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So I had that talk , I said “those chicks better be hot “ then she just said “ Marcos and Maria “ (obv male and female Couple ) i repeated “were the chicks hot or not ?” And she said a dry “no” and changed the subject lol
/r/askTRP06/10/18 03:05 PM
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if it was a straight couple it wouldve been MFF just not with me, which she said just to fuck with me and get a reaction, but yea if shes ever vocal about MMF it is a hard next.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 02:23 PM
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Nah I brought it up before , she said she could not do it because it would hurt her feelings seeing me with someone else. I’ll just react in person today if she brings it up , and say “those chicks better be hot” but what if she says it was a MF couple and she’s like “it was a straight couple “ I don’t know what to say then .
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:27 PM
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There’s reasons for her being LTR, low n count etc , she fucking loves me (it shows in how she treats me etc) , this is just annoying because if anything I was the first to bring the talk about a threesome with another chick for fun , she’s just teasing me with the threesome with that “cute” couple , I obv have more context than you and don’t want to go write a wall of text but , everything overrides this shit test , because I know for a fact she’s fucking with me .
/r/askTRP06/10/18 11:04 AM
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Well , still, is “ignoring “ the best way to pass that shit test ? If I can get her to do an MFF I’ll call it a win.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 10:33 AM
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How do I be that rock?
/r/askMRP20/03/16 08:54 AM
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Im at day 2 after the incident, she hasnt contacted me, since I failed the comfort test do you recommend me contacting her instead of letting her contact me? (Which I think won't happen). I was thinking something blue pill , send her flowers and a note that says :" stop acting like a little child, I'll see you Thursday morning. I love you " Also what other thing can the note say ? We have something going on Thursday I withdrawed all the shit that I used to do for her I think she deserves this , …
/r/askMRP18/03/16 08:12 PM
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Im at day 2 after the incident, she hasnt contacted me, since I failed the comfort test do you recommend me contacting her instead of letting her contact me? (Which I think won't happen). I was thinking something blue pill , send her flowers and a note that says :" stop acting like a little child, I'll see you Thursday morning. I love you " Also what other thing can the note say ? We have something going on Thursday I withdrawed all the shit that I used to do for her I think she deserves this , …
/r/askMRP18/03/16 08:10 PM
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Im at day 2 after the incident, she hasnt contacted me, since I failed the comfort test do you recommend me contacting her instead of letting her contact me? (Which I think won't happen). I was thinking something blue pill , send her flowers and a note that says :" stop acting like a little child, I'll see you Thursday morning. I love you " Also what other thing can the note say ? We have something going on Thursday I withdrawed all the shit that I used to do for her I think she deserves this , …
/r/askMRP18/03/16 07:57 PM
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I figured that a little bit, I thought that if I said it in a sarcastic way it would be fine.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 08:33 PM
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She hasn't talked to me yet , usually she sends a good morning text , sometimes I do. Her last message was : "I love you , good bye. I will remember the good days that we had. Forgive me if I harmed you one day. Don't judge me , you changed ." That was before I ignored her calls at the end and she said. "Don't answer , I can ignore too"
/r/askTRP17/03/16 06:07 PM
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cringe, I used to sort of be like that, hence why she wants the old me.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:22 PM
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Last night, what /u/_red_carpet said sounds like the way to go: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4aruhn/gf_broke_up_with_me_because_i_fell_asleep_and/d137n43
/r/askTRP17/03/16 02:42 PM
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What to do when she texts me? Act like nothing happened if she doesn't give me more shit? What if she gives me more shit?
/r/askTRP17/03/16 02:16 PM
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I gave her comfort over the phone when she called the second time. I didn't over text. How can I recover from this? She will call me tomorrow.
/r/askMRP17/03/16 07:18 AM
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por que no las dos?
/r/askTRP09/02/16 04:52 AM
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Read 48 Laws of power first?
/r/askTRP29/01/16 02:05 AM
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I just responded with "k" and it seemed to have lowered her anger and now she is not in a defensive stance . her response : "why did you block me ? Do you think it's cool to do that ?"
