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| 9 | The transfer of wealth from men to women.Great input! I'm ~25 years younger and still been trying to define that myself, but felt the shadows and machinations of it. Particularly when going through (now) two divorces, but unlike you, in my 20's & 30's when my previous luck turned I was NOT as discerning as I should have been. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/25 04:51 PM |
| 50 | The transfer of wealth from men to women.The pay gap was always BS too every time I'd dig into the statistics.. It came down to hours worked, years in careers, and choices of specific professions and desired positions. Logically though, we all know that if you could ACTUALLY choose between two equally qualified people, but pay one LESS because they don't have a dick--we'd be fighting for the last few occupations they still hire men at because women generally don't want. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/25 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badI liked your take on this. The OP comes off as either too inexperienced or blackpilled to get to the honesty of the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is bad"with men who see you as a life support system for a vagina" lmfao, that's poetry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Male violence is punished. Female narcissism rewrites your pain as hers.I think you just accidentally helped me answer something I've been struggling with for a long time. In fact, the next tab over was a comment earlier on the divorce sub, here's a snippet: "It may be a buzzword too, but a big part of 'why' our experiences abound in similarities (beyond the specific extreme events stuff reached) is because we both married very narcissistic, entitled, ungrateful / self obsessed, vain and insecure, emotionally stunted women. They are only looking out for themselves a… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/25 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Male violence is punished. Female narcissism rewrites your pain as hers.This is really well said about something that is so obvious and so hard to describe to people. Start to finish this was great, but you had some super heavy lines too: "Your inner world becomes raw material for her victimhood narrative. You are never witnessed—only harvested." | /r/MensRights | 03/05/25 12:11 AM |
| 2 | (US) Is it really that easy for a woman to get a man thrown in jail over just words alone and no further investigation? For example, false allegations? (R*pe, domestic violence)This ^ the risk is real, like washing your hands with antibacterial soap earnestly does make your hands cleaner, there is risk of spreading germs if not... But if this is about OCD then the focus needs to be more on healthy coping and not 'washing your hands endlessly' due to the risk as if the compulsion could help the obsession. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | (US) Is it really that easy for a woman to get a man thrown in jail over just words alone and no further investigation? For example, false allegations? (R*pe, domestic violence)I guess I should play the lottery or stay out of thunderstorms then.. Happened to me once, had two women in LTR's TRY though. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | (US) Is it really that easy for a woman to get a man thrown in jail over just words alone and no further investigation? For example, false allegations? (R*pe, domestic violence)Yes, but it isn't certain. I WAS falsely arrested when a partner was the violent one and I kept walking away, not even blocking her. After three instances that night I separated myself and hours later the cops came. They never bothered getting a statement from me, only her. Straight to county jail for minimum 48 hours, but that was a Sunday, so was lucky to get bonded out the next week. Eventually I was lucky enough to get acquitted. Next time I started a family with a woman I raised her daughte… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 06:41 PM |
| 35 | Old man finds out his children aren’t his after 51 yearsIt'd make you feel like you're old and at the end of life and you just wasted it all, lied to by someone swore they loved you so you take care them and they're kids. Soul-crushing indeed. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually.I don't believe that has anything to do with their own negative judgement on their actions ANY more than the men. The difference in what you mentioned is because the man knows his display of the behavior can and likely will gain consequences, often immediately and at the loss of his health and freedom. That's not 'why' guys DON'T hit women, most guys never would, but it is why the guys who do don't like to do it publically. There are consequences. The thing that makes some abusive women flaunt i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually.I think the delineation here should have been not that the abuser doesn't see themselves as one, but that the legal system and society/social justice frequently don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find healthy relationships boring?Why do we all describe that feeling like that? I remember being like 18 through to nearly middle aged and I describe that as when things are going weirdly well it causes me anxiety from the past because I'm waiting for the other 'shoe to drop'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic women"Because being similar is what we are attracted to as humans, where we feel understood and safe, where we think we know what others want and think. For friends, romantic partners and many more." Great comment all the way through. I am (erroneously) trying to apply these general ideas to my own arbitrary experience... as someone not neurotypical and only slowly figuring it all out in my mid 30's to early early 40s. That said, having been married and made my son with an undocumented immigrant with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | If all men became athletic and lean, hypergamy would not have the average woman's standards suddenly raise to re-exclude them.It isn't that complicated or cause and effect related to individual men and improving themselves when you are talking about ALL men moving up or down in appeal.. The average man is unattractive, because the average woman wants something better than 'average', and they specifically want a guy that other men want to be or would accept / respect and they specifically want the guy greater than an average amount of other women want to have. On some level it has as much to do with "what other women ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 01:50 AM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Great reply! I'm often most starkly reminded of the fact that there are no men's shelters or programs for domestic violence. I 'get it', but it also is shitty that victims who are men not only have the laws specifically gendered, but the first woman who opened resources for men was harassed by feminists until if I remember she eventually shut it down and killed herself. She WAS a very influential first or second wave feminist herself. I'd need to read the story again to even quote the summary wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 11:40 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.I disagree, it's related to that 'sometimes'.. but really is that some guys get to the point of trying to be emotional or reaching out during domestic violence, cheating, false arrest, or just a shitty relationship or even mental health problems--and there isn't any help or support. Everything is designed for one gender only in most those regards. Often reaching out or being vulnerable is a point men realize and feel they are alone. It can make you not feel human or like your value has any worth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 11:32 PM |
| 0 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Unfortunately, 'weakness' is a sin for a man to have, both to women and our society in whole. Being viewed as ever being emotional, hurt by anything, homeless, or especially killing yourself is seen as 'weakness'. Men that are viewed as that kind of 'weak' (not the right word, but) human, not providing enough to those around them and society, being a man who isn't stoic and focused mostly on everyone else over themselves.. They don't have much value to society or a lot of women on an emotional, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 11:26 PM |
| – | Instead of being desperate for a girlfriend, men should focus on bonding with friends.I feel you on this one. Honestly, while the 'label' may be a bit much, I personally think I still have some more codependent traits that pull on me when I've been in bad LTR's (like when they turn and I should have left, but didn't immediately). I've known for decades that you have to be happy and have a full life and not be lonely WHILE ALONE to really be the other half of a healthy relationship, but I've still never been able to truly practice finding happiness and contentment and not feeling … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.I really hope your maintenance guy recovers great and that speaks volumes about you that you knew what was going on and have been keeping him in your thoughts. I had an aneurysm and bicuspid valve needing fixing, there are a lot of OHS reasons, but I felt like it was a lot easier for me than most people in the SICU there. I was the youngest by a few decades and that seemed to be the biggest factor. It sounded like hell in there for so many, they couldn't take the pain. I have always had chronic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.Thank you! It really was a big deal. Luckily I'm young enough that my body really recovered quickly. By about 6 months I should have been mostly 'healed' like structurally and everything, but obviously it does change things permanently in some ways. The thing is, even where I am not is an improvement to how I felt and how my body worked before the surgery since I had among other things 'severe heart failure' the past decade. I really hope you're doing well too buddy! Chronic pain and any form of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.I definitely feel you on all that! Was born with some mutations some joint degenerative and some that made me moderately disabled younger and required open heart surgery this year. I'm very much glad for what I have and vastly understand how fast it is falling apart permanently, so fragile, and this new connection with mortality after being 'dead' (other than my brain) for 6+ hours this year and recovering in different ways since. When we don't know what we have until it's gone, and we've been l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.For sure! We NEVER understand the things we have until they are gone, and health and quality of life are about the hardest lessons there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.Unrelated, but man I just thought about how I generally operated when younger with my car... I use to be really careful letting my friends pile in MY car when we smoked weed and stuff as a teen--because some were shady selfish pricks and would often have whatever drugs on them. I always knew that as the driver I could be arrested for possession if we ever got pulled over and they tossed their shit in my car as passengers. I mean I wasn't weird about it, just had some friends of friends I'd rathe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 04:32 PM |
| 8 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.That's always scared me as a man. I have always had medical conditions that made it so I'm really not good at distance running (and since I don't practice, I'm not great at sprinting either). I've lived my whole live KNOWING I cannot run away from a fight... That has NOT meant I've had to fight a lot more though, it just means I've had to be sufficiently situationally aware and have had honestly almost exponentially more times I've talked my way OUT of a confrontation than times I've had to defe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 04:22 PM |
| 1 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man1-4 are definitely true regarding some women (or at least some women at phases of their life).. 5 is true for some men.. Neither are absolutes or the whole picture, but to think either or both together is would be earnest ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?It's helped me too, really depends on the therapist. I had two older guys that became like mentors to me and really changed my life and helped me during those times. I'm really glad you went and it helped! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?For SURE! That reason for my relationships was always one half the most real reason I regularly went the therapy. The other half of it was 'for me' in that it made me not feel as lonely as dealing with everything inside myself and not talking to anyone about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?Respectively, there are shitty and cool short guys and shitty and cool fat girls. Books and covers.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?Also as a man that also can be completely oblivious to some emotions... like you spend years not being overtly emotional and get to a point that you have to practice mindfulness just to know how you feel. Well that plays into it, but in failed relationships once the ship was going down I'd been ignoring my own feelings so long, focused on my family members, that it honestly really helped to just talk about things with a therapist. It made me take time to look inward in the way I'd been raised to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?How, though? I DO understand that some therapists suck or aren't right for everyone, but if they do a neutral to decent job and are professional and knowledgeable, how can it 'harm' unless they do bad or make a mistake? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?The thing is though, it's never a harmful suggestion. I don't think we are likely to lose anything except the time and money spent, which CAN be a huge deal for many, but generally it is either going to help or do nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?Big time yes! Super important on so many levels for young men / boys to improve themselves, their esteem, work towards a goal, see what they can accomplish, and OF COURSE if men are offering those programs they are likely really good guys that could be the perfect type of outside the home mentors who drastically can change a young man's internal and external trajectory in life. Martial arts in my teens were a pivotal part of my own identity in the way I learned so much about myself, grew confide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationshipsNot cruel at all. Picking better is always the first thing I can point at to blame myself at the end of relationships like those, but over time I get more into the why's of if they're more attracted to me, me to them, if I have a bad filter, or if I settle, etc... In any event it's me picking poorly and really letting relationships go from something rewarding to sometimes even toxic by the end before I realize it fully or I guess leave them when I should. It's mostly things I mentioned that hope… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationships^ THIS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationshipsMine have all been backwards then, but I can tell you why and simply: In general my partners have been way more emotionally labile and up and down, and when things aren't perfect, it's an emergency! We end up focusing on their issues, mine get swept away. Their feelings become the thing that matter more than mine... and they do, unfortunately, because even married it's like they've always got one foot out the door. If I have needs or feelings then the other foot goes out. When I had a need, even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationshipsDepends on the specific metric. I remember a Harvard study a couple years ago that when they first posted had sections comparing 'unreciprocated domestic violence' among genders and unless it was a different study also relationships. The majority of one sided DV (iirc nearly 75%) was indeed committed by women, men did less. Gender to gender being the victim of DV was nearly 50/50, BUT the rates of SERIOUS injuries were way worse with male aggressor and female victims as we'd assume. Lesbian coup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationshipsI'm a 190lb 6ft guy and when my pretty small exwife was putting hands on me and trying to hurt me-- the reason I never considered hitting her back or manhandling her was not because I'd get in trouble. It never crossed my mind in that regard. I just don't like to hurt people and especially didn't want to hurt someone I had a child with. The thought of police and future lies WAS why I didn't block her hitting me or hold her wrist or arms and just let her go off while I walked off three times that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 02:14 PM |
| 7 | Man is killed by police after struggling with female who broke into his homeI think that's a good skeptics type reply and appreciate your reasoning and comment. I don't believe they were factors in this, but almost the only reasonable explanation 'would' be if they believed the person on the left was the 15 year old daughter...but as you said (and for me it was the same) we couldn't tell the person on the left was a young female. Also the whole naked guy verse hoodie thing seems insurmountable a reasoning gap to get there. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/24 01:49 PM |
| 4 | UPDATE: Woman that threatened to shoot white males with a Glock "doubled down"I mean... we're all banned from a ton of subs just for posting on this sub, ever. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/24 06:14 PM |
| -1 | While Harris is better than Trump, she is no male advocate nor progressiveI definitely agree it shouldn't be that way, but since in reality it is, I'm okay with her working inside reality. I'm of the mind that to fix this system you have to work from inside the system. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/08/24 09:32 AM |
| 10 | While Harris is better than Trump, she is no male advocate nor progressiveAs far as electing VP's as presidents, I'm truthfully way more fond of electing her than Biden the first time. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/08/24 12:43 AM |
| 10 | While Harris is better than Trump, she is no male advocate nor progressiveI think both we and she would be remiss if any of us expected the FIRST woman president to abandon woman's issues via prioritizing mens rights... Not just because of how that sounds and what it means, but that is NOT winning politics. I think she'll do more good than Trump, even for us. I don't mind that she isn't running on every topic contrary to her success. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/08/24 12:26 AM |
| -1 | 45% of men aged 18-25 have never asked out a woman in person before. Men, why do you think this is?It really is different in person, even if it's the same woman you failed to match on an app. That said I agree with others that mentioned not every unaccompanied woman is single or is looking for a LTR or hookup. So it depends on the guy's personality most.. Do they CARE that they might be approaching a boundary of a married woman, someone in a LTR, or someone who explicitly doesn't want a relationship? I can only speak for myself, sometimes the answer is yes (to inquire if single / flirt / ask … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Do women lose more from divorces than men?I've been skimming so many break up and divorce or dating over 30 subs, and love all three, don't get me wrong, but I'm trying to do everything I can to give almost all my equity to my spouse to divorce her and just help her and and my stepdaughter... but I'm know that even taking nothing and walking away if I drive by this house in 18 months it will be empty unless the eviction hasn't taken place yet... based on the past and 'her' money management skills. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Do women lose more from divorces than men?Goddamn that IS the difference between this with a couple women I've been with... | /r/MensRights | 15/08/24 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Do women lose more from divorces than men?Damn... I'm mostly commenting because I loved this reply and want to find it again, holy shit! | /r/MensRights | 15/08/24 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Responses to married men are more happier.That definitely could skew this! I think they should do a larger poll and just of people who've never been married as 'single'? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/08/24 12:40 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: How is it possible for normal women to experience constant catcalling/harassment in their childhood?I think it's almost as simple as how people generally judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intentions. Makes it completely subjective to any rationalization and disingenuous in honest debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 03:34 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: How is it possible for normal women to experience constant catcalling/harassment in their childhood?They aren't baffled. They just think leering isn't bad, that they aren't leering--just looking. etc... I think the disconnect is that catcalling isn't as constant as the weird comments on bodies or trying to check a woman's body out 'without them noticing'.. they / we rationalize THOSE types of things.. 'Like I have to put my eyes somewhere?!' 'She didn't see me' 'was only looking' 'was just giving her an innocent compliment' etc.. It's a rationalization of what is more common and a separation b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 03:16 PM |
| 3 | This is not 'advocacy', it is bigotry.What? You think that Wade Wilson is a 'bad boy' that women like now?! Dude, we're the ones in love with Deadpool, hell I'd wager more straight men have man-crushes on Ryan Reynolds than women. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/24 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Men Only Seat (This will piss you off).I don't think the think-speak really works on the average person at all either way. I think it just silences them from the discussion or official debate (when it takes over upper education and the laws and law makers). But it still moves on that pendulum because the average person sees what happens to our brothers and sisters, to both parents, to ourselves.. We live the world. It wasn't fair for women in the 20's and still wasn't really in many laws until much later after a couple waves of femin… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/24 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Men Only Seat (This will piss you off).Nah, they baked this stuff into their ideology. They even have official names for this type of thing that escapes me atm, but basically the way it works is this: There cannot be sexism against men, because it requires systemic oppression and men aren't systemically oppressed (like women, to them)! ThereFORE, they can make laws that systemically oppress men, and point to every instance proclaiming that it is not oppression because men are not systemically oppressed (though now we are in some spec… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/24 06:44 PM |
| 7 | Men Only Seat (This will piss you off).The DV laws felt systemic against men too, I mean they OG were the Violence against Women and Children Act if I recall and weren't they based on the Duluth Model? | /r/MensRights | 23/05/24 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Selfie saved innocent man from 99-year prison sentenceI'm no expert on it, but second hand from who first told me about it it sounded like they said it applies to judges, prosecutors, and the government itself. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/24 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Selfie saved innocent man from 99-year prison sentenceHis family spent hundreds of thousands on his defense and now even acquitted he no longer has the career options he wanted to pursue (just for being charged). It really sucked, I wish they would have at least compensated him closer to his legal fees, but this is why they shouldn't charge people for crimes without evidence. They definitely should have been harsher on the false accuser that manipulated evidence trashing her own house, cutting herself, and lying to police on official reports.. They… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Selfie saved innocent man from 99-year prison sentenceThey compensated him with $2k for his $340k loss and inability to join the military as was his plan. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 04:51 PM |
| 21 | Selfie saved innocent man from 99-year prison sentenceWorse than that.. They have what I recently learned was called "Absolute Immunity." It's what you think. It's the kind of immunity kings and sovereigns hold for the law of the land... Like, how could you use the laws that only exist under my power against me?!!! kind of immunity. "Absolute Immunity. Judges are not liable in civil actions for their judicial acts, even when done maliciously and corruptly." | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Woman, 39, who glassed a male pub drinker after he wrongly guessed she was 43 during light-hearted exchange is spared jail by female judge.I wonder where his dad is.. If she did this to a stranger I don't befront him not staying in her life or potentially being able to get a fair shake at custody court before. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/24 12:38 AM |
