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| 6 | I don't understand why online-dating has such a negative stigma hereI'm way more successful in person. My pros just don't come out with a few pictures and a couple lines of dialogue. I'm also not big into taking pictures, so the ones I have don't pop. I decided to get back on hinge, not pay any money and see how it went. I'd put real effort into the comments I'd leave on the people I liked, only swiped on girls that genuinely interested me.Two matches in 6 months. I can go to a party and get at least two girls interested in me by being personable, friendly and c… | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 09:52 PM |
| 4 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :Crabs in a bucket | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 12:38 AM |
| 61 | [deleted by user]Just going to reiterate how important your weight is compared to your looks. I was 340 pounds, nobody dated me. I dropped to 190 and suddenly I had lot's of options. I had a bad work injury and gained a lot of weight back, now I struggle attracting women. I'm the same guy, same "looks," but the difference is the weight. Women like a man that takes care of himself, so take care of yourself. Some men don't learn this until they're in their 30's (or ever), learn it yourself now. Focus on things you… | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Send your text and forget about itIt's more of I don't let conversations drag on beyond their purpose. Example, I have a date tonight. I messaged her on Wednesday, asked how she's doing and all that, then asked her to a bar on Saturday night. Once I got the yes I steered the conversation to an end. I achieved my goal, I got the date, any more talking after that won't get me any further. I haven't talked to her since then, and less than an hour ago got a message from her about being excited for tonight. She's been thinking of me … | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 05:02 PM |
| 7 | Send your text and forget about itYeah this is advice I wish I took to heart earlier. I would want to text girls all day every day and I didn't realize how much I was exhausting them. Now when I establish a date I maybe have one or two texts after it then forget about her until the date. Suddenly girls aren't rescheduling or flaking anymore, fancy that | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.In one ear and out the other, enjoy the life you chose | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Because they're living life instead of spending it online complaining, dude. From reading your comments in this thread I can tell that the person you choose to be is so undesirable that even if you were tall with a full head of hair you'd still have trouble with women, because you come off as a defeatist and dismissive. I have absolutely no idea what you look like and just your attiutude alone explains why you can't find success. Multiple people have tried to tell you how to actually help you an… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Of course you don't, it would mean you'd have to face the real reasons you have trouble with women | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.You really think she was the only girl he ever dated? | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 07:38 PM |
| 3 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.By all means keep making excuses, that will surely get you results | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 07:33 PM |
| 3 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.One of my most attractive friends is married to a bald guy that's barely over 5 feet. Why? Because he's a genuinely good and fun person who has his life put together and doesn't let things he can't control get in the way of his confidence and life. Be like him. | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Online dating, 2019.Oh my God I know, every other sentence felt like "How could I top my previous douchey comment?" | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 11:38 PM |
| 9 | Men have lost Mischievous energyUsually (and it's always the case when I've seen it in person) if she's willing to leave someone for you, she's willing to leave you for someone else. It shows a lack of maturity. | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 07:53 PM |
| 12 | If You Want To Be More Charismatic, Start Telling Good Stories - one of the only things I regret not learning earlier in life. Easier connection, better dates, and seemingly effortless charisma.Perspective. The most boring people will waste their lives seeing life only through their own eyes. | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Mark Manson says the only real dating advice is self improvement. What would be your top 5 tips for someone to improve themselves?Yeah I don't know what that person is talking about. Of course walking burns calories. It's not the most efficient exercise but if you're extremely over weight it's the better way to start, especially since running a lot at a high weight is not only tough to keep consistent but also really rough on the knees | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 03:20 PM |
| 2 | How to *actually* love yourself.There was once a time when you were a child that you experienced happiness before the thoughts of sex and love and marriage ever entered your mind. Remember that. There is surely something in this world that still sparks something in you like when you were a child, something that drives you. Go for that. Once you see your progress it will start the snow ball of you gaining more confidence and control in your life. Do what makes you happy, because guess what? Girls usually go for happy guys, not … | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 01:13 AM |
