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| 1 | What makes a man sexually attractive?You seem so self-involved that I'm sure I'm far from unique in that case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/16 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What makes a man sexually attractive?I'm just letting you know that I didn't read this spiel. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/16 10:08 PM |
| 2 | What makes a man sexually attractive?Honey, you're spouting very familiar tunes - so familiar I can sing along easily with you. Allow me: "Women chase after asshole jocks that treat them like shit, and leave the nice guys who would treat them well alone. Nice Guys are too boring/(or my favourite) nice and women HATE that! Ugh, all women are dumb whores!" That's about the gist of your complaints, yeah? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | What makes a man sexually attractive?Well at least you're consistent. I have nothing more to discuss. Have a good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 05:50 PM |
| 7 | What makes a man sexually attractive?TL;DR: I'm salty af because women have sex with men they are attracted to. Come on now. You're not having sex with fat women because you're not attracted to them. Why do you expect women to have sex with you if they're not attracted to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 05:29 PM |
| 2 | What makes a man sexually attractive?To an extent, yes I do believe "average" people more often than not end up in miserable relationships. Considering this is in the context of women going after extremely attractive men and ignoring average guys: do you believe that attractive people will have a better relationship then based on their appearance alone? I think only people that take an active role in their relationships have "quality" relationships. While I do agree with this, I don't think it's impossible for average people to hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 05:28 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man sexually attractive?Its just that overall we don't discuss men's bad behavior, because it is MEN we are talking to ABOUT women. You aren't in a discussion on TRP, however - you're participating in a discussion asking WOMEN what they find sexually attractive about men. So, I'm sure how you can see that coming in here and saying what you did will naturally garner that response. Your wishy-washy "we don't talk about men in TRP" doesn't hold water here. Do try not to make this all about you. Surely, but what is the qua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 04:50 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man sexually attractive?In how many of these couples is the woman looking out for a better branch to swing to? How many of those women would be willing to "step out" briefly if a dude that looks like Ryan Gosling hits on her? I'd say it's probably about the same number of men who are willing to "step out" briefly if a woman who looked like Stoya hit on him, especially considering that the number of cheaters by gender is roughly the same. This fear-mongering is laughably transparent - what you're trying to apply to wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 04:16 PM |
| 6 | What makes a man sexually attractive?Interestingly enough you haven't "disproved" my point. Your personal evaluation is that you're above average in looks insofar that women in your league are above average looks. Thus you're an attractive man. As an attractive man you are saying women are passing you over for "Chads" whom we'll say are other attractive men. So what differentiates you from "Chad"? Let me reiterate my statement: an attractive man can lose his sex appeal based on his personality. If you are attractive and you're bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 03:57 PM |
| 6 | What makes a man sexually attractive?My SO - while attractive - is a far cry from Ryan Gosling or Brad Pitt (I don't know who Henry Cavill is, so I don't know about that one, lol). He is by no stretch of the imagination a Chad. Most men aren't movie star gorgeous, nor are most women. I'm curious if you've actually seen couples together. Usually they're of the same attractiveness, though of course that's not a hard and fast rule. Seriously, go to the mall, or the movies, and just watch the people who are together. They're pretty muc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 03:17 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man sexually attractive?So... Skills over size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 02:28 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man sexually attractive?Many women aren't satisfied by dick, period. Majority will not climax from penetrative sex alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 02:09 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man sexually attractive?The question wasn't "do hot guys not give a fuck about rejection where averge men do?" OP asked what we found sexually attractive about men and if personality was prioritized over appearance. I gave my answer. Whether Giles Chevalier's look-a-like cared or not is irrelevant to the question. His success with other women is definitely plausible, as is the case with men in general. My standards will be different than another woman's, and another's, and another's still, and what I found to be a deal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 01:45 PM |
