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| 4 | 11 Panty-dropping Date IdeasAgree with a lot of the comments. None are panty dropping. None of these will "keep me on my toes" (not sure why I'd need to be on my toes?). These are nice ideas. Not all of them are for all women. Some people don't drink, some people don't like formal, and some people don't like outdoor stuff, etc. Also it says nothing about the guys enjoying the activities... They may not - and that's important. Also - some of these are expensive - like ballet or wine tasting... And, depending on the venue ma… | /r/seduction | 09/05/23 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Let's talk about ugliness causing creepiness.(Woman here) So I am in several online chat groups. People are frequently joining (and some leaving) the different groups. Every now and then a guy will join and immediately start DMing or requesting DMs from EVERY WOMEN in the group - sending cock pics and asking if we are DTF. I can tell you these people ALL come off as creepy without having any idea what these guys looks like. The ladies immediately report the guys and they are banned from the group. None of us is saying "can a see a face or … | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrongYou should post your profile in the sub of that platform and ask for help (r/tinder, r/bumble etc) | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?I agree but as some others have pointed out, dropping a literary or historical reference may not be that person's cup of tea. Also you may come off as pretentious. (How many people actually know literary references outside of lit majors. Also I'm assuming you mean classic literature and not modern?) For instance, I have STEM related degrees. If I brought up how AI works or wanted to discuss the Theory of Relatively, you may have heard of those things but may not know enough to have an in depth c… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls reply to OLD messages with one or two word answers?What kind of questions are you asking? | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Do women view a Guy who’s in great shape the same way we guys view women with a great body?Depends on what you mean by "view". If you mean visually do women find bodies in great shape appealing, then I would say definitely yes. I think in general people like fit/in shape bodies. If you mean attracted to or want to have sex with because they are in great shape, then I would still say probably yes but to a lesser extent than men. I can find someone's body very attractive and have no interest in anything with that person even if the opportunity were to present itself. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | 7 tips on how you can confidently approach group of girls!"target" "leader" "isolate" YIKES | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so confusing?If you actually believe her, which it sounds like you trust her and do think she's telling the truth, why do you think it's confusing? She literally told you exactly what it was and what she needed. You also agree it was intense in the beginning and seem to understand what she was saying... If you don't believe her that's another story but that doesn't seem to be what you are saying. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman?There is definitely some issue you are not addressing if you say every woman in your life is treating you this way. You need to figure out what that is and address it. You may be projecting negative energy expecting to be treated badly and putting people off... and then when people react negatively you think you were right in the first place (self fulfilling prophecy) Unless you are actively telling people you can't attract women, no one knows your situation. You're projecting and it's hurting y… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | What is a fast way to determine wether a target is seducible or not?"target" yikes | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | How to stay away from logical conversation?I'm (F) similar in that I am fairly analytical (my degrees and job) and most people don't care or understand the details... I lean into it a bit by telling dates that I tend to be aloof/technical but that I try to keep things light... I tell people I embrace my nerdiness and ask them if they have something they geek or nerd out about, then we can talk about general "my friends don't get it when I am excited about xyz" vs focusing on the actual thing... So maybe find some common ground and chat a… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Is this the same girl you were dating 10 days ago or someone else? | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 04:20 AM |
| 9 | How to properly FaceTime3) They aren't insecure and know it's you calling but they are busy with... life | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?Yeah, I addressed that in my reply. I think this is a question of sex drive vs gender. But that's not the question the OP asked anyway. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:12 AM |
| 0 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?I don't understand what you are saying here about trans men or how it's relevant but i can tell you I enjoy sex way more than 3-5 days a month. (I'm taking a guess as to what you might mean) Does that mean I'm horny all the time? No. Does it mean I'm as easily excited "like a man might be"? No (my partners might disagree. Lol). Does it mean I see a random guy and picture him naked and want to jump his bones? Also no. But the question isn't "are women horny all the time like men"... it's also not… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?Lol. You can't "call me out". This is my experience and it's supported by 3rd party data. There is no indication in my comment or any of the studies whether the guys were experienced or not. You're making a huge assumption. Also you are making assumptions about the personality of ALL guys with less experience. Just because they have less experience doesn't mean they will let women easily dictate the flow. (See my original first point about tradition and sigmas). Not all women will have experienc… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?"This wouldn't work for me. I'd be thinking "yes I already know you think you're awesome or you wouldn't have approached me" *BTW do you men "you've never met anyone like me before"? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:08 AM |
| 15 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?This may not be the type of answer you are looking for but... YES!!! Women love sex as much as men!!!! There are a couple of things going on here. One of the biggest things is social/tradition conditioning. Traditionally, women a brought up not to be promiscuous. Make guys wait. They won't respect you if you don't and ALL that jazz. Even on Reddit if you look at the posts in these subs you will see a bunch of posts about "her number was to high" or "is my gf a slut" "she's not wife/mother materi… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What's your response to this shit test? "You're not going to murder me are you?"Any idea why you get asked this so often? Are you asking women over to your place as a first date? Or maybe suggesting somewhere that you think is fine but can be seen as scary for someone who doesn't know you? | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 08:45 PM |
