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I used to split 50/50. Wasn't very successful at dating back then and rarely got past a first date. I don't go on many dates now. I pay for the full thing. My dates are a lot more successful now. Is it because I paid? Who knows, but it's at least a partial factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:43 AM
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cope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:34 AM
1

Anger is not the same as sobbing. A man crying publicly is an uncommon enough event that usually some deference is given to him and a justification is assumed—just like how a publicly angry or even violent woman is assumed to have some justification. In contrast men are expected to be restrained in their anger because they can be far more physically dangerous than women. When women cry, they are 'children'. When men throw angry tantrums, they are simply 'responding in an emotionally reasonable w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 09:04 AM
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U-uh, I mean incels are smelly! Yeah! That's right!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 09:10 PM
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Stop basing your ideas about women on outliers. . school shooter fantasies they [incels] are proud of having. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 08:23 PM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:26 PM
1

Noooooo you're destroying the economy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:24 PM
2

crazier things have happened
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:23 PM
1

For most women losing weight would be far more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 07:26 AM
1

There are more submissive men than dominant women. It can counteract their fatness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 07:38 AM
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Yeah, hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 07:36 AM
3

Not really, there are way more domineering types
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 05:56 AM
3

wat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 05:51 AM
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You'll only find one if you're willing to pay or willing to settle for women who weigh more than you. The actual number of dominant women who are not LARPing as dykes that will bend at the first sign of actual defiance is surprisingly small. It is literally easier to reprogram yourself to be more dominant than to find anything approaching happiness as a male submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:30 AM
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All the INTP women I've known are all very submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:27 AM
5

I am assertive, warm, and snuggly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 08:41 PM
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Complete lie. Stop reading ragebait hot take articles and check out the paper for yourself. It's about attitudes between different groups, not frequency. https://www.reddit.com/r/OneY/comments/2t698n/a_third_of_male_university_students_say_they/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 08:07 PM
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If a woman goes home with a man that is physically stronger than her she consents to any and all sex acts with that man. She placed herself in that situation with that man, how can she blame anyone but herself? She already knew the possible outcomes. Sure, he could have lied about being a good guy. That's terrible. But unless brought bear mace and a taser she knows there is a possibility of her getting raped. She shouldn't have any recourse and should take full blame for her action.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 11:59 PM
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Sure its negotiable. If you're hot enough. 😎 If anything is getting raped here, its the this inane need to purge context. If "No, daddy!" as she does unmentionable pornstar moves on your penis is rape, then I guess every man has a little rapist in them. Political lesbian separatist communes are still a thing, I hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 06:07 AM
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Beta bucks refers to when a man is valued more as a provider than a lover, particularly when said woman is now settling down with someone more stable (and boring).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 11:35 AM
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If this is not a trollpost: Sounds like you're just looking to be a contrarian fighter. Knock yourself out, but no one is forcing you to do whatever TRP or even conservative men tell you to do. You spend more effort disapproving people with viewpoints you don't like than understanding why they got those viewpoints in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 09:47 AM
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For now, both me and my gf are not planning on having children, I told her I am never planning on having them, and she told me "later in future she would want them". And so we left this debate at that. This is an irreconcilable difference. Either one of you will have to change their mind or you two will break up. The real problem here is that you're willing to kick a can down the road indefinitely rather than deal with the issue sooner to avoid a bigger issue later. There is no need to hide havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 09:43 AM
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Who said you have to use arms?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:34 AM
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Not if you choke her while you do it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:20 AM
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Men, are you naturally dominant or is dominance something that you had to learn? For me it was unlocking a trait that already existed but was never enabled until I had both the maturity and motivation to do so. I didn't have to learn how to do. I had to learn that I should do it. Specifically, I had to grow mature enough to embody it in a non-cringey fashion (although that can be optional), I had to calibrate it to fit with societal norms (not optional), and I had to integrate it with however I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 11:57 AM
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😱 I meant the things that are more than friends but less than sex! 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 03:48 PM
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Examples please?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 03:46 PM
6

The second one just sounds like a good friend, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 03:45 PM
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Non-racist RPers Everyone is a little bit racist admit that you see nonwhite people as human beings It's true, I don't consider myself a human being. 🤖
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 08:41 PM
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> Prole > Touring Ibiza & Essex 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:04 AM
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Because its snuggle-weather! 💞
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 04:55 AM
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Its for low betas to become high betas. If you're omega you have to work on your life first. If you want to become alpha you need to go full testosterone yolo rather than giving a shit what an internet forum has to say. Go chat up some doe-eyed art school freshmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:17 PM
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Not sure if radical redpill or radical feminist... 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 03:24 AM
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They actually don't. What feminists call rape is not at all what the law calls rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 05:57 AM
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👌
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 06:31 PM
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Women have a lot of neotenous traits
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 08:35 AM
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Successful RP men are just called "normal". They aren't posting here (often).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 08:43 PM
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Ask women who had the life you have now and now have the life you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 08:42 PM
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Can count to 3 Follows the rules Doesn't use extraneous semicolons 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 06:25 PM
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BPD women are kinda like the female equivalent of DT men. They are hyperfeminine so "conquering" them feels more delicious. Be cautious of a LTR/marriage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:08 AM
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I'm foremost attracted to femininity (outside of visual cues). Ever since I accepted women as being different mentally I don't find myself attracted to man-brained women. I don't think men who are already successful with women are going to find much benefit in adding transwomen to their dating pool outside of certain fetishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 07:59 PM
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Don't look to a deus ex machina from science. You or I probably won't live long enough to accessible vat-grown usable sexual organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 07:54 PM
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I can't say i picked up Game knowledge but I did learn to game women somewhat organically. After some introspection I stopped worrying if my partner would have never fallen for the "old me" because the new me is still me--just with tweaks, enhancements, and refinements on top of my core personality. Everyone's just trying to fake it through life anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 07:11 PM
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good grief!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 05:35 AM
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As has already been discussed throughly in this thread, what Louis did in his hotel room isn’t illegal. So just leave then. A car salesman exposing himself in public to a customer would be. The analogy wasn't a car salesman exposing himself. It was a car salesman emotionally manipulating you and using high pressure techniques to get you to buy a car you weren't planning on buying. The analogy was about manipulation. Also not illegal, and you can also just leave. I mean, if a hero of mine literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 05:28 AM
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I mean, if a hero of mine literally started stripping naked in front of me and masturbating I’d be intimidated. It’s a power move and I’m not sure what I’d do if put in that situation. . If a car saleman whipped out his dick I would call the police. So what's the problem then? Sounds like you do know what to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 05:18 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 05:11 AM
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How is this any different from a scummy car salesman trying to upsell you? They use emotional manipulation and high-pressure techniques while saying whatever needs to be said to get you to sign on the dotted line. Yet at the end of the day if you sign that document you bought that car. Maybe we should also ban advertising while we're at it. Also debates. You are demanding a special exception made only for women and only when sexual power is used against them. You are also assuming all women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 05:08 AM
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if a hero of mine Irrelevant. No one can read your mind. literally started stripping naked in front of me and masturbating I’d be intimidated. Irrelevant. No one can read your mind and you are not being held under any illegally coercive actions. It’s a power move and I’m not sure what I’d do if put in that situation. Walk away or leave? I don't understand why other people should be responsible for your emotional reaction. A man in the same situation would most likely be told that he should have …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 11:52 PM
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Until incels are systematically denied rights Making up new nebulous rights out of thin air is not being "systematically denied rights". This is no different than incels that demand government-provided girlfriends. and murdered for "not being normal" not the same. I wasn't aware of all those transwomen death camps, dang
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 06:33 PM
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Hormones don't work like any of that outside the womb. You're not going to change penile tissue into vaginal tissue with hormones. You're not going to grow a uterus with hormones. Your hips are not going to become wider from hormones. You're not going to get any shorter from hormones. You're not going to grow eggs in a non-existant uterus with hormones. You're not going to replace your memories and lived experiences with hormones. Personal experiences are irrelevant for a medical condition witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 06:28 PM
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Hormones may be changed but what's not really changed are organs, skeleton, gametes, intellect, conditioning, and experiences. It's only a few slices of the pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 06:07 PM
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Actual alpha men find the best woman possible to put him on a pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 12:13 AM
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Still not as dark-skinned as you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 04:24 AM
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That's only because you're Indian
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 10:14 PM
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Did you read the paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 08:20 PM
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Other way around. D/s attracts women who are naturally submissive but need a way to express that in current cultural zeitgeist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 08:09 PM
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Stop being fat 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 06:56 AM
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By that logic refusing to give your child meth is also complete and utter asshole behavior At least they'd have a better survival chance with meth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 05:51 AM
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Dying alone and unloved also sucks. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 10:28 PM
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If you aren't actually living you have no life to lose anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 09:52 PM
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CS is a very different beast in social perception compared to even other STEM fields. I have heard "Oh, you don't look like you studied computers!" many times. 🙃 🔫
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:05 AM
2

Become taller and whiter and switch industries
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:16 AM
2