/r/askTRP30/12/15 12:11 AM
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I just responded with "k" and it seemed to have lowered her anger and now she is not in a defensive stance her response : "why did you block me ? Do you think it's cool to do that ?"
/r/askTRP30/12/15 12:08 AM
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True , i did say "no thanks , I am really horny but I was really in the mood for a blowjob" and she kept begging for my dick inside of her while telling me she would give me the blowjob later.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 01:41 AM
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The blowjob is important, holding out will earn more reward. Connecting physically is also very important, it's clear I can't have both right now though, eventually with all the playfulness she'll want to fuck me , I don't know how to tell her again that I would want that bj first , I need to be subtle .
/r/askTRP23/12/15 06:18 PM
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It's the next day and everything is normal except she won't initiate sex although we are close to having it , its just a matter of me going in for the kill though. Should I just fuck her if I feel like it , I want that blowjob though and if I initiate that won't happen , but I am also horny as fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 05:57 PM
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Withhold again but play it better next time?
/r/askTRP23/12/15 12:55 AM
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Yeah I shouldn't have done that. She woke up and is acting normal , but is probably resented.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 12:23 AM
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she was horny and we were about to have sex but I told her no , "no thanks , I'm really horny but I was really in the mood for a blowjob" (I told her to give me a blowjob earlier in the day , she hardly does). I fingered her for a while and we made out , she was begging for my cock inside of her, but she didn't give in on the blowjob , I got up and sat on her chest and was about to pull out my dick and she got mad and went to sleep. How do I proceed from here?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 11:55 PM
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I managed to pass previous shit test. Now she was horny and we were about to have sex but I told her no , "no thanks , I'm really horny but I was really in the mood for a blowjob" (I told her to give me a blowjob earlier in the day , she hardly does). I fingered her for a while and we made out , she was begging for my cock inside of her, but she didn't give in on the blowjob , I got up and sat on her chest and was about to pull out my dick and she got mad and went to sleep. How do I proceed from…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:51 PM
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She added me , shes my cousins friend
/r/askMRP21/12/15 07:05 AM
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I expect her to either keep bitching then go to sleep or keep watching Netflix. If keeps bitching what can I say or do after that.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 06:48 AM
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What would be a good response to: "You always just ignore when I tell you nice things on facebook, you don't care anymore? I'm just not gonna do it anymore." The thing is, I appreciate her telling me those things, but I would appreciate more when she demonstrates them rather than just seeking validation through social media.
/r/askMRP17/12/15 10:08 PM
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Thanks dude, this is what I was looking for, in the past I didnt say anything cocky / funny in response to the shit test, It should work this time.
/r/askMRP17/12/15 10:01 PM
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She deleted the post, so she knows that it was a stupid post by now. Should I still say that it was a stupid post? What I want to accomplish is her knowing how stupid it was to post that shit, but now I just want to not deal with it since she already deleted it.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:10 PM
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You're right. Last night I just went to sleep, I didnt respond anything. This morning she sends me texts "Don't do this to me" "You didn't even let me explain". She deleted the post even tho I didn't say anything. Should I still tell her that?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:28 PM
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I will be honest with you, I want to keep her as "FWB" but I know that she will need the "LTR" tag for that in the short term, otherwise she will explode right now and I will have to let her go, I already have a plate for christmas, if this is the plan should I lie and keep her around by responding that and raising my SMV/Attraction?.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:34 AM
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Read it, thanks man. So my decision is to slowly get plates (I have already been increasing my SMV new clothes and lifting, reading), will doing what /u/GraphicSeniorNudity suggested just lower my Attraction/SMV in her eyes?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:23 AM
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Can I replace the sentence with " No, I am dissapointed. That facebook post is stupid, grow up..." I cant really say " that facebook post is retarded, grow the fuck up." in spanish.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:16 AM
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After seeing the screenshot of her FB post, I didnt respond anything, then she sent a text asking if I was mad. How do I respond to this.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:10 AM
