Shadowfury957 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Newbie looking to learn and practice		Shadowfury957	/r/seduction	26/07/16 10:16 PM

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5	A Philosophical Perspective That Might Help You Get Chicks It's possible that celibacy and not feeding lustful thoughts/spirits is supreme to cultivating deeper value/bliss BUT I generally agree with OP and this is way better than porn/living in fear or apathy	/r/seduction	07/10/24 03:56 PM
4	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? You are making a sacrifice, losing some energy (some would say small/negligible but depending on you and the context it could be major) whenever you reach out to someone. (Whether it's a cold approach in public, sending the first message online, or restarting a conversation) You are hoping by reaching out, for them to reach back out (at least to respond but even better to respond with interest) giving you the energy back, or more energy (can think of this energy as a limited supply of self estee…	/r/seduction	30/10/22 12:18 PM
7	is your goal one woman or multiple? This topic isn't relevant if you are on your purpose, which you should be. And if you don't have a strong one yet, as of now your purpose is to build a purpose. Freedom and quality deep intimate relationships with everyone in my life. If I really really like someone (whether or not it's to the unhealthy degree where I put them on a pedestal), if I feel trapped because they only are interested if I'm committed, then it's not love on my side and it's not healthy. I should be free to connect with o…	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:52 PM
2	Stuck? Just stop focusing on women I think you can take this concept in less than a black and white way too. For example instead of 100% stopping focusing on women for some time, just shift some of the %, so (of your original 100% energy going into women) could be like only 25% of that original energy and intention going into women and dating and 75% of it into the new things, self growth. For some people 100% cold turkey might be the best option though	/r/seduction	05/08/22 11:13 AM
2	Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps? Grocery store	/r/seduction	11/07/22 12:42 PM
0	You're not doing a guy a favor by fucking his girlfriend, you're just desperate I agree with your first part (if ones goal is getting laid/their biological imperative). Not saying I disagree with the 2nd, but curious and interested to see if you will explain your reasoning more in depth (IMO I resonate to some degree with the idea don't fuck with bigger dogs than you, as you could get finished, but equal or lower dogs could be arguably worth it in some situations coming from an ego intention). And lastly, if one was thinking along those lines, and one confidently believed i…	/r/seduction	23/06/22 12:09 AM
1	Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laid That might just be one part of the cycle, the other half being you more more authentic and (possibly) getting laid less, and then you'll switch back and forth.. Or you find some holy mojo then you can transcend it all and be a gucci mofo	/r/seduction	22/12/21 08:01 PM
1	[deleted by user] Is it against the rules to post a deleted OP? I'm assuming not but I may learn the hard way. I find myself agreeing with OP from my experience and understanding OP "I was bored and thought I would drop some game on y'all, I will keep it brief. There is a saying that women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Some will say that today women are the gatekeepers of both, but lets just keep all things equal to get the idea. A guy in the friendzone is the equivalent …	/r/seduction	07/10/21 06:36 PM
1	Cold approach is like body building, if the approach doesn’t scare you, you are not growing. The approach itself can be viewed as the success, not whether or not you got a number, closed, etc. This way it builds confidence	/r/seduction	07/10/21 03:09 PM
3	Why Picking Up Girls Is Like Playing Poker Respectfully, I don't think I'd really do a good job of explaining, and not really that interested in putting more energy into trying to explain it. Maybe some other guy can step in and explain but who knows if he'd even be coming from the perspective/position I'd be coming from. In a very general, vague, and likely unhelpful sense, yes we're both humans but you, as a woman, are very unlikely to see the whole thing as a man would Also was being cheeky with my post but my point still applies	/r/seduction	04/08/21 02:37 PM
2	Why Picking Up Girls Is Like Playing Poker I'm a man and your whole post seems ridiculous to me.	/r/seduction	04/08/21 02:29 PM
45	"Dont be friends with girls" I think "being friends with girls" (or in other words having non sexual relationships, especially non sexual friendships, with girls) can both hurt you and help you. In a very basic breakdown and there are exceptions to these rules: It hurts you when you don't have any sexual relationships with girls, especially if you NEVER have had sexual relationships with girls.. I don't even want to say this because it's much more nuanced than that.. The point is that don't have friendships with girls if al…	/r/seduction	30/07/21 02:22 PM
