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I think a lot of the RPW concepts work Very well with men who never heard of the red pill. Don't use RP men as your template. A lot of them wouldnt be on the RP forum if they met women like y'all initially.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 11:41 PM
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guys, this is from a satire site. Unrustle your jimmies.
/r/MGTOW16/01/18 03:50 PM
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Influence, prestige etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:53 AM
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Amen! Wifey and I on the couch reading a book. Silence for 30 mins yet we feel closer to each other.. That is the life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:17 AM
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No doubt, age does play a part but a 45yr old man can compensate for his age in more ways a 45 yr old woman can't. He could have more resources, more power that would attract women to him. A woman with same power and resources won't have the same effect. If the man doesn't have resources or power... Forget nubile women and hello post wall ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:11 AM
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Cuz she is your wife and you want to make her happy. It is natural. Our reaction to her unhappiness is where the difference lies.
/r/askMRP05/09/17 04:47 PM
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No comfort? You told her to walk home? A 3 mile walk? Blocking her number? Why didnt you just order an Uber for her to get home? That way, you see it get to her and make sure she is home from the restaurant you so enjoy. Come on, this was a layup.
/r/askMRP20/08/17 06:55 AM
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I am used to seeing guys around me. In almost all spheres of life. When I am in a place where women dominate, it is a strange feeling. i guess you just want to see more of you around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 06:11 PM
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Lol.. Not true. Each man's definition of big boobs differ. Am a boob man myself but I would have still married my wife if she was flat chested.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 09:30 PM
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She just lays it on thick when she is complimenting me. She has charisma so it works very well. Mind you, I feel loved when affirmed so it is great to have someone who affirms me very easily.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 12:00 PM
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I can appreciate that. I am attracted to sexy but making love to my mind is really sexy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 08:38 PM
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She knew how to talk to me. She used flattery in a way that I KNEW what she was doing but she disarmed me with it. She was an extrovert and at parties would go off and mingle and allow me to chill. She had a gentle strength and vivacity that I hadn't seen in any woman in a while. On my list, she was about 70% of what I wanted. On the list of what I needed, she was 105%.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 08:25 PM
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My wife doesn't have 2 physical traits that I wanted in a spouse. You could say that I settled. However, she possesses qualities that I never considered. these qualities have made our marriage strong for the 10+ years. It is obvious that I didn't know everything I needed in a spouse. She is truly God's gift to me. If she leaves me, I am going with her.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 08:03 PM
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I think it depends greatly on the context. I don't see any problem with respecting women in the context that you stated. Unwanted groping is a nono. I think there are other situations where "respect women" is used as a cudgel to ramrod some idea of what women should have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 06:41 AM
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very well..
/r/askMRP13/12/16 08:53 PM
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Good grief man... Touch her. Massage her without sex. If everytime you touch her, you are going for sex.. what is special about that? Give her a massage or a freaking foot rub. Make her feel special. I mean she is spelling it out for you. You are failing comfort tests if she feels the only time you touch her is for sex. She wants your hands on her body. Put your hands on her body. You want her to get used to your hands on her body.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 06:17 PM
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What is there to contribute? Reading redpill isn't good for him. The idea that women only want men at the pinnacle of masculinity is silly. If that is what red pill is telling him then he is better off throwing up the pill. Either way, he is whining. I think the redpilll has some truths that help a man be better but all this stuff he wrote? He is better off not internalizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 12:53 AM
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uggg. the self preening in this post is annoying. Look at me, I improved myself so fast and the woman who accepted the slob version of me can't get enough... I am soo bored. Anyone have this problem?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 01:31 PM
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i dunno. Going to visit her family? Going on a mission trip? Volunteer outing? Work trip? The issue isn't where the wife went. It is the fact that husband is dreading her return and doesnt miss her. it says that you have a fundamental part of your marriage broken that needs fixing.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 01:59 PM
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Personally, I think women have a lot more to offer other than sex. I don't think the woman is setting an expectation for sex just by being there. Of course, it depends on the guy. Some guys want sex and some want more than sex. A worthwhile relationship where they are willing to wait for sex. I did the same with my wife. However, you need to discern who you are with and what they are about. Like people have said, drinking and taking him to your place to watch movies is pushing it. Maybe when you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 01:50 PM
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Why is this pissing you off? She sent you something. Your daughter is 1. Big freaking deal. Follow thru with your diet. Show progress and she will shut up. I don't know why sending you an article makes her a cunt. It is freaking article to bolster her point. Ignore and move on. Why should this "subtle warfare" piss you off? She sent you an freaking article. Send her 3 articles about IF.
/r/askMRP24/08/16 01:56 PM
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I already have it though. The wife and kids. Great emotional connections etc. As much as I might desire some strange... my life is pretty dang great. Especially when I implement some RP aspects to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 01:15 PM
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There lies the rub. I don't want to pretend. I want a real one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 12:50 PM
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I vote a Loving marriage any day every day and I consider myself RP. I would get bored with women with no emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 01:57 AM
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your outlook on RP is very similar to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 03:19 PM
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Being empowered doesnt mean going against their interests. Women enjoy men pursuing and desiring them. Men do the heavy lifting in that sense. A lot of times, they indicate interest subtly but why be more aggressive if there isn't evidence of getting what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 09:58 PM
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SO if the men actually coded a spine, do you think that their marriage would be better? All I see are men who are not asserting themselves.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 03:37 AM
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Good luck buddy. You have a long road ahead for you. Only God will help stay with a woman like that. She cheated on you and her best friend. I don't know if I can handle the mental gymnastics necessary to maintain this relationship. I hope this Ted talk helps you.. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q
/r/askMRP02/08/16 11:44 PM
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Most men marry or end up in a LTR. Dont fool yourself. You get to an age where it is simply easier with the one you are with than going off and finding someone else. Sad but it happens all the time. It is better to actively find a good woman (they exist) and work together to create something good. You can be RP in a LTR. Fact is most people come to the reddit after being idiot BP for years and now wonder why she still leaves them after he went RP for a month. If you genuinely abhor LTRs then by …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 01:03 PM
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It sounds like he was a miserly captain who showed his wife very little preference. Good luck on turning this around. He sounds like he royally screwed things up. I did that night shift thing while my wife did the day shift thing.. Never again.. Time together with your spouse is elementary. I am amazed that he didn't see this coming..
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/16 12:05 AM
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They are comparing women over 40 vs women under 20? Shouldn't the comparison be women between 20-39 and women 40+? 20-39 are the child bearing years for most women. how does that comparison look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 05:15 PM
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great read. thank you
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 01:37 AM
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No, but you are no longer who you were after improvement right? So change happens and sometimes is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 05:08 PM
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exactly. if you are fat, introverted and unable to talk to a girl.. being yourself is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 02:56 PM
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Exactly!!! Just be yourself is only effective if your current self ticks majority of attraction boxes. Most people have to work to improve themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 02:54 PM
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Read most of them. I read Althol Kay's stuff before I found this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 01:23 AM
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Honestly no, I like being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 06:55 PM
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Beta behavior is ESSENTIAL for a LTR. you cant be alpha all the time. it is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 01:30 AM
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I think a lot of RP men have been GOTTEN by women already. Divorce, abuse or whatever.. Most guys don't come to RP because they have an innate ability to deal with women. They come because they lack a particular set of skills that they need to acquire or understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 05:00 PM
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True but the key wasn't him. It was his wife's reaction. SOmehow his actions broke thru to her. I dont understand why but I will not look a gift horse in the mouth. Sounds like answered prayers to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 04:48 AM
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I will take EVERY miracle that I can get. He prayed. Asked God to guidance and got it. Don't sweat the technique.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 07:49 PM
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Both. I bet he did what she asked and then STFU. No arguing and she gets heard? Plus the wife is aware of her bad behavior and owned up to it. That is key as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 07:26 PM
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I didnt see Choreplay here. It seems like he broke a cycle of conflict by heaping hot coals on her head. He turned the other cheek and it worked. As for Red Pill, he owned his own shit and worked towards it. Definitely has some beta aspects to it but if he was TRULY beta or she was a true hag, she would have continued to shit test him and she didnt. There is no discussion about more or less sex and frankly his marriage is working and both are happier. Isn't that that what most married men want? …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 02:49 PM
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Yeah, I am pretty sure that a lot of those regions where women flock to STEM careers are ALSO gender biased as well. People go to STEM fields in those because that is where the money is. Anything other than STEM and life is harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 04:45 PM
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Great to hear that!! This resonates with me. My marriage is good and RP helps strive to maintain and improve.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 04:25 AM
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I find intelligence attractive. I have no desire to be with a dumb woman. Mind you, I was looking for a LTR and wife. FOr a hookup, being dumb might work in a guy's favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 06:45 PM
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Not all shit tests are overt or malicious. Sometimes a relationship has gotten into a rhythm that needs to be disrupted. If a woman is used to men jumping to whatever she wants, she is just operating on what she knows. The guy refusing to jump when she snaps her fingers is part of him dealing with a shit test. It is the reaction after the test is passed that is important. Does the guy pass it properly? Does the woman respond appropriately?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 01:41 PM
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you know.. without the sexual attraction aspect and the desire for that...I don't know if I would. Caressing, touching and all that you wrote still has a sexual subtext to it. Even if you don't get to do it with that person. I never thought of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 07:13 PM
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Is it amazing that you are that sort of person and yet women arent attracted to you? You sound great but the women arent there. Which means, women dont know a good thing when they see it.. Possibly or you dont have what women are attracted to. SOME women are attracted to you but I am sure you cockblock yourself a lot. the way I look at it is distilling the essence of the asshole and injecting it into your nice self.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 08:41 PM
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Okay, different strokes I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 05:45 PM
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Okay, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 05:45 PM
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I disagree. A hot girl that is an absolute bitch will have less men coming to her to have sex with her. Same with a hot girl that is very socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:10 PM
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Ms, if that is you that you are describing then I hope you get those walls down because you sound pretty cool to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:08 PM
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Did I miss where you can't ask her for the old pictures? Or is it that she doesn't have them? Why are you RECENTLY finding out about her website? If you are happy with her then fine but I don't get why you can't look at her pics and videos.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 01:17 PM
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Mistakes with the formatting? Great work on the formatting. Looking forward to the next post.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 10:48 PM
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I am not one to knock a system if it works. Personally I think it is too much work to maintain that equilibrium.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 02:40 PM
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Therein less the rub. The egalitarian relationship isn't the only way to have mutual respect and happiness. I have met enough women who say they want egalitarian but prefer a more masculine /feminine roles structure. I have found that trying to maintain egalitarian construct wasn't equilibrium to me. This is just my example but it took me a while to realize that my wife was a very responsive woman. I had to initiate when I didn't feel like it. I wanted her to initiate more. I could insist that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 10:03 AM
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Nah, I think someone can take RP concepts and see how they work for them. Can they do it clumsy and ineffective? Absolutely. Mind you, I am a moderate RP student. I actually gasp like being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 04:54 PM
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I would disagree with you. I think RP does more in pointing men in the right direction of sexual attraction than the Personalities test. Mind you, I like the personality tests. I just don't see how it helps in figuring out how create desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 04:07 PM
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You are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 01:28 PM
0

