women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:12 AM
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I do. I don't think this is a common every day experience for women like is claimed so often on PPD. For me to believe that I would have to not know any women in real life. Either that or live in some 3rd world shithole where rapes are commonplace like South Africa or Botswana.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:08 AM
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I swear to god people on here think we don't have wives, girlfriends, mothers, sisters, friends, colleagues, acquaintances etc. This would be semi believable if we knew even a single woman that had been through something like this, but no. I could ask any woman I know when the last time she was catcalled is and I doubt any of them would even know the date. It's a rare occurance but according to PPD this is a constant everyday thing for the vast majority of women and little girls even. This "I ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:05 AM
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Oh god. Just seen another "I get catcalled every day and have done since I was 12" comment. If people are going to make shit up can they at least try to make it semi realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:56 PM
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This seems relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:27 PM
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Like women need RP or the manosphere to see misogyny around every corner. We literally have articles about how air conditioning is misogynist, or men sitting with their legs slightly apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:07 PM
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Women take dating advice from men? That's news to me. Every time I've advised my female friends against dating a dude because he was obviously sketchy as fuck they always ignored me and went after the guy even harder. This whole thread is based upon a false premise. I think both women and men here will agree that women taking dating advice from men is not a thing. If your point is that guys are being hypocritical by saying they should only take advice from other men but then try to give women ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:59 PM
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No. She's saying she's fine out loud. The second line is the real meaning behind it. If the guy takes her at her word he's failed the shit test. She wants him to show how much he cares by continuing to dig and dig until he pries how she really feels out of her. This is one of the most common shit tests you experience in a relationship. It doesn't just stop after the dating phase. Women do this constantly. They either act fine when they aren't or act sad and mopey and won't tell you the reason wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:33 PM
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What do you mean second one? They are both the same shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:27 PM
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Women can tell your intentions and assess your character just by how you look! Truly amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:30 PM
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I know how you feel man. My gf of 5 years did this to me with a married guy. Remember that she didn't do any of this to hurt you. In fact, she probably didn't think about you once the entire time. Dunno if that makes it better or worse tbh, but the only thing you can do is try to distance yourself and not care about it the same way she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:27 PM
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It's astounding that this shit even has to be said yet here we are. Halo and devil horns effects are always in play, in every interaction you will ever have with other human beings. Being good looking doesn't just make getting sex and relationships easier. Attractive people have been shown to be able to make friends easier, find employment easier and their lives overall have been shown to be greatly benefitted by being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:12 PM
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Got cheated on. Didn't enjoy it. Going to have to err on the side of yes. Cheating bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:46 PM
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Don't forget the part where she goes on to have an interracial lesbian relationship afterwards because straight women in media is soooooo last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:44 PM
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Lol. Lmao even. That feeling when you get mad at socially awkward guys for not being able to read minds and know he disgusts you before he even approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:24 PM
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That is definitely a part of it. I'm a regular guy, I have a friends group comprised of both men and women. I've definitely seen my female friends call guys creepy who didn't deserve it or even do anything wrong. Some weren't even hitting on them and were asking for the time or something of that nature. They just happened to be awkward or unattractive. They never call them creepy to their face. They always wait for the guy to leave and then tell everybody when they're out of earshot. In the past…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:58 PM
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I think it's uncharitable in the extreme to characterise guys who go away at the first no as creeps. A guy who shoots his shot, gets rejected and then leaves and lets her be is not creepy. If he is being called that he is likely just ugly or/and socially awkward. That is not creepy behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:41 PM
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Women want to be desired by SOME men not all. It isn't rocket science, yet neither women nor lonely men can seem to get their heads around this simple fact. This is why you get women dressing for attention and then crying about feeling violated when ugly, awkward guys notice and hit on her as well as the guys her outfit was supposed to attract. Then you get those guys who were rejected and/or called creeps crying because they're like "I did the same thing Chad did! Why did she cry harassment wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:34 PM
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The whole thing stinks. Especially when the prison guards admitted to falsifying the records the night that he "killed himself" on. And still cut a deal with the US government and recieved no jail time for it. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-59839724.amp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:23 PM
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By all acounts trafficked underage girls for a whole host of celebrities and powerful politicians and corpos to have illegal sex with. Then he was arrested and was going to spill the beans on who all his powerful clients are, so they killed him in prison and told the public it was suicide. It's easily the biggest scandal of our lifetimes. Basically the people who run the world are a cabal of paedophiles, but they are very careful to keep the public's attention on other things which is why they k…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:12 PM
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Yeah. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Little_Saint_James,_U.S._Virgin_Islands#:~:text=Little%20Saint%20James%20is%20a,the%20subdistrict%20East%20End%2C%20St.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:04 PM
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Mostly pigeons. If you want to see more interesting stuff you have to get out into the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:58 PM
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Just be a eunuch bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:48 PM
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This is true for both genders I think. I saw someone do a social study before where the woman went out in a super low cut top with a hidden video camera in her cleavage. It would capture every time a guy would look down at her chest. Turns out guys just constantly looked at her chest. It was something crazy like once every 5 seconds or so. She then repeated the experiment whilst wearing a turtleneck, and to her surprise. The camera showed that guys didnt look down at her chest once while convers…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:41 PM
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It's hard to say with these Hollywood types. Roiland has made some very sketchy pedo comments on twitter that he managed to pass off as jokes. He's a leftist so of course he was given the benefit of the doubt. James Gunn is another one, said some disturbing pedo shit, said it was a joke and everyone gave him the benefit of the doubt. Gunn is even worse though because we know for a fact he visited Epstein Island multiple times. As for the domestic violence stuff IDK, but it wouldn't shock me. All…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:30 PM
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That's bear for "I'll kill you before you can kill my kids"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:21 PM
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Prince William looks bad because he is the result of generation after generation of the royals keeping their breeding habits "in house".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:20 PM
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No it isn't. The body positivity movement was started by fat women to primarily celebrate fat women and to try to social engineer society to see them as beautiful. It has since expanded but is still primarily by fat women for fat women. Thin women either largely don't care and don't get involved or support it as one of the myriad of ways they like to virtue signal. I know the narrative on this sub is that women are always competing and looking to one up one another and put each other down, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:33 PM
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Dead before the day is out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:06 PM
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It's not jealousy. It's disgust. "I just can't see him as masculine anymore."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:35 PM
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This, especially so for Reddit. Can't even go onto a gaming sub anymore without being inundated with posts about trans stuff and leftist politics. Reddit is not the place to come for people who don't want to see political stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:01 PM
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"When I am weaker than you, I ask you for freedom because that is according to your principles; when I am stronger than you, I take away your freedom because that is according to my principles."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:48 PM
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Lmao. Touch grass is such a lame response. I don't know why people think it constitutes an argument. I assure you I touch infinitely more grass than you, which is why I haven't posted here in almost a year. This shit is reality. Dating app data shows this. Women on PPD prove this constantly. Actually having female colleagues, friends and family members reinforces this. Stop assuming people here are shut ins with no personal lives. There are some for sure, but some of us actually lead normal live…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:44 PM
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This is why you watch what they do, instead of listening to what comes out of their mouth. Only one side admits to wanting traditionally masculine men true, but look at who people are actually sleeping with, not who they claim they want to sleep with. The OP isn't claiming right wing women don't want traditionally masculine men. He's claiming leftist women claim to not want that and then choose those men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:38 PM
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There's some truth to that. I mean, look at that viral clip of the gym thot and that dude that's blown up. The guy barely glances in her direction, about 5 times over a 6 minute period and she acts like he is raping her with his eyes. High levels of neuroticism and extreme sense of self importance combined are to blame for this sort of behaviour. I've seen it with some of my female friends. A guy will ask them the time and they react like he was hitting on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:30 PM
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How would this work? Everybody is in denial about what their league actually is. A woman who is a 5 thinks men who are a 5 are disgusting and wouldn't touch them with a 10 foot pole. They find 80% of men to be "below average". I saw a clip on YT the other day where a guy was interviewing a bunch of women about this. They asked him how he would rate himself, he said he gave himself an 8. They said he was overrating himself and he was a 4 or a 5 tops. The guy then revealed he was a literal super m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:19 PM
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This is false. The only way women will usually tolerate unattractive men is if they don't try to escalate things beyond a friend/sibling like relationship. Ugly guys generally have to act like eunuchs to be accepted by women, the moment he tries to change that is usually when the woman will cast him aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:13 PM
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Not really related, but when I was a teenager my mum once walked in on me when I was on the computer and accused me of watching porn. It was Bladerunner. I was watching Bladerunner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:07 AM
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We live in a victimocracy right now. Everyone wants to be oppressed because although nobody will admit to it, oppression is power and social currency in the current climate. Everybody has problems. Everybody wants their problems to be at the forefront and be thought of as more important and pressing than everybody else's are. That's a problem in and of itself, but the real bad guys are the people who tell you that your problems don't matter because of your immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:05 AM
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Jacinda Ardern disagrees. That woman went from looking like a normal human being into looking like Gollum in a few short years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:52 PM
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Depends. If you're at least of average attractiveness then caring less gives at least the illusion that you have other options to women. Having options or at least appearing that you have options absolutely improves your success with women. If you can't even pass the entry door because women dismiss you based on your appearance alone then no, caring less isn't going to improve your success rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:10 PM
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Yes. Care less. Treat women like a queen and they will treat you like a servant. Treat them like a celebrity and they will treat you like a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:02 PM
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Hey thanks for the message. I do t really feel like getting back out there right now. And yes, I'm never going to talk to her again. Its what both of us want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:33 AM
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Thank you. I know what I have to do. Its just hard in the time that I'm alone to not endlessly dwell on everything. Every moment I'm not doing something taxing or in other people's company I think about it. I do need to move on as soon as I am able because I know she won't have spent a single moment thinking about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:56 AM