| 9 | I've got her number from a group chat. Can I text her without it being creepy?So you got her number from a group chat. She didn't give it to you directly or mention in any way you should use it. You said multiple times that she is into you, even though she hasn't told you she is, and you're proof is that "you feel it" Is this the same girl from your class who you thought "was quite into you" like a month ago? but went cold and avoids you now? Cuz you were wrong then... Anyway it sounds like you know what you are going to do and just came here for support so you don't feel… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:24 PM |
| 2 | I've got her number from a group chat. Can I text her without it being creepy?No, this is a reply to the guy who said just to say "yo" | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:10 PM |
| 7 | I've got her number from a group chat. Can I text her without it being creepy?Unless she has blatantly said she's into you, you can't assume she is. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | do you ever just make it obvious you're into a girl instead of asking her out because you're scared of rejection?ALWAYS be direct. Not everyone can read social cues. Not everyone assumes being nice to them means you like them. Also if they don't like you, they won't say because you didn't ask directly and now you're kind of stuck in this weird place | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | How to get a girl who's insecure about herself and her looks?Don't make compliments only about her looks. Tell her things she does that you like. Tell her she's your favorite person or that she's considerate when she does something nice etc Looks are difficult because she's not going to believe you until she likes how she looks herself... | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 03:46 PM |
| 3 | What's so bad about this picture to everyone on here?Nothing wrong with the pic itself but you do look upset or unhappy. If it's for a dating profile or something I'd recommended something less serious looking | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 04:46 AM |
| 97 | Is a 29 year old asking out an 18 year old waitress creepy?Yes. 10+ years age gap You "get along" because you are a customer and she's working | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 03:18 AM |
| 15 | Where the hell can I meet girls?College parties! Clubs, house parties, frat parties. You're in college! | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Are you swamped with girls, but not with money? I got a job offer..We don't have to be mind readers! LOL. You think 1 guy can have a enough convo with someone online to get them interested enough to meet, and then that person not notice it's a totally different vibe/personality when they meet in person? We might not know WHY, but we'll know. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Are you swamped with girls, but not with money? I got a job offer..Certainly feels like the women are getting scammed since they won't be meeting the person they've been chatting with. Even if they know, which sounds like they probably won't. Serious creepy vibes here. Also good chance they'll end up liking the person they've been chatting with OR even if they are willing to meet after all this, they will immediately notice this guy has a different personality which, even if he's not bad, isn't what they were expecting. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?So yes, it's 100% acceptable that anyone can leave you on read any not reply immediately or ever. 100%. No one owes you a reply. But you are probably not comparing apples to apples. Are you talking about guy friends AND women who are just friends with no romantic interests? If not it's not a good comparison. Also, as mentioned below, we haven't seen any texts, and you haven't described any conversations, so we don't know how you interact with the guys vs the women. If this is happening with ever… | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 10:54 PM |
| 18 | I’m in a big city, NYC. Most people here walk with brutal efficiency, and don’t enjoy random strangers talking to them. What can I do?Simple, if someone looks busy or focused on something, leave them alone. No one wants to be stopped and maybe miss their train or bus, be late to a meeting etc. Go for people who don't look like they need to be somewhere Also, if you are trying to seduce or pick someone up, the advice about clubs or bars is totally correct. Don't try on someone who looks occupied... | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 05:44 AM |
| 6 | Is a "Lost and Found" basket a good idea to get girls to not "Forget" stuff at my place, or will it backfire? Is there another way?r/ihavesex | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 10:04 PM |
| 0 | Need advice boysWhat do you mean "I know I'm an idiot and definitely went too nice guy"?? | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 7 | No. No thank you. Please don't. Don't give stalkers more toolsNever taking off my mask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Why omegle is a great place to practice seduction: lessons I've learned.Hey, If this approach works for you and you think 1/100 is a good response rate then more power to you. The only thing I'll say here is that this isn't seduction. It's just playing the odds for sex. This is not the post for anyone looking for tips on actual seduction techniques... this is more for r/sex | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 11:03 PM |
| 4 | QuestionThis is a little vague since you thinking she looks anxious doesn't mean she actually is. It could be a million things... She had a bad day. Maybe she needs the bathroom but is waiting for someone. Maybe she thinking about work... Maybe she just got some bad news over text... I am also intelligent, attractive and quiet. I am not anxious/awkward in public but I am less talkative in situations where I don't know people and tend to keep to myself. People expect that being attractive means that the … | /r/seduction | 01/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 2 | QuestionI'm quiet and attractive but not submissive. Not at all the same thing | /r/seduction | 01/05/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | I don't wanna buy drinks for random girls at bar.I've personally never seen a girl ask. I have seen guys offer and I have one girlfriend who buys drinks for guys she thinks are cute. You can say something like "why don't you buy me a drink and if we are still chatting at the end of that round 'll happily buy the next round". OR "why don't we chat a while and if we click, I'll happily buy a round. I'll even let you buy me a round after" I don't think a "line" will work. If I am not interested in someone I won't take a drink if it means I have t… | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 10:45 PM |
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