Shabompistan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Male Dating Isn't Getting Worse. It's Returning To It's Historic Past People always seem to forget the fact that "eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap". And we wonder were male disposability comes from. Nature don't give a damn about our ethics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/20 03:49 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 October 2020) Why do you expect us to speak for people who are long dead? I don't have a clue what was going on in their minds. The world was different then, let alone trying to consider thousands of different cultures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/20 03:06 PM
2	Hey Incels. What’s your excuse? You address something I find very interesting, and it often does not get discussed here. I refer to it as the "interest gap". Speaking on bell curves, women and men typically like different things. It's pretty easy to identify male dominated and female dominated jobs/hobbies/activities. Many people bond over shared interests and experiences. As I have gained experience on the dating market, it turns out these shared interests are not very common. I say this as a woman in a male dominated field w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/20 02:36 PM
8	Do y’all like women? This is a big “your mileage may vary” moment for me. I’m a degreed engineer in an incredibly male dominated industry. I have been surrounded by men for most of my adult life. I have many quality friendships with guys where they never act like thirsty orbiters and know proper boundaries. Maybe the intent is there somewhere, but if it is, it is well hidden. And I’m okay with that. There’s probably some class/education level factors influencing this, I would assume.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 12:45 PM
-1	This sub shouldn’t be ‘Us vs Them’ I don't exactly consider myself a feminist but I am a woman so obviously I care about our equality/rights. I support things that typical feminists don't such as financial abortion, custody court reform, and selective service for everyone. I like browsing this subreddit, it's the main way I learn more about the issues men experience. It gives me good insight into issues I'm not aware about. I firmly believe that the two movements can shed the extremists and meet in the middle for the sake of egal…	/r/MensRights	07/08/20 11:53 AM
2	Do people underestimate how much society's lack of proper raising of boys leads to most of the problems that get brought up here, particularly in regards to the proper utilization of the male ego? It really comes down to the comparison of severity between issues faced by each demographic. Men complain about solid issues with solid numbers behind it. Things such as workplace deaths and such. Women complain about soft issues like not being treated well in the workplace or sometimes issues that are misinterpretations of data. And then they wonder why they aren't being taken seriously. I know it's pretty anger inducing, but at this point I just take it as complaining. No matter how privileged…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 11:33 AM
5	Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route? Those of us who go into STEM are very financially independent. I’ve got a great career and live on my own. However I still like having a boyfriend because men are like.... nice to be around. Fun to chat with, have lots of interesting experiences, very chill etc. And of course, sex is cool too, so that’s like...an added bonus. But not really what drives me. Apparently I’m weird for thinking that here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 08:46 PM
14	Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route? So I guess just liking men for who they are as friends or companions is totally out of the question?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 07:21 PM
1	Most Hated Male Member "Nah. Women dont deserve rights" -Rambo Hoodie Love/hate relationship though because I really appreciate the direct answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 05:11 AM
1	professional women are basically gay men Every time someone makes a post here describing professional women I'm honestly flabbergasted. I know maybe 2 women who may fit some of the aspects of the Instagram thot/hypergamy archetype in my workplace. I don't get it. Maybe it's because I work in STEM, I dunno.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/20 04:17 AM
8	The notion that you should enjoy your 20s and then maybe think about settling down in your 30s has destroyed society Being a career woman is a bad idea because you're wasting your fertile years anyway, regardless of whether you're having lots of uncommitted sex or not. Bold of you to assume career women want children. Pretty sure most people know that you have to make sacrifices in your career for children. And you can still find quality LTRs if you work anything close to a normal job. It's not that hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 05:14 PM
4	Trans men are women and trans women are men So I'm a super butch woman to the point where my mom thought I was trans at some point. The way it was described to me was that trans people actually feel like they don't fit into their biological body. Like, their brain is disoriented/confused because they don't have the correct secondary sex characteristics. I forget exactly what this was called, body dismorphia or something? When I researched into this, I realized I was not sad/disgusted by the fact I had boobs and stuff, so therefore I was n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 07:04 AM
3	Are there attractive non religious young women who aren't addicted to Instagram? Never really been called autistic before, but you are entitled to your preferences!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 02:58 AM