I am somewhat sexist. I hold men to higher standards than women and have less sympathy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:14 AM
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It makes you edgy. 🔪
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 02:14 AM
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👔 💁 👨‍💼🔫
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 06:13 PM
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literal Nazis I can't tell if you're being hyperbolic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 06:11 PM
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Don't hate the player, hate the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 06:08 PM
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But how isn't pressuring someone into having sex abusive? How isn't a car salesman pressuring someone into buying a car abusive? How isn't you wife pressuring you to go to the doctor abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 04:28 AM
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You need a fucking control. /r/TheBluePill also checks off this list, is that an abusive subreddit? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 03:04 AM
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I guess someone just got dead bedroomed 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 06:36 AM
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yass queen slay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 06:11 AM
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I have to really disagree with you there. I did an experiment by living my life as an Asian guy who lives near a bunch of white people. You need a control by sending non-white girls some messages, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 11:41 PM
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but only for a few exceptions Asian males can date a non-Asian. Honestly, I think this is more a cultural issue such as Asian (immigrant) culture valuing very high FTO behavior, deference to elders, and social inhibition. That can work for women but its usually detrimental to men when they try to date in the open SMP. Sure, its not as easy as being a white guy for a number of reasons, but it's still very doable to exceed the average white guy. A short jacked assertive Asian man is still probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 10:20 PM
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I don't find smarts by themselves sexy, but a quick and clever wit can still work charms on me as a guy. Smartness on a lay is kind of a waste but smartness on a wife is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 09:37 AM
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Congrats! 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 06:02 AM
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There seems to be no understanding that bad people or even just people with bad intentions can exist. There is no certainly no understanding to the idea that maybe women's interests will not always be inherently prioritized by every member of society at all times. What's the feminist solution to "fuck you I'm going to rape a bitch anyway?" What can do they in the face of actual resistance? Let's replace cut out police forces and replace them with "Teach murderers not to murder!" and "Teach thiev…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 07:39 AM
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Relevant Camille Paglia clip (2 minutes) "We wanted the freedom to risk rape."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 07:24 AM
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I hardly require a woman, but a lovely one is lovely. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 04:46 PM
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Only if you're severely ugly and/or don't want to be feminine. For every woman that complains men aren't loyal there's a man that says that of women. You must offer something that is valued to gain something that is valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 08:59 AM
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I'm sure it's just like fashion. When I was a kid thin and busty was in. Right now it's curvy with ass. I'm sure it'll swing back within again within 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 07:21 PM
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This topic is practically a meme at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 11:57 PM
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I'd prefer a LTR where I'm fucking the right woman, but casual sex is a decent substitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 07:44 AM
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One man can impregnate 100 women. 1 women can only be pregnant with 1 man's kids at a time. From that everything flows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 09:28 PM
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tumblr.com
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 07:44 AM
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That's blackpill. If it was redpill then what would be the point of self-improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 08:53 AM
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Stop giving a fuck about girls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 04:53 AM
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Just use your fist, brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:52 AM
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Is this a question or just a thinly-shielded argument? Feminism is based on Marxism, not empiricism. It is an ideology first that selectively chooses which facts to elevate and which ones to ignore. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:13 PM
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I think men can still imagine bring anally raped by another man as horrifying. See: every (American) prison joke ever. Maybe it's not the same, but its still something. Whether that is equivalent or not I don't think matters. I'm not going to shout out repeatedly "women don't understand the incel struggle!!1!" because while they may not, why should they? What incentive is there for them to do that? How does it benefit them in anyway? Would we really want that? I ask the same questions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 03:42 AM
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Go home gamer girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 09:05 PM
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What would we do without you, Princess? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 06:21 AM
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I've never drank alcohol. That's pretty weird. I don't drink alcohol on my own, but I'll still imbibe at parties. It's a social lubricant but it also acts as a commitment to the party, since you can't immediately drive off drunk. Just angrier & more ruthless/intense. Why angry? You sound angry at the normies. What use is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 09:18 PM
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If you want normie women you gotta play by normie rules. Yeah it's frivolous. So are video games. Dont' knock it til you try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 09:12 PM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 06:47 AM
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So you're still a secret misogynist? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 08:00 PM
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That scene from Requiem for a Dream is playing in my mind. 😱 Are you taking speed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 06:25 AM
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Your BMI is ~26. Aim for around 20 and I guarantee you'll see some changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:10 PM
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For me, absolutely! I'm not really interested in ONS but some men are and in that scenario you can usually solve the cunty words with a well-placed dick. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:18 AM
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If you have to ask, no. Rompers go in the same bin as harem pants, jeggings, and half the shit /r/femalefashionadvice wears. They might be fashionable but usually make women look very unattractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:16 AM
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Not really. According to this site about 1/3 of Americans are overweight and another 1/3 are obese. If you have a healthy BMI you're pretty much guaranteed to be in the upper half of attractiveness. Not really a high bar I'd think. If you want to talk genetic ceilings and such sure, that probably exists for hitting 8 and higher. But losing weight and getting fit will almost always put you at a minimum of 6, if not higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:05 AM
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Woah, thank you for the gold! This was a bit of an off-the-cuff answer, but I honestly believe the majority of both women and men, barring some major physical deformity or mental disability can be at least SMV 6-7. Is it easy? Of course not. But it's worth it. I have legitimately gone up several SMV points. If I can do it, so can you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 02:42 AM
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SMV don't be fat don't cut your hair short shave wear a dress now and then shower daily act like you're interested or impressed RMV don't be a cunt don't be preachy don't attack his reasonable hobbies be fun don't send 100 text messages and expect a timely reply to all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 02:36 AM
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You made me giggle, thus cucking me 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:14 AM
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No hymen, no diamond!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:12 AM
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Not all women are delicate snowflakes that cower from mean words on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:16 PM
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I don't. What I do know is myself and what has worked for me. I know what works on the sexuality a subset of women I'm interested. I know in aggregate men and women are different. That's all I know, and that's all I would claim I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:02 PM
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This test again! I've definitely changed as I've gotten older. 94% Dominant 92% Switch 88% Degrader 87% Rigger 85% Rope bunny 81% Master/Mistress 76% Brat tamer 75% Sadist 68% Submissive 65% Daddy/Mommy 59% Masochist 58% Owner 54% Degradee 51% Experimentalist 50% Primal (Hunter) 42% Vanilla 33% Ageplayer 30% Brat 27% Slave 19% Primal (Prey) 13% Exhibitionist 12% Non-monogamist 12% Voyeur 11% Girl/Boy 4% Pet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 08:26 PM
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/r/AsianMasculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:06 AM
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I score moderate liberal on the political axis test thingy, so there's that!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:48 AM
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I would look at the first two letters if I was searching for a correlation, not the last two.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 06:11 AM
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There are always simultaneously plenty of girls and not enough eligible girls. If men or women have a universal preference, they can still have that fulfilled to an extent. For example: women prefer older men and this is usually fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 08:32 AM
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They already do that though...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 08:06 AM
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n+1, where n = my n count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 06:33 PM
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What does that have to do with anti-feminism? Most anti-feminism I see is based on the idea that feminism is bad for both women and men. Feminism is only really good at obtaining privileges in the interest of UMC white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 11:06 AM
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Did you forget about Margaret Tatcher so quickly? You really think women as heads-of-state are any kinder than men? History does not agree with you. Who pushes for abortion controls the most? Women. Who demands safety the most? Women. And thus abortion clinics are defunded and mild beatings are enacted and it really has nothing to do whether the head-of-state has a penis or vagina, because the State is its own beast. You seem to think that women have a inherent collective identity with all woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 11:00 AM
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I had to be hospitalized for the overdose of secondary cringe I endured.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:54 AM
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All ideologues seem to be snowflakes with weak egos. Doesn’t seem to matter which ideology, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:52 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? I called you sexist because you obviously are. She obviously is? By what criteria? And so what? Who gives a fuck outside of progressive circlejerks? Even liberals (not progressives) are giving up on the idea of gender equality. You openly admit you don't respect women just because they're women. No, she said men don’t automatically respect women. That’s your own jumping to conclusions. Sexism now means not automatically treating women better than men. That's …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:50 AM
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Why the fuck would men respect women? Why are you even assuming men automatically respect men? Admiration and deference is something that needs to be earned. How do you expect men to automatically respect women when men have to actually earn proof of merit? Wouldn’t that just make women seem really incompetent and only able to advance through diversity quotas and sexual favors? Not all people very good at running a continuous cognitive dissonance of all women need to be respected and women do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:45 AM
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But moooooom!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 08:27 AM
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My experience is that femininity is fine as long as you still retain core masculine traits. Women don’t dislike some femininity in men. What they abhor is a lack of masculinity. In fact, effeminate men can get laid like pipe—so long as they are also masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 07:51 AM
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Well yeah, why can’t we be adorable? 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:18 AM
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The strict basics are usually non-negotiable: * Minimum attractiveness (let's say SMV 5+) * A bit of game But the number one factor after that is simple, raw numbers. The more women you know and the more aggressive you are with your flirting, the more likely you are to hook up. You don't need to be in the top 20% of looks to do this. You do need to be in the top 20% of getting your ass out there to do this regularly, but that's easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:42 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:20 AM
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Get a good haircut and do some squats! (Strong Curves)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:16 AM
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I agree that after a woman gets laid a few times, in most cases she figures out the sex part is fairly easy and that’s she’s not anything special just for getting laid. Being offered free sex from a man that is not attractive to you is the equivalent of being offered a free bag of feces. It is free and it still might have some value, but I am not going to take it. The thing that it does do is enable willful delusion. An undesirable woman can use all that attention as validation that her standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 08:41 AM
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Honestly I think the physical mechanics of sexually satisfying a woman are the easiest part. It’s the psychological aspects along with the seduction and attraction games that are bigger differentiators.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 11:35 PM
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It’s fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 07:23 PM
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Now they have to be down for anal a lot more!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 06:28 AM
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That just sounds like a masturbation euphemism 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 06:26 AM
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Well if you think of loser in terms of bmi, I have a normal bmi and I'm pretty to boot, so I guess to answer your original dumb Q, no.. I'm not projecting. I have no idea what you look like, so why do you think I was referring to looks? Honestly Your comment is really picky and annoying, so I'll just respond to other people an ignore it :) Honestly You made so many assumptions you’ve already destroyed whatever point you were trying to make, but you’re still going to pretend like you’ve made a va…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:29 AM
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Because it seems more like lamenting than questioning. It’s way too full of specious reasoning to make any kind of CMV post. Many men are losers? Sure, I could buy that depending on what standards you are using. But so are many women…have you seen the current obesity and overweight rates? If I need a normal BMI woman to form a relationship (and I really do, else I get resentful and quickly lose attraction) then how am I doing better than women in dating? Your second statement is making a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 06:12 AM
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Are you projecting, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 05:16 AM
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The women who could easily go to Europe if they need an abortion, for example. Does this actually happen a lot? I’m really curious now!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:26 PM
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Better to die young than to never live at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 11:25 PM
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How many single parents are women and how many single parents are men? If Congress passed a law banning any restaurant that sells tacos, there’s no such thing as a Mexican restaurant ban, right? It’s just a taco-selling ban!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:39 AM
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Then what is an Alpha 1.0? The article doesn’t seem to give any reasons for the assumptions it makes. They're just traditionally masculine traits taken to maladaptive extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:35 AM
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No man is 100% alpha outside of movie character villains and feminist strawmen. But if such a man does exist, why the fuck would he care what this article says he should be? I’m not of the mindset that alpha = good and beta = bad, but a healthy balance is necessary as is a good dose of self-interest—if society does not cater to you, how can you afford to cater to it? Serving some higher socialized form of morality almost always means serving other people: men with less socialized morality and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:27 AM
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Mean omega with a bit of muscle is still an improvement!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 10:15 PM
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All RP means to me is: Women aren’t men Self-improvement I don’t ever browse the main RP subs because with the things that I have already figured out, their attempts seem incredibly amateurish. Ex. that "How to Choke a Bitch" guide 🙄, the texting thing, and whatever the fuck the Sex God method is. There’s also way too much moralizing. Also sexually I’m a dominant switch, and I’ve never been able to remove the occasionally sexually submissive part. I’ll just have to live with it because I’m prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 04:47 AM
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When I was growing up I did not like being a boy. The majority of authority figures in my life were women who hated boyish behavior. Part of the increase in transgendered children is that in feminized circumstances such as gifted education, acting like a boy is vilified. Only bad, misbehaving children run around, shoot pretend guns, and throw balls indoor. What child would want to identify as a boy, if all girls do is rule and all boys do is drool? Besides, if you become a girl and you get way m…
/r/RedPillWives20/01/17 04:39 AM
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I don’t think female virginity is a big deal these days—either having it or not. You shouldn’t get heartbroken if your first dumps you, but neither should you just swipe right on Tinder to get rid of it ASAP. Just treat it at least as much as you’d treat sex. You should state up front with a new partner that you are a virgin because that will save or excuse a lot of mechanical awkwardness!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:49 AM
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Most men have some amount of attractive, masculine traits and can secure some amount of women. They don’t have to think about it. I don’t think that many guys want to plate-spin. It’s a bit of fulfilling a fantasy for some, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 10:43 PM
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There is not much of a problem with women having sex with a string of men and then settling down with what is rudely called a "beta bux", this is what keeps civilization afloat and it's a great thing women have the options to have sex with who they want, instead of holding it out for marriage. Nearly every successful religion and culture have pushed for marriage and long-term relationships for the masses. The traits that make a man attractive for casual sex are often anti-societal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:53 PM
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Now I see why you’re an alpha woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:42 AM
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Wrinkles = ribbed for your pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 09:49 AM
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All the sluts I banged got regular STD testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 10:36 PM
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Probably just normal feelings of moral supremacy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 08:21 AM
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TBP with the idea that you can find some general trends in a population. I’m pretty sure they’d argue against even the idea of SMP/SMV because everyone is a unique special snowflake who can’t be quantized into a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 07:10 AM
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I just think I died a little on the inside!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 05:16 PM
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Having a bad laugh like one that sounds like a donkey or something. I’m so alpha I DON’T EVEN LAUGH. Checkmate, panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 04:54 PM
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I just think you’re not excited enough!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 04:52 PM
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😭 Excess sexual innuendo is horribly cringy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 04:52 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:37 AM
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I’m not a manospherian. (Is that even a word? Let’s make it a word!) But all I can say is: yeah…so what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:31 AM
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Telling me what kind of women I should be attracted to is the creepy thing here. Life isn’t fair. Women carry fat way better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:28 AM
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We have gotten so sick of fat women that just by not being fat and being 15-40 years old, you are already above average. Is that so hard? I work out almost everyday so that I’m not fat or skinnyfat. Why can’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 07:30 AM
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I don’t see pill stuff unless the conversation goes into gender/relationship territory. Then it can get really blue (I tend to hang out with liberal people). But I’ve learned to hide my power level way before pill stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:48 AM
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🤠 (cowboy emoji) 🌵 #TeamTexas!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:46 AM
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Best I can do is 2 camels, some fertilizer, and a used iPhone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:48 AM
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Speaking of which, you still haven’t given me your little sister’s number. 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:24 AM
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Lets just orbit each other, then we can make a team and scam foreign hotties!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:55 AM
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Get into a sport to counteract my introversion and keep me in shape. Have an official snugglebuddy I can keep around!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 12:44 AM
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Shit, that’s my plan too!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 12:41 AM
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🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 12:41 AM
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Women can’t measure penis size for shit. That doesn’t mean they don’t have a invariable preference. It matters in keeping a woman interested in you. So pretty much any sexual situation that’s not a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 06:29 AM
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I don’t plan being spontaneous. I do remind myself to be fun and engaging though if I’m out with friends of I’m on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 08:31 PM
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I saw it with my family. I was very tempted to say “yo I am weird because I am a little like that guy”. But I didn’t. 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 08:30 PM
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Have you seen The Accountant? Came out this summer/fall I believe!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:57 PM
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I think its not a death sentence. I am a big systemizer but part of the system of relationships is to not systemize everything. So I can still be spontaneous and emphatic and do fun things!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:47 PM
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24, INTP. I have some spergy characteristics such as: Massive introversion Love of routine Systemizing everything Fixation on one task at a time Aural hypersensitivity I’m not socially retarded, though. I’ve made an effort all my life to fit in with the normies and I think it’s paid off. I prefer not socializing, but I can enjoy parties too (until I run out of social juice). I can see why TRP exists, but I can also see why TBP thinks its a vile cesspool of misogyny and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 07:03 PM
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It’s been merged into the autism spectrum since it turns out it was essentially Autism-Lite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:59 PM
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Because they are systemizing a highly emotional process.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:56 PM
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There are a lot of articles online about the fragility of masculinity because attacking masculinity isn’t seen as an actual threat. Making fun of “bromance” and Old Spice commercials is merely a superficial attack that no one gives a shit about. Masculinity is partly based around stoicism: if 30-something harridan feminist rag writers need some drivel to get through their own crushing insecurities, who cares? Is that an actual threat, or just something to roll your eyes at? Attacking femininity …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 09:16 PM
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I think its millennials in general who are ok with weed. Personally I have never smoked a cigarette. I will smoke weed at parties if offered, but not on my own. (No I’m not some teetotaler)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 06:54 PM
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Duluth model: women are victims, men are perpetrators when it comes to domestic violence. It’s was a specious study done by feminists and used first as a model for police in Duluth—but now it’s a common policy. TRP has minimal IRL influence. Men’s desire for sexual access does cause social unrest in various ways, but there’s not going to be a beta uprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 12:35 AM
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Feminists have the Duluth model—violence against men is erased. What does Red Pill have? That women and men are different? I’m not sure I see the violence in acknowledging that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 09:13 PM
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Red Pillers think women are sick psychos. You are a woman who isn’t a sick psycho. You think all Red Pillers are sick psychos. See how these perceptions perpetuate on both sides?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 09:02 PM
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I never knew to what depths some men can despise women and see them as objects until I found that sub. I really don’t understand that. It’s not a gendered issue. Both men and women do this to other men and women. Why not just say “human”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:10 PM
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Luke took 3 movies to git gud. Rey did it in 5 minutes. The only reason you give a shit is because she has a vagina and it makes you uncomfortable to see vagina power fantasies. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:07 PM
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Me, myself, and I!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 07:32 AM
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Do you actually like a certain style of glasses or just glasses in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 09:31 AM
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wears glasses 😌 big lips 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 06:50 AM
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I just realized: impregnable means both a structure difficult or impossible to capture…or the ability to get pregnant. That’s like “literally” now meaning not necessarily literally!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 05:00 PM
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So I think most of the change has to come from men. Especially ones that have it really well for it to have a big enough effect on the whole. Here’s the problem. Becoming a successful, attractive male seems to necessarily cause the adoption of an individualistic value system that eschews arbitrary group identities. Becoming a successful man often results in that you stop giving a shit about other rando men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 04:54 PM
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People starve and have no shelter in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 03:26 PM
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The MRM is still so incredibly small that spreading awareness to combat ignorance and disinformation is actually a useful activity and not just masturbation in front of a computer at Starbucks. MRAs do get some stuff done but it’s not reported on by the MSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 03:24 PM
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We live in a post-scarcity environment in the vast majority of the world for food. Yet there are places where people are starving—and it’s due to political or economic reasons, not scarcity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 03:21 PM
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Looking like women combats sexism for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 03:18 PM
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No. Resource management and acquisition is built into all living organisms. If we create a post-scarcity society, we’ll just invent a new scarcity to covet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 03:15 PM
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I do internet advocacy under my real name. I don’t personally identify as a MRA, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 03:11 PM
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women whining = empowerment men whining = bitching
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 04:14 AM
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I’ll have you know my juice box is the tastiest around!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 03:53 AM
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Under what standard is she better than me if somehow she is still so susceptible to manipulation by a man who isn’t even pretty? Besides, you are moralizing here. Following society’s moral imperatives will result in personal sacrifices. If that ugly guy is only self-interested, why should he care for her desires and sacrifice his own gains? If anything, the ugly troll should be treating his hotter partner like gold. That's a way better tactic if you want to keep someone hotter than you. Wrong. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:19 AM
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I don’t think that is necessarily red pill. But even if it was, so what? Let me be the devil here: If an attractive woman can be bullied by an ugly guy into staying with him (let’s assume he doesn’t do anything actually illegal to make this simple), does she actually deserve anything better? Who are you to second-guess her decision, anyway? If she does not demand more, she might not get more. That is ultimately no one’s concern but her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:51 AM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:44 AM
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If I went and killed your mother would you literally not give a fuck? Or is your flair just wrong mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:12 AM
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The problem is that then some guys will think the girl they are with is the magical exception, the unicorn when she is likely not. I think the idea of AWALT was designed for its effect, not its truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:11 AM
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I said most, not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:09 AM
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AWALT should not be taken literally—it’s just a heuristic. Are there genuinely dominant women? Of course, but they are far, far fewer than they are claimed. Most dominant women are not that dominant compared to a dominant man and would or do end up submitting to the right person anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 03:58 AM
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So the key to success with women is to smell like soup? Hmm… furiously scribbles notes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 07:47 PM
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I don’t know about the TRP side of things, but feminism has attacked men for their traditional gender roles without offering a viable alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 08:42 AM
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I don’t even think they are necessarily incompatible if you can substitute “equal” with “fair”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 08:39 AM
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Now my opinion of him is lowered too. Damn you friendship!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 08:36 AM
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This is really cheesy but its exactly the kind of mindset the omega needs to be stop being omega. Source: was omega
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 11:20 PM
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I agree. It’s the only thing that works on an individual level. Everything else requires a mass social or cultural shift that is impractical for the here and now. It’s doesn’t actually matter if I am better than all of her former partners—just that I believe that. That’s usually enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 06:32 AM
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The SMP/RMP operates very differently in different cultures/SMVs. That’s partly why some people can hold bluepill views so stridently and why others hold to redpill: because it’s true in their locality. As a gross approximation, the lower end of the SMP/RMP is redpill while the middle is purplepill. (I don’t know about the high-end…yet!) For example, high n-count men generally place greater value in priorities besides a low n-count in the women they bang (being hot vs. being virginal, being femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 06:11 AM
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I’m not saying what should or should not be done, just what happens and the logic behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 11:02 AM
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Consciously, no. My assertion is that it is a biological and thus ultimately unconscious thing. Men don’t have an incentive to systematically slut-shame women because sluts are fun and put out easier. Sluts are great for men who can obtain them. The men who cannot obtain sluts have little social value and their slut-shaming is not powerful: see incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 11:01 AM
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I'm not saying women aren't misogynists. They definitely are. What does that even mean? Are you saying women hate women? Or are you using the watered-down definition of misogyny: doing something that some woman somewhere doesn’t like? If so, then yes, everyone is probably a misogynist and that ultimately doesn’t mean anything. I thought I made it clear that I'm not judging you. I never said anything about it was "wrong”. But you are. Not me specifically, but you said: "But we need to ask why” an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 10:53 PM
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I’m pretty sure that’s some people’s fetish. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:56 PM
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Not really. Women certainly slut shame, but the brunt (and worst) of it comes from men. Look at religion. Texts written by men, all slut shame. The influence of words written in some arcance holy book are far less than the influence of your family, your friends, your lovers, etc. Who comments the most on what female celebrities wear? Which groups frets about “thigh gaps”? Which group tries to backstab each other in regards to compliments and critique? Which group cares the most about hair extens…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 09:53 PM
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A woman has sex with many men and it was easy for her... for this she is disrespected? It’s women who do this the most. A woman that puts out easy makes sex easier to obtain for all men. This cheapens the value of having a pussy for everyone else. Now that I've dismantled that, let's get down to the REAL reason. Oh boy! It's pretty simple. Women are entered during intercourse, men do the entering. Something about this is "off". I'm not exactly sure what it is, but something about this dynamic ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:49 PM
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Be purple pill!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 09:18 AM
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Why not fuck Chinese girls instead and exploit random factory workers? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 10:10 PM
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Under globalization, 99.9% of the world are “fucking losers”. It’s nice that daddy’s money is paying for his little princess but not everyone even has access to the opportunities to capitalize on globalism. How many people could sell their business and use their lover’s access to Shanghai capital to start fresh? I’m not saying your dad didn’t do hard work—I’d be very surprised if he didn’t—but not everyone gains that kind of reward from hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 10:01 PM
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LMAO a true man does not care about what women think of him? I don’t care what women whom I don’t care about think of me. The big difference is if I care about them. Thanks for proving that there isn't a single real man in the whole of that autistic circlejerk that is the Red Pill. It’s true, we all sexually identify as attack helicopters! P. S. My father is a feminist because he recognises that women in business can be great I’m not so stupid that I require an entire ideology like feminism to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 09:58 PM
