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If you can’t sus out whether a man can handle basic adult activities of daily living, which is absolutely hilarious to attach the word “unpaid” to btw, who is supposed to be paying you, before cohabiting with him and making it your problem, that’s kind of on you. Same with “emotional labor”. Like holy shit, how gluttonous and comfortable are we in contemporary times that we have successfully politicized the most complete mundane nothingburger minutiae of life. What a joke. And the reason men bri…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:57 PM
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Anyone punching up from a perceived lower or disadvantaged position can get away with and eventually, because they will never be internally challenged, normalize any kind of extremist rhetoric. That’s the core of progressive thinking. There’s no way to get feminists to engage with something like this because they always have the “what about what men do” escape button.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:03 PM
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pile of disconnected grievances i.e., fourth wave feminism. You know you’ve run out of legitimate grievances when you are crying about unquantifiable “unpaid domestic labor” and “emotional labor”. Those are not real things no matter what the axe-grinding PhDs and their irreproducible, unfalsifiable meta-analyses say. If you think you can identify with and share the struggles of suffragettes then I get to identify with the boys and young men who suffocated to death on mustard gas in a bloody tren…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:49 PM
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ok dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:21 AM
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So subtracting 3 years is significant enough to give you "proper answers"? Also, quickly went from the nerd that not even nerds want to hang out with to one of the most popular guys in my school (especially with girls). lmao at least make your larps believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:13 AM
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He's not 17, this entire post is a larp https://www.reddit.com/r/300zx/comments/c8h1q0/im_19_looking_for_a_first_car_z31_has_caught_my/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:06 AM
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Twitter has the same 330 million figure and there are plenty of alt/novelty accounts there as well. Taking it as a percentage of the world's population is disingenuous and silly. Reddit is mainstream now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:08 PM
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Reddit has around 330 million active monthly users
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 04:32 PM
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I don't understand how these two ideas can't be compatible. Personally, I have very little interest in socialization with other men. The only guys I like talking to are my childhood friends who I've known forever, and even then I don't seek them out. Men are competition; why would I want to become vulnerable around people who wouldn't hesitate to sell me out for a crumb of pussy? Now when it comes to women, it's not just about the sex. I love all that romantic shit too. Taking her out on dates, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:58 PM
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We have asshole exes because society pressures us to feel like we have to change men Lmao where?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 07:33 PM
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https://media0.giphy.com/media/6uGhT1O4sxpi8/giphy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:34 PM
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Gosling and Pitt cruise on their status, they are facially very average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:47 PM
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Too old to be commenting on gen z issues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 09:03 PM
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Yeah which is why those are all extremely famous people because society rejected them 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:06 PM
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They don't exist. Society and especially men will always be accepting of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:20 PM
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I too enjoy the works of esteemed, revered female comedians such as
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:01 PM
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Die mad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:52 PM
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Men are and have always been the primary victims of violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:20 AM
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Lmao you're being silly and you know it. If someone pulled a gun on me that's an entirely different emotion than if someone spit in my face and antagonized me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:51 PM
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They do ask out guys if they like him enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 10:09 PM
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I wrote an entire post about this very thing, check my history
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:08 PM
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I'd argue the attractive part is optional. Most young women unironically believe they're goddesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:06 PM
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That's crazy and also reminded me that I should have listed that I also want to get my PPL at some point. Has he taken you up in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:23 PM
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No decent hiking trails near me and I want nothing to do with the fish in the polluted disgusting mess of the lake I live near.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:37 PM
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Cars, motorcycles, and guitars are my big 3. I need a telecaster in my life right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:36 PM
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Could be the title of my autobiography
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:20 PM
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Why do my hobbies all have to be so expensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:11 PM
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Highly suspect I have avoidant personality disorder or at least avoidant tendencies. Definitely have the generic depression-anxiety combo. I also really dislike getting too involved in people's lives. I like acquaintances to stay acquaintances, which usually manifests itself as being too lazy and anxious to maintain relationships. I literally never text first and normally ghost people who text me first, which is a great way to lose friends. It's not that I don't care about people, I actually hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:02 PM