There is a thing like too much Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 01:21 PM
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I have seen guys like that. In my experience, they have a natural talent in attracting women. Is it really a wave of the future or just a bunch of guys that have an innate talent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 01:09 AM
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Married more than 10yrs with kids. I am happy with my wife. She is a great wife and mother.
/r/askMRP27/03/16 02:24 AM
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Dude, present your views and stop scolding OP for having an opinion. Give your anecdote, your thoughts, your opinion. SOmething.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 01:27 PM
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I like the honesty here. Even saying that you are a natural beta. Nothing wrong with it. Cutting off the toxic beta behavior is very KEY. A lot of guys read MRP and go 0-Asshole in 60 secs and wonder why it doesnt work. kudos.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 07:48 PM
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Yeah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 04:01 PM
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That is such b.s. Children? the heck did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 01:32 PM
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I agree. I am pretty on board with RP issues concerning me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 12:45 PM
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Not necessarily. MRP appeals to me on multiple fronts. I amhappily married and reading the consistent "don't get married" screed annoyed me. My wife is a great woman and mother but I wasn't leading the family as I should. I was going with the flow and not taking as active a role. i wasn't building attraction and I was tryging to negotiate desire. MRP helped me understand certain things I was doing that wasn't good for my marriage. Mind you, I didnt need much dread. My wife is a pretty responsive…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 05:28 AM
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What do you mean by More?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 09:45 PM
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I don't see where I or anyone argued that it was a viable hook up strategy. It is a sexual strategy because it is thought to get the woman to be sexually attracted to you since being nice and gentleman is attractive to women. I do agree that it isnt a good strategy but strategy nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 09:27 PM
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Well Yeah!!They have been told that being nice and a gentle man is a viable sexual strategy. It might not be as good as just being Hot but it is an alternative that they think they can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:29 PM
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Thank you for your answer. It is interesting how bisexuality is treated differently across the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 02:56 AM
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I wouldn't consider a bisexual woman wifey material but I wouldn't consider the women you dated as significantly as the men. I have a question for you too. Let's say your man was a bisexual as well. Would each gender of his N count be significant to you? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 11:35 PM
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Force fed, resigned, depressing, disdain fill outlook. I dunno, that sounds pretty manipulative to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:32 AM
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okay man.. all the best.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 05:00 PM
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See, this shit is where I think we take things too far. You hurt your leg. It happens. If your wife is any good, she will help you. As you would for her. Not admitting what is obvious is silly. The notion that you suggest that someone other than your wife feed you anti inflammatories is silly. She is your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 02:19 PM
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dang it!! if you had put toxic masculinity into that SJW gumbo of a paragraph, I would have won my bingo today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 02:07 PM
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Good grief, an obese woman with no social skills and bad hygiene isn't going to be beating men off with a stick. Heck, a good looking woman with mental issues isn't going to attract men. The idea that all women have to do is show up is annoying. What good does it do her to go home with a guy she feels nothing for or worse?? Foreveralone men don't want obese woman with no social skills and bad hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 10:24 PM
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I understand that way of thinking. Sorry you are dealing with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 02:52 AM
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You are conflating 2 different concepts. The idea is that the top 20% of men will get the majority of the women falling over themselves to sleep with them. These are men who naturally just GET women. My friend is case in point. Women see him and just do STUPID stuff to get him in bed with him. He didnt learn anything. He was just him and it goes down. We would regard them as naturally Alpha because they attract such female attention. If you are like me, who ISNT a pussy magnet, I can improve my …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 01:01 AM
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OP , how old are you? I see this a lot with African families where the father wants the daughter to study and not look at boys til they finish college. Then after college, start asking where her husband is at.. It is silly but i understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 11:20 PM
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To most dads, it would disgust them. It isn't a rational thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 11:18 PM
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Because his ability to protect his little girl is diminishing fast. He has protected that child for 18 plus years. All of a sudden, she is head over heels on some guy he has no idea about!! Secondly, unless the girl has consistently shown good judgment, her ability to pick a quality guy will ALWAYS be questioned. Took my in laws almost 3 yrs before unclenching about me marrying their daughter. Some people are protective like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 11:16 PM
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Dash mount the freaking navigation unit and be done with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 04:04 AM
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20 minutes before you can't take it anymore??? That is a serious issue. It sounds like you have great sex! Let's review. Wife being expressive about your muscles. Check You enjoying the attention and arousal. Check You climaxing after more than 20 minutes. Check I don't see a problem. If you were having sex for longer, I can see an issue but 20 minutes sounds good to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 02:15 PM
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Thank you for sharing. I think RPW would enjoy this FR.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 04:23 PM
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Always wanted kids. Had good parents and wanted that too. I considered the no kids life but it wasn't what I wanted. They are expensive but frankly they are worth it. Made me grow as a man and being a father has been a great thing for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 12:46 PM
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I agree with you. Agreeing with redpill doesn't require me to hate women or think awalt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 04:17 PM
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You have 2 issues. You are not leading your family. Your kid is tiring mom out. Fix that. Take her away and give mom a break. Secondly, work on the smv. Personally, I think if you 2 work together in training your child to not be on mom all the time... Your sex time will increase. I have 3 kids under 6 yrs. I know what you are talking about
/r/askMRP14/01/16 11:53 PM
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I am honestly not worried about RP making men that treat women badly. There are a good amount of those by default. We can't blame RP for them. RP or not, there are plenty of men that fathers need to protect their girls from. Granted, I am greatly in favor of marriage and LTRs so I differ in some ways. Teach my girl to never accept being a plate. Make sure she emulates a good marriage like her parents. The RPW forum has a lot of great ideas that I try to pass on to my girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 06:17 PM
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Change how? Will father's not tell their girls to not go for the jerk? To be smart on who they give themselves to? That is par for course right now. There is little that will change in terms of a father protecting his daughter. What will be interesting is what a RP dad will tell his son about girls and how he will encourage him in that aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 02:12 PM
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Okay...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 01:55 AM
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TRP offers advice for men attracting women without caring about how women feel. It is needed for certain men to see things differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 12:02 AM
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Sure!! Absolutely. the suggested books help me reset how I view women and the ones close to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 09:29 PM
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That is such bullshit. MRP doesn't waste time blaming the women. It works on the freaking man! It tells the man to deal with the issue and be better. The assumption for the women is that she will respond to a better man. Why hate a wife when she has happy with the man and enjoying his improvements? When men come on and start bitching about their wife, they usually get a smack down and told to go improve themselves. You can't possibly be that dense. Or you might be conflating what RP says vs MRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 01:41 PM
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Very well said.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 08:03 PM
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Being happy now doesn't mean that the decision was the right one for him. Circumstances can change and OP can become unhappy no? Of course,We won't know and you are right,only he can say that for sure. just reading what he wrote, it didn't seem that he tried hard enough. Mind you, I am sensitive when young kids are in the mix of marital discord. I am of the mind of playing the long game for the kids as long as possible. Especially when you have a relative newborn in the equation. We can't expect…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 07:29 PM
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Given the info OP provided, I feel like he jumped the gun. The situation as he wrote it is seems self inflicted. He allowed the dead bedrooms last this long and went along with it. A lot of BP guys find RP and go from betabux pushover to Alpha ass hole in a month. They demand to take back the reins and wonder why the wife resists or call them assholes. It takes time to right a ship especially if being absent or drunk at the wheel for so long. Not to mention very young kids that will now have a p…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 05:33 PM
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As a former Nice guy, I felt that I was What women said they wanted. Why? Because I asked the ladies I was interested in. They wanted a caring, guy that was emotionally available, nice, friendly etc.. I thought I was that person. I don't see how it is being entitled to expect that IF i am modelling myself as what women want, that I should attain relationship status. ESPECIALLY if I see the same women show attraction to men that don't exactly fit the criteria that they said they wanted. Was I ang…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 03:01 PM
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good book. Helps you narrow down what or how your spouse sees love in action.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 02:53 PM
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Sounds like you skipped a number of steps in Dread and went str8t to nuclear.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 02:44 PM
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I like your analogy. Having a child is a huge event in life. I can understand dropping working out to support your wife at this point in time. I don't get why apologies are soo heavily contested. You know your wife. You messed up. You apologize and move on. I think you deload when you are progressing past where your body is ready for.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 02:37 PM
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Heck No on that count. She might be the sweetest person in the world but that is too much drama to be adding to my life. I think I can take a slightly less wonderful girl without the Porn background. I like to keep my life as drama free and choosing a porn actress as a LTR isn't keeping with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:45 PM
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Funny that you picked those as examples for motivation. they all reek of insecurity and fear. I don't operate on that in my marriage. I picked a great wife and RP helps me tweak certain dynamics that I need to get the marriage that I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 06:31 PM
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Keeping a secret? So what? Keeping secrets are fine. Keeping secrets that your spouse needs to know is a problem I don't see how RP is a secret or a secret that my spouse needs to know. Even in a dating relationship, there isn't a place where the man is under any obligation to say "before we go any further, I am a Redpill follower"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 06:04 PM
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That is easy. I love and trust my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 05:35 PM
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The thing is that a guy doesn't have to tell their wife or gf that he is redpill. Depending in the current state of the relationship, it could be a subtle change or drastic depending on prior behavior. You have to remember that every guy isn't reading every redpill article as doctrine. My reading and implementation has improved our relationship. I don't tell her that I do this because of redpill. I just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 03:01 PM
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A lot of RP men come into the reddit alone and lonely to begin with. If they learn or develop the skills to talk and attract women then when it is time to start a LTR, they will do so.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 10:22 AM
3

