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Yea you start to notice smaller and smaller workings of TRP in the world as time passes.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 04:15 AM
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I'll keep that in mind for later.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 03:58 PM
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THIS. I'm going to go into further detail on dirty talk and other things in future post. I try and simple things down cause I've noticed in previous post some people in the sub just don't believe how dirty or naughty women actually get. They'll flame you with comments saying you made it up lol. I got asked in an ask TRP thread if I actually called girls "sluts, punks, and bitches" I replied yes and they like it. Got down voted to the negatives. Also I included your comment on the post.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 03:56 PM
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Definitely, I usually go with grabbing the wrist and pinning them above her head, hold her hands there with one hand and explore with the other.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 03:19 PM
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I'm glad you appreciated the piece, I'm always learning so let me know if you have anything you'd like to add.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:51 PM
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I even have recent post on the matter. All it takes is a chance at a guy who makes her tingle.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 01:46 PM
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Yea I fucked her Tuesday night FR incoming once I figure out if I'm free for the night.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 08:31 PM
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I call women shawty, lol I also call em punk, bitch, slut, kitten, it's good to use pet names they actually really like it. I agree with what you said but I'm not fucking her for her mind man.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:26 PM
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It's honestly my biggest problem, I've never had a problem getting women I had the woman of my dreams until I decided to settle down (stop my natural dead game, I didn't know about TRP at this time) and help her reach her goals (I was a fucking retard.)
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:15 PM
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AHHHH the cold hard logic I needed. Yea I don't really have a scarcity, it's just I have weak spots for girls that show me so attention out the gate instead of the regular dance. You're right though if she comes over she'll be in my frame and I should have no problem from there.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:10 PM
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You don't even understand, lol like I just closed on a new plate last night but I want this so much more lol. And to be fair five months is a long time to wait to stick your fuck stick in anything.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:01 PM
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It depends on how you progress. Some people take TRP and it turns them into kinda almost an autistic asshole because it isn't genuine. If you keep being yourself but get your frame under control and learn how to analyze social situations people will want to be around you and want to spend more time with you I've found. This doesn't exactly apply to family members but if you get that social analytic skill down you can kinda temper them with conversations.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:28 PM
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Great post, although i did feel personally attacked (/s) when you brought up teen guys trying to commit and the women wanting to work on her "career" literally one of the reason my ONS gave me.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 08:55 PM
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I'm not sure if this is a joke but thanks for the best laugh of my day.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 08:42 PM
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It's cause most of us have been you, maybe not exactly but i remember the feeling and that's enough of a lesson for me.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 06:12 PM
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Yea tip on getting their logistics and escalating is to ask something like, "You live close?" "Did you drive here"(Follow up with something along the lines of how was the drive if yes) It's good for seeing how into you they are and how far it is to their place. Watch their face when you ask you should get a glimpse of excitement when you ask if they are ready for the lay.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 06:02 PM
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You're hitting it right on the head. We broke up six years ago and been "friends" since. Also with the point of saying that we changed more than we think, I'd agree. My ex that brought me into the depression that made me RP went through the trouble of blocking me cause shes back in town.(She works with the renaissance fair so she travels). Yet i haven't cared at all, my feelings weren't hurt like i thought they would be, and it made me laugh that she thought of me enough to block both my perform…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:56 PM
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I've found that the best way to learn body language, is just to watch people closely in public when they think nobody is watching. Then once you can see the "Normal" body language of other people you can utilize it . I know it sounds odd but i had plenty of time to perfect it being the awkward kid who didn't speak to people till i was bout 10 . Use peripheral vision that way you don't just stare at people. Another thing is to find a sign or something that has words on it and stare at it like you…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:46 PM
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Lol this is accurate but still humorous i love it .
