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Do you mainly do dropshipping or print on demand? Right now I'm a career musician (mainly teaching for the foreseeable future, RIP hired gigs due to covid) but I'm re-learning drawing and illustrator to hit niche markets once my graphic design chops are passable. Kinda playing the long game but may as well learn new skills cause we're all on lockdown
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:36 AM
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LTR admittedly. I tried plate spinning and it wasn't for me. As long as you set the boundaries for what will and will not be tolerated in the LTR and reward/punish right or wrong behaviour, then it can be your turn as long as you want it to be.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:23 AM
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That's literally where I'm at too hahaha. My plan is to learn E commerce
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:17 AM
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Fuck marriage.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:15 AM
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Pulled out of a relationship fast with a BPD girl and I consider myself lucky because it would have been a SHITSHOW otherwise. BPD is fucking nuts.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 03:44 AM
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Can confirm. Briefly upgraded a plate to LTR and it spiralled out of control quickly. Learned a solid lesson there and I'm being a little more discerning over who I game and who I consider an LTR at this point because this last one was a total Wackadoodle haha
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 03:41 AM
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Doing and saying stuff like how OP described emulates confidence and inner game. The trick though is while you can show that it's water off a ducks back, you can't let that be mistaken for being passive.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 04:56 PM
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Basically this. TRP helped me get a new sense of confidence - you don't need to be a prick to be happy and confident with oneself.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 12:29 AM
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Of course it'd be in the relationships subreddit too. More often then not it's just women hamstering and excusing themselves from blame.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 02:00 AM
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Drank? For 2017 all it really was was Christmas, my birthday, and new years. I usually just drink soda water the rest of the time! Getting drunk on the other hand, the birthday and new years were given but I honestly didn't even go super hard on my birthday cause at that point I could barely handle anything in the first place haha
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 08:06 AM
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I can just sit there for hours thinking about how and where note displacement and different permutations fit into one another. It's like a gratifying never ending puzzle hahaha
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 08:01 AM
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I'd throw in learning an instrument as well personally. Can never go wrong with it!
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 08:06 AM
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Reduced my alcohol intake to basically where I can count on both hands by the end of the year how many times I drank. The difference is just night and day man.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 08:04 AM
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So well said. Christ I wish I heard this a year ago.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 09:19 PM
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Hell yeah! Drummerbro! I'm more of a Metal/Prog guy myself hahaha. That's super cool though dude. If you're missing them and feel like you're dying inside, the best thing in my opinion is to focus inward and appreciate the time you have to ground yourself. I'm just speaking from what worked for me and everyone is different, but It will happen again one day and you'll meet someone else, so make yourself the best you can be and take all that energy you had put into your relationship and re route i…
/r/seduction29/01/18 09:34 PM
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My breakup really, really fucked me up. Much more than I care to admit. So I took all that pain out on improving myself after almost falling into alcoholism. Quit drinking, lost a shit load of weight, worked even harder than before as a musician and it's paying off 14 months down the road. I guess in my case it took a year to get more attractive women because I had to do a lot to change myself in looks, attitude and status. Got ghosted by one, had a handful of dates last year, all far more attra…
/r/seduction29/01/18 07:20 PM
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Unfortunately they do. It was only after grinding in the gym for over a year I started to see tangible results just slightly trickle in.
/r/seduction29/01/18 07:12 PM
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Much needed clean out. Thanks mods.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 05:34 PM
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Being in Vancouver, this is pretty on the mark. It's not all bad, commercial drive has an entirely different vibe compared to..say..north or west Vancouver. There are a lot of vain, immature and superficial women here as you said, but the biggest element by far is the super far left political influences with backwards senses of morality.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 06:01 AM
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First off - I'm really, really fucking sorry dude. That's harsh. Kick her out of your goddamn life - she isn't worth your time. Your kids on the other hand, just be a good father to them in the best capacity you can. Don't be petty, don't shit talk their mother around them - be the best damn parent you can be despite the situation. As far as you though - go take care of yourself. Refocus and Rebuild, and become happy with yourself first. The confidence with women starts from the confidence with …
/r/seduction03/01/18 10:13 PM
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Honestly the trick is to just go do something that doesn't take away interaction (movies, concerts, plays, etc) and maintains focus on you both having fun. Don't need to grab drinks right away.
/r/seduction03/01/18 09:59 PM
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That's what I've always said - the world keeps turning, so you better keep turning with it. The further along I go, the more I see so many people lack a true concept of time. So often people blip through life and wonder where the years went because they focused on living in the moment and what was easy, instead of looking at what you can accomplish with the 24 hours you're given each and every day. So many get sidetracked into the day job, and go home and numb out with Netflix/Vidya, eating like…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 09:02 PM
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I remember a few months ago when I was seeing a concert and was just people watching. The amount of run of the mill average dudes that are not in shape is just jarring. Those statistics don't surprise me at all.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 08:23 PM
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Once you go chelsea boots you never go back haha
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 08:01 PM
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Suffer in silence is the real way to go. More men need to really need to figure this out.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 08:00 PM
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Stopped drinking this February by choice. Left drinking to only by birthday, Christmas, and new years because it's a nice way to celebrate, but besides those times, I'm entirely sober. Can't recommend it enough, it was one of the best choices I made.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:36 AM
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Dude thank you for posting this. I could kinda feel the blue pill slipping in on a tentative plate (we'll see how next weekend plays out)/old crush and gotta remember that doing that needy kind of shit are the exact things that create orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 07:24 AM
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Learned it the hard way. Had to spend a year to get to a place where I'm even better then I was pre LTR, but this mindset is pretty bang on. If you know the beast you're dealing with, you can enjoy it to its fullest because you're a step ahead consistently.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 10:49 AM
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Exactly. So live in the moment when it's beautiful, and never waste a single day.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 08:05 AM
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Good quality post man. I'm at a point where I'm done doing the dance with women for a while. Want to maximize on the potential for my body and work on a couple projects. It's nice to hear this stuff though, cause life sure as shit can be a riot sometimes
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 08:04 AM
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Exactly. Diet is more than half the battle.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 06:00 AM
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Fuck man, right on the mark unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 08:18 PM
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So true about the clothes. There's no point in hunting for nice new stuff when you start to change your weight and other habits. None of my nicer clothes fit me anymore, I look sloppy in them if anything now because of how baggy they are.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 03:54 PM
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Shoes were one of my first too. I got a pair of chelsea boots...and now I can't go back haha
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 03:52 PM
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Atleast I'm tall in Vietnam hahaha
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 07:08 PM
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Half the people in my office are women. It really isn't all that bad, just don't shit where you eat and keep it strictly business.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:53 AM