| 9 | How to *actually* love yourself.I know this sounds gloom but who's to say finding a woman won't make things miserable? We romanticize the idea of finding true love but life is so much more that that. I grew up watching my parents get divorced multiple times, their quest to find true love was literally what drove them to the ground instead of learning to love themselves. It's something I didn't learn either until I had my heart crushed from the girl I gave everything to and wanted to start a family with. For a long time of my l… | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 12:07 AM |
| 8 | Had sex, she friendzoned.It's alright man, it happens. I'd been flirting hardcore with this girl for awhile and after making out at parties I threw a few times 4th of July party came and we got super drunk and she decided she wanted to stay the night. Before that night we were virgins. And during the sex it was obvious lol it was sooo bad we kept slipping and falling and we're too drunk to work together and the condom was too right so it cut off blood flow (the amount of booze I had probably didn't help) and I just reme… | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 07:38 PM |
| 2 | If you have known a girl more than 2 weeks and you still cannot tell if she's attracted to you, she's not. Move on.Just because it hasn't happened to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I was approached and pursued by the last few girls I dated and I'm not much of a looker, it happens. It just depends on the girl and how you present yourself. They're human beings, they don't just sit there endlessly waiting for their mate to find them, if they really want someone they'll go for them | /r/seduction | 23/05/17 02:30 PM |
| 2 | The Psychology Of Why Women Don't Approach MenYou're getting downvoted by jealousy. Too many people here don't realize it takes so much more than being attractive to be well with girls | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 03:18 PM |
| 2 | The Psychology Of Why Women Don't Approach MenUm, women definitely can and do approach | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Lost virginity, whole new person all the sudden?You're young, keep trying. Some of us figure it out late, but you'll never figure it out if you quit | /r/seduction | 13/05/17 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to ask someone out of the blue without talking to them at least one time?Literally ignoring everything else I said AGAIN dude. Seriously, you acting like women are some prize to a "game" is honestly disgusting, I tried to be nice and give you some guidance but you are so hung up on "reading" and "the game" that you're so seperated from reality that no woman is going to feel comfortable around you when you look at them like that. You have a lot of growing up to do before you should even consider ever getting intimate with a woman. I'll say this one last time, and I ho… | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Is it wrong to ask someone out of the blue without talking to them at least one time?Also ignores legit and helpful advice | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 07:13 AM |
| 1 | How can you tell the difference between passing eye contact and staring from a girl?There is no game, dude. Just real life. Seriously man if you keep looking at the world like this you will only ever find yourself constantly failing. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How can you tell the difference between passing eye contact and staring from a girl?Okay then keep reading and see what that does for you. I tried to help you, bud. I really did, but all you want to do is disagree and not ignore what I'm telling you. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 12:07 AM |
| 0 | How can you tell the difference between passing eye contact and staring from a girl?Yes, and a social circle is how most people meet people. Personally I think cold approaches are stupid, how would you feel if some guy hit on you while you were just trying to get groceries or work out? Do you think girls go to libraries to meet people? No, they're there for books. Social environments, however, are places where it is acceptable to walk up to someone and say hi and talk. Meet people, make friends, and be someone they worth getting to know. Please understand that taking that advic… | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 11:26 PM |
| 0 | How can you tell the difference between passing eye contact and staring from a girl?I've already been rejected before so I'm just reading on how to improve myself You're missing the point man. Something some guy writes on the Internet is going to tell you how to get the attention of your crush Sally. You know the only person who knows what attracts Sally? Sally. There is no text book on this. This isn't a video game, these are complex and diverse human beings. Truth is, people are going to reject you. It's life, everyone has been rejected and don't fool yourself thinking you're… | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Picking Up Girls Wearing A Pornhub Hat LOLI can't tell if this is a real person or satire | /r/seduction | 01/10/16 10:43 PM |
| 0 | Eye contact is literally everything.No it just shows that you're judgemental over the use of a single word | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 07:45 PM |
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