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:39 PM
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Lol if I meant to do it I would definitely stop. We both have the Oneplus 3T and no locks on our phones and honestly I keep the stock wall paper plus alcohol so imagine my surprise.. I kinda vowed to stop checking girls phones after my ex was talking to do a dude when I told her not to. Shit broke my heart.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:24 PM
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In my post (Confirming RedPill IRL #1) i talk about how even the most alpha guys are not bulletproof dont take it hard, its a learning experience. Never let a girl become the leader of your life, if you can't think of life without her she has you where she wants you. Remember how weak you feel and promise yourself you wont do it to yourself again.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:12 PM
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Good post and do you mean made out with them ? cause if not why the fuck did you not have a threesome. Also were you in the thread where we talking about approaching with loud music and how yelling brings you out of frame? Cause if not that's fucking great on your part , i used to look like a drunk retard cause yelling was my go to.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:04 PM
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Say what you can get away with, if you can't get away with it then don't. I personally almost always seem like im joking so i can say semi cringe things and it'll come off as a joke/confidence.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 02:46 PM
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Thank you, my point in posting was to show that the efforts aren't in vain. Without post like this i wouldn't have started RP my first post i read was a "this shit works" kinda post.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 02:08 PM
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Also like my comment says I was happy cause it's the first positive reinforcement I've gotten since going RP rather than fucking random chicks.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 12:33 AM
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I think you're misunderstanding. I wanna continue posting and continue detailing the night I didn't fuck her even though not for trying. She tried to spend the night and she's talking to me rn as I make this post. She has something she wants to "tell" me in person.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 12:31 AM
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She probably wants you to try and orbit her so she can know she has you and the next dick the best way to win is to not play, when she said you'll be surprised by how silent she is you should have been 3x as silent and just let her message you without replying for a while, puts the power back in your hands.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 07:57 PM
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Not sure if my saying this is valid cause im constantly told im attractive but once i started working out is when i really got attention . I think it should help anybody to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 06:43 PM
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Honestly it wasn't a very exciting night for me, but the content is what i thought was important. Not too many months ago i was suffering from depression from losing an ex and i couldn't dare look at myself and call myself a man. Being validated for my efforts all be it indirectly felt pretty nice. I want other people in this sub to know they will get there too, that their lowest point doesn't have to define them i guess.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 06:31 PM
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You're totally right i read it wrong. I read it as "in hindsight she'll see you as a man of less value for not putting yourself second to her ". I'm not even sure where i got the not from lol.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 05:00 PM
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Always put yourself first, never put her first. Surprised you have upvotes.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 04:31 PM
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.....You realize he's joking right ?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 03:57 PM
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Thanks for posting this, i've been sexually assaulted by men and women, to be honest the men did it when i was little so i've kinda dealt with it i think. However women do it on the regular i couldn't tell you how many time i've had to deal with the lingering shoulder touch or the stare(tm) or the even worse boss trying to tell me im "cute".
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 08:15 PM
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You messed up by replying with plans , should've said something more along the lines of "Then do something about it)
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 07:38 PM
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Tell her you fucked a girl in the bed yall sleep in. she'll either find a way to leave or treat you better sooo
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 07:36 PM
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Thanks you actually gave me a few ideas!! I used to do coding so I might take a course on that I just don't see me getting much revenue from it since I'm way outside of the city. Also I used to have a decent size youtube channel that got deleted for copyright music so I could start trying to regrow my YouTube following for passive income. I really appreciate you spit balling with me.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 05:20 PM
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This is not about anger, you're just in the anger phase. Reply to this comment and we can talk about how i dealt with it, if not just remember improving yourself is always the best revenge .
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 05:07 PM
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Try eating white rice, spaghetti, potatoes, cornflakes, and sugary juices and drinks, also b12 can be a life saver ! .
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 04:55 PM
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Is there anyway i can start small on that ? Like i'm not sure what to do in my life to feel worth something. It might just be like the equivalent to jet lag from getting over depression but i honestly can't think of anything to focus on , im 20 and i finished college right before i turned 19 so i can't put the energy into school and my day job is basically a worker bee type thing although i do have a lot of free time(typing this at work right now) .