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Well like I said anything that would have made me think twice happened years before I even met her. During our 5 years together there was nothing resembling a red flag. The last 5 years have been the best of my life. This has all come completely out-of nowhere for me and thats why it hurts so much. I'm confused and I don't know how this happened. She just doesn't feel anything for me anymore, and obviously she's been feeling like this for a while but for me it has come out of absolutely nowhere.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:42 AM
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History of abuse. Rough childhood. She had a job at a supermarket where she had slept with about half of her male colleagues. She had previously been an accessory to cheating. I don't know if they are red flags or just hangups on my part. I could easily look past the abuse because she didn't choose that. But her Incestuous friendships and work situations really grossed me out and it took a lot for me to look past that. She told me I was judgemental and a prude, and in time I learned to shove it …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:48 AM
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Thank you. I don't know the guy but I don't have a good feeling about him. Its not jealousy or bitterness talking either. But any married man who continues to hang out with a woman who has confessed feelings for him and attempted to make a move on him is suspect. I can't help but feel that his family is going to get torn apart and I will be powerless to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:44 AM
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I do think there were other red flags. But they were all things from her teenage years and very early 20s. Things that people generally grow and learn from. Not once in the 5 years we were together did she five any indication she was capable of anything like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:55 AM
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I guess. It's just hard to see it that way right now. She wasn't just my girlfriend. She was my one. Its not even like things were rocky or anything either. At least not on my end. One day everything was fine and the next she's left me and is pining after some married guy she's only ever talked to on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:45 AM
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I told somebody else, but I won't let this turn into misogyny or a festering hate for all women or something. I'm not even angry. I'm just completely heartbroken, hurt and confused. What makes it worse is that I know it wasn't even malicious, she doesn't hate me and want to hurt me or anything like that. Somewhere along the road she just stopped feeling anything for me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:11 AM
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Thanks. I know things will get better eventually, but right now my whole life and future has been ripped right from under me. I'm a fucking mess tbh. Hard to see it as a learning experience when person you thought was the love of your life does something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:08 AM
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She did express regret, but said she had low self esteem and she was naive and thought she was in love. So I guess still made excuses for it. This time she showed no regret. She was blunt and cold and uncaring. She made it sound as though the only barrier to her sleeping with this guy was the fact that he didn't want to. She didn't mention his wife or kids once beyond the fact that he had them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:04 AM
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I'll try not to. I just dont want her to ruin anybody else's life. Mine is enough, I'm thinking about this guys wife and kids, I don't give a fuck about her or him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:57 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:55 AM
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This is my feeling as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:54 AM
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And I won't let this fester into misogyny. I said this has nothing to do with pills or proving either side right. This is just the only place I can vent right now. She means everything to me and I feel like a complete fucking failure. Ever since it happened all I have thought about is her, and I know she won't have thought about me once. I'd rather she hated me than the complete apathy that she has shown.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:53 AM
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Yes. She has a history of this. When she was a teenager she was an accessory to cheating with the boyfriend of one of her friends. She said she was in love with him. It disgusted me but I learned to overlook it because I love her. She's now had almost 15 years to learn and grow as a person and instead she is trying to do the exact same thing at 30. With a guy she hasn't even physically met.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:48 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:44 AM
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I don't think that would even be possible. Like I said I have no idea who his wife is, and my ex has gone zero contact with me since Tuesday. All I could do is message him and tell him that he would be making a huge mistake and potentially ripping his family apart. But im not going to do that. He would just think that I am jealous and trying to get her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:44 AM
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Thank you. I may just do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:39 AM
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I'm trying to see it that way. But its hard to just give up 5 years as a learning experience and all the good times we've had as "she's a shitty person." But at the same time. I overlooked so many red flags because I love her. She told me that as a teenager she was sleeping with the boyfriend of one of her friend because she was in love with him and thought he would leave her friend and be with her. He didn't. I told myself she was only 18 when that happened. She's grown and learned and she's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:36 AM
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Ehhh. The fact that she hit on him and he wants to continue hanging out with her is a huge red flag. I'm only privy to what she told me. I know they haven't met In person and all this came about over reddit and then discord (making me look even more pathetic) I got left for a guy she hasn't even fucking met, just voice chatted over discord. I don't think the guy will leave his wife for her, but the fact that they are still hanging out makes me think that he will absolutely take advantage of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:34 AM
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I wish. I have no idea who his wife is. I only know who he is because of his PlayStation account on her friend's list. He isn't someone either of us know in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:27 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:23 AM
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Coming up on 30. No didn't see this coming at all. She hasn't given me any reason to worry in 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:13 AM
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Sorry, I know I posted this already but the thread immediately closed and I dunno. I feel like I just need some positive vibes my way right now. So my unicorn turned out not to be a unicorn. I am heartbroken. I have nowhere else to do it so I need to vent. This isn't about pills or who is right or wrong. I am just completely broken. My gf of 5 years has been emotionally cheating on me with a married man. The only reason it wasn't physically cheating is because he said no. 5 years of my life gone…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:10 AM
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So my unicorn turned out not to be a unicorn. I am heartbroken. I have nowhere else to do it so I need to vent. This isn't about pills or who is right or wrong. I am just completely broken. My gf of 5 years has been emotionally cheating on me with a married man. The only reason it wasn't physically cheating is because he said no. 5 years of my life gone. We have been long distance the last few months due to work and she became distant about a month ago, but told me it was nothing to worry about …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:58 AM
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I've only ever slept with people I wanted to be in a relationship with, or was in the beginning stages of a relationship with. Casual sex- Not against it. More power to people who want to engage in it. I just wont date those people. Porn- Already said. No problem with porn whatsoever. It serves a purpose, It just doesn't serve a purpose for me specifically. Nudity- What like in public? Art? Films? Not sure what you're asking but in general I don't have a problem with it. I'm not a religious trad…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:57 AM
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I wouldn't say I fit the bill perfectly. But I'm pretty close to it. I won't date someone who has had a lot of casual sex but I don't do casual sex either. Not anti porn existing but I don't watch it. It isn't really a moral thing though as I said, I'm not actually opposed to porn. I just personally don't like it and know I wouldn't get anything from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:48 AM
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I disagree here. I think if you asked people IRL if they would be fine having a completely sexless relationship then almost everyone would say No. They wouldn't be a okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:01 PM
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I mean I can live without sex as well, physically. It isn't going to kill me. It's just, like I said. I think guys are less likely to compartmentalise these things than women are. What separates a really deep good friendship from a committed relationship without sex? Not a whole lot. You see the relationship and sex as two different things that can exist fine without the other. I see them as the same thing. Without one the other can't survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:58 PM
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Hmm. I guess I just couldn't feel romantically loved if my gf/wife had zero interest in sex with me. I think women have a much easier time separating the two. For me love and sex can be separate, but I can't feel the former without the latter. I think this is probably where the disconnect is coming from. You are thinking "guys just care about the sex" and the guys are thinking "but they are intertwined."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:47 PM
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So you are talking a marriage that is "sex purely for procreation" then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:42 PM
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How do you know you have those things without sex? Family? You won't be having kids of your own without sex. Love? There are different kinds of love. If she doesn't want to sleep with me what makes her different from a good friend or something? Growth? You can grow while being alone. People are going to pick 1 in a heartbeat because you haven't outlined anything that makes option 2 even remotely preferable. It's being a walking wallet and workhorse like someone else said. All the things you outl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:33 PM
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Yeah definitely 1. Dead bedroom is breakup time if its something you aren't trying or at least willing to try to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:15 PM
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2 doesn't even make any sense to me. How would I be romantically successful if nobody wanted to sleep with me? When relationships get to the "I love you but in not in love with you" or "I love you but I'm no longer attracted to you" phase it means the relationship is over. I don't think it's possible to be 2 without having some success being 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:12 PM
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You can't make a claim and then demand other people show proof that your claim is incorrect. Thats not how things work. If you make a claim you are the one that needs to provide evidence. The burden of proof lies with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:44 PM
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Yep me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:28 PM
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Well its a good thing I wasn't commenting on how vile each side is because that's an opinion. Obviously leftoids are going to say Trump is vile and rightoids are going to say Biden is vile. People who think their side isn't corrupt is what I was talking about. Or people who think "our corruption is okay or less bad because the ends justify the means" are complete morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:57 PM
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For me it started going way downhill as early as season 3. The first two were probably the best thing I had ever seen on TV to that point. Season 3 was meh. 4 and 5 only got worse. Stopped watching after 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:23 PM
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People on here reduce sex workers to people who are victims of sex trafficking and people that don't have any other option. Sex workers cover a large spectrum ranging from those types to people with onlyfans accounts. People use a specific example because it makes it look like their argument holds weight. "I wouldnt date a man who has visited a sex worker because they are taking advantage of a woman with no autonomy" can very quickly become "you wouldn't date a girl just because she does onlyfan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:09 PM
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I dont care. This is a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:03 PM
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But again. If the timeframe is important for one it has to be for the other. If me and the girl are both 50. Her having slept with 20 men seems fine. A little above average maybe, but not out of the realms of normalcy. The thing is. I'm also expected not to care if I'm 21 dating other 21 year olds and she has a body count of 20. And yes. This is why the past matters. All of it. Seeing hookers can let you see things about a guy's personality. So can promiscuity. I don't have to post all the studi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:01 PM
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Youre welcome! Thanks for the new tunes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:55 PM
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For this topic the time frame is irrelevant. The women who say men shouldn't care about N count don't specify how long in the past it has to be for them not to care. They just say they should not care at all. So it could have been a decade ago, it could have been last week. It's still in the past. If I'm expected not to care about how promiscuous a woman has been because "that was in the past, she only wants you now" Then it shouldn't matter if a guy saw a sex worker last month. It was in the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:53 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:39 PM
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Om nom nom pump the salt straight into my veins!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:39 PM
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I always upvote these posts. I've already known about a few but I'm learning about some new stuff too so thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:38 PM
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Yeah but let's say a guy visited some escorts or whatever in his 20s. You meet him in his 40s or 50s. He shows he's never had an STD and hasn't visited a sex worker since then either. Would you be okay with this? If not, what makes him different from a guy that slept with hundreds of women and miraculously didn't get an STD?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:36 PM