3	For Woman who want to, or are struggling to lose weight. 100% support. Intermittent fasting is the best. It's the only thing that kept me from getting fat in college. And I was doing it without even realizing it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 02:54 AM
4	Are there attractive non religious young women who aren't addicted to Instagram? From what I've learned is that most guys on PPD would love engineer girls. Every time I see a post about female nature I'm like "nobody I know does that." Then I remember I really only hang around chill STEM types, so what do I know? Problem is they aren't too many of us, and we are almost always in a LTR due to an abundance of options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 02:48 AM
2	PPD women Well let's look at our options: 1. Investing in proper sexual education and birth control to prevent the high cost of unwanted children Investing in garbage bins for babies Both are valid strategies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 02:18 AM
2	Describe your ideal man Probably Adam Driver or something IDK. Somebody who's definitely very attractive but not like god-tier attractive. Intelligent, thoughtful, and will play video games with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 12:16 AM
1	PPD women Fine with me, that's why health insurance is a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 11:48 PM
2	What do you do for work? Engineer at a power plant, mostly exist to troubleshoot rotating equipment. While I do enjoy engineering, I'm hoping to get into a role with more field experience, like a non-destructive testing tech or a pump mechanic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 11:45 PM
1	Women without makeup are just ugly boys I've never worn makeup my entire life save for my high school prom. That being said, I do pretty well for myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 11:37 PM
5	PPD women I'll never understand the argument against easy access to birth control from any side. Like, does either gender want less sex overall? Cause that's how you do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 11:19 PM
3	Are you part of the 91% that find rape erotic? Vegeta... she wants Vegta to rape her... Damn like I understand how he's attractive but holy hell some girls take it way too far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 07:39 PM
1	Has anyone played Arkham Horror the board game? I played Eldrich too, I could really only get my serious board game nerd friends to play it. Couldn't really keep more casual people's interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 06:19 AM
1	How screwed are submissive guys ? Natural female doms are out there but not common. So yeah, kinda screwed. Problem is doms tend to more aggressive and male brained (butch) so they aren't exactly the pinnacle of feminine beauty. I seem to do pretty well though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 06:11 AM
2	Are you part of the 91% that find rape erotic? Only if I'm the perpetrator. But let's be real, what defines a "rape" fantasy? Most fantasies that have been described to me involve the victim having some sort of control since, well, it's their fantasy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 04:51 AM
3	Guys don't know what they want. Make up your mind men Such candid honesty. Memes and shitposts are great but honestly I just want to see huge no filter rambles about why y'all hate women so much. It is truly fascinating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 04:31 AM
2	I need feminism because I want to be house husband lmao ! If I cared about kids I would totally be okay with that arrangement. Homemaker is an important role and a guy who truly has a passion for it is not at all unattractive. Hell, I could see a lot of guys be better at it than some women because they tend to be a bit more handy around the house. Of course this is coming from an aggressively independent career woman so take that as you will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/20 02:25 AM
1	Woman who play video games are fucked in the head. TIL I am completely and utterly fucked in the head. Nice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 04:28 AM
4	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? Just curious, what would be your ideal system of marriage/divorce in the case of children? What most of the people here are getting at is that the legal pooling of resources through state marriage is beneficial to the upbringing of your children. Without a prenup, the marriage contract for the man is that he will still be partially responsible for his children even in the case of divorce. Is this wrong? Where is the line drawn? Who is "at fault"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 03:42 AM
1	Men having bigger mass and muscles is not the only reason men are stronger than women That being said, what do y'all think is the best way to defend yourself against a larger and stronger opponent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 12:39 AM
9	Discussion: Would women appreciate it if men looked at them less? So are women getting upset that men are simply looking at them now? What? I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing. Is this like long leering stares lasting minutes at a time or just a glance at someone while you walk past them, or making eye contact when talking? Or just straight up catcalling and verbal harassment. Some of these are perfectly okay and some of these are not. You don't have to go to any extremes here like never making eye contact. What ever happened to treating women like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/20 02:53 PM
8	Feminists: Female conscription is a "misunderstanding of gender equality". \| Feminists have mastered the art of doublethink when it comes to female privilege. but there will be some things men are called upon to do and some things that women will be called upon to do. We do need to recognize that fact and honor those who meet those obligations, but we can't pretend like the sexes are the same. I think this is important when considering the draft. Not everyone in the military serves active combat roles and men/women would not be drafted as such. Sure, men fit better in the physically taxing positions and there will definitely be a need for those. Howev…	/r/MensRights	22/04/20 05:00 PM