| 11 | What makes a man sexually attractive?Is personality actually more important than looks? To me, yes. But not in the way you may think it is. An "ugly" person with a stellar personality isn't going to be sexually attractive to me. There's nothing there that entices me: a good personality is not enough to be appealing. But an attractive man with a shitty personality will likewise drive me away, no matter what you look like. You could be Giles Chevalier's twin brother, but if you're a human-shaped bag of shit I will happily walk away f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Why are TBPers posting selfies?Why are they trolls? They're trying to get an emotional response from you without in any way presenting a threat to you. The have no power to affect your life unless you let them. Oh, thanks! I would have never know that otherwise! /s You seem to be under the impression I have an agenda here and I'm emotionally invested in this. I'm not. I'm not sure if it's a tactic trying to undermine my "argument" or just misconstruting the way I'm saying it, but let me repeat that I have no agenda and I'm no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/14 04:15 AM |
| 7 | Why are TBPers posting selfies?If "thicker skin" means I lose a sense of decency and humanity, no thanks. Besides, I never said at any point that this was offensive to me. It's the equivalent of a child throwing insults, really. Mildly shocking, but at the end of the day you kind of just chuckle and shake your head at it, knowing (or in this case, hoping) they'll eventually grow up. You can dress up hate and intolerance into nice, friendly little phrases (suggesting a man needs his ass kicked because he's gay is FUNNY!), but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/14 01:02 AM |
| 4 | Why are TBPers posting selfies?Stop me if you've never heard this one before: "Lesbians are two alpha dicks away from heterosexuality." Yes, I too find it very humorous when people imply that another's sexual orientation is actually a lie... I've also seen a gay member of TRP told that if he got his ass kicked, drunk and had sex with a hot woman he'd be straight. If you're of the belief that hate crimes are funny I think you need to learn some empathy quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/14 12:29 AM |
| 7 | Why are TBPers posting selfies?Normally I wouldn't comment here but I think it's important to point out that homophobia encompasses both gay men and gay women. And there have been pretty discriminatory and bigoted comments on lesbians in TRP. I've seen homophobic remarks regarding gay men but I do think they are a lot more accepted/tolerated than other LGBT community members in the sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/14 07:50 PM |
| 3 | What does TRP want from women?Recognizing something as previously a historical norm and trying to live inside of that same constraint are two different things. We use to think that throwing your shit out the window onto the waiting street below was fine. Having sex with lots of people but shaming/condemning/dismissing people who do the same as you is hypocritical. That's like working all your life to get to the top 1% and then being contemptuous of everyone else there because they were born with a silver spoon in their mouth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 03:45 PM |
| 2 | What does TRP want from women?You were asked to source this: Men find it attractive when a woman values her own reproductive quality. You have failed to provide a source for that. The closest sentence I came across that could relate to your assertion was: Evolutionary psychologists contend this is an inherent sex difference arising out of sexual selection, with men driven to seek women who will give birth to healthy babies... This is fair. However, promiscuity does not hinder fertility. You've yet to prove that men are attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 03:23 PM |
| 3 | What does TRP want from women?You're physically built to reproduce. Enjoyment is the byproduct. Sure, I won't argue that. But sex is just as valued as a pleasurable experience as a reproductive mechanic. You won't find many people, for example, who'll say sex isn't important in relationships. A healthy sex life provides a lot more benefits than just reproductive purposes. As I've stated elsewhere in this thread: Female reproduction is expensive. The double standard is driven by the perceived value of her reproduction. Alrigh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 05:57 AM |
| 2 | What does TRP want from women?Of course! Thank you likewise for the polite conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 05:22 AM |
| 5 | What does TRP want from women?That's taking it to the situational level; I'm talking more when principles meet reality. My parent friend says: I'm a mother and I refuse to date fathers. She has made a criteria against men who live within the same or similar lifestyle as her. She has rejected them as suitable partners based on a facet she shares with them. Our slut-man says: I am a slut and I refuse to date other sluts. He has made a criteria against women who have lived the same or similar lifestyle as him. Absolutely they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 05:19 AM |
| 6 | What does TRP want from women?I'm sorry if I'm coming across as outraged. I'll endeavor to tone my comments down. Can you clear this up? Physical characteristics are fine to judge a potential mate by but behavioral patterns are not. Is that you're point? If not, please let me know. I think behavioural patterns are an acceptable indicator of certain behaviour if left unaddressed, yes. But the issue here is that you're failing to judge your own actions in the same way you judge your potential partner's. You are holder them up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 04:39 AM |