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This shit is real. When my mom was in school during a career change, there were a lot of post wall women in her class. She was single at the time, but all the women in her class kept on telling her to date down and find a weaker man with money. Quoted from how she said this to me when she told me the story - 'find an unnatractive man with money, and he'll worship you'.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 06:15 AM
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I only saw results after about half a year in, and that was due to working on my emotional self, working out 4 days a week, revamping my own style (new clothes, shoes, contact lenses over glasses, etc), and gaining confidence and sense of balance from really honoring the work that was put in for those healthy changes. The irony is once I started getting those results, I started to see how shallow people, and especially women were. Biggest advice I can give is don't let this place consume you, it…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 09:39 AM
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...yeah the last one I was seeing was diagnosed with Bipolar disorder. Her crazy was endearing, but eventually the hot and cold drove me nuts so I just let it fizzle out. Furthest thing from boring though, God damn.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 04:43 AM
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+1 with the mama bear mentality. That shit holds so true.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 07:58 AM
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'Be yourself' is one to watch out for. It's the 'good job' of the dating world.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 08:16 PM
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Hear you on climbing the mountain. Had my fun with women but it's a waste of time and money right now - focusing on some personal victories right now instead and hitting my 'new years resolutions' a month early.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 07:30 AM
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Yeah I think I've become more cynical seeing how everything really works. It's hard not to, but something I need to work on again. Best thing is to bring it inward and enjoy how this place gave you new motivation for life, which it immensely has
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 04:15 PM
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Good post OP. Tons to learn in here
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 10:05 AM
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My roommates gf is legit like that. She said straight up that 'guys like him don't go for girls like me' and as a result she's infatuated with him. Good post, shit is flat on the mark
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 11:08 PM
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It happened to me once too, My rule is always if it's just face/top down/bust shots they have something to hide. If they're attractive and are proud of it, they flaunt it simply put.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 07:34 PM
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Entirely. As my roommate put it, you really don't see how shallow people are until you get more attractive. I spent the last year basically sticking to a 4 day a week workout regiment, diet adjusting, calorie counting, and even quit drinking. I'm seeing the difference now with how people are flirting with me and so on and so forth and if anything it's a nice incentive to stay the course.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:19 AM
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Shitty. That's why you always gotta be working on your own SMV to prevent this outcome. You avoid cheating by becoming the best option.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:05 AM
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Fuck man. I'm so sorry. Keep on keeping on.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:04 AM
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Oh nothing too out of the ordinary from what you'd hear from here hahaha. Self care and confidence goes a long way. Hit the gym a bunch, care about what you eat, go do interesting things, hone what you're good at, don't be super outcome dependant, make friends and develop different social circles, etc. The majority of dates I've went on came from online dating this time around, but I make a lot of buddies in the music crowds from playing shows, it all depends!!
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 07:56 PM
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Can confirm 3 months later that a weird shift happened. Honestly dude, I've never been on so many dates in close proximity while talking/gaming simultaneous girls. My drum instructor gave me this little pep talk about men and women getting closer to 30 and called it 'the fun keys'. The quick version is that when 30 gets closer or rolls around, they take the fun keys from the women, and give them to you...and I gotta say...he's right lol
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 11:04 AM
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Yeah man it's straight fucked. Just constant flakes, exaggerated levels of entitlement, and the constant feeling of 'I can do better' coupled with the encouragement that they themselves don't have to do a single thing. Chicks are a commodity, just focus on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 07:01 AM
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I'm lucky to have the friends I do, and in multiple socials circles no less. I would be a lesser man if I didn't have the close friends I have now
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:57 PM
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You can blatantly see how their article is spun to suit the dynamic of the wife. It comes off as that she's afraid he'll leave her for someone more interesting tbh
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:53 PM
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Nothing wrong with that dude. I only reserve sex for someone who I find emotionally and spiritually stimulating as well as physically. Stick to your integrity and do what makes you happy.
/r/seduction13/11/17 09:22 AM
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The best revenge is living a successful, happy life. ...that being said, revenge does happen sometimes though. A friend who was still Facebook friends with my oneitis said he saw pictures of her with the Chad she cheated on me with at a convention or something. I ended up seeing the pictures and while I've never looked better in my life, she's continued to let herself go. I swear I laughed for a solid 10 minutes. I got to nail her in her prime, then move on to better tail soon after, while she f…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 09:10 AM
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Totally. Nobody gives a flying fuck and more often than not, everybody is quite warm and accepting
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 06:22 PM
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Honestly, abundance mentality and high SMV should do it. Women are super competitive and you shouldn't underestimate that.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 02:36 AM
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I just got into a new relationship actually. Thanks for the post OP
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 02:18 AM
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Yup, sometimes we gotta fuck up to learn.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 03:39 PM
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That's just a spoiled princess dude. Drop her.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 03:26 PM
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My friend could be one of those guys, but thankfully the shit LTR he's in may actually end soon. He's so attached to his LTR it's painful to watch. She's cheated on him once, and after the cock carousel ride she got back with him and he happily took her back. She treats him like fucking dirt and he just accepts it, and there's no getting to him either about having goddamn sense of abundance - the dude punishes himself for even looking at another woman. As of now, he's been in an LDR with her for…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 09:28 PM
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You know man, you're totally right. Since my last LTR ended in cheating, I spent the better part of the following year fixing myself for my shortcomings. Got way more fit, lost weight, gained some muscle, and also worked on myself emotionally so I'm just more happier and centred. Then after that, started really doing things that are just fun and rewarding - I play music so I'm going out there, seeing shows, getting to know people, playing my own shows, and expanding my social circles in several …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 07:38 PM
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With you there. Met a 27 year old and it's a breath of fresh air. Anything below 24 is just a cesspool of immaturity
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 08:38 AM
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Dude this is amazing. This is why I come here. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 09:34 PM
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This is such solid advice, thank you so much! I've been trying to emulate this a lot more, but you spelled it out really, ready well. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 09:42 PM
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Probably finasteride if it's in pill form. Side effects can include impotence though so it's risky.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 12:41 AM
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One of the many reasons why I'm not getting married or having children. I'm 27 now, in another 3 to 5 years I'm going for a vasectomy, and as far as marriage goes if a woman keeps pressuring me for it, something is up.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 12:44 AM
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Hey! Yeah honestly, I'm super, super grateful I found TRP cause it caused a huge shift in me as far as motivation to get fit, and stand in my own light with a new perspective on life, but 100% if you take everything word for word from this sub it'll just burn you; I totally understand what you mean. I mean shit man, even look at guys like Chris Cornell or Chester - those dudes were at the pinnacle of money, fame, status, etc, and STILL what was going on in their heads was their undoing, and that…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 06:58 AM
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Glad you brought it up. It's another form of victim mentality and its just plain ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 11:52 PM
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Solid article. No day wasted!