1	Japanese woman to white women I was attempting to interpret it and was asking if I was correct.	/r/MensRights	20/02/20 12:32 AM
-8	Japanese woman to white women I don't really understand the point of this fact and why people keep bringing it up. It's a well known fact that men have a physical advantage over women in sports. They have better strength and endurance, even in their teenage years. That's just biology. So.... the point is that men are advantaged in sports I guess? Nothing really controversial there.	/r/MensRights	19/02/20 07:48 PM
1	CMV: Women are jealous of lifting. I am very jealous of the male physique, if that's what OP means. I've fell off of weightlifting routines several times by rationalizing that I'll never get the strength of a man no matter how hard I work, so why fight against genetics?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 03:22 PM
1	Erectile Dysfunction - Women blaming porn for that On the bright side, more advanced progestin-only birth controls (implant, IUD etc) have shown no evidence of excretion into the water system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 03:10 PM
3	Why do you think feminists enjoy submissive fantasies? chemical humiliation rush Is this a thing? If it is, it sounds fascinating. Where can I read more about this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 07:20 PM
1	It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDS Guess I misread. Outside the context of children, guys love the fact I am man chick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 06:02 PM
2	It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDS Childfree and not married. I cohabit fine with a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 05:45 PM
8	It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDS Respectfully disagree. Am man chick and I have never had problems with finding relationships/sexual partners ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 05:30 PM
1	Voluntary Acknowledgement of Paternity Human males have anti-cuckolding routines built in. This fascinates me. I've never seen any data or anything, but my own experience suggest men have way stronger cuckolding instincts than women. Most men I have asked are staunchly against adopting a child, while most women I have asked said they would be cool with adoption. Wanting to pass on you're genetics so badly is foreign to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/20 08:37 PM
3	The Bem Sex Role Inventory - Where do you stand ? M = 119 F = 94 Birth sex = Female Pill=Purple Unsurprising, always been butch. Test seems kind of short for having such specific questions like burning things with a magnifying glass. there could be people who like destroying things but just never did that particular action. Needs to cover a little more stuff in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/19 04:08 PM
5	If you were a young girl (18-25) would you choose to build a career? Half man, half incel, half cope, obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/19 06:58 PM
6	Can women fill the productive void left by men? I get that. Averages are a thing. But it hits a sore spot for me that people will assume women are just not as good at STEM if they choose to be in the field. As an engineer, there are women in my workplace who are just as passionate and competent-if not more- as the men. Of course the population ratio is very much skewed towards men and it probably always will be. But it's infuriating that some guys will assume you're some empty headed bimbo who somehow stumbled her way through engineering scho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/19 09:33 PM
9	Can women fill the productive void left by men? Of course, no woman has ever done anything exceptional throughout human history. We're all a hive mind, after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/19 06:17 PM
2	If women followed a few common sense rules, the incidence of rape and sexual assault would go way down I am a woman working in engineering. It is literally impossible to avoid being alone at some point with a man you don't want to bang. Same applies to other male dominated fields. You can't treat every man like a loaded gun, you might as well just be a shut-in at that point. Points 1 and 4 are silly, other two are fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/19 06:51 PM
3	Question for redpillers: woman who does not want children Because sex and companionship by themselves are nice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/19 03:08 AM
1	Hanson says women lie about domestic violence to get kids in Family Court disputes \| Australia finally gets a long-awaited public inquiry into bias against men in the family court. I agree completely. I just don't think it's fair to say women who want some basic rights are feminists. It's become a totally different thing.	/r/MensRights	18/09/19 12:29 PM
1	Hanson says women lie about domestic violence to get kids in Family Court disputes \| Australia finally gets a long-awaited public inquiry into bias against men in the family court. So are the movements that gave women some basic rights (such as the right to vote) not considered feminism anymore?	/r/MensRights	18/09/19 09:39 AM
0	Should men who can't get women's attention without advertising their provider qualities just opt to get escorts? Sometimes I don't really understand the concept of the friendzone. If you can't handle the fact that someone who you are friends with is not romantically/sexually attracted to you, then you a free to cut ties and not be friends. In that case, you just have to accept that you won't have many female friends. Then you're left to red pilling your way through online dating and cold approach. Or you could appreciate their friendship for what it is. So you can either leave the friendzone entirely or ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 01:37 PM