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Corporations are just enabling (and profiting from) our natural hedonistic tendencies. It’s your choice how much you want to partake in it, if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 09:24 PM
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White chicks are really down for anal IME. Thanks, feminism!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 09:21 PM
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Nothing you have written has indicated your father was a feminist. There’s a very large area between “feminism" and the so-called “1950s”. A real man can adapt to change. A "real man" doesn’t care what you think a man should be. go back to the 1950s to feel like a man Well at least I do believe you are a feminist, since you’re really showing that strawman who’s boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 09:21 PM
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Please make this post less Tumblresque, it just reads as a stream of whiny consciousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 04:26 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/rm4fhAU.png
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 02:36 AM
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isn't a feminist I think that’s key. I think men who don’t swallow the gynocentrist kool-aids turn out normal enough and don’t usually end up on a sub like TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 06:53 AM
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I think you’re worried more about what you think is fair than what actually works. So what if people cared about incels? You’re probably still not going to get pity sex, just some shallow sympathetic words. Is that what you really want? If you’re a guy, you are probably never going to outvictim a girl. Men aren’t valued simply for existing. So why are you trying to play games you can’t win? It’s so stupid. Play a different game, or just stop playing. As long as you care what other people think y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 11:24 AM
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No. because no one cares. People don’t hate incels. They just don’t care. Give people a reason to care if you want them to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 09:43 AM
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You don’t think fathers find their daughters attractive when they are attractive? It doesn’t mean they want to bone them or that they even fantasize about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 09:14 AM
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Short answer: I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/16 09:13 AM
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Makes it possible I can agree with. An old friend seems to be getting very affectionate (for her standards) with me recently after being friends for many years. It’s not that she’s gorgeous, but she’s experienced a lot of sexual trauma before and I don’t think has warmed up to anyone in recent history. However that is a poor dating strategy in itself. If you wanted to try and do this effectively, you need to make a lot of relationships with a lot of women and keep them active. That’s a massive i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 10:08 AM
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Some things are cool and some things are not. Welcome to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 12:02 AM
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That’s true, but compared to male incels tumblrinas are so much more entitled and toxic. Incels are losers and they know it and wish the world was different so they can succeed. Fat women are losers and they know it and they demand the world become different so they can succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 09:36 PM
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Depends what I want. Do I want to get my dick wet and slam some pussy? Sure, easy lay. Do I want something more, someone to fall asleep with and snuggle? Eww fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 10:09 AM
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Again, the proposal in my OP gives him CHOICE but you're arguing against it because? I was not arguing against your OP, I was arguing against your comment. No, I'm arguing what would be the "fairest". The men who argue that LPS after conception is fair are pushing it too far in their favor. My OP, IMO, is the best way to make it the most fair it can possibly be. Also, we live in a world where it would be nearly impossible to draft men again. Hence, men don't realistically have to bear that burde…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 07:13 AM
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I didn’t imply that. I implied that it is the greatest factor, not the only factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 07:04 AM
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I know no mediocre man shorter than me that gets laid. I know mediocre men taller than me that get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:04 AM
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The question here is RIGHTS and FAIRNESS. There is no way to make it 100% fair. What you seem to be arguing against is forcing women to have to deal with any kind of extra responsibility that men don’t have to bear. We only force men to sign up for the Selective Service so there is precedent to have women bear a small amount of responsibility due to biological necessity. It is simply unfair to place all of that burden on women, particularly in a culture where men expect women to have sex outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 01:51 AM
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I'm not a virgin. By the game, I mean the rat race of tying your internal sense of worth to external validation. I'm not hot nor cool so that's not a game I'd win anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 07:44 PM
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I think this is only true if you are desperately undersized. I don't validate myself based on how much pussy I slay because that's a game I don't care to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 07:03 PM
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The current system of having men bear all the financial responsibilities while not necessarily any of the rights—as child support payments are not linked to enforcing visitation rights—is far more tyrannical, especially considering that system was desired for purely for children in wedlock. Marriage implies a commitment made by the man where in casual sex no such commitment was ever made. Women can make any choice they want and the man is on the hook for it, no matter what. If women bore the res…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 07:51 AM
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Feminists don’t hate men, they hate masculinity they can’t co-opt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 01:34 PM
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Patriarchy can mean anything from “enslave all the women” to “women have a few less rights but also a few less responsibilities"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 01:33 PM
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I don’t expect to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 03:58 AM
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What the hell? This isn’t even a RP vs. BP thing, that’s just incredibly disrespectful and unconscionable to anyone but the most pussy-whipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 03:57 AM
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Most straight men have had some form of homoerotic experience. Uhhhh you have be very loose with “experience”, because I’ve certainly never sucked a dick though I’ve never been categorically against it and most guys I know have not either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 02:28 AM
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All side effects have to be reported and measured and stuff for a FDA safety trial, regardless of whether it seems obvious or not that it’s related to the trailed drug. It’s not up the guinea pigs if the side effects merit the study being shelved, it’s completely up to the FDA and trial implementors. That’s why I think it’s really stretching to say anything about male tolerance of side effects based on this because you can’t really say anything in any direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 02:56 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/5a6dea/trials_for_male_contraceptive_halted_after_men/d9dzu6l/ The study was shut down after two deaths. One person committed suicide. They determined this wasn't related after the fact. They also had someone develop depression and another person intentionally overdose. They weren't able to rule that second one out. I hardly think women are quaking at the boots at the effect of male contraception. But that is one heavily editorialized article to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 02:39 AM
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I just heard Icelandic feminists saying the exact same thing on NPR, and I assume they are heavily influenced by Scandanavian/Danish culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 06:09 PM
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Right-wingers are far from the only anti-feminists. A lot of classic liberals on the left are anti-feminist also. It's about why their work isn't valued. It is always framed as being paid less than a man for the "exact same work” and not about female-dominated jobs being paid less overall. Given feminists pathological need to control the frame and medium and discussion, this is not accidental. Feminists here don't deny that a your biological sex has an influence. They argue that it just isn't tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 01:06 PM
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I’m not sure if you’re straw-manning or just confused. You’re describing anti-feminists as trad-cons or other kinds of right-wingers. Anti-feminists are generally socially liberal. If they were right-wingers they’d call themselves right-wingers, not just anti-feminists. They claim that feminists want everyone to be the same although they only ask for everyone to have the same chances. What feminists want now is equity. They want equality of outcome, not opportunity. There’s a reason they’re call…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 10:45 AM
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Using lube is so beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 09:11 AM
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Just because I want to destroy a woman sexually doesn’t mean I still don’t feel protective of her and don’t want to snuggle afterwards. I want to leave marks, not scars. Personally, I don’t fantasize about rape, because rape is easy. My fantasy would be more akin to a woman that will take it for me like a good girl even if it hurts a lot because she wants to please me that badly. Or if she’s not interested, maybe I fuck her so well eventually she relents and gets in the mood. Outright rape where…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 09:52 AM
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Depends entirely on who I am the most loyal too. Assuming I have a greater relationship with my female friend than her boyfriend/husband, I probably would not tell barring some gross morale offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 06:52 AM
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SMV is ultimately an average rating. Personally if a woman uses X amount of makeup everyday, I will judge her attractiveness based on having X amount of makeup—if I have to reduce it down to one number. Being attractive does require constant upkeep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 10:07 AM
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One where I am the God-Emperor of Mankind. Anything less is heresy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 07:54 PM
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Honestly, not really. My BMI is now in the normal range…but it’s not enough. It’s never enough—and so the cycle begin anew! 🙃 Binge/purge is very common. I was mini-binging just several months ago. I only stopped that by making myself have only a snack first and waiting before deciding to binge. If I or someone else tells me not to do something, I instantly want to do it! But if I am given a choice, I tend to make the better choice in time. Since I’m a guy I can easily convince myself that EDs a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 08:18 AM
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Male Butt and stomach. I can tolerate the butt, but ugh the stomach. Also the thighs to a tiny extent. Well I’ve never been happy with the way I look, but that has less to do with weight more to do with socialization and personal issues. I used to be outright anorexic and I wasn’t happy then, either. I’ve been slowly restricting my intake for a few months and have recently starting walking and running. It is hard. It is painful. It is tiring. But not doing anything is for the weak and lazy. So f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 07:54 AM
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Cause no one can afford to host a database that big 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 06:27 AM
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This post sounds pretty whiny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 02:46 AM
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Unattractive women were far more willing to settle for cats and occasional cuddles than me when I was in college. Gender ratio skew may help an average-looking guy but no amount of skew is going to make an ugly woman want an ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 03:48 AM
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No, you just end up with a bunch of ugly hippos no one wants to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 07:30 PM
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The problem is that you think that feminism means women should be as valued as men. If that is what actual feminism was in practice we would not be arguing about feminism. A lot of us view feminism through its actions, and its actions are very damning. Feminists with power are trying to get women to out-men men at being men, and when it invariably fails, they cry misogyny and patriarchy. They have incredible contempt for scientific and objective facts and reasoning. Nearly every feminist talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:00 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 05:18 PM
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Ideally, sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 05:18 PM
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Being a walking dildo would just sound great to an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 08:54 AM
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You’re so mean to me 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 08:30 PM
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The problem is that various groups of men are lumped into the category of “nice guy”: the friendzoned, the men who think niceness is attractive, the people who really do think they should be rewarded with sex for being nice, the chivalrous, etc. You can’t really critique the term “nice guy” because its only egregious offenders that are labelled as "nice guys”, the rest are just simply invisible and forgotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 08:55 AM
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Or, take, for example, this pic. http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_nozRGV7oj-M/SohkI67I5oI/AAAAAAAAA_c/mfupRBC95Lg/s400/madonna.jpg The only "sexy" thing about it, that I can see, is that she's flaunting her crotch area. Ok but Beyonce was still way worse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 03:00 AM
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I fit most of the MGTOW description, except: I’m not anti-woman. I would be ok with wife & kids. I don’t like talking about myself. But I am a short brown man whose primary interests are mathematics and science. I’m probably not most women are seeking. I can still get phone numbers, dates, and even sex. I’m still good at socializing, flirting, etc. Romance with women, however, doesn’t fit into my cost-benefit analysis. It was an absolute waste of time at SMV 3-4 and I don’t care to try it again …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 09:35 PM
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The issue is that the very qualities that make a man seem attractive and often successful also cause that man to give less of a shit about his fellow man. With the marginalization of so many male institutions, a individualist approach produces more success than a collectivist for men most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 06:55 AM
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I’m not sure I understand this correctly, so please correct me in any parts where I am wrong: You dated a male underwear model, then joined the sex industry—which he was completely fine with. You then provided a services to clients within 3 months as an escort, all very physically attractive but emotionally broken in that they could only have sex with a woman in a transactional context, but paying for drinks, a date, or providing a good time to a woman did not count. Also you are an escort that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:28 AM
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They shouldn’t be allowed to do anything men aren’t allowed to do. For example, making repeated public statements where they merely project their own insecurities is generally frowned upon by the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:20 AM
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I was referring to your clients. Your descriptions painted them as very lonely men who often wanted companionship and/or intimacy more than sex. These are not exactly the men that can hit up the bars on the weekends and find a girl to spend a night with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:13 AM
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Are all men are not the gatekeepers of relationships? Of course not. But the most attractive men can be gatekeepers. They have options and possibly different life goals than women in their cohort. Unattractive men are often willing to provide commitment for stable access to intimacy. But who cares about them? By your own descriptions of your life you are engaging with men who are subpar in regards to the SMP. You probably would not be able to pull off being a sex worker and having a boyfriend un…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:05 AM
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This peak-feminism is breeding at least three interesting categories of men: Men who don’t give a fuck what feminists think and may even push in the opposite direction, which often makes them more successful and/or attractive, reinforcing their views → hypermasculinity, misogyny Men who agree with the implicit feminist that they should suppress their sexuality and/or repress their masculinity for collective social progress which results in them becoming defective men in the process → high male s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:59 AM
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They do admit to attacking at least “toxic masculinity”. It’s analagous to love the sinner, hate the sin that some Christian fundamentalists preach in regards to gay people. Men are ok but masculinity is doubleplusungood so it’s totes not misandry because it’s ok when they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:49 AM
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Specifically? What difference have you seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 05:08 AM
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That’s barely anything on the confidence scale. I think that you’ve gone some transformational process where you went from homely to hot. Which is great for you, but I don’t really see how it compares to the male incel experience. Women have areas where they struggle, but not in the ability to attract any mate. In general I believe their issues tend to be outward personality traits and/or a mindset. That is just scratching the surface with male incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 05:06 AM
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Confidence has little to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 04:19 AM
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It also says Those claiming there are as many female incels in the same situation as male incels are banned. Most can agree that women can be incel in some situations, but saying that there are many incel women in the same situation as incel males will get a warning and your comment removed. The main difference is that the journey is much longer and much harder for male incels. You could have just said yes or posted an ad on Craigslist/Reddit/OKCupid and bam, interest. I’m not saying you didn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:33 AM
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http://print-bingo.com/bingo-cards-custom.php
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 02:51 AM
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Not sure why so many bluepills are upset about the incel posts. Male incels are exactly the result of trying to feminize men. Shouldn’t every incel post be a feminist victory? Incels have an awful attitude and are cynical. Losing mentality, entitlement and the list goes on. Sounds exactly like what Tumblrina feminists do. They're just copying what seems to work currently in society: the cult of victimhood. Too bad for them people are not at all equal. Whining and demanding that the collective as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 01:43 AM
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Learned helplessness and a distorted view of the SMP
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 06:13 PM
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You should really lay off the kool-aid. The idea that women don’t enjoy sex is a mostly Victorian-era/Puritan invention, not a universal one. If anything we are actually worse now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 10:00 AM
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Now kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 04:01 PM
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You Uh this is a biology question if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:55 PM
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A tribal level is a very shallow hierarchy. Even if you are chieftain it’s still dangerous to grievously piss off another man. You have to sleep sometime… I think it makes more sense if you do treat women like property. If you rape a woman, she can be considered property of her father or husband and in a few cases her brother. You have attacked another man in a very grevious—violated a woman under their protection, which is an attack on the sanctity of the woman and an insult on his ability to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:50 PM
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Female neckbeards are a thing and they are called legbeards!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:44 PM
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Again, it’s still nuanced. Some women love very aggressive men and some women actually dry up at the thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:42 PM
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Or! I don’t think most Tumblrinas are second-wave feminists at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:41 PM
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Actually I love flirting, even when it intentionally doesn’t lead anywhere. I flirt whenever I’m feeling affable even with single platonic friends that I’m not angling to bang. (I lack inherent desire to do it with attached women). I’ve even flirted with women who I thought were not good enough for me because it’s fun and I hope they had fun too. The problem is that it takes a good deal of practice to accurately read how women signal genuine interest. It’s not obvious at first and not all guys g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:40 PM
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They are third-wave feminists, not Tumblrinas or second-wave feminists. Dyed hair on its own, even with unnatural colors doesn’t mean automatic problematic, just that it’s more likely. Macbooks using OS X are based on UNIX/POSIX standards. As long as you can disable Apple’s paternal handholding bullshit they are actually less annoying to fix for me, since I can often use similar tactics that I use with Linux. (My number one issue is hiding options using weird alt-right clicks. That’s really anno…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:26 PM
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They do. I’m not saying they don’t, I’m saying hot + crazy means hot despite crazy. They really only like the hot part. The crazy can be cute in small doses but its bad in the long term. Rational and smart women want this kind of men. There are a lot of women who are very sexually attracted to pure alphas, but now they're a bad option. I think it’s a bit more nuanced than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:20 PM
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Ugh get your stereotypes right that’s so 2010 Now blue hair + shitty tattoos + random piercings → rebelling from your Macbook → SJWs. The biggest sluts that I know are feminists if anything. They aren’t bad people, it’s just they have an ideology that enables slootery → empowerment when in most cases it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:16 PM
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Uhhhhh Do you really think men could rape willy-nilly and it was totes ok? If you rape a woman under the protection of another man (father, partner, brother, etc.) there is a high chance they would outright kill you in return. You would need a highly hierarchal society with you towards the top to be able to get away with fucking other women against most men's moral codes. Saying women go for the most alpha of men is like saying men go for the hottest, craziest bitches. Women want a reasonable co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:11 PM
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So instead you’re using models? How is that a useful representation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:42 AM
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The guys that are able to figure out that she's just teasing will figure it out on their own and the guys that struggle with body language, tone of voice and such are those that shouldn't be taught about it either way, because they will end up misinterpreting it. It's just too dangerous knowledge for them. “Losers should just stay losers and shouldn’t try to better themselves because only guys who had male role models or a decent childhood should get to have sex. Self-improvement is too dangerou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 03:38 AM
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Not necessarily, depends how they view responsibility to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 11:41 PM
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Um, like omg, I don’t need you attacking me and like that’s so rude? And disrespectful?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:25 PM
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I feel like I got dumber as a result of reading this post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 09:11 PM
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People getting those jobs ARE going to qualified for the job. But they were not the best available candidate for the job. People are desperate for women in tech to pad quotas and so they are hiring anyone that just got out of some coding bootcamp. That’s not even up to snuff with the average loser nerd techie who gave up a social life for an online life. It's proven to drive better results for business. Only correlation was shown. I can easily argue that only businesses that do well can afford t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 05:18 PM
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That’s why god gave women more than one hole!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:42 AM
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Marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:41 AM
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Also, women commonly kiss and hug their chad in front of me solely to make me feel more inadequate and unlovable. They want to remind me of what I lack, and, rumor has it, they actually derive sexual pleasure from their heinous actions. You need to understand something. The world doesn’t hate you. Society doesn’t hate you. Women don’t hate you. They simply don’t care. The universe does not care about your bleak, meager, infinitesimal existence. The opposite of love is not hate, it’s apathy. I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 08:07 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/dwZ10.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:57 PM
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tumblr.com
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:56 PM
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Oh, I meant that I was triggered because of all the OKAYs in the video!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 05:58 PM
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Well I did snort after reading your comment, so it is the least I can do! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 12:13 PM
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They are shaming men who foolishly care what society/feminism thinks. They aren't shaming actual rapists. I agree with the rest of your comment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 12:08 PM
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I'm not reading something from "mintpressnews”. It has links to academic and government sources I don't believe any such stats Why are you in a debate sub if you’re just going to ignore reality when your views are challenged? If women were as aggressive as men and if they truly were as violent towards their male partners as much as men are violent towards their female partners, then as many men would be killed by women. Or maybe men just end up killing themselves after getting continuously railr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 12:05 PM
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http://img.pandawhale.com/93002-reddit-silver-medal-meme-funny-B9d2.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:59 AM
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To be fair that’s just a subset of women who really ride that gravy train. (Unless you want to include single mothers on government assistance programs and/or child support.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:59 AM
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Don’t project your inability to deal with rejection onto men. I’ve done online dating as an ugly man. I knew rejection on a first name basis. I tried counting them and stopped after a few hundred because there really is no point in doing that. I’ve gone from being utterly terrified when I asked out my prom date to forgetting a rejection in 10 seconds having already moved onto the next candidate. If you actually still think about rejection you are already at least a league below me and a lot of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:52 AM
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They don’t. Women’s sexuality is not seen to be anywhere as harmful as men’s are. In fact, at least browsing the r/MR subreddit, the punishment almost always correlates inversely with the attractiveness of the offender! Cheerleaders will get time served while butt-ugly 45 year old teachers will actually spend time in jail. There’s an underlying tone of “well she’s hot so he wanted it anyway”—it doesn’t really harm men (it’s exactly like the South Park episode). Female pedophiles who victimize gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:44 AM
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It’s not about what men deserve. It’s about what simply is. If I get drunk and pass out on a couch, ain’t no one going to save my ass. No, I shouldn’t be robbed or raped, but I also don’t expect anyone to be looking out for my safety and possessions. Many of the safety demands feminists whine about are protections men don’t get either. I grew up in a suburb but the idea that society should protect from the dangers of city streets at night is insane. I often take more security precautions than my…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:32 AM
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Can you even become a supermodel at 16?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:25 AM
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I don’t really read RP stuff but I don’t agree with the idea that every guy needs to be “alpha” to be sexually successful with women. I’ve had success just adding in attractive traits and unless I’m going for a 9 I’ll probably be fine working with that. Going full alpha would result in me attracting the wrong kind of women (for me) and is ironically a beta thing to do—changing your entire life just for the possibility of female interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:20 AM
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The lady doth protest too much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:17 AM
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That would be fine for me as long as we don’t keep trying to pretend they are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:15 AM
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Actual pay inequality results in only a 2% gap unaccounted for that may possibly sexism. If companies could get away with hiring cheaper women for the same quality labor…well every capitalist company would do it or be outcompeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:12 AM
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That they get blacked out drunk and wonder if they raped someone? I don’t think guys do, unless they know they have a history of suspicious sexual behavior that they can’t personally remember. Personally I’m a happy and flirty but non-aggressive drunk, so I’ve never even conceived of something like that. They get blackout drunk and a woman rapes them? Shit happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:05 AM
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Campaigns like that aren't targeted at men that already know better. No, they seem aimed at the easiest group of men to bully and shame. not just women's rights specifically I have yet to see anything positive that feminism has done for men that wasn’t just an accidental side effect of helping women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 11:01 AM
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You’re conflating moral responsibility with precautionary responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 10:58 AM
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To me, RP means self-improvement. It means if I want an attractive partner, I have to be just as attractive. There’s really nothing there to pickup except maybe a strong duty to self. Feminist women do not practice what they preach and that is partly why I cannot respect feminist ideology. If they want to tell me that masculinity is toxic while proceeding to fuck only said toxically masculine men, why should I buy into that? Why have I fucked more feminist women after stopping trying to reject m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 09:53 AM
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If men were pretty transparent a lot of women’s n counts would be 1. My FWB right now is a hardcore SJW feminist. In a way I’m an outsider to every social group, so I’ve learned to be able to mingle with all of them. But I do keep my views and really my entire life to myself. Besides, I am pretty nice to her because I’m generally an amicable person. If I was genuinely a misogynist I’m sure she would have figured it out by now! I still treat her like a whore in bed though. But that’s because I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 09:50 AM
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I am partly anti-feminist for this specific reason: by obscuring the truth for political reasons, we are destroying the personal safety of a lot of young women. How can I honestly think feminists want to stop rape when they care more about making sure women’s feelings don’t get hurt, bullying unaffiliated men, and calling everything rape to the point of having annoyed every rape victim I’ve known in my life? Not every woman is a privileged pretty young white girl that can afford to worry more ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 09:32 AM
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Some people are just bad people and you can’t do much about it. You can teach all you want, but that’s just going to amuse the rapists and piss off a lot of the rest of us men. It’s a waste of time to claim we need more education for men when it only ever gets hammered into the easy-to-bully-and-pick-on men, those men that don’t have the social power to get away with rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 09:28 AM
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#triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 09:25 AM
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Where I used to be the only women who wore skirts or dresses were foreign. I think they save that for parties/clubbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 09:27 PM
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Revealing clothing. Try pulling a pussy pass in a fundamentalist Islamic state and see how well that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:49 AM
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If you’re soldering stuff you’re in a field (probably EE or CE) where you will get a pussy pass whether you actually want it or not. A lot of the guys are very nerdy and non-masculine and a good deal will never attract any woman during their college years. There’s also a good chance you will be silently judged as a diversity hire if you look too pretty (average woman or better) or aren’t on top of your technical game. To what extent it is men's fault that this exists? Could you see how this coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 03:42 AM
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Do reformed sluts deserve happiness? Honestly, I don’t really have an opinion on that. They are people like you and me and they will probably try to do the best for themselves like you and me. Some will find happiness and others won’t and it will never occur in a fully fair, karmic fashion. I don’t hate them or love them. They will live their life and I will live my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 09:31 PM
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Because I think its less likely for women to report rape with people they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 10:55 PM
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It’s not rape if they like it. Women are afraid of black guys at night, not the All-American sports team captain they met at the party. Maybe Lifetime movie rape is felt as a greater violation than “he just kept going”/“I froze up" date rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 09:49 PM
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You’re projecting then, because I specifically never made any kind of claim like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 09:38 PM
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I never claimed that I was better than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 12:14 PM
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So? That doesn't make them better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 01:01 AM
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If you’re a woman and you try to significantly exceed the average you will probably be targeted for attack by other women. It seems to be part of their gender role to not be too uppity. Being attractive and above-average seems to be the ideal. If you want to perform a more masculine role like be a CEO, that’s a lot harder to arrange family-wise than for a man to do the same. Guys are tossed in to sink or swim, and the rewards or consequences are mostly theirs to bear. If you are mediocre you’ll …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 11:12 AM
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You have to actuate and do stuff to actually use male privileges. A lot of female privileges can be used by sitting on your butt while having a vagina but they don’t usually scale up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 10:58 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qqXi8WmQ_WM
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 09:16 AM
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Make a blog and take a break, woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 07:11 AM
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I think men and women don't respond to hardships the same way necessarily. Here are some examples: 1)Women from the 50s were glorified and very feminine and generally very pleasant women. I think that is because these women had to endure what it was like without men (world war II) and became more appreciative of them. My country was under German occupation at one point and there was a lot of poverty, especially in the big cities, yet women of that generation were considered very pleasant and fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 07:02 AM
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Actually I’ve seen it in the opposite way: the men most successful with women tend to be the biggest misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:49 PM
3

