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| 1 | Do you believe life is generally easier as a single person?absolutely, wouldn't change a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:19 AM |
| – | How do you split the finances?Nah I keep my house always have. I have schedules I keep for cleaning, laundry etc. Basically I just expect them to clean up after themselves and don't leave things sitting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 12:07 AM |
| – | How do you split the finances?I don't disagree with you but, not everyone shares that thought. If your talking fair and only focusing in that, 50/50 Is the only fair split. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:55 PM |
| – | How do you split the finances?This can be argued either way. Basically your punishing the higher earned for having a better job or education by making it a requirement or expectation. As an example let's say you and your neighbor bought the exact same house but you paid 150k more because you made more. That wouldn't be fair. This isn't much different. Now as someone whose income is normally 5 to 6 times my partners, I just pay. If she kicks in a percentage I usually just put it in an account she has access to label "house ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Absolutely. There is no benefit in today's social environment to locking yourself down with any 1 person. The average relationship lasts maybe 5 years tops anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you split the finances?50/50 is the only fair deal. Income itself shouldn't be considered. Now if the high earning partner prefers, they can pick up a higher percentage, but it shouldn't be an expectation or requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?I think marriages in general should be done away with. Everyone should just take care of themselves and just casually date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:33 PM |
| 9 | Why do single and childless men who complain they cannot get dates or relationships also complain about the big numbers of single moms and that they would never date a single mother?Why? why should a real provider who wasn't worth her time when she was fucking all the fuck boys accept her now that she is full of trauma and drama and dragging children they have to support? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Do men even like women anymore?Bud, stop drinking poisoned Kool aid. Reading comprehension is a great skill. it isn't men hate women as much as we hate the behaviors and habits western women have developed. Out pulling back is a defensive mechanism. yes you can easily find examples of both extremes, but can easily find that we have just moved from dating in the west to seeking partners internationally where there is a reduced chance by a huge degree of dating someone and then finding out they are toxic and narcissistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?Perfect example, absolutely. He should have kept it on a fwb level only. no marriage. period. no exceptions. That mean saw a target and perfect victim and took advantage of him. He just learned a hard truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:33 PM |
| 3 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantthat I can agree with. 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What’s the plan?Not sure what your looking for? Once found we try our best to create a loving environment. Most are optimistic to a great relationship, but still cautious until its obvious how strongly we can build that bond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 11:35 PM |
| 8 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantBullshit. Most men have no damn desire to dominate their wives nor thinking its cool. Stop spouting crap. And learn reading comprehension. I said WOMEN WHO MARRIED OTHER WOMEN. Their divorce rate is at 80% matched with 75%+ hetero. They can't even hold a stable same sex marriage together?? So guess what the common denominator is??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 10:08 PM |
| – | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantThat's a load of social media horse shit. Most average men just want someone that appreciates and brings peace to a home not drama and trauma. Contrary to social media, men do not sit around and discuss how to dominate their spouses. If women were so cooperative then explain why 2 women marriages are still at a 80% divorce rate?? Your funding videos and posts online that even women who traditionally dare other women are sick of the entitled behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantThey can have what ever standards they wish. It's their choice as long as they realize the higher that standard, the lower the chance they will ever find a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Contrary to popular belief, I think meek, beta guy and dominant woman can create successful marriagesThese never go the distance. The wives are miserable because they feel they "settled " and the men just get part time minimal relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Sex Robots will fix the dating marketThat's the point its still and likely to be decades before the cost could be brought inline to mass produce. You would have to design medically safe mechanics and materials before you even reach the AI software. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Sex Robots will fix the dating marketThe mechanics of flight haven't much changed from the first flight. Only the supporting hardware changed. This isn't much different however the basic robots haven't been as popular or sales been what you might expect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Sex Robots will fix the dating marketIt still wouldn't be affordable. The sheer cost of research in the mechanics, software integration and or material testing would put us decades from now. They already sell such basic robots and they haven't cornered the market yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Sex Robots will fix the dating marketFor this to work as you state, it would have to be an incredibly designed AI system which would be exceedingly expensive. As with most such devices, only the extremely rich would buy them as a novelty item. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud?Ok let's agree to not allow any testing. Then the fix would be to fully allow any man to sign a legal document giving up any responsibility, legally, and financially of any child without that test. The "mothers" can now rest peacefully their rights have been protected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud?Considering I've been in Healthcare for 30+ years. Yeah I know exactly how it works. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:17 AM |
