ShadyPotDealer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life Do you really think that expecting more than "kind, interesting and loyal" is an insane standard to have? I'd argue that most men and women don't have these traits. The dating market is full of people as shallow as a puddle, but that doesn't mean you should lower your standards into the dirt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 09:25 PM
7	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life "Kind" and "loyal"? Respectfully: are you serious? What a low bar. Being smart is cool except everyone thinks they're smart and usually aren't. Independent? You realize guys like being wanted/needed, right? Like you don't have to be functionally worthless but asking for a guy's help is a pretty easy way into his heart, especially if it's something he is good at. "Interesting" works except while listing off adjectives, you didn't list a single one that might actually make you interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 06:51 PM
1	Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's life To be fair, everyone does to a degree. Women moreso, but everyone does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 06:47 PM
9	Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientists I find it funny that you mention this because this actually worked REALLY well for me. Being more care-free with alcohol has allowed me to be more care-free without it. Just have some restraint, of course	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 08:21 PM
–	When was TRP ever about self-improvement or stoicism ? I mean, TRP is mainly just about observations on how attraction/people work. The self-improvement stuff is just a natural reaction to that. The shift is solely a result of two key things: Hope is much easier to sell than hopelessness. Telling people to improve and saying you can learn how through their [shitty] course is a lot more profitable than saying "give up" We have more access to self-improvement items. For example, you can fight balding, which you couldn't a couple of decades ago. We als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 07:45 PM
1	Self improvement is quite limited for men So? Forget about how she'll feel in a few years. They all leave anyways. Just think about how you're making her feel now. they'll get upset that their boyfriend is too vanilla Sounds like she didn't forget.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:55 AM
–	Self improvement is quite limited for men So? Most men don't have a 5/10 face nor are they shredded. A majority of men are overweight or obese. Well over a third of the fucking population, actually. Most men sit on their ass and do fuck all the entire day. Most men are porn-addicted losers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:52 AM
–	Self improvement is quite limited for men I'm pretty muscular and bitches love abs. While I don't know anything else about you that is holding you back (genetic or not), to say that they don't help is just false. Can you genuinely tell me your dating prospects would be the same if you were a fat bozo? Really? I don't know anything about you or what's holding you back, genetic or not. What do you think is your biggest drawback? Just know my heart goes out to you homie. I know this shit sucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:30 AM
–	Self improvement is quite limited for men Not only do women find fit men FAR more attractive, the ability to fuck a bitch in the air with the stamina of Adonis himself is not something that she's ever gonna forget. Hit the gym broski	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:12 AM
1	Women‘s opinions lock men in a mental prison Most red pilled men on this subreddit	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 02:08 AM
8	Women‘s opinions lock men in a mental prison Being a womanizer works, but it's not what we want. Most men want the Disney happy ever after. But we also know it doesn't exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 11:58 PM
2	A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objective Thank you! <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 10:16 PM
–	True or False: A man with a high OR low body count (relative to age) is generally seen as more unattractive Agreed. Even if you are desirable, if you have a low body count (especially 0), they will usually assume that something is wrong with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 09:42 PM
6	A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objective First off, again, I really appreciate your thoughtful response. Also, it is very coherent, so no worries about English not being your first language. That's very impressive! So you already weren't struggling with getting a girlfriend I mustered one who barely tolerated me and ultimately left me for someone else. While I appreciate your kind words, I can say with absolute confidence that she would have stayed if I was the person I was now, even though I am arguably a worse person than I was. Bear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 09:23 PM
5	A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objective I appreciate your thoughtful response. And good analogy, so fair enough. Let's say the men who have a glow-up, such as myself. A large portion of the RP rhetoric says that our personality does not matter in any meaningful way. All that matters is that we cross a certain attractiveness threshold. Based on my experience, that is absolutely true. However, not everyone gets the liberty of crossing that threshold. Not everyone gets to see both sides of women. Women will tell you X, Y & Z (being nice,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 07:14 PM
10	A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objective So you can label men who can't get laid as delusional and bitter, yet men who can don't get a similar generalization? How does that depend but your claim doesn't? My question is not any more or less broad than the one you just made an assertion to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 06:39 PM
1	CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of males My POV: she should be able to wear whatever she wants. Sweats. Shorts. Hoodie. Sports bra. Etc. and not have to experience creeps or harassment Literally nobody is disagreeing with you here. If she was wearing a hoodie in the middle of the day, I'd think she's a moron. I'd also think she's a moron if she chooses to wear bright neon clothing in the middle of the day as opposed to something more neutral and then act surprised when it results in more attention. No outfit could possibly justify cat-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 06:27 PM
6	A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objective I'm curious what you think about the men who are bitter but can get laid? Does that skew their ability to be objective? Are they delusional?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 06:12 PM
1	Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situations My question is, if you belong to the last category, would you be ok knowing on some level that this 'glow up' and not years of loyalty and unconditional support made her 'see the light'? I think this is an argument that has less to do with the impacts of a glow up on existing relationships and more-so has more to do with the impacts of a glow up on any relationship. Speaking from experience, improving in any significant way shows you a side of people that you didn't know existed. Glow ups in a s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 05:15 PM
25	Men, would you date an obese woman if you loved her personality? Depends on how obese, of course. But absolutely. I like nerdy women so the nerdier she is and the more likely she is to play games with me, the more I would be okay with whatever, tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 09:09 PM
1	Current day red pillers lie to men about how women are and what men should do to attract women, because red pill not longer wants to help men be successful at dating, but to make men bitter, miserable, angry doomers who stay single and alone and eventually even self-delete. Bottom-tier women's behaviors I don't really care for most of these because anyone can live their life however they want, but pair bonding is a very real thing for men and women alike. You love the strongest the first time you attach to someone and your ability to do that again diminishes each time you do so. If you think you will love your 100th partner even a fraction of the same amount as the 1st, 2nd or 3rd, you are being contrived. Women will dump you if you cry / are vulnerable / show emot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 03:53 AM