| 8 | Woman, 39, who glassed a male pub drinker after he wrongly guessed she was 43 during light-hearted exchange is spared jail by female judge.She looks 44.. I wonder if he'd have been in trouble for defending himself after. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/24 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Vivek Ramaswamy wants to "codify sexual responsibility for men into the law" and make them fully financially responsible for the child AND the motherThat and the 'opt-out' incels would fucking explode! I could understand if he suggested the man pays for 100% (instead of 50%) of the kid, but I can't even abstractly understand any reasoning that man should pay 100% of the woman for 21 years--- "because she carried your child for 9 months" WTF does any of that even mean?! Fine lady, pop him out after 9 months and I'll raise my own kid. If you want you can pay nothing. That fixed abortion too. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/24 03:52 PM |
| 15 | USA: OnlyFans model Courtney Clenney is seen hitting boyfriend Christian Obumseli in video taken weeks before she stabbed him to death in Miami apartment.I'm with you in your purpose... But I will suggest that guys DO call the police FIRST! I say this as someone who did not do so. I let a woman hit me and try numerous times her best to hurt me. I never even stopped her. I never blocked, she didn't really physically get me so much I had to / life or death. But one freaking day she tried her best three times to hurt me as much as she could like that. I didn't stop her, I walked off each time and locked myself in a room in my home. Last time I walke… | /r/MensRights | 16/01/24 09:09 AM |
| 15 | Man gets burned alive by Tinder date, internet asks what he did to deserve itThe actress from Roseanne did really well in that clip. Reserved faith in humanity. Ozzy's wife might legit be a psychopath, the others were just trying to be edgy talking heads it seemed like. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | The Marvels is proof of what happens when you alienate menOh, gotchya. I'm unsure how many of their movies I missed now, will have to google it. I haven't seen any new ones since decades ago yet. But Frozen Empire looks really cool to me! | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 02:01 AM |
| 10 | The Marvels is proof of what happens when you alienate menI disagree personally. I think all the characters have flaws and past trauma that gets a spotlight shined on them individually at different points. Even Starlight who is kind of the only woman I could remotely agree with has a large focus on her entire life prior to then being fucked up to her (and it's unlikely a NOT emotionally damaged Starlight would have fallen for someone as broken, himself). I mean, literally every other woman character I can think of is just as obviously deeply damaged an… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 02:00 AM |
| -4 | The Marvels is proof of what happens when you alienate menYou feel like Gen V should be lumped in there? Can I ask why? I recognize the main characters are mostly female or trans / both, but that example really didn't bother me or seem to be 'anti male' just had some cool female leads, which when done right I have no antagonism to. It was a little woke cultured, but not disgustingly so, and that show particularly compared to The Boys always felt aimed at a little more woke-focused demographic. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 12:53 AM |
| 2 | The Marvels is proof of what happens when you alienate menThey've really been in the shitter since that metaverse Antman where they introduce the next BIG multi-movie bad guy and have him beaten by some regular ants.. They can't as easily blame that movie's lack of success on misogyny, they've simply NOT been hitting their marks and doing bad most movie since. I mean, crap, I loved Thor 3 (I think it was), one of my favorite movies of any type. Yet they absolutely butchered that newer one (although that was largely due to anti-male BS too as well as ju… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 12:50 AM |
| 3 | The Marvels is proof of what happens when you alienate menI can think of some themes and scenes that I imagine you're referring to, but that one really didn't bother me at all. It was a great show (I haven't gotten around to S2 yet, but looking forward to it). I felt like they dealt with it all more mature and less anti-male and enjoyed both Loki's character developments and interactions. She kind of made Loki more relatable and fallible in a good way and helped push the story and stakes forward to me, if that makes sense. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 12:46 AM |
| 3 | The Marvels is proof of what happens when you alienate menI just saw a preview for it, I'd thought it looked like it'll be good, glad it is. I didn't even know it was out yet tho! | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 12:42 AM |
| 10 | The Marvels is proof of what happens when you alienate menI put it off for years, watched it once on Disney + just as a Marvel and longtime comic fan and also wanting to see what I missed. You did NOT miss anything, except for increasing your resentment of the franchise et al. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 12:40 AM |
| 5 | The Marvels is proof of what happens when you alienate menDAMN! He should hire someone more even keeled to manage his socials.. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 12:38 AM |
| 20 | The Marvels is proof of what happens when you alienate menI love the women and writing in "The Boys". Ironically the boys has way better written, strong and multifaceted women AND they even did an infinitely cooler 'GIRL POWER' scene that was amazing, pivotal, AND able to satirize the bullshit from Avengers. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Ever since false allegations I've been a prude.How are you doing a month later, bud? I'm around here or DM's if you want to talk man. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/23 02:21 AM |
| 1 | According to this feminist woman, men dont deserve any rights to have children.Nah, that thread's OP was really upset and venting.. So words with salt-- but they were saying he was a sperm donor and specifically they wished they'd just had one with an anonymous donor and regret making a child with them. Also was saying how they didn't need to change the kids name, but were going to completely cut the dad from his son's life and needed good male influences. Said they'd move away from dad to where she came from so her brother can be an active male in the son's life. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/23 05:18 PM |
| -7 | NYU prof suggests schools teach ‘mating dynamics’ to young men amid rise of ‘AI sex bots’idk dude. I've had a very different experience than whatever led you to that mindset. I'm 4 inches taller and a little whiter, spectrum and pretty severe adhd among other bs. At no point did I give up, to preserve my sanity-- but I also always had breadcrumbs to the right paths. Find something in yourself that you are confident and proud of and want to see more of. Find that part and focus on that. Because I have always been non neurotypical, and unabashedly myself, but I do that knowing that I'… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/23 05:16 AM |
| 3 | NYU prof suggests schools teach ‘mating dynamics’ to young men amid rise of ‘AI sex bots’Exactly | /r/MensRights | 07/10/23 05:09 AM |
| -12 | NYU prof suggests schools teach ‘mating dynamics’ to young men amid rise of ‘AI sex bots’...so get into athletics, dude | /r/MensRights | 07/10/23 01:39 AM |
| -7 | NYU prof suggests schools teach ‘mating dynamics’ to young men amid rise of ‘AI sex bots’Damn.. the incel / black pill club really took this sub over now, huh? | /r/MensRights | 07/10/23 01:38 AM |
| 6 | NYU prof suggests schools teach ‘mating dynamics’ to young men amid rise of ‘AI sex bots’A few different angles, but to this context there have been studies about online dating statistics you can look up. Like... a lot of different ones, most actually do fall around 20% men are getting good swipes, 80% bad swipes... But it's actually pretty much also a universal principle or statistic in a ton of fields you point it at, so I don't know how much it speaks to this. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/23 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Ever since false allegations I've been a prude.I don't think it's crazy to be aware of how indirect and conniving women can be and acting appropriately. Same with not fully trusting people for years. I mean all this stuff is a balance where a person can go too far or too little. It honestly sounds like all these years later you're only finally starting to be able to open up and trust again and let people in, but you're trying to do it aware of the things you learned when you were 17. Maybe it's okay we don't unlearn that, but (my stuff was 7… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 01:18 PM |
| 8 | Ever since false allegations I've been a prude.That's good. I was gonna say start with friends and opening up that way, eventually make your own 'family' type support system. Because it would be really hard even to get over how your family reacted and what was made undone on the lies of someone who wanted to hurt you. I went to county (but only a few days) for false DV once, by the person actually being violent of course... even after I was acquitted it still bothered me (and does lesser, these years later). Between dealing with her in the r… | /r/MensRights | 22/09/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Wife of barman brings ger 6 yo girl to the bar every night then goes ballistic if one of us men are nice to the child.I get it man. I've been commenting 'our' side of this too. Point is this is a diverse place of perspectives and personalities. Lot of guys come here during false allegations and arrest, abuse uninterrupted, loss of career or school, etc.. There are a lot of MGTOW / incel types here too, but I have a feeling a lot of guys head to the manosphere from traumatic or troubling events that might temporarily or farther influence their perspectives of women and male issues. I had to fight that myself a l… | /r/MensRights | 13/08/23 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Wife of barman brings ger 6 yo girl to the bar every night then goes ballistic if one of us men are nice to the child.It was really off putting to me too and I was thinking the same of the sub, but I think it's just this thread and the sub has always been a diverse group of experiences and perspectives. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Wife of barman brings ger 6 yo girl to the bar every night then goes ballistic if one of us men are nice to the child.Denying you a picture of her kid doesn't infer she was trying to be mean or believes you or all men are perverts. She can just NOT want a picture with her child and random bar goers that don't ask for permission. It seems like rationally something with no good purpose could lead to good reasons she could logically disallow lap photos with men-- since perverts of any gender do exist. See all men don't have to be perverts in order to not desire random men with no relationship to your child to have… | /r/MensRights | 13/08/23 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust?looks like he spends a lot of time in cafes Care to expound? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 07:50 AM |
| 10 | MRAs don't advocate killing women, why do feminists advocate killing men?Agreed. I will say that some (maybe most of the 'normal' people I've talked to) that say they are feminists also really are more like WRA's... So there are some in the group even though I feel like the real WRA's and MRA's are both more focused on the same equality than feminism or inceldom. While most MRA's are not incels, MGTOW is definitely part of the umbrella we share. So there are some in the group, but men going their own way would be a hard group to formally create or join when going you… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/23 04:04 PM |
| 2 | MRAs don't advocate killing women, why do feminists advocate killing men?Great link / vid! I don't know if I'd ever seen their videos and they have some good content. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | MRAs don't advocate killing women, why do feminists advocate killing men?I think that feminism is an inclusionary grouping and incels are an exclusionary one. They are grouped as that more from checking out of society than for forming a coherent group inside of it. I've heard of "feminists" using hate language or calling for killing men and seen stories of crazy women that were self proclaimed feminists abusing and even killing their children.... But I think that is more representative of crazy 'people' than the doctrine or a group of feminism. That said--there have … | /r/MensRights | 04/07/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men and women who say looks dont matter in the dating market are attractive themselvesI thought that was the "Q"? And I didn't derail anything or complain about anyone.. I asked a question you could have answered that I could have googled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: Men and women who say looks dont matter in the dating market are attractive themselvesWhat are the "I" and "A" for? And what could possibly be left unspoken for the "+" in this abbreviation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men and women who say looks dont matter in the dating market are attractive themselvesI think the 'just be yourself' is better advice than you think here, because relationships (even one night stands) aren't a Do X and Get Y equation. It can be useful to read redpill type stuff if you're focusing on improving yourself and focusing on your life and dreams and building yourself into who you want! But whether or not you're doing that, "being yourself" and just putting yourself out there when opportunities really present themselves is the way. Being yourself and viewing women as just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men and women who say looks dont matter in the dating market are attractive themselvesI got diagnosed as "extremely ADHD" in my 30's. My wife and I suspect it's possible I also could be on the spectrum and undiagnosed still... But my ADHD either way correlates with the personality and social examples discussed in the OP. I think that my personality and 'quirks' put people off and caused obstacles I didn't know I had growing up, but I think that I on some level never realized I was SO DIFFERENT and thought it was more reflective of my 'attractiveness'. From the way my life and rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:13 PM |
| 6 | We live in clown world 🤡I agree with this comment's take! Loved the wording too-- I think there's truth to that second sentence, but I see both his mom, his stepmom to lesser degree, and of course biggest influence 'me' in my son (he was a bit older when I remarried and his mom and I split custody). Though I've been amazed how much influence I have on my stepdaughter I met when a baby until now over the years. idk why I bring it up like that except that both genders really get a lot of their personality and the framewo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:49 PM |
| 15 | We live in clown world 🤡I agree, but any of his children's gender doesn't matter for the examples and relationships and model of how we treat ourselves and others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenI think it's healthy to be self centered as a man about our goals, health, and life... It'd be weird if one isn't! (It's different from selfish) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 09:23 PM |
| 1 | 14 year old boy r*ped by his teacher, these are the responses. Why is this so accepted?I think it's more the incel and 'niceguys' personally.... The types who's worldview is angry because "Valuable women" are supposed to be falling in their laps for being a 'good guy' (unlike all those guys who have actual relationships with people they see as people) | /r/MensRights | 03/05/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.There are both types of "I love you's" out there.... and both genders swear by them in unison discrecion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men?I feel like masculinity is like a heavy load that you have to carry at all times and if you slip or get weak for just a moment the entire load falls. And its nearly impossible to pick up all the pieces again. I do too (and agree with all your other thoughts in this thread), but I have to say that I also think things are at least FINALLY moving away from this.... Sloooowwwly, even in my lifetime so far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men?You laid out a GREAT answer! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:22 PM |
| 8 | I was assaulted by a woman. Guess who got in trouble?I have a really cool wife and I swear for more than she looks up to me to 'protect us' or make her feel safe---that woman protects me and makes me so much safer, just in 'these' situations, interactions with cops, and whatnot.. Hell I can relate to your story even more after my ex who was also violent and after one sided situations she called and lied to cops and had me arrested. I still do custody swaps with her and have to see her, my wife is my hero though and is always trying to be my witnes… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/23 04:42 PM |
| 9 | This feminist came to my school to teach us a little bit about feminism for the woman's day but she only said bullshitYou did GREAT with your English! (At least 103% better than my Spanglish!) | /r/MensRights | 11/03/23 06:13 PM |
| 9 | Woman admits lying about domestic violence sending innocent husband to 10 months in jail. Any thoughts?But they won't, can't, you choose the word. They literally DO NOT go after false accusers of rape or domestic violence... the two most common AND SERIOUS allegations--because we don't ever want to potentially be a system that obstructs the actual FEMALE victims from reporting. (Full disclosure, this actually happened to me, myself, when I was the only victim of DV, she then called the cops and lied and had me arrested... Hell, TODAY 7 years later I still had to go to the police station twice abo… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/23 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionaly"I work at a County Human Services building giving out Food and Med assistance. It is 90% women working there to take care of society and make the county function." How many of those that are able to pursue their noble endeavor rather than a paycheck are basically stay at home wives or moms? It'd be awful hard to donate all your time 40 hours a week if you had to personally work for food and shelter! Meanwhile if the hours themselves pay--- I'd thank the parts of society that donate most to char… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:57 PM |
| -1 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalySo you're saying that all these western countries are doing a better job of equality in the sense of what exactly? Can you define it please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalyTrue, but she's right that over time and as the past changes echo forward-- IF a higher percentage of women than in the past are pursuing careers welding, on oil rigs, roofing, plumbing, electricians.... (and they very sliiiightly are)-- WELL over time the amount women pay into taxes would lessen the gap of the higher amount they take in social welfare from taxes (that is higher than their contribution). The thing is that I don't think these two parallel lines will ever meet or get that close in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalyThis is the truth I see play out the most. It's more often 'us' on the outside just assuming and projecting a gender role universally when all people really have masculine and feminine sides in differing ways and scenarios (than outside biases on size or hair or voice). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalyor father less children... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalyI'm a moron... I used to occasionally do coke, but I've never thought of it as going into my lungs as much as my nose and throat! I thought this one through about as well as a few relationships in the past... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Three female guards at same prison jailed for affairs with inmatesHey right on! I used to read up more on these topics and I do agree that too is an important aspect for legal and social integration. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/23 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Three female guards at same prison jailed for affairs with inmatesI agree with everything you said the whole great conversation. I just want to say that I am not 100% sure that prisoners aren't being coerced into more sex from female than male guards. Many people are inclined towards other men as men, but even more, those who rape do so more about power than sex. Consensual sex...I'ma assume happens more with female guards (and to me it is stupid... we should honestly have men and women in both places). Female guards sometimes abuse female prisoners and male p… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/23 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Got rejected by a good Match because I believe in men's rights.I don't think that was a good match. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 12:24 PM |
| 5 | A principal at a local school committed suicide yesterday for a possible false domestic violence claim. Last fb post hereThank you so much for sharing. As someone who went through similar (but did NOT have career / community implications.. and lucky enough to have family who could and did support and help me). When I was going through that and the steps until I was lucky enough to get acquitted even in my scenario (and 'fighting' for my son) I had thoughts, but almost as quickly my heart would break for the countless, faceless legion of men who would go through the same thing without my luck and 'blessing' or supp… | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 05:45 PM |
| -25 | A principal at a local school committed suicide yesterday for a possible false domestic violence claim. Last fb post hereHonestly, I'm with you 100, but DV still exists in the sense that cases aren't ALWAYS false.. It would be really shitty to blast her as a false acussor and abuser and say he was the innocent victim--when he killed himself before going to court and being acquitted. (I say this as someone who has PTSD from DV followed by completely false charges and arrest...) | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Bold claim: This post *will* change your life (not click bait).Those are really amazing quotes! Great share man, never heard either and hope I never forget them! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/22 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Why Don't Men Fix Their Own Issues? Why do they Expect Women to do It?OP and your comment were both really insightful and have a lot of truth in there, but I yours is the missing link to me personally and in what I think I can most relate to learning/living. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/10/22 03:58 PM |
| 5 | 1 day and less than a yearJust saw the video on a different sub.. What made the vid and article suddenly pop up 4 years later? | /r/PussyPass | 05/10/22 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Florida 50/50 equal shared parenting bill still with Gov. DeSantis, Florida bar fights against it.Woah! Awesome resource and posts man, thanks | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | As long as you are 100% sure she is based in the US, you can file out an anonymous 4187 tip to the IRS in order to shutdown privileged whores and get paid 8% of the fee/bailIt is. It's only Premium Snapchat (and other services that use apps like cashapp or such to pay with third parties that don't report to the IRS like OnlyFans or Pornhub) | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/06/22 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Florida 50/50 equal shared parenting bill still with Gov. DeSantis, Florida bar fights against it.Even lawyers and judges in states without the law overwhelmingly usually work off the assumption the default in each case starts at 50/50.. Like in Alabama 6 years ago there was no law towards it, but both lawyers knew that the judge was almost assuredly only going to accept 50/50. Basically that neither my ex-wife's false accusations against me [that were acquitted] would give her the advantage, nor her domestic violence against ME--give me the advantage to get anything other than the standard … | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 05:54 PM |
| 19 | Male domestic violence survivors say they feel the Depp-Heard trial is a turning pointI never touched my exwife and walked off three times behind locked doors.. didn't even block anything or pull her arms off me, just stood there 'like a big man'. Absolutely 1-sided violence did NOT stop me from going to jail for felony DV and being barred from my home, kids, possessions, and 'name' until I could access a couple again after I was eventually acquitted. Even in the acquittal they never talked to me and listened to / believed her story that she had bruises 'from me', they assumed th… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/22 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Wife filled husband’s phone with child porn in attempt to get custody of children, Oklahoma police saydamn man... I mean, I'd kill for mine, but can't promise I'd let anyone kill me without a few fucking questions and a full understanding of some brilliant writer's prompt! | /r/MensRights | 13/05/22 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Women believe they understand men more than they really do, and that is a problemAbsolutely wrong there in my personal experience. Sometimes with the 'hardest' guys that are roughest on us, quickest to try to toughen us up, last to validate or value emotions... It's usually been THOSE guys in my life, but at the alone, fraternal, or more private brotherhood moments, places and times that I've really had those connections. Usually behind closed doors--seemingly for my benefit more than their own when taken under the wing of the most 'manly' men and mentors. Those are the time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Women believe they understand men more than they really do, and that is a problemThis rings by far truest as someone older than most here, exponentially more so on my mentors of more by-gone generations. This is exceptionally to the point and succinct: "Men just don't trust women to know these things." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 05:50 PM |