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Women are human beings, men are human doings. Brutal but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:44 AM
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I think it's more like buying into the just world hypothesis vs not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 05:28 PM
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Idk I think she has a point. Women have so many more support networks than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 05:25 PM
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Lmao I could spend 100 years on this sub and still never understand women. I really don't see what you see at all. I could walk down to my local bar and find plenty of dudes on his level. Looks extremely average to me and loses points based off the norwooding and bad skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 05:20 PM
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Can you point out which individual features you like about his face?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:56 PM
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Is it really a happy choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:51 PM
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Your english is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:45 PM
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Fuck yeah. Most important thing for me personality wise is someone who shares my sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:40 PM
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First guy is balding out the ass. Guarentee that he would be invisible to you without the rockstar halo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 01:44 PM
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I guess if you ask any poster here pushing 30 they'll tell you that everyone is always super receptive to making new friends no matter how old they are. I can't blame them though cause that's probably how it was pre-social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 04:12 AM
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This being the gist of your post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 03:48 AM
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I got shredded for alluding to this in the thread OP was referencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 03:21 AM
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Can't address my actual argument so you call me crazy. I don't need or want your patronizing bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:22 PM
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hard to get a good read of a person on the internet. Yet you diagnosed me with autism anyway, which goes to show that not only do you not know what that is, but to you it is just a snarl word you use when you have no critical thoughts or responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:16 PM
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Congrats on being the third internet psychiatrist to diagnose me with some mental illness in this thread. Somebody else said I have autism though so you might have misdiagnosed me with the whole extreme outlier social anxiety thing. Do you two want to compare medical degrees?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:13 PM
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No but pretty 18-19 year olds want nothing to do with men in their 40s lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 08:27 PM
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"No u r aspie" Fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 08:26 PM
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Go take a college class. I'm going to copy and paste something from another comment of mine that will give you a little preview of what you will see. You can hear a pin drop in every lecture hall I've ever been in. It's an unwritten rule that you don't sit directly next to someone, you're supposed to leave at least one chair/desk space in between. Literally everyone does this. And before you say it, clubs are just a way for pre-established friend groups to share interests and/or socialize. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 06:29 PM
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If you have to show effort, you immediately lose any social value you might have had. In the same way that women don't like desperate men, people don't like those who are desperate for friends. It immediately exposes you as low value and nobody wants to associate with low value people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 06:04 PM
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plenty of people of the spectrum that would go to the events and make friends. No. Any degree of autism is social kryptonite. Everyone can tell at first glance when someone is on the spectrum, it's extremely obvious and awkward for everyone involved. people love other people talking to them if it’s not awkward. Talking to complete strangers is automatically awkward. Like I said this is viewed as autistic behavior in 2019. Nobody under the age of 24 does this. Just get people to talk about themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 06:01 PM
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Nope. If you're funny and entertaining people will expect you to also have good social media. If you don't, this weirds most people out and puts up red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:18 PM
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On the flipside, you can't be too attractive either because then guys will get jealous when women look at you instead of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:12 PM
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Ooo look a meta post about me. You're welcome to go through my comment history to find my supporting arguments because dumping them all in a comment here wouldn't really be coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:08 PM
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I mean his facial structure. I saw some pictures of him before all of that and he just looks like every other average cholo in my city. I see his clones daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:02 PM
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I’m now a lab ta and talk to current students and most of them seem to have no trouble making friends. I'm sure most of them were well-connected before coming to college. RAs have events all the time. These are usually ridiculous and nobody goes to them. Just go talk to them This is autistic behavior in 2019 in the same way that cold approaches (rightfully) are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:58 PM
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Every response I'm getting is from people in their mid and late twenties to early thirties and it's unintentionally hilarious how out of touch you all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:50 PM
