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| 2 | Blue Pillers constantly respond to criticism or men venting with “well clearly your attitude/personality is why you struggle” but this makes zero sense, as venting anonymously online has absolutely nothing to do with how you interact with women/people in real lifeYep. Thats why I started with "I don't Know". Do you understand what "I don't know means". I also ended with "Some Truth". As in some. Go read a dictionary or finish school you illiterate in5el freak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMaybe someone cared enough, but an actual hotline is probably more effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat does that have to do with anything. I really hope this flops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReddit isn't a hotline for that stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How bad Is in a relationship not being able to orientate/know Places? How bad Is being an inept?Well if women don't want men to take the lead or be dominant, getting lost is all there is. This is good, men are adopting to womens ideals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Do men not care about having female friends?Basically for (straight) men, is your only concern when interacting with a woman whether a straight woman is going to sleep with you/be a potential partner or not? Not fussed. Don't get me wrong, however, if someone is repulsive, I will still be repulsed. If someone is attractive, I will still be drawn to them. However, the context also matters. Who I interact in the workplace out of necessity is different to who I interact with socially. Socially I am allowed to be picky as HR are not involved.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 06:20 PM |
| 0 | How bad Is in a relationship not being able to orientate/know Places? How bad Is being an inept?Well I thought women didn't like dominant men. So an unsure man is ideal right? Do these women hate themselves as they want a man that can lead? https://youtu.be/-MrfAlJ2lyU?si=SspDG_CiGAz6d5oE&t=278 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWTF. Has the person who made that even watched the original. Just NO. I will spend the release day, rewatching the original thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pillers constantly respond to criticism or men venting with “well clearly your attitude/personality is why you struggle” but this makes zero sense, as venting anonymously online has absolutely nothing to do with how you interact with women/people in real lifeLook just try an experiment. Next time your with one of your friends, do some roleplaying. Firstly, fill your self with hatred for said person. Then say some script to them. Then fill yourself with love and compassion for them. Then say the same script to them. There will be a difference. Method acting exists for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pillers constantly respond to criticism or men venting with “well clearly your attitude/personality is why you struggle” but this makes zero sense, as venting anonymously online has absolutely nothing to do with how you interact with women/people in real lifeWhatever you believe, your reality ultimately gets shaped around. Its a glass half-empty/half-full thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:30 PM |
| 7 | Blue Pillers constantly respond to criticism or men venting with “well clearly your attitude/personality is why you struggle” but this makes zero sense, as venting anonymously online has absolutely nothing to do with how you interact with women/people in real lifeI was meant to join in the circle jerk. Sadly I didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Blue Pillers constantly respond to criticism or men venting with “well clearly your attitude/personality is why you struggle” but this makes zero sense, as venting anonymously online has absolutely nothing to do with how you interact with women/people in real lifeSoz bro, I don't have any statistics on what your talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIts the snacking I had to cut down on and what I was drinking. My actual meals were generally OK. Granted I needed to swap out some stuff so I was getting useful calories. But the main thing I found, is even once I have lost weight, if I go back to eating how I used to, its all for nothing. Fad diets don't help in the long run. There needs to be an actual change of daily diet like.... forever. As well as lifestyle changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:44 PM |
| 11 | Blue Pillers constantly respond to criticism or men venting with “well clearly your attitude/personality is why you struggle” but this makes zero sense, as venting anonymously online has absolutely nothing to do with how you interact with women/people in real lifeI don't know, speaking from experience, I used to troll with some pretty vile stuff on a certain forum. Most of it was self-hatred that I was projecting onto others when I was busy hating myself. Once I got over that and practiced self-love and some NLP stuff, the self hatred dissapeared. If I look for my old account on that forum I am shocked at some of the stuff I used to put. Also, as I have changed myself inside, the way everyone responds is different now to back then (ie, women in RL). So I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI do a 14 mile hike at least once a month. Thats basically a weeks calories deficit in one session. On top of my actual calorie deficit. Once I have lost a bit more, its time to eat normal recommended calories. Even before I started the weight loss, I was staying at my weight not gaining more. Then if I continue losing at that point, add another 100 calories a day on. And so on until my weight stays the same. Wish CICO was as straight forward as it sounds, sadly I don't find it so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIts more a question of low effort, high returns. Why put in the effort of getting with a higher maintenance women for a ONS, when anyone will do. Any holes a goal and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen seem really against younger guys. Where I used to work, some women dumped her partner. Then at some works do made a big speech about how much younger than her he was. Not sure if all us guys were meant to respond to it, but she seemed even more shocked at the complete lack of response. She kept repeating "But he was YOUNGER than me" over and over and over. Not sure what response was expected. Its like "Yeah he was younger than you [followed by tumbleweeds], what did you actually dump him f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA lot????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've just recovered from some bug that was going around. Monday and Tuesday was "Two holes, One toilet". Although I know I have lost weight as did not eat at all Sunday, Monday and most of Tuesday and am now slowly getting appetite back. Not sure its a great way to lose weight. Just got to be disciplined enough not to binge when my appetite comes back properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.Its all part of the Game. "She is not yours, its just your turn" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 03:27 PM |