That is unfortunate but life can be crappy like that. I am pretty sure that your body will be able to climb back to the general level you were faster than you did before. Plus you were very sick. It happens. Also remember that if you hadn't been working out, you would be weaker than your weakest place before you started working out. I am sure your new normal is still better than where you started at.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 11:03 PM
6

Hating single mothers is stupid and non productive. I have no Hate for single mothers. I hope they all find a good man to love them and the father gets to spend time with his kid. If not Dad, then step Dad. Either way I want good strong male figures for young kids to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 03:19 PM
1

You should have fucked her before going to the gym. Got into the car and then came back to her house and taken her hard. THEN gone to the gym. Strike when the iron is hot my man..
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 03:00 PM
3

Nice. I hope you practiced proper shop safety during intercourse. Always gratifying to enjoy that spouse initiated nookie.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 11:38 PM
2

Why does she know RP terminology? What part of don't freaking talk about Redpill don't you understand?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 08:15 PM
0

What is so different on the pron actor than you? Hair color, hair length, hair styling, Physique, penis size or girth, skin color, freckle density, anus discoloration, areola diameter, vocal timbre or accent? it will help us to know if you are being too sensitive or straight up weird.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 07:43 PM
1

Given how much discussion about how women can cheat, polyamory isn't going to be greeted with open arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 06:00 PM
2

You just rationalized chainsaw murder.. I am a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 05:56 PM
2

What is wrong with him? He is an actor for an insurance commercial. Is it the jammy jams?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 05:36 PM
5

A lot of men assume that women are wonderful by default. They get disavowed of that notion when they see women acting like women. It is a paradigm shift for some men to realize that women can be as superficial as men can be. The smart ones will learn to vet a good mate and invest in/with her. The others will wallow in that " AWALT echo chamber" til they get tired of it. As for trusting women, i remember a time when I had contempt for women. It wasn't because women were bad. I just had a tough ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 02:03 PM
1