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Technology makes it worse. It's like needing social proof for women, if people see from your weak social media presence that you don't have many friends then they don't want to associate with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:47 PM
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No one is going to invite you out, you have to invite others out. No one is going to text you, you have to initiate. If you have to do this regularly then these people aren't your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:42 PM
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About 5 years ago 2014 is completely different from 2019 Relying on social groups to form when people are forced to be in regular close proximity to each other because of some external situation (like school or work) is NOT the only way to form social groups. It is how the vast majority of them form. Talking to strangers is viewed as aspie behavior by gen z. We just don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:39 PM
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This was like 6 years ago. Might as well be 100 years ago. The world and its rules are so incredibly different from 2013 to today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:31 PM
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Sounds like a response I expected thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 04:21 AM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 04:14 AM
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My husband has a young intern working for him, maybe 21 or 22, and he has a very active social life with his college friends. I would bet my last dollar that this kid knew at least one if not more people from high school who also went to his college and branched off from there. Either that or his roommate knew a pre-established group and he got in that way. You're just inventing this victimhood narrative to delude yourself from the fact that you have not made friends post high school. Attack me …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 04:08 AM
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They don't. Like I said in another comment there's a reason why there are so many google results when you search "how to make friends as an adult".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:51 AM
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Would he still be attractive to you without the hair, tats, status, and image? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:49 AM
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All I can really say is that the world is a lot different for young people nowadays. Smartphones weren't even a thing when he started college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:41 AM
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There are plenty of people who get new social circles in college That ship sails right after move-in week, sometimes even earlier if people go to college with someone they know from high school. That whole "just leave your dorm room door open" thing doesn't exist. or after they graduate college and get their first job and move to a new city. Doubt it. There's a reason why there are so many google results when you search "how to make friends as an adult".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:38 AM
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How old is he? If it's anywhere past early millennial then the new rules of social dynamics don't really apply to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:31 AM
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At my old high school there was a group of Chinese foreign exchange students and a group of German foreign exchange students. We would try to talk to them but none of them made any effort to talk to us. They all sat at their own tables at lunch and stuck to themselves. Social dynamics aren't what they once were. Past a certain point, people generally aren't interested in making new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:28 AM
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You're a woman though, everyone wants to be your friend by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:22 AM
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Lots of words here but you're being hilarious if you think it's possible to build a new social circle past high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:52 AM
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As long as you have at least 2 of IG/FB/snap and have a normal amount of followers/friends then you're fine. I'm 20 and only have FB and snapchat. I'm not very active on either and it really makes no difference, a lot of girls understand that most men aren't nearly as active on social media as they are. Now if you had many followers and lots of cool pictures, that could probably bump your SMV up, but the only way your SMV is decreased is if you're not on any social media at all like you said in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:16 PM
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This guy is a troll just ignore him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:18 PM
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Yeah pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:36 AM
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Bro you're posting on a reddit sub about relationship strategies. Cut the tough guy alpha larp youre just as spergy as everyone else here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:15 AM
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I don't really give a shit about your personal sex life tbh. Deny statistics all you want but but the numbers are the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:59 AM
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Face>all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:55 PM
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I don't know how you can actually write this whenever the actual statistics are showing how bad it's getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:44 PM
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Unfortunately, most of the problems men face (loneliness, isolation, anonymity, social expectation ect) don't really have solutions other than to "spend your whole life trying to find people that care about you". And unfortunately, talking about your problems with new friends too early, or talking about your problems too much, produces the opposite of the desired result, because the flip side is no one wants to be your next emotional tampon, so you have to also have something to provide to the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:03 PM
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When you're hot, women will create an interesting personality for you, even if it has no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 09:42 PM
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How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Cause women my age absolutely love posting about their bf on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:56 PM
