ShAd0wS Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	What do you guys define as success with women? Success is whatever you want it to be. If you just wanted to fuck your friend then it was a success, if you were looking for a relationship it was a failure. Same for the rest of your points. There is no common definition of success, and you shouldn't be comparing how you've done to others. If you are happy with how you've done then its a success, no one else's opinion on it matters (well except for showing social credit... but you aren't getting that off of reddit).	/r/seduction	30/09/11 04:21 PM
1	Help Getting a Girl Asking her friend is a terrible idea. Unless she is more your friend then hers she will tell her, and it will just kill any chance of building attraction unless she is already madly in love with you and just waiting for you to make any semblance of a move. Protip: she isn't. Be confident. Ask her to be your date to some event or something, and don't be awkward about it or try to qualify why you are asking her, just straight up ask her.	/r/seduction	30/09/11 04:18 PM
2	Is it smart to strike while the iron his hot, or leave and quit when you're ahead? you will have a lot of girls who will give you their number one night and then not text back the next day. It could be they weren't attracted to you and just gave you their number so as not to be rude. It could be they wanted to give you their number at the time, but then in the morning changed their minds. It could be they were really drunk and barely remember you. It really could be just about anything... but don't worry about, its not you, it happens to everyone. I've had girls go out of thei…	/r/seduction	01/11/10 08:47 PM
2	How do you rate your own looks? Had a girl drop "Hey are you from Tenessee? "Why?" "Cuz your the only ten I see" On me last weekend. Solid 8.	/r/seduction	29/10/10 06:05 AM
2	Anything but clothes bubble wrap (the industrial stuff) is always fun, though id definitely prefer that on girls. Or there is the option of the bed sheet toga.	/r/seduction	13/10/10 04:11 AM
1	How do I escalate with a teetotal girl? When I drink it's game on, especially if Ive only had enough where it just makes me more outgoing, better at kino, etc. Shitfaced me obviously isn't getting anywhere. Though I was quite surprised at the texting game a few nights ago that blackout me had. But yeah, when I'm high my game is non existent... I think the best game I've ever put on a girl while high was leaning against her on a couch to stop from falling over.	/r/seduction	06/10/10 10:47 PM
27	From hot to cold, what did I do wrong? Yeah... I read this and sortof double-taked since it seemed like you were doing well up to that point. If the girl invites herself over... she wants to at a bare minimum make out with you. You don't do at least that = your fucked (well... not fucked). Oh, and hugs? unless you are escalating upwards hugs are never a good sign. A hug to end the night is basically her saying LJBF right there.	/r/seduction	27/09/10 06:02 PM
3	I cannot attract a woman, which makes me feel bad about myself, which makes me even more unattractive. How am I supposed to stop feeling bad about myself, and gain self-confidence? work out. Seriously, even if you are already in decent shape, hit the gym, or figure out some kind of workout schedule you can keep at home and do it. Whether you actually noticeably gain muscles or not, working out will make you feel better about yourself, and you really need to gain self confidence from yourself, not from external validation.	/r/seduction	22/09/10 07:26 PM
3	Need some advice on initiating makeout sessions on the dance floor. One method I've had pretty good luck with is whispering "Hey (insert name here)" in her ear, and when she turns her head around, you turn your head in and kiss her. Neck / Face kissing when you haven't actually kissed her on the lips yet... awkward.	/r/seduction	19/09/10 04:07 PM
2	This wasn't my University, but the same thing has happened twice at my University... Ah Uconn... going there i get all kinds of "emergency reports" which generally turn into really stupid things. During the past summer they sent out an emergency bulletin looking for a runaway kid to everyone... when no one was actually on campus.	/r/MensRights	17/09/10 05:33 PM
2	Any tips on maintaining a "Friends with benefits" situation? ah option B... friends with benefits is fairly likely to turn into a trainwreck in the end, but its usually one hell of a ride.	/r/seduction	16/09/10 10:18 PM
0	Please help! Honestly. by the time she finds out that you live at home, you should have already put up enough game where it doesn't matter. As long as you don't apologize for living at home, or act ashamed of it, she shouldn't be deterred.	/r/seduction	16/09/10 12:19 AM
1	"The Game" made me worse with women. Anybody else like me? At that point, you have to just chill out. Im not an expert PUA by any means, but if you are comfortable with game, it shouldn't be something that you have to concentrate on to the extent that you aren't even enjoying it. Just relax, let it come naturally to you, and it should actually help, because forced delivery of dhv isn't going to be nearly as effective as a relaxed guy who shows confidence. Odds are if you are that anxious then some of the anxiety is showing through, and whether the girl …	/r/seduction	15/09/10 04:36 AM