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| 2 | [deleted by user](36M) I've been left because I'm too 'drama-free' and 'boring' in my mid to late 20's up until now in ways... so much so, that I've brought it up in recent relationships. I love going out and having fun, so it's not boring in that way.. but there is a certain level of drama that some people seek out. Especially when they are younger and think that a relationship involves fixing their partner without changing them.... But I'm in my 30s and I still have been with emotional stunted women who have t… | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 11:48 AM |
| 38 | Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned.My experience too 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 10:45 PM |
| 7 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedBut I do appreciate the sentiment, while a lot of guys get lumped together with the few shitty ones, I do my best 🤷♂️… I know men for sure have tons to work on as a gender and chauvinism… I’ve met so many very attractive/respectful (cis-het if it matters) men who have given up looking for a partner because dating has exhausted them. They have decided they’d rather be alone than keep plugging away in the dating pool. I’m almost there. I’m gonna give it maybe till I’m 40 and then take a real brea… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 02:27 AM |
| 7 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedTbh I’m going to try to frontload a bit of a more serious ‘what are we’ conversation after it seems we’re clicking (after like 5-10 dates)… Obviously it won’t fix everything because a lot of the time (in my past relationships) they would have believed they wanted a serious relationship etc. but it would’ve weeded out a few years of ‘wasted’ time. Also going to try to check in w myself and be more mindful I’m not duping myself on red flags bc im ‘lost’ in the relationship. But we will see 🤷♂️. I… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 02:21 AM |
| 28 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedas a 36M that's a serial monogamist, it took me too long to figure this out... My last relationship just ended with my partner cheating on me and then ghosting me (after us discussing things like kids names, moving in together, a future together, etc.) most women I've been with (not all) have either consciously or subconsciously used me (some have admitted this directly at the end) bc 1) I'm reliable emotional support 2) Am/was a good sex partner (some have said AT THE END this is why they staye… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Chasing older women on Tinder?I would use/try out hinge. I don’t match on tinder but have like 30+ matches on Hinge since last month becoming single. I’m 36M 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 03:15 AM |
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