1	I've finally found the what truly makes me happy - Women Inspiring	/r/seduction	27/02/21 01:31 PM
1	I've finally found the what truly makes me happy - Women everything is voodoo	/r/seduction	27/02/21 01:27 PM
1	I've finally found the what truly makes me happy - Women Yep it's burning hot, however i'd say the level of suffering could be seen as lower than the opposite end of the spectrum	/r/seduction	27/02/21 01:24 PM
1	I've finally found the what truly makes me happy - Women Exactly, happiness is not the be all end all, knowledge is higher and enlightenment is even higher (probably some other steps in between these). Can look at the "Emotional Vibrational Scale" or even like Julien's Transformation Mastery Course (not that I took the course). Will be problematic if you get stuck in happiness, it's like a wave. if you don't move up to the next one at the right time, you fall back lower (into the lower vibes/negative emotions) and gotta wait for the next wave (surfing…	/r/seduction	27/02/21 01:19 PM
1	Stop Putting Sex On A Petastal Ohh interested yesss. More content please about how yoga and sex are the same (I practice yoga meditation and sex so this is up my alley)	/r/seduction	25/02/21 06:05 AM
2	How to use Rejection to gain Attraction! Everything is black or white, no inbetween, yeaaaa good luck with that	/r/seduction	15/12/20 06:29 PM
2	How to use Rejection to gain Attraction! Lmao it's not even the fact that she's a girl but that she made it look like she knew what she was talking about and made it look like she had it say it in a way that shared a lot of value, when she's going off something completely different than what OP said, assuming or misunderstanding "he was pretending he didn't understand no" (basically what you said that she didn't comprehend it, was quick to judge it, and ultimately make herself look dumb)	/r/seduction	15/12/20 06:26 PM
1	Talk to pretty girls. Gotta go out with the intention of none other than to do it, even can walk around for an hour before you muster up the courage to do it	/r/seduction	22/11/20 07:56 PM
3	Talk to pretty girls. The way I started was I went to the mall to see a hype up movie (not important) and then I set the goal and intention to, no matter how awkward and difficult it was, to go up to 5 girls and ask for their number. And I did it (technically one just said they weren't interested before I got to the number part lol) If you do that, every day moving forward with this will be muchhh easier, think of it as an initiation ritual All you have to do is walk up to them and say "excuse me, I thought you were …	/r/seduction	21/11/20 04:09 PM
1	Talk to pretty girls. The approach is the success. After many approaches (rejections or not) you can get a bit worn down and need to recover, go home take time for yourself, sleep and meditate. It's like going to the gym and getting stronger- approaching is the lifting weights, and then the eating sleep/rest is the integration, confidence boost for next time approaching the next day or whenever. To rest/grow stronger/integrate from the approaches, do something that grounds you- like meditate, spend time alone, hang w…	/r/seduction	21/11/20 03:08 PM
2	Talk to pretty girls. Does it really matter if you are out of view of the last girl?	/r/seduction	21/11/20 12:22 PM
2	12 Ridiculously simple hacks that you can start using today that will make women more attracted to you with minimal effort Gotta disagree with you there bud. Tan FTW	/r/seduction	16/11/20 06:38 AM
1	Red flags to take serious at all times I used to only pay the whole thing myself but now I only split the bill (at least on first dates)	/r/seduction	06/09/20 04:59 PM
1	So I'm 21 with no friend groups or social life & staying home this fall due to online classes. How fucked am I? Join a raiding guild on a free wow server for socialization	/r/seduction	24/08/20 12:13 PM
1	My first ever cold approach it's like going to the gym but on a different level. get stronk af bro!	/r/seduction	05/08/20 02:25 PM
1	Guys who started going on dates and getting it with attractive women, what is your secret? Link is for if you're ready to jump 2 feet in, not for the vast majority. The lower dantien is an energy generator of sorts, to generate your own happiness and power. The true nature of it seems subtle and perhaps difficult to easily define. It's related to your manifestation power, and also your vitality. If you internally coordinate yourself (this is inner game but inner game is more like a higher coordination (yellow court- solar plexus) while the lower dantien is lower coordination- foundati…	/r/seduction	09/07/20 03:33 PM
2	Don't Thumbs up my brotha from another motha	/r/seduction	25/03/20 05:10 PM
2	Don't Can you be friends with an ex? Wait a second.. can you even be friends with the opposite sex? One further, how differently do people define the word friend?	/r/seduction	25/03/20 03:45 PM