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 07:49 PM
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Yeah, that mentality is just going to get you burned. I wasn't fucking good enough a year ago when I found this sub. I don't even know if I am good enough now - all I know is you gotta work your ass off and stay disciplined because life is exactly what you make of it, and you are what you do every day.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 07:16 AM
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The ONLY good thing BuzzFeed has ever done is 'BuzzFeed unsolved' and the rest of it is largely blue pill feminist trash.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 08:41 AM
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I remember when I didn't have the time to make the gym 3 to 4 days a week. So what I did was basically took the one punch man workout and did it at home, plus added in a chin up bar.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 11:40 PM
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Honestly pretty valid. Some people don't know when to back the fuck off. That being said, making it illegal is pants on head retarded.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 11:38 PM
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Dude you'll avoid cheating by being the best option. There's tons of guys who have no boundaries and deserve to get the shit kicked out of them, but acting on it just spells insecurity. She likes the attention and she likes to have options. That's just women being women. A good way to get her hooked back on you is bring some abundance into your life and let her see that she isn't your only option. Do that with being confident and secure in yourself and don't show weakness. Bear in mind, if she's…
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:21 PM
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It's pretty straightforward. When an LTR sees that you're capable of finding another girl who is more attractive than her at any moment, they'll have no choice but to stay competitive for your sake. Considering how society is, of course this would make them sad, because all the power they're built up to have is basically stripped from them.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 09:28 PM
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Honestly I think my game has improved since dropping alcohol to be honest. It allowed me to lose weight and not rely on liquid courage to get me to feel comfortable enough to do things like talk to a girl or go dance. Just in general it kind of made me a happier person.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 09:23 PM
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Easily one of the best posts on TRP in a while
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 09:19 PM
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Read the sidebar homie. Loneliness is a state of mind brought on by rumination about your situation. It WILL fuck you up if you let that feeling grow. It's hard to get a cap on your emotional stability when you feel like you got a knife in your heart but you need be proactive about it. Talking to a chosen person (not female) to confide in is helpful If you need it too. Otherwise, the biggest and most important thing is to not sit on your ass and feel miserable, but instead to tackle that misery …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 12:27 AM
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Don't just bring her into your frame, become the frame.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 12:15 AM
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The people who are like that (both men and women) are too far gone anyway so it's a waste of breath to change anyone's opinion. Just be a man and command your presence, and respond to idiots like you described with amused Mastery or just don't acknowledge their 'argument'. Works like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 04:27 PM
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Bruh suicide ain't no joke. Beyond TRP. Seeing counsellors and what not is healthy for anyone, good or bad, because we ALL have stuff to deal with. I'm a broke AF musician and honestly if it got to it, I'd stick myself into debt for even online monthly skype counseling if it meant keeping my mental health in check. It's important, because self love is where everything begins and ends. That being said, from the little I can at least see, you're placing your value on external means. As you said, m…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 08:40 AM
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It's odd, cause all the ones I've met who are like that spit poison at you if you oppose their ever so important social views. Nothing of value lost though.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 12:00 AM
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Am I the only one here who likes not having a high libido? Lol so much less distraction.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 04:16 PM
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Listening to my gut was the best thing I could have done when it came to an old LTR and cheating. Figured that shit out quick and acted on it. Seriously, after months of diet correction, working out and actually being on a fair number of dates, you learn to really not give a shit and see that there are so many more attractive women then the slop you settled for beforehand. Rose coloured glasses are real man. It'll get better, focus on you.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 12:12 AM
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Just don't thirteenth step lol. I had a family member go through AA, so I went a couple times for the sake of supporting them. Genuinely one of the most heart breaking things was when you'd meet some legitimately amazing people who just hit it bad with addiction, and find out that they succumbed to their demons and died X amount of months later despite attempting rehab. Stay the hell away from drugs and shit man, it really isn't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 06:01 PM
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Funny enough, my own mother would always give me the advice of 'leaning into the discomfort' when it came to tackling different objectives in life. It kinda rubbed off in a positive way, because you're entirely right, leaning into the discomfort is what creates opportunities. Anyone who is worth knowing and respecting in life didn't wait for opportunities in life, they dealt with the risk of putting their neck on the line and created their own opportunity despite the risk. The same idea just tra…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 12:54 AM
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Dude honestly, the more you work on yourself and focus on your goals, the busier you'll be. When you're busy trying to achieve your own goals in life, you don't have time nor fucks to give about women. The simple mindset of 'I don't have time, nor do I care about you' while treating them like you already got what you wanted drives them mad. Just focus on yourself honestly.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 09:36 PM
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I mean, it CAN work being super blunt, but it also can fuel a lot of resentment. Which is just a blight on the relationship anyway. It becomes a thing they did because you told them to do it, not something they felt they needed to do to stay competitive with other women for your attention, or something that is 'for them' (even if you and I know what the real reason is). That can ultimately backfire on you. There's something to be said to just speak your mind, but the better way to go about creat…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 09:24 PM
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Once I straight up told an old LTR that I was just found her unnatractive because she stopped putting effort in herself (she was). It ended up working for a small amount of time, but there's better ways to go about it tbh
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 08:02 AM
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Great post man. Really refreshing to read. That's how I've been feeling too lately...kinda taking a lot of value to what TRP has taught me over the years but applying it in a more healthy way. But on top of that, when you work your ass off like you did, it's true, things like your new body, your own discovery of self and learning how to love yourself is in turn a thing that nobody, no woman, can take away from you. You learn not to sweat the details and just keep at it. I'm 30 pounds lighter, li…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 05:07 PM
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That's what I've been saying to my friend who has been stressing over his LTR cheating while she's in school overseas. If she's going to cheat, she's going to cheat. You simply should just be putting in the effort you want out of it, but also constantly talking and networking with other women. Chances are high she will, so just expand your social circle and meet new people. If something happens, you've got a pool of women to select from. Kind of a no brainer in an relationship situation.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 06:51 PM
