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| – | It is unethical for men to be romantically successful with womenHow is OP ethically using the internet when it requires energy that costs money? Why is OP engaging with an online community and provoking all of us to use energy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:59 PM |
| – | It is unethical for men to be romantically successful with womenThe whole purpose of ethics is to help us make ethical decisions. Under your view, there are so few ethical actions that it defeats the purpose of ethics. When your ethical system decrees most actions unethical, it’s not a useful system and will most likely lead to people not even trying to live ethically since they know it’s impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:55 PM |
| – | It is unethical for men to be romantically successful with womenSo it’s not ethical to date because that most often requires one to work for money and working for money is unethical because it requires fossil fuels? If that’s correct, it would be ethical for two people with generational wealth to date. Working and producing are what you’re describing as unethical first and foremost, so any activity or relationship that involves money, consuming, or producing becomes unethical as well. It’s important to note that there are various systems of ethics and framew… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?Wtf. That’s so rude. Ive never had a stranger comment on my weight like that, but I get really upset when I’m walking my dog late at night and not looking sexy or like a hooker at all and some guy asks “how much” or tries to engage me in conversation like im a prostitute. I live downtown in a major metro, but it still gets to me whenever it happens. It’s not even that they think they have a chance or that i am a hooker; it’s just to be mean and get negative attention, i think. No one who is walk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?Then rip those women's’ appearance to shreds as much as you want. That’s fucked up to say and they ought to be called out. If i heard a woman say that to a man, you can bet id say something because it’s just mean and completely unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?My first bf commented on my weight like youre saying. Or kinda, it was more like you should go to the gym more, and then when he was i guess more satisfied “you’re beautiful and you know you have to stay beautiful for me, right?” He was not a good person… but i wasn’t offended by the gym comment. I was upset by the stay beautiful comment because i had my own opinions on his looks and really wasnt ever so into the relationship (it ended w/ a call to 911 and him charges with several DV/SA felonies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?I’m probably not your average woman or the average woman you interact with or imagine exists (they may exist in high numbers, i dont know, i dont have many female friends, women confuse women, too just fyi). If a guy gave me this response, I’d be hurt but only if i felt like he was wrong. Im pretty conscious of my body and one day of junk food can take me from hot to ugly imo. I’m 5’7 and the weight i work out and eat healthy to be at is around 135-145 (i prefer 135-139). The body type i prefer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-ThreadHonestly some women like to keep a place nice if it makes someone they love happy and they have the time to do cleaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 08:19 AM |
| 10 | Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-ThreadThat’s like all of reddit though. Reddit hates marriage, cops, and any mention of religion other than Sikhs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | What even is the "friendzone"?No. It’s just a construct people made, so that they can about having a friend when they really want a sexual/romantic partner. I take it as people complaining about having friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?It’s not always dehumanizing or objectifying. Oftentimes, it’s about compatibility. I’m in a certain socioeconomic class. I’m accustomed to a certain lifestyle, grew up a certain way, have a particular perspective etc. I want to be with someone who is similar to me in what they value and how they want to live. I prefer an opera or play to a movie in the theaters. It’s more expensive to go to an opera or play than a movie. It’s not always status and wealth. Sometimes it’s shared interests, common… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 05:54 AM |
| 3 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?It’s good to start off as an empathetic person…. You learn how others manage and feel their emotions, and then you learn how to manipulate that while dissociating from your own emotions. To say this is limited to narcissists and sociopaths is awfully constraining. You can be cold, callous, and manipulative in one scenario and empathetic, caring, and understanding in another. Understanding how people process and experience their emotions is key to financial success in the corporate world. Sociopa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 05:44 AM |
| 9 | Q4W: What do women mean by a guy being emotionally mature/intelligent?I just found this sub and am so baffled about all that I’m seeing from men and some of what I’m seeing from women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:17 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: What do women mean by a guy being emotionally mature/intelligent?Read literature or have a favorite genre. My biggest green flag in early dating is what their favorite books are. I’m a writer, so it’s a matter of compatibility for me. I would struggle to be with someone who didn’t have a favorite book and who wasn’t intellectually curious. Being intellectually curious just means having an interest in the world, issues going on in it, and being able to form a coherent opinion for yourself on those issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | If studies have shown that a higher n-count leads to less satisfying relationships, why are some people unhappy when their dates don’t sleep with them early on? Shouldn’t we actually prefer that?As a woman, i agree with this. You can feel things are right with someone quite quickly, but for others you may be unsure. I’ll admit i think casual sex with a lot of people is grimy and behavior I dont respect, but i still think those men and women can have successful relationships if they don’t treat sex as being so casual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | If studies have shown that a higher n-count leads to less satisfying relationships, why are some people unhappy when their dates don’t sleep with them early on? Shouldn’t we actually prefer that?I don’t know that it’s expected that people sleep around… I have had few sexual partners, but would still argue that one should get to know someone first and point out that can happen at different rates. I guess I’m confused by this discussion and was unaware this was a hot topic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 03:08 AM |
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