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No. I have basically everybody on facebook. Since writing my other post I thought about it a little more and the number is probably closer to 10. But keep in mind these are people who are in relationships right now, 3 years after graduating, not people who have ever had a relationship which is the vast majority of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:31 PM
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Offhand I know exactly 5 dudes from my high school graduating class of like 230 that are in any sort of relationship right now. Maybe there's more since I don't really care to keep up with absolutely everyone, but those are the numbers as I see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:19 PM
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I wouldn't be surprised if that 28% figure was actually closer to 40% or more. The study was self-reported, how many men really want to admit they aren't getting any, even anonymously?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:49 PM
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I don't think the chart is perfect but it does highlight the specific features that represent an attractive face, like high prominent cheekbones, a strong jawline, browridge, and striking eye area.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:50 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/michaelyerger/?hl=en Does he fit that look?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:36 PM
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I wouldn't even look twice at most of the 6s. A lot of these pictures are in super shitty lighting though. r/truerateme has this scale for men: https://i.imgur.com/kHCnojm.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:33 PM
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That is most men's only validating feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 09:34 PM
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If a woman prioritizes any amount of pleasure or convenience, however great, over any amount of risk, however small, then by definition she must be a bad mother. If she is aware of the risks, at the very least she is foolish. And, of course, it is only women that we ask this of. Men can be deployed soldiers or oil rig workers or rock climbers or bungee jumpers or total alcoholics. If a man dies in combat or falls off a cliff face, he is not causing direct physical harm to separate, defenseless p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:51 AM
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What is "drinking?" Consuming any amount of an alcoholic beverage. There's no way a bartender/server could possibly know a pregnant woman is just going to have one single drink for the day or go home afterward and get faded. From the perspective of an alcohol vendor, it's all the same. You can't properly police the specific amount, but you can police whether a pregnant woman is able to obtain alcohol from a vendor at all. If a woman can't manage to abstain from alcohol for nine months to ensure,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:01 AM
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Drinking while pregnant poses a non-insignificant risk that the child may develop FAS, which will cause lifelong harm for that child. What part of this is untrue?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:39 AM
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rights don't care about your feelings. The rights of the child are not considered? And legality = morality? If liberty is this important and should be encoded in law, I want to be legally liberated from paying taxes going to welfare mommies that had a child they can't afford to feed or children with developmental disabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:52 AM
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Is there justification for the continued spending of federal dollars for Flint and the public outcry it is causing? What levels of risk are acceptable? Also, some sources claim no amount of alcohol is acceptable during pregnancy. Why is it so difficult to put down the sauce for 9 months to ensure (to the best of your ability) your child won't be a vegetable for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:43 AM
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Flint, Michigan currently has acceptable levels of lead in their water according to the EPA (<15 ppb) and has had levels under that since late 2016, yet there is still a push for more action to be taken since that time and to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:35 AM
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Consuming alcohol while pregnant implicitly and negatively affects the body of another person. Fetuses can be federally considered victims of violent crime under the Unborn Victims of Violence Act, but only when the mother is not considered, which I think is horseshit https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unborn_Victims_of_Violence_Act
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:29 AM
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Drinking while pregnant poses a non-insignificant risk that the child may develop FAS, which will cause lifelong harm for that child. This is a fact that is not up for debate. The vast majority of mothers in the western world are aware of this risk, yet some still drink even when they have the intention of carrying that child to term. If the mother does in fact want to carry the child to term, this is an example of intentionally causing harm to another person. Also shooting someone is legal depe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:24 AM
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If I have always lived my life shooting people then it's all good?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:06 AM
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What is the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:58 AM
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Should assault that leaves minor injuries be a crime? Should assault that unintentionally leaves the victim in a vegetative state be a crime? Should assault that unintentionally kills the victim be a crime? Should killing with intent be a crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:51 AM
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Well at least you're consistent, which is more than I can say for most on reddit. Question: Where is the line between one's personal choices/freedoms and the safety of others?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:38 AM
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Do you believe vaccines should be mandatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:10 AM
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Lmao I was just thinking about posting about this in the weekly discussion thread. Felt like I was taking crazy pills reading all the YTA verdicts. Those wine-mommies were seriously saying that making someone's drink non-alcoholic is a worse offense than giving a child FAS.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:09 AM