| 2 | FDS Users Are Mostly Low Social StatusSolved it! Let's just herd the Nice Guys into the Pick Meisha pen! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 06:42 PM |
| 5 | My ex-wife started it...I need to be more like you, frankly. So sorry you've gone through all that, but you aren't being an asshole by upholding the legal agreement she fucked around and found out with. Do you think that SHE would just forget and forgive if the judge decided you owed her 50 or 100k? I don't know her, but I don't think so! You are not an asshole. She broke laws and then tried to abuse the legal system to achieve her goals of an unjust end---and since the verdict didn't go her way she doesn't want to abi… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/22 01:57 PM |
| 8 | Evil genius at work | Woman falsely accuses man, he spends a month in jail despite having video footage of the sex proving it was consensual. Police adhered to #BelieveAllWomen.It's a crime that they choose not to prosecute out of fear of the narrative that 4 out of 5 women are assaulted and that 99% are never reported out of fear of being believed or ridiculed... It makes sense in ways, but needs to find a real balance and fair investigations rather than assuming that the legal / justice system cannot be just enough to act out it's legal duty. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.I think income, height, or any other difference we hear men complain about (and I hate how that sounds, but...idc) are usually that person's insecurities. We hear it a lot in a lot of spaces for men (complaining about women). I could tell by your brief mentioning stuff you were getting to be a vet of standing in no man's land. You and I have always agreed, I'm just trying to do a better job of understanding and practicing communication. Basically I didn't read his mini thread OP so much as sayin… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.Sure. So we drove that wedge by pointing out men are expected to pay for meals or not take paternal leave and in other and more or less words get to the point we began with that in general men are expected to (And contextually it was valued and looked down on if they cannot) provide or protect.. This thread was never about 'women bad'. I understood where you came from and I feel like I met you there, but you carried on the conversation instead this way. But if men and women are held to different… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 10:15 PM |
| 5 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.What is us vs them in pointing out that legitimately men are held to different social expectations? It's a bound default considering the opposite is true. If men are held to different social expectations sometimes and they most often work hardest to hold that expectation with their loved ones, and if their romantic loved ones are usually women-- I feel like it's a valid discussion and one most men just nod and sigh because we understand. But if we mention it, it how does that mean it's us v them… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Men’s anxiety, why it matters, and what is needed to limit its risk for male suicideMy dad had ulcers from stress when he was a still a child. I didn't realize I had anxiety until my 30's, he thinks I just never learned how to compartmentalize better...frankly we are both not wrong! | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 08:08 PM |
| 0 | To be a man is:For me it's the opposite. I expect to have everyone have my back and riding 99% of the time. It's the 1% of the time when I actually very much most need support that support can be assumed not present. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.You're right tho! He was being cynical! | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 06:57 PM |
| 8 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.Shit. You know a thing that really biases me on this? Trauma and criminal then family court. My ex-wife was abusive. I just took it walked off a few times (three, exactly) one night after my son had surgery I was waiting on before I was willing to divorce... But it was just like the toxic relationship except a toxic real world. I mean, men with guns came and took me from my home and cars and son because a woman beat me and I didn't even block it, then she lied about it. The prosecutor tried to o… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.I absolutely know 'those women exist' and agree that the threads can be cynical. We do get a little bit of 'nice guys' as well as MGTOW overflow. But generally I don't see that as much as overreliance on the tropes or stereotypes. I've kind of had three 'families' from myself and first wife, as well as next two LTR's moving in with children. I can't and am not trying to attest across cultures and ages, just saying that even in cohabitating and long term relationships it wasn't until I found a pa… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.Absolutely. Many many woman are the protectors and providers. WAY more are I'd say than possibly who would like to be alone in that. I think that's the crux of it. Many men are NOT protectors or providers. But I'd say that most men don't look to / value potential partners with the same gravity women (rightfully to me) do regarding the security they and the relationship bring. And the above person and my own is arbitrary to all kinds of unseen levers and directors. I'm mid 30's and my wife is mid… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 04:46 PM |
| 4 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.Honestly it depends on the woman, but I think that it may have to do more with the relationship usually. In the two I've had this issue it's only been where / when my partner lends too much to 'me' bringing them security or responsibility over their emotions. When they 'make you their world' or leverage you a little more than healthy as being in control or blame for how they feel--codependent traits, which are common--then this seems to occur regardless of age or hypotheticals. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 04:38 PM |
| 5 | The right to not be okay. The right to a hug. The right to be the little spoon.I don't think it's most. Out of like my last 5 relationships only 2 have been, but one is my wife. The fact that the other is my ex-wife speaks more to me than anyone else though.. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | To the Deadbeat Moms out thereGo figure my ex-wife would play the victim there too like the backwards DV allegations and charges.. Yea, she gives me all the holidays and then is the poor alienated 'victim' (even though before and after she confiscates whatever of my directed time she so desires for her rapidly changing schedule) Ahhhhh, life. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/22 11:54 PM |
| 4 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI used to feel the same way you do then I met people in arraigned marriages. The real reason they work is that the husband and wife both know their duties to one another and treat it as their primary job to make sure what their partner wants in them they get. Basically they dedicate themselves to serving the other person's primary needs in the marriage and they're grateful to have their primary needs served at the same time. Outside of that they understand they're their own people and the family… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:48 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileCompletely agree! I swear I'm a slow learner, took me a teenagehood into adulthood to learn all this personally! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:46 PM |
| 9 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileShit...by that point it's moved on to overt resentment and passive aggression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:45 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileReally well said and agree with everything that's coalesced over 30+ years fumbling through earth. You did really good figuring this out younger, and a tremendous job sharing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?!Also the size/shape of the clitoris matters so so so much too. I'd imagine one's personal sensitivity to stimulation there and how much it engorges are also differences even with that one part of the body that drastically affect a woman's ability to have piv climax and general quickness of orgasm. I think it's weird it took me as long as it did to really start to recognize how vastly different and huge a role that plays in piv orgasm as well. I hope this isn't too weird but I'd been thinking abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 05:17 PM |
| 0 | How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?!Did he have previous partners? Him thinking you could cum from penetration wasn't a very weird idea of him to have unless you already knew and made it clear you couldn't. It isn't just a porn myth, but definitely varies person to person. I've had the same weird idea at the beginning of most new relationships, every partner is infinitely different, obviously, but while some would cum more times, 'easier' or more reliably each time...I've only had one partner that almost never came from penetratio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm married but have mania (please no disrespect) I just want to test "frame"I like you a lot you dang weirdo! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm married but have mania (please no disrespect) I just want to test "frame"It's getting pretty meta. You've taken a very limiting view and definition of 'frame' that doesn't fulfill the purpose, but in a meta way you very much HAVE exhibited some of my advice and nearly pulled me on the spectrum with your shenanigans while being your weird ass self instead of worried about being someone else. I like it! Also, weird as it is I also know that you DID either do what you described to someone WHEN you say you JUST did so...or you very much have done that somewhat recently (… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/21 07:31 AM |
| 1 | I'm married but have mania (please no disrespect) I just want to test "frame""Disclaimer: If this thread makes no sense, it's because I'm trying to avoid being banned so I deleted anything that seemed like rambling or could be considered controversial!" Look don't delete this, you won't get banned, just take up space man! You seemed to have deleted any questions or icebreakers in the process, no offense. If you'd really like to test your frame and help me understand you or myself-- I will play devil's advocate where I see it conversational regardless whether it tests you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/21 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Are red pilled men just desperate for a way to get women to like them?Damn. You ARE good. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/21 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreYou're absolutely right! I used to know that and definitely misspoke. Meant to be saying how over the decades it went from more to less. Thank you for correcting me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 02:22 AM |
| 6 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreGreat response. I 100 percent agree. This may not be a large factor, but biologically we 'make' more women than men while have lower lifespans and further sociocultural factors fuel that more. I'm saying on top of your accurate response we'd lose much more than half the older population removing women. Society would beyond collapse aside from biological reasons without either. Collectively we massively rely on two genders that span spectrums and are different. It's not and never was or will be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Women still depend on men collectively, but they don't need to rely on any individual man anymoreGreat point in addition to an already great thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 01:07 PM |
| 4 | It's official AMBER HEARD lied!: did not Donate 7 million divorce settlement which she PROMISED and stated to have donated in court under oath. 3,5 million are unaccounted, her legal team refuses to & is actively fighting against having to provide donation evidenceIt was Pirates of the Caribbean and the Mythical Creatures Harry Potter movies. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/21 07:25 PM |
| 9 | Tx. Woman Who Tied Husband up in Bed and Stabbed Him 193 Times in 2003 Is Released from PrisonYou either need retard strength or psychopathy | /r/MensRights | 03/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Tx. Woman Who Tied Husband up in Bed and Stabbed Him 193 Times in 2003 Is Released from PrisonDamn. Good point | /r/MensRights | 03/01/21 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDI've lived and studied this topic.. your two comments reek of the truth I've personally seen in this. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Kissed a transgender woman accidentallyDude.. this comment, the others and YOU are amazing. That was really true and profound. I infinitely agree even though I couldn't say or parse it as clearly. I hope to be able to walk it out and be perceptive that, as best I can regardless. Great job man. You're changing lives, yours first. Mine too so I know it's true. Like all of us you'll never know how many others. Keep preaching. And amazing analogies to reach into that. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Kissed a transgender woman accidentallytradconism Damn. I didn't even know what that was before I googled it! You did a great job in this thread and on the issue. This is SO TRUE: "A lot of the younger guys see feminism and its parent, cultural marxism, as the author of most all their problems, and they see tradconism fighting cultural marxism. So they think "the enemy of my enemy is my friend"..."Tradconism and neo-marxism are fighting over the right to exploit you for gain. And they are both trying to dupe you into becoming involve… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 10:36 PM |
| 10 | The idea that women are "bigger victims" than men is a harmful, antiquated gender norm that promotes toxic ideas in societyPar meet course | /r/MensRights | 28/12/20 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Kissed a transgender woman accidentallyGod.. I've never even considered that, I feel duped! | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:42 PM |
| 3 | When the pussy pass backfiresYour original comment was kinda rude but glad you asked because the OP delivered great content to it | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/12/20 04:04 PM |
| 5 | When the pussy pass backfiresMens rights movement | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/12/20 04:03 PM |
| 4 | When the pussy pass backfiresJust about as productive for any unit they would be in special forces as the first female aircraft rated pilot all the branches lowered the bar to get in. (Hint, she died in training failing the same task a person not being pushed through for gender would have been removed from the program or held to a higher standard in training) When women join a special forces unit similarly with grossly less physical standards on top of the gender dynamic...good men can't do their job as well while carrying … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/12/20 04:01 PM |
| 12 | When the pussy pass backfiresTo me she's what feminism class to be | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/12/20 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Whats the best way for a "nice guy" on the redpill to leave both behind?This is brilliant! There are so many great, inciteful, sweet, and meaningful replies and drawn out conversations in this thread! Seriously amazing job man, I deeply agree with your input as well. I went through a similar process as you describe for him in my late 20's. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/20 01:59 PM |
| 2 | At what weight do get the most attention?You are right and just described my awesome SO too (relatively, she's closer to 5 foot but similar shape and experience) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Counter-post: the average young man can't have a relationship.It tells you that in a survey less women than men report that they themselves are actually desiring a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesNo. Then FDS goes down the list in the ball pen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesThat makes more sense if both inexperienced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesEven in the south you're right except people on a religious streak in their life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.Your husband is NOT the only partner there that is great at communicating! You did tremendously expressing a complicated subject simply and relatable in whole while adding new important elements. I agree with the connection, help navigating and acknowledging our own emotions, and appropriate vulnerability as a primer or bolster to the connection held. I bet you two are a great team! " But I admit that there are women who prefer men being repressive with their emotions. I might be wrong, but I th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.I'm so sorry! That is indeed the shittiest of weeks! I think that might have been too soon to push yourself so hard. Is it possible that the boss knew that empathetically if he went through the same, he'd need a little more time off or less responsibilities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 04:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.I truly believe and hope that he was honestly and earnestly respecting you as a person and valued employee. My boss absolutely would have done the same if he saw and heard I was really struggling with such things to try to help me rather than to punish me. I REALLY hope that if you ever updated us now or later that everything hopefully has turned out somehow to benefit you in the end or help your corporate culture or relationship with management. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.I'm really sorry about your hard week and the response of your boss. Hopefully he was actually being sexist in a way and simply recognizing how stressed you were, IE your feelings possibly mattered MORE to him and he may have been trying to support and better your future performance by giving you a break when he thought you needed it (since as a man, he likely wouldn't be crying publically at work unless he himself were in a REALLY bad way that is hard to function). Even if so, I'm sorry and tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 04:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.You're right about truly good friends. As a man, whether they are women or men I definitely can open up and express my emotions. But I'm also a little bit of an outlier as a man because I DO share my emotions as best as I can with my SO as well. Still I find myself experiencing the focus of the thread from time to time, specifically when expressing emotions during trying events / times with an SO. Occasionally I've had guy friends (logically) get tired of listening to or emotionally supporting m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 04:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.This has so much truth packed subtly into it that is easily missed out on. Specifically you are right about women's feelings driving them and the relationship a bit too much spontaneously for 'feelings' that change quick and extreme, treated as concrete and never changing. Part of it IS about women addressing their feelings too quickly, as if it's objective, and as though they are permanent... And whatever the cause, even if men emotionally expressive being punished is the impetus or result-- me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Only men cheat? Betrayed husband makes sure she won't be able to twist things in court.I think I and many forgot that lesson. But amazing sharing man! I want to hear more too lol | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/11/20 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Only men cheat? Betrayed husband makes sure she won't be able to twist things in court.It's relatable. I did the same after my son's brain surgery at 2 until she didn't just hit me unreciprocated but also she called and lied to cops to have me falsely arrested. I think a lot of women and even more men do this needing a clear external reason it isn't us giving up the family or relationship | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/11/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | caught inviting another guy over, crazy itch syndrome.Ah yus but that fun fact does make hellish sense, We share a Satan and they ALWAYS know when we've been talking about them again! (My family and close friends were long before me thinking she was dangerous too, but they all thought she was poisoning me at the time rather than future knifing me) | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/11/20 03:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.You are 100% right about most things like working longer or stuff with coworker. It's solely related to things that 'get to me' which would be more health, finances, son. But to me it isn't because of the topic, but just because 'it got to me.' The reason doesn't ever seem to be because she is insecure regarding my commitment or love to her either. She does a great job at getting better at this, probably better than me at things I try to work on. It's less about 'the context' and more about 'wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Fuck Amber Turd!From memory as to the evidences he had that she didn't-- He recorded audio of her solely violent with him and admitting she "just hit him", had cameras in the house during other such events, had texts, had many good witnesses who saw and heard things as well as years of aftermath like her taking a chunk out of his thumb one time. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/11/20 02:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.Man.. nailed it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 02:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.I've have a SO that loves me, cares about my emotions, acknowledges my emotional state and even tries to support me during those times... But frankly the end result still skews similar. It is near unanimously during those times that after the initial acknowledgement and support if I'm not just 'fixed' then a different angle of the current issue (how does my event/feelings affect her feelings) or some random aspect of the relationship comes up, she's insecure in the relationship and it always fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 02:25 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.Hell... I've ran that experiment myself with a pool of 1 man for 36 years and every time I DO test it, brings literally the same results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 02:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.You nailed it man. In my nearing 40 years on Earth Both the OP AND your comment in clarification is exactly what men and women I've interacted with (and systemically with law enforcement, criminal court, and family court). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 02:16 PM |
| 1 | How would you guys reply to a woman saying this about johnny depps case?🤔Your actual friends that are feminists are surely great people and I am truly glad they understood and supported you. That is extremely valuable, but people like them are NOT representative of "feminism" today because they don't reflect the feminists in power and lobbying those in power, nor the feminist doctrines systemically applied in the west. "Feminism" is explicitly how and why the laws, courts, and society are setup in a way men cannot be victims of abuse such as Depp's case was handled. … | /r/PussyPass | 18/11/20 07:45 PM |
| 2 | caught inviting another guy over, crazy itch syndrome.Same in Alabama surprisingly.. And just the lawyers and bond and court fees were more than $4,000, so you had a very wise friend! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/11/20 02:13 AM |
| 1 | caught inviting another guy over, crazy itch syndrome.Well... The way you described it is EXACTLY how one sided violence went down with me too in the US went down (I live in the south east, near Gulf of Mexico). It truly varies depending on the officer and area here, but there are too many like me. Even when I had recordings they didn't care, nor for pictures, let alone to even hear my testimony. I hope things change locally and globally before my son grows up. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/11/20 02:12 AM |
| 2 | How would you guys reply to a woman saying this about johnny depps case?🤔and the unreciprocated violence is at no more than 30% men perpetrators, no less than 70% female partners solely being the ones violent.... but again, you're right, no help from the LEGAL system (isn't a justice system) | /r/PussyPass | 18/11/20 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How would you guys reply to a woman saying this about johnny depps case?🤔Oh, you mean when the victims came forward with their testimony. Yea, no. The problem here is that our Duluth system means men canNOT BE VICTIMS to society or court. | /r/PussyPass | 18/11/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How would you guys reply to a woman saying this about johnny depps case?🤔Not the ones that MADE the laws against equality for you in that specific situation. | /r/PussyPass | 18/11/20 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Sign to push for Amber Heard to be fired. Why? Because men are targeted and women get let offAs someone who considers the way I am MRA to also be in truth what I'd say should be called a feminist... It's freaking nice to be in the SAME ilk THAT ACTUALLY CARE about all people and issues (regardless the fact I don't have the same perspective or experience as everyone... but I don't even have that with all men). I believe that MOST guys that care, whether feminist or MRA and most women that are 'real' feminists. I hate the vocal minorities and all the hate and division where we want love/r… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/20 07:22 PM |
