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| 4 | Help? Wife seeking men’s perspective on what you think I should do…You are what they call a people pleaser. Out of the goodness of your heart, you try to accommodate above and beyond. This can be a good thing from a good person, but it has consequences. You have just laid out all the consequences in your post, OP. First step, you need to figure out what you are absolutely ok with and what you are absolutely not ok with. This is different for everyone, but in your heart, I think you already know. Second step, and this will be difficult. You need to set firm boun… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/23 12:48 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with the alone timeRight... Some of these groups are age based. Some are not. It would be weird for a 45 year old to show up at a single 20's activity Some of the groups are not age based. Typically as you join the group they will let you know what the expectations are. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/23 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with the alone timeRight? My ex had me isolated from anyone who breathed air and was considered human. She didn't want me to meet new people while she was out on the town living her life. So this is my way, now that the divorce is final, of learning how to make friends again. And who knows, maybe I might meet an awesome human female that vibes with me one day and doesn't control my every move. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/23 01:13 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with the alone timeIt is an app that allows you to meetup with people who have similar interests as you might have in your area. They have everything from divorce self help groups to Hiking groups. Movie marathon meetups to dinner or drinking on the town. It is not a dating app yet many people meet in real life through the groups that are there. Check it out. https://www.meetup.com/ | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/23 09:47 PM |
| 17 | How to deal with the alone time3 things that have helped me self regulate so I don't go to the dark places inside my head while I am alone. 1) Gym membership at a 24 hour gym. It is a healthy place to go to blow off steam or just to be around people. 2) I got a Cinemark Movie theater membership. Nothing like going to some other far away place for 2-3 hours. 3) The Meetup App has helped me to find new friends and new social circles in things that I am interested in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/23 09:36 PM |
| 1 | stbxw is introducing our 2 boys to her new boyfriendThis situation sucks. The emotional swirl of anger, worry, and if I am being honest sadness at watching the woman you used to love move on with someone else. It sucks rocks. It is totally fine to feel those feelings, however, you need to be what I like to call cautiously supportive. Your kids need to know that it is ok for her to find someone else so that when you find someone else it will be ok as well. Your kids still watch and learn. The behaviors and patterns that both you and your ex put on… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/23 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Grounds for divorce?She forcibly opened your marriage? That is grounds enough. You don't have to stick around for that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/23 12:45 PM |
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