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You are having sex with an incredibly high N man though. Like 0.001% of high N.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:33 PM
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Tbf. Isnt your husband one of the guys that has a 3 digit N count? How do you know he hasn't had STDs? There's a higher chance of him catching something in the past than a guy that visited a couple of sex workers just from the sheer numbers alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:32 PM
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This is the crux of it I think. Most women wouldn't be bothered by a super rich important dude that didn't have time to date, so just splashes out on high class escorts when he had the urge. When that guy is ready to settle down he will still have willing women despite knowing about his past. It's the guys that pay for a prostitute because they couldn't get any woman to willingly sleep with him for free. It's the same mentality as "I want to date a guy with options because those guys aren't desp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:30 PM
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Yeah I saw a podcast clip on YT recently. It was called the regular podcast or something IDK. Anyway apparently its just two guys who set up a booth in public parks and stuff, and anyone who wants to can sit down and be a guest on there. A bunch of attractive young women went on and the topic went on to dating. All of them admitted to being on tinder despite either A) being in a relationship or B) Single but not actually looking for a relationship or even a hookup. Most were saying they just use…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:21 PM
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Relax buddy it was a joke. I think it's incredibly naive though for someone to think "My side good and just" and other side "bad and corrupt". People are fucking blind. The corruption is everywhere and ridiculously apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:06 PM
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Don't forget men who have experimented with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:04 PM
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The true "radical centrist"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:57 PM
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Guess I found out who was downvoting me lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:57 PM
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Well tbf the overton window is constantly shifting. People who are center right now are probably more progressive than somebody who was center left in 1970. Someone who was center left in 2008 would be considered to be on the right now even if not a single one of their views had shifted since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:38 PM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:26 PM
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The fun thing about saying both the left and the right are corrupt, is that you don't know which side you upset and is downvoting you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:12 PM
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This is usually the case no matter what because children like to rebell. Two leftist parents create right wing kids. Two religious parents create hardcore atheist kids. This is just the way of things. It lends no credence towards the idea of one side being correct or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:08 PM
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Like communism yeah. Red bad. Us normal countries have our conservatives use blue. It's your guy's faults for having everything backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:04 PM
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Okay whats your point? People are hypocrites? Yes we already know this. That doesn't mean they are lying about why they are anti abortion if that's what you are trying to imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:01 PM
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The US =/=The people living there. The death penalty and abortion are both hot button discussions among people so it's too simplistic to say "the USA doesn't care". Besides that, not everyone is American and not only American opinions are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:51 AM
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I wish the Dems would grow a pair and just play dirty too. Lmao. Is this a parody or do you actually believe dems don't play dirty? Do you actually believe corruption is limited to one side of the political aisle?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:46 AM
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Be the change that you want to see in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:41 AM
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Sure I guess. I'm not American so I'm not as familiar with the death penalty. I suppose the argument would be that it's their punishment for infringing upon other people's human rights. Whereas an unborn child has done no such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:32 AM
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We are talking about fundamental human rights. Not US citizen's rights. And sure. The death penalty is another important topic of discussion regarding human rights and how governments breach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:17 AM
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Those people are ridiculous. Sex is not even close to being a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:45 AM
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The problem with abortion is that it actually causes a clash between two different human rights. And it forces you to prioritise one over another. On the one hand we have the right to bodily autonomy. People having the right to decide what they do with their own body without it being infringed by others. On the other hand, we have the fundamental human right to life. This is why there is such a split amongst people's opinions. To make "abortion" a right you have to infringe upon one of these rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:43 AM
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The main problem is that barely anyone knows what a fundamental human right is anymore. Human rights are inalienable. They are things that don't have to be given to you. They can only be taken away. This is why speech and liberty are human rights and food/shelter/abortion are not. All of those things require the labor of another/others to provided to you. We as a society need to stop discussing things based on whether they are "rights" or not because more often than not we are talking about enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:18 AM
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Governments spend trillions of peoples own taxes to do fuck all and nobody cares. Elon Musk spends 44 billion of his own money to buy a social media platform and everyone rages and asks "why aren't you ending world hunger!?!?!?!?" Turns out people aren't logical creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:11 AM
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Definitely. Plus [shit like this exists] (https://preview.redd.it/oxkd6kkr1cv81.png?width=320&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=93ae1ac1ece315db75bad1ea9bd6cff3308d407a)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:57 AM
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Because cucks exist and it's sex/relationship related and therefore relevant to PPD. Plus it's just a funny word to use as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:40 AM
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Guys can get weird about things like this. I think the overall point is sound though. Every woman may not have the exact same taste in the top 5% of men. But the vast majority of women's "taste" falls into the top 5% somewhere. A Sally's particular niche maybe a different super attractive A lister to Becky's super attractive A lister. But the fact remains they are both super attractive A listers. This is a meme but it still manages to be fairly accurate nonetheless. https://pics.me.me/women-love…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:24 AM
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They are single. It's just that "single" doesn't mean the same thing when men say it vs when women say it. When a guy says he is single. He isn't just lacking sex generally, he is also lacking any kind of female companionship, attention and validation as well. Women can get all of these things and sex regularly all while being single and if she isn't then that's by choice. Women know that being single is a "phase" that they can put an end to pretty much any time they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:51 PM
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From what I remember a fair few femcel subs went private to avoid incels asking them out on dates and stuff. That tells you all you need to know really. "Femcels" are really just volcels. Forever alone women choose to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:44 PM
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All the time. And yes definitely worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:42 PM
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Yeah I hate that about this sub. "Keep his belly full and his balls empty and you have a recipe for a happy man." No. Just fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:17 PM
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This! Everyone is the hero of their own story after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:13 PM
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I got downvoted a ton the last time I said plastic surgery and fake boobs don't look nice on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:36 PM
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Pretty much. It isn't relegated to just America though. Here in the UK it's the same. In the last elections when the conservatives were voted back in social media people were acting as though Britain had just become the fourth reich. This despite our "conservatives" being further left than most country's democrats and actually siding with the left on most issues against their own voter base. There are literal self described socialists among our conservative MPs. But hey, Labour wasn't voted in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:25 PM
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Yeah. Honestly at this point I'm not even sure if they expect to get anything out of it. Maybe just Internet good boy points, but even then probably not. You see some guys be simps here on PPD and agree with everything women say and they don't even get upvotes for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:06 PM
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I don't think this is necessarily even a feminist problem. People have just become so entrenched in their political ideologies that they will accept pure evil as long as it comes from their side of the aisle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:38 PM
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Yup. A lot of guys here are their own worst enemy. They give certain people exactly what they are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:56 PM
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Oi mate! You got a loicense to be looking at a female loike that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 02:23 PM
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I generally agree with this. I remember when covid lockdowns were still a new thing. Around 3-4 weeks in. There were so many social media posts from women claiming they had never been so long without "dick" and that it was driving them up the walls. To the average single guy 3-4 weeks is absolutely nothing. The blink of an eye. If you offered the average single guy the chance to only go 3-4 weeks without getting laid he would likely rip your arm off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 02:19 PM
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Holy self awareness batman. You can't seriously be claiming I am arguing against a strawman, and then claim I said this. patriarchy is a system where every man is a king and every woman is a slave beaten in chains. You are a parody account surely?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 02:13 PM
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I'm pretty sure people made it to counter rateme where every woman gets a 10/10 and Simps say she's the most amazing thing they have ever seen. Truerateme was created to balance it out and not be such an ego booster for women but they took it too far. Now they just call everyone "meh" even when they are clearly very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 12:18 PM
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You too!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:48 AM
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Yup. Downvote city in here today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:45 AM
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Oh I wasn't being passive aggressive or giving a backhanded compliment or something like that. It's just that PPD is such a war zone it feels like a more accurate thing to say than "nicest" or whatever. But sure. If you prefer. You seem to be one of the nicest people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:35 AM
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Yeah not me. I got the feeling she mostly just said stuff to get a reaction and draw eyes to her rather than because she actually believed what she was saying. I have no interest in debating people like that. If you actually believe X and I disagree, then yeah we can have a discussion. If you're just saying X because you think it will make me mad or upset, then yeah. No time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:32 AM
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Oh. No I've had like one interaction with her on here ever. In the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:26 AM
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Why would it bother me? Does it bother you since you keep hitting me up about it? I don't give a shit whether the dude takes my advice or not. People are welcome to give attention seekers all the attention in the world if they want. Also who are you asking if I was talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:22 AM
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Well sure. But the person I was saying "ignore her it's what she wants" to was already making a big deal about it. It's already too late by that point. Maybe next time she comes back and nukes her account in two days time he will actually ignore it. You never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:19 AM
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My bad. I didn't realise advising someone else not to give a person attention is the exact same thing as me giving that person attention. Silly me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:15 AM
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I don't follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:11 AM
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Well tbf you are one of the least hateful people on here so I'm not surprised you've not been to any of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:07 AM
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Height and hair are the main two I see men complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:06 AM
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That is feminists definition of patriarchy. A system set up BY men to benefit men at the expense of women. I'm well aware feminists don't actually know what patriarchy is. Patriarchy is a system of society or government in which the father or eldest male is head of the family and descent is reckoned through the male line.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:47 AM
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Just ignore it. By bringing attention to it you're doing exactly what those types of people want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:44 AM