Maybe you are projecting!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 02:09 PM
9

Obviously the dentist was an expert in the wrong kind of drilling!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 06:36 AM
3

Yes? That is what I implied in the first place...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 05:07 AM
7

I don't have a problem with the self improvement mantras and men swapping attractiveness tips. It's the whole "Women are retarded children, rape is made up and hip hop will be the downfall of Western civilization"* that I take issue with. If I were pinning memes about how men are all evil rapists and shouldn't be allowed to vote, my boyfriend would probably be upset by that, with good reason. No, what people often have a problem with is 1) swapping tips about being attractive to women that is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 04:43 AM
4

I have yet to find a woman that can outdo me in the things that I highly value. But the things that I highly value are not objectively important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 04:30 AM
4

Hate is often normalized. I don’t think there’s been any success in lowering the misandry in Western society, so maybe they feel responding with misogyny is only fair. shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 04:29 AM
2

But my kink is being kink-shamed!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 04:20 AM
4

They are probably plebes who think the Tiger was the best tank ever. Panther or bust!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:03 AM
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It's kind of like redpill. They want the end result but still belittle the process it takes to get there. They want a man who's “masculine" and is attractive, but if he spends a lot of time pinning self-improvement mantras, or swaps attractiveness tips with his friends online, it's "LOL redpill men are such misogynists, why don't they have any ‘ok' topics to talk about?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:01 AM
11

I have yet to find a woman that can outdo me in the things that I highly value. But the things that I highly value are not objectively important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 02:58 AM
2

But what if you have a shame-kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 01:51 AM
28

slut = my n-count + 1 bitch = sleeps with everyone but me whore = actually sleeps with me!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 12:57 AM
13

I used to think women were dumb stupid whores being kept down by the man or just completely uninterested in STEM subjects. But that was because I was trying to treat them equally like a feminist: judging them by male standards.. When I instead try to treat them fairly and judge them by female standards, I find a lot of women can actually be quite accomplished and/or valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 12:56 AM
1

I didn’t say it didn’t do both. Stop being such a child! TRP confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 09:17 PM
6

Yes but it doesn’t drive evolution anywhere near the rate of sexual selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 09:16 PM
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It’s far more likely that a male will be unattractive or impotent than dead. Fuck around with an organism’s health and the first thing to go is often fertility and/or attractiveness. Sexual selection is the driving force in something like humans where there are plenty of resources for basic needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 08:18 PM
3

Exercise generally increases libido. Antidepressants are more likely to destroy my erections than my libido, which is just way more frustrating!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 08:14 PM
1

If we can change women can’t we change incels too? Betas should start violent gangs!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 08:06 PM
10

Sexual selection is the driving force behind natural selection in sexually dimorphic creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 08:04 PM
2

Oh I forgot the plot! Ugh. But hopefully you understand what I was trying to say (Stepford wives as in being hyperfeminine).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 06:30 AM
6

Stepford wives happened because the sheer number of young men killed or injured in World War 2 drastically reduced the population of eligible bachelors, forcing women to up their game and become more feminine to secure a husband. Robotic wives (and husbands) will eventually become a reality but that day is not today. The next technological advance that may cause a significant impact on the SMP/RMP will be VR girlfriend experiences/porn. At that point SMV 4- men can just completely check out of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 06:10 AM
1

Maybe that’s what they write about, I don’t know. But the main difference between them and blue pillers is not men vs women, it’s individualism vs. collectivism. You’re worrying about long term social implications, they’re worried about immediate personal implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 06:34 PM
2

Who actually uses 100% canned lines?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 04:18 AM
3

Because they’re men acting like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 12:43 AM
1

Really odd way of demonstrating your lack of understanding, but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 03:50 PM
2

They are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 03:16 PM
1

consequences of your actions reinforce the current state of the dating market and more specifically the stuff you hate about the way women date. TRP is a small-time operation. Their goal is not to effect social change (though I disagree that they actually stick to that goal). It’s simply to maximize an individual man’s ability to acquire sex at possibly the expense of other people. They are expressly selfish. And guess what? Selfish gets you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 02:53 PM
1

We live in a society that says maximize your own, individual potential in whatever you see fit. You don't owe anything to your community, family, spouse, or kids even. If any institution has views you don't conform to, holds you down, or is simply not in line with your current plans, leave and cut ties. Well it is a rat race. I don’t know if it always has been, but it is right now in my reality. Everyone is saying “Fuck you, got mine” from Republicans to feminists. The whiniest people get the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 08:28 AM
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That is entirely consistent. You’re predicating your belief on the idea that TRP should care about the welfare of women. TRP exists to advance individual men’s goals, not women’s goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 08:23 AM
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Chad is not the only guy that can do it and even he can’t always do it depending on his social circle/situation. Being stupid or a douchebag is actually not conducive to scoring women. However it is far better to be a douchebag than a pushover. The ideal is probably something like cocky but confident and able to back that up. Asshole/douchebag is a poor approximation of this but its far better than the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 08:18 AM
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Going from averagely unlikeable to averagely likable is often enough for many guys. These aren’t guys that afford to be picky (yet). Getting 10 numbers instead of 1 is a big step up and is almost universally an improvement for a romantically-frustrated guy. It’s a poor strategy to tell a guy how to attract one girl or a specific set of girls when you can just have them instead scale up to all eligible women. It’s more likely they’ll find someone who likes them back! Obviously if you blindly foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 08:11 AM
3

Who says you have to be only feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 08:01 AM
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No, they just call them boisterous dicks. Or weak-footed, effeminate, etc. I don’t know why some women think they have a monopoly on insults used on them for not conforming to their gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 12:21 AM
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They aren’t exaggerations. I’ve seen feminists calling people misogynists for giving women self-protection tips. I’ve seen advocation of sexually confused children to undergo a sex change operation without any second thoughts. I’ve seen the rape statistic get inflated to 1/4 and then 1/3 over the course of several years when the FBI numbers are around 1/70 (though I do concede that may be an underrepresentation).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 10:29 PM
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Just a quick google gives me this: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/2ly0cs/the_feminist_motte_and_bailey_drinking_game/ Mansplainers & NAFALT Bailey - Never allow criticism of feminism in any way. Attack those who do. Motte - When cornered, proclaim that not all feminists are like that. Sexism & Benevolent Sexism Bailey - Claim that sexism is a zero-sum game where men "systemically" oppress women. Motte - When cornered, proclaim that Patriarchy hurts men too. Women's Safe Space & The…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 10:01 PM
1

It doesn’t advocate emotional abuse. It just does it. There’s verbal assault, humiliation, intimidation, etc. right there that it practices on both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 09:57 PM
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Telling women they’d be nothing without feminism sounds a bit like what an abusive husband would say to his wife. Telling men they bear a form of original sin and that their sexuality is disgusting and should be suppressed doesn’t help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 06:38 PM
3

Are you disagreeing with my lived experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 05:06 PM
2

There are those that simply use it to discuss social justice and then there are those who use it to hate on men and see them as inferior. However, some of those social strategies that are discussed include emotional abuse, and is the reason why I find feminism toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 05:02 PM
2

Curious, but what is your MBTI?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:52 PM
2

Not all feelers!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:51 PM
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I ask how I can change myself to better work with societal realities. Feminists ask how society can change itself to better work with their fantasies. It is about individual empowerment—through social, legal, cultural and government-level support. It is about abdicating responsibility to other people for your own choices. It is not about making people stronger so they can better influence their world. It is about making the world weaker instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:50 PM
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Stories about people BPers know IRL who seem RP or actually converted to RP (ex, "my brother/cousin/friend went RP, HELP!”) All the ones I’ve seen linked in PPD IRC are $100% thathappened.txt. TRPers aren’t that common IRL and showing your power level has always been a dumb move, even today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:46 PM
2

some Which do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:23 PM
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Sure, if misogyny = someone said something mean about a woman once and sexism = implying women shouldn’t get a free ride in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:16 PM
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In the context of the blue pill, feminism is gender equality “Feminism is whatever I want it to mean whenever I need it to mean something” “In the context of the blue pill, the red pill is about simply getting laid"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:09 PM
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A quick Google search told me that the core purpose of /r/TheRedPill is merely discussing sexual strategy. You can't change that. I can't change that. A large organization can't change that. They can merely warp it around towards their own agenda. They can do whatever they want but the definition stays the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:08 PM
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You are sitting on this shelf, wasting your time and pretty, for someone you may or may not be compatible with, and you cannot even start the process until you are together again. I think this is the key issue. You are getting sidelined during prime time when there is a plethora of men physically near you. You're not going to be able to find out if you can stand each other much less invest in each other. Plus, it's pretty easy for an e-player to run multiple LDRs at once. Online/text game is not…
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 01:43 AM
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You should sub and maybe post to /r/TumblrInAction! It's a calvacade of bluepill horrors.
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 01:32 AM
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I'm not asking for a simple answer for a complex set of cases. I'm asking for a single answer for a single case with a single example. You are adding violence. You are adding rough sex. You are adding anal. You are adding scat. You are adding third-parties. You are adding in a dozen things which I never asked about but are calling me the one strawmanning. So I will ask my question one more time. If a quiet woman freezes up during doggystyle and he doesn't notice (perhaps he is the intoxicated pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 12:56 AM
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Every story I’ve read online about freezing up did not include violence. It seemed like a post facto excuse for never vocalizing an actual “no" but still getting to call it rape because she felt violated. It makes me very incredulous that a woman that freezes up supposedly shows no outward signs of distress and thus will not differ outwardly from a woman who consents to sex. You are essentially saying men should be able to mindread and anything short of that is potential rape. Any grey and risky…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 09:41 PM
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which usually happens in the context of violent situations No one was talking about violent situations except you. You keep trying to make it violent because that’s easier to attack. because then your strawman would fall apart You’re the one who keeps trying to twist the scenario into something violent and horrific and trying to inject unrelated issues. Projecting like an IMAX there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 07:27 PM
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You’re predicating this entire scenario on the idea that the guy will always be cognizant of a woman freezing up. I’m saying he may not even be aware of it (ex. she is quiet during sex and they are going at it doggystyle). And no one was talking about violent situations or third parties or medical emergencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:44 PM
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I thought the exact same thing until I got hotter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:35 PM
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Feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:17 PM
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It's not rape because she froze up, it's rape because he continued to fuck her even though something was obviously wrong with her. She chooses to hook up with a drunk man. But when the drunk man is not able to read subtle or non-existant changes in body language it’s now rape? Sex that makes a woman uncomfortable is equivalent to rape? If something bad happens to a woman are we going to literally shift any blame/responsibility onto the nearest man even when she is the most sober party? You don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:15 PM
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Women can also say no so please stop with that bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 04:43 AM
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Who in the world talking about rough caveman sex? I have read feminist articles where she was sober, he was drunk, and she called it rape because she froze up. It’s very hard to reconcile the ideas that feminists are pushing with regards to sex: Women should be able to invite strange, dangerous men into their bedrooms for some strange but still expect society to protect her when he proceeds to be strange and dangerous while getting strange. Women should have complete sexual autonomy even though …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 04:41 AM
1

So what if they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 07:29 PM
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The problem with #YesAllMen is because its advocates live in glass houses. If you say #YesAllFeminists or AWALT to the very people who use that hashtag they will suddenly bristle with righteous indignation and perhaps call you a misogynist. What use does that hashtag even serve? I’ve only seen it used to bully men and act as a thought-terminating cliche. If all men are judged rapists I might as well get some free sex anyway, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 07:13 PM
2

Maybe ExFJ? Complete guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 06:47 PM
3

semen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:14 PM
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I don’t understand your question. Just because it's not good for men to disclose a hard number doesn’t mean it’s not good for women either (unless you someone know your n counts are similar).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 03:50 AM
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What if the equation works for most cows anyway? Some cows may say “hey, we have horns and hooves too, you need to take that into account!” But the equation works on many cows anyway without considering horns and hooves. And everytime you succeed the cows say you got lucky or that it only works on “broken” cows. And everytime you fail it’s because you forgot the horns and hooves when sometimes it was really more about the tail and the spots. Also they call you cowphobic. At the very least, I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 07:57 PM
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I refuse to believe this is real. It reads like a poor parody of what some outsider thinks is goign on. I am agnostic, but from what I understand contemporary conserative Christianity is based on the idea of responsible husband, agent-less wife—a feminine imperative take on traditionalism. It’s pretty “beta” and about as feminist as religion can get. Also it’s really weird to think of a youth leader openly encouraging TRP. Most internet subculturists know to hide their power level in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 03:49 PM
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It’s an older phrase and got made up around the time /r/TumblrInAction took off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 03:12 AM
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The issue isn’t finding someone with the same sex drive, it’s maintaining compatible sexuality over a long term. If for example I get stressed out by work and shirk sex with my wife continuously, is it abusive because I’m not in the mood? Is it abusive if I don’t actively try to change my mood? Is it abusive if I go ahead with just duty sex or third base? Is it abusive if I pop a Viagra and fuck her while I think of Britain? Why is it not abusive if I am ruled by emotions but it is abusive if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:00 AM
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Withholding sex as a power play is almost always a sign of abuse, or really toxic ongoing resentment in a relationship. I don’t think BP women consciously decide to withhold sex. They just don’t feel attracted to the husband anymore and thus aren’t easy to motivate into a sexual mood. Does that count as abuse, or is it ok because it’s just her mood and her mood can be as fickle as the wind, men should just deal with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 06:46 PM
3

How is life as the pee pill? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 07:50 AM
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Have you ever gone to a family gathering where you had a stupid cousin ask you a question, you gave the answer, but he can't understand that answer even though you sit there and try to explain it to him in 20 different ways? No. Because you’re the stupid cousin. You’re exhibiting a stunning lack of intelligence and introspection that actually astounds me. How else can you lecture someone to be more emphatic and tell them to have humility while you preach such incoherent drivel with absolute conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 04:10 PM
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I think I'm actually offended by how stupid this comment is. You have generated too much cringe for me to offer a proper response. Enumerating all the hypocrisy, fallacies, strawmen, doublethink, pathos, solipsism, etc. would require nothing short of an entire essay. I actually am in awe of how much idiocracy you have compressed into your textual cesspool and more amazed that you felt it worthy of existence. Fortunately for you it is unlikely you will ever comprehend your lack of comprehension. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 04:16 AM
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Of course. As I've grown up I've seen a lot of groups demand we change culture/society for their personal benefit. Now it's simply my turn! I've been very tolerant and unwhiny for decades so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 04:14 PM
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I would was actually very sex-positive until I realized what it really seemed to mean was "sex for me, shaming for thee." The is no difference in your two endgame except for which sex gets the sexual cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 03:59 PM
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Because you wanted someone to bully or just put down because you know how right you are and how wrong I am. I suggest Facebook and Twitter for that! Edit: I will actually take back my assertion that you were in it to bully if you have ever spontaneously bought lingerie on your own to wear for your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 05:21 PM
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Is this a troll? This is the most blue pill response I’ve ever received. You say I have beliefs I never claim, sex shame me even though I specifically stated I’m not looking to get laid, and you even threw out the old nice guy card when I never said anything about nice guys. Congratulations at beating up your strawman, I guess. 6/10 too obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 05:14 PM
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So men like me should be happy by being a passive 27 year old overweight virgins with an anxiety disorder? Is that’s your solution? Have you ever tried dating women as a man? Have you ever considered your situation is not common, that you are unique woman, and thought beyond yourself? He could have been you. Easily. And from here is sourced your angst. Entertain the idea that your husband for some reason started reading TRP before he met you. Say he was successful. He’s worked to repress his shy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:57 PM
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Used for sex and thrown out. But at least I had sex, right? 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:56 PM
2

Fundamentally you are being incredibly classist. You are predicating the feelings of imaginary women above my pursuit of happiness. You are placing men who are already successful (blue pill) above me. You are selecting red pillers and saying we cannot do the very same thing blue pill men do, because you don’t like the way we’ve said it. You are saying you understand our methods better than we do, and you are also saying they are problematic in ways we don’t advocate. We should instead return to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:37 PM
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All these gross generalizations! What a bummer! I feel insulted! I’m not a TRP member. I’m quite honest. I’m actually really nice. My FWB is actually a Tumblr-level feminist. I treat her very respectfully and appreciate her. Weird how as long as you don’t say you’re redpill you can use redpill tactics and it’s just like you’re a successful bluepill man… I don’t even want to spin plates. I’m way too lazy for that. I’m looking for a monogamous relationship, in fact. My goal isn’t even to fuck woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 08:20 AM
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All of which I agree with. Wouldn’t it also be wise to avoid or leave people who abuse you? I’m not saying the abused is morally at fault in any way for their situation, simply that it would be a wise thing to avoid or leave abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 06:17 AM
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Every single successful bluepill man I’ve talked to uses the EXACT same tactics that redpill advocates. Guide to managing your bitches: bluepill calls it enforcing your boundaries The most responsible teenager in the house: bluepill calls it be playful and assertive Sexual strategy is amoral: bluepill says women are adults and are capable of making their own decisions When men do it successfully to women the majority think its sexy and masculine. When we write it down to share with each other an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 06:00 AM
1

I’m pretty sure ISIS suicide bombers are just Muslim incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 05:24 AM
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Who cares how they got their dicks wet? All’s fair in love and war!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 05:20 AM
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It's a shame that your takeaway from this experience is that victims are in any way to blame for their abuse. I think you’re conflating non-moral culpability and moral blame. Victims are not morally at fault, but they may be non-morally partly responsible. If victims are never at fault in both the moral and non-moral sense, then you are saying that there is never anyone to blame if someone leaves their car doors unlocked and have items stolen and that they should always be able to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:55 AM
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Just admit you were wrong. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:34 AM
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The closest I have come to feeling like a manly man is being dominant during rough sex (hand on her throat while I force her to take it). That or being a mentor to younger guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:27 AM
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It would completely depend if I had my own brain or the female equivalent to my brain. If I was man-brained I’d probably stick to some combination of looks and intellect. Farthest I think I’d go was cam-whoring if I chose to go down that path. I’m pretty aloof so the idea of having to spend time with someone I’m not into (like a fuck to get ahead) is very unpalatable to me. If I was woman-brained I probably wouldn’t sloot it up (for money at least). Even as a man I prefer monogamy. I am far too …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:24 AM
2

That just means you need more dresses! Here you go: 👗👗👗
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:21 AM
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Wait I figured it out! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZJL4UGSbeFg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:19 AM
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I don’t think so. My only experience is within dreams but in those where I was a woman I didn’t feel any dysphoria. I even liked manly men and being feminine (note I am a pretty straight guy). On the other hand, when I played Elite Dangerous (with head-tracking) I picked a female pilot as my character. Everytime I looked down I’d have tits. It kinda weirded me out, it was just incongruent with me looking down at the same time in real life to non-tits. So I changed the character to a male pilot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:18 AM
3

I’ve had poor friends but yours takes the cake for the “Bad Friend” award...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:09 AM
1

😞
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:07 AM
1

Sure, as soon as you prove that "if women were guaranteed orgasm from ONSs, they'd be 100 times more likely to want to engage in them."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 03:41 AM
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That would be because he's a manipulative predator. You can get just about anything you want if you're willing to disregard things like ethics Narcissistic men also get laid a lot more. To be sexually successfully we should indeed disregard things like ethics! Your red pill bullshit seeks to emulate this. Think about that. You are following the example of the kind of man who is so fucking damaged that he killed the woman who loved him and his children, and then hunkered down in his gun bunker an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 03:31 AM
1