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It's true. Turns out women have been shockingly easier to get when I started working out regularly, got contacts instead of glasses, and worked on my social marketing for my band. The entire time though, that shit was for me, not for getting a girl. If anything I'm too busy now, if they want me, they come to me, not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 09:54 PM
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Big time. The biggest lessons on this was relearning it after an LTR. Learning how to he happy just doing your own thing was really helpful in grounding myself.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 02:17 AM
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What would be the appropriate response to this kind of shit test?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 09:41 PM
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Even when I was in an LTR sex wasn't that important. It's always seemed like a fuckload of work for something that's kind of arbitrary to me. Life is way too interesting to worry about whether you're getting laid or not, when it happens it'll happen if you so want it to.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 06:01 PM
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I've been really waking up to this shit especially in the last year and a bit. So many different mediums have plunged the modern world into a largely matriarchal society which has only shown to devalue and degrade traditional values that Western culture has been built on for generations. There are multiple powers that steer the world, but the one that really pulled the rug under everyones feet was the united force of stupid people creating a movement and actual change. A lot of change on this ea…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 06:58 PM
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Fuck I'm 27 next month dammit. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 05:33 PM
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I've been on the 5:30 am wake up and do 7 to 3. Gotta say, I have never in my entire life been a morning person. I've forced myself to get a solid 8 hours sleep and I still will show up to work a complete zombie until noon rolls around. Trade off is I love the freedom to work on things that are important in my life cause I get so much more time out of my day. Flipside though, the only time I'm truly rested and at my most productive is on the weekends where I can sleep on my terms without a sched…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 05:27 PM
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Not surprising in the slightest but also disappointing. They get to enjoy strange dick and justify it, it's practically a free pass. If they insist on travelling alone, just save yourself the headache and cut it honestly.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 04:15 AM
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Great post OP. That's how I've always looked at things in life - I've always found it so fascinating how two people can stand beside each other and live in entirely different realities. One person may be hurting, the other may be on their way to go enjoy an amazing day. Same thing goes - while you're relaxing, somewhere in the world, or even your next door neighbour, may be dealing with something that's entirely different from the reality you're living in. More so what I took from it is, doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 09:52 PM
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When I was getting a routine started, I'm so glad I was pushed into really developing and working on cardio through running. It has helped immensely on so many levels. Cardio is so damn important. Right now my best time is 3K 22.5 minutes! Gotta get up to 4k.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 09:34 PM
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Dude it hits so hard. I mean I don't shit on myself for enjoying something in moderation here and there but sugar reacts in your brain similarly to how cocaine reacts apparently. A big thing that helped I found was simply not having it in your home. An hour of self control while going shopping is a lot easier to manage than constant knowledge that some sort of convenience snack is in your cupboard 24/7 lol
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:10 AM
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I inadvertently followed 80% of this list and stopped my development of being a fat fuck before it happened. I could see it moving in that direction and had to make a change. For those of you with huge sugar addictions that need to broken, what I did was give myself one thing as a crutch (for me it was coffee with cream and sugar, then eventually started drinking it black) while I slowly built better habits in other areas, then systematically removed one more thing until I just stopped eating li…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 06:34 PM
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This week (and last week) have been long but I've made some solid accomplishments. Good Lost more (good) weight and have to punch another hole in my belt before I find time to buy a new one Been learning a whole shitload of stuff on social networking and applying it to my band. New education is cool. Increased the amount of weight I can handle in the gym for a bunch of different things. Managed to hit running 3k (7.5minutes/K) without stopping. Bad Slipped on diet control a little bit - Sugar is…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:43 PM
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Networking is SO damn vital with anything. A year ago I got into a really good band that has its shit really together, and I made it my goal to improve my social networking both on and offline, both for professional and personal reasons. The dynamic in my life is so different then it was a year ago because of taking of taking risks and being unafraid to just talk to people. Who gives a shit if they're male or female, it's all about the connection with People
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:34 PM
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Never had an issue getting it up, and I rarely watch porn cause it doesn't do anything for me, and don't eat like shit so those are all checked off. Could very well be low T and sleep because I only sleep on average 5 to 6 hours a night cause of work and life. Cheers, thanks for the response man!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 02:29 PM
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Yeah, this one is pretty sobering. Men are the true romantics, and I've seen it demonstrated time and time again. Once you come to terms with it how love works and see women as people instead of the pedalstalized goddesses we've been groomed to see them as, things make more sense.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:42 AM
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That's what my roommate fell into basically.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:37 AM
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So being someone with a really low libido, how the shit can I get around this. I've never been one for really cultivating sexual assertiveness because it's never been a huge prerogative for me and hookups are not my thing in the slightest. I do lift, and have a relatively interesting and busy life so that's not an issue though. Anything in relation to frame that I can work on?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 05:43 PM
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It's just simply knowing how women are and being a step ahead because you know the parameters. If you're worrying about being cheated on (as an example), you've already lost half the battle. Women are going to cheat, they have too many options available due to how society is now shaped, and more often than not, it's just going to happen. If you're looking for a way to get around it, you simply put place yourself in a higher sexual market/social status denominator than she is - by being the best …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:33 PM
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Princess Complex is so frustratingly common too.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 03:10 PM
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Yeah, this is right bang on. Especially in a relationship context.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 09:59 PM
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Yeah the boomerang game is where it's at. I finally established my own first plate and it kind of cracks me up how the dynamics of all the stuff I read here literally come into play. I can clearly see when she's trying to shit test and have me break frame like a bunch of other orbiters she has, so I just casually work through the shit tests and then soft next. Sure enough, I get messaged back because I don't give her the attention she wants, so she instead fights for it from me. Women are so god…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 04:42 PM
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That's actually really sound advice. Gonna remember that!