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It's either standards that affect them personally or standards that affect primarily women that they don't like. They don't care about standards that they can feasibly share. Like career goals etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:19 AM
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With PPD specifically. Probably not, besides FDS and askwomen. The overall point is that women see people shitting on men all over the Internet constantly and don't bat an eyelid. Not just reddit either. Twitter and TikTok are also havens of shitting on men. Then they see one small corner of the net where men have some reign to criticise and shit on women, and they REEEEE and all of a sudden care about people being mean and want it shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:12 AM
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Are you circumsised? This is often the reason for a curve in an erect penis. It creates scarring which slowly causes the penis to bend around the scar tissue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:06 AM
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Regular woman of reddit. Browses askwomen Browses FemaleDatingStrategy Browses TwoXChromosomes Browses WitchesVsPatriarchy Browses Feminism Browses AskFeminists Browses JustNeckbeardThings Sees an endless slew of people shitting on men all day every day. Doesnt bat an eyelid. Woman. Then visits PPD. "OMG this place is so HATEFUL! How is this place not banned yet?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:02 AM
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ITT I learned that descriptive terms = hate. If people said Promiscuous women are gross instead of sluts are gross, would that make you feel any better? Doubt it. Lets face it. The whole Internet is a dumping ground for all of women's many grievances with men. This sub is one of the only places on reddit where you are still able to see the men's grievances with women. Sorry you don't like it, but you have the entire rest of the Internet to post on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:31 AM
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Pretty much. I still remember the thread where people were saying men who won't date sex workers are insecure lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:29 AM
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However small the chances of you getting away are, it is above zero. There is a zero percent chance you will be able to successfully defend yourself against multiple attackers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:27 AM
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*In even greater numbers than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:25 AM
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Ba dum tsssshhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:58 AM
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Literally has no relation to anything I just said. Truly the empathetic sex. Maybe we should start saying the reading comprehension sex as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:57 AM
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The only self defense against multiple people is to run. Real Iife is not a Jackie Chan film.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:48 AM
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Mainstream subs are pretty much all men bad women good. I'm not sure what difference you're picking up on because it's always been like that. PPD is one of the only "actually women kinda bad too" subs that hasn't been banned yet. Maybe since FDS went away all the refugees are spilling into regular dating subs and spouting their toxic BS? As for the men, you are always going to get simps who will agree with whatever they say for even the smallest chance that it might lead to sex in the distant fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:44 AM
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They seem to have a complete inability to talk in generalities. They are like "Q4M- What is something women do that you don't like?" So I respond with things women do that I don't like. Then OP responds with "Omg why are you talking to me? I don't do any of those things so go away and leave me alone!" They ask a question and then get personally offended when you answer it. Nutcases.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:39 AM
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As I suspected. Don't worry it wasn't a gotcha. But it really is almost impossible to relate to the soul crushing loneliness a lot of single romantically starved men feel. Unless you either are one or have really close friends who are. "Single" for men and "single" for women don't even remotely mean the same thing in most cases. Single for a man usually means total and complete loneliness, romantically speaking. He's generally not only not having sex, but also receives zero attention from women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:35 PM
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Are you a man that has spent a significant amount of time alone, as in not having casual sex with no immediate romantic prospects in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:13 PM
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Depends on what you classify as a need. If it's things you will literally die without, like water and oxygen then no. It's obviously not a need. If it's things that take a massive toll on your mental health and well being when you don't have them? Then yeah, it's probably a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:09 PM
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Disagree here. It's not remotely the same kind of companionship. Men want to feel wanted. Desired. Have a life partner. Friends can't satisfy these needs even remotely. It isn't the sex itself that men crave necessarily. We do agree there. It's everything else that comes along with a woman who wants to have sex with you. Sex is just one of those things that, they don't seem all that important to people who are regularly having it. So successful men and most women basically. But to someone who ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:58 PM
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Niiiiice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:46 PM
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I think alot of men just crave the intimacy and validation they receive from casual sex Duh. Not even casual sex. Sex in general. Most guys just want companionship and a lot of guys here conflate that with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:43 PM
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I think it's a pretty common thing all across the west to treat sex like it's more taboo than violence at this point. It would feel hypocritical to criticise the USA on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:37 PM
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Ahhh fair enough. Feels odd without the furniture posting ever minute though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:31 PM
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No. Here in the UK we teach anti sex. We teach each other to have a stiff upper lip and to apologise if we accidentally brush up against one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:30 PM
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No. But I am low key worried about Smurf. Don't think I've ever seen her go more than 10 minutes without posting before and it's been at least 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:29 PM
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America chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:21 PM
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Never thought about it. But I would imagine virginity at any age is far less of a red flag in women than for men. Whether she's ugly, neurodivergent or whatever if she's a virgin it's almost certainly by choice. Even the most bottom of the barrel women have opportunities to get with guys. If she's a virgin it just means she's turned down those opportunities for whatever reason. With a guy it's a different story. If he's a virgin it means either A) He isn't trying/doing anything, which isn't attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:21 PM
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Good taste. Suicidal Tendencies are awesome. I say get her it stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:15 PM
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This pretty much. I return whatever the other person gives me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:15 PM
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Just as intentional as all if your self owns I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:24 PM
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I don't have to convince you of shit boy. My my some people have a high opinion of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:33 PM
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Of course you don't need my permission to think whatever you like about me. What you don't have the authority to do is tell ME what I feel as though you know me better than I do myself. You can think whatever the fuck you like about me. God knows I have my own thoughts about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:31 PM
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No. I think there are many people on PPD who think they are a lot smarter than they actually are. You are trying to "read" into things but in doing so you are just making shit up in your head based on your own preconceived notions. All of your "analysis" literally has nothing to do with me or what goes on in my own head and has everything to do with what you already think about people who are grossed out promiscuity. Meanwhile you are spouting off your OWN thoughts about what I may secretly thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:25 PM
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Found the Vaush fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:19 PM
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Your brain seems to have trouble functioning at all mate. Word of advice, this pseudo intellectual, mind reader psychologist stuff? It's not working for you and you clearly have no clue what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:18 PM
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Incels are the socialist Vaush and Hassan Piker fans of the world. Complaining about how everybody needs to have their "fair share." Note they are like their fans. Not Vaush and Hassan themselves. They would be like incels complaining about women and lack of sex while they were actually drowning in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:16 PM
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Oh no. I was dissecting YOU there buddy. I'm just disgusted by promiscuity. I'm also disgusted by cucks. No offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:14 PM
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Wait wait let me try. You are perfectly okay with sexually promiscuous women because you have the underlying desire to be a cuck and you secretly desire nothing more than to watch other men smash your girl while you watch. You likely aren't even aware you have cuck tendencies or the desire to be one. It's all pushed deep down to the point where you just think you are being progressive and accepting. You're probably afraid to search for why you even have these feelings because you are internally …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:53 PM
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Holy fuck are you a wizard? You must be with those impeccable psychic abilities. Can you give me the lottery numbers too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:47 PM
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Not true. Nobody ever told me growing up that promiscuous people are gross. I just think they are and always have done. This argument makes no sense anyway. Certain acts are disgusting regardless of whether you know about it or not. Someone picking their scabs off and eating them is disgusting, you don't have to know they are doing it for it to be gross. People don't "give off vibes" when they have certain disgusting behaviours. By that logic most things people are disgusted by are socially lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:38 PM
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The act of sex? Not at all. People that go through sex partners like I do clean underwear are absolutely disgusting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:31 PM
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Of course Amber Turd's biggest fan on PPD believes you deserve the downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:25 PM
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Doesn't really matter why. I just do. Don't get up on a high horse and act like you don't find certain things people do disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:19 PM
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But what if I actually just find promiscuity disgusting? I'm disgusted by all promiscuous people. Men, women, doesn't matter. I'm disgusted when people I have no interest in dating are promiscuous. Why would I be insecure that someone I have no interest in is sleeping with a lot of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:12 PM
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No. Like I said earlier it has nothing to do with the amount of sex someone is having so it can't be about disgust at sex itself. A woman who has had sex 100 times with 1 man or even 3 is fine. A woman who has also had sex 100 times, but with 50 men twice each, is disgusting. Amount of men, not amount of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:11 PM
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Nobody is saying the club is making women do it. They are saying women are expecting their boyfriends to be okay with them willingly putting themselves into sexually charged situations. There is already a problem when women are still wanting to do things that they know is making their partner uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:28 PM
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I highly doubt it. Clubs breed that type of environment. She isn't going to be drunk and grinding with similarly drunk horny guys at the store when she only went to buy bread and milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:21 PM
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It's frustrating because people don't want to understand. It isn't that they can't. People feel like they are losing something or conceding if they are forced to accept it. I was at a pub with a few friends, my sister and her then bf. My sister had a biiiiiiiig mood swing and got angry at me and her bf. We were trying to stack beer mats into a pyramid like you do with playing cards. She kept knocking it down when we got so high. It all seemed in good fun. After the third or fourth time this happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:10 PM
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Unfortunately this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:52 PM
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Don't ask questions. Just nod along and agree with the NPCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:51 PM
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Depends on what she's saying no to. The last time this topic came up on PPD women here were saying nothing is cheating if she doesn't intend to have sex. They said grinding with guys in a club is fine as long as they don't have sex after it. Is she saying no to dancing and grinding? Or just the part at the end when he tries to make a move on her? If she's going out and suggestively dancing with guys but ultimately not kissing them or doing anything else then it isn't explicitly cheating. But it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:46 PM
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You can be. But it's disingenuous to pretend the liklihood of being hit on at the store or while walking your dog in the park is the same as at the club. People don't go to the store with the express intention make moves and to be hit on. People DO go to clubs for those exact reasons. To go to a club and get on the dance floor is plain acceptance that random drunk guys are going to come over and try to hit on you, dance with you, grind on you etc. Asking your bf to be fine with you going out and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:31 PM