Casual sex with whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:54 AM
1

It is relevant. I am showing how opening up casual sex for women doesn’t increase their demand for casual sex 100 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 01:31 AM
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I really doubt that is what would happen in reality. We had an indirect cultural war against slut-shaming. However, women didn’t have casual sex much more often. They were just willing to be more public about it. Plus it doesn’t affect us normies that much, since the demand is far higher than the supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 09:11 PM
1

Notice me, senpai!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 09:09 PM
2

Sexual objectification is certainly the most common type of objectification, however. This strikes me as odd. Economic objectification is practiced on wider scale and affects both men and women. But you are just worried about sexual objectification. You are worried about problems that just affect you and people like you. Which is fine. But please don’t claim that this is universal or what ALL people should do. You can afford to demand and dictate the terms upon which you should receive interest.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 02:58 AM
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This sounds like an original sin argument, that something humans naturally do is wrongthought. I also think that men shouldn't have their bodies commodified in war situations, for example -- being stripped of your humanity is terrible. This actually necessary. If you don’t treat soldiers as cogs in a machine, you will end up with even more dead soldiers on your hands. Bootcamps do this on purpose. What’s an example of non-sexual objectification?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 02:27 AM
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It’s just weird that you demand this only in the sexual sphere, but not in other situations. You’re always a statistic to someone, somewhere. You’re just a number to some computers. You are identified by a number by your government. Why do you not also reject that? Why is it always about sexual objectification? If a cashier doesn’t say hi, do you complain to his manager about being objectified as just some customer? If you worked retail, would you complain about your paycheck envelope not acknow…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 11:46 PM
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I think worrying about objectification is a fundamental misunderstanding of masculine sexual desire. You’re invoking thoughtcrime here because men are not like women. Additionally, it’s an incredible privileged and entitled thing to ask that people like you in only certain ways, which is probably part of you being a feminist sex worker (IIRC).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:09 PM
1

When I was a kid, feminism made me realize that being girly to me meant being scrappy and competitive, it meant fighting from the position of underdog, it meant having big dreams and believing I had the strength to achieve them. I think these are masculine or really successful qualities. If you want to assert that femininity means what being a woman is to you, then at that point anything could be considered feminine. That’s a different viewpoint than associating a trait as being preferred by eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 02:00 PM
1

They existed they were just called “eccentric”!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 01:58 PM
1

And goony-beared men with hipster glasses are willing to sellout their gender for a chance at rainbow-haired she-twink pussy. Gamergate is really more to do with gaming journalism being done by non-gamers (read: fucking hipsters) and supposedly neutral publications selling out to publishers (ugh those fucking Kayne & Lynch ads…) It was shitty for a long time and the whole Zoey Quinn thing was the straw on the camel’s back. Gamers were a core demographic of the internet when it was still an unreg…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 01:56 PM
35

Oh for the love of god yes it’s making me want to quit PPD. I don’t mind incel threads here and there but its just becoming an inceljerk at this point. I’m a former incel and even this is too much. Make it stopppp!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 01:46 PM
12

I think blue pill makes more sense when there’s low sexual competition and red pill in high sexual competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 03:35 PM
1

I think you could price out most abusive practices by legalizing prostitution. But good luck getting enough support for that...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 08:29 PM
2

How rampant is abuse in the sex work industry?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 08:19 PM
3

♥️ <- this emoji works wonders!
/r/RedPillWives15/07/16 05:12 PM
2

Even normies are playing this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 09:09 AM
2

Women say “don’t bother us!” Then they give their numbers to guys who do bother them. Nice guys do finish last. So don’t be a nice guy. Be an awesome guy. Edit: In my experience people are actually happy if you talk to them if you’re not a total sperg. I don’t hit on all women I meet, I talk to them first to see if they are actually interesting/not bitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 08:55 AM
4

With that amount of money and the social benefits it provides, i’m sure sex is just a text away provided you aren’t a full sperg. There’s no need to keep women around when you can extract sex/intimacy on an on-demand basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 02:36 AM
4

Katsu, from when we talked, I think you are being overly harsh on yourself. How do you feel about your own self (self-esteem, confidence, personality, happiness with self, etc.)?
/r/RedPillWives14/07/16 01:54 AM
1

I mean, what use is it to know what incels think? What’s the goal or objective of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 01:43 AM
7

They often have illegitimate children. Also its more about sex than reproduction with the side chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 01:42 AM
2

Why? Who cares what incels think?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 01:34 AM
10

They marry for status/power/financial reasons, etc. They already have a bunch of girls or guys on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 01:33 AM
2

I think it might be ok to meet people, but I don’t play it with that in mind. It’s just a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 01:05 AM
1

Ok, some do. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 01:04 AM
2

VR porn will come sooner with more effect. The big game changer is that VR porn is interactive: you can get a girlfriend experience without the girl. That’s gonna edge out the lowest value women, and even guys in relationships will have the option for a cyber sidechick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 01:55 AM
1

Proven which, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 03:54 PM
10

Probably the same way guys can grow up thinking women care about personality more than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 09:50 AM
2

"These people are generalizing women, thus they must hate them!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 10:24 PM
3

Just the ones that can’t get over them. It’s not like alphas have a golden magical touch that can bedazzle any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 12:04 AM
4

You dun got me, /u/TempestTcup. You dun got me good!
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 08:52 AM
1

I know a lot of “strong” women like letting go and and being submissive in bed, and I imagine its the same way for guys. Being an outwardly submissive guy is a sexual death sentence, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 12:31 AM
1

Not all kinky people are overweight There are only two kinds of people in BDSM: attractive or single. but I suspect the body positivity would indeed be jarring to a lot of Redditors. I guess "body positivity” means be as ugly as you want. People should be able to eat anything they want, get shitty tattoos, and have horrible body mods. But I should still be attracted to them. Mind you I don’t go around shouting “eww tranny!” (some of them are actually quite nice!) People can do whatever they want…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 12:25 AM
1

That has been my experience and that’s enough for me, so I don’t go out for the hardcore stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 12:16 AM
1

Honestly, I think bluepillers are the people for whom “just be yourself” mostly worked. They understood the basics of the sexual game in a reasonable timeframe. For example, I didn’t know that women really valued physical attractiveness until I had a a couple show genuine interest in me. In getting to know them, I started learning how women really worked on a sexual level. But until those first few positive interactions, I couldn’t even begin to understand anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 05:32 PM
6

Imagine a bunch of fat nerds that have to resort to weird fetishes because they are too ugly and fat to get off with each other the normal way. They are friendly, but very cliquish. Often its just an excuse for women to sample the men in an environment that caters to their feelings. Female subs run the show, and here even fat chicks can get laid (I’m talking 250lbs+).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 04:35 PM
3

I hope they like petting :3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 03:39 PM
2

Ever been to a BDSM meetup? It’s pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 02:40 PM
2

If you stay at my house there is a guest basket with a new toothbrush, a towel and a little booze bottle. Ok I’m coming over!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 02:36 PM
2

Sure, its fun to switch! I’m still dominant the vast majority of the time. If I was a full sub though, I’d probably be screwed (figuratively).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 01:54 AM
1

Dating apps are trying really hard, but they can’t work yet. In my experience, you have to make a woman “invest” in you to get her to be attracted to you deeply (for more than a fling). By that I mean when you meet her, you get her to spend time with you casually while you slyly show that you are a Cool Dude who is Fun, Funny, and Flirty etc. Until then, you might as well be a stranger. Women don’t really seem to get attached to random men as much as men do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 03:37 PM
1

Yes, I just think inexperience on her part at best gives you more leeway as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 03:31 PM
2

All the regular people in between!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:16 PM
1

fucked up views about racial and sexual identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:14 PM
0

Because those men were just itching to get their rampage on from the age of 7, and women finally gave them the chance to do it. Cart before horse. If you bang 10/10 blonde girls regularly you just become a cynical misogynist, not a mass murderer. I don’t care if everyone thinks they are a special snowflake who can’t be categorized, I’m still going to call them “normies”, “losers”, “elite”, etc. because that’s easier than the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:29 PM
0

Yeah, he didn’t hide it well. Blew up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:19 PM
1

Just you current life, whatever it is, with no technology. Assume you don’t work in a tech-related field.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:14 PM
1

How would you feel if all electronics and high technology were removed from your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:12 PM
6

Elliot Rodgers Lack of sex is not going to result in misery or a short lifespan. Even women who can’t get sex at all are often miserable. What’s the point of living long if you’re living miserably? they are mentally ill It’s a copout that boils down to “I’m a normie and I can’t understand his reasoning.” Why do you think he was mentally ill? Distress and fucked up views about racial and sexual identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:09 PM
2

A lot of men are willing to forgo food and even money for sex. If sex is not a physical need, neither is money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:08 PM
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No it does not. Memes are mainstream now, its not a hallmark of nerddom. I'm Catholic So?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:55 PM
8

no its not just call me bb
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:51 PM
1

I don’t actually have an opinion if Brave New World is correct. A different world for a different time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:50 PM
6

Earning implies consent
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:47 PM
1

I came to similar conclusions before I read the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:25 PM
5

Earn? Yes. Entitle? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:24 PM
1

True AI? A generation at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:19 PM
2

I think most people are content with being average and getting average rewards. That’s why it’s the average!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:18 PM
2

So far just fringe feminists trying to drum up some clickbait. But it will probably follow in the path of “criticism" of video games being misogynistic. Something something objectification, something something violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:16 PM
2

MY WAIFU
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:15 PM
0

This is true, but I think in the future those will be luxuries easily supplanted by drugs, neural stimulation, adventure, hedonism, etc. Love and procreation may become so detached to the point that “traditional love” is an unnecessary luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:12 PM
2

VR porn will have a bigger impact sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 12:08 PM
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It’s Arthur Chu, the self-hating nerd. Ewwwww. their social inadequacy will be rewarded in the future with hot women I don’t think even the bluest of blues believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 11:57 AM
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I think the ad is purposefully vague to make you think. It could have a LOT of different interpretations. Making you think, makes you think about them. The ad succeeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 06:12 PM
2

Ok this is kind of ridiculous, that’s not how it works at all. Successful short men are often hypermasculine to fight the relevant stereotypes and it works. It absolutely is harder for short men, especially with younger women, but the effect is not as big as most people make it out to be. Game and looks and personality are still more important. Source: short guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 04:12 PM
3

Ooh, do you have more info? fucking someone into loving you If it didn’t work, then no one would try it! But it does work, just not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/16 08:33 PM
6

Men whine on websites, sure. Meanwhile women have a powerful international political movement based on whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 05:44 PM
4

Maybe men are more likely to get shit done than just whining online and demanding free government handouts. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:50 PM
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In the vast majority of cases, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:44 PM
5

That’s like what, 1000 women a year? That’s statistical chump change.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:43 PM
2

Compared to a woman’s investment it’s usually far less, but its still a huge investment. I’m not trying to objectively say one is worse than the other, just that they both elicit a negative visceral reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 03:44 AM
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Some women cannot understand the visceral reaction many men experience without using something like rape as an analogy. I was just talking with a woman in the PPD IRC today who could not empathize with the male perspective. To her, one is a horrible violation of her body and the other is raising a cute, innocent child. We posited that the male perspective would then be the former is free sex, and the latter is a violation of economic and emotional autonomy. She promptly left.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 12:28 AM
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Which doesn’t give you any perspective on the other. So why do you think you can compare the two better than I? I don’t think they are at all similar, but the visceral reaction men experience at having to have raised another man’s child for many years cannot be understood by most women except for using an analogy of rape. Both are a violation of personal autonomy but in very different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 12:10 AM
1

Have you done both then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 11:56 PM
2

Being tricked into raising a child that is not your own is a violation and terrible, yes, but it's not comparable to being physically and mentally tortured. Men don’t view raising children the same as women do. Women will almost never have to worry about raising a child that isn’t theirs, so they don’t really have a concept of how destructive this can be to a man. For example, I’d rather be raped than have to raise someone else’s child for 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 09:46 PM
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Try it. ABUSE
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:28 PM
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Not at all. I don’t even think there is one alpha fucks, one beta bucks per woman. Instead it’s just gradient where too alpha means no relationship and too beta means a relationship without enough raw attraction. I think women often genuinely love the betas they marry, its just that the comfort of providership isn’t enough to sustain her through their trials of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 08:22 PM
5

You absolutely don’t need to have sex with some men to get some handouts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 07:15 PM
2

Everyone is objectified by society. Employees. are objectified by employers. You’re acting like a neo-puritan. When we objectify someone for their sexuality, instead of their wealth/power/status/intellect/humor/charisma/strength/etc. it’s now all of a sudden a Big Problem that Should Be Fixed. Do you spend 5 minutes everytime you meet a cashier to appreciate their ability to raise their kids or go to college and how big of a heart they have on the inside? Because if you don’t, you’re just object…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 01:55 AM
3

Because that’s what she thought would work on someone like herself. I hardly think there was any intentional malice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 11:27 PM
1

Not a TRPer, but I think the stigma against guys getting penetrated is stupid. Even a finger feels good, man—don’t miss out on all the fun! Just tell her to give you the full servicing, and its still dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 11:26 PM
1

Surprise anal is a good way to never get the chance to do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 11:23 PM
3

Could still be inheritable or even the result of womb feminization and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 10:38 PM
1

The vocal TRPers yes. It’s not a bad thing, you got to start from somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 08:58 AM
1

Feminists will not talk shit to actual alphas and strong betas. They just pick on low-value men because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 08:05 AM
4

I’m pretty neutral. But regressives pushed too far, and now they will reap as they have sowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 08:01 AM
3

This has been going on way before the fetishization of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 08:00 AM
2

There are reasons women cannot obtain even casual sex, but usually they are something like zero girl game, unavailable, or super fat. The bar is definitely lower for the beginning of the game, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 07:53 AM
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In the Pillverse it seems everyone agrees that women can obtain casual sex easily. This isn’t even “agreed” upon outside the Pillverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 04:12 AM
2

So? Let them scream out and face the “consequences” for their wrongthink.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 12:04 AM
1

Your face triggers me! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 11:53 PM
1

I thought we were friends ;_;
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 03:48 PM
1

r/femalefashionadvice or really most female mid/high fashion Are women going to notice things like waist:hip ratio? Women tend to dress to impress other women (purposefully or not), not men. Women tell each other they’re pretty to be nice, not to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 08:47 PM
1

Straight hair is normalized, curly hair is not associated with “sexy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 08:44 PM
1

What is the best kind of coffee, /u/coffeedynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 09:56 PM
2

To me, I’ve found that you are free to be beta so long as she knows you can and will act alpha under reasonable circumstances (car accident, the bedroom, yelling at salespeople, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 09:52 PM
1

Why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 09:49 PM
2

Sex toys are really nice. They are far better than just porn + masturbation. In fact, they actually somewhat satiate me…and I suspect this is one of the differences. I think women are looking for a connection that develops into sex, not the other way around. The women who do just want NSA sex can swipe right on Tinder and get as much as they want if they are half-decent looking, provided they are willing to settle with just ok guys. In my experience offers for sex do not correlate to a demonstra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 09:48 PM
2

I’m not justifying it, I’m giving a reason. Incels think of themselves as good guys, johns are considered bad guys, thus they don’t want to be a john.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 08:03 PM
2

I think its more because the female sex drive is reactive. They don’t seem to constantly crave to the point where any half-decent looking guy will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 08:01 PM
2

Prostitution is illegal in most of the world and socially shunned. Incels are not known for breaking social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 07:48 PM
2

They need a way to express some kind of masculinity without being problematic, toxic, or triggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 10:24 AM
2

No, not screwed. But you have to commit strongly to self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 08:50 AM
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They get about 2 whole extra attentions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 03:40 PM
1

Sure, but I’m just articulating my dark subconscious thoughts. It doesn’t mean I agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 02:18 AM
1

Another way to look at it is that: If a woman dresses like a slut And acts like a slut And talks like a slut And/or is a known slut She shouldn’t complain when lo and behold she gets treated like a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 06:26 PM
3

Girl come get me I want to add 69 on my D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 10:35 AM
2

I’ve never even had a LTR ;_; I am a late-bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 07:40 PM
2

340. And I have only yet begun to party. Where is my innocent flower to despoil?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 07:25 PM
3

What damage is done? Who cares what some randoms think?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 06:21 PM
3

That’s just their opinion. You don’t have to listen to them. If they keep bothering you tell them to go away or you’ll call the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 04:09 AM
3

What does any of this have to do with stalkers or someone yelling slut on the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 04:04 AM
3

These are more like brotherhoods that are formed through a common upbringing, antagonism, struggle, etc. Men treat the average man like crap but can form strong bonds with other men. They will still pile shit on each other though, but that keeps them stronger. TRP may think women are lesser than men (I really don’t know) but that also means they will hold men to a higher standard and shame them extra if they fail to meet that standard. Anyways those are a tiny fraction of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 04:02 AM
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You don’t know the difference between how men treat men and how men treat women but you presume to know that one is playful and the other is hurtful?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 04:00 AM
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You watched. I’ve been. Men do not usually operate under a “bro code”. In fact, it’s been scientifically shown men have a significant bias against the average man and are biased in favor of the average woman. Woman are also the same—they are biased in favor of women. When this bias is removed, aka women and men are treated exactly the same by a man, women considered it misogyny. That is to say, misogyny is treating a woman like a man. Don’t project female ingroup bias onto males.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 03:57 AM
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No, you have no idea how men think or what they are trying to do. Don’t assume harassment if you don’t know what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 03:54 AM
3

Hahahahahahahahahahaha Hahahahaha That is not how guys work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 03:54 AM
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I agree and disagree. I think that it’s not a men’s right issue, except that when men state their preferences (young, not fat, pretty, etc.) they are sometimes shamed but women are never shamed for their own preferences (rich, tall, handsome, etc.) I don’t think we should shame anyone’s preferences. If the fat ugly chick only wants basketball players that’s fine, just don’t complain loudly if you don’t find any.
/r/MensRights28/02/16 05:35 PM
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My point isn’t about what Reddit should be. The fact is a good amount of the userbase does not support SJWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 05:12 PM
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Only SJWs seem to care about “hate speech”, “harassment”, and/or micro-aggressions a lot. It’s the way they can designated a protected class as more persecuted and thus worthy of more protection. Most subs have gotten on fine with “don’t do illegal shit” and “don’t be a dick” well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 02:50 PM
10

/u/spez is a SJW
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 02:47 PM
2

Dominatrixes are not as dominant as they first appeared, many are compensating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 04:50 PM
5

Russia has more than one ethnic group, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 04:26 PM
1

Suddenly your boy problems make sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 07:47 AM
1

This kills the boner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:41 AM
1

I’ll box you in anyway I want to <3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:27 AM
1

Way to describe yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:18 AM
3

comprehensive employeeship reform package <- incentivize not offshoring
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 07:08 PM
4

And then it just makes offshoring seem more attractive. You have to include mandatory parental leave in a comprehensive employeeship reform package.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 07:06 PM
2

If you’re an average looking or worse guy who keeps to himself, you can easily die a virgin unless you pick up some extroverted traits. I “trained” myself to become more extroverted with practice to avoid that fate, and it has paid off in spades and made life better. Social anxiety sucks, but social ostracism is worse. So I did fake it. I’m still faking it now, and I’ll fake it straight to my grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 07:05 PM
0

My views are still in flux and are changing as I am exposed to more information and consider more ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 07:00 PM
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The problem is that the more benefits you legislate for women, the more unappealing they become as employees and the larger a liability they represent. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:59 PM
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I think its predicated on the idea that modern society coddles women to such an extent they don’t have to get more mature, not that they can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:57 PM
2