| 4 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.You seem to sane and rational for this place! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.a podcast is too make money. Do you understand how business works? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.I am classing self worth and confidence as 2 different things. Confidence is my ability to get something done, step outside my comfort zone, etc. Self worth, is my self-esteem and what I think of myself. As far as your homeless shelter example goes, yes it would make me feel more confident about working in a homeless shelter and my ability to do the tasks it entails. Where as pilot lessons would make me more confident about my ability to fly a plane. However, I would not necessarily translate th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | "Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why?Who cares if your a shitty person. Your a successful person or a failure, the end. A nice guy who is not shitty, can still be a complete failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 11:32 AM |
| 1 | "Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why?Why would a guy give a toss about other guys being insecure? Who cares. Men are not women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Is it a bad or good idea to display any real emotional issue or vulnerability in a relationship?Nope but "Remember a time when you felt......." or saying something really low followed by something really high or vice versa will evoke positive emotions. However ultimately the strongest frame always wins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 11:07 PM |
| 7 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.Why would working in a homeless shelter make me confident? Winning a level on a video game would make me confident about my ability to play the game though which means f*ck all in the RL tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.Also what you do with TRP world view is upto you. You can use them to stack the odds in your favour or use them as an excuse to whine about how unfair your life is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.No it is not "needed" and its not guaranteed to help. Like revising for an exam is not needed. Personally I prefer to do everything I can however to get the odds more in my favour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.None of the courses or advice is designed for neurodivergent short men. Its for guys who have most the pieces in place. If you are in the bottom 1% of society, then yes you are f**ked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.It also mentions to work on yourself. Why do you think "Just lift Bro" is a thing. If you do nothing else, just lift. Realising you do not matter, does not contradict this. Nor does letting go of your ego (a pretty good thing to do tbh). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.Go on then, what does RP say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 10:04 PM |
| -1 | Is it a bad or good idea to display any real emotional issue or vulnerability in a relationship?I would say men need to be able to create emotions in women. The rollercoaster ride seems more important to a woman than the everlasting nothingness that a man enjoys. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=967PfRUUeEQ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTBF same here. Everything is so easier and feels better. Its the key to earning your right to being treated like a human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4A: I have a friend who has been married for 7 or so years. Their first kid is nearly 16. His wife has just been starting to hit the gym like crazy. Is divorce in the air. Should I advise him to lift or tell him he is beautiful the way he is (he is quite fat as he got lazy once he met his wife). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Men, who here has significantly increased their core household work share and actually received significantly more sex as a result of doing so? In your experience, does it work?And his inability to "just lift bro". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell then its their choice to live like that. Nothing else to say really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you mean "Instant Dates", you don't actually ask for a "date", you just say lets get a coffee or something. Its "hanging out" not a "date". You still escalate like it was a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThats nothing new, Besides why would you even WANT to set the expectations of a "date". On a hang-out, "it just happened". This is nothing new. Look up the old PUA archives, this is antique stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they thinkAPALT. All People Are Like That. You have not found a magical Unicorn. If you get complacent, or lazy, they will dump/divorce your worthless ass. So get your shit in order. No wait, RP is bad. What am I saying here.... Just be complacent Bro, its the Blue Pill way.,. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.Yes, this is why RP and PUA both advise you to work on yourself. PUA breaks its down a bit too much, but even so, there are lots of measurable steps, so its more "How far did I get" than just black and white rejection. But if you are doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results, then yes.... that is insanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf its the only time you can honestly fit it in, what other choice do you have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 07:28 PM |