| 3 | What does TRP want from women?There's a demand you're partner not a penis. Not have chest hair. I could go on for all the ways that men want a woman that is nothing like themselves. Yes, physical characteristics that are usually male are definitely a fair comparison to sexual history. Expecting a woman (excluding penis and chest hair) isn't really the same as demanding a virgin when you've been a slut. Why get caught up on the number thing? It's completely in line with other preferences and standards that people have. I neve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 04:06 AM |
| 8 | What does TRP want from women?I think discomfort is fine, actually. I draw issue when it comes to shaming and feeling justified. If it's not your cup of tea that's okay to me, but to stand up and declare that a woman is a slut because she's had sex with as many people as you have? That's a hypocrite no matter what gender you are. I only really draw a line if a "slutty" man wants to settle down with a virgin, but even so I certainly am not in any position to stop it, nor would I. I think double standards are ugly both ways, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 03:44 AM |
| 6 | What does TRP want from women?Here the thing, he's not looking for his carbon copy. He has a set a preferences that either she meets or doesn't. But why should he be at liberty to demand them when he's violated them himself? Correct me if I'm wrong but from what I've seen TRP men reject women with a high partner count because: A chance of infidelity Problems with commitment "Pair-bonding" issues But those concerns are just as easily applied to men as women. Men are just as susceptible to have problems with commitment and inf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 03:29 AM |
| 6 | What does TRP want from women?Sorry, I didn't want to assume. Hypothetical: you are a promiscuous man who slept has slept with about 55 women in the course of your life. You want to settle down now, but you dismiss women who have a partner count of anything over 10 because it's "too high." Do you think it's fair to hold her to a higher standard (more chaste) than you held yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 02:57 AM |
| 7 | What does TRP want from women?Is it fair to hold your partner to a higher standard than you hold yourself, though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 02:54 AM |
| 7 | What does TRP want from women?To me a man being turned off by a woman's partner count is no more damaging to women than it is damaging to men for women to not want to date them because they don't have a job or ambition. Ah, I can see this. Like how a 40 year old man who doesn't have a steady job wouldn't be consider relationship material. I don't think it's exactly a perfect anagolgy but I can see how this wouldn't be ideal. The fear that if she's slept with so many men she could be more likely to stray, that she doesn't val… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 02:50 AM |
| 6 | What does TRP want from women?You said this: Who cares if these views are completely due to a sexist society (which I don't believe they are, but for the sake of argument)? But followed with this: Is he supposed to train his brain to shut off the natural repulsed reaction because these women deserve to be considered regardless of their past? You didn't go into why it wasn't an issue if these viewpoints stemmed from a sexist society. Mind if we went into it for a moment? I don't think that it's a-okay to be in a sexist societ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 02:08 AM |
| 3 | First post regarding attraction to dominance ( for tbp women )That's a good point. I'm not entirely convinced I explained myself very well in that first post. I don't consider submission wholly in acts such as oral or positions. As an example I like to 'peak' my SO with oral sex - an act some might consider submissive - but he's not allowed to orgasm until I say so. I didn't mean "submissive act" as in performances that are normally associated with submission. I mean it more as I assume a more submissive "role" in our sex lives. I apologize for the unclear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/14 07:17 PM |
| 6 | First post regarding attraction to dominance ( for tbp women )I find sexual dominance thrilling and highly attractive. In sexual situations I'm often more submissive and I enjoy it. That's not to say that I don't also like being the aggressive, assertive partner sexually; just that most often, and most appealing to me is the submissive act. However, I find dominance outside of sex to be overbearing and domineering. An example I see from time to time is the "going out to eat" one. Rather than asking where your date wants to go you just take her to wherever … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/14 05:08 AM |