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 02:54 AM
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Yeah you gotta be careful. With broken people, if you're not keeping them at arms length you're asking to get fucked.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 08:13 PM
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I hate it when people shit on video games like it's the 'immature' thing to do. Yes, it shouldn't be done excess but what, watching Netflix for a few hours or something is any better? When the fuck did that become commonplace? It's the same shit as being a guy who just goes to work and goes to the gym. Sure you make your body look good but you're about as one dimensional as the other guy who games all the time (only you're in better shape). But then what, you're gonna tell a woman about all the …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 08:07 PM
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Holy fuck you broken down the female mindset so accurately. Learned something today.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 02:13 AM
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Oh fuck I wasn't expecting that haha
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 05:50 AM
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Deplorable...but also not surprised.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 03:39 PM
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Dude I feel you. Post LTR I almost dove into full on alcoholism, and went through not one but two incredible lows. I straight up had to stop drinking. Something changed in me after February and I'm super lucky if I don't get seriously fucking depressed from having a drink now. I'm way better off now than I was at the start of the year though - looking better, feeling better, and not hindered by that same misery you know all too well. Happy to hear you're better and setting up some dates man, giv…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 03:59 AM
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This kind of advice is beyond TRP, this shit is just life. Time heals, but if you don't get off your ass and make an effort to improve and grow both mentally and physically, and make yourself the goal you'll be stuck in your blue pill mindset. Time means shit if you just exist in the same timeframe/mindset you were in during or after your LTR.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:58 PM
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Lauren southern is a fucking champ. She's got her shit figured out and doesn't fall for this garbage that has poisoned the west. Seriously every time I see the bullshit feminists do today, they don't know how well off they actually are to even have that kind of freedom of speech. Just try that shit in the middle east, let's see how far you get.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 04:56 PM
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It's a shame, a couple my exs friends, while attractive, were bigger train wrecks than her lol.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 03:19 AM
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I read this as Pokemen lol
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 03:15 AM
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Seriously between the red pill and the law of attraction my life has been so entertaining lately. Meditation only contributes to this stuff
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 02:54 AM
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Fuck I wish it was that easy. Drums are my thing but if I'm not playing on a 4 piece house kit I'm too worried about my gear to chase tail hahaha
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 06:45 PM
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Shit is true. Caring about yourself goes a long way. I'm a musician so I focused more on the rock look, but looked into a lot of the UK fashion to see what's up. Whatever style you're shooting for, analyze it first then build upward.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 06:44 PM
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Great post. Super accurate stuff man.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 12:23 AM
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It's a hard truth to swallow man. Every time I get a oneitis tingle I remember this and know that I don't have to deal with so much garbage and I'm better off for it. That's the other dudes problems now lol
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 06:10 AM
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Loaded as fuck scenario OP. Good of you to stand your ground. Plus calling yourself a feminist is synonymous with calling yourself a dribbling retard anyway.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 06:05 AM
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That's basically what I've been working on for the last few months. Prevent cheating by being the best option. Sad thing is even then, it's frighteningly commonplace. Learn and know the nature of male and female dynamics and your life will be a fuck of a lot easier.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 12:35 AM
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This is the real takeaway here
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 06:59 AM
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People who don't have the maturity to allow a friendship to grow with you, as in their friendship or association with you depended entirely upon how your LTR was feeling on any particular day. It happens alot in relationships though, totally not unusual.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 04:51 AM
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I'm a pretty heavy user of it too, just cause I tie it in with being in the local music scene and such. It helps. Honestly half of them I didn't even notice deleted me, but a couple of them I was like fuck you were kinda cool. People take that shit wayyy too seriously though, social networking is a tool, not a time suck. Oh well, onwards and upwards!
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 05:25 PM
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Doesn't surprise me. I had a whole bunch of people delete me off their social networking and such despite my last LTR being the cheater and subsequent branch swinger. Boohoo. It doesn't matter how nice you are, you're still going to be an asshole by the end of it according to them. A woman, and especially an immature one, can only see themselves as a victim, so they hamster and tell their friends about how terrible it was until they have everyone, including themselves, buying their bullshit in t…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 01:58 AM
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You're not wrong, the way the sexual market is, if they want a guy to control they know they can find one super easily. It's pretty sad.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 01:29 AM
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The trick with authenticity is to be secure in yourself and in what you do. It all goes back to basic red pill principles on becoming the best version of yourself. Make your life interesting, be passionate about what you do, lift/take care of yourself and don't just shelter inside and play video games and go to work. The authenticity, confidence, social grace and natural leadership will all come naturally because you've made yourself the goal!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:36 AM
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Basically this. TRP helped me out a lot with figuring out some things for self improvement and getting my head around the dynamic of male and female energy a bit more, but taking it TOO seriously can fuck you like anything else.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:40 AM
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It really is. Nothing quite compared to it man. Shit hurt more than I care to admit. I'm honestly more of a relationship person personally, I don't really like hookups. That being said, TRP is a tool like anything else and it's how you use it that counts. Gonna apply what I've learned going forward and not Blue Pill my way to oblivion like last time. If non monogamous works for you, all the power to you bro!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:04 AM
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Was gonna type this but you explained it beautifully. Having a place to vent your shit is healthy, but it's time and place related and A LOT of people don't get that.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:26 PM
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Jesus Christ why would he want to talk it out? Fuck man use your brain lol
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:21 PM
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6 months ago I was 160 pounds (I'm 5'7, kind of a smaller build so 160 in fat was a lot on me), eating like shit, my LTR cheated on me, I was drinking alone in excess every night (due to how miserable I was from being cheated on) and overall felt like fucking trash. Fast forward to now after I told myself to fucking get a grip and figure my shit out: Cracked my fucking weight loss goal, dropped 20 pounds and am sitting at 140 lbs and building muscle, eating WAY better, working harder, quit drink…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:51 PM
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I go four days a week, and some people look at me like I'm crazy for doing as much as I do in my normal schedule. It's all about discipline.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 08:27 AM
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Congrats on the weight loss dude. I what you mean. I quit drinking for weight/depression issues but in the first while I'd usually get 'You're still dry?' Thankfully though my friends are actually solid as fuck and support my decisions, so they don't care if I drink a soda water or something if we go out. Helps a lot when your buddies are chill.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:17 PM
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Yeah its a total waste of time. I've already had better luck sticking to real life already, and it's way the fuck more gratifying to boot. I had a couple of dates from online but honestly it's not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 09:03 PM
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Jeez those first few paragraphs hit home. Fuck man the more I think about it, the happier and more better off I realize I am than six months ago.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:00 AM
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Honestly man every time I've looked at what I wanted in life, I can't see myself doing anything other than what I love. If anything, you'll bring the right people to you by following your own actions and creating your own opportunities
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 03:06 AM
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It's different for everyone but at the core it's self control. For me, I noticed I got seriously depressed when I had a drink, and I also was wanting to cut it out anyway for weight loss purposes. I missed the carbonation of beer/pop though so I just started drinking soda water. My friends will order a beer and I'll order a soda water haha. Not for everyone but for me I found it worked!! Otherwise, just like anything else, find a reason that lights a candle under your ass to make the decision to…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:19 PM
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Basically. Being confident and leading a woman is considered treating them like shit, which is such a hilarious joke.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 07:32 PM
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You're telling me. I fucking live here lol
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 06:43 PM
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It's fucked because if you think about it, this is another step in turning families against one another, putting the children as parents, and reversing traditional standards EVERY culture is based off of. Wanna know how to really kill a culture? Introduce it to feminism.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 12:02 AM
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I live in Vancouver. There are leftist fuck nuts that think this is the best news in months. Vancouver is shit cause most of the girls here are annoyingly 'progressive'.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 11:59 PM
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Good post, kinda reminds me of this. https://youtu.be/c709rGYW8v0
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 05:35 PM