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If the red pill is right about any one thing it would be that men should never ever show emotional vulnerability to anyone except their therapist. Male friends really don't care except for maybe your best friend, female friends especially don't care, and potential love interests are repelled like a fucking magnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:53 AM
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Having tons of casual sex is a cope for people with ugly duckling syndrome or other associated psychological hangups. It's not something the vast majority of healthy, well-adjusted people actively seek.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:56 PM
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SMV of an ugly girl>>>>SMV of an average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:43 PM
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Yup, when girls approach me they always make it extremely awkward. I've had girls in high school and even now in college do that stupid 'playful' kick and punch you thing like they're in elementary school, to the point where whatever cutesy charm that could have just boils over into being fucking annoying. Women's social skills go straight out the window when they approach, especially if they're attractive and think that I'm going to entertain her just because of that. Don't talk to me like you …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:39 AM
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Yes, words are powerful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:29 PM
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One of my platonic girl friends called me a fuckboy once and it was the biggest compliments I've ever received
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:09 AM
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They are not concentration camps. Funny how in the beginning everyone on r/politics were arguing that AOC wasn't trying to compare them to nazi camps, but now articles from holocaust survivors saying they are are getting upvoted to the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:08 AM
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pm me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:47 PM
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Well hey as long as it's unintentional then you're good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 02:08 AM
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any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:57 AM
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Good to know you made progress with therapy. Addiction runs in my family but the idea of just letting xans do all the work seems really attractive to my lazy ass. I used to be super atheistic but since reading about the hard problem of consciousness I've definitely rejected outright materialism and even entertained the idea of god, but this hasn't really helped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:14 AM
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Have you tried drugs? I think benzos or maybe SSRIs would help me but walking into a psych's office would terrify me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:51 AM
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How u doin? For real though I have exactly the same problems, anxiety + depression is a fatal mix for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:25 AM
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The problem starts when guys approach women who don't give them clear IOIs first. If a girl really likes you, you don't have to be persistent, and if she is extroverted/confident she'll make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:54 PM
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The absolute state of e-thots in 2019 https://www.instagram.com/belle.delphine/p/BzY_MYppbSt/?hl=en
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:25 PM
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I got the most attention from girls whenever I was consistently lifting in senior year of high school. Nothing about my behavior changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:47 PM
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I'm talking about the vocal minority who do. I can't link the survey right now because I'm on mobile but it said something like only 10% of college students regularly have casual sex, which aligns with my own lived experience as a college student. But Tinder still has women users and if getting pumped and dumped is so traumatic for them you'd expect to see a decline in usage but that isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:45 PM
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And yet they keep coming back for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:14 PM
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The problem with going black pill is when you actually look at real life couples you see that many times the dude isn't all that attractive. Yes, chad can get away with saying and doing a lot of things that billy beta can't, and an average guy generally won't be fawned over by women in the same way a male model would be, but that by itself doesn't mean he can't get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:46 PM
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I never had a problem with separable differential equations but those are just basically integrating two functions then finding the constant, I'm sure it gets way harder. Series were my killer, so many goddamn convergence tests to memorize it's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 10:44 PM
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Is it true that calc 2 is harder than calc 3? I'm retaking calc 2 this summer and need some hope that it gets easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:36 PM
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I'm also going to a school in my hometown, but everyone from my high school either joined the military or are going to colleges spread across the entire state. Maybe when I move into the dorms this upcoming semester it will get better even though I'll be with a bunch of freshman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:19 PM
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I went to community college for my first year, and when I finally transferred to a real uni I couldn't afford to stay in the dorms. It feels like I haven't even gone to college. It seems like you make all your social connections in the freshman dorms and then everything is closed off. So dating really fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:05 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 04:16 PM
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Lots of personal pronouns here. Is this supposed to be an attack on me specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:51 PM
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I'm not denying hypergamy exists, just that it's a result of validation and social media and not an inherent malicious behavior exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:48 AM
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It's not MGTOW because the goal is to foster more meaningful man-woman interaction after it's over. Rubbing alcohol on a wound hurts like hell but is ultimately beneficial. But like you said, it's just a pipe dream anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 12:21 AM
