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| 1 | Have i become the gay friend?That's exactly how I am with the people I know. I'm trying to surround myself with more guys so I can get that dynamic down but it's definitely difficult. The way I see it I can connect with women easily and understand them pretty well so I'm just gonna use that knowledge when I'm meeting women for relationships so I don't get shell shocked by their behavior. But it's a struggle | /r/askRPC | 15/02/22 07:41 AM |
| 0 | Have i become the gay friend?I'm someone who is fairly effeminate for a guy and I get perceived as guy quit a bit. I've learned that you can play with relationship dynamics a lot and not be locked into any specific way of being perceived. And you don't have to have the same dynamic with everyone. While it is somewhat easier to treat everyone a certain way, if you want to be more polarized with one person over another you just have to train yourself to stick out of some habits with them. And screw what other people people th… | /r/askRPC | 15/02/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | I personally avoid relationships because people's ideas of romantic love are mostly selfish desires for personal fulfillmentRelationships are for the most part selfish, but they are at their core supposed to be a trade off of value and skills. Expectations can get in the way of that, people when going into relationships can either be too altruistic or be too selfish, expecting all their needs to be met while not fulfilling their partners needs. Lots of people for one haven't matured to a point where they realize not everything they want from a partner can be fulfilled, and that a partner is not a replacement for othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:24 PM |
| 3 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.It's all about a trade off of values. If you have a certain set of standards that someone else is willing to meet and you meet their standards. Even if they aren't equal as long as you're both getting what you want and are happy it shouldn't matter. The issue is when you expect the other party to conform to your standards when you don't give anything they want back. And the key point is it has to be what they want, just because you think you have something of "value" doesn't mean the other perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Real quick question.Yeah it's not a bad life to want it's just a little naive. | /r/RPChristians | 27/05/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Real quick question.I can see that, but no offense from what I can tell most of western Europe isn't the patriotic fight for my country kinda crowd, I think that's a huge issue even here people say they love the country they live in but wouldn't do anything if it were to be taking away. It's sad. | /r/RPChristians | 26/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | If personality matters more than looks then why are most couples looksmatched ? Doesn’t that mean looks is the main currency ?I guess it depends on what you would define as physical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | If personality matters more than looks then why are most couples looksmatched ? Doesn’t that mean looks is the main currency ?Well I'm using ugly in the subjective stance its whatever the person thinks is ugly for themselves but to me that encompasses face, hair fitness level, body type and age. To me those all fall under that category | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | If personality matters more than looks then why are most couples looksmatched ? Doesn’t that mean looks is the main currency ?People who say they don't care about looks are lying, To some extent it's hard wired into us to look for atractive partners because most perceived good traits are signs of a healthy mate being fit, having good skin ect. People can date for personality while at the same time have a standard of only dating extractive people with good personalities you wouldn't date an "ugly" person but you also wouldn't date a 10/10 "atractive" person with a bad personality. They aren't contradictory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Real quick question.Yeah that does make a lot of sense especially when it comes to religious differences, do you think a national identity can be enough for cohesion? Rather than it being a racial one? | /r/RPChristians | 24/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | I need advice from god-fearing men about my GF wanting to wait until marriage before we have sex, while neither of us are virgins.Well to me personally I'd say while I understand how you feel I do think you're in the wrong. It sounds like she's come to a better understanding of what's right, and while its sucky for the time being you cant have sex with her you're lucky you've found a woman who's thought about that and come to that conclusion she holds herself to a different standard now and while that includes what she does with you it's not to your detriment, if she thinks she was in the wrong when she did those things in… | /r/RPChristians | 23/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I need advice from god-fearing men about my GF wanting to wait until marriage before we have sex, while neither of us are virgins.!delete | /r/RPChristians | 23/05/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I need advice from god-fearing men about my GF wanting to wait until marriage before we have sex, while neither of us are virgins.Well I have a question. I'm just going to assume she's a saved Christian, and if that's the case she wouldn't have been walking with the lord when she was fornicating with ex boyfriends and having one night stands. Considering you both are Christian's do you not follow the wait before marriage rule? Because you can be planning all you want to be in a LTR with this woman but that's still not marriage which would make sleeping with her before then wrong any other way you do it including oral hand … | /r/RPChristians | 23/05/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Real quick question.Also would you define race as from the same continent/same skin color or every race is separate like germans couldn't get with english people and stuff like that? | /r/RPChristians | 23/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Real quick question.Well if jesus has already been born and you dont exactly need pure blooded people anymore plus in the 2,000 years since jesus was here there's only a few countries that I can think of where almost everyone there is mixed like mexico, Brazil and most other central and south American countries, what other reasons would there be for it to not be that way or discouraged? I have a uncle who thinks the same but I haven't ever had a chance to talk to him | /r/RPChristians | 23/05/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Real quick question.Just because something didn't happen doesn't mean the act itself was condemned, do you think it's wrong to race mix? Not attacking just wondering. I know that sounds like something an attacker would say but trust me I'm not.😂 | /r/RPChristians | 23/05/21 05:36 PM |
| -1 | Real quick question.Nowadays the issues you're talking about would be cultural not ethnic one's. | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Real quick question.Yes the issue is with faith not race. As a mixed person it was good to know there was no issue.😂 | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/21 03:04 PM |
| 9 | Real quick question.I think the only place where it really mentions race is the old testament, but that was referring more so to the fact that at the time everyone except the Israelites were immoral. If they followed God there wasn't any issue, Moses married a Ethiopian woman so a jewish man a black woman got together and God had no issue with that. I remember someone saying that God punishing Moses' sister was because she was being racist by condemning the marriage, but I think that had more to do with questioning… | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/21 04:37 AM |
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