| 2 | finally, a woman facing consequences for her actionsThank you for bringing all this up in the conversation. I went through similar and personally did NOT reciprocate violence... at all, But I was falsely arrested one of the times my ex wife was assaulting me (and I walked and locked myself away from her 3 times to get away). She then got a protection order / restraining order, had my kid taken away from me as well as my freedom until I was tried for it. I was eventually acquitted but "the orders against me" I guess would have been evidence in fam… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/11/20 03:29 PM |
| 1 | My sister is a toxic feminist who keeps belittling me for being a man. Can I get some advice on getting her to stop without ruining that relationship? All my life she was the only one who ever stood up for me.Good advice here, but he's likely (understandably) caught in the opposite https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/jem37t/my_sister_is_a_toxic_feminist_who_keeps/g9gfgrb?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How come no one talks about boys that have been trafficked?I bet it would be a larger problem in our country if illegal immigration / workers weren't though. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 2 | It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discriminationI agree and wish they would do better research on it. But it's hard to define 'who leaves who" when in a relationship I think, since everything is multifaceted. Like I left my ex-wife, but it was because she was always threatening to leave and being abusive / dangerous to try to hurt me legally, physically, etc.. It's hard not to say that "her actions" ended the marriage when technically mine did. Even in healthier breakups if one person is checking out emotionally or physically the other party … | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discriminationhttps://acsjournals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/cncr.24577 https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm | /r/MensRights | 19/10/20 04:15 PM |
| 35 | Sia says "he is clearly the victim here" after hearing tapes where Amber Heard admits to abusing Johnny Depp.That feels good for real. Never considered men romantically, but I love that consideration for men personally that might need to hear that and feel that | /r/MensRights | 17/10/20 12:49 AM |
| 3 | It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discriminationHonestly, my real life experience is more in-line with yours. I just try to keep my smaller perspective out of it and remember a good study would be broader than my own life and those I choose to let inside it. That said, I'm all for critical thinking and breaking down the studies and way the results are shown. Here's a few citations for you to do that more productively than pulling math from air or imagining how the study was run or variables missed. there's a ton of links after the study in 20… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/20 05:42 PM |
| -1 | Even her friend laughedTrue, but still have to let her believe it rather than "give" her something to fight. She's a nutbag with plenty of nuts left to be overall nutty. She needs to work her way through what's left until she's only half a nut (like the rest of us!). | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/10/20 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Rights that men don't have (but women have)Cold reality most don't get and most who do don't care about | /r/MensRights | 27/09/20 06:06 AM |
| 1 | If someone tells you we live in a patriarchy, show them this post.This really should be pinned to the sub! | /r/MensRights | 23/09/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Reason why men have it hard.I've... Never in my life heard of this and damn is it hard to google anything "for" men | /r/MensRights | 23/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Because when men show anger it’s fragile. But what about when women do? I know it’s less important than some of the other things on here but it bothered me for some reasonIt's hard to be / feel hurt, scared, broken, sad... It honestly isn't something I really *can* feel for myself, instead I feel anger and rage. That anger and rage isn't 'fragile' at all, but I and my emotions are more fragile than at least I can observe if for no other reason than I cannot feel the vulnerability that I often experience and instead experience it as anger. It comes from a lot of things that happened to me that were unfair and I scoop up like 'that's life' and move on never FEELING… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 2 | RANT: Holy crap, this is what's wrong with the world, won't reveal what sub this was from.great contribution, post, and sources! Thank you | /r/MensRights | 02/09/20 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Can you be proud of your gender as a man? Wouldn't praising and celebrating men be viewed as misogyny?Actually, the best research on this shows that it literally varies depending on her cycle. The truth is that to some level a woman's body more desires the dominant, aggressive, higher testosterone man during her most fertile windows...while the androgynous / feminine male for companionship between those windows as she then has greater statistic attraction to the smaller, weaker, less testosterone man. It's actually amazing, women literally can just smell a man's musk and pick out the more rugged… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/20 07:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm a woman who thinks men should have more rights to parenthoodThat and other more extreme feminist subs actually autoban users simply for ever participating here. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | My gf hit meYou really, really do. I think it's time to right now accept that and take action forward. Move on man. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 02:46 AM |
| 5 | It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discriminationStatistically, men are more likely to leave women with chronic or terminal illness.. women are more likely to be attracted to that and stay. Attracted to humanity, connection, vulnerability, you pick something. It isn't speaking to this, but I feel it leads relation. I say this well knowing in my arbitrary experience of nearing 40 years the OP was right, but also I believe in real relationships and know that you are right. I always seek that connection and vulnerability to be real and me. It doe… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/20 04:00 AM |
| 6 | It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discriminationThat's exactly how this all gets better for all | /r/MensRights | 29/06/20 03:55 AM |
| 17 | It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discriminationLmfao.. that's awesome, you didn't say a word and yet had me cajoling myself not to congratulate ya | /r/MensRights | 29/06/20 03:53 AM |
| 3 | I feel weird knowing my SO used to be redpilledThis was a really great reply that I 100% agree with and really liked to read in your words. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | You were saying' about that wage gapFeminism FTW! They fixed the wage gap issue completely in just 6 months! | /r/MensRights | 15/11/19 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Boys in America are significantly more disadvantaged than girlsYour feelings would be valid even if not the case, but that's actually the sad truth of the world we live in. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here been able to consciously change their default social interaction voice tone?This was the 1st good advice to guys on this I'd bet. Objectively I have a "good" full, deep, dynamic voice I and the women I've seen like... But I'm very emotive and aware of how i sound.. I started writing knowing you gave good advice, oblivious to anything other than just "this is my voice, it just is" (plenty areas i need to and do work on myself, just not this one) BUT Oh shit, I bet it helped me to do some unrelated voice journals (honestly....was trip journals, so it was fun too!) and a l… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Do you care about the intelligence of your partners?"Some" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 02:07 PM |
| 36 | October is Domestic Violence Awareness Monthabsolutely! MINE SCREAMED THAT like a psycho while (I cannot even guess how long) during the one sided violence before she called and lied to police to have me arrested. EXACTLY that- "DON'T YOU FUCKING TOUCH ME" whilst I had arms crossed or at side taking her shit.. Good call man, you're right | /r/MensRights | 08/10/19 08:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Truth? You’re not average.You are Damn right I'm not average.. Just never claimed to or had those issues. I completely agree from my feelings, life, and experience--- -average, not average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/19 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Sheesh..You're right-- it would also lead a higher percent of those who still falsely accuse to NOT rescind their claims. We've even had guys do decades in prison and have the fake victim finally tell the truth and the guys get out. Except NONE of that with a law like this. I was also falsely accused of DV by my exwife. She didn't tell the truth (that she was the only one violent), but she didn't continue her lie that I hit and pushed her when in front of the judge. So, while I would like to have seen… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Sheesh..By Scat, I think you may be right?! [But honestly, I want him to never change..NEVER!] | /r/MensRights | 04/10/19 02:56 PM |
| -1 | What are some really bad or worst advice the red pill gives?I REALLY don't have a side in this, but the thought struck me reading yall: if some men strategize and self improve until they can manipulate or succeed with women to "use them for" validation.... while I DO agree that isn't lasting for the man, I think he wanted something else too. BUT- the hook- we can all agree a vast number of women also (just like men, calling no one or both out) DO fuck or fuck with relationships for validation of many forms. It has no stigma against most or much of a curt… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/19 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Reddit Banning all opposing viewpoints - Prepare to Meet at TRP.REDYou sir, are a badass, but a bit of a gentleman | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 05:09 AM |
| 20 | Reddit Banning all opposing viewpoints - Prepare to Meet at TRP.REDDatingoverthirty Never heard of it... fuck, dating over thirty has been easy mode for me compared to anytime pre-marriage / divorce.... THIRTY. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers?Thank god... I thought it was me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers?Yup! You clearly said it better than me haha. Just that to me it's less that single fathers are getting the inverse of single mothers stigma- more that single mothers do lose out on a larger dating pool from male preferences and many real reasons... If we are only looking at something oversimplified to "SMV," it lowers a man's a little bit as a single dad and we lose some purchase power and potential buys. Meanwhile your OP while I disagree about your take on "single dads" I agree the effect t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers?Luckily yours hasn't been my friendliest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers?not exclusively, just of higher likelihood. Sorry I can be unclear at my best and just shot that out without re-reading earlier. Seems that as a single father I am self excluded from a subset of women that I am not interested in. But that is like... for these kinds of subs, higher SMV, younger, no children women. That's a smaller pool that I can kinda sometimes almost reach to. But losing most that potential dating pool is a very small overall hit to my potential partners. I'm more interested in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers?LMFAO, I feel you. I fell harder and longer before pulling the second net off with a seemingly VERY motivated single mother after finally getting divorce's off a few years earlier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why the disconnect between dating single mothers vs dating single fathers?The ONLY reason I as a man get that treatment or notice that trend with women I've dated since being a single father... is likely 'because' single mothers have a partially true and not true stereotype. If society equally delt custody when regards to gender of parent--- THIS would NOT be an issue. In OUR society, it IS a value of some merit-- to those who value it. Who values it? Single mothers. Who is the large group of women that most men for many reasons biological, psychological, societal, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Anxiety Looks Different in Men. Instead of coming across as nervousness or worry, anxiety in men often appears as anger, muscle aches or alcohol use—leading many men to go undiagnosedJokes on her- was worth it to get away from her! | /r/MensRights | 30/09/19 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Anxiety Looks Different in Men. Instead of coming across as nervousness or worry, anxiety in men often appears as anger, muscle aches or alcohol use—leading many men to go undiagnosedi don't think most people are as interested, up to date on the politics and nomenclature, or maybe even intelligent to truly get it though (and catch on). BUT-- maybe I'd be surprised, a lot of them did get 4 year degrees in gender studies and such. I don't think of myself as too dense and I am interested and even though I got it, I had to really think about it for a few moments to truly appreciate how great his post is while explaining it very well. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/19 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Trying to explain why feminism is toxic to older women is horrific and uselessYou were beyond 'good'. Great thread! Don't mind the trolls beneath our bridges! | /r/MensRights | 29/09/19 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Feminism and the Duluth Model.Honestly- THANK YOU! I've been there and even as a grown ass man, well- my dad served for 20 years too and he was the kind of leader you are in that way... having a more experienced man do exactly that for me-- Saved my ass, I was pretty apathetic and broken, especially regarding being helpless to protect my son... hell that night I 'walked off' three times and secluded myself in the other side of my house (BUT I SHOULD HAVE DONE EVERYTHING YOU SAID- and I should have walked a lot farther). We a… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/19 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Is No One Monogamous Anymore?I see what you did there... | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 03:41 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableHeck yea, good conversation buddy. It's funny because like I said in a different comment in this thread- honestly I agree with everything you just said, and I agree with what most people said. I really think most ALL this stuff has impetus into this discussion while we are all looking for a magical thread (myself being most guilty to inspire realizing this and that hey, I actually agree with every post I spent time on here to some extent.... even the ones I was or wanted to debate or conversate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Broke up with my first LTR, and a Thank YouGood man! I was pretty sure either you would, just hoped you would BEFORE you called haha. You're doing absolutely awesome through a time period that 'happens' to most people that age, you handled it the way that most honored you. The decision that you'd wisely guessed you'd most regret NOT making tomorrow. You handled it great. Now after or doing anything in life. So, even if it was a different girl you were wanting to talk to about this, I'd have suggested the same. You don't have to talk to m… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 09:23 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableEDIT haha, sorry- I'm tired but this is funny stupid of a comment I cut most of out. Wow. FIRST OF ALL- I accidentally thought you were replying to another comment by a user I replied to about the lack of confidence leading to proof it was accurate rather than low (because truthfully being insecure and not ever trying will set up to fail. If I had read your comment and where it was I'd only be able to agree. I DO think you're right and that men NEED to have or TO PRETEND TO HAVE a higher estimat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 07:45 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableOnly if all other variables "people are people" and all childhoods developmentally identically with every person always experiencing and perceiving and judging and expecting identical and there are no emotional or mental health issues. Everyone is neuronormative, weirdly the same. When we are all identical twin-clones that woke up this millisecond preprogrammed with the same experiences until then, then all the guys that underestimated their value or have any issues in any way impacting their cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 07:07 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableI feel so naked right now... Are, are they on to me? I thought I created the makeup lie! (honesty been true when I said it, but that is leveraged by how much I hate makeup though) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 06:43 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableIn fact men are the ones who overestimate their skills, intelligence, etc. HEY, that's not true, we are way more skilled and intelligent and better estimators than that! Like 110%! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 06:37 AM |
| 7 | Broke up with my first LTR, and a Thank YouQUESTIONS 1º - Will/Did I overreact? NO! Not at all, but damn if you didn't do 'the thing' for 'the thing' right at 'the time' I've fucked up in a lot of past LTR's by doubting myself and asking this question too many times. YOU DID NOT OVERREACT, you somehow acted messurately in such a foreign fashion even a lot of guys here don't understand- but you got the right answer to a question most (myself included) habitually FAIL. Of course that would lead you to doubt yourself, others are. Take that … | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Broke up with my first LTR, and a Thank YouRight!? I'm fucking impressed and strangely proud as a stranger but lurker / sub here. I feel like one of the three 62,000 men and a baby! | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Broke up with my first LTR, and a Thank YouYOU are RIGHT! You are the one younger guy I really feel won't ever make this mistake- but I implore you never use the scientific method and try it to find out | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Broke up with my first LTR, and a Thank YouYou are VERY correct ahead of your years here. Great post all around honestly, but you handled it perfect. Hell, I've divorced a shitshow that grew from those same same "little red flags" (same- emotional reasoning, 'trickable truth' shit as one of the first and foundational BS), and I STILL wouldn't have seen that as clearly and acted as efficiently as you did in the moment. But I've made the mistake so damn many times, I mean I get there- but fuck I'd only save myself so much and have more to … | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 05:37 AM |
| 5 | Made over a mill by age 34, now more depressed than everWhat if she wasn't being selfish, but the opposite? I mean, the advice of hers as you wrote it is pretty similar to 'our' best advice and what you seem to be going with based on your edit about travelling and working less, socializing and enjoying life more... I'm not trying to pick on you or be mean, just find it funny that you coulda saved a red pill question by listening to your mom say something that you didn't like before you liked us saying the same things. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Woman offers a threesome with my husband and I.Yea, I've dated this girl a couple times... Flying Sexist Pigs have the best advice here! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/19 06:44 PM |
| 10 | Saw this and although my Dad wasn’t the greatest in making sacrifices for us kids, I have witnessed greatness by other fathers. Here’s to you 🙌That's both hilarious and true | /r/MensRights | 03/09/19 05:13 PM |
| 2 | I was drugged in a bar. Proof that it happens to guys tooYour feelings on that are almost exactly mine / what changed mine about domestic violence and even if the guy "is the victim" (I didn't feel like one and have trouble accepting that... was like it was always my choice). But going through it, exactly what you've said and framed it, especially the "I'm lucky... but I can see and know so many men aren't as lucky as I was" in how it opens our eyes and garners us a bit more wisdom, compassion, empathy. I think in a way that's the most impactful a… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Because domestic violence is funny when it's against a man..Well said! Thanks for making the calls and posting | /r/MensRights | 21/08/19 06:25 PM |
| 2 | I was drugged in a bar. Proof that it happens to guys tooMan, you're awesome. I love that you came here to educate the masses, give one more real, personal account.... but it quickly turned into an opportunity many other men chimed in to share and unload their similar stories--- down to people telling them they didn't believe them or lacking care and only using it as a chance to highlight how awful it is for 'hypothetical women' rather than the guy that just when through it. AND- it's fucking awesome to see all your replies to those guys. You create… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How is this even consent and why do we still have to register for the draft?Yea I agree that in that way it is a MRA topic, but that's irrelevant to making it legal to commit suicide.. Even more, you made your arguments stake against the wrongfulness of our society to have agreed upon methods to help some people NOT kill themselves, to actually get them medical help mental health-wise, patched up in a hospital until they are healthy again. Our mental health may not be perfect, but if you are arguing to prevent male suicides, I'd say it makes little sense to simultaneous… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/19 06:52 PM |
| 3 | 98% of feminist "empowerment" is just divorce rape that makes them rich?You are right-- also I imagine it is a very very large sum that the royal family, nor country wish to be known-- especially about the tax to use 'her' land. I only know what I learned in a good youtube video about it by CGP Grey, but it's interesting how much of a better deal the people likely directly and indirectly get comparatively. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bhyYgnhhKFw But with public concensus disliking the royalty tax it's a hard argument and surely you are correct in a horrible id… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/19 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Can’t sleep. I’m stressed about some women in my industry possibly plotting to sabotage me with a false accusation. Please help.GREAT advice and support to OP, I really hope he heeds it! (and while one of the few things I didn't lose to a false accusation was my job-- I've been in the legal, criminal [fake DV.. as the victim), family court side of it....] man, I fucking feel for you. Glad you aren't and wish you were alone haha) | /r/MensRights | 06/08/19 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Can’t sleep. I’m stressed about some women in my industry possibly plotting to sabotage me with a false accusation. Please help.YES! That is good advice if he is this worried about it! (And specifically the advice applicable to him in his unnamed industry and his unnamed jurisdiction) | /r/MensRights | 06/08/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Man can’t get raped by women they said...Read the whole thing... and at the end I think the question and answer that is UNDENIABLY TRUE AND what would most offend her-- isn't 'Is this rape' but 'Is this love' "What I did may have been wrong," [she knows... doesn't matter as legally she'd never be guilty, only her guilt is her guilt] "*but it got me the result I needed.*" [nevermind- she doesn't even have the guilt of her guilt, that was the buildup to rationalize what she guessed others would judge] "And, it brought out the best in him… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/19 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Most Chad's I've met in real life are positive and uplifting people, opposed to the archetypal dark triadI fully agree with your reply. Beyond just agreeing, I believe that three step plan is the only way to move passed past trauma (up to and including most PTSD symptoms) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Most Chad's I've met in real life are positive and uplifting people, opposed to the archetypal dark triadWhat sucks is the years we spend even when we are and/or have been there... and still struggle to truly understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Most Chad's I've met in real life are positive and uplifting people, opposed to the archetypal dark triadI think people should be balanced rather than strive to either limited extreme. I truly cannot think of any detriment to that goal, but can to either polar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Most Chad's I've met in real life are positive and uplifting people, opposed to the archetypal dark triadActually I pretty concisely said what I meant. I'm not saying "you are" anything. What I am saying is if you're my age or if you've gone through life and experiences and NOT HAD TO LEARN what he was saying-- then I will say that you are blessed *or lucky if agnostic / atheistic! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Most Chad's I've met in real life are positive and uplifting people, opposed to the archetypal dark triadI fully agree with everything you said (minus the projection... I've no judgment there, from what is the OP, I've known either extreme that could be the speaker). Point is this- I think that while YOU ARE RIGHT and 'some people' have more experience 1st and 2nd hand with Cluster B traits... The very same overly empathetic / neurotic, and possibly introverted / codependent people that YOU are somewhat empathetically trying to help are the specific one's who most NEED TO ACCEPT AND BECOME more nar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Most Chad's I've met in real life are positive and uplifting people, opposed to the archetypal dark triadHe honestly never even suggested it. He just used reasoning and actual arguments rather than defensiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 06:10 AM |