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Not at all. I'm pointing out that you are intentionally being extremely dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:11 PM
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I'd wager you can't say good morning without lying twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:07 PM
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Please stop. Women are not being approached non stop in the store. Being grinded on, flirted with. Everyone's inhibitions aren't lowered in the store. Nobody goes to the store with the INTENTION to pick up women or be picked up by men. People DO go to the club for these reasons. You are absolutely being disingenuous. The golden question while in a relationship is "would I be doing this if my partner was around watching me?" If the answer to that is no. Then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:03 PM
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This is disingenuous. The goal for the vast majority of people when playing videogames is not to find someone to hook up with. The goal of going out clubbing and drinking and dancing for many IS to hook up. These two situations aren't analogous. Also, if you're posting this because of the thread example. The OPs example wasn't just not letting his gf go on a girls night out. She lied to him. She claimed he couldn't go because it was girls only only for him to find there are guys there every week…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:55 AM
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You can't win. The last time this topic came up, PPD women claimed grinding with a random dude in a club isn't sexual and therefore okay to do even if you're in a relationship. Read that again. Yes grinding isn't sexual. Simulated sex and dry humping is not sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:45 AM
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Not "another man". Lots of other men. An example. There are two women. Both have had sex 100 times. The first woman was in an ltr and had sex with her boyfriend 100 times. The second woman has had sex with about 40 guys 1 or 2 times each. 3 times tops. Most guys are going to be absolutely fine with the first woman. No problem dating her whatsoever. The second is far more likely to be found disgusting. This despite both of them having the exact same amount of sex total.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:37 AM
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Patriarchy falls apart the moment you realise the vast majority of men would help out a woman over another man every day of the week. Women have shown to have an in-group bias, which means they generally like and support women. Men have been shown to have an out-group bias. Which means they also generally like and support women. It's the complete antithesis of patriarchy. Men won't hold each other up at the expense of women. Both men and women generally favor and want to help women. When you tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:31 AM
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It's insecure to find out your partner is lying to you? In the OP's example. The girlfriend literally lied when she said he couldn't tag along because it was girls only. Only to find out that there were guys there. That's sus. Find me someone that doesn't feel on edge or "insecure" about a situation like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:15 AM
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It's funny. Whenever I've asked women who have a lot of demands on here what they bring to the table. The answer I usually get is some variation of "Sweetie, I don't have to bring anything because I am the table." It's literally women saying they bring nothing to the table, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:11 AM
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Ehhh I think that's a little unfair. Human beings are if anything a very predictable species. Predictable = easy to manipulate. I think what you attribute to being mentally ill, I would be more likely to attribute to being brainwashed with ideology from a young age. When TV, movies, your favourite artists/bands, the news, Hollywood etc are all screaming at you day in day out that X good, Y bad. You are probably going to grow up with a loathing hatred for Y and an unshakeable belief that X is all…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:51 AM
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Because they view trans men as women still. Women good men bad. Therefore trans men = good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:38 AM
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RIP. Always thought it was a hilarious sub. Obviously to laugh at them not with, but still. The funniest thread I ever saw on there was "Ladies, if he has a small dick, he WILL cheat!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:34 AM
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Probably a little bit of both if we're being honest. I think the women are the ones that make subs like datingover30 and datingover40 big crossover subs because most of the men here are 30 or under.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:27 AM
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Who is changing the rules? Where were the people crying cancel culture bad when Depp was losing all his film deals? Heard hasn't even lost any. People are talking about not going to see her films which is NOT cancel culture. That is people voting with their wallets. It's the difference between blocking someone on twitter and banning them from twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:21 AM
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Dude I took a year long break ending about a month ago. I barely recognise anyone since I came back. I'm sure some of you are old timers using new accounts but there are like 3 0r 4 usernames I recognise from before. Mods aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:01 AM
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They're already here. One of the biggest crossover subs with PPD has been FDS for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:59 AM
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Ehhh people are being whipped into a frenzy because Johnny got the boot for everything at the start and now it looks like Amber was the POS and she's the woman. On the other hand now that it looks like the woman is the worse of the two, people are so much quicker to be like "guy's I know we cancelled Johnny soleley from accusations but let's not be hasty on cancelling the woman too eh?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:58 AM
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Yup. Just heard Yes by Macalmont and Butler for the first time since I was about 4. Immedoately downloaded it and have been playing it so much over the last 2 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:51 AM
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Nah just disgusted. Some girls try to tell you all the dirty shit they've done in the "getting to know you" stage, thinking its some sort of flirting or makes her appealing. It actually just means that's they last time I'll ever be talking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:42 AM
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Yup. I've said this before but I will see a woman. Think she looks perfectly fine. My gf however will notice weird and highly specific flaws with them that I would never even think to look for, let alone notice. I think women are highly critical of theirs and others appearances and project this on to men a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:26 AM
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Everyone on PPD is a freaking druggie it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:22 AM
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Tbf like half the album was shit. The other half was genius though. I guess it equals out at an average album overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:55 PM
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True. Nobody does unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:54 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:43 PM
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Alrighty, then ... picture this if you will. 10 to 2 AM, X, Yogi DMT, and a box of Krispy Kremes, in my "need to know" pose, just outside of Area 51 Contemplating the whole "chosen people" thingy when a flaming stealth banana split the sky like one would hope but never really expect to see in a place like this. Cutting right angle donuts on a dime and stopping right at my Birkenstocks, and me yelping... Holy fucking shit! Then the X-Files being, Looking like some kind of blue-green Jackie Chan w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:40 PM
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My dad eats pizza with a knife and fork. God damn heathen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:32 PM
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My gf definitely has this affliction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:31 PM
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Ehhh. I would personally describe myself as a centrist. I have views that would be firmly on the left and others that would be firmly on the right. This is generally what centrism has always meant. It's a misconception that centrist have no political views (they're apolitical, not centrists) or that they sit on the fence on every issue. What you are describing just sounds like jaded people (very understandable given the political climate) referring to themselves as centrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:30 PM
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Where my fellow Tool fans at?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:26 PM
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This surprises me. Say anything even mildly critical of say, Joe Biden and or the left in general and just watch the downvotes pile up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:24 PM
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Your job can be whatever you want it to be. Dare to dream. Depending on how many wives you have, their combined income would be enough to sustain you without you needing to work. Beware though, they will lose attraction to you if you aren't seeming to be "doing something" a man without drive is less than nothing to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:22 PM
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You appreciate things more when you get it less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:19 PM
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Then I guess they would have to know each other and live under the same roof. Alternate who gets to stay with you in the main bedroom nightly. Obviously whoever is sharing the bed with you gets the D that night. Unless you want to call in backups for threesomes etc. It's current year so all these women have to work and contribute. They don't have to be friends but it would save you a lot of hassle if they are. Need to nip jealousy in the bud as soon and often as possible. Good luck broseph. Happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:18 PM
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Are we talking soft harem or full blown multiple wives and concubines harem?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:13 PM
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Probably the same place as my male privilege and patriarchy pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:59 PM
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Preselection is a hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:06 PM
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Probably. Lol at the puritan responses though. "You get creeps because cleavage duh. Hide skin." Creepy in an OLD setting probably means they aren't good looking yeah. Since you can't really tell anything else about someone in that context. Looking at her profile she comes across as fun girl with geeky hobbies. So she's probably attracting gamer guys and nerds. Shes probably wondering why "I can't wait to beat you in a videogame" isn't attracting the captain of the football team.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:57 PM
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God that show was both awesome and totally cringe at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:23 PM
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Seth Rogan. Wise words. Two things that should not go together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:47 PM
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Most would probably say B but in reality would choose A. People like to pretend the are attracted to humility and self deprecation but this is rarely the case. Confidence is attractive. A physically attractive person with the confidence of an even more physically attractive person is going to still be extremely attractive. As a man I would also go with option A. Women who think lowly of themselves are not good partners. I've come to realise that women who don't feel attractive don't want you to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:05 PM
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Naive in the extreme. But hey it's nice to dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:48 PM
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You just murdered this man's whole idea. He is tearing up his screenplay as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:30 PM
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AI and it's consequences were a disaster for the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:47 PM
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Same. My phone corrects actual words to things that aren't even correct. Like I to U. I by itself is a word! U is not!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:43 PM
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I swear to god autocorrect will be the death of me. It looks like I'm constantly editing my posts and I am! But only to correct some stupid changes that I didn't even make. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:37 PM
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Ehhh. Chad's are not going to have a problem with maintaining soft harems. They would be more likely to rotate women than reject them. Bottom of the barrel women may be rejected even for NSA sex but unlikely. Even without taking this into account. Women's attraction doesn't work from solely looks. You put the burden of approaching onto women and you are forced to make them approach based on looks. Since before knowing somebody that's literally all you have to go on. This precedent has already be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:35 PM
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Orangutans and it isn't close. Sooooo cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:17 PM
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Well that goes without saying. It's not even within the capacity of the vast majority of men to be able to commit rape. I'm talking about those murky areas of consent. Where one party feels like it was consensual and another doesn't. I actually think "Stay away from women who play games around the issue of consent" is actually pretty good advice for most guys to live by. Not just guys on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:52 PM
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"Well your honour, I leant over to grab a polo mint from the glove compartment and I accidentally fell inside of her"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:49 PM
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I was going to say. None of this would help people who are autistic. I suppose the only advice you could give them is to avoid women who aren't explicit in what they mean when they say something. Don't push your luck with women who play these kinds of games, especially with something as murky, and potentially life ruining as consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:42 PM
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Explained this before. Women approaching and initiating would not create a utopia. It would exacerbate the fabled 80/20 rule that people are already frustrated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:37 PM