| 20 | Is it a bad or good idea to display any real emotional issue or vulnerability in a relationship?Depends if you want the relationship to continue or not. If you haven't got the minerals to end it and you want it ending, it can be a very good way to manipulate her into ending it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it hypocritical for an experienced man to want an inexperienced woman?Why do you care what some random women who rejected you thinks of other women? Yes double standards exist. Its part of life. Get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe other survey I found the other day, one of the reasons was "I don't feel sporty" was a common answer. Like WTF, I don't "Feel Sporty" when I goto the gym. I just goto the gym, sometimes feeling happy, sometimes not happy, sometimes sad, sometimes not sad, sometimes psyched up for it. But anyway, whatever "I don't feel sport means" I guess is a reason the gap exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many gay men get along with straight women?They have no ulterior motive and are not trying to get into the womans pants? They really are "being themselves". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it hypocritical for an experienced man to want an inexperienced woman?If some says "Men without money are trash", what they mean is "I belive/think/feel men without money are trash" and its a form of rejection as they are totally rejecting you. Unless they are the spokes person for the whole of humanity, in which case I am mistaken, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe thing with exercise is their is no "Ideal Time", so you just gotta squeeze it in somehow. I would love this survey to have been done alongside "How many hours a day do you spend watching Netflix" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Is it hypocritical for an experienced man to want an inexperienced woman?"I want a rich man" vs "Men who aren't rich are trash/lazy/[insert any other judgement]. Rejection is just rejection. Why are you basing your opinion of yourself on rejection. You have a very sensitive soul. If someone rejects you and says you are trash because you do not meet their standards, so what. Anyway, go tell your mummy, I am sure she will pat your head and tell you you are fine the way you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI actually enjoy the stuff I do. I'd rather Kayak a river, than sit at home just watching pointless shit on Netflix. I'd rather scramble the side of a mountain than watch pointless shit on Netflix. You get the picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy personal view regardless of man or woman. If you want to exercise, you will find a way to fit it in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust speaking for myself, it isn't the same. I'm not as motivated. Secondly, its cheaper to join a gym and use their Olympic size swimming pool, then build one at home. Thirdly, its easier to use an indoor climbing wall centre, than build one at home. Then we have kayaking on rivers, kinda hard to do at home. On top of all that, its also cheaper to use the weights at the gym than to build an entire weights gym at home. And its a good place to socialise (more so the social nights at the indoor cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat are your views on the "Gender Exercise Gap"? https://www.sweat.com/blogs/life/gender-exercise-gap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Has exclusivity stopped being the default?Do you communicate this and stand by it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Has exclusivity stopped being the default?Yeah... Covert Contracts are known for their great success in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 05:57 PM |
| 9 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Maybe you are family of Chad, not the PPD "Average Man". That was sarcasm by the way. In agreement, its a Reddit user issue, not "Average Man" issue. The "Average Man" on here is not really that average. And I have seen some trainwrecks do quite well with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | When guys say they can’t find a girl, is it because you’re not finding 1st dates or not being able to find a commitment?It was easy to get dates, pre-app era. Get 10 - 20 phone numbers on a night out. Then work through them one by one. Even with apps, its still easy to communicate with other humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 05:51 PM |
| 2 | When guys say they can’t find a girl, is it because you’re not finding 1st dates or not being able to find a commitment?Its easier to make an excuse than take action. This is why its so easy to rise above the "Average Man" these days. They choose to not compete. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo what makes you think people should drop everything they are doing to respond to you? Are you Joe Biden, Rishi Sunak, Vladmir Putin? Are you Elon Musk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAccept that people have lives that don't revolve around responding to your texts. If its that urgent, call them. Besides, absence makes the heart grow fonder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 04:15 PM |
| 2 | what people miss when giving advices to men is that men operate in a hierarchy .I'm more of a Redpilled Guy than some leftie equality person. One of the key tenants of RP is " you CANNOT negotiate attraction" or as the PUA's said, before RP "Attraction isn't a choice, being attractive is" Anyway, you hold both genders to a certain standard, hope it works out for you bro. Are you going to start a petition? Like... that would work (sarcasm). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:54 PM |
| 2 | what people miss when giving advices to men is that men operate in a hierarchy .It will never become a standard. Its been around for decades and most people laugh it off, convince themselves they are fine the way they are, or come out with weird shit like you. Most people don't believe they can even change. What is your alternative anyway? Other than taking action, what else can you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:41 PM |
| 4 | what people miss when giving advices to men is that men operate in a hierarchy .OK mate, you keep telling yourself that. I guess only 6ft+ guys are in relationships in the USA then. Touching grass will not prove otherwise. No one gives a fuck about dating apps except wannabe serial killers who need excuses to not touch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:27 PM |
| 3 | what people miss when giving advices to men is that men operate in a hierarchy .Your not competing with the top1%. If I go to a bar on Saturday night, I am competing with the other guys in the bar. Most guys do not even compete, so its easy to stand out amongst them. Besides, whats the alternative? Do nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Men's self worth and general perception in society is tied to their success with women.Why is that strange to you. Your friends will probably lie and tell you, you are fine the way you are. Same with family, cuz they are too afraid to hurt your precious feelings. Your boss and co-workers probably won't care as long as you do work and earn money. So that leaves women to either be attracted to you or be repulsed by you. Its the only way TO measure a mans worth. Its not like we have rites of passage anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBro your 26. Your gonna be spewing the same BS at 50. Its gonna be even less special in 10 - 20 years. Do you actually WANT to remain a virgin? Your jus scared and rationalising it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 10:53 PM |
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