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I actually found this gem of a post on charisma on the red pill. Maybe this can help? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6ek7in/the_charisma_blueprint/
/r/seduction08/06/17 05:13 PM
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Cheers! Yeah I have my own drum channel I put stuff on whenever I get a chance, plus with my band we started putting things on YouTube/facebook about month ago. Funny enough facebook is crazy good for band promotion over YouTube. 800 views on YouTube is like 20,000 on facebook it's nuts. https://youtu.be/pr8HvF5QwLU https://youtu.be/MncKxt_ZtDA
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 04:54 PM
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To be fair, the 'I feel' statement is generally good for not verbally pointing a finger and instead turning the focus Inward.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 09:59 PM
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It's a little jarring how you described my entire dismantling of my LTR. One of my buddies had given me some solid advice around it though: Who gives a shit what they think - you know the truth, so it doesn't matter what they say.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 09:56 PM
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It's drums and music for me that really help validate myself. It's really cool and flattering that my peers in music recognize what I have offer because I work my butt off. Plus it's getting out there and going to shows and making friends that all contributes to it. I also invested a bunch of money Into recording gear to be self sufficient and work with as many people as I can - Do videos on the internet, record a session or something. It's to a point now where I'm so damn busy with it that I'm …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 07:27 PM
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Yup, that's the best course of action. Hard next, deal with your shit, move on and enjoy better women. Best way to do it!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 11:31 PM
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OkCupid is fucked. If you're into social justice, gender politics and Feminism then that's where you go. Low quality meh looking women who are mostly 3s and 4s, overweight, and thinking they deserve the world because they have a vagina. So basically it's a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 10:39 PM
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That's what a lot of people miss. The point of it all is to give you a better skillset as a man to create your own opportunity by your own hands.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 10:42 PM
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Yeah between working out 4 times a week, practicing at home two or three hours 4 to 5 days a week, band practice, teaching drums, recording, editing/mixing, and playing/seeing shows and a full time job, life is busy. But it's a good kind of busy - it's fulfilling!
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 10:32 PM
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Totally man. Super important to make something of yourself. My mentality is if I've only gone to my day job and not taken solid steps towards what I want to be in my life then I've wasted that day. People wonder how I get the energy to do it all...and it's not being energetic so much as it is a solid, unwavering work ethic to get it fucking done and not make excuses. I'll sleep probably 5 or 6 hours a night because I spend my day working my ass off. Whether it be lifting, practicing my instrumen…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:47 AM
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This is a fucking awesome thread. Glad I'm not the only one. Yeah man, I'm a emotional connection/relationship person too. I hate hookups, it feels like glorified masturbating to me...and I'm doing monkmode as well. Honestly after my last LTR I started looking really hard at where I fucked up as far as practical red pill teachings go, and also what I could improve upon with my own self. As is I'm learning a little bit more every day on how I can go at round 2 better with another (very much bette…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 12:21 AM
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Fuck man, you had some damn good knowledge to impart. Thanks for contributing.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 07:57 AM
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I'm 26! Diet is good. If anything I've been losing weight and getting muscle from lifting and being active. Stopped drinking too. You're right though, maybe a blood test to see if I'm lacking in anything may help. Thanks for the ideas man!
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:35 AM
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5'7 as well and I agree. I hit my 1st plateau of weight loss goal and have been going hard in the gym for about 6 months and the difference is nuts even now. Losing 10 pounds for us is like 25 pounds for someone who is over 6 feet.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:50 AM
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Nope! I barely jack off as is. I'm thinking actually trying the monk mode cause I've just always been a guy with a super low sex drive.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 10:38 PM
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I remember someone saying 7 to 10s don't exist because they're all 6 until they put in makeup and what not. Just treat it that way and maybe change up the mindset?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 02:36 AM
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Grass is always greener on the other side man! Less distraction for sure, but it also feels like it may work against me keeping in regards to keeping a woman because sometimes fucking 3 times a week is too much for me. Different strokes for different folks I guess
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 02:35 AM
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You know honestly, I have such a low sex drive that getting tail isn't appealing to me. I prefer having a connection with somebody. If anything it makes it easier to communicate and talk to women because I'm not thinking with my dick haha
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 02:27 AM
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Totally this! I've been largely working on myself, lifting and eating better. Better to be confident in yourself then move on to the next step then getting shit on for no reason
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 05:09 AM
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Hahaha damn, that's pretty close to home. The boredom was enhanced by her though funny enough, I was the one who wanted to do shit.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 03:36 AM
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Good post man. For me it's music - I found when I stopped comparing and instead got excited about what each musician can bring to the table and how we can all lift each other up, I became better. In turn, other people recognized what I can offer too...just work your goddamn ass off and bring people to your level. Leave the ones who try to drag you down behind and never second guess yourself
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 09:23 AM
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Dude. Yes. I've been slowly trying to ascend to that point but it's tricky to really dig deep and find that true love of self. Not everyone has it. I've met a couple people like that who are just such likeable guys that they disarm everyone around them, just through means of relaxed humour and confidence. They project such a genuine frame that the authenticity allows you to break those Walls and just be people.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 09:05 AM
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Up until my I met my music teachers funny enough, I'd been fucked for male role models. I've gotten the shit end of the stick in a number of ways but it was through meeting my drum instructors that they sort of took me under their wing and taught me both life lessons and music. In whatever medium, whether it be a father, mentor, big brother system, etc, having a strong male role model is so damn important for growth of self.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 09:22 AM
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That's what I've been working on as far as taking what I can from TRP - Inward focus and self accountability. It's all about maximizing your own potential as a man and really learning how to roll with the punches better than you could the day before.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 09:09 AM
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Well that was refreshing to read. It just sounds like you've walked away learning about who you are a bit more while still retaining the teachings on here/ your own strong sense of self. Gonna remember this man, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 07:30 PM
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What I've always said is that the best parents are the ones who know that they want children all their lives. I also feel that that rule applies to 'cool uncle' type mindset, because two of my most important mentors in my life are those kind of guys. I'm 26, and before I even hit my double digits I was always vehemently against having children. You're not the only one with that mentality man - if that's what you want - stick to your guns. That being said, I have also been advised to wait until I…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:14 AM
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Solid stuff man! It's the same here...the more I read and the harder I work on myself the more changes I see for the better. It's finding a balance to retain who you are while embracing a better version of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 07:36 AM
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If they either blame you, or blame it on being confused or sad or something equally as stupid, you're making the right decision. There may be bad days that bring up old emotions so always remember why you made the choice you did and stand firm in it. Good on you man.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 07:27 AM
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Oh totally. I've always naturally had that aura about me so it's no wonder I had some lessons to learn. Every ideal job examination I've done is always music, writing, and several different forms of counselling so I've since learned from the experience to be on a huge red flag watch. Happens once, chalk it up to learning...happens twice? Guess what - stop dating and go learn about yourself some more.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 09:49 PM
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Last LTR had a narcissistic personality disorder mother who hated my existence for no reason other than I didn't bend over for her like her family and cucked husband (the husband especially was the biggest definition of blue pill I have ever seen in my entire life.) Her father was an ex Hells Angel who had a high abuse streak up to when he got a stroke, effectively crippling his ability to live without his mother taking care of him. The rest of her family was incredibly dysfunctional on both her…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 03:25 AM
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I have a buddy who has always had that natural aloofness/uncaring attitude. We were hanging out seeing a show once, and all he did was go grab a beer while one of the bands was playing and came back with 3 numbers. Same when we used to work at the same place - half the women there wanted to fuck him. He doesn't game really hard or anything, but it's that attitude and energy he puts out that does the trick. Definitely something to learn from.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 08:32 AM
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I recently ditched all my online dating cause the ones I pulled were just admittedly wastes of time. It truly is just letting go and not worrying or needing.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 08:23 AM
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Always a sobering reminder. That's how I always viewed relationships/women - they can be a good compliment to life, but the moment it BECOMES your life, you've lost.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 08:16 AM
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I need to go find a butt nekked zebra bitch. With a plate lip and a big fucked up afro! The best comedians always make you laugh at things that are painfully true...