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 04:51 PM
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I used the same method you did, improved myself to the point that even her mom keeps liking my facebook post. Its really satisfying to know even her mom thinks shes dumb for fucking up with me now. I think the difference is that me and you lost somebody we felt was a part of ourselves and OP lost somebody he thought was attractive and wanted to fuck its not the same.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 03:57 PM
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Good Got a new job where i make 20 an hour and get bonuses which is great cause i've been out of work for a few months now. Had a even cleaner break with depression. For a while when i started RP i thought i had been cured but it is even better as of late i don't even get that "cloudy" feeling. My vaule must be really fucking high as of late with all the improvement i did while out of work cause women can't seem to stop talking to me. (got a few numbers just sitting at my desk but no shitting wh…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 03:31 PM
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I got treated for chlamydia and that was a whole experience. I have an audition for a new talent agency in a few hours and I'm thinking I'm gonna do great. Starting a new job Monday working from home to get max time to focus on how to improve my life.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 07:06 AM
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Just because you have anxiety issues doesn't mean other people's brains don't work correctly.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 12:23 AM
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I can find plenty since I was taught the law of vibration in a physics class.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 12:12 AM
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Thank you for engaging in an actual scientific conversation with me, now we can start to get somewhere, the law of vibration is a scientific law. However the law of attraction is not, I don't fully accept the law of attraction as I would have a ferris-wheel on house if I could just "attract" it into being. that isn't to say that the good energy you give off doesn't beget more good energy, but just trying to "attract" things won't change your life.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 11:56 PM
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do yourself a favor and Google "the law of vibration" everything I said has scientific documentation behind it.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 11:08 PM
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You explain why not how. We would have to sense something initially in order for us to be able to turn in the direction of the stimulus (end up making eye contact with the person staring)
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 11:00 PM
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If you believe that please look into the science behind it. You will be surprised. Also I will accept that this is all bullshit if you can explain to me how you KNOW somebody is looking at you when they stare or when you grab your phone cause you feel like a text is coming just to receive the text as you grab the phone.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 10:50 PM
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NO MY PUSSY EATING BROTHER . haha you don't have to use hookers, just make them ask for it a question implies dominance to the person answering. /u/dantheredman18 says it well about them getting the crazy eye look then asking to suck the dick , they are at this point done testing you and giving you the power over them . Them asking to have their pussy is the same.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:26 PM
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I know some of the crew are probably ripping you a new one but the way I see it lets call it a win. To start here's a few tips about intimacy and ensuring you get yours 1)You are the leader, if you want to finger her, don't . I say this for a reason, if she's already got hers and all your clothes are on what actual reason does she have to get you off ? 2)When you are touching a women try and just rub your hands over them like you're a blind man reading brail, girls get off on feeling attractive …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:20 PM
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remove "right" and I'm pretty sure OP makes his point.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:06 PM
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Eh I have nothing to hide ?I'm bored ? You were the one who replied to my comment so I figured you wanted me to engage you. I only commented cause it's actually a decent post just the title will make some people here go off the deep end.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:54 PM
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We might be getting somewhere , I also feel like I don't have any friends as well I don't expect them to. You're smart so hopefully this makes sense when you read it. Consider the following, energy can not be created or destroyed only converted. Also consider every thought\feeling you have has a energetic value in some way(or it couldn't exist) With the above information in hand think about this, what happens to the energy that made the thought you just thought after you were finished thinking i…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:52 PM
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That is true, unlucky for me, im prone to infection. If you see my post history or probably some future post as well I talk about my skin infection (I've had it for over a year now) .