| 0 | Most Chad's I've met in real life are positive and uplifting people, opposed to the archetypal dark triadDamn man... I've had some time experiencing the world you are speaking of-- and you've been describing and expressing it better than I could in a lot more words wasted. Go figure, /u/sadomasochrist (but honestly, you did a service to anyone who has ears to listen lmao) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 06:09 AM |
| 4 | This image is NOT against Facebook terms of service. it's from a group called "Mind of a deadly woman" and a lot of the comments on the image are inciting violence against the alleged boyfriendYou have a right without anything... without ANYTHING! | /r/MensRights | 30/07/19 03:35 AM |
| 6 | This image is NOT against Facebook terms of service. it's from a group called "Mind of a deadly woman" and a lot of the comments on the image are inciting violence against the alleged boyfriendCan confirm. Never even shoved my wife (while she shoved, grabbed, pulled, "indian burned" lol, and did all she could with my kid in her arms after she'd been gone a shit ton...... But while I was bleeding and bruised when I was the one to put an end to it by walking to the other side of the house (I believe this was the third time after she reinitiated) and locking myself in my office after "defiantly" MAKING SURE TO NEVER RAISE MY ARMS FROM MY SIDE- OR failing that (she was grabbing them) I'd … | /r/MensRights | 30/07/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Female Bartender had me banned from bar for "soliciting prostitution"That's playing her power game wrong. You THINK you've faced the power of her pussy.... Friend, if you have 1 or 2 testicles, and you get all controlled by immature emotions and your feels (like her) you're scewed by everything external, people don't care about 'our' feels... But they will notice you 'acting out' both believing and helping spread her lies becoming truth.. Or you get your ass beat by a bunch of guys, or you let her beat your ass and even if you don't raise a hand- you have men wit… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Divorcing a narcissistic wife with refusal to work syndromeAs someone who waited until I did NOT have that opportunity-- I fucking agree man. And I've read a few threads here now that I've found this sub today... I agree, it's exactly the shit I would have needed to hear and wasn't hearing in my life at the time. | /r/askMRP | 13/07/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing a narcissistic wife with refusal to work syndromeNot ONLY THAT, but all their advice is shit that would fuck him if he actually wants to start being a man AND ACTUALLY LEAVE HER now or in the future-- INFINITELY SO if she is actually narcissistic. He's been married a long time.... If he does all this, CONTROL HER FINANCIALLY (after years and years of marriage of her as "housewife"... sell all her shit against her will, cut off finances so she can't buy more (presumably--or why do the first), get manly (as best a beta bucks can.. which is an … | /r/askMRP | 13/07/19 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Wife is trying to counter my STFU.because: She keeps saying, before this incident, that I’m more mean to her, that I’m not as nice. She even went as far as to say “you’re trying really hard to be cool lately.” But every single time, I don’t acknowledge anything, I just continue as if it’s nothing. Basically I came on here to get advice on how to break the silent treatment without apologizing while maintaining STFU. (that was in order and unedited) Women are WIRED to do silent treatment to an array of shit that like a dog train… | /r/askMRP | 13/07/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing a narcissistic wife with refusal to work syndromeAbsolutely great advice. I can say that- because I went through similar and 'read' advice like this... and didn't take it to know I wish I had. It is so much more complicated with kids, that was my only goal or reason I couldn't do most or leave. OP needs to silently and quickly as FUCK and with a lawyer's advice- do everything you said, as you said "like yesterday." You and I know how fucking hellish his shit is about to get if he doesn't. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Divorcing a narcissistic wife with refusal to work syndromeGlad I never found out the real crazy after marriage. I don't know you-- but I'm really fucking glad you didn't too. It may not always be this way, but ESPECIALLY with the NPD / BPD I married.... it was literally the day we signed marriage license the well was dry and she went nuts that night. COMPLETE personality change- a mask I didn't see came off to show a person I'd never known. Still took my dumbass a few years and a son to galvanize my priorities, trick, or force me to finally 'be a man… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing a narcissistic wife with refusal to work syndromeI've met BPD as well... it's tragically humorous how much if and when any of us with Cluster B (narcissistic / borderline / histrionic) ex's could swap stories and basically have been dating the same damn women. I have to coparent with mine and she was NPD / BPD at best. You met BPD, I hope you never do again. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing a narcissistic wife with refusal to work syndromeShe sounds a lot like my also foreigner wife I also married early 20s (but divorced her when 32 after she got a liiiiiiiittle violent, then made a false accusation and had me arrested). Divorce her. Your resentment and the injuries and damages to EVERYTHING you are worried about, sanity, financially, social / slandering, emotionally, and even if any of you 'cares' about her.... Time for tough love, in a way on and for yourself and if you like, we both can rationalize how much these women are i… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Whiteknighted and threatened by frat boysDoesn't work every time.. but I had gotten cornered by some larger black guys in county jail that wanted something from me other than just a fight. I basically promised I would die before they get that.... and before I die, I will do all I can to specifically kill the shorter fucker that was talking and instigating while the bigger one flanked the other side of the corner I was backed into. I honestly have no idea how or why that worked. I think they could see in my eyes that while I just walk… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Whiteknighted and threatened by frat boysGreat plan.. but with an aortic aneurysm and asthma.... I have a feeling the whole deal would play out differently for me! I'd be with my 5 Samurai bros, commence running after our opponents are agitated.. and watch as my five boys fade into the distance, while all the aggressors meet up on me in a group... And now I'm sweaty and cannot breath and on one knee hahaha But honestly, I used to do (NOT COMPETITIVELY, a hobby and passion in the 1990's) a little MMA, but mostly TaeKwonDo with an inst… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Doggy bagged"Dirty diet" and non native speaker I bet? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/07/19 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Even tumblr is starting to get it - a user complains that all men are comfortable with their body and gets corrected by other user stating that the same percentage of men and women face insecurities about their bodyNot when he can rail out new replies with more punch and slaps in the face than the best copy pastas | /r/MensRights | 01/07/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Even tumblr is starting to get it - a user complains that all men are comfortable with their body and gets corrected by other user stating that the same percentage of men and women face insecurities about their bodyLove this... Damn, as a man and a dad (with what I try to model and teach) | /r/MensRights | 01/07/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | If there were this many men as there are women making fun of small tits it would be on the news, but since it's women making fun a man's small dick it's fine.Dear Stranger, I thank you for your courage and your dutiful report! I can say with surety that your sacrifice served massive good and service to many-- even more personally-- utilized and appreciated by myself. As such, I will integrate your report into my life-knowledge, I will never visit said subreddit (to which I didn't know existed prior, but would have Rule 34'd it as plausible). I now share your view and have taken heed your hard wrought knowledge to heart. I too, don't get the appea… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/19 05:27 PM |
| 12 | If there were this many men as there are women making fun of small tits it would be on the news, but since it's women making fun a man's small dick it's fine.Fucking beats every female penis I've sucked | /r/MensRights | 27/06/19 10:14 AM |
| 3 | a woman's age VS. the age of men who look best to herLMFAO--- you nailed it! She said she was 24 and he 19. Nice job, soothsayer! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 09:05 AM |
| 3 | a woman's age VS. the age of men who look best to herDamn.. You've really won me over in your presentation and opinions. That's exactly what it's like as a man (even down to my filter / message age, except I kept the ceiling a hair younger or closer to my age) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 08:53 AM |
| 0 | Online dating is damaging to relationships due to grass is greener effect on majority of women and a small portion of men.This is where you and I differ on this topic: " Grass is greener will plague most relationships but if a woman was once exposed to a high influx of men (among those men were a lot of highly attractive dudes ) " I read that and it JUMPS OUT at me that YOU are insecure, YOU are the one creating your own reality of YOUR "grass is greener" ideation---- BASED ON what is clearly what I said insecurity, a feeling that "Shit, all these HIGHLY ATTRACTIVE DUDES" signifying something you are intimidated to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Feminism and the Duluth Model." they were mostly or very satisfied with the services that they received. Their reasons for satisfaction included that the group leaders were supportive, they were able to hear about other women’s experiences with abuse and were supported by them, they received referrals for additional support/services and they were able to learn about DV. " Replace woman for man... and that's what I and a lot of guys explicitly "get" from this and other communities (as the OP laid out prior to my quote of cour… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/19 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Solid SMV. Primarily raised by a single mom. Noticed I have an inferiority complex.Shit... never heard that before but it's the perfect definition for a lot of what I've been working to recognize and clean house as best I can from late teens to early 30's. It's absolutely mind-boggling how fully we can sift through that and finally see 'it' while missing something else when it is about ourselves. Luckily-- women are fucking amazing and more than willing drug dogs to shove their nose in our crotch and show us where and what 'our' built-in drama Chick Crack is | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 05:30 AM |
| 12 | One of the biggest feminist instagram accounts posted this todayI agree, had the same thought man. It reads like someone who is very familiar with genders studies "vocabulary" honestly and truly saying the truth in as inoffensive and inclusive way they and their words can. (Or at least it seems like a very appreciated and innocent best attempt by 'them' to) | /r/MensRights | 18/06/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | The Double Standards Of Women & Men In MediaRIGHT?! I've been to mine, bet you have too to recognize and sympathize the guy. I have a feeling even choosing one of the 'Then you either:' options he made-- I have a feeling he's going to break free or go for anyone soon. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/19 05:32 PM |
| 2 | ‘No More Mr. Nice Guy’ talks about The Integrated Male and one of the qualities being ‘he has a strong sense of self.’ What does that mean?I love it, man! I haven't read the book, but ive been working on exactly this.. Use to be or seem more stoic, but life happened, I fought through some shit and confounding to me (can't feel or see myself as victim) got PTSD and some bad anxiety and other shit going on. But all that stuff helped.. Like having a serious heart thing that would kill me without surgery, 'soon' but unknown, being a father, my sons health stuff and insane surgical needs (and i had to be Odysseus with a few medical syst… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 08:30 PM |
| 7 | ‘No More Mr. Nice Guy’ talks about The Integrated Male and one of the qualities being ‘he has a strong sense of self.’ What does that mean?Damnit... That is really good! I didn't even realize I was 'missing' that really important angle in the meaning of "strong sense of self." Ironically, it is your addition that really is a super clear, simple, obvious (NOW) insight I've been grappling to see / learn / small dedicated efforts toward balancing. Great contribution! | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Shit testWay easier in real life (everyone is a little "autistic" via text only). Just saying that everyone screws it up missing cues or over thinking that "they too" something.. Just saying don't question your intuited social cues and yourself any more than you can help and you'll do better than most men. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Shit testDon't get stuck in your head... Don't doubt yourself so much like wondering is this or what about my X (autism...or anything). Try to stay in the moment and YES they meant AWKWARD, not autistic, and not you. If you obssesively ask yourself that question is the only way you miss the tell and fall into AWKWARD. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 01:09 AM |
| 2 | How did you kill your betaYeah whats crazy about my case is that I get called hot here an there by HB5s and normal plain janes but my standards are so damn inflated that I cant bear to sleep with them out of some weird sense of only wanting to fuck the best I can get lol My self esteem is also fucked. Im not ugly at all, but I lack resources to live the life I wish to live and have attached a lot of my esteem into my lack of money. From my experiences, if you're like me this isn't the case. "I'm not ugly AT ALL, but la… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart?I think in general, men really do appreciate how openly a woman’s appearance is discussed in everyday conversation...especially to women and through men to women. I'm not claiming cause or effect, but that from my perspective as men we make compliments of "landing" women to make a deposit in his partner's account with the same currency of FSM that was discussed in the top thread. (Or more often like you said, it will be one of his guy friends...but on some level it never feels to me like a thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 05:44 AM |
| 10 | As my awareness of TRP increases, paired with my physique bordering on ripped, it feels like life is entering easy mode. Is this all it takes to be in that top percent?I like that in clearly ANY thread or OP... there are still yours and some other really insightful comments. Thanks for taking the time- I really agree and wish I'd figured that out earlier myself. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 05:25 AM |
| 5 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.But everytime you tell yourself "AND this IS one of those unicorns..." you have a lotto chance of being correct when the opposite was near guaranteed... from their and my experience. While from time it is apparent it logically just becomes more true with age as well to stack greater odds. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Fiancé is bipolar and stabilizing on his medsTremendously strong, healthy, and helpful post and shared experience. Awesome, thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Midlife crisis at 28?Great response- feels simple and something 'we know' ....but I'll be damned if I didn't surprisingly need to read it framed in your words myself today. Thanks for taking the time- Very often missed, but very fundamental and actionable truth. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Conflicted"I want a man who values all of those things, but I want him to value the rest of me too. I want him to be as proud that I can change a flat tire as he is that my floors are clean enough to eat off of. I want him to love that I can crack almost every suspect who'll talk to me as much as he does that I can bake bread from scratch." I think that's great and you've doing well with perspective shifts and a lot of the TRP concepts (as I see)... But, I'd recommend this: Rather than in the above "I wan… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/19 08:18 PM |
| 2 | "Toxic Masculinity isn't the problem. Lack of Masculinity is."I have a ~5 year old that is my world.. I don't have a ton of experience (like you being at school), but his daycare, school, playgrounds.. kids often 'join' me as I play with my son, and those at his school all really like me and will hug or want to be held. I always worried about it and I 'felt' conscious about it when one of those school girls ran up to me in a store (when I didn't have my son), I didn't know her mom nor she I and she ran up and hugged me. Anyway, in that situation and all ot… | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | I think my boyfriend is being radicalizedAbsolutely! Great addition and idea, you're right. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/19 01:15 AM |
| 2 | I think my boyfriend is being radicalizedI disagree. I think she should be honest and if she felt safe with him, that is a very masculating comment and great counter weight / reality check to the absurd or exaggerated perspectives the young guy has (through the Mr Universe comment). Honestly they put forward really good advice IMO. (I agree with most your advice anx input as well! I just think its in addition to the parent comment and the one sentence was good) | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | I think my boyfriend is being radicalizedThis is great advice to most relationships and context! Awesome job | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Why you're told to stop focusing on women(Disney Method to solving problems)Won't address all, on phone. But regarding your "too many men regard" being better "for women" (I agree here, but not past) rather than... dealing with women not as a seperate skill.. Don't need a separate skill set or to ever practice or a formula or answers.. Other than just being, improving, focusing, ans investing in the man you are NOW. JUST improve yourself, be yourself, increase your value and decrease insecurities, and you'll accidentally be attractive and confident or at least MORE ABLE… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/18 09:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First date since I married some 6 years agoThat's the best advice, at least personally what I've REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR EVERY TIME I stated fucking a new girl. Knowing that as I do, fucking hope I can 'tell myself' that from now on. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/18 08:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First date since I married some 6 years agoAlthough I don't think I can pull the sit on my lap thing and kiss her at the same time since she's slightly taller than me lol Damn... you definitely could have if we didn't all now know you're a bit insecure about pulling her there and base it on your height! Seriously though---great post, great report, GREAT job getting back out there dating, great first date, great job improving yourself and great job listening to criticism and using it constructively man. You're fucking on target. I don't s… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/18 08:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First date since I married some 6 years agoI agree man. I may just be a dick akin to gramar nazi's... I really only have complaint with the idea this is a "failure", it's kind of foundationational to me to prefer to think/act and now teach a young son a rolling motto of 'doing our best now'--means 'success' as well as 'our best' REQUIRES failing. Again and again-- making mistake after mistake after mistake and getting back up and doing our best now. It's how we succeed as men, we keep getting up, keep learning, keep progressing, keep re-… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/18 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Why you're told to stop focusing on women(Disney Method to solving problems)I'm gonna give you some constructive criticism, it's free, just gonna set it down in the street and walk away. Two things. 1) "You meander a lot in your writing. And I think you've got some interesting ideas. But then you kinda fall flat and I'm disappointed." THAT ^ was not just VALID, but USEFUL constructive criticism from a man that read your post and one that is actually more a zeitgeist of this sub than you or I likely now or ever will be... I don't mod or have any part of my life dedicated… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Holding frame: 18 months down the lineWe do still argue but I am much more assertive while the routine threats of divorce over nothing and general hysteria were just laughed at and welcomed as comedy- until they evaporated. Either way, if it all goes tits, I won’t cry. In fact I will welcome the extra ‘me’ time once the dust settles. And I will be proud to have stood my ground and fought for MY definition. Best example I can give to the nippers. I could have been quoted that far... Frame helped, the divorce threats stopped, but in t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Woman kills husband by poisoning. Two years ago shoots him in the head with a cross bow, police rule it ‘accidental’.You are absolutely correct about the guy (or us as guys) having a bevy more actions and influence in those, the 'prey' vibes and explaining the girl's behavior. Sucks you're getting downvoted. You were correct, you explained it clearly, and gave the guy (and other readers) very useful and self actionable advice. I just disagree about using "shame" in the second example or a "jab" to the ego that is unfalsifiable... as those two things are EXACTLY what both those women WANT or 'speak' in. That's … | /r/MensRights | 05/09/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Testosterone Rex: The notion that the hormone testosterone gives men a natural advantage in risk taking is so pervasive it may come as a shock to learn it's backed by very little recent scientific evidence.Awesome! Thank you I actually never saw that but I'm subbed now. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/18 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Testosterone Rex: The notion that the hormone testosterone gives men a natural advantage in risk taking is so pervasive it may come as a shock to learn it's backed by very little recent scientific evidence.If you do it right once you and others can recycle the material over and over. At first I thought you were being a bit brash or something, but I agree after rereading it. Good point and focus (I love to save good posts and already had his, it's nice to have the good content like his post as informative and digestible as it is) Thanks for the edit and original post /u/BlackHole94 | /r/MensRights | 29/08/18 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Bouncer Tales 4: Bartender Beat-downYou can't dismiss the whole validity of the first half of your statement by putting a "but" after it and then describing the horrible circumstance that only arose due to the bad decisions. nah, actually I really think that you absolutely SHOULD do that for men if we want to help them help themselves when most needed (CLEARLY!). Except the part you're most upset on is that is the part I missed: "Yea, his fault for dating crazy." The "yea, his fault's" and the "but's" those are the most important … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Bouncer Tales 4: Bartender Beat-downShit... Damn man, I must still have more fire over that topic than I thought... I missed this: As I said, "his fault for dating crazy". I just rambled off a huge reply to your above comment before reading this. NOW HERE! Yea, man--I 100% agree with your reply and would retract any of my long ass ramble as objections against ya! Especially as someone who's been guilty of it and damn well sure it was MY fucking choice and fault, else I'd just keep "accidentally" ending up in those situations. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Bouncer Tales 4: Bartender Beat-downNah man. I actually agree with him. I will say THIS though as a preface. I'm no "fighter" at all or trying to say I am. From the ~3ish years I did a few 'martial arts' at ~12 then 15-18 yr old... and I'll say this- your teacher and class MATTER 100% to this and to 'help' young men that age (the styles didn't matter near as much, but again-- long time ago, that was around 2000).. So- being a "professional fighter" actually the whole fucking bias we have in the legal and court of society's judgeme… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | NASA Intern Female getting a better job after accidental profanity-laced tweet to space council fellow. Imagine, as a man if you did that mistake, will you too get a better job? Thats how society treat men vs women.Totally understandable man, could tell after your first reply you were speaking completely in earnest. I think on these kind of subs, there are some, SOME kind of extreme people, so we get some comments that get shoved down pretty quickly... ...but that's helped by most of us (or I imagine many are like me) feel kind of passionately about some of the egalitarian beliefs we hold and have gone or are going through something contextual (and likely life-altering or perspective changing) that brought… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | The Guardian gets confused and reports female perpetrated violence - Nicki Minaj ex-boyfriend Safaree Samuels accuses her of stabbing himBONUS) But OH MY SIDES- no- the "real reasons" that feminists lawmakers consider Mandatory arrest laws may hurt domestic violence victims- Their study found that as victim support for mandatory arrest increases, the odds of law enforcement notification of the abuse also increases. But accordingly, mandatory arrest may simply be reducing the probability of reporting (IPV)- “-women may not report abuse because of mandatory arrest policies they fear retaliation by the abuser may be worse because an… | /r/MensRights | 16/08/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | The Guardian gets confused and reports female perpetrated violence - Nicki Minaj ex-boyfriend Safaree Samuels accuses her of stabbing himI really love your heart in this comment thread. My take: Any man with a child, assets, reputation, career that you value then don't call the cops. It doesn't matter who calls the police, who you tell, what hotline, what government services, nor until later (after false arrest) most photographic, or A/V evidence. As the only man there, you know you are going to get fucked. Cuffed in front of your kids and your abuser as she smiles and swoons. No mark on her; you bleeding in torn clothes. 3 days … | /r/MensRights | 16/08/18 08:17 PM |