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How would you go about teaching people to navigate extremely murky waters though? Like you said. Every situation is different. Sometimes no means no. Sometimes it means not now. Sometimes it means convince me. Sometimes it means yes. Every situation is different and even the same woman can mean different things when she's saying the exact same thing as before. You can't cover these kinds of bases with "teach people not to rape." No amount of social acuity is going to help in every situation with…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:32 PM
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If only you were taught rape was wrong none of this would have happened. Luckily nothing will happen to you, because "boys will be boys" is enough of a defense that no man ever gets charged with rape. Your gf is going to jail though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:27 PM
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OLD sure, but that's why I think most guys are wasting their time on OLD. Going out and meeting people is an average guy's best chance to meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:19 PM
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Right. Because we don't teach people about consent already. If we just taught people that crime is wrong and punishable under the law. People would stop committing crimes. It's not like people would knowingly do something if they knew it was bad or anything. I'm starting to think we have a few closet mensa members on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:59 PM
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This is amazing! Why has nobody already thought of this? In fact why stop at rape? Why not teach all criminals not to crime? If we taught people not to do bad things then bad things would cease to exist. This is pure, unadulterated genius. We should come up with a set of societal rules or something, maybe call them something like laws. And the have people who break those societal rules be punished in some way. Maybe have them go to prison. If society had something like that, it would be just swe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:54 PM
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So is the concept of time, yet you still get old and die. Interdasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:29 PM
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Lmao. I always used to tell that one user who was anti approaching this. Men's equaliser in dating is the fact that we are supposed to approach. If women approached men 10% of guys would be hoarding all of the women. I like to use the traffic lights analogy. To a woman, red are guys who are like "Ewwww no no no gtfo" Green guys are like "Hubba hubba I want to bang immediatly" The vast majority of men are yellow. Yellow guys are "Wouldnt make me do a double turn in the street, but can win me over…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:27 PM
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Sharing is caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:02 PM
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No they're the girls that sat in the corner of class picking their nose who wished they were the mean girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:02 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:49 PM
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Sex communism duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:45 PM
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Lol it wasn't made private because of misandry. It was because they said something that got them reported as TERFs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:30 PM
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I'm sure he really tried his best to get to the bottom of it and punish those responsible. If they vote Labour back in then they're stupid. It's not like they are taking the grooming gangs situation any more seriously. What was it Naz Shah said? Oh yeah, victims of the grooming gangs should, and I quote, "shut up for the sake of diversity." You think the Guardian reported on that? These people are fucking ghouls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:04 PM
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Just looking at his name. I can't fathom why he would defend grooming gangs. Must definitely be because he was a tory. Yup thats it. Well done Guardian.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:52 PM
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Well yeah. That's a case of separating the art and the artist. Thinking R Kelly is a piece of shit and liking his music are two different things. You can comfortably think the former while still listening to his songs. I feel bad for people who still like Lost Prophets songs though...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:46 PM
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Dude I wouldn't be able to watch films anymore if I couldn't separate the art from the artist. Hollyweird is full of the worst people on the planet. These people fucking rage at pretty mundane republican bills but give standing ovations to child rapists like Roman Polanski. They only went after Weinstein when it became beneficial to their careers to do so. Absolute scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:28 PM
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Even so. Height is one of those "nice to have" things but it won't get you anywhere on it's own. I'd hardly say it's the most important thing a man can have. Wealth, status, confidence all rank far higher in my estimation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:03 PM
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Disagree. Being good looking will get you way further as a man than height will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:56 PM
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I just don't think the average woman is sleeping with 3 men a year. Most women are in relationships and are serial monogomists. Most women go 3-4 years sleeping with the same guy. Some have "hoe phases" in between relationships but I don't think this is as common as PPD likes to pretend. Don't get me wrong I think high N women are becoming more common all the time, but I still think it's massively exaggerated in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:36 PM
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The thing you need to realise about PPD is. People will say whatever it is they think they need to in order to "win". If it's convenient to say "every woman is different" then that is what they will say. If it's convenient to say "X is the experience of every woman" then that too is what they will say. Whichever wins them the argument is the one they will use. An example I always come back to is how if you say "The SMP is easier for women" the default answer is "Nu uh, average and below average …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:28 PM
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This is PPD women never play coy or hard to get. This is a manospherian lie created to make women look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:15 PM
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This is going to be one of the rare times we disagree. When I talk about high N women, a woman with an N of 35 would be the top end of that and extremely rare. When I think of a high N woman, I'm thinking of a woman with say, 15 or so partners. Hell, even double figures starts putting me into grossed out territory. Lot of guys here claim they are disgusted by high N women but then will say a woman with 20+ N count is not high N. I'm sorry, but if you date a woman like that then no, you can't say…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:12 PM
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Not a woman but this depends on the woman's overall view towards sex in general in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:07 PM
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Lots of people still use old reddit which has a downvote button. There's an upwards arrow for upvote and a downwards arrow for downvote on old reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:54 AM
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Look in the N count megathread. There are guys acting like 35 isn't a high N for most modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:32 AM
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Yeah if a girl told me her notch count was 35 I would be running for the hills. There are guys on here like "If she told me her I count was 35 I would be pleasantly surprised it's so low."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:27 AM
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Yeah I've always said the average lifetime N count for a woman is somewhere between the 10-15/20 mark. There are outliers that will go way over and some that will be under too but that range seems about right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:26 AM
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I don't think anybody disagrees. I think that one loser that downvotes everything has come into the thread. Every post I've made today have been hit with a single downvote in the last 10 minutes or so. I'll upvote you to balance it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:20 AM
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In a court of law, a medical examination can at least prove the two people had sex. That alone gets you closer to figuring out the situation than the testimony of person A vs person B. I wouldn't say its worse than a he said she said situation. It just isn't helpful on it's own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:18 AM
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To be fair I don't think anyone wants completely unrestricted free speech. Nobody wants to see pictures of torture or dead babies and stuff floating around unrestricted. People just want for their side of the political isle to not get silenced and shut down while the other side gets a megaphone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:03 AM
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I'm on board with dudes vetting against high N women but that N count megathread is insane. In what world is a woman having an N count of 35 NOT high N? There are guys in there saying stuff like "In the modern age 35 is nothing for a young woman. The average college girl can go through 35 in a couple of weekends." BULL SHIT. At least try to stay within the realms of believability smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:00 AM
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This definitely happens. Even if not a report I've had conversations on here where I piss someone off. Then the next time I check my profile my last 30 or so posts have all been downvoted once. People on here can be extremely petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:49 AM
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That's true but a medical examination is a hell of a lot better than "he said she said".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:45 AM
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God knows. A year back or maybe more one of the mods called me a "bad egg" and their reasoning for this was that I was one of the most reported people on PPD. Nevermind the fact that generally nothing ever came of those reports. I have been temp banned a grand total of once in my 3+ years here. My posts rarely even get removed, and the few that have, have been for circlejerking. People are just fragile losers that hit report because someone said something they disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:39 AM
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God I hope he buys reddit. Him buying twitter might unironically be one of the best things to happen to the West in a long time. It's like Gandalf taking over the dark tower and all the orcs being like "Wait, you mean we can't be literally fucking evil anymore?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:15 AM
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True but if you are good looking then the chances of you being a "loser" are extremely low. Good looking people tend to have large friend groups because they aren't ostracised. People forget that looks affect most aspects of a person's life. It isn't so simple as to say "a weird shy loser who has no friends and status but is a 10/10" because they don't exist. Being a 10/10 means that you don't become a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:55 AM
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Why do you think I take lengthy breaks from this place? I'm happy and in a fantastic relationship and this place even brings me down after a while. Everybody here sucks for the most part. Men, women, red pill, blue pill, black pill, left wing, right wing. Some of you are aight but the vast majority are fucking assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:47 AM
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Yeah and the majority of women are socialists until it comes to the SMP. Then they make even the most harbored capitalists look like Karl Marx. For the record I don't think people should equate the SMP to actual economic systems. It's fucking dumb. In both cases though its people who want the thingstl they care about to be their idea of "fair". The socialists in both senses are not being fair though. They want to claim part of the rewards for other people's hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:38 PM
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Because duh. Don't you see incel? Being nice to your boyfriend is the exact same thing as being a literal cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:32 PM
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Face and it's not particularly close.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:58 PM
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Well yeah I've already said PPD is probably the worst place to do this sort of thing. People on here constantly feel on edge and like they/their sex are under attack anyway. So people are more likely to be defensive and even hostile. A guy who is angry and saying "all women are whores prove me wrong" is not going to get the results he wants here. Women are not going to be like "Awww it's okay. Many women are whores but we aren't all like that and heres everything else you want to hear." They're …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:56 PM
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I know you disagree with him but I think this comes back to something u/Kaisha001 said. Women on those man hating subs, the misandrists have come to terms with the fact that they hate men. They don't want anything to do with them and therefore they exclude them and circlejerk amongst themselves. A guy who truly hates women would not seek to interact with women and ask them to prove him wrong. Those are the actions of a man who is frustrated and angry. He may even think he hates women. But he sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:44 PM
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This is the worst thing on this entire sub. Woman asks a question. I answer the question. Woman is like "Why are you directing this at me? Go away." I'm like "I'm not directing shit. I'm replying to you because you are the one who asked the question you lunatic."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:29 PM
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What the actual fuck are you talking about? Are you having a conversation with yourself or.....? At no point have I said women evolved to want to masturbate in front of pets or men have evolved to be harmed by it. I simply wonder if there is an evolutionary reason why women SEEMINGLY show lower levels of disgust to the act of masturbating with pets in the room. It feels like you're trying to have an argument in an empty room.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:21 PM
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Never said anything about evolutionary benefits. Higher levels of sexual disgust doesn't equate to disgust over the same things. In this instance, and having had multiple other discussions about this in the past. Women generally seem to be fine masturbating in front of pets. Men, again, generally so keep your hair on. Men generally seem to find it weird, or gross, or both. This leads me to believe that women GENERALLY have lower levels of disgust regarding this one specific thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:12 PM