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:41 PM
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Lol I fucking wish dude check the weekly progress thread I'm pretty sure I have a UTI.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:37 PM
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I really wish you would stop using the words bad and good, they have no definite meaning and it confuses me when people use them since its completely opinion context and perspective that makes something good or bad. Also thanks for reminding me of the post I've read the side bar a few times over I've just gotten so much information in the last two months its getting hard to track it. Either way what I was trying to convey in my last comment is im not gonna shit on your post, I think it has some …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:36 PM
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Let me ask you this, do you like yourself ? and if you do , do you LOVE yourself? The usual answer Is get out and lift more heavy stuff but I only recently started lifting heavy stuff on a routine and its only put a slight edge to my game. People feel close with each other when they "connect" it sounds to me you play it so safe and hide so much of yourself that no body ever actually connected with you so they just see you as the guy who makes funny comments from time to time not their humorous f…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:31 PM
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An objective review lol . Im sure most will see it as a good review. The post I'm working on mainly centers around building plates into basically your own mental slave.(I.e. getting them to do things they wouldn't usually do so that they hamster it away as "he is worth doing that for" until in their mind nothing could possibly change your value)
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:20 PM
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If it's okay with you I would like to review this post and add some of the content into a post i'm working on plate theory.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 06:59 PM
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This is a really good post. Guys have to see that girls don't take threesomes as serious as most men do. Most guys go their whole lives without one so I can see why they would get that in their head. But what they don't know is how Close they had been to having one.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 06:18 PM
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It appears to me you are slightly confused. You just told us what is in your heart or what is in you All my life I've wanted to get inside a woman. Have you told a woman that you've wanted to be inside her? well those FAKERS have . So who is really the one being fake here ?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 05:20 PM
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I understand where you are coming from in wanting to be a mentor for the ones who need it. My sensei told me this when I told him I wanted to be like him when I was little "The hardest part about teaching someone is making them want to be taught" etc went on to talk about my drive or whatever but my point is he was right. So no matter how much it hurts you when they don't want to save themselves don't let it get you down.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 04:40 PM
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Haha I completely agree the most I'll do as a group is I'll approach with another guy and use him talking shit about me as a way to pull girls. Like you ever be talking to a girl that your buddy likes so he says something to try and make you look bad ? You either A&A if it's a small comment like a joke and if it's a direct one say "If you want her just say so" .
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 04:35 PM
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I see what you're saying now. The same way a guy will buy a pair of shoes "just to wear" and a girl would buy a few pairs "because they looked good" . I like to think their natural hypergamy is why they can't even stick with a pair of shoes if they see some more interesting. Also not nice my soul is a place that even I don't visit often lol. It is a nice confidence boost cause I like to downplay myself which I'm working on.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 04:10 PM
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Hey /u/MattyAnon is it really just the top 5% ? I have a friend who is def in the top 5% but if im being honest im probably around the top 20% due to flaws like my skin flaws and on the account im working my way up to having actual pecks and back muscles. Anyways I guess what im saying is I've had girls stare at me like into my soul it feels sometimes just going to wal-mart , when I stare back they'll just say "oh I recognize you from (......)" or "Are you so so from (.....)"
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 03:27 PM
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Haha reminds me of a time I had a date with a girl who lives in the city near me(I live in a kinda country area but not as bad as it can get) now the drive isn't far but she had ended up waiting for me at a chillis for two hours before I got there.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 02:59 PM
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Hey my chest and my arms are my main focus cause about two months ago I had like negative 8 pecks and my right arm was slightly bulker than my left ;) . I've found that static poses and doing range of motions exercises have pretty much shot me up to my goal now. If you can find a wall and kinda handstand against it then use the wall to keep yourself upright as you make your arms and pecks basically lift your entire body weight.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 02:42 PM
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Will you PLEASE change the title, you sound like a fucking porn ad.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 02:14 PM
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Eh, I enjoyed it more than my first loss of innocence , got to at least choose to accept it or not.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:47 PM
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I've always had to go lone wolf because my friends were always more interested in "studies". I think that's just the excuse they give cause they don't usually end up pulling anything. I will say though, nothing beats the energy we give off when we are just standing around , we all work out and thank god we all got blessed with at least average faces .