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 05:56 AM
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Let me quote something from another post about oneitis Most men never invest time to develop themselves as men. Sure the do the whole school career pipeline, but they never take the time to push their physical or mental limits to develop their leadership ability or to grow into their masculinity. In their heart they know this. They know that they arnt masculine or confident or anything but a worker drone. They know this. They know how they stack up with other men but they choose to ignore it. Th…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 11:32 PM
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My mom and I have had our differences in life and some major ups/downs and falling outs, but ultimately I was still able to salvage a good friendship out of dropping some healthy boundaries and being my own man. The one thing that woman does have is one hell of a bullshit detector, so at times it really does help to hear her out.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 11:18 PM
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The classic example of women refusing to own their failure is when a relationship ends. If a breakup ends then the man is obviously an abusive asshole and the relationship was 100% toxic. There is no introspection about what she did wrong and how she can use that information to improve her next relationship, job or whatever. When all failure is someone else's fault there is never an incentive to improve. Holy fucking this. Literally that was what her/her friends were saying about me. Right befor…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 07:10 PM
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I remember when I hit a low point and was between jobs due to a layoff. It was rough, and my ltr at one point started resenting me for my lack of decent income and security during that period. She had come from a family too where all the men were blue collar workers earning 100k plus a year, and the women could earn low income at some piss ass 9 to 5 or not work at all...so you can imagine with the hand me down princess complex it didn't do too well for the relationship dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 08:10 AM
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Drinks/coffee etc = date. Fucking exactly. Writing was on the wall, especially when I got 'Met up with chad for coffee blah blah blah'. There were already problems anyway so I put two and two together and dropped her ass. Called her out for the cheater she was and she started hamstering like crazy saying it wasn't. Of course she's now with said dude because she needed somebody to validate her emotions and also AWALT. Funny too, cause a buddy of mine said he saw her on public transit and she coul…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 08:36 AM
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So sorry to hear that OP. Lots of support here though man - all the best. Same thing happened to a family member of mine and despite working with the heartbreak, he never compromised on being an exceptional parent. He let the psycho exs do the shit talking while he just focused on being the better man and a good father...surprise surprise who do his kids like more.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 06:55 PM
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Happened with an old LTR of mine. It's as you say - weakness, self esteem issues/need of constant reassurance and emotional dependance. She centered her life around the relationship, my friends were her friends, etc. It was no surprise that she immediately jumped on the first thing available within a month because she, like a lot of women, don't know how to be in their head.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 06:52 PM
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Right on man. You caught yourself in it and are back at it. Couldn't have thrown this up at a better time too. I noticed too, after my anger died post LTR ending even though I was working out and Doing things there was this 'you can relax' kind of vibe to things that I started to notice in myself. Fuck that. When I figured out she was a cheater, I dropped her ass, cut her out and started working my ass off...I hurt a lot, then turned the pain into a catalyst to improve myself. But as always, you…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 08:21 AM
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Solid article. It's 6 months later but today was a bit of a low for some reason after a quite a fair bit of not giving a genuine crap and being grateful that she's long gone. Couldn't have posted this at a better time, thanks man.
/r/seduction24/04/17 07:47 AM
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Entirely man!! It's this never ending infatuation with the craft to just push for those golden few moments where time stands still and you truly live right in the present. All the late nights, saving up for the next piece of gear, dealing with the occasional debt, and constantly challenging yourself to break a new goal just become your existence! I'm so damn grateful I found a band that has the same work ethic as I do cause as you said, so many people are really casual with their instruments.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:17 PM
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Definitely agree with you. It was funny, I was with one of my music teachers today and it was really flattering what he said to me. 'Out of all the kids I taught at that rehearsal space (it was torn down a year ago sadly), you were the only one who had the drive to actually practice and get better'. It threw me off a tad, because when you're a really driven person who is hell bent on doing something, whether that be practicing your instrument, making time for the gym, creating your own business,…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 01:25 AM
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Accurate. Wanting a break is usually branch swinging or a power trip. Best answer is to drop them and let the other guy deal with their problems.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 07:22 AM
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Yeah. Cut her out, go no contact. Next. Don't dwell on a single girl and keep your abundance mentality!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 07:20 AM
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Awesome read. Thanks for this man!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 07:17 AM
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That's legitimately so depressing
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 02:48 AM
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You know. This was actually a pretty good week thinking about it. Coworker and I starting on the process to develop a business In the interim have a job interview for another tech startup. Need to still make ends meet while drafting the idea. Shot two videos for youtube with my band sent off another cover I did to get mixed My band as well is almost ready to release another original song. More or less the hard work is paying off! Getting closer to my weight loss goal (15 of 20 pounds) Got back t…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 07:27 PM
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It's true. Things like weight and physical health are entirely within your control. It takes discipline and hard work and some people continue to make excuses for themselves. I was unhappy as fuck with myself and was dealing with weight gain to due to not exercising and eating like shit. Couldn't stand pictures of myself, hated taking my shirt off...just overall felt like crap and I finally stopped making excuses. Since then, dropped 15 pounds so far (my goal was 20), changed my eating habits, s…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:05 AM
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Lol why waste your time at an event like that? Plus these women who as you said are mostly fuck ugly, drop all their shit for a man they find attractive. The irony is they shit on men as a whole but still think they deserve a 10.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 04:03 PM
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Dude you're lying about half the shit you want to do. You want to keep doing that? Also fuck marriage. Can you imagine all that lying coming up, except in a sense that you're legally bound to her instead of just being able to drop her? Stop being afraid to drop your boundaries a bit more! You'll simply put have a better understanding for yourself if you think it's worth it if you put what you want in perspective to her and yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:29 AM
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Not only is this a good post, but your writing is super intelligent and engaging to read. Cheers man.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:09 AM
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Yeah online dating shit the bed. A few years ago I was able to get a handful of dates and I think I was on the tail end of it. Recently I was able to pull two people but it's the same as you - one I felt became super needy and when I didn't reply to a single text she ghosted, and the other one I thought I hit it off with this one girl, but the lynch pin for her was she was into all that gender politic garbage like my ex and like fuck am I dating someone like her ever again. Shame cause she was a…
/r/seduction05/04/17 04:07 PM
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Dude just move on. That's a really shitty thing to do and really selfish. I'm also speaking from experience cause I met someone while I was with my ex who I felt from day one If we were both single we'd hit it off instantly. Of course I didn't do anything though cause she's quite happy with the person she's with. Down the road who knows, but there's tons of people out there. No need to put this one on a pedestal.