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I mean disgust is an evolutionary trait. Men and women have evolved to be grossed out by different things to varying degrees. I find it interesting that it's mostly women that think its perfectly normal to masturbate in front of pets while its mostly guys that are weirded/grossed out by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:04 PM
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The converse is very rarely true. Men are often frustrated, horny, stupid, annoyed, sometimes angry, but very rarely express actual hatred. This is very well put. This is what I was trying to get across with my MGTOW example. A lot of guys here desperately want women to tell them not to give up and tell them they matter. While also acknowledging that their reasons to be angry and frustrated are legitimate. Generally I think PPD is one of the worst imaginable places for that but you see guys pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:57 PM
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Ehhh it's a debate sub. Arguing with people you disagree with is the whole point of being here. Let's be honest here, in 99% of CMVs. The OP's views are set in stone and they have no intention of changing, ammending or even slightly shifting them. With your specific example, it seems like those guys are doing a cry for help. It's like the MGTOW guys who want women to convince them to give dating another shot. They want women to show them that they matter and that they are missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:51 PM
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Reddit thrives off of being contrarian. The most upvoted takes that get awards are always the things that literally nobody IRL thinks. I remember a few years ago, there was a thread asking if people could only have one, would they rather their children be attractive or be smart. There's a reason barely anyone picked smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:35 PM
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A lot of people post anyway then repost in the new thread when they realise their point isn't going to get any traction in the old one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:27 PM
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At this point Chad is just shorthand for really attractive men who do well with women. To say Chad doesn't exist is to say hot guys don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:24 PM
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Hallelujah they exist! Hate coffee, scoffs at Myers Briggs. You might be my sister from another errr mister.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:50 PM
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Just start making fun of everyone who puts a lot of stock into Myers Briggs stuff. So basically every other woman on PPD. Actually scratch that, every woman on the whole of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:25 PM
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Yeah, it's just odd to me. Can't put my finger on why either, I just don't like the thought of it. I do wonder if it's an evolutionary thing though, I'm yet to see a guy claim it's normal for him to jack off with his dog in the room/on the bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:23 PM
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Maybe it is evolutionary. The thing that triggerred the thought for me was seeing women on twitter saying they masturbate on the bed with the cat sprawled out next to them. I dunno, to me that's just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:17 PM
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Wew laddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:00 PM
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Dunno. I'd seen a bunch of twitter posts from women saying it's normal to masturbate or have sex while their cat is on the bed or something. So I mentioned here that it's weird. Everyone was telling me I'm a prude and that it's no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:58 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ru7sNObp0fk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:57 PM
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Affection is fine. I think it's a bit weird when things start getting sexual in front of the kids. But hey, I was once ratiod on here for saying I think people who have sex or masturbate with their pets in the room are weird so what do I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:54 PM
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I mean IRL. There's a subreddit for everything lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:41 PM
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This is it! This is what I was trying to get at. You hit the nail on the head. So many people who drink coffee, and the "420" crowd make it a part of their identity. They feel kinship with others like them. You don't see this with other stuff. You don't see people have such a close relationship with tea or water or cream soda or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:10 PM
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Yeah people act like I've kicked a puppy when I tell them I don't drink coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:03 PM
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I know the withdrawal symptoms are real. I'm talking about the weird bond and kinship around it. Like you don't see tea drinkers all hanging out talking about how amazing tea is and stuff, and how weird people who don't like tea are. You only really see it with coffee and weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:02 PM
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Lol, maybe if the guy didn't look like he was any given moment away from standing up and glassing me I'm assuming those two had a stern talk later that night or the next morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:54 PM
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The thing I hate about coffee is the weird subculture around it. Like, there will be colleagues all hanging around talking about how they "can't function" or can be "such a bitch" without their hourly coffee. It reminds me of the subculture around weed and the weird kinship weed smokers feel towards one another. They're both incredibly cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:50 PM
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I actually agree with you. That was tongue in cheek. I think keeping score leads you on a path to misery. Most couples do different things for one another. They don't have to be doing the exact same things in equal amounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:39 PM
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I'm using this next time I hear how women are doing more than their fair share of housework in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:33 PM
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That's so weird. I once had a girl flirt with me in front of her bf and he was staring daggers at me the entire time. I remember just hoping she would stop so he wouldn't try to beat me up. Eventually we shook hands and parted ways. I don't know how some guys can deal with stuff like that. How did the original guy who got dumped for the fuckboy respond? The girl I'm talking about eventually took friend 1 back to her place. The one she made out with. I remember the walk home with friend 2, asking…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:29 PM
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Tbf, sexual assault is one of the legit reasons to cancel someone. That's one of the things people used to get cancelled for, before it became, well, everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:19 PM
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Happens every single time I mention the guy. Like clockwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:16 PM
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I was in a club with a couple of friends. One of my friends starts making out with some chick at a seated area. She moves one of her hands back while making out with friend 1. Takes friend 2's hand and starts moving it up her thigh towards her groin. I was fascinated and grossed out in equal measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:09 PM
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Dude its harder to find someone who hasn't been cancelled these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:06 PM
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Oh lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:52 PM
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12-14 year old includes 12 year olds though. Which means he definitely fucked 12 year olds. At 18. That is fucked up. It's too generous to say "Yeah but it wasn't JUST 12 year olds" who fucking cares? He still fucked 12 year olds and the fact that he may have fucked some 13 year olds and 14 year olds doesn't make it any better. Even 14 is still pretty shady as a legal adult. The fact is if a red pill guy came out with this shit nobody would be stretching themselves so much to give the benefit of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:50 PM
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Yeah and there's plenty of examples of creepy ass male feminists and SJWs being outed as predators. What's your point? Downvoting already tells me all I need to know. You aren't being good faith here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:46 PM
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It's a chicken and egg thing. I think with devout catholics and male feminists. It's that guys seek out these circles as a gross form of atonement for what they have done/continue to do. Rather than being in these circles is what caused them to commit these acts. It works well as both a form of atonement and also as a shield. They present themselves to their desired victims as a figure of trust. It also gives them the in built defense of "Noooo, X is a good person. They wouldn't do that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:43 PM
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Ron Jeremy because he's the only one I know by name. Wait what do you mean by save? I hope I haven't just walked into something disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:38 PM
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Tell me about it. I've already had about 4 fucks come crawling out of the woodwork to call it into question even when I've provided receipts. Since I showed proof it's become "Dont believe everything you see on the net." So first it was "he never said that." I provide proof that he did indeed say "that" Then it becomes "I don't believe it he was probably lying for clout" They will never just admit that "Yeah that's fucked up. There are bad people on my side too."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:35 PM
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You're saying BiggerD was beating up 12 year olds to rape them are you No, don't put words in my mouth I don't do it to you. I haven't claimed anything other than what he outright admitted to. The "so what you're saying is" thing is one of the slimiest debate tactics so please don't. Clearly the two things are separate. The sex with 12 year olds is rape because children can't give informed consent. This should be perfectly obvious to everyone. The beating up his girlfriends is a separate issue. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:27 PM
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Really? The "Get help" response? Yeah you just lost all your credibility here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:23 PM
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Holy fuck. Where are all you Internet skeptics whenever every woman on here is claiming she's been getting raped and sexually abused since the moment she turned 11? The moment someone says something that looks bad for your "side" you all come crawling out of the woodwork with your "Dont believe everything you hear" tripe. Trust me, I don't believe most of the blatant bollocks I see on here on a daily basis. Yet another creepy ass male feminist turning out to have some heinous shit in his closet?…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:20 PM
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Ehhh. The "All men would do it if they could get away with it, and most men do" was a pretty common argument at the time he admitted to all that stuff and it was found wanting then too. It just doesn't hold true to reality imo. Statistics show that the majority of rapes are committed by a select few men who are repeat offenders. I don't think it's even in most men's capacity to be able to commit such an act. They're physically able to sure, but the vast majority of men are more likely to want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:59 PM
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Thanks! I actually found what I was looking for now and bookmarked it. But thanks that would have been a great help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:53 PM
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Dude tell me about it. Arguing with that mod and his defenders almost got me banned for witchhunting on a number of occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:50 PM
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"I REGULARLY fucked drunk 12 to 14 year olds" "That doesn't mean he regularly fucked 12 year olds." Holy fuck I have no idea if you are deluded or just lying at this point. The lengths you mods go to protect your own is astonishing. I know he claimed it was wrong. The whole fucking point is that it's mostly leftist feminist men that do that heinous shit to begin with. You don't see red pillers trying to atone for fucking raping kids and beating up their girlfriends. It's always creepy ass male f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:47 PM
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I know rape happens. It's everything else that makes it fishy. Every male teacher in the school saying they want to do sexual things to her, talking openly enough about it to each other within school grounds for her to overhear but nobody else. The fact that every man in her life has been abusive. The point about the only people she trusts are her two lesbian mums. It has every ingredient of every man haters wank bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:44 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ac3brv/comment/ed4ztps/ "I regularly slapped and punched my ex girlfriends when they stepped out of line" "Women were just sex things to me and even at 18 I still regularly fucked drunk 12-14 year olds because "old enough to bleed old enough to breed"." Who's misrepresenting what? Before you start going on and on about context. No amount of context makes that shit okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:38 PM
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Why have they made it so you can only go so far back in your comment history? Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:29 PM
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Assuming they were some of the same people who say stuff like the things you mentioned sure. Im skeptical though. Can you admit that the women and bloops going to bat for him also lost all their credibility in terms of giving a shit about women, girls, or rape/sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:21 PM
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Right I'm going to find the post again because you fellow mods trying to whitewash what happened needs to stop. Those were direct quotes I just provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:13 PM
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That's literally what he admitted to. "I regularly used to have sex with drunk 12 year olds even as an 18 year old man" Repeated child rapist. "I used to slap and punch my girlfriends if they got out of line" Woman beater. Am I misleading people with these labels?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:04 PM
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He said it as a way to disparage no feminists and red pillers. It wasn't meant to be a flex, it was a "This is how pathetic I was when I used to be like all of you" sort of thing. Only, nobody else here was a repeated child rapist. His whole thing was "I did these things when I used to be toxically masculine and red pilled. Before feminism taught me that I can have feelings too." And no. Not even initially. Bloops and women defended him for months after the fact. I had women tell me he is a bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:58 PM