Yeah, I know of Stronglifts. It is a good program. I was just curious why you choose those numbers. thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 02:11 PM
1

Just curious.. why did you pick those numbers?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 03:50 AM
13

Take your insecure ass to that party and have a great time.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:06 AM
1

Personality is critical. I would argue that It is very important in a red pill context. Looks are great but you will get used to the looks and personality goes a longer way. However, having a fantastic personality isn't going to make someone more attractive than the hot chick with the perky everythings. Looks just advertise much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 08:34 PM
1

Got you man.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:40 PM
1

Maybe so but it doesnt matter how you get ripped. You still need to be able to talk to women. That confidence that you think you will get when you are "ripped" doesn't have to wait til you get the muscles. Willing to bet that being out of shape isn't your central issue.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 09:48 PM
6

Being vegan isn't an excuse. I think Frank Medrano is vegan and he is pretty ripped. Not big but he is ripped. Plus getting ripped isn't going to make women just fall all over you. It helps but having an engaging personality and things of interest to you will go a long way. Are you talking to women and learning how to engage them in conversation? Are you interesting? Or funny? Are their women in the hobbies you pursue? Do you have hobbies? If it is business like sex you want... Get a hooker. Imp…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:18 PM
1

You are still making excuses. Listen to the advice. Noone cares how old you are. Noone told you to wait until now to implement the simplest steps on your MAP. Even if you do divorce, you need to improve yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 05:50 PM
2

Again with this " who am I" nonsense. Disagree with my opinions all you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 03:42 AM
1

They find the rare dominant women who like submissive men and enjoy life. In my experience, I usually expect dominant women to seek a more dominant man. Then again, I am not attracted to dominant women so my exposure is limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 12:25 AM
7

Then live your own life. Pay your own cell phone bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 12:22 AM
0

Quit the preaching..We all judge values here. We value a good marriage or a wife that puts out with enthusiasm. I don't like the question and I don't see the need to bring it to MRP. Deal with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 08:06 PM
4

Value leeching? Dude shut up. My opinion about this sub is mine. If I want to hear about how horrible marriage is and how I should avoid it, I know EXACTLY where to go. This guy is pondering if the pain of spending $150/month on his LTR of 10 yrs and potential mother of his kids is worth doing something that he considers a huge mistake. Why should I take him seriously?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 07:17 PM
6

There is nothing to help here!! He is asking a bunch of married men if getting married to a LTR of 10 yrs is worth 150$ a month. He obviously wants to have kids with this woman someday. Kids cost more than $150 a month. It is pointless to come here asking for a reason NOT or TO marry someone. Especially when you frame it as a monetary issue of 150$/month.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 04:51 PM
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Nah, nothing like that. Personally I like being married. I picked a good woman. I just don't see why you are here if you think marriage is such a bad idea. Regular RP will hammer that into your head all day everyday. That is just where I am coming from mentally. Is your relationship worth 150$ a month? that is the question. I don't think anyone here can tell you what you don't already know.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 04:19 PM
4

Well, he considers marriage a huge mistake ( his words not mine). So his only option is either tell his gf to kick rocks and fend for herself or help her with her insurance. I don't see why he needs MRP to help him with this decision. Obviously he doesn't consider the woman a worthwhile mate. If he did, then paying $150 a month for her insurance wouldn't be such a burden given that he is free to next her whenever he wants to. None of this has anything to do with MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 04:15 PM
8

I am tired of guys who aren't married coming here asking advice on how to NOT be married.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 03:52 PM
6

I got the "just be yourself" advice too growing up. Also I had this notion that I should be loved for who I was inside not what or how I portrayed myself. I got assured that women will finally see me to be the gem (BB) that I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 06:39 PM
3

I agree with you. Marriage has been a good thing for me and RP has enhanced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 07:31 PM
1

Nice write up. I appreciate the explanation while ignoring the sophomoric jabs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 09:40 PM
2

well articulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 08:35 PM
1

i think It is a Innate quality for those guys. Those kind of guys have that Something that makes girls attractive to them. I agree with you. I know guys who aren't muscular or slender that women just fall over for. Those guys don't need the redpill. They are used to constant line of women who seem to get over their gag reflex when they meet him. Until I can distill that trait out of him and inject it into me.. I will need RP skills to get better at attracting my women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 08:34 PM
1

Lol..Okay dude. It is okay to say stuff like "I don't know"
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 05:39 PM
1

Good in theory but will OP be able to attain a high value before the truth comes out? How do you know that you are high value enough to survive a cheating disclosure?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 01:45 PM
0

I see what you are saying and I don't necessarily disagree. I would hate to see months of progress get nuked when the shoe drops. Well, op created this clusterfck of a mess. I hope he can negotiate thru it intact.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 02:50 AM
2

Nice..
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 09:53 PM
0

Good points but what if the cheating comes out? A
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 09:13 PM
0

Man, my thought is that you could go all redpill and all your efforts will be destroyed if she ever finds out about your cheating. I would say that you admit to some cheating but limit the scope.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 09:10 PM
3

You are right about that. Major status move speaking at the church and seeing it being well received. Glad she responded the way she did. Btw, is this the first time you had outside in car sex?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 09:05 PM
2

That is a great Sunday.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 09:00 PM
3

Ironically, wouldn't telling your child to stay away from that guy cause him to be more attractive (forbidden)? I am hopeful that my 18+ yrs of being her father will allow me the time to instill the skills to spot the right sort of men for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 03:28 PM
12

Don't give her anything. focus on yourself. Improve. Giving her the book is a covert contract. she doesn't have to approve Your to attempts improve. Just start improving and she will see herself .
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/15 02:35 AM
5

When I read a RP post, I ask myself. Will this help me in being a better man, father or husband? If no, I reject it outright. If yes, I read more. I consider my wife to be a unicorn compared to the ogres/plates some fellas allow to their homes or get married to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 09:48 PM
1

Tell us how you really feel man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 03:13 AM
1

i don't think it matters. As long as your spouse isn't attracted to you.. you proceed with the improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 03:10 AM
2

I dont ever remember anything like this being advocated by RP. ALL women get implants? that is very extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 03:09 AM
1

Not necessarily. However, a wife that takes initiative and loses excess weight will be more attractive to her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:59 AM
1

If that was the case, there wouldn't be any issues right? So no need for dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:54 AM
4

Wait what? Traditional marriage hasn't advocated rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 03:53 AM
3

Good points. Nicely done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 11:29 AM
4

Interesting read. I certainly agree that you can't sustain a relationship with only alpha traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 10:41 PM
3

What is the point of figuring out how to attract the type of women you like when the reason you like them is BECAUSE you DON'T like your OWN type? Fix yourself. Learn to love yourself dude. Being Dark isn't a bad thing. Heck, you are already lifting and a good job. Being concerned that a woman will not like you because of your skin tone is such wasted emotions.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:13 PM
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My Lord, you are something else. You pushed your gf away because you hate your skin tone so much that you were scared that she would leave you for a lighter skinned person?? Girls who go for dark skinned guys aren't well educated or street trash? What? Please stay single.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:02 PM
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In 3 months, you went from a nobody to a man that makes your wife wet in a single look? Bull. To top that, you proceed to pull pickup stuff on a coworker? Bullshit and stupid. Then the coworker texts your wife saying stupid shit? More bullshit and stupid. If not a troll, you are a dumbass. You couldn't help gaming a hot coworker? What universe do you live in that a married man emotionally fucking with a woman that isn't your spouse doesn't come back to bit you in the ass? So let's recap. 3 month…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 01:31 PM
2