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So for now just act with amused mastery? and distance myself slowly
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:02 AM
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My LTR hardly gives me blowjobs, only sex, I recently hit the gym and started being less beta, can I apply something like this to get a blowjob? For example I'll be leaving town next weekend , "would you rather have me leave to "orange city" with this blowjob desire?" She knows my ex lives in that city (is this too much?). Can I say something like that? Or maybe play it off like OP and then say the same sentence "Well I just thought you'd prefer to satisfy my blowjob needs and leave all the sexu…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 06:48 AM
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I thought asking for a blowjob was not good.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 12:54 AM
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The friend wanted to fuck OP?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 09:02 AM
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Brofist
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 08:59 AM
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Do you lift?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 08:49 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/97MEy.gif
/r/askTRP07/12/15 08:07 AM
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How do you keep that mindset or how do you project it/make it so that she has the mindset too. Sometimes when you are spontaneous and grab her shes gonna be like "Really? please WhatteL1 this is really not a good time lets do it later" what do you say then?.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 06:38 AM
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I wont text her. Monk mode shall resume. I will just text her when I'm there and ready to meet up.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 05:50 AM
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How weird is it to tell her "Happy birthday!" after all that drama though, will it help me if I want to try something in the future, I dont need her I just want to set her up for december (I will be in her city, visiting family) but if it will fuck my attraction or frame I wont do it. I met a chick yesterday at a buddys party and I am supposed to go to a concert with her this weekend. I am thinking in going monk mode though, lift, read and upgrade my wardrobe.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 04:26 AM
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Not eager, it feels weird to send her that text, it was only 5 days ago when she was calling me non-stop and I was shutting her down. I do still feel attraction for her, as for ready 100% to game her, I am not sure, but I do have more knowledge and I think I can play better, but she does seem like an expert at this shit. Her friend texted me yesterday to see "how I was doing" I assume she was there, today was the first day with no attempt from her to contact me.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:48 AM
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Tomorrow is her birthday, should I text/call her/send her flowers?
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:06 AM
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What would've been a better response to that comfort test?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 05:55 AM
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What is a good book I can read to better understand comfort tests or distinguish them from shit tests?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 05:54 AM
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I was gonna text her the reasons I left her the way I did (bad mouth/disrespect/constant breakup etc, and then find a way to block text messages. Edit: I wonder if my attraction would go down just by doing that, I guess I want to get back with her, but I want all that bullshit to stop, and youre right I'm kinda new to red pill and thus will be hard for me to control her.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:19 AM
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Right now things have calmed down for her but I blocked her from everything and now she cant call me (maybe thats why), I still received some texts for some reason I need to check how to block texts too.. Her: At least we shouldve given ourselves an explanation, or at least you should have told me your motives and I wouldve understood, you leave me just like that with no explanation. We had plans, I dont know what your motives were but I hope they had a foundation. Her: I havent picked up your c…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 03:49 AM
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Right now things have calmed down for her but I blocked her from everything and now she cant call me (maybe thats why), I still received some texts for some reason I need to check how to block texts too.. Her: At least we shouldve given ourselves an explanation, or at least you should have told me your motives and I wouldve understood, you leave me just like that with no explanation. We had plans, I dont know what your motives were but I hope they had a foundation. Her: I havent picked up your c…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 03:41 AM
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She contacted my cousin and told her to tell me that I am a coward for not talking to her , and asked her for my work address , I hope she is not sending a bomb. My cousin told her .cousin: " you guys have broken up so many times, I didn't believe you because he doesn't look sad like the other times" .Her: he doesn't care anymore , but it's ok just tell him he is a coward for not ending this the right way .