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:45 PM
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Progress: two nights ago I had a plate hit me up saying she missed me so I let her come over and she got me high, gave me a massage (the reason this is progress is because I'm working on a post on getting girls to do things of that sort and basically training them to without you asking.) then she gave me some amazing head and I fucked her till I realized that summer sex is probably gonna be terrible for me unless I get a fucking industrial fan in my room. Yesterday night / this morning had anoth…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 10:54 PM
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That's how you end up in bad positions.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 09:05 PM
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Ahhh yes I do see, It's actions of action and not actions of inaction that bring results. The betas make actions of inaction and aren't happy when they realize those actions were basically doing nothing to push them toward the goal they did it for.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:11 PM
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I actually relate to this a lot, I've found the best thing to do is agree with the compliment you're given in a way that downplays it. So "yeah , sure (continue conversation about something else)" Or if you won't feel too dickish, "damn right"
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:04 PM
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This post confused me so much . I improved myself so I would like myself not so anybody else would.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:47 PM
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Im of the schooling that a career doesn't define a person in any way shape of form. If that is something that pursuing it would bring you closer to YOUR happiness do it. Don't let anybody here or anywhere make you to go against your own happiness.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:32 PM
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Yea that's why I asked what he thought ltr like behavior was. Those aspects of ltr behavior are good to use. But it seems he has a more blue pill idea of an ltr.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:24 PM
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Yea quit the compliments unless it's sexually charged and you intend to act on it. Try and be more stoic experience the positive it's okay to feel like leaping up and down in happiness on the INSIDE. It seems like you know where you're messing up so my best advice to you is to fully accept the reality that you can't treat a woman the way you want to. Not in that you can't treat a woman nice just that she won't like you if you're up her ass in her eyes
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:21 PM
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I'm curious. How does one act LTR ?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:59 PM
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Haha nope I just have the two.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 02:24 PM
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Haha I wasn't notice the quote says about 20 it's a guesstimate. I've been trying to figure out the perma boner recipe since new years eve 2014. All I ended up with was a dick so numb that I didn't even have sexual thoughts for a week.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 06:34 AM
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Hey I just want to thank you I just finished my meditation for the day and maybe I'm stressing too much about getting into the industry again because I'm not as good as I used to be. I'm gonna make it a part of my weekly goals to practice and hone my skills until I make it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 04:24 AM
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You ever have somebody you know wants to have sex with you but you didn't have sex with them? That's what I'm talking about. They'd have sent nude pictures or flat out asked for some alone time with me and if I had the time and resources I would've but school and trying to break into the industry took up a lot of my time, also didn't have a car so even if I set something up what was I gonna do ride the bus to go fuck a girl?. Sorry mini rant but in short you don't always get to fuck every girl t…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 04:12 AM
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Plates are girls you've fucked at least twice, side bar. I'm talking about guaranteed lays I didn't take.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 04:07 AM
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Honestly I didn't realize I did that. I posted the post from my desktop and I'm on my mobile app now. I guess that explains why sometimes I'd have my point beside my name and sometimes not. I'll try and log into my mobile account from desktop and use this account exclusively for this sub from now on. Thanks for pointing that out I've only been on reddit for about two months. EDIT: Also explains why I didn't get notified when people commented. I'm an idiot sometimes. DOUBLE EDIT : once I get back…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:27 AM
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Thank you, I don't usual put much effort forth in any endeavor but TRP showed me that half assing things only hurts yourself. If you have any feedback for formatting or a topic you think I should include, please let me know.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:18 AM
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Yea I know all about it, my previous post in this sub details some of my lowest points I been at in my life. I've looked around the sub and found that I have it much easier than most the guys here. I'm musician, actor, dancer you can pretty much name it. It gives me a lot of confidence. That same confidence was ripped away by one woman. TRP taught me in order to truly be happy you must take responsibility for your life AND Responsibility for your own happiness.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 12:54 AM
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I know... One of the hardest things for me right now is trying to find a way to pursue my dreams while being realistic and continuing to work. I'm looking for remote work so I can work from any location while trying to get more experience and exposure in film(I have a lot of stage experience).