3	Do you wish you could be 100% provided for by your partner? I am also a 23 year old engineer and I agree completely. I could never not work, I would go crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 09:50 PM
2	People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check. God, I love intermittent fasting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/19 12:50 PM
6	Today I Signed Up for the Draft I also tried to inquire about signing up voluntarily, but they prohibited me from doing so because I am a woman. So we can’t even do it if we want to.	/r/MensRights	07/05/19 04:44 PM
1	Why do women have such a hard time admitting thier advantages over men? I know and fully admit to having an advantage in the sexual marketplace. I’ve never had a problem with finding partners since I was 16; and I’m not even that attractive! When I first read TRP’s complaints about this advantage, I was like “Yup, makes sense”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/19 12:22 PM
4	After coming out of a committed relationship I’m realising my male friends aren’t all they seemed Honestly I don't really get why it's bad either. Seems like a bit of a jump in logic to go from, "he asked me out when I became single" to "he only was my friend for sex", depending on what the actual situation is. Yeah, you can be rude/crude about it and that will piss someone off, but I don't see it as bad by itself. Is there really a such social taboo against rebounding that makes her so pissed off about it? Because if there is, then a bunch of people never really got the memo. I'm leaning mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/19 04:10 PM
1	Do you wear makeup? Female and no. Just can't be bothered. I can still attract men without it so why put the effort in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/19 11:59 AM
1	This is something that's really baffled me about female sexuality Hypothetically, if you couldn't get a relationship, would you prefer masturbation over sex? Bit of a loaded question, but I'll take a shot at it. Short answer: I'd would probably prefer both approximately equally on average, but will value one over the other depending on the situation I'm in. Long answer: If men only wanted ONS then my sexual strategy becomes much more opportunistic. It really depends on how much time I can devote to finding a partner. If I'm too busy with work or other things, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/19 11:13 AM
0	This is something that's really baffled me about female sexuality While sex drive difference is fact, there are a lot of other factors at work here when we consider your question. There are a lot of girls who use their advantage in the sexual marketplace to get lots of sex. You may hear people talk about girls who have an exploratory phase where you're okay with casually sleeping around a bit because you want to experience everyone. Ever heard of the cock carousel? In fact, this counts as a reason to not fuck everyone because of the inherent disgust factor som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/19 10:27 AM
1	QuestionForRedPillMen: How do women collect their "cash" and "prizes" from divorce? Why are some guys acting like they're actually required to get married? If it's a bad deal simply warn others and don't do it. Eh, maybe I'm just too cold to empathize about marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/19 05:21 PM
5	Study Finds Sexlessness is at an All Time High - Here's Why It does not affect women differently If you look at the symptoms of low T they are the same for men and women. Methods of increasing T work for both genders and show the same benefits. I know some women get prescribed DHEA to treat vaginal dryness, which gives a T boost in concentrations appropriate for women. I've heard that it also does wonders for mood/confidence as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/19 03:56 PM
8	Study Finds Sexlessness is at an All Time High - Here's Why This is very interesting. When I was researching birth control methods I specifically looked to find out if the various methods would change my normal testosterone levels. The only thing I was able to confirm was that you don't get that testosterone spike around ovulation because birth control stops your menstrual cycle, but otherwise it doesn't effect your normal levels. This is kind of a game changer for me and I'm surprised I didn't see anything like this sooner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/19 11:18 AM
0	All men are rapists Do you think some small amount of women can have a higher tendency to rape than others? If so, could that be genetically linked? Surely not as common as a trait as it would be in men, but then it would not be linked only to the Y chromosome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/19 07:25 PM
1	All men are rapists Agreed. If you're willing to deal with the anxiety/paranoia of this mantra you might as well pick up a can of mace or something. Although I feel for the people in countries where even mace is illegal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/19 06:57 PM
1	All men are rapists Does anyone here think tendency to rape is genetically linked? I have my suspicions, but I have not seen any data. From the perspective of natural selection, it makes sense right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/19 06:47 PM
1	Over half of young people are now single according to surveys Used to live in the capitol region and now live a good bit south of there closer to Westchester. It's wayyy more expensive down here. Would move back to that region if I could. Also even though I devote that percentage to bills, I definitely don't feel like I'm struggling. Depends on your income so YMMV.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/19 10:04 AM
