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| 2 | Any motivating quotes?“If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present.” -Lao Tzu | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 07:52 PM |
| 1 | My one 'hack' to getting good with women.This link is an excellent TED talk that highlights what you are talking about: https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are?language=en | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 01:08 PM |
| 11 | My one 'hack' to getting good with women.Honestly, this quote is my holy grail of getting in the right mindset when it comes to seduction: “If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present.” - Lao Tzu Basically, one's fears, anxieties, and views on social acceptance of others can be brushed away if you simply be in the moment. Once you truly believe and focus yourself on the moment, you begin to react on your gut and based on your good mo… | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 07:45 PM |
| 3 | [FR]Act before you can talk yourself out of itI have the same issues as you. Today, I've tried to journal my thoughts and my ideas towards myself and others and I believe I finally cracked the root of my problem when it comes to this that I will share: I fear the opinions of others around me outside of a work setting. For example, approaching someone cold in a group, mall, etc. scares me because I immediately begin thinking about the opinions of others. For example, if I were to talk to a women sitting by herself, my gut would say to approa… | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Everything is smooth at first, then goes down in flames.It almost seems like you're not making your intentions clear enough. Going off on what you mentioned, you just decided to talk to her. With just the intent of talking in mind, you did great! However, if you wanted more than just to talk to her, you needed to escalate the conversation like grabbing her number. Instead, you parted ways for the day, and all that was accomplish was talking. Fast forward to your next encounter, and you want to talk to her again. However, you both know that you have t… | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to smile at women?A good thing to do is smile back but depending on how far she is away from you, simply look at her forehead or between her eyes. It sounds like you simply don't want to show flirtatious body language or your not self-confident enough to look a girl in the eyes. This is an easy way to look towards her without looking into her eyes. | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Questions on approachingIn reality, approaching is how attraction works in the first place. The next step is approaching can happen anywhere you find an attractive girl. See a pretty girl? Go approach her and just say hey I think your pretty or something creative. This all depends on where you are and your self-esteem level but the reality is, YOU have to be the one approaching. What would you rather have happen. Would you rather tell yourself that you can't talk to her and reject yourself before anything happens, or j… | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 01:29 PM |
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