/r/askTRP20/11/15 09:02 PM
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I just blocked her from everything, and it feels so good.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 04:37 PM
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I wouldn't say NEED, but I see coming back to her and treating her as a plate for a couple more months as a challenge, I know it looks like a headache but my feelings for her faded, any attempt from her at revenge will fail because of that (I realized I didnt feel anything when I didn't feel bad telling her to stop calling me when she was crying), and I have no problem doing anything, basically. Q: At what point will it be safe to come back to have her as a plate and how do I go about this.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 02:41 PM
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EDIT: Sorry for the really bad formatting I wrote this on my smartphone and i just realized its really bad. I will write as much as I can remember The exchange in the morning went (After I opened the last two messages and she saw that I left them read) 12:00pm Her: Go fuck yourself. 1:30pm Her: I hate you. 2:50pm: Me: Then don't be with me ([I remembered your advice and I know it doesnt apply here that well I know we had broken up and this is probably bad that I said it that way,it was also bad …
/r/askTRP20/11/15 06:12 AM
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She owes me money; I will ask for this I still dont know how or when, its not much. Also, I payed for a lot of shit that she had to do before this, I guess I cant ask for that and it will be just cutting my losses (This was like $300), She has a proposal ring(yes I proposed to her... she will give that back I hope, if not I'll ask for it on the spot), also she has some stuff that I gave her that she always offers to give me back. She doesnt offer to give me her cellphone though, I gifted that to…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 01:17 AM
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The exchange in the morning went (After I opened the last two messages and she saw that I left them read) 12:00pm Her: Go fuck yourself. 1:30pm Her: I hate you. 2:50pm: Me: Then don't be with me (I know we had broken up and this is probably bad that I said it that way, also because she disrespected me by saying "go fuck yourself") 2:50pm Her: Severely hurt. 2:50pm Her: don't be like that 2:50pm Her: don't treat me like that 2:50pm Her: I was so happy (no shit I was being a beta and you were mani…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 12:43 AM
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She just texted: Her: I hate you. How do I go with dignity start blocking her on everything? Or can I say something right now?
/r/askTRP19/11/15 07:40 PM
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I opened her text earlier and didn't respond, she just texted: Her: Go fuck yourself.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 06:06 PM
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One thing is for sure, I have to let her know someway that breaking up over little shit is no longer acceptable and it will be her last one.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:59 PM
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Response 1.- Me: you want me to be fair? this is the epitome of fair , like I said, stop being dramatic, Ive lost count of how many times you've "breaken up" with me, fix that shit or we're done. Response 2.- Me: You want me to be fair and stop being mean? Ok,Stop being a little bitch and come suck my dick. (this is toooooo cocky I just felt like typing it, I wouldnt do this specially since its a LTR) I'm really confused on how I can maintain frame, and if I should add some blue to my next text.…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:52 PM
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you're right and your analogy is perfect another person told me I looked like I wanted to be LeBron James and tried to do a slam dunk , and the truth is , I am not LeBron James , at least not yet . I am ready to walk away, so the cocky/funny will work , at this point having read up on some "no more mr nice guy " and some posts on trp, I can completely feel the the red pill re-constructing my mentality, I am starting to see the real world, and it hit me like a fucking brick. How do I proceed from…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:16 PM
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Big pig stuffed animal and flowers ?
/r/askTRP19/11/15 08:03 AM
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I'll do this, I'll wait till I can talk to her in person , her birthday is the 24th do you think I will lose frame if I send her , her gift? Or am I allowed that beta action?
/r/askTRP19/11/15 06:29 AM
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how fix?