| 10 | I am a slave.Because- they aren't saying "us as the father" MUST pay for college! They say typically more like pay child support until the child is 18 years old or to pay child support (mine is under 500 a month for 1 kid and the largest discrepancy a comparison of an income could have to mine). In the case of "until college" you keep paying the 500$ or whatever is your child support (to the mother).... the kid doesn't get shit- including after being 18 and going to college. They 'get' to be a source of inco… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | The "Real" Red Pill: If we're not getting them pregnant, is sex just a fancy way to jerk off? Existential crisisDamn, great reply. Your reasoning and 'step back' was great. While not on the OP's topic for myself, your reply was something I really needed to read and honestly something I need to and do work to improve. I'm really bad at thinking like that, a verbose motherfucker that has to reign in the way by default I over-analyze inane shit and need to 'figure shit out'. In my 30's when I grew in some important ways I hope most men do much earlier (and TRP might be useful for guys that were younger than … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Bouncer talesLast thing I heard was him telling his drunk friend, "You fucking moron! That isn't the guy to be fucking with! He's four feet tall! How do you think he got this job! He would have killed you!" I had to try to keep a straight face while that was going on behind me. Ok, that's fucking hilarious. His friend might have been completely RIGHT about you that night too (especially with his friend's drunk ass). He had a good bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 04:45 PM |
| 8 | Why is society so slow to positively embrace men...You're awesome! The work you do and your voice here is truly needed and appreciated, you're absolutely right and even as one that most woman say is "a GREAT father" (I don't say that, just do my best).. and never having so far been suspected at the park or doing anything with my son while having done the full child-care gamut by myself. ESPECIALLY me and dads that want to be better fathers or more active in their children's lives would benefit SO MUCH from the ideals you champion and take flack … | /r/MensRights | 10/08/18 05:59 PM |
| 15 | The World Shouldn't Be Like Anything, It Is As It IsGreat post. You did a better job than I could have to highlight my blindspots over trial and error as a man in his 30's. The goal being to always or progressively uncover 'more and more' of them, so long as they exist (it's like bladerunner though, ENHANCE...) there's always more. Life kind of beats the philosophy you're speaking of: open your eyes, accept reality, deal in now, and what I've now come to find out is basically 'stoicism' in certain circumstances they either naturally learn some of… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Marine experiment finds women get injured more frequently, shoot less accurately than menIn many MOSs I agree, inventory control, finance, logistics, communications, etc... women can be as effective as men, but the specific MOS at question here are the various front-line combat MOSs. Sorry, no time to go in detail, this stood out- my point is this..... Understand the differences, strengths and weaknesses of men / women (statistically) best I can. I was never saying what you are arguing against. I'm saying that in ANY MOS they should be free to compete. Men learn in competitive envir… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/18 01:44 AM |
| 6 | Marine experiment finds women get injured more frequently, shoot less accurately than menHonestly- "gender" of a soldier or marine or officer really SHOULD be at most just a social construct and NOT any indicator of performance or capability to do the job they have. I've long lauded restriction of entry to branches or roles- but only because to "get women" they continuously seem to lower and set separate standards BASED on gender (and "gender" actually is NOT the best indicator of injury or some capability, "physical fitness" would be a better standard if compared more accurately bo… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/18 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Even when I file for financial aid.or who have had sexual-reassignment surgery are not required to register they are exempt because military doesn't want them right now. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/18 03:35 PM |
| 2 | The vast majority of your problems stem from thinking about your feelings.You are so damn right! I definitely 'get' that way we look back and see the things we never could until after 'finding the solution' (it seems SO OBVIOUS after). "Woe is me" never helped at all, one-itis, or talking to (negotiating) or getting into 'emotional reasoning' with am SO or woman (or even 'man') never has been productive- yet was what I tried for years in my ignorance. It seemed so clear to me! LMFAO. It wasn't until that one man I say became a mentor (I think he would too, I just feel… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | The vast majority of your problems stem from thinking about your feelings.Jesus dude! You really are a great therapist, especially on this stuff! You're 100% correct! I wish I could have learned it from an article and not from being "zeroed out" (AT LEAST 2 TIMES, arguably 3... but 18 year old me didn't have as much to lose when losing everything and my freedom then fighting back up.. so not quite 3). The one at 22-27 (was a hard climb) then again at ~32-33 were fucking killer.. Goddamn those are the times man. I expect that's why this last experience was as profound … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 07:37 PM |
| 3 | The vast majority of your problems stem from thinking about your feelings.God, man- you are on point for guys on the path or track I was! Yea, I really relate and understand every word of that, not because I know everything, but I walked (and am walking) that out. The issue for guys like me... I am a bit of an introvert, but that's a pointless indicator once adults ('any' social stuff NOT small, one-on-one, or one woman, or my son-- drains me..), but as a busy man I've only got a few nights a week that others' can work to fit (and I'm not against compromise- but it's … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Women just want to be GIRLS.I don't think most noticed the Patrice O'Neal reference there, perfect context for that clip though! Couldn't find the clip you referenced from (I think) a podcast? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yUYYX13uB4E | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 04:44 PM |
| 3 | The vast majority of your problems stem from thinking about your feelings.Thanks for your perspective. I actually agree, I spent at least a decade with 'bound' feelings.. not in touch at all with 'how' I felt and seemingly 'not allowing' or accepting or letting myself feel,'break' (by losing control of my emotions: crying, angry, etc..) or even USE my emotions as the empowerment / guiding force they can now be. I forget his phrase, but the book that helped me tremendously to get more in touch with myself, stronger, more whole and 'easier' to prioritize myself and my f… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of your problems stem from thinking about your feelings.Great points and additions to the thread! Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 03:35 PM |
| 5 | Oneitis: Don't let it take you over. Own it: inside and outHonestly dude... I'm 34 and a "functional adult," but to be frank, your OP was much better that what most of us can write at any age. You wrote it really well too, it was clear and concise to tell your story: challenge, responses, goals, lessons. And shit, I'm not a complete dumbass, but I would have never guessed your age (without you telling us- I would have assumed you are writing about this from your 20's after college or something) I'm positive I didn't even know what a scapula was at 17. Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Girls and PersonalityThe scary part isn't that, but two parts: 1) the one I married was actually able to hide all that shit and trick me completely (seemed really healthy/normal, we had a great relationship) until we moved in together after over two years! I wasn't 'that' stupid or even too 'blue pill' by the time I met her at ~24, but she was a Machiavellian genius playing a game all around me that I couldn't yet see was taking place. The irony was she was the first girl that I dated after trying to AVOID more dram… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Girls and Personality[Jeeze guys, sorry this got so long, vomited all over the keyboard so much it was two comments, guess it'd been a while since I talked about this] That's what caught me into a really fucked 5+ year relationship with a BPD exwife. My childhood wasn't too 'traumatic' and I would have answered like OP has... but until I was ~22 I always ended up bored with what were really good dating options, then I'd somehow find myself in relationships with really sick girls. I think that while I didn't act like… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Girls and PersonalityI hear ya, and it actually "is" extremely similar regarding the external symptoms we see (or how we need to run or deal with it)- but the user you commented to was referring to BPD not as bipolar, but Borderline Personality Disorder and NPD (narcissists). Both are Cluster B personality disorders and can range from extremely self-punishing / lashing inward, crazy self cutting girls... or any mix of histrionic and anti-social / psychotic traits (IE- BPD IS a diagnosis along the 'borderline' or a w… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Being a male is hard in the Air ForceThat's how it works at the Rubber Rose Ranch and that's damn well good enough for me! | /r/MensRights | 25/04/18 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Being a male is hard in the Air ForceShit.. was I NOT supposed to pull my cock and balls out to show the doorman?! | /r/MensRights | 25/04/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Woman, 37, convicted of killing her fiance after she sabotaged his kayak is leaving prison just SIX WEEKS after sentencingI'm all for grabbing pitchforks as the next townsfolk- but yea, I like to look first. Good catch? At least from what I saw this doesn't look super clear for a trial. I imagine that if the prosecution had a better case, man or woman, they would likely have done more time. (Albeit is possible a man statistically might do more). It is just so hard to do a direct one to one comparison in trials / criminals outcomes. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Man unable to pay $ 20,000 monthly child support, jailed for contempt of court commits suicide in his cell.Jesus.. I don't know how you and other men in that position makes it work. I pay under 500 a month for one child that I have half the time, but in my state they did me as around 100k a year and her at the state mandatory minimum default income.. At the time custody was my priority, but I feel really grateful my attorney made me fight for some things that helped financially. My state must handle it a lot better than a lot of them though. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/17 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Woman stabs boyfriend in face and receives a two year suspended sentence, due to being in a "high emotional state" at the timePersonally I wish I had hit her like she claimed I did, would have taught her not to be a bully who picks on those that can't defend themselves IE men. I nearly lost my job and have received numerous threats from various white knights about this incident since. The ironic thing is that I was attacked the previous year, pinned to the grown and kicked in the head repeatedly (all in front of cameras) and the case wasnt even taken to court as it "wasnt severe" yet when a girl falls the police go bey… | /r/MensRights | 05/12/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Feminist posts body positive message in support of men: Pleasantly SurprisedI agree, but most of them aren't supporting those organizations.. least those I'm talking about don't that I know of. I'm saying, the 'normal women' you talk to, who say they are feminists often share more of our ideals about men and women that we do. (I agree with you about the organizations though and that's why I mentioned them too) | /r/MensRights | 28/11/17 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Feminist posts body positive message in support of men: Pleasantly SurprisedIt may be that I only talk about it with a certain kind of woman, or where I'm from.. But most the women I've talked to that say they are 'feminists' have strictly meant they believe in equality, like the 'real kind' usually not really any different than I do. In relationships with some we had good communication and they still liked more traditional stuff in some ways, but typically really were stalwarts about being as 'feminist' (equality) for men as women. And at least the 2-3 I'm thinking of,… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/17 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Man unable to pay $ 20,000 monthly child support, jailed for contempt of court commits suicide in his cell.I absolutely agree! She doesn't work enough and never worked when together. But- so long as the government does give her 50% custody men or women in her situation could conceivably be a great parent and just need the little extra help. For,reference I made around 100k, and she was,calculated as lowest possible income, but due to the custody arrangement I pay less than 500 a month for one child. If his mom wasn't such a bad influence that would be worth it,to me for,a child to be able to have bot… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/17 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Man unable to pay $ 20,000 monthly child support, jailed for contempt of court commits suicide in his cell.Oh Jesus- yea I hadn't thought about that eventuality. That makes total sense, thank you for the reply. I wouldn't actually be shocked if my ex did something similar since the last night I lived with her she made a false domestic violence claim, but so far I haven't had to deal with that yet. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/17 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Man unable to pay $ 20,000 monthly child support, jailed for contempt of court commits suicide in his cell.Equal access / custody doesn't solve it. My son barely gets fed with his legally mandated 50% custody at his mom's, even with my child support. The disparity in wealth would mean that one home (in some instances) couldn't support the child during their custody... While you (and maybe I) might say fine, then if you can't afford to take care the child, you can't have that custody! But that is kind of the same problem we have now in reverse and I disagree with it. I honestly, as someone paying chil… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/17 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Man unable to pay $ 20,000 monthly child support, jailed for contempt of court commits suicide in his cell.You also may not know that the state gets a commission from the Feds for child support arrears that are collected thus giving the state a perverse incentive to ‘create’ arrears. How does that happen? I was just given a number (pretty small really considering she didn't work and I do okay.. but I have 50% custody).. Anyway, myself and most men just write a check to their ex-wife for that amount each month. There isn't any process I've heard of where we send money to the government to then send to… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Shocking moment screaming three-year-old boy is bound to a staircase by his cruel mother after her ex-husband missed £114 child support paymentI know it was a long time ago, but I'm sorry man. Hearing stories like yours really makes me appreciate my father and be so grateful I was able to get at least 50% custody of my son. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/17 05:36 PM |
| 1 | "Men by nature are some heartless creatures. They lack feelings like sympathy and pain for others."We are discouraged from talking about our feelings generally though.. And That's where the narrative came from. That's why it's important imo to have a couple guys that you can when you need to. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/17 07:06 PM |
| 1 | "Men by nature are some heartless creatures. They lack feelings like sympathy and pain for others."Right! That's been my experience as well. It's different with guys, or me, the women in my life have a ton of acquaintances they always see- but I have a couple guys that are just always there, months between, whenever I need them. Or visa versa. But in truth, except for those moments when shit has gone down we don't generally talk a lot about our emotions haHa. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | For the last six months, Instagram has been running this profile for shaming men on dating sitesThat sounds reasonable. I'm no guru on online dating... only very recently got into it and slowly at that. I just have been surprised at the slow but steady matches / phone numbers and how easily that has led to some dates with 'normal' women I've picked from them. To give this context- I AM a single dad and most of the women I've been interested in have been single moms only a couple years younger than me.. so- I'm only trying to roll a stone downhill here by your standards. I'm not trying to m… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | For the last six months, Instagram has been running this profile for shaming men on dating sitesSure, I wouldn't word it the same, but I like it if a person writes a bio like that for similar reasons. I like not needing to waste any time to find out I'm not interested and I skip those people. So if you see a profile like that, you swipe left? I just don't see the big deal or how online dating is cancer, or your other claims hold up. Edit- I reread my comment.. so all those points and you focused on my mentioning a profile listing their preferences? Anyway, to clarify I think it's fine to l… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/17 02:27 PM |
| 2 | For the last six months, Instagram has been running this profile for shaming men on dating sitesIt's all shallow, obese, entitled cunts ... And the women who will be interested in them are either rabid baby hungry, or so far past the wall Are things really that bad? I don't think such a description could really ever be accurate of any group of people. I haven't gotten too into online dating, but about a month ago started Tinder (after over a year after divorce).. and I'm not anything spectacular. Made a pretty lame, upfront bio.. I'm not drowning in dates, but I've definitely gotten plenty… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/17 01:49 AM |
| 9 | Feminists are cancerous to the societyClearly you should talk more | /r/MensRights | 13/09/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | 'Men can do anything they want to women in Honduras': Inside one of the most dangerous places on Earth to be a woman: As supporters of true gender equality, we condemn these injusticesI dont know you at all. But I really appreciated your informed response. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/17 04:22 AM |
| 5 | "Unlike male circumcision, female genital mutilation also inhibits sexual pleasure." Sorry, have you ever been a circumcised man?Good bot | /r/MensRights | 10/09/17 04:16 AM |
| 13 | "Unlike male circumcision, female genital mutilation also inhibits sexual pleasure." Sorry, have you ever been a circumcised man?I just can't even fathom how people fail to understand why removing a significant part of a sensory organ might be a terrible thing to do to another person. Or at least if it isn't terrible to mutilate boys along with girls.. how removing a females genital hood might be at least emotionally analogous in some way to removing a males foreskin... | /r/MensRights | 10/09/17 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Photographer Behind Photo of Child With Father is Being Taken to Court by Child ServicesI can't believe this one. I have a 3 year old son and I thought those were some of the most beautiful family photos I've ever seen. It really reminded me of times holding my sick son and it just was awesome to see dad's fathering right on mobile media. What a shame, I hope Child Services gets drowned in outrage. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/17 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Judges, juries and prosecutors are losing patience with people who make false allegations of domestic violence and sexual assault.Great idea, I have none better, but I doubt it would work.. the kind of people who do the crimes (like DV) and / or false accuse that or rape- they aren't the type to get remorseful for other's consequences. They only regret the consequences they are forced to face. I just can't picture anyone who would be in that position and knows they already are clear and did NOT get caught, coming forward later (even if it's only 1/4 sentence). I doubt nearly any of them even have the temerity to tell their… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/17 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Judges, juries and prosecutors are losing patience with people who make false allegations of domestic violence and sexual assault.Jesus you summed up my June '16 to Jan'17 way better than I could (except I kept my bullets in the mags except at the range). As for false accusations of domestic violence, well that's no big deal either! It only entails for example a man being kicked out of the house he worked countless hours paying for, losing contact with his children while they are alienated from him, still being forced to subsidize his ex while she hooks up with new baby daddy, falling into a pit of despair, and putting a b… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/17 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Magistrate Orders Mother To Let Estranged Father Feed Formula To Their Baby - breast-feeding is not a reason to prevent visitation, and that insisting on breast-feeding would be considered deliberate alienationYea man! Was agreeing with you when I thought you're even more right in how we and everyone got one 'for free' when we had a kid in the U.S. nowadays. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/17 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Magistrate Orders Mother To Let Estranged Father Feed Formula To Their Baby - breast-feeding is not a reason to prevent visitation, and that insisting on breast-feeding would be considered deliberate alienationWhat new mom hasn't gotten a breast pump since Obamacare dropped? This was never about the milk. Even after the judges order I'm sure she won't pump milk so the baby has the 'better' option. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/17 08:27 PM |
| 9 | Sometimes I am genuinely lost for wordsI don't get it? Didn't the show mostly just have men fighting (when losing) the battles and burning and dying? Is that what she is complaining about because she wants to see more women warriors and women getting gutted and innocent women burning to death on TV like men? I don't really want that, at all, but it would do well to help engender equality. I guess her idea isn't too bad then! | /r/MensRights | 29/08/17 08:47 PM |