Take it easy. It can take a few months for your dick to get adjusted to the new levels of serotonin. At worst, switch to a SNRI if that also works for you. Or try a cock ring (looks cool too) or an erection drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 06:19 AM
7

I think he means women who go day-to-day seemingly angry at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:22 PM
6

Her body, her choice. His body, her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 08:30 PM
1

Certainly not all, but there are a portion I know who have engaged in some kind of neo-nerd-bullying. It’s getting very annoying, I thought people grew up and became adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:04 AM
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That title was clickbait according to the developer subreddits. They basically massaged the data until they could find the only slightly pro-female interpretation version and put that out. Very #teamwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 09:07 PM
1

No, it doesn’t speak well for their character. Racism is racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 09:26 PM
3

Like was said before, you don’t seem to understand exactly how strong the male sex drive is and how dry it can be out there. It’s running itself into your face but meanwhile you keep saying “I don’t see how sex is that important‽” For you, sure that’s true, but it's not for a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 09:44 AM
3

Society will do it for you. A woman who can’t get laid when there are thousands of thirsty men on Craigslist must have absolutely failed the genetic lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 05:57 AM
15

I realize that but it can't be healthy to have so much of your time and brain capacity consumed by something that, let's face it, isn't essential for survival. Translated: I have a typical female sex drive and don't understand that some people don't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 05:01 AM
2

I honestly am not sure of the legality of any of those situations. I only brought up blood because its a bodily fluid, like semen, and can be functionally used outside of the body for things the original owner does not want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 08:53 PM
7

also, either way, try avoiding sex with someone who would lie in order to get pregnant/impregnate someone. even in casual situations... come on. make better choices. pay attention to more than how hot or easy they are. That’s just victim-blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 07:20 PM
8

Just because biology happens doesn’t mean it must happen! Should we begin shitting our pants? That would be more natural, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 07:18 PM
5

unprotected sex with ONS I freaked out when a condom broke and she was on birth control. As much as condoms suck, unwanted babies suck a hell of a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 03:39 PM
15

She used products of his body in a manner for which he did not grant her permission. If a woman has her period and a guy decides to fish out her tampon and make period art and label it with her name, well, it wasn’t her body, right? So she has no say, especially if she disposed of the tampon in a public bathroom? What if he decided to use the blood and conduct a drug analysis? Maybe some genetic sequencing, see what she has. It’s not in her body anymore, so it’s fair game, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 03:35 PM
12

What man has a fair shake at gaining full custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 03:32 PM
18

With paying child support, you also gain parental rights. You don’t necessarily gain visitation rights. And it’s small consolation to fathers who did not wish to become one. They could have taken all reasonable steps to prevent that reality but still be on the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:50 PM
9

And concerning the rape/sperm hijackings: that is an injustice, but a different discussion. It doesn't happen often and this thread is about most situations. This colors the issue but it is important. We can’t debate child support in a vacuum, we must face reality. There is a large number of cases where women have children to receive welfare and/or child support and use it as a living income. So long as this incentive is available, said spermjacking and lying will continue to happen. A father ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:49 PM
4

And sometimes it is literally $100,000/month. As long as the state gets a cut, they will extort as much money as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:45 PM
37

The courts (at least in the United States) have committed great evils in the name of “the best interests of the child.” The state of male reproductive rights is appalling: there literally are none. If the woman choose not to carry the child, he has no say. If the women singlehandedly chooses to carry the child to term, he is liable. If the condom breaks, he is liable. If he gets raped, he may still be liable. If the child is not biologically his and he was lied to, he may still be liable dependi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:17 PM
8

It costs a tiny, tiny fraction of what it costs to raise a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:06 PM
11

Thats an obvious exclusion. It’s not an obvious conclusion, it’s happened before. Birth Control, he still made the choice to sleep with a girl. Wear a condom if you don't want kids. So men should still bear responsibility if the woman lies? If the guy wants a kid and his girlfriend does not, can he just poke a hole in the condom and lie about it? If she gets pregnant, she should have used birth control if she really didn’t want kids, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 01:05 PM
2

Alphas dont care agreed, they’re probably sluts themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 08:56 PM
1

How many times do I have to pester someone before it goes from a request to pressure? What happens in the case where you pressure a woman into sex, and very soon she is very into it herself? This scenario happens a lot. I myself don’t pressure women into sex, but apparently you can nag women into sexual acts which I find incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 09:46 PM
1

If someone texted me 100 times, I’d block them. “Hey babe, I could use a blowjob now” is a form of pressuring. Is this not allowed now because you can draw some parallel to threatening property destruction?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 09:25 PM
1

That’s a threat though, what does that have to do with pressuring? We pressure lots of people lots of times to various degrees. I pressure someone to do something for me by saying “please”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 09:19 PM
0

Seen the difference between an 18 year old and a 20 year old? No, that I can’t tell the difference. But 16 and 22? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 10:24 AM
0

I for one can absolutely tell the difference. Porn sells a fantasy, there is suspension of disbelief.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 09:27 AM
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When a guy watches porn he sees himself as the male in the porn video right? Not necessarily So he imagines himself violating a young girl, that's the reason teen porn videos are so popular. And the young girl doesn’t enjoy the “violation”? There’s a lot more porn where the women enjoys the act than otherwise. The bodies are not important, or there would be a greater attempt to make most teen videos actually feature teens (most actually are above 20, according to some study.) Because you have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 09:19 AM
2

Guys really don’t like thinking about exactly how many different dicks have entered their woman's pussy. For a lot of men it manifests as an aversion to sluts. Evolutionarily it makes sense, women who sleep around less are more likely to get impregnated by someone else rather than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 08:41 AM
2

Aversion to sluts is a beta trait, alphas don’t really give a fuck and are probably slooty themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 08:38 AM
0

Kanye West is the greatest beta of all time!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 08:34 AM
2

Pressuring women isn’t illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 11:30 PM
5

Point is, the safe option is to walk away. I like how its all about divorcing women from responsibility. Why don’t we shame women who suddenly get anxious about sex at the last moment but still can be convinced to go ahead? Suddenly its on the guy to read her mind. If you gamble on the "it's just a shit test" side of the dilemma, don't be surprised if you get a rape accusation on you. Funny how its “hot" if she likes it and a rape accusation if she doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 10:43 PM
2

But that’s the effective result. Do you think rapists care about date rape hysteria? Only so much as in they might get caught, if they even think about that. All it really results in is unmasculine men to fear trying because it might come off as rapey and for masculine men to play a lottery because women demand hypoagency.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 10:38 PM
0

most socially skilled guys can tell the difference. That’s a big assumption to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 10:36 PM
2

fine fine, 30 days
/r/MensRights30/01/16 09:10 AM
8

She trying to imply that they tell men to go fuck themselves in a politically correct way.
/r/MensRights25/01/16 12:34 PM
1

Actually thats not how bodies scale, I think its mostly longer legs/torso.
/r/MensRights24/01/16 06:28 AM
3

It’s pretty fun. Yeah, sometimes I’m submissive. I don’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:18 AM
5

Butt hypergamy!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:17 AM
1

They are useful idiots.
/r/MensRights24/01/16 12:05 AM
3

Depends on the kind of sexual liberation. I am at best averagely attractive and I’ve gotten all kinds of super-kinky no-limits sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 05:51 PM
1

She one time told me she loved animals but when her rabbit would piss her off she would throw it across the room and would let her fish starve to death so she didn't have to bring them to the neighbor to feed them during her vacation. Is it bad I found this the most egregious of her offenses? She is cray...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 05:48 PM
8

SJWs: “It’s ok when WE do it"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 05:42 PM
3

girls matter but boys dont Well it is true in society
/r/MensRights21/01/16 08:51 PM
2

Maybe they should just man up or stop being a pussy and kill themselves already. At least that’s how I feel society wants me to deal with depression as a man.
/r/MensRights19/01/16 04:33 PM
3

Although six commercial fishing boats sank in the summer of 2015, no one was killed. Between 1980 and 1988, an average of 31 fishermen died in Alaska each year. That is an amazing improvement!
/r/MensRights19/01/16 04:15 PM
2

They have pretty much done that. They tried playing nice and look how much help that’s been. But when you start whining and bitching like a feminist, suddenly people give one or two shits. I guess MRAs are like the nice guy that wised up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 02:47 AM
2

To be fair, feminism and feminist actions contribute about 90% of their problems. It’s that and the bias toward women exhibited by both men and women. http://anti-feminism-pro-equality.tumblr.com/post/97170153236/myplaceinfeminism-heres-an-article-about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 02:46 AM
2

but women are going to be relatively equal in society Maybe if thats what feminism was for in the first place it wouldn’t have to be wiped off the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 02:45 AM
3

They tried that for the last 50 or so years. Look at how much good that’s done. No, the squeaky wheel gets the grease. Feminists have shrieked plenty, but when MRAs call a cunt a cunt, suddenly its not all fun and games anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 02:43 AM
1

Whoops, you are correct, I was confusing him with another rape allegation dude. In the context you used for “Well, we'll never really know what happened” it is weaseling. We don’t say “we don’t know really happened” to a bank executive who got a golden parachute where there was no trial. We don’t say “we don’t know really happened” to a someone who is acquitted after a murder trial. We don’t say “we don’t know really happened” in the Rape of Nanjing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 10:30 PM
3

Is that a 88? Not many things kill tanks and planes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 10:24 PM
2

Yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 09:30 PM
4

DV is approximately 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 09:23 PM
3

The Catholic Church dealt with sexual assault, no? So why don’t we train them to do it properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 09:18 PM
2

Killmarks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 09:16 PM
1

Well so far from what I understand, according to the article colleges need to handle rape accusations beyond educational accomodations because: Police apparently don’t think M-on-F rape occurs Vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:55 PM
3

So train them. What the hell. Should we train the Catholic Church on how to properly adjucate molestation accusations?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:51 PM
3

Well, we'll never really know what happened Weasel words to presume a 50/50 chance that a rape happened. What we do know is that the student was found not responsible by Columbia and faced no judicial penalties. Then why did he get kicked out and why is he suing Columbia?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 08:50 PM
2

This post made me think. This is why I’m your #1 fanboy!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 05:59 PM
6

At least there’s some road out now that he can see. Before that there was nothing. It might be like old-time religion, but hey its something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 09:15 AM
1

I do believe that most women my age are in the process of finding someone with whom they’ll be happy. But your statement is not correct because of two reasons. First, women can find someone quickly if they set their search standards to below their current value, not at the same value. Otherwise that would imply all women can find a man of equal or higher value quickly, which is obviously not true. Secondly, once women hit their low 20s, they become a depreciating asset in terms of SMV. It would …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 05:39 PM
8

Have you tried fucking ugly girls? Ugly girls still have high standards that ugly men usually can’t meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 08:40 AM
2

Even when I have dieted and exercised to the point that the muscles are quite evident, groomed my beard, cleaned up, etc. I still never said that I looked good. Just acceptable enough for a woman not to vomit upon having sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:46 PM
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No. Average men are not valued for their bodies, to the point that they believe that women choose to engage them romantically/sexually in spite of their physical attractiveness, not because of it. You don’t have to be ugly to feel ugly. There was even a r/AskMen thread on this, where men stated they did not believe their partners actually found them sexy; they believed it was just platitudes for their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:13 PM
1

But its not that hard...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:42 PM
2

You had to see the horror with your own eyes to truly believe!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 02:16 PM
1

In order to get laid, you need to develop yourself to the point where you don’t need to worry about getting laid. Women are not the prize, you are, so make yourself into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:54 AM
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Have you ever tried dating as a man online? Go for it, I encourage you. You can find at most 500-1000 profiles of women in a metropolitan area. All of these women are getting easily a dozen messages/day. Even the fat ones. Even the ugly ones. Even the bitchy ones. They could put a picture of their left eye and get messaged by hundreds. This results in most women online becoming princesses, holding out for the top 5% guy, always thinking they can do better. Additionally, half the women are so und…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:53 AM
1

Escorts are easiest. Seattle is a sausagefest too. There is no magic way to get laid, you have to be able to look in the mirror and say “yeah, I’d fuck me so hard” before you expect someone else to be willing to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:44 AM
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I don’t think you understand exactly how much time can be spent. Try this, 1000 women. 1% conversion rate into a relationship. So that’s 10 women. Of those, 50% of the time it is the women choose to leave you. So you’ve gottten 5 relationships out of all that, congrats. But it would have taken you, at 30 minutes amortized (chatting up, asking out, going on a date or few) per women, 500 hours. And that’s without cultivating an abundance mentality. You can play so many video game with 500 hours of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:38 AM
1

Honestly, I’m pretty happy being average in SMV, and I would be quite happy to shack up with a woman with average SMV (but above-average personality). It’s too bad average women often think they can do far better than me. They all can’t succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:32 AM
5

Not necessarily. They may have superbeta traits that would improve and stabilize a relationship, but turnoff potential initial attraction. If they learn to hide these traits their sexual fitness would improve massively.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:21 AM
10

They may find a couple of relationships, but the quality will be so poor and the time invested so high that its not worth the trouble. Easier to just drink Mountain Dew and play video games instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:20 AM
17

For some men, being 100% themselves will get them exactly 0 relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:08 AM
1

The anti-feminism fervor has been growing. Red pill is actually very neutral when compared to other groups, even non-gendered groups. MRAs/Egalitarianists/MGTOWs seem to form a core block of anti-feminism, and not even recently I can say places like r/TumblrInAction, r/KotakuInAction, #GamerGate (not even including conservative groups!) have gone full anti-SJW. The strongest and most vocal opposition to feminism seems to come from moderate leftists. Redpill may bitch about feminists, but they’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 06:29 PM
5

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 09:35 AM
3

It’s narcissistic and fucked up, by I hardly think it represent the standard blue-pill POV. She’s like a walking redpill's single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 09:25 PM
2

doesn't care about STIs and exploiting people From my understanding that’s not anywhere as common as thought
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 11:58 AM
1

100% absolutely. Grace Hopper is an extremely important woman who rarely gets mentioned, a USN Rear Admiral who created the first compiler (a paradigm shift to machine-independent programming languages). But many don’t have the inclination, which is why the push for women in tech is really getting on my nerves. I saw it firsthand, and how it messed with actually competent women’s careers and how pointless it was to bring in people with no innate talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 08:20 PM
1

It got competitive, I assume. The casuals doing rote tasks were no longer needed as more and more complex programming languages with better abstractions came into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 03:27 PM
1

Yes and no. Programming then was not quite like programming now—there was a reason they were referred to as “operators” then. Some women were indeed the elite who’s role is equatable to modern programming, but for many women they did more mechanical task such as operate plugboards, punch in instructions, and create simple subroutines (I believe). I don’t want to downplay the contribution of women in computing, but there has been an absolutely massive push to essentially rewrite history. For exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 03:25 PM
1

That’s a very good way to end up in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 03:07 PM
2

That sounds more like a woman’s kinky fantasy than an actual push for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 02:58 PM
2

I think, as many things go, some girls figure it out and some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 02:54 PM
1

For a man it makes them extremely suspicious of anyone showing interest in them. You can literally feel like a ghost at a below-average SMV, and going to a good SMV has the possibility of making him become either extremely wary or extremely jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 03:52 AM
1

I found out about the AFE on accident, had to literally go to wikipedia to figure out what the heck I hit. (With my fingers.) You don’t have to do PIV with an ungodly sized member to nail it. The fun part about it, is women in general aren’t aware of this spot and even if they are, they have a lot of trouble touching it. Meanwhile I can just send Mr. Righty to do what he does best and give them what they cannot give themselves (win-win, I say). Hell, even if you can’t use your fingers there’s al…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 07:37 AM
3

Agree with 1 and mostly with 3. On 2, there is definitely the ingroup bias effect going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 07:33 AM
7

There’s a vast gulf between not liking and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:06 AM
2

It’s more of a traditional than a religious thing. I think it has to do with gaining acceptance with her family more so than actually needing literal permission.
/r/MensRights27/12/15 08:22 PM
2

Same. Not sure if they subconsciously disliked it, but consciously it was all fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 05:49 PM
1

I don’t necessarily want to have sex with a pornstar. Almost any activity can become an addiction. No such thing as “real men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 04:51 PM
1

How many of those questions do you get? It’s probably some dumb thing I would ask back when I was massively insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 05:16 PM
1

Ozy, I think the main disconnect here is that you’re applying a women’s perspective (you) to a male situation (TRP). For most men, the biggest struggle is to get their foot in the door, while for women, it’s selecting a quality partner. Compatibility helps with the latter but is shit for the former. Women may start from square 1, but men are starting from square 0. Additionally, more men are satisfied with just sex than women—long term compatibility is not important here. Finally for more low-va…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 04:21 PM
3

I’m only getting together if there’s an orgy. My fetish is feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 10:59 PM
1

That would be pretty cool honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 08:00 PM
2

gives a germ-free hug
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 04:38 PM
1

Slow exposure therapy might help. Also a fun fact: your immune system needs germs to keep itself busy. The more germs, the stronger it gets (up to a limit, of course). Otherwise you get autoimmune disorders. Also your body has more bacteria cells in it then human cells. They’re actually required to properly digest food and to keep the harmful bacteria out!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 04:32 PM
1

I have not yet overcome it, and its just the symptom of something worse. But everyday gets a tiny bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 04:10 PM
2

That’s pretty much how it went for me, but as a guy. Things got better after I lost my virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 07:55 AM
1

A picture with Impact font text, white on black, is not a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 07:36 AM
1

Anxiety can be treated/tolerated, socializing can be learned. I was forced to do it if I didn’t want to die a virgin. (It worked.) I am naturally an anxious introvert, but I learned to also be something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 06:57 AM
1

Generally those women are undateable. Not as in unappealing, but you physically cannot date them: they may never leave the house, have crippling social anxiety, find other humans eww, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 06:50 AM
2

Nah, these would be women I met at parties, at social events, at gatherings etc. I didn’t do absolutely cold approaches. I did get better at going in blind, though!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 06:40 AM
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I’m not really the possessive type. With my hypothetical girlfriend I’ll have as many girl friends as I want. Of course, if any of them are making her insecure she is free to discuss it with me and I will re-evaluate my relationship with that girl accordingly. She can do the same. I’d like to meet people she spends a lot of time with. I trust her judgement that they are a cool person. This way I can make more friends. Sure, she can have guy friends, but I’ll warn her off grabbing beta orbiters/g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 06:54 PM
1

After some pondering and reflection, I think what’s happening is that incels are not aggressive enough. They don’t make moves on enough women because they will take an initial no as a categorical no and not proceed further. This is why some women feel invisible to men—the rejection of an incel doesn’t even register on their radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 06:49 PM
0

<4!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 11:02 AM
3

Both. I was hoping for validation. But I didn’t even get to the "have dates" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 09:12 AM
15

I once scratched my standards. Asked out any woman who wasn’t initially repulsed by me. The fat, the ugly, the weird, the neurotic, the old, I mean every one. And it didn’t change a thing. Nor am I trash-tier SMV. Even scraping the bottom of the barrel will not help.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 01:10 AM
7

Really? Do you have any examples? I’ve seen obese women demand fit men and on occasion, they actually get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 01:08 AM
1

But that is the absolute LAST THING I (or women like me) want. Well yes, why would you value something that is so easily available to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 10:34 AM
5

Normal fat chicks can still find suitors. Honestly, most of the FA women are not fat. They instead have such a severe personality issue or mental disorder (most common: crippling anxiety) that they couldn’t date even if they wanted to. I can get that friends seemingly swarming in boyfriends and getting hit on at the clubs by cute guys seems very unfair and makes them feel invisible when people say women should have no trouble finding some guy. But the bottom of the barrel sinks a lot lower for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 09:47 AM
3