0	How do you convey your abundance effectively? Real abundance doesn't need to be conveyed	/r/seduction	18/04/19 10:27 PM
9	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? omg this xD	/r/seduction	04/01/19 04:27 PM
7	Texting to confirm I like it better to confirm the day beforehand..gives you some time to connect with some texts that extra day.. and then you can hit them up the day of the date saying hey how are you etc ... could say im excited to meet you today or talk about when and where if you haven't planned that yet	/r/seduction	21/12/18 06:47 PM
3	Taking a massive break from dating apps. You might need to chat with them a bit more in between when you make plans for the date and the date itself (or the day of the date). like the day before ask hey how are you today or ask something relevant or funny to a previous conversation, then ask are we still on for tomorrow? then they say yes and you say great :) and maybe talk a little more if you want I've found i have the same results as you if I completely neglect this in between portion of chatting between when i make the date and the…	/r/seduction	07/11/18 12:38 PM
1	How do you guys last longer in the bedroom? system to get control over your life.. if you can't stop yourself or slow down when you want to, this can be an approach to gain control over youself in that aspect, among other aspects of your life.. if nothing else works and you really want the control	/r/seduction	26/02/18 05:19 PM
2	How do you guys last longer in the bedroom? yes stop or slow down and then stay slow unless you feel the "room" to build up without getting too close to the point of no return (or even close) I recommend being on top most of the time for this practice so you are more in control if you are unable to control yourself from stopping or slowing down then you should probably focus on self-improvement outside of sex as well.. more meditation, power lifting, ice baths (will power training) if you are desperate and sincere, look into lonemanpai.co…	/r/seduction	26/02/18 03:58 PM
7	How do you guys last longer in the bedroom? edge but stay much farther from the point of no return. Most importantly practice non-ejaculatory sex most for most of your sexual sessions.. this will make it easier to edge and more natural and comfortable and enjoyable. There's other beneficial reasons for non-ejaculatory sex but they aren't particularly relevant you can go slow, at least some of the time.. you can greatly decrease your thrusts per minute (lol) while you are trying to build stamina and control to help you last longer Use kege…	/r/seduction	26/02/18 03:47 PM
1	Next time she flakes, be like this dude. I don't have any science to back this up.. but from personal experience and based off intuition it seems to help integrate whatever you went through to make you sad/cry in the first place. Maybe helps recenter you It seems like a tension release too that feels good (not "happy" good but blissful "good", and although it can be painful.. but trying/forcing resistance to the urge to cry seems like a form of being dishonest with oneself.. and haven't we all heard how suppressing our emotions causes/…	/r/seduction	23/01/18 01:03 PM
0	Girl says she's busy this week and will message you when she has time. If she doesn't, do you ignore her or send her another message? I don't know if this advice is the best or w/e but if you're busy and have other things going on.. don't worry about messaging her and maybe she'll message.. but if you aren't busy then at some point, sooner rather than later, why not message her? you really don't have much to lose.. playing the waiting game seems like a negative emotional (dis-integrative) spiral	/r/seduction	22/01/18 10:20 PM
0	Next time she flakes, be like this dude. Exercise -> Cry -> Breathing Meditation is magic (may be ok switching order if you cry before you exercise)	/r/seduction	22/01/18 10:13 PM
1	The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Players (Pt. 1) I wonder that as well. I wonder if it's worth visualizing ourself visualize what we need/want.. Like meta so we don't need to visualize the details of what we want need at this stage but want to visualize us setting the intention of visualizing/or visualize us learning what we want.. and maybe this will help us learn what we want and need so then we can directly visualize it just an idea	/r/seduction	14/01/18 03:14 PM
1	Newbie looking to learn and practice Also I'm going to a music festival this weekend so any particular tips for that would be great too!	/r/seduction	26/07/16 10:38 PM
-5	[FR] Dancing with a girl nearly got me a make out. Does anyone worry about herpes or other diseases with random making out like this?	/r/seduction	26/04/15 07:41 PM
0	A Reminder - Attraction Is Not Solely Physical "To begin, this is not an excuse to let yourself go physically. Get a haircut, hit the gym, find appropriately fitting clothes, and get your hygiene in check." Or be a real man and let ALL of your hair grow	/r/seduction	07/12/14 11:21 PM