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 10:04 PM
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Glee isn't exactly a good representation of show choir but that's besides the point. I was actually accepted into the NY school of dramatic arts(Danny devito went there) but instead chose to stay in NC with my ex. Terrible choice.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 09:50 PM
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You're seriously trying to insult me for being in a musical in high school? You know what it takes to do that well? Coincidence the ability to sing dance and act. Yes I could do all that in high school and graduated at 17, I'm 19 now with my own place and my own car. I work in medical insurance so I'm comfortable with the money I make. What do you have going for you other than you're a dick?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 07:46 PM
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Sure harassment is cool too. If you have all this knowledge that you can tell when apparently everybody is lying then please submit a post detailing some insight into how you gained this ability. Now I'm done wasting time with you so I'm no longer replying to you. Do yourself a favor and instead of being so cynical just take things at face value. Being so cynical is linked to depression or anti social disorders get help.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 07:13 PM
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Naw I'm good on taking advice from you. The community doesn't seem to think that or I wouldn't have a point beside my name. You have one post that was removed, you contribute nothing. You left no feedback to the actual post so in actuality maybe you should be the one to lurk.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:51 PM
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Check the new tab I reposted the post and based on the feedback from the comments edited it. I also included some quotes that helped me get to where I am from some other rp members here. It seems to me that you're upset because you can't imagine having a life like that I'm sure you good. I'm nothing special just autistic when it comes to giving up
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:46 PM
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Do me a favor look up "le mis a. L. Brown" it's one of the many shows I was in around that time. The show was nominated for a blumey (musical award) and I played three main roles in the show(just Google what I told you there are pictures) I was essentially a local celebrity so if it's hard for you to believe I understand that. Like I said I'm not lying and I'm posting because I just want to help others. I spent a lot of the last year depressed thinking I wasn't worth anything just because I let …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:38 PM
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Haha no but you'd be surprised how much women like to please a guy who they think is manly. Kinda it the same way you hear stories about girls giving all the couples money to a chad. It's documented that bitches act crazy and irrational for high value men so lunch and some massages is relatively easy to get out of a woman.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:13 PM
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I can see how that could be looked at that way in my revamp I change my wording. I meant I have 20 women in rotation as in these were the ones I wasn't fucking. Notice I detail I had plates and they knew about each other when I would get tired of the plates I'd fuck a new girl then back to the plates.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:10 PM
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Nothing I said was a lie. Just because you haven't lived my life doesn't mean it didn't happen.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:07 PM
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I really didn't mean to come off that way. And yea it's been suggested that I be a male prostitute jokingly and unjokingly a few times by almost everybody I know so not surprised you said that. Either way I'm just sharing because I went from being depressed to feeling like a god among men again. Women are taking me out to eat and going out of their way to comfort me with massages and things and I couldn't be in this spot without the sub. Just wanna give a little back. If you guys saw me in perso…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 12:38 PM
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Lol lifting is implied in here I would hope.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 01:30 AM
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I think it depends on the mood of the group/ if you're an alpha with a capital A. From the sounds of it the girl I fucked saw complaining her ex was a cheating piece of shit, a third girl was talking about how this guy lead her on and of course my ex with the need to be dramatic said I was beating her. (neither of the other girls believed it they've known me since middle school). If they were talking about how good they were getting fucked on sure I would've been big dick Sammy in the story inst…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 12:41 AM
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Haha yea the me I am now wouldn't have cared enough to ask but this was before I found the blue pill and I guess I fucked that girl kinda for revenge against my ex so I couldn't enjoy it as much as I wanted.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 12:08 AM
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I relate to this because once me and my ex broke up I of course started fucking her friends. Anyways we had this mutual friend from high school we had hung out with about two months before our break up(it was a double date type thing). This friend told me that she had heard some stuff about me from my ex before I fucked her to which I replied "I'm sure she talks a lot about me"(disinterested tone) I didn't know what she was going on about but at the time I was debating If I was going to fuck her…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:31 PM
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Fuck her, you haven't talked so you can reframe. Establish that you don't want friends you are interested in sex. If she still wants to hang out you're in the green 9 out of 10 times. (yes even if she says she has a bf, she loves him etc). Bonus information for closing : I was hanging out with this dudes wife about 2 or 3 weeks ago. We both knew what we had planned to do. She had been chatting me up on snapchat and video chatting me beside her husband while he slept. Anyhow she gets to my house(…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:45 AM
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End it. End of story. If you stay and it works I'll literally let you shoot me in the foot.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:33 AM