All the FA women I’ve met either had some severe issue with socializing or were very, very chubby. Usually the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 09:04 AM
1

You da real MVP, mod
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 04:35 PM
3

He won’t. And if he does, you’re not to blame, because it takes a lot more than one rejection to choose suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 06:39 PM
11

Those who feel entitled to sex because they are nice. How many people actually think like this? I’ve yet to meet one, even as an online troll. I feel that it is just a feminist strawman to make the lowest of the low a dehumanized punching bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 05:47 PM
1

They’re too busy watch Netflix and dating online to sooth their egos
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 06:02 AM
1

That is true, but I believe (am not certain) TRP tries to disavow the notion that Chad/alphas are inherently douchey or bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 09:04 PM
2

It has worked a few times for me. I am so close with one of them that I would decline having sex with her to preserve our friendship. I think it’s key that the man is either sexually satiated or have no strong attraction to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 07:27 AM
1

It has nothing to do with how I think, just what I’ve seen. And that is precisely what I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 02:58 AM
1

No, it was because you were implying a lot of women were in engineering. In my experience, as the rigor of the academic work goes up, the ratio of women goes down (in engineering).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 10:13 PM
1

Most of my friends were from my major. My friends were split probably 60/40 girls:guys. Doesn’t sound like it was a very hard education then On a big 10 campus with ~40k students even 30/70 would still be 12,000 girls. TRP could spin a plate a week and never run out There are more than 3 billion women in the world, every guy should of course be getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 08:42 PM
2

I think both red pill and blue pill can agree that the more you try, the more you’ll succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 08:13 AM
2

You’re mixing up findom and femdom. Findom is the act like a narcissistic bitch you paypig one. Femdom more like whips and chains.
/r/MensRights10/12/15 12:12 PM
2

Scooby and the gang?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:04 AM
3

If you ever go red pill you need to dye your head blue to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 03:38 AM
11

It’s not as fucked up as how little bodily integrity men have. Her body, her choice. His body, her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 03:34 AM
1

You're an athlete, you basically can tell Chads to put a barrel in their mouth and fire. Poor Chads. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 04:12 PM
0

Why do you support rape???
/r/MensRights07/12/15 03:43 PM
1

I know, silly, I was just teasing. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 03:33 PM
8

It can be predictive at the level of pattern-matching, but with only a limited amount of unknown factors. It is not as powerful as the scientific method which is more exhaustive and provides better analysis of independent variables. But that is a fault of the sensitive nature of the topic: there is no grant money for getting loser guys laid. (It would have to be framed as promoting women's enjoyment of life by improving mate quality or something asinine like that to have even a chance of getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 06:15 AM
1

RPiller financially responsible woman Best of luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 06:04 AM
13

A scientific methodology is not the only valid method of discovery. Additionally, TRP does not care about the why something happens as compared to what causes that to happen. It seeks results, not answers. Thus it is not a predictive system, and cannot be judged by those rules. Correlation vs. causation does not matter for these purposes. If you are a woman, then you are more likely to behave like a teenager than a man over the age of 28' is strongly supported. However, when you ask them to defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 03:43 AM
13

Getting numbers isn't hard, but the amount of work required to maintain interest by an average man is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 11:37 PM
5

Lots of people get sad after a breakup. To confirm the alpha widow concept, you would need to find examples of women who are still pining for their high value ex-boyfriend or someone of similar stature after a reasonable period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 08:25 PM
3

I also forgot to mention that the contractions not only helps draw sperm in, but it also gives the penis some additional stimulation to convince it to do its job. As a guy, when I approach orgasm I get the urge to pull her by the hips as close to me as possible and to push myself in as deep as I am physically capable of. I'm very certain this is instinctual, as it makes sense from an evolutionary standpoints: you are giving the sperm a good headstart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 08:20 PM
4

It also increases partner bonding for both the woman and the man. We are social creatures! Plus, a blowjob with eyecontact is ridiculously sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 08:06 PM
1

Even average-looking women get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 05:23 AM
2

So there is not a direct correlation between male reproductive variance and female sexual selection? Even as a rough estimate? There is. It's also why men take bigger risks. When you have to be above average to succeed, you must be willing to face total success or defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 10:34 PM
1

Women put effort in effort to gain a better mate. Men put effort in effort to gain any mate. Well... you see, the problem with that list is that you have to get all of these, and suddenly the 50% chance shrinks to a measly 1/26 = 1.56%. Cart before the horse. Being picky for all those things is the result, not the reason. The ability of a female to be selective for a mate depends on her ability to evaluate as many mates as possible. The less mates she can evaluate, the less picky she can afford …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 04:38 PM
2

One way we can try and measure hypergamy in the past is through male reproductive variance. If all the women go for the top percentage of men, we can see this in our genetic history. (how exactly is completely over my head) This isn't perfect, because we don't really know if it was hypergamy that drove women to the top men. However, it's all we got and it's interesting to look at anyways. You can measure the amount of variance in SRY-activated genes (the male genetic switch), though I don't see …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 04:16 PM
3

his estranged father's suicide His father should have found someone to open up to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 03:51 PM
3

I'm pretty sure they do, it's just relegated to the ubermensch-looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 07:50 PM
2

How's the weather down there? Thanks to /u/DrunkGirl69 I finally have someone that even I can tower over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 07:48 PM
2

Because there are victimbux to be made
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 03:30 PM
2

As an around-average dude, if I was to do the waiting instead of the asking, I would die a virgin. (Well at least until my 30s at minimum)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 02:41 PM
2

Best I can do is two fiddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 12:06 PM
3

lol, humans do the same too!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 06:15 PM
2

Those are my thoughts. I think the best move is indeed not to play. But I am not following my own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 06:09 PM
1

Used to not work for me until I stopped being thirsty. Now I have one and it's great, we can even talk about poops and stuff. I don't it's a good idea to angle specifically for a female friend, especially if you're thirsty. It works for me since while I guess I would bang her, I would rather not ruin what we have girl moment. I think I get more out of it than her, but not my much, it feels pretty equitable. As for men being taken advantage of, case-by-case basis. If so what did you think of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 07:30 AM
1

then you are participating in the SMP/RMP. I did not claim otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 07:17 AM
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I'm not really MGTOW, but I do sympathize with some of their views. Brohug #nohomo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:25 PM
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No, I still do those when I feel like it. I just don't want to put in the effort to chase women that much. I have other things to do and other interests. If she acts interested, sure, but otherwise it's way too much time for too little reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:23 PM
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My thoughts on the SMP/RMP A strange game. The only winning move is not to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 05:21 PM
3

I honestly don't think science supports either pill. There is just not much grant money to be had in exploring sexual selection. And if it ends up being social scientists that do that job...well, social sciences just suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 04:50 PM
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but the overwhelming thing men look for is appearance For a fuck. And lots of men desire more casual sex then they are getting now. So that's why you hear about appearances being the only thing that matters, when in reality, "bitch" is a powerful descriptive. Personally I think 80% of women can be attractive to me with enough work. I'm sure other guys can help me cover that remaining 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 04:48 PM
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I keep this link for just this very question: http://img0.joyreactor.com/pics/post/comics-Cyanide-and-Happiness-homeless-woman-498539.png
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 06:03 AM
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That's fine, but feminism says that you should not go beyond the bounds of being a nice guy. Aggression, masculinity, male sexuality, etc. are all punished by feminism but rewarded by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 07:11 PM
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Accountable, yes, that's an external thing. Responsibility and respect depend on the person, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:15 PM
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I have dated plenty of Feminist women. Every single one of them preferred old fashioned, confident, manly men. Meanwhile feminist say men should be Nice Guys. Do as we say, not as we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:13 AM
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Because it's a scheme for just women to do it on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:09 AM
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the main point of your source is that MRA groups spend a hell of a lot more time and resources on complaining about feminism than actually trying to make a difference for the better in men's lives. They're still at the "raising awareness" stage. People still believe men do not have problems as a result of their gender. Feminism and the empathy gap are the main problems. http://anti-feminism-pro-equality.tumblr.com/post/97170153236/myplaceinfeminism-heres-an-article-about Again, I don't... really…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 08:05 AM
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Except it was drilled into my head that by hitting on a woman, I was disrespecting her, being creepy, being that guy, and being all-in-all a bad feminist. I think a lot of feminists adopt the position that shy nerdy dudes' flirting problems are not feminism's responsibility. Then tell them to stay the fuck out of shy nerdy dude's sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 07:54 AM
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in a world where men didn't exist, it would be unlikely that an army of invaders would exist, or that world war 3 would break out. Someone is always going to want someone else dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 07:33 AM
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Portion control to cut down calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 07:48 PM
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There are 7 billion people in the world The vast majority of them love sex You don't need to know/consider a lot about a person to have sex with them If we take online dating into account, I have been rejected by what, a thousand women at least. I've had more success in every other facet of my life by an order of magnitude or two or three. Most women are in far greater demand than most men because the supply of dick is so damn high. And it's so easy to get too, just swipe left or right, hundreds…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 11:23 PM
2

Holy crap, I've done that before. Was I a total shitlord or great partner? Even I couldn't tell...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 09:12 PM
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Ugly men should just go work in coal mines and die, otherwise they're useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 09:09 PM
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its a trap
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 06:59 PM
2

Disagree. More like 50% for me. Well, approaching 60% with the rising obesity rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 06:59 PM
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Purple/Male/INTP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 06:47 PM
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It probably means they don't like ditzy. Anyway, pay attention to actions, not words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 06:45 PM
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It can buy you anything you want Looks like it can't buy validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 05:52 PM
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You're not going to get laid with that kind of attitude!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 09:31 AM
1

But ducks can't breed with geese...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 11:27 PM
2

We got better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 03:24 AM
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My implication being that once is enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 04:53 AM
2

What about say Tinder, online dating, bars, and the likes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 04:53 AM
0

With all of womankind?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 03:21 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 03:20 AM
0

Yeah. I'm not a fan of pump and dump personally, seems inefficient, but that's what some guys seem to want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 02:55 AM
1

But you've already slept with him once.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 02:45 AM
2

Let me refine my statement. Women don't seem to select enough for sexual prowess such that men do not need to perform well in bed in order to obtain sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 02:45 AM
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True, but they did get what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 02:44 AM
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Well, if the goal is to get laid, then didn't they accomplish it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 02:44 AM
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Does it really matter? Women don't seem to select much for sexual prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 12:54 AM
3

You're putting the cart before the horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:37 PM
1

Shit-testing isn't just done for fuckables. It's done for friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 03:14 PM
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I absolutely do this too. I even know I am 100% shit-testing. The SMP/RMP exactly a man's market, but I am not wasting my time, even with potential friends, with someone who can't handle a crude joke or two. It's too much a part of my personality and too much fun is had for me to give that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 03:12 PM
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Heavily disagree. One of the main problems with abused people is that their sense of what is normal has been twisted. They often view abuse as a normal, even healthy part of a relationship. That's why it sticks. If it happens and the person doesn't think it's normal/healthy they just leave or call the cops. They certainly don't stay, and we just hear about their psycho ex. I think I get why you say this, abused people can be troublesome to deal with when using logic since you can point out 100 e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 03:07 PM
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Yeah your ex doesn't sound the most stable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 03:05 PM
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If it quacks like a duck and waddles like a duck isn't it just a duck?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:56 PM
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I'm sorry /u/PetticoatRuled, but I am now convinced you're some kind of troll designed to make fun of feminism. All of these points are designed to be rage-inducing in the sheer level of ABSOLUTE IGNORANCE displayed and the amount of goal-post shifting and euphemising done to reframe everything as "actually it's worse for women if you take into account X and Y but disregard A, B, and C." I'm an antifeminist and what you post feels literally like a stereotypical ignorant 90s feminist. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:53 PM
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Wanting women and men to hold equal measures of power and not use that power against each other. Everytime I hear that recycled trash I shall post this link until discounted: http://anti-feminism-pro-equality.tumblr.com/post/97170153236/myplaceinfeminism-heres-an-article-about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:48 PM
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Ok manspreading as a crime is ridiculous but 1500 men being arrested = lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:46 PM
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Can confirm the Taylor Swifting. Edit: FYI, guys, downvoting a very innocuous comment like this is really immature and the reason a lot of people have jumped ship on this sub. Aww, I upvoted. 😔 I'll even upvote comments I disagree with, because they made me ponder and think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:45 PM
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Men don't place as much value on status as women. Sure, you don't want someone so bad that you can't show off to your friends, but a cute barista will usually win over a plain doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 06:12 PM
1

In my experience while I have pushed for kinky things, it's been women that have requested the really degrading and power-exchanging dynamics. Men are kinky, but women are freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 04:53 PM
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6 is supposed to be above average. A 6 that wants to fuck 4 times/week is a no-brainer compared to an 8 that does it once/month.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 03:41 PM
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Those are both bad situations. I'm a pretty forgiving guy, but a 3...I think I'd rather just cuddle with a 3, sex would feel like a chore. An 8 is nice, but with a once per month frequency, I don't even see the point in cohabitation. Would let her know that its unacceptable, and would demand a change in the situation (dread, mistresses, etc.). TBH, I'd rather be single than deal with either situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 03:05 PM
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I believe RP asserts that women cannot be rational in regards to their personal situation. They are perfectly capable logicians when it is not a personal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 03:40 AM
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My hospital ride costed about $1000 and I didn't even get a bandaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 07:34 AM
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You don't see BDSM people making bs science claims about how their relationship style is the most optimal and how relationships should be. There's always that one asshole in the community...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 06:45 AM
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If I was more choosy I'd just call myself incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 09:56 PM
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RP exists because average looking guys with average game cannot get average girls...on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 03:03 PM
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Eh, meanwhile a lot of women choose to stay in abusive relationships. I don't know if that's the same thing or even a gendered thing, but there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:20 PM
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No, re-engineering society is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 11:40 AM
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Yeah that sounds good and all, but you just said re-engineering society is the answer in opposition to teaching precaution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 09:48 PM
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Who is going to watch out for you if you don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 09:39 PM
2

Rape is not anywhere as common as manipulation. For both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 09:36 PM
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It's not a practical solution to work for only that. It hasn't worked so far. And should we do nothing else in the meanwhile?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 09:33 PM
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I'm guessing he was a big figure before I started browsing r/mensrights. I'll take a look if I have time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 10:23 PM
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I've been active for more than a year and I've never heard of him. Perhaps I was not as active as you. I was trying to speak as an itinerant browser/contributor, assuming that if I had not heard of someone, they may be important but not particularly popular. At any rate, I'll concede the point since I've gotten a few comments; it appears other people know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 10:22 PM
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Women generally commit violence by proxy: getting a lover or brother to do the dirty work. It's not as if men are in less danger. But where I disagree with you is framing domestic violence, including resulting murders, as a gender issue. It is not. Rates are comparable between men and women. In fact, it can be argued that women commit more violence (possibly due to protection of the law and social customs), but I don't think that's relevant. What is relevant is that while domestic violence affec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 10:20 PM
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I'm trying to be accommodating, but: So you get the choice of just letting it go? Lucky you. You are the problem. You are the reason that when men are battered, no one believes them. You are the reason men get thrown in jail when it was their wives or girlfriends or moms that hit them. You are the reason there are no shelters for men. You are the reason why men just shut up and take it when they get hit, because coming forward just gets them into trouble. You are the boot that steps on men who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 06:36 PM
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Go to the police and get a restraining order. I don't care to get beaten up AND go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 01:03 PM
2

I've never heard of anyone under Paul Elam being a leader of the MRA.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 12:54 PM
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The point is you're picking some random nobody and saying "this is how people view MRAs".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 12:32 PM
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You don't. College chicks are pretty...but not worth the effort. Finding someone lesser is easier to impress, and they don't get saturated in such sheer attention that inflates their self-worth (true or not). I'm not saying you can't score with them, I'm saying it's not worth the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 10:42 AM
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Who the fuck is Dean Esmay? I have never heard of him on all my browsing on r/mensrights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 10:32 AM
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Depends on where as to how much being a Chad helps. Some places its the golden key, other places just a bit too much Chad will get you in massive trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/15 08:54 PM
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Why? I have a strong libido. I don't want my dick running the show, I want my brain doing it. My dick is a total dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/15 08:51 PM
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Gotta be 6' tall with a 6" cock and a 6 figure salary. Men who don't are scum and useless to women.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 06:45 PM
2

Well hellooooooo there~ (Ok, I'm just ⅔.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/15 01:41 PM
1

Usually they get it commercially from modelling agencies/stock photo collections.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 10:10 PM
5

STEM, the ones I were in was biology and computer science. Especially computer science/engineering. Tech companies are DESPERATE to hire female programmers, female technicals, etc. But all they can get is, well, candidates for said administrative and reception positions. It's to the point that the few technical women are overbooked to a hundred different conferences where they need SOME female speaker to meet diversity quotas. I am exaggerating a little, but this is actually a legitimate problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 05:52 PM
3

Maybe if you weren't so drunk you'd stop walking into men's crotches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 12:07 PM
5

Just the rich, privileged ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 09:33 AM
1

Eh, that's most people at this point too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 05:04 AM
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On paper, yes, in action, not a protest is made nor a dollar is spent. They are far to busy dealing with the scourge that is manspreading to worry about something as silly as paternal leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 05:02 AM
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Men in general have no concerns about how they are going to handle family and career. For women, teaching is easier when they have a family than is a STEM career. Men don't even get that option. How many house husbands do you see? Men go into teaching tend to get promoted over women, becoming school principals etc far more easily. I argue that those men are highly qualified in comparison to the peers due to the massive social stigma against men in teaching positions. Those that do stick it out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 05:00 AM
2

I have. I could say that women as individuals have a very strong edge in the technical fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 04:52 AM
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Nah, the other way around. Crazy bitch resulted in him getting fat! Somehow. Depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 04:30 AM
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how did her husband go from looking reasonable to looking like THAT in 8 short years? No idea if it was the cause or consequence, but I'm certain the marriage had something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 02:24 AM
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Unsuccessful men are invisible to women. What do you mean by short? Shorter than you, or shorter than X height?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 02:20 AM
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unknown to all but the most sexually successful men I'm not in that category but just being close friends with an average woman is sometimes enough. It's ridiculous how insane it can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 12:24 AM
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http://anti-feminism-pro-equality.tumblr.com/post/97170153236/myplaceinfeminism-heres-an-article-about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 12:22 AM
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Unsuccessful men are invisible to women. How many short men who weren't able to play their cards quite as well as this Magic guy have failed to meet your attraction quota because they were not tall enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 12:12 AM
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People get tired of lies when the truth wiggles its butt in their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 07:34 AM
3

My dick just retracted itself into my body. I hope you are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 02:09 PM
2

If it's a guy I'm going to see again, sure. But if it's just a random on the bus, why bother? I don't know if he has a weapon. A hospital bill is almost never worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 01:16 PM
1

Uhh, thanks Mr. Bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 01:13 PM
2

Why fight that scrub? Why does he even deserve the attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 01:11 PM
1

Not fat/obese/pudgy?? Top 30% Right now it's more like top 60%. Though it is headed that way. Have a job??? Boom! Top 20% A lot of men, even of my generation, do have jobs. Top 40-50% IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 01:03 PM
3

Interestingly enough double-bagging it makes it more likely to have a condom failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 12:55 PM
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flick my vaginal fluid at everybody That would be hot in a sexy context. In the workplace it's just horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 12:54 PM
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Rape culture does exist. It's called prison, and it was a term invented to describe the flippant dismissal of rape on inmates. It's been co-opted like many other things by feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 07:56 AM
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The mother doesn't automatically get more rights than the father. Ahahahahahahahahah Meanwhile, in reality...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 03:56 AM
3