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In general. The people who extol their own virtue the most tend to be the ones with the most evil shit in their closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:41 PM
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Its a weird one. It looks like women all decided to unanimously stop caring and keeping up with this trial the moment it began to look like Miss Turd was the abuser and not the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:32 PM
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Well, if PPD is anything to go by and what happened here. Definitely the former. I unironically had women here tell me that Mr Pedo mod is a better person than me because he admitted he did wrong and became a feminist. While I said things that they didn't like. Doesn't matter that he was a repeated child rapist. Didn't matter that he was a serial abuser. What mattered was I had opinions on reddit they didn't like and thats way worse than all the things that guy did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:20 PM
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Yup. This is why the decline in testosterone levels in men is such a big issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:05 PM
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No its being unable to see both sides in the same woman. So a man no longer being able to or not wanting to have super kinky, dirty sex with his wife because he can only picture her as the loving mother of his children. Or a man not wanting to commit to a woman because they have already done some depraved things together and he can't imagine introducing her to his family or imagine her being a mum. I thought madonna whore complex is basically wanting her to be a good girl in public but a slut in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:04 PM
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Yeah. There used to be a mod on here (still is on the mod list but no longer posts here) who was outwardly the most blue pilled, pro woman poster here. Claimed to be a male feminist. Was super left wing on every political issue. Reminds me of someone who posts here now tbh. Anyway. Turned out he admitted to fucking 12 year old girls as an adult, as well as beating up his girlfriends. Upon learning this, most of the women and blue pillers who posted here at the time... continued to defend him to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:59 PM
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Well, I'm sure they pale in comparison to the issues he had. Well, the whole band really.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:11 AM
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Yeah It's a thing. I read that men who are 30 now can have up to 25% lower testosterone levels than men who were 30 in 1990. That's crazy. The levels it is decreasing by are too fast and unhealthy. There are going to be some serious repercussions in the next couple of decades. There are many theories as to why its happening. Most are to do with the modern lifestyle, eating habits etc, but whatever the reason behind it something needs to change and fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:08 AM
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Didn't she shit on his bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:59 AM
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She's literally the only person people keep mentioning that I have heard of and know of. I know I'm not big on celebrity culture and stuff but I had no idea I was this sheltered lol. Edit- wait no I know Megan Fox too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:58 AM
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Hmmm. Fictional characters might be the way to go since Reddit is the only social media I use. I think lots of women are attractive. It just doesn't make me fancy them. I liked Chun Li when I was a little kid. Particularly in the animated Street fighter movie. Oh, and Sonya Blayde, from the first Mortal Kombat movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:14 AM
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I don't know any lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:51 AM
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When it's blatantly obvious yes. Oftentimes you see things that are just too good to be true. You know the ones. They hit every reddit checkbox. Raped. Check. Every (male) teacher wanted to bang her and openly talked about it. Check. Every male in her life has been a cartoon Disney villain. Check. Only people she trusts are her TWO MUMS. Check. If you're going to believe every far fetched karma farming sob story on this site, then I have a couple of hundred bridges to sell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:32 AM
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Dude. I'm not going to take advice on believing lies from a known liar (you). I still remember your bullshit post about how all your male friends are asking how to pump and dump on dates while all your female friends are worried if he really likes her. Everyone knows your shtick on here and what your agenda is. I don't believe them and I certainly don't believe anything you have to say. Are you really so dumb you think people buy your BS and that's why you think they buy it from other people too…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:22 AM
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I mean it definitely is one of them. Arguably the biggest. I just saw a post where a woman claimed she was raped in the school bathroom by another student when she was 13. Most of the replies were asking if she reported it. Her response was "No. I had previously overheard most of the teachers (including the school councillor) talking about wanting to do things to me sexually, so I felt like nobody would help me." Ain't nobody buying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:03 AM
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Never really crushed on any celebrities. Even when I was young I could see they're all really messed up people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:45 AM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:44 AM
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For context my gf has been scrolling through and showing me posts from there. We are going through them and laughing at how blatantly made up all of them are. r/AskWomen should be renamed r/That HappenedWomen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:10 AM
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I think cuck culture is growing due to the decrease in testosterone in men. Combined with politics, but I also think that is shaped by lack of testosterone too. Men by nature are possessive and protective. We don't like sharing. Every generation has less testosterone than the last, and it's really starting to show in multiple ways imo. One of them being our possessive nature is being stamped out generation by generation. You don't really see cucks being a thing in older generations. It's all lef…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:08 AM
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Lmao never thought I'd see anyone that wants to fuck Dead from Mayhem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:00 AM
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No wonder askwomen has a rule against "invalidation". Nearly everything on there is such blatant BS. Wouldn't want anyone telling them they're a bunch of crazy sexist liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:57 AM
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Well that's certainly one way to go about it but I'd say it's naive to assume that's how most people go about talking about themselves on the Internet. Most people are going to be like "There's nobody here who knows who I am to call my bluff, I can say whatever I want." I highly doubt PPD just happens to have a big subset of men who can't get a date but also have amazing 8 inch monster cocks. I highly doubt PPD is full of guys who have an N count 10x higher than average and yet still complains a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:23 AM
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He has a very feminine physique. Thin shoulders, wide hips. Big thighs. Very odd build for a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:15 AM
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Yeah but there's no pressure to be truthful on the Internet. It's like how everybody has a 7 inch dick even though statistically even 6 inches is above average and pretty rare. A lot of the users from back then no longer post here but I think the same thing would happen. Let's be real. The vast majority of men, let alone the subset of men that post here have an N count of even close to 50. Yet if you took an average from all the mens answers last time 50 would have probably been it. Its the "I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:02 AM
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No. Men don't want sluts. That is not the same thing as men want virgins. There is a world of difference between "I don't want to be the guy who settles down with the town bike" and "I will literally only accept a woman who has never been touched". Like, don't get me wrong I'm not going to shame your preference or anything like a lot of people here do, you're entitled to want whatever you want, but I also don't think this is a common thing amongst men at all. N count, sure. In my experience most…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:51 AM
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Would be cool but pointless. Nobody would be honest. Someone tried this a few years back and all of the guys were saying 50 and all of the women were saying 1. Except for the ones who had previously admitted to being promiscuous. They were avoiding the thread like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:34 AM
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I'd say about tree fiddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:31 AM
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They are his masterpieces yeah. He didn't stick to his niche and tried to go all Hollywood. In all fairness I think he's a shit filmmaker that happened to strike gold twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:18 AM
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Oh yeah I'm not judging. I'm just surprised at how many times I've seen women on here say it. Men who are that successful with women are pretty rare, and are usually at the upper echelons of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:08 AM
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Yeah a lot of people's husbands here do it would seem. I've seen guys on here accuse you women of only going after Chad, but forget that. Chad can't compete with the godly sexual prowess of the average PPD woman's husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:04 AM
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Lol no actual gay guy wishes he was straight because of homophobia. You do see a lot of Bi people claim they prefer men though because they are so much easier to deal with and much less of a headache in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:00 AM
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Tbf I don't really like either that much. I'm more into the comedic gangster films like Snatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:55 AM
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British gangsters > Steve Buscemi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:52 AM
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I've seen about 50 women on PPD now claim their husband has a triple digit N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:51 AM
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My husband is in the triple digits Youre like the 50th woman on here I've seen say this exact same thing. I guess there really is something to the belief that women love manwhores. No wonder the women here are trying to tell dudes N count is irrelevant. Forget pre-selection. PPD women are choosing guys that have slept with every woman in their city.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:49 AM
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Dude with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:11 PM
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Yup. The funny part is, In my house to avoid treading the carpet, I would have to do a big leap onto the sofa, but then he would get mad at me for "slamming into the sofa" I couldn't win lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:37 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:27 PM
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I wonder if it's a dad thing. Mine used to do this with the dishes. Like he would do the pots and then I would make a sandwich or something and he'd be like "Ugh don't use one of the plates I've just washed them." And I would be thinking "Is the point of washing the dishes not so you can use them again?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:24 PM
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Then yeah we did all that stuff. The boys and the girls did all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:15 PM
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Oh my god. I think my dad has yours beat. Whenever we got new carpets, my dad would be like "Don't walk on the carpets, They'll get ruined!" It's like, what the hell else are you supposed to do with them? They are literally for walking on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:14 PM
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My mum used to do a thing where she would knock but then enter before I even had time to respond. It didn't matter if I wanted privacy, or whether I would have allowed her to come in. She didn't wait for a reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:11 PM
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Yeah we called them different things at my school. It was woodwork, graphics, and a few others. Funnily enough I think they did call cooking home economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:10 PM
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I'm English so we didnt call it shop but I'm assuming this is something like woodwork? Which is something we did do at school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:07 PM
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Also, like how there’s no statistics proving that all women like bad boys. We've been over this before but you refuse to listen to anything on the subject and just repeat "correlation doesn't equal causation" over and over. Or you say that more women sleeping with bullies doesn't necessarily mean that bullies are more attractive to women. You will always find a way to wriggle out of it and that's what I meant before about you being painfully obtuse. You can have all of the data right in front of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:07 PM
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Yeah I feel like the language of the pillsphere and just the Internet in general is becoming mainstream. I've heard so many people calling guys a Chad, or saying based IRL. It's just becoming commonplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:09 PM
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True. They have some tunes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:03 PM
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Also not a genre. But The Smiths are the ultimate incel band. Every other song is "I can't get a date and I want to die."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:56 PM
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Thats a good point. He could have been super involved in the subculture and I never would have known.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:54 PM
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Good luck mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:52 PM
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Same. One of my best friends was a virgin until he was 27. He never referred to himself as an incel though or went over any incel talking points. He had a cynical sense of humour but all us Brits do. To give the benefit of the doubt, maybe she means people who self identify as incels and not just perpetually single guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:50 PM
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