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| 2 | The biggest reason dating & relationships are broken today is because men are comparing themselves to HOT men, mistaking how women interact with them as true measure of attraction, and giving up when their own experiences don't matchThis sort of thinking makes me want to drive to work and hug my wife cuz some of yall have nasty thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.we need higher quality debates than this. there is a simple reason. It is the mind of a man in a woman's body!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 03:13 AM |
| 2 | How many people here are happily married/in longterm relationships? If so, what is your perspective on the common themes and posts in this sub?LTR for 15 yrs. m/f Straight. Most of these posts don't have much to do with 2 ppl living and thriving together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop with their revenge fantasyWomen seek to date same or above their level. Not arguing that. The original post says that a below avg, less educated single mom is in the same level as an educated, employed,fit and groomed man. That is not true. The woman might seek to date them. Nothing wrong with that but they are not in the same level. Hypergamy says that they will want those men. Fine. That doesn't mean they are on the same level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop with their revenge fantasySharing men or women being scarer than men. 2 men for every woman? Sure. 2 women for each man? Nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:02 PM |
| 1 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerIt is truly about options and attraction. Using the example given a barista who meets a guy making great money will Be more appreciative and MORE available to him. when the barista gets pregnant, she is thankful for the option to chill and take care of the baby without worrying too much about the bills. The finance MD already has great money plus yours. which is great and a demanding job that takes away a lot of time for the 2. If she wants to get pregnant, she has to worry about maintaining the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Men need to stop with their revenge fantasyYou are right. The Market dictates. In a place where women are more scarce, a below avg single mom might be able to pull a great guy. Maybe that is the case in the area/country that OP is living in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop with their revenge fantasyThe key is higher status. Women want those men. Those men aren't on their level. it is circular logic. Women want those type of men so those type of men deserve to have those women. Imagine if a man asserted that he should be able to pull an Instagram baddie. Ppl will present a checklist of what he isn't worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:17 PM |
| 16 | Men need to stop with their revenge fantasySo a below average,lessser educated chubby mom of 4 will attract great shape, educated man with good job, decent grooming and physique? in what universe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:20 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"Dismissing her how? I agree with that. I just said that men would Love to have that option. I didn't say that she should be grateful that men want to fuq her. I just pointed out that most men don't have that problem and would envy the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 05:19 PM |
| 3 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"What question? I AGREED that women having only men sexually interested in them is tiresome. My point was simply that most men don't have the option of having that tiresome situation. If anything, she can't imagine a situation where men would want the option to fend off multiple women wanting to jump their bones. Ugly or Not. What question am I avoiding? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 05:16 PM |
| 3 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 06:01 PM |
| 3 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"It is extremes with you isn't it? Mind you,I agreed with your point initially and asked you to see it from a man POV and you simply can't. In both of your replies, your examples came out your own imagination. I didn't infer or suggest otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 05:09 PM |
| 5 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"Wow, you really can't look at things from a man's pov can you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:42 PM |
| 12 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"I agree with that but surely you can see that most men would Love to have multiple women sexually interested in them for a quick shag. The woman's annoying position is one men would Love to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship?No, they liked it but now they are with you and they don't want you advertising to other ppl. Territorial nature I guess. I get it, you were posting bikini ass shots when he met you. Now he wants you to stop. Doesn't make sense to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what?If standards are too high. The best option is to lower standards. If the standards are too high for a decent amount of men then then resentments roses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 01:16 AM |
| 4 | Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what?Option 2 isn't likely. Men are incentive based and working to meet women's high standards doesn't have a matching reward. Option 4 is most likely. If we reached a critical mass of men opting out, women will have to accept what is available and let their standards to drop to an extent. Too high standards will have to come down for any sort of equilibrium. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 06:37 AM |
| 1 | What’s the one quality in a woman that instantly wins you over?She has a sparkling personality. Just happy and pleasant to be around. She lit up the room. Has a beautiful smile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV - these are reasonable requirements for dating a single momNothing actually. It is the making what should be implicit explicit. Don't go on a date that isn't worth your while. Telling someone that they better make it worth your while makes it more performative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 03:54 PM |