| 1 | UK Universities - Still No Hurry To Get Men Into Classrooms As Teachers?I think that it's more of a, 'I like kids enough and teaching is something, maybe I'll be a teacher'- thing for women. It just is extremely more common. I think with the male teachers we are getting men that might statistically have a higher drive to be teachers. Whether feminism or MRA logic it would make sense. (Since feminists think we can easily have any job we want and female jobs are underpriced- what other motive even in their logic would men have to be teachers unless they REALLY want to… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/17 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Their brightest folks, this is their brightest.I think the real kernel of truth in 'their' (at least some) complaints with the prostitutes.... was that the game had prostitutes and strippers at all. The complaint is against a good 'simulation' game objectifying women while giving the male player control to do some pretty intimate or possibly gruesome things. I think they have basically the same silly argument as the anti-violence nut that sued over it once, but the news always gets sensational so whenever they'd discuss how you can pay women… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/17 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Joss Wheden accused of hypocrisy by ex-wife and using feminism as cover for 'multiple affairs'. Wheden blames 'patriarchy'....I didn't feel that way in Firefly.. It was pretty damn egalitarian. It wasn't about 'good/bad' so much as the emotional and physical 'gender roles' shifting. What I liked about the show is I hate that kind of shit when forced, but the character of Mal's second, the pilot's wife, she just 'was' emotionally and physically stronger than her husband. So one girl is a super-mechanic, one is an autistic genius and super weapon (but intrinsically broken).. but Mal is like an anti-hero Christ character … | /r/MensRights | 22/08/17 09:49 PM |
| 1 | My niece graduated top in her class and is going to Univ to take gender studies. Really what about STEMrefer to the crazy/hot graph and plug in 'her' numbers for your answer. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/17 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Australian Defence Force bans male recruits, slashes fitness tests to 4 pushups + 20 situpsHaha, that's what I was thinking: Sweet! With the new fitness requirements my asthmatic ass with a 4.8cm aneurysm can pass those constraints without exceeding doctors orders. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | This guy says it perfectlyEverybody laugh. Roll on snare drum. Curtains. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/17 04:17 PM |
| 6 | Men don't commit suicideWhen women try and kill themselves it's usually a cry for attention, like they didn't get the pair of shoes they wanted or something else inane. They also don't know what they are doing most of the time and choose methods that have lower "success" rates. I think there is a reason, likely many, but that ain't one. It isn't like men or women generally and unilaterally have a ton or zero unfair disasters, obstacles, or setbacks. We aren't killing ourselves because we know what we are doing and are … | /r/MensRights | 01/07/17 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Men don't commit suicideAlso things are diagnosed differently.. I suspect many men could come in with symptoms and get diagnosed PTSD that a woman would be diagnosed borderline (or another cluster B) personality disorder for. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/17 12:48 AM |
| 10 | Men don't commit suicideI wanted someone to give a fuck. I realized that I was somebody, and that I gave a fuck. That's great. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/17 12:47 AM |
| 3 | I feel brokenActually thats good advice. Like a gun, if its legal to record in your jurisdiction- better to have a recorder (video and or audio) going during all interactions and never need it.. Than have something go down when you needed it and not have it. It was legal where I am and I did during the divorce with dedicated devices. I still use my phone to record custody handoffs (audio only, in my pocket). I never needed to use it, but even if you never 'catch' your ex doing something and even if you never… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/17 09:43 PM |
| 6 | I feel brokenI married, made a baby with, and divorced crazy too! First off, you don't say where you are and we aren't your lawyer... but in the U.S. I do not believe it is possible ANYWHERE for her to have the authority to say you don't owe child support.. The child support I pay my exwife isn't by her authority, she may agree with me (and sign something) saying I pay her 5,000 now and we forget child support going forward-- well she doesn't have that legal authority and whether sent by her or the state, th… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/17 06:28 PM |
| 2 | GitHub... I don't know what to sayI sure hope all these crazy pronouns and imaginary distinctions don't get more 'normal'. That's nuts. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/17 10:48 PM |
| 3 | GitHub... I don't know what to sayjesus.. are those all real things?! What ARE they?! | /r/MensRights | 05/06/17 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Hux is a cleaning service that rates their cleaners. When a man and woman tie for "Top Performer" that month, the woman wins for being a woman. They even say so in their monthly result emails.There, there.. Don't listen to him could-oF-bot, he didn't mean to cuss you out. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/17 04:55 PM |
| 20 | Judge Judy Gets ItYou're saying you have your daughter exactly half the time? That's how I am with my son. It is simultaneously AWESOME! SO, SO SO AWESOME! To go from an unhealthy, toxic house and fucked marriage that I still 'had' my son and watched him more than 50% of the time before... but I was so limited in my relationship with him during the marriage-- To now it being just he and I and we can bond and let our guard down and relax. Yet I still find myself feeling like a wind-up toy that only is 'alive' when… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 03:03 PM |
| 1 | From my local Police Department's Twitter feedWelcome to the sub ;] | /r/MensRights | 11/05/17 08:56 PM |
| -11 | I'm at Disney World with my family & I saw the character Gaston from Beauty and the Beast. I watched for a few minutes as people (99% women) got their pictures taken with him, and let me tell you, if any man did to a female Disney character what those women did to Gaston, the men would be in jail.Well that isn't true.. that's a bit over-gendering it. I bet if "Gaston" met those women in an over-ly fun, casual, less rules type environment they wouldn't mind a guy being too touchy and flirty... ...so long as you look like Gaston I wouldn't mind if Megan Fox flirted aggressively or had her hands all over me- it would be a badge of honor, but if some of the things you see at Walmart did I would abhor it. Women are kind of the same about that, being 'people' too and all. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Female teacher 'warned about behaviour' multiple times with students, grooms male and starts a sexual relationship, boy becomes depressed and attempts suicide, woman continues... 0 uses of the words assault/rape in article. Very sad.That is so crazy | /r/MensRights | 11/05/17 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Woman mowed down cyclist after he criticised her for using phone at wheel - Equality means 3 years behind bars.This was exceptionally interesting and something I would never know. Thank you for sharing- | /r/MensRights | 11/05/17 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Reminder that males with sex toys are insaneIn my experience as a man, mid 30's.. refractory period is much shorter on masturbation than sex, but there's never been a time I wasn't down for sex twice in a row at least.. I guess I just wanted to say that I think your perspective of a man's normal refractory period may be a little exaggerated, but I also don't completely agree that women can flick the bean all day and still always be DTF.. It may be more about state of mind than physiologically, but in multiple relationships it has seemed w… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/17 03:59 PM |
| 5 | TIL: Taking precautions against unwanted pregnancy is "Paranoid and has a wiff of misogyny to it as well"I seriously doubt a sane woman would go through this shit for 9 months willingly just to "control" a man. No. But many women with fragile identities will purposefully trick their partner because they want 'to be' a mommy. I feel like my ex wanted to be a mom more than she wanted a child. I agree with you, the differentiator is 'asshole' more than gender. But some sane girls do have an extreme drive to be a mom and feel their 'clock' ticking away. A lot of sane people do crazy things everyday. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/17 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Girls strip 11 year old boy naked and post it on YouTube. Police call it prank until news gets involved. The boy's mother even mentions how big the outrage would be if genders were reversed, but says she doesn't want to ruin girls futures. This idea that boys deserve no modesty is horrible.I'm not diminishing your declothing, but the experience seems to originated from and have resulted in very different things from the main story. Yours seems more playful in your description, testing of boundaries, and curious.. I suspect if they were beating the shit out of you and you were screaming that the relative present may have helped (who know's I'm what if'ing). But this kid's bullying was about causing pain- emotional and physical, humiliation, and oppressing someone weaker than them. … | /r/MensRights | 10/05/17 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Girls strip 11 year old boy naked and post it on YouTube. Police call it prank until news gets involved. The boy's mother even mentions how big the outrage would be if genders were reversed, but says she doesn't want to ruin girls futures. This idea that boys deserve no modesty is horrible.im cheering for the little dude and I hope no PTSD, or depression, or anything bad comes from this. I agree... but honestly I don't know how one could go through something like that and not face at least a period of anxiety, PTSD, and/or depression.. This was terrible and I can't begin to imagine going through that as a teen, let alone as young as this poor young boy. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/17 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Professor says she felt raped by white male student's paper touting men's rightsGREAT comment! Thank you so much for taking the time to put it together. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/17 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Professor says she felt raped by white male student's paper touting men's rightsThat is fundamentally what she believes because she touts that as part of the rape culture she unabashedly believes in.. So much so that anyone who denies all men in college aren't rapists- stats or facts- and she's liable to psychotically view them as her rapist (if she actually was raped at all). | /r/MensRights | 28/04/17 05:42 PM |
| 3 | I still can't find it in me to forgive my parents.You have very black verse white thinking. That isn't how the world actually is. To be clear- I and likely the majority of those circumcised as newborns don't remember or carry with us any actual trauma. I've never missed my foreskin. I've had a healthy sex life, I've never had any kind of infections or anything.. It just was a non-issue in my own life and I have nothing to compare it to. I didn't circumcise my own son, because to me that should be his choice and I didn't even fix my dogs because… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 01:56 AM |
| 1 | I still can't find it in me to forgive my parents.To me it isn't about whether my son was never circumcised or absolutely so. When he was born I just knew I wanted to keep him exactly as he was. And whether he wants to be circumcised later as his own choice or not- I will support that. As for my decision in it, I thought about him growing up, he'd know his genitals look different from mine (I'm circumcised- but no strong personal feelings besides what I'm talking of here). I think some sons might feel a little weird when tiny and learning about… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/17 01:42 AM |
| 10 | "Things you wouldn't write in a sympathetic tone if the shoe were on the other foot" for $400 please AlexI like that the third lady's story was included- that one seems honestly like the best outlook she could have taken after the infidelity. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/17 10:16 PM |
| 2 | United drags man off airplaneAbsolutely. I think that we all have to hold ourselves accountable... there are a lot of rather shit-posts on here that try to shoe-horn in gender, or seem to spout less equality and more anger/resentment. It isn't the norm though or the majority of MRA's from who I have met. I appreciate you calling it out and was pleased to see all the top posts here with similar perspective. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/17 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Woman slashes man during a confrontation that had nothing to do with her, gets shot by the man and dies. Watch and listen to how the disgusting media portrays her to be the poor innocent "victim" while the man now has to be on the run after defending himself.On the other hand.. I'm glad that guy had a gun. There are many reasons one may not be able to buy a gun and I would bet the VAST minority are actually from violent felonies (not saying his was or wasn't). What I am saying is that I'd rather get caught alive with an illegal gun, then caught dead without it. I personally have a CCW, though rarely carry and am VERY VERY much a strong proponent of good gun laws and control BUT also freedom to those who aren't dangerous. Anyone should be held to a h… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/17 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Millionaire loses legal fight against his wife who cheated on him, walking away with half of his £150 million fortuneThe problem with the idea of paying a divorced woman 'what she would have made/sacrificed' (aside from impossible to calculate), rather than percentages of income is this: my ex wife didn't want to work and had no education or skills. I didn't care at the time and made plenty for our small family. She wasn't 'sacrificing' anything except working without a work visa (illegally).. or at best, whatever minimum wage or progress she could have made over 8 years. Ignore my specifics.. this is all stil… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/17 06:45 PM |
| 5 | So, boys(11-13) who are raped by a woman are either a "trembling little weak-kneed pansies" or "homosexuals", and are "hypersensitive pussies" for not being grateful. This is the kind of shaming male sexual abuse victims face all the timeThis. This is an absolutely incredible response. Wow, seriously well put and you took it a littler deeper and made it a little clearer than I would have ever thought on my own. Thank you for taking the time- (edit, also I really like your username! ha) | /r/MensRights | 09/04/17 04:58 PM |
| 15 | Apparently Homelessness is only a Problem if you are a Woman.Holy hell man. I wish you the absolute best. I hope that things can work out somehow. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/17 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Prime example of the sentencing disparity between men and women.She should also have gone to jail because no matter what it was an LSA.. but while LSA with property damage and no medical injury are the heaviest misdemeanor most places.... LSA with an injury or fatality is most definitely a felony. So even if she it was COMPLETELY not her fault to hit him, and if she had a COMPLETELY clean record: her leaving the scene of that was a felony, and she conspired to destroy the evidence (may not be a charge- but shows the judge from accident/LSA onward she had no … | /r/MensRights | 16/03/17 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Company boss, 39, who filmed himself using a sex toy on a woman is cleared of rape after 'three years of misery'It sounds like he might... gasps... DATE them! The monster! He gets to know them, have a good night, have a few drinks, ask them back to his place, and use some medicine for his ED. THE NERVE!!! | /r/MensRights | 14/02/17 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Am I rich? Or am I filthy rich?For myself, it was similar to your hypothetical-- except it was never the house / car / money / lifestyle I was worried about.. The last thread that kept me in a toxic / dangerous marriage an extra couple years was the nebulousness and often bias of family court regarding paternal custody. I was willing to leave my house or finances, but until things were her being increasingly, literally physically violent (the cherry was after her worst 'episode' calling and lying to make false accusations and… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/17 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Judge Judy agrees with us, for Men's Rights.Awesome man! I hope you have great outcome for you and especially your children today! I just went through my own a month ago. Was able to get 50/50 custody after offering a fair settlement and things have gone well for my son and I in the transition and 'new normal' (we separated, I left her, in June... got my house/dogs and officially son half the time a bit over two months ago). What a painful, drawn out, endurance race full of pitfalls, but no matter what, keep fighting for your kid(s) and a… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/17 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Judge Judy agrees with us, for Men's Rights.I couldn't find it-- but it looks like her opinions on this topic run deep and were mostly pruned during her 'real' time as judge, prior to the TV show. Really cool man! I never knew she was so insightful and passionate about this. http://dadsdivorce.com/articles/judge-judy-on-child-custody/ | /r/MensRights | 31/01/17 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Marvel was hijacked by cancerous propagandaLMAO! I can't keep up man! It's been near five years since my last super-catchup of my favorite titles... But yea man.... Shit has changed a lot! And stayed a bit the same I guess... they've poked fun at Trump for decades now. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/17 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Marvel was hijacked by cancerous propagandaYea but these were more pointed than those cherry picked for humor. Just makes me hope some of the dialogue here was at least flubbed. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/17 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Marvel was hijacked by cancerous propagandaFuck.. Been a few,years since I lost track. I caught up on deadpool about a year before the movie released, and I enjoyed the conglomarated civil war saga .. Haven't read any past then. That's disheartening man. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/17 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Marvel was hijacked by cancerous propagandaThat makes,me feel a little better, but a couple of the dialogues looked and felt forced or fake... Do you know of the content is true, albeit mixing producers marvel and dc? | /r/MensRights | 02/01/17 09:48 PM |
| 13 | Marvel was hijacked by cancerous propagandaThis is fake, isn't it? Please tell me some at least were!? | /r/MensRights | 02/01/17 05:53 PM |
| 3 | The freedom I found when I stopped calling myself a feminist | What a great article to see on Australia's biggest website for women, mamamia.com.auTo add to /u/EricAllonde great response.. I don't have the source, but have read specific ages that women when judged against men in many 'professional' and technical fields make MORE than their male counterparts in the United States. It's the women that choose to go into fields less profitable and work less hours / days that throw the stats off. I should find that source... I'll look for it and edit post. Not a great source, but I've seen UK and US studies parroting this same finding both place… | /r/MensRights | 07/12/16 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Mommy said no Christmas tree since she only gets to see me for "a few hours" for Christmas ...Your little man is awesome! You're nuts if you think you aren't doing something special, it's always something special when a kid is that compassionate, responsible, and giving. Those are awesome stories! | /r/MensRights | 04/12/16 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Mommy said no Christmas tree since she only gets to see me for "a few hours" for Christmas ...Well man, I know- how alone you can feel in this. I let myself feel alone and unsupported too. I'm earlier in my process, but it was my own version of Mr. Bones Wild Ride. The last 6 months I've been evicted from my home, son's life, pets, and possessions... and the catalyst was years of an abusive marriage that had finally gotten violent enough for bleeding and bruising- and even though I didn't even hold a hand up to stop her, being arrested and prosecuted for domestic violence (she called the… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/16 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Mommy said no Christmas tree since she only gets to see me for "a few hours" for Christmas ...Have a friend wear a wire and go make a purchase? Call DEFACS and Child Services, identify yourself, say your son has been telling you about (specific times/dates and drug dealing info a child shouldn't know to lie about)? IDK man, but I hope to hell that they get themselves in trouble and you get your son 100%, and SOON. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/16 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Mommy said no Christmas tree since she only gets to see me for "a few hours" for Christmas ..."Hey where's my money!!!" and he said "If you have a 5 I will split it with you". She of course teared up. But the kid is so sweet. Man that part made me tear up a little.. Your posts were already getting to me.. But his generosity is great and it also makes me wonder if your wife joking- if he didn't recognize the joke because his mom WOULD be like that and tantrum or manipulate to accomplish it. You seem to have one amazing little guy and I was happy to hear how much better you are doing these… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/16 05:52 PM |
| 2 | 50/50How does the two days a week and every other weekend work? That sounds a lot like what I got worked out and I'm pretty happy about it, it makes it completely 50/50 custody.. Like every week one parent gets them Monday 3pm to Wednesday 3pm. The other parent Wednesday 3pm to Friday 3pm. And alternating weekends... So were you able to get 50/50, because it sounded like that was what you were describing? | /r/MensRights | 04/12/16 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Redditor takes relationship advice of divorce after BDP wife cheats with neighbor. Wife kills both young children to prevent him from receiving custody.Is this her myspace? "The Homicidal Cookie" | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/16 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Redditor takes relationship advice of divorce after BDP wife cheats with neighbor. Wife kills both young children to prevent him from receiving custody.Nah man. pwBPD have a higher prevalence of violence and successful suicide (even murder) than most personality disorders. There are four different archetypes of BPD. Though they all may play the victim (always), isolate / turn people on you, be passive aggressive-- from countless examples of guys I've talked to and what I literally witnessed and experienced.. The minute you don't buy their bullshit, let them control your emotions, accept unacceptable behavior without boundaries and consequences … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/16 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Another victim of the feminist push in the military: Male soldier dies trying to protect a female soldier.I agree. He seems like a good man and he likely would have done the same for any soldier regardless gender. Not everything is a gender issue. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/16 02:10 AM |
| 2 | The BBC (Biased Broadcasting Corp) Hit A New Low In Institutional Misandry. "Do We Need Men?"Paging /u/5th_Law_of_Robotics Can we get a timeframe? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/16 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Got a new client. 11 years after the divorce and his ex's lawyer just filed a motion to triple his alimony.Is that true? I'm going through divorce in another state, does anyone have any sources on that? | /r/MensRights | 21/10/16 02:25 PM |
| 17 | California makes drunk consensual sex illegal and imposes mandatory sentencing for it. Not sex with someone unconscious or incapacitated. But now having sex with an intoxicated woman is illegal and will put you in prison for years. Drunk sex has NEVER been illegal in the US before this.I'm not entirely fluent in legal-speak. I assumed there would be comments pointing out the sensationalism in our thread title as yours. I appreciate your opinion and sourcing the actual text, but while they didn't change the actual rape offense, I thought it mandated a different sort of 'crime' anytime a man (regardless of inebriation) even had consensual sex with a woman (with a level of inebriation) and that while it wasn't entirely a 'rape' charge, it had mandatory probation. Since you are sa… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/16 01:33 PM |
| 7 | California makes drunk consensual sex illegal and imposes mandatory sentencing for it. Not sex with someone unconscious or incapacitated. But now having sex with an intoxicated woman is illegal and will put you in prison for years. Drunk sex has NEVER been illegal in the US before this.Thanks for that! I never really read up on his case all that much. I got tired of the sensationalism. I read a little bit (what the media allowed, where i caught it) of his explanation... and I read most of her emotive, poetic paper that tugged everyone's heartstrings. But thanks for those copying over that user's bullet points. It really makes me rethink it. True to trampson, I'd enjoy having sources, but I'm not the judge and the case was already tried. I appreciate reading the narrative that … | /r/MensRights | 03/10/16 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Saw this on my FB feed. WTF is this shit?Well man.. You might be mistaken, it's hard sometimes to know what someone intends. Maybe she does mean it. Your question was 'WTF is this shit? And it is very clearly satire, couldn't be moreso, plus watermarked for an edgy humorous website.. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/16 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Saw this on my FB feed. WTF is this shit?Your friend has a sense of humor? It is watermarked as from 9gag even... | /r/MensRights | 30/09/16 04:42 AM |