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Your frame is your reality, your peace of mind or calm spot depending on context. Some post speak about having a girl "enter" your frame that would be her entering your reality and in this zone you hold the power. Others speak about holding frame, so like if a girl is trying to get you to argue and giving you shit you don't do that because then you'll be outside of your peace of mind and have dropped frames. My frame usually is "I'm a attractive funny charmastic and musically talented dude who i…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:32 AM
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Say what you need to. If it makes you feel better It makes me happy you posted it; and I'm being completely sincere.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:17 AM
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Sorry for the late reply I took a nap. It's the mental pattern shown in everybody to give a cause to a effect. Example you eat something you get sick the next day and even though you drank and ate so many other things you know that one item is solely responsible. The cause is sexual text and the effect is distance which she doesn't want obviously.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 11:17 PM
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I needed this reminder there's this girl I've fucked a few times coming over Friday she has a bf now and I haven't tried anything the last couple times. She looked real pretty with a dick in her mouth.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:40 PM
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Yea don't. I don't know i consider myself pretty strong ( by the luck of the gods haven't been cheated on just yet) and I wouldn't be able to bring it up and keep frame.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:02 PM
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Just go for it. The more "go for it" you display the higher you SMV will appear to be to her, be prepared for her to want to leave she might be nervous. (wouldn't you be nervous if a attractive stranger approached you?) My approach is to play it very low pull initial approach.. Now if you're asking about how to approach in a crowd. If it's loud don't you'll have to yell for her to hear you and that screams I'm trying hard as fuck. if you can approach her in a loud environment (from the side pref…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 06:57 PM
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Oh like ghost her, don't respond. It helps if she knows you can respond but just aren't. Are you familiar with representativeness heuristic?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 06:09 PM
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I feel it helps. I think part of the reason it's so hard for a lot of us men to get over certain women is because we never had a good in depth relationship example to follow. So when we find one we just kinda clutch on. For me my mom treats my dad like shit. I may not even be his kid being fully honest and he knows it but he never left and I confused his weaknesses for strength. I appreciate everything he ever did but knowing the way he probably feels every day...... yea I couldn't do it.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 06:00 PM
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How much water are you drinking? Do you run at all!? And when you touch the muscle on the lower abs are they as hard physically speaking as the middle? If you're working out your abs you don't want to over work them it's a common mistake. You may need to lower you BMI
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:54 PM
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Really? I will admit I get to play the game on easy difficulty but you've never just talked to a girl for about 20-30 minutes then hit? It hasn't happened often to me so I could see if it isn't that common. I'm going to the club Saturday I'll see if I can make a field report.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:51 PM
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Just ice her when she brings up sex and talk to her when she's not talking about it. You'll establish a negative feedback (see psychology). I can't say this 100% failsafe but it's how I've been fucking my ex fiancees friend on and off for four years.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:45 PM
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The most manly thing I've read all day.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:41 PM
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What you need to do is put yourself first. I was in your spot a year ago. Maybe not a decade of my life gone but that time doesn't matter anymore because it's the past it's gone you can't get it back you can't change what you did what she did what and this isn't what love is. Sorry for the run on but this is the answer to every question I asked myself when I depressed over my oneitis. I don't talk to her anymore and it doesn't bother me 99%of the time i think the 1% is because her mom recently (…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:39 PM
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Yes and no(regarding aloofness). Aloof but only to them so more so apathetic of their existence. Makes you seem mysterious like you're always thinking about something while they are just sitting there thinking about what you're thinking about. Edit - to attract a man start by saying hello
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:32 PM
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GIVE UP ABORT THE MISSION. I'm on mobile so I'm not sure if I can even quote you correctly but here "she said she is busy (and yes she is).... "etc. That's a HUGE RED FLAG. Basic rule I keep when making dates. DONT. girls will take you out if they are into you, they'll heavily suggest which day they want you, they will squirm wiggle and completely fuck their schedule and not care about the repercussions . She probably is stringing you along in case her other dick doesn't want her so she feels va…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:29 PM
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Honestly you're far too into her. I know this is going to be a hard concept to grasp, you don't want to be uninterested in her but disinterested in her. There is a difference between the two. Uninterested is more akin to bored of while disinterested is more of a form of apathy, girls love a guy that seems to not even really concern himself with her cause he just doesn't care(because HE'S ABOVE THAT AND YOU'RE ABOVE THAT). Those were some general tips but to address what you said when she said "I…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 05:05 PM
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You're in a paradox bud that girl isn't gonna want you as long as in your mind she's "that girl"
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:07 PM