1	Over half of young people are now single according to surveys In all fairness I just calculated that about 78% of my monthly income goes to my bills. Live in upstate NY. So maybe that's normal for more expensive areas?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/19 04:23 PM
4	‘Aggravated women, socially awkward men’ make Seattle the nation’s worst city for singles, says love-podcast host Agreed. Before I came to this sub, I actually thought it was common for women to approach. I would always approach and my friends would as well. This sub made me realize these results may be biased.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/19 03:38 PM
1	Do ex-mgtow exist? This thread is starting to get silly long so I'm going to boil it down a bit. We're arguing about the definition of intelligence now, which I'm going to drop like a hot potato because I'm not an authority on that kind of philosophy. Why can't I do both? When doing an experiment, it's it best to control for all possible factors. The more controls, the better. Test for one thing at a time and the results are the clearest they could be. Testing for something specific is better than testing for some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/19 08:08 PM
1	Do ex-mgtow exist? Unfortunately I can't really figure out how to explain it any other way. I'm not advocating for IQ tests, I'm just trying to explain why they were made the way they are. And factoring polynomials is a part of that. Is it? This is where the words "nebulous" and "debated" comes into play. Nobody really has an idea on what IQ is actually measuring anymore. You could argue nearly anything is a part of "innate intelligence". Factoring polynomials, plucking a chicken, how to operate a forklift... who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/19 07:51 PM
1	Do ex-mgtow exist? You mean 20, not 10. In this case I subtracted the college results from 100 and high school results from 90 (two different baselines) but it doesn't really matter what you use as a baseline since the difference is shown in any case. Better practice would be to use percentages I think, but I'm simplifying. If college educated people score higher in a certain section then why would you simply hide that? "Hiding" is not really an accurate word in this case. Let's say section 3 had questions about t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/19 07:13 PM
1	Do ex-mgtow exist? Allow me to clarify: Lets go with the college educated and high school educated example. Let's also say we have an IQ test we're trying to tweak that consists of four sections. The college educated averages these results: 100 90 100 100 The high school educated averages these results: 90 80 80 90 The section that requires attention is the 3rd section. The reason for this is because the difference between each population's baseline score (let's say 100 for college and 90 for high school) and the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/19 06:20 PM
1	Is Ephebophilia the reason grown men shit on male teenage heartthrobs so much? Can confirm. Am from East coast. I'm not even a guy and I do that with my friends. We talk shit but we know it's all in good fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/19 05:06 PM
2	Q4Women: To what extent is your femininity influenced by a man’s masculinity? Yes, there is. Butch doesn't mean you emasculate your partner against their will. At least not how I understand it. Most STEM women I have met are like this. It means your brain functions more similar to the male brain and you like typically male hobbies/clothing etc, nothing more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/19 10:07 PM
1	Q4Women: To what extent is your femininity influenced by a man’s masculinity? This makes me kinda mad. You can be a masculine and assertive woman without emasculating your man. I guess I can't really judge the situation from here though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/19 06:35 PM
2	Q4Women: To what extent is your femininity influenced by a man’s masculinity? I'm a self-proclaimed butch female and have never acted more feminine for any guy. I've never acted more masculine for any guy. I am masculine because I work in a male dominated industry and have mostly male friends. That's just the way my personality developed. That being said, the great majority of my relationship history has been with nerdy beta type men. Normally I would say this is just because my social circle has always been made up of these STEM types, but I will not discount theory that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/19 05:53 PM
1	Q4ALL: Would you leave your partner if they were infertile Yeah I don't get this "biological urge" stuff about children that people talk about on here. Guess I'm just broken or something. Best to just embrace it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/19 12:42 PM
4	Don't you think there are alpha and beta women? Not 30 yet but I can say I have no intention of giving up my career until retirement and I'm staunchly childfree. Entirely by my choice. We are few but we exist. Sometimes I wonder if I should put my childfree status on my resume.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/19 11:12 AM
5	A common expressive around here is, "Boys were lied to their entire lives" in reference to their mothers, teachers, caregivers and other women in their lives. What are some examples of this? I never expected any help, and assuming that women do is the same sentiment I was talking about above. I made my way through engineering school and got an engineering job on my own merit. What I’m saying is that nothing will change if you’re hostile to women in the workplace. Simply be neutral. We don’t need your help but we don’t need your opposition either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/19 09:44 PM
