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Red Pill TheorySexSLA/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 09:38 PM
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They just don't aim that high, and are genuinely complacent with very little. Fixed for Scores Man :)
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:39 PM
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Why not do both? I have an LTR and plates - and have substantive conversations and relationships with all of them. The red pill isn't about having shallow connections. It's about not having the wrong expectations of those connections. The red pill will set your expectations correctly that LTRs are never going to love you the way that your blue-pill upbringing told you they would, but women can bring a lot of long term value if the ones you date aren't total morons. To maintain your frame you nee…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 04:37 AM
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Are they adding value? Honestly, my friends can have whatever opinions they want. If those opinions start cutting into their reliability or support I just soft next. This isn't to say your friends should always support you - or that you should share everything you do with friends, but if your values really don't align and you think they are disastrously misguided, I'd find different friends.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 11:22 PM
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Yeah this is fine. Just do it if you want - people get to far into their head with these frame games. The worst case is she doesn't let you back to her place and you just next her.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:23 PM
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It's in the sidebar stickied posts post on the main redpill. Honesting I think it should be the first thing people read on the sidebar...
/r/askTRP12/08/20 06:19 PM
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Like everyone else has said...good, she smarter than you lol. Stay off social media as much as possible.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 06:17 PM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. Doesn't matter what clothes you put on the wolf.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:21 PM
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going out more, less interaction, less responsive, less affection How much are you going out? We can't really speak to a specific situation here, but generally speaking: if she's going out and you are hanging around waiting for her or she's pulling away and you are continuing to look for the same amount of attention from her - that's going to kill things. Go live your own life and start looking for plates. You should be outcome independent about whether her need for space is temporary or permane…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 09:13 PM
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I joined a monastery. But seriously, you just set a goal and eliminate everything else. Not a big believer in Monk Mode per se, but basically it's just the extreme of taking some time off dating. So, just set your conditions and then take the time. If Monk Mode seems too extreme, I would consider just taking some time off girls and social media before going for something more intense.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:48 PM
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Hmm, there's a book: Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen It's by a Harvard research team and it's not exactly a social skills book - it's more about conflict resolution, but it helped me in social situations a lot because really goes into what people are talking about when they are saying apparently shallow things. It explains how something like "This bar has the best drinks" or "You never do laundry" isn't necessarily a statemen…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:56 PM
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Read the sidebar on approaching. I not being difficult - but If you don't know how, I'm not going to be able to summarize game for you here. You need to read all the material over there --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------->
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:10 PM
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Mission, Lift. The sidebar is the place for you, but I'll humor this because we have so many newbies floating around. Here is deal with University dating. Be fucking fit. That's it. If you are fit, you'll do super well. If you aren't you'll be treated like an incel. Work out literally as much as you possibly can. There just isn't enough differentiation between 18-year-olds for anything else to matter. Study your ass off and pick your mission early. Go to 1 party per weekend and just use kino to …
/r/askTRP03/08/20 03:35 PM
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"I want to show you my tap water and watch Land Before Time III"
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:40 PM
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Men want relationships. If you aren't getting men trying to lock you down, you should take the same advice that men having trouble finding sex take: raise your value. Men will always try to lock down a high value girl. If men aren't trying to get into a relationship with you then you are either giving them too much bullshit or you aren't attractive enough (physically and mentally) for them to stay interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:15 PM
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Sure, kind of like if you buy a "good" stock you'll make money - but unless you are an expert in picking real estate, you won't know what those good locations are and, on average, there are fewer good locations than good stocks/ETFs etc. San Francisco could be at half price or double the price within a decade - no one knows. Not saying you should never buy a house somewhere you wanna live, but it's not a smart financial investment for a layperson and you should never delay your other life goals …
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:03 AM
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They don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:56 AM
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\^ Listen to this. I've done a few of these and can confirm that if you don't gel with the scene, you'll be kicked out immediately, or worse, end up with an assault accusation. It's almost always a women's scene and DHV is the only game since there's no "date" segment. Honestly, I've had some good lays there, but don't actively go anymore bc I get kinkier and better sex from approaching for less than a dungeon cover fee.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:05 PM
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RP is amoral. We are here to provide you with a hammer, not tell you where to put your nails. If you think it's immoral, then you are breaking your frame and not working from a place of abundance. I would advise you, from a practical perspective, to find a lay you don't feel shady about.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:01 PM
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Game everyone. Always be in your frame and your best self, then decide who you want to fuck from a position of abundance. If you are posting about "this one girl who you have doubts about" on AskTRP, then you are not in the mode of abundance and your judgment is clouded.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 05:58 PM
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I'm not sure what it takes to own a club, but I know club owners work a fuck ton and often lose their business in a bad year anyway. So, it's not a shortcut.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 05:51 PM
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Sounds like you have a plan now! Go for it :)
/r/askTRP05/01/20 05:50 PM
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15% of men are over 6 feet. 3% of men are over 6'2. I doubt you're actually surrounded by people who are over 6'. Even if you are it doesn't matter. Women think I'm 6'. I'm 5' 9". The average guy on dating apps exaggerates his height by 3 inches. Women literally can't see those 2 inches between you and a 6' person. It's all in your head.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 09:22 PM
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Sounds like you wanna have sex before marriage and she doesn't. Find a girl who's more in line with your value system. If you like that she's a virgin until marriage but you want her to make an exception for you then you're a hypocrite.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:07 PM
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Holding a grudge is like taking poison and expecting your enemy to die Is she adding value to your life? Great! Nothing that came before matters unless it indicates that that is likely to stop. I see tradcons jumping on the Red Pill and thinking it's some philosophy about punishing or rejecting "bad" women. That kind of ideology will only poison you and destroy your satisfaction.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:52 PM
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Watching it fuck up a kids life is hard. The kid doesn't deserve his dysfunctional family.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 11:00 PM
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It doesn't matter. Life is embarrassing. You shouldn't put much stock in what other people think of you. Also, if you're getting the shit kicked out of you regularly and people have to save you then I don't think gender is the problem. You have bigger things to worry about.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:49 PM
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So, what exactly would your goal here be? How is texting your ex getting you closer to your mission? Your ex trash talked you over Twitter and now she's sorry about it years later. You wanna fuck her now? You wanna be friends? Obviously the sidebar wouldn't recommend that and neither would I. So, unless there's some other big factor here that you haven't spelled out, my advice is to just move on with your life without responding.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:44 PM
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You've been seeing your ex for 2 years and apologizing to her? WTF is wrong with you? You need to get therapy, stop talking to your ex, and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 05:31 PM
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What's the question? Do blond, white girls date Indian guys? Yes. Don't read too hard into what people say. There are racist people out there, but it's not a driving force. Dirt babies lady might have even been shit testing you.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 08:14 PM
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There's not really anything you can do to make him change unless he wants to. You certainly can't make him listen to anything you say. You can set a good example and be there for him to talk through what he really does want. You can also refuse to enable his bad behavior if it comes to that - but that's about it.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 01:29 AM
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