| 4 | Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud?And further, her rights only go so far as birth. Once that child is born it becomes that child and the fathers rights. She is no longer part of that argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:09 AM |
| 4 | Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud?Exactly. Those "mothers" shouldn't be violating their children's or husband's human rights. On top of that. Adultery should become a punishable crime with a mandatory 15 year prison sentence. If a child is the result it should increase to 35 years. No exceptions. Guess how fast cheating would stop? This is exactly why all men, the day after high school graduation should have a sperm sample frozen and get snipped or chemically sterilized. They would then have full paternity control over who they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:01 AM |
| 3 | Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud?Screw the mother. These mothers aren't the victims here nor are they involved in the testing. You want an example? 12 years ago my best friends daughter was diagnosed with leukemia. During testing for a bone marrow match. He finds out he isn't the father. He was so shattered he left a note " sorry but I was never daddy " walked into a park and ate a bullet. The child incidentally died because the mom didn't know who the child's real father was and they couldn't find a match in time. Families and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 08:35 AM |
| 4 | Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud?I can see where a cheek swab that stops millions if not billions of wasted court time and false paternity claims would be a horrible waste of time. Grow the hell up and buy a helmet. Considering over 30% of men that get tested find they are not the dad's it is highly likely with mandatory testing that statistic would show a much higher percentage of false claims thst never get caught. Those children deserve the right to know their true parentage. Their rights are being stripped by lies for a pay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 08:02 AM |
| 2 | q4men: would you sign an acknowledgment of paternity for the child of some woman you arent married to?That is a sizable hell no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 05:56 PM |
| 32 | Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud?Easy fix. Mandatory testing at birth. Fixes all such issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Should paternity tests be mandatory?Yes. Without a doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 03:04 PM |
| – | Why do red pill men dislike attractive women?Always moving the goalposts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 09:01 AM |
| – | Why do red pill men dislike attractive women?You must be joking. After working with nurses for 30+ years, I've heard far worse from women when discussing men, their relationships and male patients. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 08:33 AM |
| – | Why do red pill men dislike attractive women?Analogies are useful on conveying an idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 06:18 AM |
| – | Why do red pill men dislike attractive women?To answer, men will rent the sports car and drive it like it was stolen up to 19k miles. Then go back to the Hyundai for its reliability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 05:59 AM |
| – | Why do red pill men dislike attractive women?Simple, would you invest 200k into a sports car you knew the engine will explode at 20k miles Or would you invest 50k into a Hyundai that you know will take you to 300k miles with just regular maintenance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 05:54 AM |
| 2 | How often do you and your friends discuss/gossip about the sex lives of your social circle?Oh yeah, took early retirement Feb 2023 lol I'm all good now @@ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:59 PM |
| 3 | How often do you and your friends discuss/gossip about the sex lives of your social circle?I did at the time. Once I finished my second masters I moved into a divisional admin position and out of unit care. I met with the HR director and gave them all the information but it really didn't get addressed. This was all back in the 80's and 90's, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:53 PM |
| 6 | How often do you and your friends discuss/gossip about the sex lives of your social circle?You would think. I even spoke to management once was basically laughed at because and I quote " man up, they are just a bunch of gossiping women, live with it and grow a thick skin" by the woman director. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:34 PM |
| 8 | How often do you and your friends discuss/gossip about the sex lives of your social circle?More times than I can count. I would often just say " leave me out if it" and move off to care for patients or move to other side if the unit. I developed a habit of eating lunch in the room next to the unit to distance myself from the talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.Oh. Another sjw who just moves the goalposts. Thanks, invalid arguments are invalid. Another block added. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:11 PM |
| – | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.Christ, learn reading comprehension. Thats my point you can find any number of studies based off statistics to argue either pole opposite. You need an overwhelming majority of data points to prove one extreme or the other. To come anywhere near an accurate study ALL such reporting data should be correlated into one huge database and studied. Even then it would never be 100 % correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:06 PM |