4	A common expressive around here is, "Boys were lied to their entire lives" in reference to their mothers, teachers, caregivers and other women in their lives. What are some examples of this? I think it's obvious I'm not going to change your mind, but I will say this: Sentiments like this are barriers to women who actually like working STEM/typically male occupations. There are some of us who want to work hard/long hours for what we believe in, you just have to give us a chance instead of just instantly ostracizing us from the workplace for being "generally inferior".	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/19 08:26 PM
5	A common expressive around here is, "Boys were lied to their entire lives" in reference to their mothers, teachers, caregivers and other women in their lives. What are some examples of this? Okay so I guess career women don’t exist? I’ll just do you all a favor and fade from existence then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/19 03:51 AM
1	Its been too divisive in here lately, how about a fun masculine/feminine question? Whoops, edited.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/19 08:14 PM
2	Its been too divisive in here lately, how about a fun masculine/feminine question? I shoot with compound bows, but I occasionally use a recurve for smaller game. Usually go after north american game birds like turkey, goose etc. I'll do deer if I have the time to treat/prepare its meat. I've used some bolt action rifles before and I think they're pretty cool, but I've never owned one. Aiming was a lot trickier than it looked, even if the gun doesn't have a lot of recoil. I'm much better with a compound bow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/19 08:04 PM
6	Its been too divisive in here lately, how about a fun masculine/feminine question? 23, woman. Traditionally masculine attributes: -FPS video games -Engineer by degree and occupation (work in a power plant) -Trading card games -Machining/3D printing and making cool stuff like arcade cabinets and furniture -Hiking, fishing, and bow hunting -Big carnivore -Suck at anything related to make-up and fashion -I like fancy beer Traditionally feminine attributes: -Can cook decent meals?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/19 07:41 PM
2	How much money would I have to pay you to switch your gender? Am female. I am incredibly jealous of the male physique but I'm not sure if I'd actually want to date women. Can I be gay if change? If so, then I could be convinced for the low price of $69.99	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/19 07:19 PM
3	The conformist school system leads obedient followers to false beliefs about status in women's eyes I am in total agreement with you on the current education system lacking anything resembling critical thinking. This resonates with me because this actually hinders you in the workforce. In my job, as long as your basis is sound for making decisions, your method doesn't matter. The company actually encourages you to question established procedures if you feel you can do it better. In real life, there are infinite ways to approach problems. I would also venture to say that being able to problem s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/19 06:02 PM
1	Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things? I don’t think is an unreasonable assumption if you’ve based it off observations. Anecdotal but I have never known a woman who does this all the time. Maybe it’s because most of us are still young and poor. Of course most people still want to eat things that taste good, so I wouldn’t really say most men eat in the manner of “I’m hungry so I want to put something in my stomach”. I think it’s normal to want to eat frugally but not want to eat plain pasta all the time. Many of us don’t even have the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/19 02:48 PM
1	Newer generations are having LESS sex than previous ones, the "sex recession" I believe that the majority of women would want to economically date up, I was just wondering about the proportion due to my anecdotal experience. I bet none of your friends will marry these men/have their children, and will be extremely unhappy if they do. I'm not gonna speak for others, but I can tell you I don't understand this. If I'm in a LTR with someone who has a lower salary and I am currently happy with them, why would I start hating them after marriage? Is there some kind of threshold?…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/19 12:06 AM
2	Men are more attractive than women. CMV Just an interesting aside on male lions: their manes actually have an evolutionary purpose of protecting their neck in fights with other lions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 08:51 PM
2	Men are more attractive than women. CMV I'm not going to go into an exhaustive study of my sexual history, but I can describe general trends if you consider that sufficient. I am an engineer by degree and occupation so I've only dated those in STEM (by occupation/school/hobbies). Most women (also in STEM) I've known date within their immediate social circle, like me. My partners have always been what most people would consider "nerds" "dorks" etc. They have all been middle class or from middle class families (same as me) I can say tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 07:37 PM
4	Men are more attractive than women. CMV I have a hard time figuring out how to self assess if I'm attracted to the "minority" of men. I honestly don't know how anyone can do it without being omnipotent or something. Being average is such a broad term, I can't figure out a basis for comparison. All I can say is that I've never had issues finding guys I want to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 07:07 PM
5	Men are more attractive than women. CMV Sometimes you just gotta pick your battles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 06:53 PM
9	Men are more attractive than women. CMV I'm not going to debate this view but I am genuinely curious. How did you develop the belief that all women are lesbian or bisexual?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 06:38 PM