A good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 01:41 PM
2

I've seen girls having sex with 4 different guys in a single night Why not just have sex with 1 guy 4 times? That seems more efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 12:18 PM
2

KenM is a saint and an inspiration to us all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 07:31 AM
1

And I have no reason to lie on the internet. I gain nothing from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 07:13 AM
1

Ok, but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 07:05 AM
1

Sure. I'm a guy and I've tried to control women with sex. It has worked. Not my proudest feat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 04:32 AM
3

Getting an eating disorder from reading Cosmo seems a bit much, but parents can fuck up your sexuality by distorting your sense of normalcy. I assume it was less advice and more "this is how the world works" with no one else to counteract those ideas about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 04:28 AM
3

I suspect I now know the reason for your username...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 04:23 AM
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A good observation. I have no opinion on who TRP blames since I am not yet educated enough to make an opinion. I suspect though that it doesn't matter for TRP's sake that they are blaming men for being the naïve drunk girl, if that is what they do. TRP seems to care about results more than the method (dread game, emulating alpha, etc.) In that sense victim-blaming would be perfectly fine if it gets these men to achieve better. Whatever it takes, I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 04:21 AM
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The truth hurts. No one wants to be the backup plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 03:51 AM
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They are princesses, in short.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 11:45 PM
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I will not go
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 07:44 PM
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Agree with most of this. Men and women who are violent end up in jail now. Women generally do violence by proxy aka they enlist a man to do the actual gruntwork. This means they escape prosecution more than direct aggressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 06:36 AM
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And also creation. I think its a bit more complicated than "men build/break, women make babies"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 06:33 AM
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Where am I going with this? Given that humans achieve dominance largely through a combination of aggression and application of intellect, rather than brute physicality, probably, male dominance over women came about cause of our elevated tendency to aggression/dominance, via testosterone. Testosterone only has a weak correlation with aggression. Adrenaline and increased musculature probably had more of an effect in promoting aggression than testosterone itself. http://www.sciencedirect.com/scien…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 06:32 AM
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I like to collect my women into a closet. Very convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 04:12 PM
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Feminism is what happens when women think men think like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 11:05 AM
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I pondered this but the envelopes is a good way to make this into a concrete analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 05:10 AM
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No, because it is actively making the recipient of those behaviors less happy. Getting a dental cleaning makes me unhappy. But in the end I'm better off for it. On the other hand, you can choose to not date women with curves, hair dye, piercing and tattoos. Their fashion choices are their own and do not directly affect you. One of those action is an active , the other is a passive. Sure, they are free to make their choices, and I am free to make mine. I have no wish to prevent it outside of usin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 05:02 AM
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Oh whoops, sorry! I really have no idea if as a whole women more ignore or hate omegas. But they do seem invisible, that's for sure. griddy get online!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 11:19 PM
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I didn't say women hated omegas. Just that they were invisible to them. As for the latter, that's possible, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 11:15 PM
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I am starting to honestly believe that omega men are invisible to women. I think omegas tolerate man hate a little better than women hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 11:07 PM
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*legbeards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 11:04 PM
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Feminism doesn't block the way, whiny man children block the way. What a massive delusion. Just stop blaming feminism, and figure out how to get your own life on track, and how to lead other young men with constructive, macho, messages. Sounds a lot like "Man up", doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 11:02 PM
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Yet all male issues are ignored completely. it is absolutely getting worse and it takes major delusion or solipsism not to see it. There is profit to be made in advancing women's issues. When the same happens with men, then the same treatment will occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 10:54 PM
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This sounds like crappy erotica made by a man thinking he knows how a woman thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 08:41 PM
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First of all, I do think that the reason why women don't approach men very much is mostly cultural. You probably disagree with me. Indeed. Women don't approach men for a very simple reason: they don't have to. Face it, rejection sucks, and it's pretty painful the first 100 times. Women can avoid much of that pain by never initiating. Unlike the below-average man, however, a below-average woman will not die a virgin if she never approaches. I don't know of a modern society where women must approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 07:59 PM
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The distribution is different. An average woman can go out to a bar and get laid while an average man has to get lucky. But the big difference is that the total male casual sex drive is a lot larger than the female casual sex drive. RP does state there are indeed men tripping over pussy, but the average single man is not getting the amount of sex he desires. Yes, they can be having the same amount of sex (excluding gays/bisexuals/multi), but the percentage of desire fulfilled is a significantly …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 05:52 AM
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The point of my post was that even a guy with natural advantages is not even in the same league as the average woman. It's not that women have an easier time getting sex, it's more of men are in the desert, women are in the ocean. It would be a false equivalence to take an attractive man and attractive women and say they both get more sex so they are equal. The woman has to do a fraction of the work to get an even better result than a man. I'm not saying having lots of sex is bad, I'm saying its…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 04:29 AM
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Of course, is sex were more 'free', this would likely not be an issue Trickle down sex doesn't work. The only thing that would work is increasing supply or decreasing demand. Mandatory testosterone and/or spiro injections for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 01:06 AM
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If dread game ultimately makes women more attracted to their partners, isn't that giving them exactly what they want? I could say all the same things about feminism. Curves, hair dye, piercings, and tattoos have all been ruined for me because of it. The amount of fat chicks with shitty piercings and a buzzcut continues to increase. And they still get just enough attention to validate their choices. At the very least you can usually choose to disengage with TRPers. Feminism, depending on where yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 01:01 AM
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I will bet on 1/100, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 12:54 AM
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Because one requires some work and effort, while the other does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 12:51 AM
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When men use their advantages to have lots of sex, they're spinning plates and being alpha. When women use their advantages to have lots of sex, they're riding the cock carousel. False equivalence, because: Women have an easier time having sex on average, sure. They do not have just an easier time obtaining sex. It is at least 2 orders of magnitude difference. Even an ugly single mom will get propositioned far more than an Average Joe. That is why women are judged for being sluts. It's easy, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 12:48 AM
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violence is treated as good and glorified Who does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 08:56 AM
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It's great that you are cognizant of it! But if you can't fix it, that's what help is for. If you need to bus/drive or even move somewhere more populated where you can actually get the help that you need. Don't just accept being broken, it's not living life to the fullest. We are only brief, tiny specks on this rock, so make the most of what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 06:17 AM
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To be honest, crying, praying, and watching a shit ton of porn might make you feel better, but it won't actually resolve the situation. If it's mortifying to discuss, then maybe you need to talk about it with someone who is trained to help walked you through your thoughts and feelings. Even if you do find out you are in fact asexual, maybe you can at least get some relief/closure. You can find out what's normal for you. I say this because in every case where a woman has told me she dislikes sex,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 06:12 AM
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What about a doctor and his financial advisor?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 06:08 AM
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Yes, but it's going to be a major issue in your life. If you do want a romantic relationship/family/kids, not experiencing sexual attraction will be a major dealbreaker for most men. It's going to be painful to talk about, but it's going to be a more painful life to leave it unresolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 06:03 AM
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However, in about the same time period puberty kinda hit me like a freight train, as I was a very late bloomer (read: boobs and hips were suddenly a thing). Despite my size suddenly men were commenting on my attractiveness, and wanting to be in a sexual relationship (in the case of my ex, VERY sexual relationship) with me. Puberty hit, that's different. Most men are not attracted to prepubescent females. A lot of men will hit on anything that's hittable, and once you have boobs and hips you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:58 AM
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In a relationship I'd like to feel loved, obviously, but I don't any "game" or similar mind tricks pulled on me. Love is a game. If it's a cheesy mind trick, you'll see right through it. If it's a good mind trick, he probably believes it himself. And if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, isn't it also a duck at that point? I don't want to be treated as less than a rational adult, or as "the most responsible teenager in the house" as many RPers put it. This notion comes from the idea wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:52 AM
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Have you seen a doctor/therapist about this? (Not one that just brushes it off.) Actual asexuality is pretty rare, so you might want to make sure everything is in working order physically and psychologically before you write sex off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:48 AM
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Actually believe it or not I got treated better as I gained weight. I got my first incidents of men desiring me sexually and wanting to be in a relationship with me during and at the completion of my weight gain. That is odd because at this point not being fat and having a vagina puts you at least at average in attractiveness, barring any obvious visual deformities. Can you elaborate on your situation? I want to be treated equally because I am a person with thoughts and feelings who is worthy of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:45 AM
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Misogyny is treating a woman like you'd treat a man. Why do you want to be treated equally? Why do you worry if you are being treated equally? You might have noticed people treating you differently as you gained weight. Attractiveness pays a big part in how you are treated, especially as a woman. In that aspect you were never treated as equal, for better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 05:37 AM
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Stop objectifying men, ok? /s sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 08:53 PM
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Well it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 09:52 AM
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The closest group I can think of to that is traditionalist MRAs, but I believe most MRAs are liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 08:04 PM
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For once the Catholic Church and I agree on something.
/r/MensRights01/11/15 05:50 AM
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Gender norms get you laid. Breaking out of the box does not, at least not until it's profitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 12:20 AM
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Easier than getting taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 09:03 AM
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It counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 07:58 PM
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I will do that if they aren't being assertive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:17 PM
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People commit suicide because they're mentally unwell! Society doesn't care about suicides. They think they're worthless, and that's not gender-specific, it's on an individual basis. They are worthless. According to society, men have no inherent value. Men bottle everything up because they can't talk about how they feel. And if they do, they're ridiculed. And how are men not considered to be able to be raped due to "feminist propaganda" as you described? That doesn't make any sense. What about m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 10:11 AM
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Not All High Schooler Are Like That
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 07:33 AM
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Restore healthy role models of masculinity. Most incels have failed at becoming men. They need a path with a light to get them on their way. What heterosexual woman wants a failed man? I doubt most incels can get her wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 03:25 PM
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If all women lower in SMV, then nothing will change. Women will just become uglier but still maintain the same standards. Look at the obesity rates in the West. Even fat chicks are keeping high standards, just look at any online dating site.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 03:22 PM
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He does not believe he has low T, doesn't want it checked and also thinks viagra will not work on him. Sounds like a lot of excuses and being in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 08:56 PM
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I love this guy so I can't just leave him over this Sure you can also it's been three years so there is an element of sunk cost as well Sunk cost fallacy of course He also has issues beyond his control causing the ED so he's not doing it on purpose. It would be cruel of me to leave him over something he can't control. He can control doing something about it, such as going to the doctor, getting a prescription, using toys, using devices, using techniques, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 08:54 PM
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No. They say don't show weakness publicly. They do say to minimize your weaknesses as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 10:16 AM
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TRP breeds the mindset that you should not acknowledge weakness. Well, yeah, isn't this a good idea? Society spits on you for doing this. A weak man is mocked and derided. It's the same concept as animals that hide their injuries so as not to be kicked out of the pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:37 AM
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Illuminati confirmed!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 03:54 PM
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male social groups. This helps immensely and can cause de-betaization.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 03:51 PM
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Absolute agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 05:17 PM
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Maybe something in between? Maybe it depends on the person? I too hate ONS but I can see the appeal in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:56 PM
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Holy shit I can't imagine saying in public the most fucked up shit I did to a CAMERA. It's like they were drunk...but they were just high on the vibes, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:54 PM
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Lack of attention? Sure, but this isn't disgust. Disrespect? Not more than anyone else. Will women make a beeline for their crush at the party? Sure. So will men. I agree that I don't think women are disgusted by the presence of a beta man. They might be disgusted by being approached by one. ("Sorry but I have a boyfriend." «Lie.») They often are with an omega. ("What a creep!")
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:48 PM
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What beta characteristics do you think women may find sexually appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:43 PM
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There is just not a high enough benefit/cost ratio for women. Yes there is. Who doesn't want hot, kinky sex? A lot of people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:32 PM
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The study only showed for one previous mate I believe. I also don't know the timescale but I doubt its indefinite. Regardless, genetic variety in itself is not necessarily beneficial. Plus, you are ignoring the costs of fucking as many men as possible. The number one is probably that you lose your current man which would have improved your chances of successful reproduction massively, far more than some added genetic variation would give.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:37 PM
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There's basically a new female pedophile every week posted in r/mensrights
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:31 PM
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but that means its possible in humans
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:25 PM
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If a man's best chance at passing on his genes is trying to inseminate as many women as possible, then a women's best chance (of having healthy and surviving offspring) would be getting inseminated as much as possible, since more genetic diversity leads to higher chance of strength and survival. Women can only do it every 9 months at a significant fitness cost. Men can do it in 15 minutes and maybe he's a little sore. This leads to different optimal mating strategies. But it also sounds like if …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:17 PM
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Did you read it? It actually says: Our results show that it is possible for a male to transmit features of his phenotype via non-genetic semen-borne factors to his mate's subsequent offspring sired by another male. Yes, it's just flies, but that means its possible in humans too. I would in fact be surprised if this didn't occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 07:47 PM
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Help me to understand; is the idea that the semen of previous partners has somehow stayed inside the woman? No. Is it suggesting that the woman's DNA has changed in itself because of the exposure? Possible but thats not what matters, its her eggs that matter. From the paper: Our results show that it is possible for a male to transmit features of his phenotype via non-genetic semen-borne factors to his mate's subsequent offspring sired by another male.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 07:45 PM
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Why do we think we love someone? Is it not just electrical circuits and hormones in the brain that give the conscious feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 07:39 PM
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Make a list of everything you do for your SO. Now have her do the same. Congratulations, you have reduced it to a transaction. Doesn't mean it's suddenly worth less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 07:38 PM
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Did you even read the rest of the comment thread? She did kinky shit with you after you showered her with gifts and affection and promised to lover her forever and ever. That's not what this comment thread said. Showering a girl with gifts, even in my most beta of beta moments, was never a plan in my mind--how the hell does material stuff on its own get someone to fall in love with you? She did even kinkier shit with Chad Unlikely, 1) I'm not some 50 Shades of Grey wannabe and 2) in my experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 07:34 PM
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Women get shit for that too. That doesn't matter, because you asked: Give me an example how a man is shamed for being useless to women. If you want one that's male-specific, it's "man up," and it's used by both men and women. Plenty of people have no problem telling a woman that she has gained weight and a lot of the treads on /r/relationship are about how men have lost sexual attraction to their wife because of her weight gain. That's not shaming, unless their husbands are telling her "wow what…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:51 PM
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Have you gone to therapy? It sounds like this has been a major issue for you. I won't make any claims that there is love out there, but you don't have to hurt, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:44 PM
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God you date awful girls Probably It's on him to be as impressive as possible, prove he will be useful, and take the responsibility for her inevitable shitty behavior. But this is also true. When a man initiates divorced, we asked how he fucked up. When a woman initiates divorced, we ask again how he fucked up. I have met a lot of women who thought that showing up late to the first date was all the work they had to do. I had to ask them out (initially very tough when learning to deal with reject…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:41 PM
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Being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:34 PM
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I probably would, TBH, if the female slut-shaming didn't get to me. Depends if I have male or female sexuality though. In the latter case, I probably wouldn't bother and be completely blue pill. In the former? Break out the miniskirts, the makeup, and the heels. We riding this carousel all the way to Alphatown.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:26 PM
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I'm not one to write off "hot girls" simply for being hot I agree here. For example, some of them chose to get hotter by working on themselves and now they are a 9. Smart move, I'd say. still "high-maintenance", because they demand equal value (at least) from their partners, which means you have to always be at the top of your game if you aren't a "natural" 9 or 10 yourself. Also agree, at least in the case where being a 9 or 10 yourself is not just the result of your natural tendencies. Otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:22 PM
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Viewing relationships as economic transactions is fucked up and went out with the concept of the "dowager". If you actually want someone to love you for you, why do you continue to assess relationships as if you were buying a fucking house? Love and economics do not play well together. Try getting into business with your best friend if you don't believe me. What about a car? You can boil a car down to numbers: horsepower, brake torque, mpg, weight, coefficient of drag, number of cupholders, etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:17 PM
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What's the problem in reducing it to a transaction? Yes, a six-figure salary for natural d-cups is a shit deal. But what if I traded my 10" cock (no it's not actually that big) for her natural DD breasts? She gets cock, I get boobs, win win. Modeling photographs for a blowjob? Ehhhh, only if I get to use the photos in a portfolio. Stability for a woman? Maybe she cleans. That's stability too. Just because it can be reduced to a transaction doesn't mean there still isn't love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:14 PM
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I'm polyamorous, so I have a different perspective on this than most people, but this seems like kind of an insane worry. I suspect you do. I have poly tendencies in that I really don't care if my partner is fucking someone else as long as they keep fucking me. And well. Outside of that, not going to bother giving a shit. But I think most men do not feel the same as I do, and it makes sense from a genetics standpoint that I am the outlier here. I think its not insecurity, it's something else, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:09 PM
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she turned out to be a virgin Meh, I've still had luck on this front. Took a good amount of work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:05 PM
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9s are ridiculously high-maintenance as a rule. Many can't converse. Some are genuinely women with depth, but not too many. I suspect it's because they don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:04 PM
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same quality sex Where does this thinking come from? I've done some really kinky shit with the vast majority of my partners and I am certainly no Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 04:02 PM
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What's wrong with average? Better to aim high, yes, but honestly I don't want to put that much effort into my romantic life, I have other things that take priority for me. If she can consistently get me hard and does the same kinky shit I do is that not good enough? If I could spend twice as much time for a 6 vs. 7 women, I probably wouldn't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:59 PM
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Sometimes a fuck is just a fuck. Maybe a woman is used to getting sex, it's Valentine's day, and why the fuck don't I have a man tonight. Source: I was that low status man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:55 PM
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I disagree. It is absolutely irrational self delusion. But I also believe that is what she believes. I believe strongly that there is an inherent ability in many humans to find someone more attractive despite physical features due to other aspects of the relationship having experienced it myself. I see no reason why many women do not do this, and in fact I suspect they do it to a larger extent. I also think you're trying to apply logic to something that is inherently illogical and makes no claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:53 PM
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Epigenetics is an exploding field of research. If it happens in flies, it almost certainly happens in humans: there are evolutionary advantages to it such as environmental pre-adaptation. Even a 1% advantage in fitness for an organism will cause an absolute explosion to near-saturation of the gene-pool of the casual gene.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:47 PM
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That's a good way of thinking of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:44 PM
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War is such a massive subject. I'm currently reading the A-10C manual for DCS. It's 671 pages for a simulated Warthog. 99% of that info is useless in any other realm besides ground attack/close air support roles. Certainly nothing that could be used in a gender war. Unless there was an army of women in up-armored SUVs armed with pepperspray and poor driving skills. What books has he read? I think the idea of a physical "War of the Sexes" or some kind of male genocide is a bit ridiculous (without…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:36 PM
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I can't speak for redpill though I do suspect there is a big overlap between them and "the end is nigh" folks. I do not think they are actively trying to bring about this end in any meaningful way, but many of them do sound like they are anticipating it. I agree in the sense that the current situation is untenable. I disagree in the severity of the outcome. Also, the Art of War is a very light read and can be done in 30 minutes. It's meant to open your mind a bit and get you started on very gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:24 PM
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I was thinking of a dirty, grimy place. Not when you're already worked up by the partner of your choice, that's cheating! I suspect women also cool down slower than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 12:16 AM
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Is it combination of factors that get you in the mood (ignoring hormonal changes)? The environment? The right person? What combination? (Would you do it on an empty bus)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:45 PM
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he'll do... HE WILL DO. That was puberty for me. Except with "she". Edit: and the rest of life too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:28 PM
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Actually I kind of get where you are coming from. I'm a straight guy and I like it when butt stuff gets done to me. But I'm not always in the mood for that. If that is what was needed for me to be horny...oh god that's so incredibly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 11:26 PM
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