| 4 | CMV - these are reasonable requirements for dating a single momSo more pressure to perform. More money spent on baby sitter and Uber. More complicated family dynamic, less spontaneous due to kid you can't meet.. I don't think she is getting this well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?What does "given up" look to you? I think a lot of men don't give up per se, they just lower the priority. If it presents itself, great. If not, they have hookups and porn to fill that void. Now I don't advocate for that approach but if men feel women are being too picky vs the value of getting said woman..it makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Do most women choose the Bear?That is fine. A random man is unknown but at least a man can do or say something to put you at ease as opposed to a bear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted tooNo, that isnt right. Most men will NEVER have a chance at Syndey OR Halle. If given a chance at either one they will take it. HAPPILY. There aren't many sane men that will reject a Halle Bailey looking lady on the hopes that a Sydney looking chick would give them the time of day. Men cant afford to think that way. My wife list and who I married dont match. I wanted a tall,dark lady with big twerkable hips.( it is my list sue me!!) My wife isn't tall, dark or well endowed. She is the best decisio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men feel the need to “test” you when you state your interests?respectfully no, that is objectively not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:08 PM |
| 21 | Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women.meh, women should have their spaces. men should stay away and vice versa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think AI humanoid girlfriends will be popular in the future?To incels or folks that are out of the dating game entirely? Maybe. Definitely not mainstream. Paying for a prostitute Still has a stigma to it and that has been going on for eons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:36 PM |
| 7 | Are Men Incentivizing Low Birth Rates?I have had 3 kids with my wife. I adored that she gave birth to our kids but the pregnancy experience really depends on a lot of things. Morning sickness, aches and pains, mom's personality. 1st pregnancy was great til the last trimester and my last sucked early but went smoothly at the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 03:51 PM |
| 7 | People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them?Married 15 yrs. My experience hasn't been close to that. We dont let issues lay unresolved. We work to find a creative compromise and work to maintain a feeling of appreciation for each other. I am sorry that your experience has been so difficult. that does sound like it sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 11:33 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker?Sincerely, kiss my ass. Expecting your daughter to not fuq strangers or show her vagina for money isn't controlling. Why do you act like I have to accept anything? I will work to make sure that she has skills that don't require her to do sex work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker?Soo essentially I failed as a father? Cuz that is the question you are asking. So, no. My child doing that would be horrible for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Do Men actually want women to take the lead when it comes to dating?I think there is a middle ground where a woman can show her interest without seeming too brazen. I will admit it is a dance. I also think that men hear woman complain about unwelcome contact a lot and aren't sure how to approach without being a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?i want her to take my name. if she wants to keep hers then I would like to know why. If she is using is professionally then sure keep the name. Want to keep your family name going? Sure. Too antiquated? Not good enough for me. WHy it matters, It signifies the commitment we have to each other. We are becoming one. it is important to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Can men develop attraction to a woman based on something besides looks?Of course, Looks will fade. you need other aspects to sustain a relationship. You don't have to be beautiful to be sensual. I have seen some sultry women who aren't that good looking. I used to my wife's face. Her other qualities i.e personality, work ethic, Intelligence, humor are more important in sustaining us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexYeah, I can see that. I dont see men who became women being less picky than real women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you hold contempt against women who reject you at your worst but want you at your best?Not contempt. They made their decision based on the knowledge at hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 01:58 PM |
| 4 | I find it weird how Dead Bedrooms is mostly women. Why is that?it is interesting and terrible to go thru. I dont doubt your account at all. My mind naturally whirls around looking for a solution for why a man would act that way. Married more than 10 yrs. still want her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Why can't men talk about women's bodies?oh, we absolutely can and will continue to talk about women's bodies. whatever would happen to all those Instagram thirst traps that rely on men talk about their bodies? Surely we dont want to reduce their follower count. How else can they leverage their followers as an influencer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 05:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't really love women for who they areNonsense. A woman personality is worth as much as how good she looks. Objects they possess is such a silly way to describe how a man cares for a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Despite each of our issues, how many of you are willing to admit that you would HATE to be the opposite gender?she is fine now. the road to recovery after childbirth is rough too. i appreciate her more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 11:13 PM |
| 0 | Despite each of our issues, how many of you are willing to admit that you would HATE to be the opposite gender?I get it in theory but after watching what she went thru so what was a relatively healthy pregnancy, I wouldn't do it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 09:36 PM |
| 9 | Despite each of our issues, how many of you are willing to admit that you would HATE to be the opposite gender?Being a woman is tough. Watched my wife give birth puts me firmly in team Man. The idea that she wants to do it again boggles my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | "Any woman who makes you wait for sex, the sex is never worth the wait" How far do you agree with this?Totally disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How did you approach your wife?Dude, don't fall into the hype of this reddit where after 5 months of work, the man is rejecting women begging for his dick left and right. If your approach isn't working, tweak and adjust. Find other avenues to meet women that fit with your values and interests. Met my wife in a convention and struck up a conversation. My game was taking a picture of her. Digital cameras were a big thing back then. Before then, I wasn't beating back women with a broom. You don't need all of them to want you. Ju… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/19 01:47 AM |
| 1 | One Year InGood recap. Glad you survived the Rambo stage. That is where so many people crash and burn. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Turning the cornerImpressive field report. Glad to see that your marriage is thriving. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/18 08:38 PM |
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