Redpill is too short sighted. I find it hard to believe that there are 45+ yr old and up banging hot 22 yr chicks. Men need to find good quality women to marry and have good kids with. Anything else is fiddling while Rome burns. I agree with a lot of tenets there but if we aren't working hard to find quality women and banging easy chicks, what is the freaking point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 02:14 AM
0

My wife made a decision to never refuse me. So even if I wake her up at night, she still goes. Pretty good feeling.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/15 09:13 PM
1

Conflicting is an understatement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 08:06 PM
1

I agree with you. Too timid. Scared of messing up the status quo sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 01:05 PM
1

Never really thought of it. The notion of a man getting off from watching his gf or wife sexed by another man is ridiculous to me. I would look down on him. I would say that I would prefer that he participated in the revelry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 01:04 PM
1

Rent an office.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:41 AM
4

Redpill has a racist element to it. I have seen enough posts and threads to see that. There was a thread talking about how coontown being removed was a crock. Some posters talked about how they would go post there. I couldn't ignore the fact that RP had a racist element. Also, there was a field report about a black girl that was a plate and sure enough the racist jokes cranked up fast. It is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 03:25 AM
2

That she is obviously talented and that is cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:15 PM
2

Let me help you. No.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 05:55 PM
2

married 10 yrs. no regrets. best thing ever happened to me.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 02:59 AM
3

No, He was beyond that. The Son of God in flesh to save mankind. His teachings tell us to constantly forgive people that wrong us and love our spouses like He loved the Christ loved the church i.e Died for it So forgive the lady that rode the CC and forgive your spouse if she wrongs or insults you and you are tempted to next her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 02:51 AM
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Life happens. We stay together. I am pretty sure that it will make her very upset that she cant hold up her end of the deal anyway. My wife is the best decision I have made in my life. I don't care what any single RP says.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 04:25 PM
1

I agree with not listening to what women say they want in a man rather watching who she is attracted to. I agree that improving yourself, dressing better DOES make women more attracted to you I have heard "Be Yourself" many times. I disagree with the "Don't get Married" mantra. I find it very short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 12:05 AM
2

Lets face it, if you find RP after being told you are too nice to date or having a gf go back to an "abusive" ex, it is easy to feel that women lie intentionally. The alternative is that they don't do it consciously which isn't an improvement in the fellas eyes. Men that have no trouble getting women don't seek the RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 11:58 PM
2

Lol.. This is sad. So you think that getting marriage is a shit test? Wow! All these reports of men improving themselves and sexing their wives properly isn't good enough for you? Of course it is marriage. It can't be that you chose wrong or you have issues that you are blind to or your wife has a medical issue.... Nah, must be marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 08:14 PM
1

Meh, this isn't really a choice. Feeling something for the girl is vital for a relationship. I would much prefer a virgin but given the binary choices here I don't see why one would choose a virgin that you have no attraction for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 10:14 PM
2

Dude, what are you doing? Why hasn't the discussion about kids happened already? You don't sound very intune in your marriage from your post. How can she study and ace the Gre without you knowing? That being said, you have either failed in communicating what you desire from your marriage or she is willfully ignoring you. You come off insecure tho. Telling her to get a hobby? I do agree that expecting you to foot a 100k school loan is ridiculous but you could have handled it so much better. Are y…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 03:07 AM
1

I hear you on that. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 02:54 PM
0

Really no way to know if you actually gave this a real shot. If you want assurances that you made the right move, people will look at your age and think "Meh, you can recover from this." I am curious though. When you told her what you wanted from the relationship, what did she say?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 12:41 PM
1

Ah.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 03:06 AM
0

I think it was your thread that made me think of this. BTW, why did you start with bull shit?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 06:53 PM
1

You are getting shit because you came in a newb and bragging. The info about the divorce would have been good to read instead of how you became a natural alpha immediately after being divorced. Gthfo. We understand being there for your kids. Thinly veiled brags makes folks annoyed fast. Is the sex better? Are you guys going to get married back? How often do you have sex? If you are telling me that you went back without trying to fix what was broken before, you deserve the shit you are getting. H…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 02:03 PM
5

Yeah no..
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 12:35 PM
1

Mine responds well to dirty talk. You have to feel her out and find out what works best. I say you lead her to bed unless you get a hard no. Personally, if my wife is tired,i don't get upset, I just touch her and something like " sleep well babe. Morning sex is a great way to Kickstart the day" Just saying that you telling her that you want to fuck might work just fine. I don't know enough of your wife to ascertain.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 03:40 AM
3

Really? Random chick in a bar wants to fuck you so bad that she takes 2 rejections and keep coming on to you? Yeah.. No.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 09:47 PM
7

How can you have the perfect marriage when you are seeking sex outside your marriage? Noone trips, falls into pussy. You take active steps to it. Look at your wife. Really look at her. Do you want children? Wild oats aren't her fault. She didn't prevent you from doing that. You did. You have a 'good' wife that you are willing to mess up because you want more strange. You know how I stay faithful to my wife? I realize that she is the best decision I made. I made. It would be foolish to think that…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 12:39 PM
0

Sure, the ones that deserve respect. However, I no longer give women the initial benefit of doubt that I used to. Earn my respect and we are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/15 02:20 AM
2

A female president isn't going to change much. I am more interested in policies than gender. In fact, a female president might have make an effort to not appear to prioritize female issues over general issues. I won't have a problem. Just not Hilary Clinton.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 07:22 PM
4

RP just had a number of ideas that I already strongly agreed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 06:36 PM
2

Tell her to stop or you will burn off the extra calories face down in bed tonight. 1 thing though. You are 6ft 188 lbs. How thin do you want to get to? Just curious. I would love to be close to that level..
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 07:48 PM
2

All I see are examples of men who act Alpha in work but are total betas at home. Or they chose their wives poorly. Why are we acting like these women's behavior can't be adjusted? Fine, so she doesn't understand what it takes to do your job. It doesn't mean that he has to take that noise about him not pulling his weight. Unless he told her to be stay at home mom while he worked.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 07:07 PM
1

Yeah, short term, that might work but long term, I don't think it is a good strategy. I think you are giving her ammo to use against you later. Plus going to porn and pointing at Jenna Jameson in a screen makes you look weak. You are better off letting her mind worry if you are off with someone else rather Know that you are sitting over a PC masturbating to women with dead eyes.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 04:31 PM
3

In general, Hairy legs aren't sexy in Nigeria. Mind you, there are numerous ethnic groups in Nigeria so there MIGHT be ones that think hairy legs are sexy. Other than that, depending on when she left Nigeria, she is right. Although Western culture has invaded and things are changing.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 11:59 PM
1

Okay dude. I respect your opinion.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 04:21 PM
2

I can't tell if you are serious or being sarcastic. I will go with sarcastic. As for OP, I like your post. I am a natural introvert but I have found ways to get out of my shell. it helps in public situations but I still need to go find my quiet place.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 03:36 PM
14

I agree. 2 weeks from a c section. Even if she Could have gotten it herself, she got a new born to care for.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/15 09:42 PM
15

Applying Dread this close to a baby birth is foolhardy. IMHO. She will need to be an obviously insufferable, horrible person for anyone to give you sympathy for causing her discomfort. You beta ed all thru the pregnancy and now you want to redpill out while she is nursing your child?? If she is such a cunt and a bitch, why marry her? Good grief man! A doctor pulled a Mortal Kombat move to her belly to deliver your child. Work on yourself but the time to get your beta on is now. Do you really thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/15 09:27 PM
-4