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Men do things to impress women to get laid by women who are impressed by them doing impressive things. And that is the problem nearly summarized in one sentence. So many men do the jester dance for a woman who isn't worth it. This has always happened historically, but the advent of social media is was like a load of rocket fuel being dumped on a candle. Now it's not a handful of dudes from her school trying to impress her, it's every guy in her city. So many men want her, of course her standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:54 PM
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I am blaming men though, just for different reasons from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:33 PM
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Can you blame women though? You have all these guys constantly giving you praise and attention at levels unprecedented even 20 years ago. You're validated already. Now, when you're horny, you're going to have sex with the hottest dude because you're already emotionally taken care of 100 times over, and the average guy has nothing further to provide for you. In the absence of this, a woman will have to seek all of this from a man IRL, where looks matter less and emotions mean more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:32 PM
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A lot of people are mentally unwell too. Depression and anxiety probably ruin more relationships than we can document.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:13 PM
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Agreed. I think the portability, ease of use, and ubiquity of phones is a huge factor. Video games, computers, and the internet have been around for a long time, but they were mostly niche hobbies and not something you could engage in at any time in any place. The first iPhone made it so easy, which is why I mentioned it in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:10 PM
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200 years ago, the average person probably spoke with maybe a few hundred unique people in their entire life at most. Our brains weren't really wired for this much connection and gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:53 PM
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Maybe. I know my friends sometimes talk about how we need to cut back on social media. We even compared our data usage to see who had the least. But this shit's like crack, doesn't Facebook or something hire behavioral psychologists to design their app to be more addictive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:49 PM
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Agreed, for some it's way easier to sit behind a screen and m'lady a woman in her DMs than approach her in person. You'll see this even in platonic relationships, people's social circles are generally closed to outsiders and they'd rather sit there on their (gosh darn) phones than talk to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:41 PM
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If she suddenly stopped getting sex or validation from any guy, those standards would come crashing down. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82zuzS5PCiM
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:33 PM
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Maybe we'll all be living like in Wall-E in the future (hopefully minus the environmental issues). Yeah, all the humans in that movie are fat lazy bastards but at least they seemed pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:27 PM
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True, it is easier to live as a NEET than it has ever been before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:23 PM
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Where I may slightly alter is I think there’s been a multi-decade down trend of men not being able to provide the “male role” and thus an inability for men to trigger attraction in women and/or provide relevance to women. I agree. I don't know the cause of that, maybe the general decline in testosterone levels? The rise of obesity? IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:10 PM
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Is sex without validation as equally as unsatisfying? Men can buy that, but when a woman has sex, she 99% of the time didn't have to pay for it. In fact, the dude probably bought her drinks beforehand. When a woman has sex, the act itself is validating. A woman gets both whenever she wants. Why? Because the supply is there in overabundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:03 PM
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Yeah, it's probably not enough to sustain yourself, but there's no market for male nudes, and how many male pornstars can anyone name? There's no such thing as plus size male models either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 08:57 PM
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Women are valued higher in the eyes of men. They have thirst for sex, but validation can fill the void in some. Still, a woman can get sex whenever she wants, which is a validating act within itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 08:54 PM
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I really wanted to avoid any MGTOW implications because I don't subscribe to that school of thought, but I guess it is kind of mutually inclusive with my thesis. They also like and enjoy sex for its own sake. Sometimes, a woman will be out at a bar or messing around on Tinder and will end up hooking up with a guy that isn't that hot, isn't that rich, isn't that successful, isn't that high-status, but she was horny and had the itch. I'd argue that her ability to do this at all is validating in an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 08:48 PM
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So women have instant access to STR mates but that inflates their LTR expectations. I totally agree. I should have also mentioned that women can generally get both through social media. I guess it also depends on the individual sex drive between people. All I know is if I was born as a woman, I'd probably just sell my nudes and hook up with the occasional hot guy if I had the itch that day then do whatever the fuck I wanted with my free time. That's the path of least resistance IMO and it's all …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 08:32 PM
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Validation plus the prospect of making money. But I think that's true for both genders. Incels can save up enough money to for a prostitute, but at it's core, sex is just another expression of validation, and paying someone wouldn't give you the same multifaceted experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 08:16 PM
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No dude gets into frat parties unless they're a pledge or an active.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 06:15 PM
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