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Basic rule of thumb is don't pre plan this shit bro. If you feel the vibe and she's fucking you with her eyes on the first date then go for it. If you feel like you've been going too hard and she's pulling back go a little harder and invite her to your place but when she's there you need to reframe (you aren't interesting enough to her at this point, so goal is to be as charming as possible without showing any sexual interest in her personally. Pass her shit test and send her home early. It'll m…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:52 PM
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I honestly think they just try to say as many things as they can to get your attention. I only say this because if you ignore a girl and only reply when she says something that interest you(for me sexually things, booty pics and such) slowly you'll notice that the text she's sending when she's having a conversation with herself will drift toward whatever interests you respond to. Tldr: She's trying to figure you out, she doesn't know you enough to say exactly what it takes to get an reply when s…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:46 PM
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I would say don't use texting only as a means logistics cause you'll be shooting yourself in the foot kinda. Don't text back frequently just enough to engage her every once in a while. If you wanna plate her it doesn't hurt to text for a bit until you get her hooked. Once shes hooked it won't matter if you reply she'll have conversations with herself through text.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 02:28 PM
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You're 100% right and I have no argument. Have a new car though and it's opened a lot of doors.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 02:51 AM
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I was kinda not fucking out of respect for me ex. But I realized she doesn't deserve it
/r/askTRP10/05/17 01:52 AM
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I should address that in finding trp my depression has nearly completely dissipated. Now it's only been a few days and it kinda cycles sometimes but it just feels different. My depression always came from feeling my worth was extremely low, i was raped by a man, a female cousin and a female baby sister. It put me in kinda a shitty place mentally especially since I was so young. Once my ex broke up with me it all kinda crashed on my soul like heavy waves I thought to myself "if I was worth anythi…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 04:12 PM
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HUGE thank you! I'll be sure to try it.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 03:43 PM
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She's 22, I'm 19 . I turn 20 in October
/r/askTRP08/05/17 07:02 PM
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!!! Literally what my dad said. And yea she's spilling about how much he annoys her while I'm catching up on replying to these post. Due to being introduced to shit test I realize she's been shit testing me over and over and I've been just been fucking myself like a dumbass. I've barreled through today and all of sudden she wants to turn her phone off (which she never does) so I think I'm in green.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 05:52 PM
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Yea that's a definite don't wanna have to start the cycle of finding myself over again. A year was enough of my life and I promised myself I'd do everything I can to never feel that worthless again.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 04:24 PM
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Yes but she's at my house on my couch rn as I'm typing this. I'm starting to think the boyfriend doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:26 PM
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Planning on it, gonna try and close on her tonight if it doesn't work out. Sending that bitch to the phantom zone.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:06 PM
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Lol wow dude. You might have some internal issues you need to solve. I have a paid off house now another paid off car and I live in a two story house in a nice neighborhood. Project less.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:03 PM
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I mean that's what I was thinking(the orbiter point) and believe me it's not oneitis I still kinda have that for my ex. It's just the fact that she won't make decisions without my input that seems weird to me like maybe she wants to fuck and I've just never tried so I'm missing out, she messaged me saying she wants to see me so I'm making her come over. I'll make a move and if it's a no go ill let it go. I'll post an update later tonight.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:01 PM
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Now I'm kinda new here but to the best of my understanding 1) escalate just means to take things further. Example, You flash a girl a smile and smiles back you could escalate by going up to her and starting conversation. 2) I would personally say no, you want to fake it till you make in a sense. The real point is that your options don't DEFINE you, you define you. So rather you have 2 or 200 options you shouldn't really change unless it's a change you want to see in yourself 3) stop at but. With…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 12:28 AM
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I don't get it anymore. I used to but I think it came from feeling guilty like I was cheating on my ex but once I was like FUCKDATBITCH I just get a nice zen when I bust.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 12:04 AM
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Thanks for the reply bro, and it's a relief to hear your say that part about slipping to borderline beta. It honestly was a REALLY big change. Before my ex had never even taken a girl on a date let alone buy them something. 'cause you know honestly what would be the reason. My ex slowly convinced me to start doing things like that and before I knew it I was cleaning the house and shit its a slippery slope. Thanks to the sidebar and some great post though I know IF I ever enter a LTR to set bound…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 11:53 PM
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I know I'm a little late and I just found this thread. I guess my progress is using this thread to find myself again. I had always had countless women wanting me (always have due to be being a solid 8/10 but women usually say I'm a 10/10 or near) but after my break up about half a year ago I was just so numb and fucked up from it I couldn't even enjoy sex with others girls. I fucked my high school crush who is a like 9.5 and couldn't even get myself to cum.(around a month after the break up). A …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 05:07 AM
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