There is no redpill on race. Just took a look at your post history. My apologies, morons like you are not worth my outrage.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:43 PM
-6

You are a moron. Sportscenter will be right back.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:23 PM
2

You make very congent points points points.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:15 PM
2

So what? 2020? In between apple and Samsung pay, credit card and smartphone apps and bitcoin,cash won't be that relevant. So a woman gets on the Note.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 06:10 PM
2

Sounds like you recovered quickly in seeing the comfort tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 01:06 AM
1

I agree with you. There are enough female comics that are funny to everyone without this b.s women comics aren't funny nonsense. Maria Bamford , Whitney Cummings, Cathlyn Madigan , Vanessa Fraction have done bits that were hilarious. Schumer IS funny. Soomore, Sheryl Underwood, are other women who are funny.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:49 PM
1

Enjoyed your FR. Great work. I hope your marriage keeps getting better and better.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 08:09 PM
2

Incredible frame? Panties soaked? LOL okay.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 06:52 PM
5

Are we going to gloss over the fact he said that his gay roommates pulls women as well?? What am I missing here?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 12:36 PM
1

first, you are asking a bunch of men who are ready with AWALT and No marriage comments. I do agree with you but it is on Men to properly guide their children.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 08:54 PM
5

I appreciate the reply and the work that you do. it is important.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 02:37 AM
9

Have you had anyone actually tried to follow through with a threat at you? Physically that is. I know they have harassed you electronically.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:47 PM
6

So an "alpha" married an ugly girl. Failed easy shit tests and allowed a dead bedroom situation for 6 months to continue. He allowed her to trickle sex him to string him along and treat him like crap. I am confused where he was alpha. He picked a chick with low SMV because he was insecure. He took a side job cuz he had given his balls to her for no good reason. Bad treatment immediately after the wedding? This guy is blue pill as all get out.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:17 AM
2

You might be too broad with your strokes on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 11:43 PM
5

I thought that was implied in my last comment. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 09:22 PM
6

You are stringing folks along.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 08:56 PM
14

You list a lot of things as facts that aren't. Gender and Feminism etc. Share your strategy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 08:17 PM
3

You wanted her to initiate sex? Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 03:24 PM
3

Your culture doesn't actively hate you. Your culture has fed you lies. Lies that you seem to realize now.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 01:55 PM
1

She isn't going to do jack. They need the traffic to keep this site profitable. Plus this isn't the most offensive reddit there is. She can purge a lot of porn or overtly racist stuff way before this one comes to her radar.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 08:21 PM
1

Ok I will bite. Expecting middle of the night sex with lower SMV is a covert contract. What happens when you initiate during the day making your intent known? If your SMV is lower than hers, she will brush you off. Lifting for a month isnt going to do it. She needs to see a consistent new behavior. You didnt get here overnight. Be patient and realize that if you want sex, you might need to let her know ahead of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 01:34 PM
1

That is the best thing I have seen you type so far. She is most likely manipulating you. She wants the old BP guy back. Problem is that you opened the veil and she will go on the offensive and tell people how RP messed up her relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 01:27 PM
13

You pointed them out. Each thread was a criticism on her. Googling Red Pill was inevitable. You should have foreseen that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 01:25 PM
14

Sweet Jesus!! why are you men telling your wives about RedPill???!!! RedpillWomen is a good subreddit but it ISN'T about her. it is about YOU. Dammit!! FIX YOU!!!! Improve You!!! You essentially pointed her at the computer and said, " why cant you be like them??!!" I find the RPW to a great subreddit too. My wife doesn't need to read it though. Just because you are RP doesn't mean that she has to be RPW.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 01:23 PM
1

I am just using the words he used. dont carry any additional meaning to that. I bet he was trying to be politically correct and all that mess.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 03:03 PM
3

You can do as long as you don't have a covert contract on what your wife is supposed to do. Your wife might NOT initiate for a while and you CANT be butt hurt about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 11:50 AM
-1

lol. it is crazy that your comment gets downvoted..
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 02:19 PM
8

I agree. You don't ignore your partner because of business and expect that things will be okay. His business failed, he couldn't find a a job and now he is doing the business thing all over again. She doesn't want to be ignored like he did before. Should she support and stick it out? I think she should but dont ignore things and be surprised when it bites u in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 02:06 PM
1

Well, she won didnt she? She was wild. Had her crazy times , lots of fun and got a prince while she was still hot. She worked the heck out of her SMV. kudos to her.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 02:02 PM
1

That is cool man. Tarantino is very hit or miss.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 01:41 AM
4

Red. I have seen too many things that are talked about in real life to not take it seriously. I don't hate women or call them teenagers or consider marriage as a lose lose situation. What I have found a set of ideas that if followed allow me satisfaction that I haven't gotten before. Bear in mind that I have a great wife. I have still seen how Red pill tactics have enhanced our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/15 06:37 PM
6

http://www.cnet.com/news/mad-max-fury-road-jawdropping-ode-to-the-road-spoiler-free-review/ Spoiler free movie. "Fury Road" jams the pedal to the metal and keeps its foot down for a breakneck 120 minutes of vehicular carnage, a jawdroppingly beautifully painted demolition derby streaked through with humour as dry as the desert in which it's set and hearts as black as the precious "guzzle-ine" that fuels it. Can we quit with this infantile fear monging about a feminist action movie and go see som…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 08:42 PM
7

That is because we are guys. Nothing wrong with that but I would LOVE to do like Donny Yen,Tony Jaa or Iko Uwais do in their movies. not going to freaking happen but I can dream. When Rhonda Rousey kicks ass, I don't see myself in her EVEN if she is a bad ass. If there is a market for women kicking ass then it should be met. I am not begrudging anyone their entertainment.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 01:00 AM
1

See it first before you make any judgements..
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 12:55 AM
0

exactly!! wait til someone from PPD uses this as an example of RP being silly.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 12:55 AM
8

Ok, how about this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NyTt1CFiOKI One of my fave action sequences and I NEVER thought that any man could ACTUALLY do this. this is pure fantasy yet somehow we can watch this and KNOW that not a single human can do that.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 08:33 PM
1

I agree with you. Nothing wrong with that. Strong female lead, high levels of asskickery... everyone is happy.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 08:19 PM
1

I agree with you. Be wary but don't let confirmation bias ruin what could be a good movie.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:01 PM
4

No, it just means that I took a risk on entertainment. it didn't pan out. I leave and let everyone I know that this movie isn't worth watching. Same thing when I order a new meal at a restaurant.. it happens.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:00 PM
1

It is possible that the film makers figured that a feminist angle will be the best way to get women in the theaters. I am not begrudging anyone's attempt to improve their bottomline. I hope they are smart enough to not alienate the natural audience of these kinds of movies. I am not willing to dismiss all the critics opinions yet.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:44 PM
2

hmm, never thot of it that way.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:35 PM
-1

You are right on Kill Bill. However, it showed women kicking ass and feminists will point to that movie as an example of females carrying a movie lead successfully. I want to see how this pans out. I don't want to go in with some reason to dislike the movie.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:33 PM
3

That is how movie watching happens.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:31 PM
1

Please do. Come back and give your honest opinion.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:30 PM
-1

Mad Max was NEVER going to be a Red Pill movie. In fact, expecting RP in popular culture is asking for disappointment. Studios want money and they want to get as much butts in seats. So SUPRISE they appeal to men and Women. Movie critics giving this movie high praise doesn't mean that it has overtly feminist tones. It could mean that it is a good movie. Naive is acting butt hurt about women in a Mad Max movie before it has been released yet. let's see the movie First!! Transformers made billions…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:29 PM
0