| 2 | How can someone have high self-respect, and choose to be/like being submissive at the same time? Isn't subordinacy the default coping strategy of the weak?I don't think so, no. Being submissive doesn't necessarily mean one is "weak," it simply means you are content to allow another to lead. Deference doesn't automatically mean you're forced to follow, either, but that you choose too. Are there different reason for people to submit? Of course. And it's absolutely possible that one reason is because someone isn't assertive enough to stand up and go their own way. But not everyone who submit is weak. Sometimes those people just have no interest in be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/14 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Study: Men and Women Happier with ChivalryThis comment adds nothing and obviously you're not willing to engage in an actual discussion to support your own opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/14 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Study: Men and Women Happier with ChivalryBut aren't men also the overwhelming perpetrators of the violence (excluding domestic male victims) that we're talking about here? Wouldn't it make more sense to encourage men to treat all people with the same respect rather then treating women with more or other men with less? There's a happy medium between chivalry and punching people in the face because they called you an asshole, I'm sure. I think this may in part be a product of toxic masculinity. Rather than taught to communicate effective… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/14 04:54 PM |
| 9 | Study: Men and Women Happier with ChivalryI hate chivalry. I really, really do. I think its an outdated concept that should be ditched. People should just be respectful and polite to one another - that's it. Gender shouldn't equate to how you treat people out in the world, and honestly how you act socially can be a telling reflection of you to others. I hold the door for people all the time and have had it held for me. I always say thank you because I think it's important to acknowledge that kindness and show gratitude. I think it's mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/14 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone else worried about the men?I've done the fade out too, so I can't really say anything. I'd be lying if I said it doesn't make me feel like I've "won" but I know that's just my competitive nature and so I dismiss it. I recognize that another poster fading out just means the conversation is now ended. No one's winning here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/14 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Is anyone else worried about the men?I've taken you're advice and read some of side bar articles. I believe my original stance is still accurate. Some examples I've found: As nice as it would be to relax, trust and be vulnerable, upfront, rational and open, the great abyss is still the lack of an ability for women to love Men as Men would like them to. - Women in Love. This is instilling fear that if you challenge the stereotypical male gender type (men never feel anything but happiness and rage and expressing anything otherwise is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/14 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone else worried about the men?It's an opinion. Honestly, if someone is taking everything other people post on the internet at face value without ever investigating themselves would you really want them to subscribing to theredpill? Feel free to disagree with me but don't get your panties in a twist because I gave my opinion when asked for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/14 07:39 PM |
| 7 | For BP regulars: are any of you married?Hey, BP regular chiming in here. Been in a committed relationship with my SO for seven years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/14 07:22 AM |
| 17 | Is anyone else worried about the men?They perpetuate their own misandry. "Men cannot express emotions," "men must be leaders," "there are two type of men in the world, those who get laid and those who do not," "men are always strong, stoic and unmovable and if you're not no one will love you." They rage against the male gender stereotype all the while enforcing the male gender stereotype. But it's goes so much deeper than that, too. TRP truly believes that men shouldn't live their lives fully. Are you feeling sad? Guess what, you c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/14 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Women love differently but is it a bad thing?I would say that it was accurate to a certain extent. There is no denying that an absent/bad parent can heavily impact a child potentially for the rest of their lives. However, I don't think that their absence/bad parenting will have permenant damage if therapy is sought out, and even if it isn't, their childhood isn't necessarily the kiss of death for every romantic relationship they pursue. I do agree that having an absent/bad parent can contribut to issues later on in romantic relationships. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/14 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Women love differently but is it a bad thing?Fair enough. Where would women learn to love if their father was absent, or if they never had a strong relationship with him? What happens to the women who never met their fathers? Where, in your opinion, would they learn their love from? Same goes for men and absent mothers. You example is a nuclear family, but not all families are like that. I think your opinion is interesting, but mostly I think it falls short. Families and especially parents are a massive part of childhood development, but a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/14 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Women love differently but is it a bad thing?I agree with your post. I think OP offered an interesting take on the subject but I don't think it holds true to every person and is a template