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:50 AM
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Also , link to my previous post. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3t4u8y/ltr_lied_about_calling_me_and_being_home/
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:21 AM
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Crap. The complaint said: what is happening to us? Are we gonna just not talk anymore?! So am I just being an ass? This kinda needed to be taken care of ASAP, I will read the side bar.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:20 AM
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Edit: I made another post https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3te4lp/abrupt_change_of_behavior_towards_ltr_shit_gets/ She complained about not chatting much Me: we are chatting Her: how about the other days ???? Me: well if you're gonna keep being dramatic we are gonna chat even less Her: (radio silent and left my message read , so far about 15min) Her: We are done. Her: Dont ever talk to me like that again. (wut? i thought we were done) Me: Ok. Her: I think this time I tried more than you,…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:10 AM
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I just took the red pill I'm fairly new, I can learn from this. I'm starting to change my mentality after 2 days of finding this subreddit. I'm gonna open a gym membership after work, wreck all her shit tests and move on later on if needed, its true I might have wasted time, but now I'm gonna focus on myself fulltime, will try to meet new girls while practicing with her shit tests. Worst case scenario I will have her as a plate and always have something on the side to next her, I just need patie…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 08:56 PM
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Gotcha, man. I need to prepare for later, she senses all this abrupt change in behaviour, I'm starting not to "take care of her", shes gonna start shit test bombing me , first with "you don't love me anymore" (use agree and amplify here?), then possibly the one I expected yesterday "I dont want to be with you" to which respond "then dont be with me" or something along those lines. Thanks a lot for all your advice man, I really appreciate it.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 07:51 PM
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I found out her tooth ache is legitimate, still no need to act beta tho. I responded to her "bad" text with me: "Take some pills". she "read" my text but didnt reply. (another shit test) I now know her pain is legitimate though, radio silent is still the correct way?
/r/askTRP18/11/15 07:03 PM
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I just started reading that book, I asked her me:"how is your tooth??" her: "bad" another shit test I guess? judging by the just 1 word response keep ignoring or what is a good answer?
/r/askTRP18/11/15 05:20 PM
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She just called me once and then texted me , " you're not gonna answer me? Ok." I was sleeping. What do I text back ? Edit: I responded with "I was busy". her: Ok. Edit2: Ok now after I ignored her SECOND "Ok." of the day , she texted that her "tooth hurts badly and she thinks she has a fever, and that her tongue hurts too..." I sense manipulativeness or/and is a way to try to move on from the anniversary argument (she did go to the dentist 3 months ago to get her wisdom tooth taken out"). I wil…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 04:47 AM
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How exactly do I keep frame in that scenario?
/r/askTRP17/11/15 09:08 PM
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Alright I'm gonna prepare for this, she will most likely ask me or tell me she's gonna give me all my stuff back that is at her place or any gifts I gave her, what do/say then ?
/r/askTRP17/11/15 08:32 PM
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Ok she confessed to the lie and apologized. She is still offended by me not commenting nothing about the 1yr2month comment she made yesterday, which is pretty ridiculous lol... how do I respond to that?
/r/askTRP17/11/15 06:26 PM
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Say I want to plate her, how do I handle the next steps? She will try to manipulate with the "you dont trust me" and act "offended".
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:23 PM
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Hence why i didn't even comment on that whenever she told me, also I was busy.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:20 PM
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I like ths idea better, how do I deal whenever she texts me with the "you dont trust me, I cant be with you if you dont trust me etc." response she will text me something like that this morning. I need to shut down her Alpha-like-manipulative tendencies.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:19 PM
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Gotcha, she did not call though, I'm probably gonna downgrade to plate. How do I deal with the immediate response of her, she has alpha behaviour she will probably act offended and then escalate with some arguments, starting with the same argument as last night probably "you dont trust me".
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:15 PM
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Could you send them my way too? Thanks mang.
/r/seduction15/12/12 01:12 PM
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I'm gonna fuck my girlfriend tonight, and right when she's about to 0rgasm I'm gonna pull out my dick and walk away.
/r/seduction13/05/12 01:07 AM
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The 48 laws of power
/r/seduction17/12/11 06:33 PM
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+1
/r/seduction05/12/11 08:14 AM
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It's the next day and everything is normal except she won't initiate sex although we are close to having it , its just a matter of me going in for the kill though. Should I just fuck her if I feel like it , I want that blowjob though and if I initiate that won't happen , but I am also horny as fuck.
/r/askTRP
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Yeah the subject came up and she said she will withhold sex the same way I did , lol. I acted indifferent , she's being cuddly right now and I'm acting normal I just slapped her ass playfully and we just wrestled in bed. It's gonna be tough to tame her?
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