2	Newer generations are having LESS sex than previous ones, the "sex recession" In response to reason 3: We should do a study on what proportion of women are okay with dating down economically. None of my female friends care about the salary of their partner, or even their employment status. The man just has to show that he wants a job of some sort (even SAHD counts). My boyfriend makes considerably less than me. Maybe my sample is biased. Could be that's just a STEM thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 06:28 PM
1	More evidence that women don't want children I don't believe that our modern western society has somehow made women want children less, it's just that those who are childfree have the option to eliminate the risk of having children with birth control. I also don't buy the "women want an easy life" reason. It's really an oversimplification. I agree that life is easier without kids because you get to save more money and time. I am staunchly childfree. But my reason is because I want to devote that time and money to other ambitions/passions a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 06:12 PM
1	CMV: Hypergamy is a desire and natural state of mind for women, just like polygyny is for men, it does not mean women are constantly looking for a better man. Wow, I never looked at it that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/19 04:31 PM
1	What are some things women can do better than men? 20 comments with "positive" traits (emotional intelligence, risk adverse etc) 8 comments with "negative" traits (manipulating, not better at anything, getting white knights etc) Interesting distribution. The positive comments are generally at the top. I think more threads like this can give us some interesting data on the users on this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/19 05:47 PM
8	Q4W: How do you feel about TRP's claim that women only love conditionally? Fourth...ed? Quartered?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/19 04:29 PM
6	I found a non-hypergamic wife, so it is possible. People use the term masculine but I have a hard time interpreting what exactly people mean by it when applying it to women. I have my definition, but what does it mean to everyone else? Does she have to have a masculine body type? Simply have a job that can support herself? Have masculine hobbies? Work in a STEM occupation? Active/passive? Dominant/submissive? All of the above?I've never associated dom/sub qualities to either gender. It's an intriguing question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/19 12:41 PM
4	If a stranger slapped your ass in public, how would you want your SO to handle it? I understand I’m not a badass. But I can’t stand by and let people fight for me without doing anything when it’s someone I care about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 10:07 PM
2	If a stranger slapped your ass in public, how would you want your SO to handle it? How does anybody? Like I said, there's so many factors involved debating it doesn't really work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 09:51 PM
5	If a stranger slapped your ass in public, how would you want your SO to handle it? Fantastic example. Every time a guy does rude shit like that, they don't know how to react when the girl actually asserts herself. They're accustomed to easy prey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 09:19 PM
6	If a stranger slapped your ass in public, how would you want your SO to handle it? By masculine I mean more in attitude than in physical build, just to clarify. And as I was discussing in the other thread, I understand your view because you obviously have only seen women who don't know how to handle these kinds of fights, which is totally the norm and understandable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 09:12 PM
3	If a stranger slapped your ass in public, how would you want your SO to handle it? You read my mind, haha. I used to carry mace when I lived in rougher areas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 09:07 PM
3	If a stranger slapped your ass in public, how would you want your SO to handle it? I agree with your reasoning but only when talking about averages. The above situation and the many assumptions that go with it are reasonable when considering the woman has no idea how to defend herself, which isn't a bad assumption when generalizing the whole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 08:59 PM
3	If a stranger slapped your ass in public, how would you want your SO to handle it? I did state that I think fighting is totally unnecessary in OP's situation. We're just debating the edge case here. I was just under the impression that a 2v1 is more favorable than a 1v1. I like to say I support equality. If I was getting the tar beat out of me I'd want a SO to help. If my SO is getting the tar beat out of him then of course I would help. I'm not going to forgo basic decency. Although honestly there are so many unknown factors that can influence a situation like this, that deba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 08:34 PM
2	If a stranger slapped your ass in public, how would you want your SO to handle it? I mean, I'd like to think that'd we would know each other enough to not get in each other's way if we were SOs. I don't think you're giving us masculine women enough credit. A few of us learn to work with what we have even though we are disadvantaged. And in any case, some of us want to go down fighting at the very least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 08:00 PM
19	If a stranger slapped your ass in public, how would you want your SO to handle it? I would prefer my SO to stand back and let me handle it. Sure, he can back me up if I ask for it, but I've noticed that most guys who do rude shit like that tend to back off when you very calmly tell them to go fuck themselves. They either want you to be too uncomfortable to confront them, or they want you to freak out. Don't give them the satisfaction and they'll run away to seek out easier targets. I would not want my SO to run in and start swinging because I believe the situation you describe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 07:37 PM