for the way people learn to love/seek love. I haven't seen my father in nearly 10 years, and when he was around he was always emotionally unavailable. He didn't support me and we never established the father/daughter relationship OP is outlining. My SO is nothing like my father. I can see similarities between his mom and me, but my dad and him? Fat chanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/14 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Is it ok to be upset about your partner treating you differently than a past relationship?I think part of the issue (for me, anyways) is the nature of the comparisons. Many people have their own boundaries when it comes to sex versus people having boundaries when it comes to romance - you don't really ever hear of the latter occurring. I can't imagine a situation where someone was to say "Giving you flowers once in a while violates my boundaries," however it's not uncommon for someone to have anal sex off the table. Certain sexual activities can be experienced previously and not enjo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/14 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cheating on your SO could be ethical?Yeah, it definitely can be. Thanks for the discussion :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/14 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Do you think cheating on your SO could be ethical?I don't think so, no. I think he'd want to shake it up from time to time, but I don't think our relationship dynamic would change a whole lot. Sorry for the late reply! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/14 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Do you think cheating on your SO could be ethical?Absolutely. We switch it up given the mood, which sometimes results in us having "power-play" sex, which is really fun. I couldn't always be the submissive partner - there are times were I just want to be the boss lady, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/14 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Do you think cheating on your SO could be ethical?No, he's not a prop at all. He's my partner in life; my best friend. He doesn't need to have absolute control of our finances or be aloof to "prove" that he's a man. I've seen him cry, I've comforted him when he's cried, as he's done for me. We support each other and when it's needed light the fire under each other's arses. I couldn't imagine being the person I am today without him. In our sex life he's mostly the assertive/dominate one. Truthfully many (not all, but many) sex tips from redpill … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/14 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Do you think cheating on your SO could be ethical?Ugh, outside of satire I abhor the BP/RP or alpha/beta terms. In redpill ideology he would be a beta, but it's such a flat term to describe a person. He is definitely very different from the type of men redpillers strive to be. I am the more assertive partner in our relationship, but I by no means am the one in control. We make decision together. As an example: I always draw up the budget, but I'll ask him for his input. If one of us has plans to go out we ask the other if they don't mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/14 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Do you think cheating on your SO could be ethical?Hmm, an interesting question. I don't think I'd look for another partner while with him. I've already shouldered an unfair load in our time together, and I was still solid in our relationship, if overwhelmed. If I felt that it was really bad I'd end it between us. I'm not so afraid of being alone - in fact if we were to break up I'd prefer to be single for a while. I'd be in no immediate rush to find someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/14 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Do you think cheating on your SO could be ethical?Absolutely not. Those are issues that wouldn't be solved by seeking extramarital relationships. At best it would be a "balm" that does nothing to actually fix, and at worse I've exasperated an already rocking situation. I think the "punishment" should fit the "crime" (for lack of a better phrase). If my SO were to consistently overspend money that it was putting us in debt I'd take over the money. If he were to keep breaking (important) promises, ignored how I said it made me feel and made no st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/14 04:56 PM |
| 4 | Do you think cheating on your SO could be ethical?If it came to pass that you reached your last straw with your SO, but you loved him dearly, and you just wanted to escape in the arms of a more passionate man and you knew you could get away with it. Could you see yourself cheating in this case? In all honesty I don't see myself cheating. I have firmly held principles about infidelity and the type of person I want to be. I try to be very honest and straightforward with him, and keep our communication open. We've been together long enough to alre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/14 04:18 PM |
| 1 | RED VS BLUEHow 'bout you suck the end of my shotgun, Blue?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/14 06:15 AM |