| 19 | How often do you and your friends discuss/gossip about the sex lives of your social circle?You name it. I've heard more stories about their partners "short comings" size, performance issues or their own infidelity or body counts that would make most porn stars blush. Dating and or relationship advice or forced to sit and listen to them bash every male they know because some dude walked away. Not even mentioning how they bash patients after doing assessments and discovering someone less equipped shall we say. No topic was taboo unless directors or admin were in the area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:02 PM |
| 31 | How often do you and your friends discuss/gossip about the sex lives of your social circle?Umm mate, I worked in nursing for 20+ years as a ICU nurse. As one of the only men there, I cannot relate the sheet number of conversations I've overheard or been asked for a males perspective in such gossip. All it takes is one nosy Nelly with a big mouth and no self control and entire friend groups get outed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:55 PM |
| – | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.Google search. First return. https://gitnux.org/casual-relationship-statistics/#:~:text=A survey undertaken by DrEd,nature of our interpersonal connections. Specific note "A survey undertaken by DrEd.com found that 57% of respondents had had casual sex with a friend and 33% had had a one-night stand." "This movement towards more relaxed sexual attitudes, with 51% of women and 42% of men venturing into such encounters, " Data from UK’s National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles While UK b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:46 PM |
| – | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.Thst is no where near enough to get any sort of accurate estimate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:40 PM |
| – | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.That was the point. Using limited data you can argue for or against any statistics. The link was of a similar data point set. If I used what I know and experienced with only lifestyle couples, the report would still be wrong but heavily skewed to the opposing pole. To be anywhere near an closure statistic, they would need enough data to be called the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:37 PM |
| – | I don’t understand men’s arguments for why it’s only okay for them to have high bodycounts.What your posting is social media vomit. Basically it's perception. As an example. For a guy to have a body count of 50. It is highly likely he had to approach 200+ women. He had many many women reject him. For women, if she has a body count of 50, it's like she was approached by 200+ guys and only chose the top percent. Their argument is, it takes men meeting what is perceived to be high standards to get the same count. Therefore thanks to those types of social media propaganda, men are perceiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:10 PM |
| – | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.In most cases you will never know. You probably already have friends, coworkers and even relatives in the lifestyle you'd never guess were. Still doesn't change the fact the statistics used are just flawed data results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 08:40 PM |
| – | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.Lol swinger and hotwives will. Pretty sure those coubt under women categories. I have introduced my fair share if girlfriends to the lifestyle over 30+ years of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 07:56 PM |
| – | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.Considering most of my friends belong to the swinger lifestyle, many in fact do. But that isn't part of this study. Your can't make a valid argument on severely limited data points. I am quite sure I can find random studies to prove or disprove such assumptions. Even the data released by dating apps can be used as evidence for either side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 07:40 PM |
| – | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.You realize those statistics are not very accurate? I see no information regarding size of the population used to base it on or geographic area. Was it a study of 100 people? 1000? Was it in a heavily religious area? Or promiscuous area such as Los Angeles or New York? Just from some studies I've seen, those numbers look heavily skewed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Could be the uprise of men being bad or abusive partners be a result of men leaving the dating scene?Might want to go research that a bit. The guys that are leaving are considered middle class 45k+ income but get mostly ignored by most women. Contrary to social media these are not left overs. The majority of these guys just want to be appreciated and have a traditional relationship. There is so much misinformation being thrown about it should be a crime. They even paint these women as desperate illiterate which is no way near correct. It is a damn shame we all can't learn to compromise as coupl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Are men who do not want to commit to relationships simply risk-averse?Most women do. There is no real benefit to men in this social climate besides a warm body. It is just a massive financial, legal, emotional and mental risk with very little return. Might as well hand his bank card over to a homeless drug user. Edit I got married in the 80's because that was the social norm and expectation. Don't get me wrong I had as perfect as a wife until I lost her to an accident. But I now realized years later I never should have taken that step. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Are men who do not want to commit to relationships simply risk-averse?No, use trusts to facilitate financial benefits. Marriages offer nothing but drama and pain. If I want just a warm body, ill seek out a hookup. Otherwise I'm much better off without. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Are men who do not want to commit to relationships simply risk-averse?Why commit to anyone who will not appreciate it nor reciprocate with anything more than entitlement and trauma. No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:16 PM |