Tell me more about where I belong. Let's see the movie before we start knee jerking alright? geez..
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:23 PM
0

I wouldn't dismiss those women too quickly. it could be that they aren't very attractive or the man has issues. Addictions to porn, video games etc.. unlike men, they are not used to being rejected.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 03:47 PM
10

Is it possible that the Movie is that good?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 03:24 PM
0

I agree with you. I just want to judge the movie by it's merit.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 03:23 PM
0

Dude, I am honestly sure that Sandler and Michael Bay signed deals with the Devil.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 03:20 PM
-8

I appreciate the info. I honestly thought that hardy was the lead but if the movie sucks...people will not go.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:39 PM
6

Let's wait and see. The market can decide whether this is a good flick or not. Feminist slant or not. Asses need to be kicked and machismo needs to be shown. If Mad Max is a sad sack that needs to be rescued all the time, not all women will enjoy that. There is space for ass kicking females in action movies. Look what feminists did to Whedon after Avengers 2.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:35 PM
77

Kill Bill had a female lead. She kicked ass. The movies were great. Let's wait and see. A female lead doesn't make it a bad movie. As for the Amy Schumer flick.. it looks funny. Let see it's treatment before judging.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:25 PM
2

Great point! I cant argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 02:39 PM
2

Tom Thumb is regional. We got in Dallas as well.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 11:27 AM
1

Glad to hear that man. good for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/15 09:28 PM
5

Definitely agree with you. I feel that the " no marriage" mantra on this reddit is short sighted. I think Majority of men will settle with a LTR or marriage eventually. if pressed for a number, I would say 80% easily. All it takes is one health scare to show you how vulnerable you are. You think your plate will want to tend to you hand and foot? Good luck with that. Heck, even if that plate does tend to you, are you prepared to deal with how indebted you are to her? Being redPill should help us …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 05:29 PM
0

No, riches and power have trumped looks for generations. Women MIGHT like a good looking man but they will ditch him for the post boxing career Mickey Rourke looking guy with lots of influence and power.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:05 AM
1

Some countries encourage more than others. i guess.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:01 AM
3

Mark Mason is pretty good blogger. Link from his website. http://markmanson.net/why-people-cheat
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/15 04:00 AM
21

Women rode the CC back in the day too. The difference was the social cost. So the smart ones did it with the utmost of discretion. The dumb ones got caught and paid the price. These days, the social cost is a lot lower. Heck, it is almost encouraged. I think we are seeing an unfettered female doing what she has always been able to do.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 11:48 PM
1

that is good man.. good to hear that appreciation.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 01:25 AM
1

If you improved yourself, beat shit tests and YET she isnt attracted to you. You are doing something wrong.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 12:04 PM
2

True. his wife was with him when he wasnt so filthy rich. too bad that they divorced but she wasn't a dumb bimbo. $1 billion. man, why fight that?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 11:42 AM
1

Dude, I don't know what to tell you. I really hope you feel better now.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 03:43 PM
2

You are a pushover. You give her what she wants most of the time. Why are you now surprised that she fights for what SHE wants instead of what you want? I mean. come on, an hour argument? She knows all your trigger points and you spent an hour trying to supplicate her. You are totally in her frame. Have been for a while I guess.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:06 PM
0

If rape was decriminalized, there Might be more rapes but there will be more murders too. Just because something is illegal by law doesn't mean that everyone is okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 12:15 AM
2

No, most men don't have an urge to force a woman to have sex against her will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 12:13 AM
3

really? you are born at whatever level you are? okay dude.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 11:46 AM
2

I agree that love languages aren't necessarily going to make her sexually attracted to you but in the long term especially in LTRs, it is a great tool to speak your woman's language. The book makes it clear what she values and what I value. I think it is a great book.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 11:45 AM
4

All we know is that she expects him to foot the full rent bill now that he has a better paying job. He tells her No. Case Closed. He is in a LTR. Her reduction of her debt is a good thing to deal with. I am sure there are other ways to reduce spending to pay off debt. If she refuses to accept his refusal THEN they are at an impasse.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 09:08 PM
5

I don't think so. It is a simple adjustment of expectations.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 08:04 PM
5

Well, just because she asks him to pay full rent doesn't mean the relationship is over. The consensus seems to be pull the ripcord but I don't see why a discussion can't be made that would be best for everyone.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 05:28 PM
8

Why not simply say No?
/r/askTRP21/04/15 03:17 PM
6

I dont care how she got that way. I doubt her man cares. Whatever means a woman gets to that place where her husband is #1, sex on the regular and cares for her kids is fine with me.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 10:55 PM
2

Not giving the woman a pass but it is just that he could have simply put his foot down and not allowed this harpy to sink her talons into.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:34 PM
2

You do realize that you describe a relationship that MOST men will bludgeon you for right? YOU are the one messing this up. The idea that you begrudge the fact that your wife had LTRs before you is a bit insane. Especially if she was still a virgin when she meet you. pardon the analogy but you got a Bentley Continental with minimal mileage and you pissed that interior leather isn't the right shade of brown that it was in your dreams.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 04:03 PM
8

When I read this, I see a man who refused to set any standard for his life. He did this to himself. All he had to do was show SOME sort of backbone and half this crap wouldn't have happened. I don't blame the woman. She was broken from jump. She found the perfect patsy.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 03:38 PM
2

Hey man, You are over thinking this. You have a VERY good thing. If you are sure she is a virgin then you have done way more than ANY other man has done to her. You have 3 kids and she is sexually willing and keeps the home. In essence, you have it VERY VERY good. Yet, you are here. Using your brain to screw it up. It isn't her fault that you passed up on the available women. Dont blame her for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 06:58 PM
2

I wont screw her and I wont kiss her. You said that to your wife. Where is the dread? I tihnk you ought to go to this trip and minimize your communications while there. Just have a great time. Check in at night to say good night and leave it at that. let her mind do the wandering. My thots.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 07:55 PM
6

*Helped me appreciate my wife more. *Working out more *More assertive in what I want in my relationship *Sex life has improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:39 AM
1

Good reminder. i tend to mis read her requests for cuddles to be exactly that.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 09:30 AM
0

very well said.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 02:36 AM
1

That hasn't been my experience and I have had 3 kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/15 12:03 PM
1

nice work
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/15 02:32 AM
2

thanks for the laugh
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/15 10:10 PM
4

Yes, she is my equal. My mother told me that the man is the head of the House but the woman is the neck. I liken that analogy to my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 01:06 PM
3

Cosigning on the Ereader tip. Grab a Nook simple touch. the older model doesn't have a light but has a microsd card so you can fill your reader to your heart's content.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 04:19 PM
4

He isn't a beta. You are acting like men cant find a good LTR and maintain the power dynamic to benefit everyone. I hope you are making LOTS of money because that hot 24 yr old will not be going down on your because you have Daygame at 65 yrs old.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:01 PM
3

but I posit that any guy that tells you he still wants to bang his wife is lying. I think it's physiologically impossible to be aroused after so much familiarity, you become almost sibling like. You would be wrong and misguided which is the nicest thing I can write about that statement.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 07:57 PM
3

I admire women like that. It sets her out from the rest. If she ticks all my other qualities then by all means. Yes. TO me, A woman like that sounds like the optimal choice for Marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 03:06 AM
6

The post is currently only for you man.. I await your elaboration in your changes.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 06:23 PM
2