| 6 | Do you think cheating on your SO could be ethical?I can say with 100% honest that I have never had the urge to cheat on my SO. I'm not blind and deaf to the world - of course I find other men attractive, and I like to look at them. But no, I've never thought "given the opportunity I would have sex with that man, even if I were with someone." I could never imagine inflicting that much hurt and damage for fleeting gratification, that's not who I am. I've got plenty of faults but that's not one of them. And I don't think people so much chose wheth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/14 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Do you think cheating on your SO could be ethical?I've never seen an incident of infidelity where I've personally thought it was ethical. I'm strictly monogamous and I've never cheated nor had the urge to cheat on my SO. I don't think there's ever a time where cheating is ethical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/14 02:51 AM |
| 2 | RED VS BLUEDibs on Sarge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/14 02:41 AM |
| 2 | How do people feel about /r/TumblrInAction?God, I love tumblrinaction. I recently discovered it and it's just hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/13 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Is it immoral to hide your sexual past?It might be how I personally approach these sort of things, but I kind of lean towards "it's none of anyone's business." My first sexual relationship was with a man somewhat older than me and far more experienced. I never asked him how many women he slept with because I didn't really care. Two of my friends who are together know each others' "numbers" and use them as barbed and personal insults when they get into an argument. Granted they aren't necessarily the most empathetic couple but how is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/13 04:26 AM |
| 2 | I want my wife to be a stay at home mom. Is this wrong according to TBPRelationships are built on mutual interests in the dynamics of the relationship, consent, trust, respect and love. If that means that you seek a more traditional dynamic and find a partner who likewise wants that dynamic, then that works for you. There's nothing inherently "wrong" with that; just like there's nothing inherently "wrong" with a more "modern" relationship, or a BDSM 24/7 relationship, or a polyamorous relationship. It's defined by the participants in the relationship and the mutual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/13 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Pro Choice?Say the mother wants to carry the baby to term, but the father backs out and she simply cannot support the child on her own. That is effectively the father (likely unknowingly, but all the same) coercing the mother into an abortion, which infringes on her bodily autonomy. To be honest, this is a really good point that I hadn't thought of. And it happens presently so it's not a wild speculation. Hmm. By the way, you know what actually does happen sometimes? A mother gives birth, realizes she does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/13 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Pro Choice?I honestly understand the reasoning behind those mothers' choice there. I switched computers recently, so I no longer have the links to the data to back this up, and I can't search for it ATM (but I will later), but on average over 18 years and excluding college, child support pays for roughly a third of the cost of having a child. You can argue that it's better for the child to have that relationship with their father, but I can totally understand the frustration of having to financially suppor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/13 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Pro Choice?So if the man said "I want nothing to do with this child" and vetos parental rights he's still expected to pay for a child he decided he didn't want. But if he did want a child, and the woman he impregnated didn't, and choose to abort, that's okay. But when he doesn't want a child it doesn't matter. At all. I get where you're going. Child support is for paying for the child. However, I think there should be some consideration for the man's choice as well as the woman's. And I know mothers who've… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Pro Choice?No, women who don't want to be parents don't technically have to abort. But all women who abort won't be parents to that particular embryo. They made a decision, based on whatever their personal reasons, to not go through with the pregnancy. And that's perfectly reasonable to me - I certainly won't hang up and crucify anyone for that. What a woman does with her body is her choice. But as it stands, right now, she holds all the cards. If she chooses to abort and the man who impregnated her wanted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 09:20 PM |
| 7 | Pro Choice?If a woman has the right to choose whether or not she wants to be a mother, a man should have the right to choose whether or not he wants to be a father. That's my opinion, anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/13 01:57 AM |
| 6 | How many blue pillers agree with this assertion about rape?This is exactly what I was thinking when I was reading this. Focusing on whether the woman is being raped while she's tied up her partner and left him bound and gagged for potentially hours is really absurd. If anyone is being raped in this scenario it's the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/13 09:14 PM |
| 2 | So my GF[22F] is arguing with me about when a girl should tell her partner she was raped..TIL being stabbed and being raped are the same things. /s | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/13 11:04 PM |
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