/r/seduction05/04/17 03:01 PM
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Weird, it's saying not available for purchase. I'm 11pm PST as well Edit: Figured it out. Thanks OP! Looking forward to reading this!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 05:58 AM
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Only selfies ---> Fat If someone is proud of themselves, they show it off
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:37 PM
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That's honestly the way I prefer to do things to. An ex was being hit on once by this guy doing some pretty crappy advances, and all I needed to do was sarcastically walk up and interject myself into the conversation with a 'Hey what's going on' and just put an arm around her waist and started the dude straight in the eyes. No violent intent or anything, just being relaxed and confident. The guy backed down pretty quickly lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 03:17 PM
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Ain't that the truth. Nobody is going to fix your problems, and if you look outside of yourself to find things or people to fill that hole in you, all you'll do is wind up back at square one when that something has left.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 08:00 PM
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Dude that's fucking awesome. Congrats.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 07:21 PM
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I was saying this in another thread too. Being half decent at an instrument, if that's a time investment you want to take works. Couple that with working out regularly and it's a serious winning combo. I'd like to think I'm half decent at the drums (play more metal stuff usually) cause I go in to every gig with the full intention to of course play my heart out, but to admittedly outshine the other players there with skill and showmanship. Go at it with that innermost feeling that you're a badass…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 04:00 PM
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It's true. I may be 5'7 but my little quirk is that I get on a decent size drum kit and I outshine the fuck out of a lot of players just cause I practice like nuts and really make it my thing. I had girls taller than me asking me if I wanted to dance and what not. Good post, OP is right.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 12:22 AM
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Cheers man. Didn't even notice how bad my head posture was especially. Life changing post
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:18 AM
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Personally I think accepting, dealing with and ultimately overcoming the pain is important. Rebounding or just jumping into something right away (as an example) to me has always said that you learned nothing from your past experiences, you think you have no faults and/or you're incapable of sustaining yourself so you desperately seek out another person to fill a void in you. It shows emotional immaturity and neediness. I can understand wanting to keep someone at arms length but what good does it…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 10:20 PM
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Hit the nail on the head man. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 05:24 PM
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Thanks brother. Yeah I remember seeing a picture of myself and wondering how the shit it happened. After the bullshit with the LTR, being cheated on, being unhappy with my body and emotional self and ruminating constantly...I kinda snapped and just decided fuck it no more. Be a better man emotionally and physically, work harder to find success and find a better woman. Only going forward now!
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 07:47 PM
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Your story is similar to mine. I'm 5'7 and naturally more slimmer/average but I weighed the most I've ever been last year. Since my LTR branch swung, I've used that as motivation for how badly I was treated and dropped somewhere between 10 to 12 lbs so far by correcting my diet and having better self control. Plus between the gym and some basic gear at home I workout 7 days a week now. Don't ever want to feel as shitty as I did in 2016 where I visibly saw the weight creep.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 04:18 PM
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Go to shows dude. For the most part the fad is kinda dead, but those girls generally gravitate towards bands. Punk and Metal shows is where you'll always find them with out a doubt.
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:48 AM
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Cheers! Yeah they are - when I saw them with Animals as Leaders and Intervals it was absolutely mind blowing. Not coming off as shameless plugging but if you want to check it here's the link, I did the drums! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmLHymySdMc
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 06:40 AM
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That's basically what the TRP is for me too. Seeing and reading people who bust their ass to improve themselves and pursue their goals is pretty inspiring and it sure as hell lights a candle under your ass to do the same.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 07:44 PM
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Thanks so much for this man. All the best in your struggles. That's the kind of mentality that, while hard to wrap your head around, is what I'm trying to do. I've always thought it was kind of profound how one person can being going through the mud, yet the guy beside you is going through a high in life totally unscathed. It's all about balance and how you how handle yourself. It's sobering to know that regardless of what happens, the world keeps turning, so you gotta turn with it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 07:43 PM
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Success - I think overall it's been pretty good thus far looking back in hindsight. I'm kinda proud of myself and wanna keep going. -I've lost a total of 10 lbs so far - can only afford the gym twice a week but I have a chin up bar and an ab wheel at home so I'm doing what I can every night regardless. Eating way better, drinking less too. Got the arrangements made for a gig with my band in May for a new single release Finished a collaboration video with some buddies doing a cover of a Plini son…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 06:45 PM
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Good post man, thanks for this. A lot to learn, a lot to keep in mind for the next one. I'll definitely think about this going forward. I walked and cut the old relationship out, which is a good thing because she cheated and was branch swinging. No regrets - much rather focus on self improvement and finding someone better and more attractive. The other guy can deal with the red flags and constant depression issues and immaturity. Plus she slowly developed the non-negotiable traits of if you aren…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 07:17 AM
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I think the technical term for it is 'overlapping'. Just be careful with girls who overlap relationships cause it's a coping mechanism for them to avoid their own issues and bury it in the next guy who gives them a rush. Broke it off as soon as I figured out what was going on with my LTR, but it still fucking sucks to get back on your feet after. Anway, this chick sounds like she's up in a similar vein, because more often then not they don't know themselves enough so they string the next thing a…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:12 PM
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