4	Those of you who think female empowerment is the worst thing to happen: are you prepared to be a patriarch? Good comment. I'm going to show my boyfriend this comment today and tell him that he should never be afraid to offend me with his honest opinion. Not worth making yourself miserable over that fear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/19 07:11 PM
3	How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age? Honestly this hits the nail on head for me. I'm not super attractive (look kinda masculine) but all my adult life I have never had issues finding sexual partners or LTRs. This is because I have traditionally masculine hobbies and work in a male dominated occupation (engineering), and guys seem to really like it when they can bond with a sexual partner over hobbies. And since people like me are in so high demand, orbiting them will never work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/19 01:07 PM
2	Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow? The algorithm may be similar, but I'm talking about taking this and making it more controlled and recordable	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 02:22 PM
6	Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow? You know what would be an interesting experiment? Get a huge collection of couples pictures via social media (possibly sort them by country/location for additional control). Get a sampling of individuals and have them determine who in each photo is "dating down" so to speak. Would require a fair amount of bureaucracy but could yield telling results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 01:08 PM
5	[Q4W] If some freak accident happened to your vag, what would you do to keep your man? I know a lot of engineers who like giving oral too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 10:18 PM
1	What would happen if men acted collectively? I agree with that. We swung too far one way, like we did with other laws. Compromise could have balanced it out better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 04:37 PM
2	What would happen if men acted collectively? That I definitely agree with. If I disagree with men’s only university then I disagree with woman’s only university. I think the fraternity/sorority dynamic at these very institutions is an example of how these things can coexist. But that’s an entirely different argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 04:25 PM
1	What would happen if men acted collectively? It’s not fair the both sides. That’s the conundrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 04:19 PM
6	What would happen if men acted collectively? Not exactly. My gist is that it would be harder to get into a school that fits my academic credentials because choice is now severely limited.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 04:18 PM
7	What would happen if men acted collectively? I see. However, by this logic, I doubt I would have ever found an engineering school because the majority of them are old enough that they were “built by men for men”. Progress is great, but I don’t think it’s fair to industrious women that we have to wait for all these gender neutral colleges to be built just because men got the head start on us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 03:58 PM
6	What would happen if men acted collectively? Here’s what I don’t understand about this: did we destroy these spaces by simply letting woman participate? Am I wrong to go to engineering school (a male dominated space) because I have a passion for it? I agree that there could definitely be more male-only spaces to equal out the female -only spaces (I.e. shelters for victims of abuse and assault) but you can do that without restricting a woman’s choice in life, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/18 03:34 PM
3	Women are most interested in engineers on Tinder, but men’s preferences are very different Am woman engineer. I hate myself apparently...?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/18 07:25 PM
5	Men marrying up: What do you think of it? Inceltears doesn't have anything to do with income status as far as I know. It just shows crazy extremist views some Incels have. Although Inceltears sometimes leans into its own kind of extremism. Can't speak for the other subs though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/18 06:42 PM
4	Men marrying up: What do you think of it? You are very much correct in my case. I'm an engineer at a power plant and my boyfriend works in a paint store. I have never had the desire to make fun of men in "lesser" occupations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/18 06:16 PM
3	Can anyone provide concrete, detailed examples of a guy becoming "an asshole" and suddenly faring better with women? What actually specifically happened? The ultimatum itself doesn't come off as creepy/assholeish to me. Even outside of a dating/sexual situation I've seen indecisive people flounder around trying to actually plan something and you sometimes just have to force it on them. The "dress sexy" part is what crosses the line for me. I don't like people I've never met telling me what to do. But really that's personal preference so your mileage may vary. You're correct in saying that it depends on the reader.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/18 04:52 PM
1	Q4RP: How are these following articles about toxic masculinity attacking and blaming men? Honestly this a just a reading comprehension disagreement. It's an argument over whether the word culture/society implies partial blame on women or not. I think many people here agree that women reinforce toxic behaviors as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/18 01:09 PM
2	Why Are Young People Having So Little Sex? - The Atlantic As an woman engineer I agree. I work a demanding job and manage to make time for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/18 06:30 PM