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| 1 | Kansas University research into flirting methods (plus quiz to assess your flirting style) | SgtPsycho | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 01:17 AM |
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| 1 | Having trouble finding gamer/nerdy girls.I understand what you're saying and agree, but in this environment, the women are not there to be picked up, they are there to have fun (hopefully). Bars and clubs are different, everyone knows what the game is, and if they don't want to participate, they don't go there. Tie that in with the anonymity of people online, where they can indulge in crass and childish behaviour that wouldn't be tolerated IRL, and the stereotypically low social/communication skills of your average gamer/nerd, and you'… | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble finding gamer/nerdy girls.Try this: Create a female character in an online game, let me known that you are in fact a female. Find out how long you can last being hit on continuously, having people fawn on you, or juts generally hang around and hassle you. From what I've read in blogs and articles, this is one of the main turn-offs for online gaming for women. Also, at a lan gaming event one, this girl turned up. She was quite hot and an excellent player. Unfortunately, she was soon surrounded (literally) by desperate tee… | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Having trouble finding gamer/nerdy girls.I tried this. At one point gaming was my entire world, I lived and breathed it. Built my own rigs, was involved in organising state comps, etc. Logically, yes, because it was such a large part of my life, I wanted a partner who would appreciate and be involved in that part of my life. Gaming is pretty impenetrable to outsiders, as I'm sure you know. In fact there was an article a while ago that listed computer gaming 'addiction', along with drunkenness and violent abuse as the top three most dis… | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Kansas University research into flirting methods (plus quiz to assess your flirting style)Study is Hall, J. A., Carter, S., & Cody, M. J. (in press). Individual differences in the communication of romantic interest: Development of the flirting styles inventory. Communication Quarterly. ...I have not been able to find the article (or abstract) online yet. | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Pretend you're a cook. Throw a bar of dark chocolate into boiling water...I think it's an ingenious and quick method, which would work well (for it's limitations) I'm not sure about your country but in mine almost everything is plastic/foil wrapped, even fresh fruit and lettuce. I think the only things that aren't are dry goods like flour, sugar, etc. That said, I really think erotic food play is outside the scope of seduction because preparing dessert predicates one of two things: either you are doing this at your house (with her as a guest) or she has invited you to… | /r/seduction | 13/10/10 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Pretend you're a cook. Throw a bar of dark chocolate into boiling water...I think he's talking about the wrapper around the bar. Once the chocolate inside melts, the wrapper will sag, be floppy and be bag-like. I'm guessing he's suggesting rolling it up using the tines of a fork, kind of like you would try to get all the toothpaste out of it's tube. Personally, I think it's not that much extra effort to do it properly. Get yourself some real chocolate (from a confectioner, not the store). Put a ceramic bowl on top of a pot of simmering (not boiling) water, and put cho… | /r/seduction | 13/10/10 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Why are gay guys attractive to girls?Friends tell me that the girls still fuck him sober Doesn't sound all that gay to me, much more bisexual. That said, the Kinsey scale isn't binary... | /r/seduction | 11/10/10 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit- what's the best cologne to buy now? Looking for something subtle, not overpowering.If a salesperson is getting pushy seconds after letting you try a scent, they are failing in their job. You need to let it mature for at least an hour before assessing how it works for you. This is also a sign you're in the wrong store, most likely a department store with emphasis on high sales. A specialist perfumery is the way to go. The sales people should be committed to the job, enthusiastic about their product and interested in finding you a scent that you enjoy and works for you. | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Gentlemen, I present to you Seddit's Weekly Challenge #1I'm guessing lower entries on the HB scale. Does this challenge count if you regularly discuss clothing, shoes and accessories with women? | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkwardBest reply so far. I've followed a similar approach, not to game, but for self-improvement. In your opener, have a plan. Where does it lead? Be genuine about it, as insincerity shows. As presidentender says, show your interest, and if they return that interest (and who doesn't like talking about themselves?) this leads to conversation. Using exactly this method, I chatted up a cashier, complimenting her on her scarf and asking where she go it as I know someone who would also love it. She got a g… | /r/seduction | 15/09/10 12:24 AM |
| 11 | Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkwardMost likely you didn't trip their gaydar, so they assumed you were in there to socialise, not hook up. Also as you'd know, if you're with friends that makes you less approachable. | /r/seduction | 15/09/10 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Should I stop referring newbies to DW's post about asking for advice in advance?Small anecdote to your analogy: I am helping train my young nephew to ride his bike and after the first lesson the first thing I did was remove his training wheels. He was relying on them all the time, and not bothering to learn how to ride properly. By taking them off, it was much more dangerous, but also he was more successful in riding. He hasn't been hurt too much, and he was almost immediately able to coast while balancing. When he gets it wrong and comes off, I'm sure he is learning all th… | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Should I stop referring newbies to DW's post about asking for advice in advance?Actually, speaking on behalf of/as a beginner, I can say that "just be confident" is a valid tactic when starting out. If you're not self-confident, then projecting self-confidence can build it in a feedback cycle as you 'win'. The more confident you feel, the more confident you act, so you become even more so. You have to start somewhere. Yes, you will fail, but you can learn from those failures, and in fact it is essential that you fail, so you do learn from those failures. I've been working o… | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 12:30 AM |
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