| 8 | Could be the uprise of men being bad or abusive partners be a result of men leaving the dating scene?The "good guys" have all left the building and are seeking traditional relationships internationally What you have left is the bottom of the barrel guys who have no issues treating women horribly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:14 PM |
| 0 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionLol ok sjw sparky, who said I didn't. Go back to animal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 12:46 PM |
| -1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionYou lose a good chunk of the nutritional value of the ingredients unless your using a pure clay pot, which I highly doubt you do You might as well hand your kids a huge bowl of sugar bomb cereal. N | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 12:45 PM |
| -1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionLol here we go. The same western dating bs. Go reread. Your comprehension must be broken. My house stays immaculate, I didn’t just bring it. I took 2 years and built it. Worked 12 hour shifts as a critical care nurse, earned 2 masters plus other certifications, and still raised 4 kids solo. Still volunteered at the local firehouse. I prep all meals on Sunday after putting together actual meal plans, not slow cooked crap with seasonings thrown in. One load of laundry ever other day so it didn't s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 09:44 AM |
| -2 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionAgain hell no your wrong. Dating in the west. I go on easily 1 to 2 dates a month. Just in the last 10 years I can easily say 60%+ I get disgusted. The rest I can count on one hand how many I would say had clean houses. The rest are mediocre at best. All single, usually 1 maybe 2 kids, working 8 hours mon-fri. I walk in on any given day, they are sitting because they are over worked, need down time, but they have 2 hours a day to hit the gym, and plenty of time to surf Instagram. Tik tok etc. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 08:35 AM |
| 5 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionOh no mam, not going to fly here. I've shown up go dates houses and left disgusted at how they were living. Sorry but this isn't a case of gender bias but pure damn laziness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 07:38 AM |
| 7 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionOh bs, mate I raised 4 kids solo after being widowed. You raise the kids right there doesn't have to be mess and chaos. Let them run around like cave dwellers without discipline and you get chaos and messes. You dont set clear routines and let things like laundry and dishes stack up, that's chaos. Little bit of control and it is no different than living alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:35 AM |
| -1 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?I am that guy, what's your point? Raised 4 kids. Earned 2 masters, took care if 25 acres and a 8 bedroom house. Used culinary degree to earn those degrees. House maintenance, auto maintenance, laundry, shopping and helped with school work. Never bitched once. Still earned enough to take early retirement. Don't know what all the bitching is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 02:10 AM |
| 8 | it is insane for inexperienced men to seek inexperienced womenReply actually i was one of those guys for a long time. I learned better. NO one, men included has to settle for anyone that doesn't meet their expectations and that includes the subset in your post. If they want someone less experienced, that is their choice. It is fully in the women's choice to either be that person or be the experienced person that will have more limited choices in partners. It is that simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 03:04 PM |
| 13 | it is insane for inexperienced men to seek inexperienced womenI've been single since 2002, widowed. Have had zero issue finding dates and relationships that meet my expectations when I've wanted. I've had all the cake with none of the weight gain or trauma and drama. Get bored. Trade in for new model. Either you supply what the market wants, or sit your ass on a shelf like the elf. Your choice as always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:51 PM |
| – | The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the sameDate internationally. Better odds of a better wife and girlfriend with less chance of all the trauma and drama being included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:42 PM |
| 15 | it is insane for inexperienced men to seek inexperienced womenHere's the issue. Doesn't matter what you think or how you feel. Men want, what they want. Your not going to sell a used 200k mile Volvo to a market that wants a brand new 100 mile Ferrari. It's that simple. There will still be a market for the Volvo, but the driver might not be mister big dick rich Chad with the six pack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:37 PM |
| 2 | What’s the social fertility window?dont have to believe me. easy google search will show the various articles. shrug | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 04:15 AM |
| 1 | What’s the social fertility window?Might not matter. Recent study showed all dating age women between 20 to 50 by 2030, shows 48 to 50% + will be single, childless and likely never experience a relationship. That trend is going up not down meaning she just might be stuck due to circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 09:50 PM |
| 6 | "I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurityBut it depends on who and what. It may or may not be a true deal breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth it dating a super hot girl?Avoid like a plague. Why? 99% of the time they are the most conceited, narcissistic, entitled, judgmental and are a true nightmare to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 06:26 AM |
| 6 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?Personally, won't matter. I still see zero benefits to me to agree to a marriage contract. There are many more reasons besides money why it will still be a huge mistake to marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 07:53 PM |
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