I am ALL for success stories. If I go to fitness and talk about how I lost 50 lbs, everyone will ask what I did to get there. I think it is even more important in RP. Where he was before and how he adjusted can resonate with someone else and help them.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:54 PM
13

You DID brag about doubling your income and how people treat you better now. I am saying that you gave NO concrete example of how you implemented RP in your life. Frame, Workout, Attitude adjustment, Dressing . What did you do? If you read the sidebar, you would highlight what you did from what you read. I was reading redpill info before there was a redpill subreddit, your account of what you did is what will encourage people. Until then, you are just bragging.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 04:51 PM
3

Angry posts also add no substance. noobs need to come in shut up and learn. i accept that the anger stage comes with mouth vomit but if the redpill is working for this guy then a true field report will help everyone. right now, it helps only him.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 03:35 PM
39

Doubled your salary huh? Folks inviting you to stuff when they used to ignore you? You are going to need to speak on how or what you did. Otherwise, this just shows as a humblebrag with no substance. The only person you helped with this post is yourself.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 02:31 PM
1

What are you talking about? This is classic rape. Chick was unresponsive ALL the way to the hospital. Her account is irrelevant. The grad students are the ones that have the actual testimony. Unless there are additional details, this guy was caught in the act of raping a woman.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 01:32 PM
1

I am sorry you are dealing with this in your family. Cant imagine how you feel about an impending divorce of your parents. However, something isn't right here. 30 yrs of marriage doesn't dissolve in 3 months of unemployment. Odds are there were structural errors in the marriage that were ignored. All the best man.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 09:51 PM
1

Being beta, nice accommodating guy is easier than standing up for yourself. Hoping that they will meet that girl that gets wet for nice guys. They have been told that they exist of course. Standing up for yourself. Taking a stand. Exhibiting confidence. That takes effort.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:27 PM
2

Find something you like that allows you to meet people. That is why dancing is recommended a lot. You might not be good at it but it teaches you a good skills and you get to met and dance with a lot of different women. Heck, you could meet a great gal at a mixed martial arts studio. Go out there and make interesting stories.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 03:55 PM
2

I said that is how it comes across to me. I encourage any guy looking for a good relationship to Not be a homebody. All I know about you is what I have read. If you are not finding quality women then you need to expand your search radius. I am also a homebody too. Similar to you but I found mine by trying to be more social. You got to admit. Saying that you prefer to be at home and surf isn't very interesting. Your viewpoints and humor might be but you have to attract her first.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 02:36 PM
2

You are not that interesting. Sorry that might sound harsh but that is what comes across. It sounds like You are not social and you feel that your age, job and apt entitles you to a great catch. It doesn't. Be social. Do something interesting. Improve yourself. If you have a great physique, fantastic.. now go do something interesting. if no on the rock hard abs, go get them. atleast it will get you out of the house.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 02:24 PM
1

since they cant keep your interests, what ARE your interests? What makes you interesting or do you find interesting and how do you go about doing it?
/r/askTRP12/01/15 01:35 PM
1

either you dont have as high SMV as you think you do or your standards are too high. do you want a ltr?
/r/askTRP12/01/15 01:18 PM
2

Classic college nice guy. thought being friends first was the way to go. i finally admitted my love for her and she told me that she didn't feel the same but to ask her in 3-4 yrs. Made me realize that what i was doing wasn't working.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 01:13 PM
2

It is a good combination of both. 2 people valuing each other. it is a rare situation. Almost a unicorn situation but if it does, it is great thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 10:31 PM
2

I think a RPW has a bigger pool of option outside TRP. A man doesn't need to know about the TRP to appreciate a RPW.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 10:28 PM
2

You have to realize that there ARE a good amount of folks who read and ascribe to RP notions who are married. Personally, i didn't need this new study to tell me that. Frankly that is one of my main quibbles with the Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 04:17 PM
1

commence operation thirst
/r/askTRP07/01/15 01:30 PM
1

Why do you want to know the response to that?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:57 PM
1

Easy, they feel that they can do better. Every one wants the highest status person they can pull right? Why would a woman want a man making minimal wage ,living with parents with no prospects when she feels that she can get a man making good money with his own place and nice car? The same thing with men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:16 PM
1

Scorn? I don't think so. If a woman doesn't want to get married or have kids, I dont see that being an issue. If the woman is bemoaning the lack of options or how she cant find a good man, the trolling will commence for sure. Where have you read folks calling unmarried,older women as flawed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 05:52 PM
1

There is a vocal, no marriage group in redpill. However, a lot of redpill truths still resonate with married people or LTRs. At the end, it is a risk analysis. Do you believe that you can find a woman to build a future with. I think the answer is yes. There is value in marriage for me. I think a lot of guys here have chosen BADLY, paid the price and come to the redpill and declare that ALL women not worth the effort. Never mind, their blue pill self married a chick with multiple kids that used t…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:54 PM
0

Oh, I didn't know that he professed faith. Curiouser
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 07:11 AM
6

We are assuming that she is HIS only plate. For all we know, she is just one of them.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:36 PM
-3

Wow, this got racist real fast.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 12:19 AM
1

You might want to wait til you get a response. Firstly, asking you to hang out isn't a shit test. You freely admit that you are a beta orbiter right now. She was making sure you were still in orbit. If you are truly a beta orbiter, she might not have anything invested in you enough to care. Secondly, you are sitting there , IMAGINING what is going thru in her head. WHY? Are you hoping to be validated by your current oneitis to come back and demand that you spend time with her? Improve yourself, …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 09:55 PM
-1

The problem with the guy was that he wasn't quick witted enuf to keep up with the girl. He could have clowned her on a million things. The best he could come up with was "stupid bitch"
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:01 PM
1

Anyone who frowns on your decision should be put in the "not potential husband" pile.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 09:54 PM
2

yeah, rpw giving advice for the ladies.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 09:45 PM
2

I have seen a link for the same shirt online. So either she makes it for other people or she saw an opportunity to make some cash.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 05:27 PM
28

Good luck getting the shirts. They have been sold out since this debacle.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 12:49 PM
1

Happily married for 10 yrs to a fantastic feminine woman You have to remember that there are sub cultures in RP. There are men that are married in good LTRs and or seek LTRs as well. The loudest ones are the "Don't ever get married, AWALT, spin plates for life" crowd. Don't take that is all men. Most men WILL want a great relationship and I cant see any other place that can give better advice than the ladies here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 05:58 AM
13

Why is she a Jezebel tho? Granted it is a one sided story but 10 yrs of drinking and anger issues is a big problem to deal with. Plus the guy isn't the provider at the moment. It is possible that the motorcycle wreck also reduced his earning potential but either way, there is nothing redpill about a man who can't control himself.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:05 AM
62

According to the post, the husband had close to 10 yrs of drinking and anger issues. Stupid behavior on his part. It was the wrecking of his motorcycle that gave him a wake up call. The wife had already checked out. As for the house, the man cant pay all the bills, the wife can. They are living together til he can get his shit together. So to recap, hubby has anger issues and drinks for 10 yrs, makes less than wifey. isn't strong enough to control his temper, has a motorcycle accident wake up ca…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 02:28 AM
1

So he secretly kept sleeping with a certified crazy woman? He is a 6ft + marine. I am pretty sure he can get other less crazy companions.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 02:01 PM
1

I think If she is pregnant then you need to thread carefully. I think the text back and forth was too much. A baby peeing on the carpet will happen with any kid in potty training. You could have waved that off pretty easily. Just because she criticized your technique doesn't mean you leave her with all those kids. I feel like there needed to be a better circumstance to make it clear to her that her words to you aren't respectful.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/14 01:16 PM
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