| 6 | A friend of mine was king hit by his ex and made a good post about the double standards. Its getting a lot of support on facebook and i thought some people on reddit might like to see itThank you for posting that! I've drolled out my story a few times, I'm a man. Was facing higher and higher levels of abuse, eventually more and more physical. I kept trying to get her to go to therapy, she would just rage harder or threaten divorce and taking my son more. The 'worst' she did wasn't that bad, but she followed me room to room holding my son and was doing as much damage as she could with one hand. I walked off three times, the last she threatened how she could call the cops and get… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/16 10:25 PM |
| 8 | A friend of mine was king hit by his ex and made a good post about the double standards. Its getting a lot of support on facebook and i thought some people on reddit might like to see itI don't even think it is that simple. If the man has bruises and is bleeding and the woman has NONE (was literally never touched) the man can absolutely still go to jail. Even in the deepest south U.S.. Just takes the perpetrator calling the police, or the male victim calling, and the woman perp saying 'he hit me' or 'I'm scared'. That exact thing literally happened to me months ago and I've been unable to return to my home, child, or dogs since (I was acquitted after a bit over a month, I just … | /r/MensRights | 28/09/16 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact".I think it would have to involve a strap-on to be an accurate comparison or decent web cam. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/16 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact".Maybe she does understand what having a penis is like more than us? She is a dick. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/16 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Brangelina’s ugly split is all too typical of how we divorce nowThat dynamic doesn't work like that.. You see, if a man is bad it proves all men are bad and stupid and poor parents. At best, this divorce and Jolie's behavior will NOT counteract the women are wonderful effect-- at best she can 'prove' that she, individually, is not wonderful. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Woman who admitted raping 13 year old boy after exploiting his ADHD spared jail after judge says justice must be "tempered with mercy"Would the trans go to a man's prison? I've never thought or researched that... He/she would suuuuure be popular there if so. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Why are modern women so aggressive? The dark side of equalityHonestly, I just wonder if they mean 'convicted' of.. Because it's clear that, for instance, men will always vastly outnumber 'child rape and sex crimes' when the 17 year old boys are arrested for being with their 16 year old girlfriends... but 35 year old teachers walk after continual intercourse with 15 year old boys. Or the recent one where the woman was drunk and supplied boos to a bunch of minor boys, 'raped' a bunch of boys, walks and actually sells merit to the idea 'those male youths may… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/16 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Why are modern women so aggressive? The dark side of equalityYour post here is really insightful and incredibly well explained. I think you are right. Plus you taught me a new word! "Milieu." | /r/MensRights | 19/09/16 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Spanish website takes down a documentary about domestic male abuse followed by the complaints of a group of people that referred to it as sexist.Haven't heard that described so targeted before, but yea man, I agree. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Number of wives and girlfriends convicted of assaulting partners reaches new highI wouldn't brush that off as no big deal, if I were you... I say that, because I wouldn't-- now. I did when it happened to me the first few times. The last one I just stood there and let her go nuts for a few minutes on me while holding my son. Walked off, locked a door between us.. She threatened me that she could call the police and get me in trouble (even though she was quite literally THE ONLY one being violent). Then she did, and she was right. Something I say, now, and I suspect I knew eve… | /r/MensRights | 18/09/16 11:16 PM |
| 9 | Spanish website takes down a documentary about domestic male abuse followed by the complaints of a group of people that referred to it as sexist.This one kind of stirs some emotions in me. My soon to be ex wife is from a central American country, I've never seen such counter-productive and contradicting expectations as those in her. Don't get me wrong, she had some real developmental and personality issues requiring professional help, an incredibly unsafe and damaging childhood and teenage years. BUT, for the first many years I really kept trying harder to 'be' who she seemed to lash out for me to and believed much of it was cultural and… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/16 05:04 PM |
| 3 | PSA ; Types and signs of emotional abuse.That is extremely common actually. Not diminishing it, just saying that people who literally are 'abusive' (physically or emotionally) almost ubiquitously believe or at least try to convince their victim and everyone else they 'they' are the 'real victim'. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | This toxic bullshit just showed up on my facebookOh. Okay, sorry to be skeptical. I take everything with a benefit against the doubt on the internet ;] | /r/MensRights | 09/09/16 06:12 AM |
| 16 | This toxic bullshit just showed up on my facebooknah man. Women like that cry the hardest and scream the loudest and call police the fastest I imagine. She'd go from 'badass gangsta bitch' to 'waaah Ima victim, save me Po Po' the milisecond he stopped letting her abuse him. Then next month, when he gets out of court for his charges that she never caught, they'd probably be back together and she'd not only know she can be violent and not get in trouble, but that she can wield the legal system and law enforcement against him on her whims as well… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/16 05:15 AM |
| -1 | This toxic bullshit just showed up on my facebookIt looks like it 'just' showed up on someone's facebook a year ago. But yea, sounds like a pretty ignorant perspective. 'Bad' women like that are the ones who get most hurt I think. The stats paint a narrative of one sided female to male violence occurring much more numerous-- from those 'gangsta thug bad bitches'.. but a man who literally cannot turn to any services and the police are as likely to arrest as the perpetrator, only has so many options in some scenarios (marriage / kids / etc.. can… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/16 05:12 AM |
| 2 | October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month - Don't Slap Him, Slap Reality If You Dare. "False Accusations Preventing Men From Reporting Domestic Abuse".Sure. But I have a feeling if I'd hidden from them, or yelled and been angry they were there, or been disengaged, or been crying and inconsolable... or literally being ANYTHING, that ANYTHING I did or 'was' would have been seen as having a controlling personality. You can be the 'victim' of DV and having a dick means that I'm controlling or dangerous or the one to arrest. edit- woops, I mistakenly read your username as a guy I usually see from another sub. deleted reference to that | /r/MensRights | 08/09/16 12:58 AM |
| 9 | October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month - Don't Slap Him, Slap Reality If You Dare. "False Accusations Preventing Men From Reporting Domestic Abuse".That's what my wife did-- but recording it won't help and they don't even have to scratch or hurt themselves. In my case, I was absolutely the only 'victim' of domestic violence, other than my poor son being in her arms while she kept following me, reinitiating, and giving me contusions and cuts as I stand still, arms down, deciding just what the fuck should I do.. Eventually I went from just standing there taking it, to walking off the 3rd time and locking a door between us. In the meantime she… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/16 08:52 PM |
| 1 | York U gender neutral toilet... except...That's definitely how I've come to feel about it or suspect, but I am summarily basing my opinion on the few speakers who I've seen online. I don't actually know any trans and even rather few openly L/G (I live in the southeast). I appreciate you giving me your take on it- | /r/MensRights | 05/09/16 06:48 PM |
| 1 | MRAs, what common MRA point/argument do you disagree with, and why?I think attack, negotiation, and bluff are all three rather covered under RedPill.. Evasion = MGTOW. And MRA a different form of attack and negotiation. But honestly, MGTOW and Redpill are more analogous. MRA is quite a different topic than a sexual strategy or relationship outlook. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/16 04:43 PM |
| 1 | York U gender neutral toilet... except...I really appreciated your posts on this topic as well as respected your opinion on them. I have a question though. I've found I really enjoy Blaire White's posts and semi-political / gender youtube posts. I was curious, between her and some other LGBT vocal people I've more noticed in recent years, I've seen more and more libertarian, right wing, 'conservative' (relating to MRA issues and gender theory opposing SJW's) than I would have ever imagined. Do you yourself appreciate or agree with Blai… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/16 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What I Learned In My Women’s Studies Classes "After taking those classes, I realize that not only was I deluded, but I was led into an absurd intellectual alcove where objective truth is subordinate to academic theories used as political propaganda."This was a really really great article. Also, I have to say this Steve Carter guy wrote one tremendous comment to it there, that I have to quote here: The staple of feminist insanity is the “pay gap” or “wage gap,” a construct which assumes (without merit) that financial resource control arises only and ever from employment. I am a child of the seventies. I grew up in the days of Women’s Lib and Helen Reddy’s “I am Woman” as our national anthem. All my life I have been force-fed the bromide that… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/16 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than MenI really don't think she's a feminist.. but I think you're right (and I give her credit for unlike many researchers- accepting the proofs in contradiction to her hypothesis). | /r/MensRights | 02/09/16 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Menno need to wonder.. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/16 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Feminist Clementine Ford's obsession in a nutshellidk man, I don't personally have any problem with either for myself. I just know I've talked to and read some guys that are insecure and they bring that insecurity into relationships. I imagine they feel 'less a man' and feel unconfident both aesthetically, when naked, and in their performance in the deed. I personally think they wouldn't have such obstacles (assuming it isn't one of those true diagnosed micro-penises that are very rare), I think the only real problem to their performance and re… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/16 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Feminist Clementine Ford's obsession in a nutshellI think it isn't for 'most' because 'most' have an average sized penis.. you know? I've seen some guys be very self-conscious of it, some hide themselves in the locker room, or lash out at a girl when post relationship she spreads a rumor about it in school or work.. IDK, as a grown man or even back as a teen it's never been something I'm self conscious of, I'm not 'big' but I'm average I guess. Most women really don't care as long as you don't have a micro-penis or anaconda. I suspect guys with… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/16 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Media starts to wake up to female on male abuse in relationships. Finally.Meh, give it up man, I'm a dad and I agree with you for the son that I love and the little guy is about the biggest part of my world. That dude arguing with you just needed to get spanked more ;} | /r/MensRights | 27/08/16 03:48 PM |
| 14 | Guy on r/depression is threatening to kill himself.Dude, fuck off with that bullshit AnotherUser256. Yea, he made some typos, so what man? Dude is laying out pills to kill himself, in a terrible state feeling the world has no compassion and your advice on a thread he could possibly see about his darkest hour is a dig at him for being a little distracted and not typing perfectly? Yea, that is much better than showing a little compassion (which was seemingly all her wanted). I'm not normally the agitated type, but that really pissed me off man. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/16 05:44 PM |
| 2 | My annoyance at the "single mothers pay gap"That would be mean! No silly, they clearly make sure the men are divorced and that in divorce the woman almost always gets to be the custodial parent and a single mom while also supporting higher child support and greater post spousal maintenance payments to balance things! | /r/MensRights | 23/08/16 08:31 PM |
| 9 | Man accused of sexual assault for making a punHer voice got calm as FUCK once she realized she was finally in front of real police at the very end... almost as if on some level she may have known her behavior during that whole shenanigan was inappropriate, huh? | /r/MensRights | 23/08/16 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Man accused of sexual assault for making a punOHHHHH SHIIIT I would have died if while she was screaming wolf then transitioning to WHATISYOURNAMEWHATISYOURNAME here if the security guard trying to stop someone from causing a pointless disturbance to the building said: What is MY name? Well my name is Hugh Mungus.. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/16 12:40 AM |
| 1 | "Male Privilege Checklist" - Documents distributed during one of Western Australia's most prestigious university's Orientation Day.And you'd add to the educational gap | /r/MensRights | 23/08/16 12:33 AM |
| 1 | "Male Privilege Checklist" - Documents distributed during one of Western Australia's most prestigious university's Orientation Day.This is an awesome post! | /r/MensRights | 23/08/16 12:30 AM |
| 14 | TIL: Males receive, on average, 63% longer sentences than females for the exact same crimeDoesn't work. No one gives a fuck. Men change things for women, but we don't and won't rescue other men. We expect those assholes to pull themselves up from their bootstraps and we pretend that saying didn't start out as a statement of absurdity and impossibility. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/16 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Man put on blast over 'nightclub assault' freed as judge rules woman started fightYou're right, every 2nd hand report of it is wafted with surprise and gender bashing shock at how proficient and efficient her violence was.. that she grabs his throat, throws him down, and punches him multiple times in a shocking display of strength and efficient use of violence... Unless I misread, the guy says he only hit her 1 time (but even if it was 3 times, it sounds required) and never hit her friend (she claimed he came up behind them outside, texted 'behind you' to her, then knocked he… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/16 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Feminist Journalist: ‘All Men Are Rapists and Should Be Put in Prison Then Shot’I am a skeptical optimist at heart. I don't hate women, nor do I hate men.. not even those that ignorantly empower such biased and sometimes downright 'evil' or bad agendas. That said, I really have a lot of faith in mankind as a whole as well as in men. I truthfully don't believe we can ever regress 'too far'. On the one hand that is pessimistic because I do believe we can always make or let things get a little more unproductive and screwed up.. but on the other hand I just believe that at the … | /r/MensRights | 17/08/16 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Feminist Journalist: ‘All Men Are Rapists and Should Be Put in Prison Then Shot’She really didn't think this through... but I'll be damned if I'm gonna sit here and listen to you mansplain it to her! | /r/MensRights | 16/08/16 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Feminist Journalist: ‘All Men Are Rapists and Should Be Put in Prison Then Shot’Gosh think about all of the manpower womanpower and hours you could save doing that... Actually the best thing to do would be enslave half the men to hunt and kill the other half. Then corral them up and have half kill the other half with their bare hands, and so on until there are only two men and one survivor. Then they milk him to keep the species going with the Herculean BEAST that is the badass motherfucker that has killed like a couple thousand men with his bare hands by then. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/16 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Feminist Journalist: ‘All Men Are Rapists and Should Be Put in Prison Then Shot’I agree with you, but disagree that it is about the fetishization of femdom. For sure all of the far left rhetoric and safe spaces and sexist laws to protect and treat woman as a protected class DO all come explicitly and only when supported, enabled, put in place, and held in place BY men.. by 'the patriarchy' in their verbiage. I just don't think it because they have fringe sexual fetishes, I think it more common the 'precious princess' chivalrous outlook many men have for women. We are raised… | /r/MensRights | 16/08/16 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Man Refuses to Allow a Homeless Woman to Stay with Him; Loses his Job, his Car, and nearly his Home Because of a Clearly False DV Allegation.You are EXACTLY right! | /r/MensRights | 16/08/16 06:57 PM |
| 3 | 'If it was the other way round I think I'd be in prison': Driving instructor, 23, who was brutally stabbed by his jealous ex-girlfriend is demanding tougher sentences for violent womenHoly. Fuck. I'm glad you are okay at least man.. Really sorry for the experience and loss of your property. I just filed divorce myself on a personality disordered woman that attacked (nowhere near as bad as yours!) and had me falsely imprisoned, so your experience is particularly frightening to me. I keep looking forward to getting back in my damn house ASAP and fearing my dogs will still be there and okay. All I care about is in the end having my son and my dogs, such crazy and destructive beh… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/16 05:16 PM |
| 1 | 'If it was the other way round I think I'd be in prison': Driving instructor, 23, who was brutally stabbed by his jealous ex-girlfriend is demanding tougher sentences for violent womenTrue, but it sounds like he was being honest to his perspective, memory, and thoughts at the time as a witness (which is one that any prosecutor can object to and claim he has no objective basis to qualify her thoughts or intentions).. Basically, I say it's 'good' that he was honest in court. May have been if a guy did it to him he would have believed they 'meant to' and a woman gets a bias of innocence.. maybe not, but neither here nor there. In the end, what the article really outlines is that… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Another delusional feminist claims women never ever abuse or kill men, because "it's impossible"...They are an impressive bunch that knows no glass ceiling to cease the elevating advancement of such achievements! | /r/MensRights | 15/08/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do women have the right to get really drunk and have sex?You know- reading that list and seeing the strong conclusion at the end I have to say: I actually do 'believe' in the patriarchy. Not as defined by feminists, but really the same thing to a different purpose. Every single one of those unbalanced delusions you wrote about are all only the case by the action, maintenance, and power of men. The 'patriarchy' that feminists droll on in their 'fight' against is misguided. We are the ones ('we' as men in general, those making laws, the old men in power… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/16 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Is my wife abusing me?Holy. Shit. You are absolutely on point.. like incredibly so in these two posts man! It made me tear up a little, fuck, you just described down to absolutely high detail the last five years of my life. When I found reddit I was a little farther along than this guy, but even then only just 'beginning the first stages' of actually leaving as I healed myself and created healthier attachment. In fact, it didn't just go on for years and grow more and more worse exactly as you described all the nuance… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/16 04:48 PM |
| 2 | So I was attacked by my girlfriend and 3 days later I ended up in jailThanks man. Yea I definitely went straight to my lawyer the day I got out of jail. A month later, last week, I was fully acquitted. The charge is still of course on my record and I am about to enter family court with that strike against me in a battle for my son's well being away from crazy and abusive. Shit sucks, in whole and in all parts.. but other than being a little too nice and transparent, I'm making the best moves for my son and I (and even his mom.. whether she can admit what she did t… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/16 07:05 PM |
| 1 | So I was attacked by my girlfriend and 3 days later I ended up in jailHey man, I really respect your pointing out about the circle we are going in that I'm leading and appreciate the give and take in our conversation overall. I think it's still a little to close to me and for that or other reasons I really got off track trying to make two points. Absolutely false allegations are a thing, but I also wanted to point out that it is even feasible when the cops come out and a woman were to maintain honesty that the man didn't touch her, only 'yelled' or had 'aggressive… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/16 01:49 AM |
| 1 | So I was attacked by my girlfriend and 3 days later I ended up in jailYou don't usually spend a minute in jail for yelling at anybody, after all. I do agree with you that based on his post he likely did 'something' back to her. He inferred that she started it and that he did something physical to defend himself. Whatever that thing is, he's better off not admitting anything (even what he already did) if they somehow find his post. That said, I don't agree with what I quoted above at all. Unless I'm some unicorn that is the only man it has happened to.... then I su… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 05:13 PM |
| 2 | So I was attacked by my girlfriend and 3 days later I ended up in jailHaving just gone through this myself, I'd say he needs to NOT post ANYTHING relating to his 'defense' of her or any form of touching her in any way. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 10:19 AM |
| 1 | So I was attacked by my girlfriend and 3 days later I ended up in jailIn this case, based on his statement, the police officers initial response of the alleged crime was influenced by gender bias, and the male victim was not given proper investigative procedures and his female abuser is getting away with domestic violence. Part of her pattern of DV is to commit DV and then go to the police and lie, using their gender bias as a weapon against her victim. That seems a dead-end to me, it happens in the majority of cases.. (arbitrarily that seems to be the case-- it D… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 10:16 AM |
| 8 | So I was attacked by my girlfriend and 3 days later I ended up in jailWhat do I have to look forward or not look forward to. The ex is a diagnosed bipolar, has been on and off meds (zoloft) and I have proof and text messages of her claiming her instability. Please lend me some incite. YUP. Except mine is borderline personality disorder rather than bipolar! My insight? Her proof of instability doesn't matter. In fact, physical evidence of me bleeding and having contusions, her admitting to the cop that she started it and I kept walking away, her having ZERO injurie… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 10:07 AM |
| 4 | 6 Feminist Myths That Will Not DieWell... don't you see!? They aim to close that gap! /s | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 06:09 AM |
| 1 | 6 Feminist Myths That Will Not DieWhy though? Does it matter what you mom thinks? I don't ask to be snarky or demeaning, just that I devoted an unhealthy portion of my life to such pursuits of helping women (like my wife) with distorted perspectives to see reality... and it has only ever ended worse off than it began. Not saying 'don't try' saying that I had to learn to pick better targets and audience for my time than folks that want to stay in la la land. (Still, your point stands on its own merit, I'm fighting shadows there. … | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 06:07 AM |
| 1 | 6 Feminist Myths That Will Not DieI'm dealing with a cluster B and beginning divorce proceedings... When I read things like this I wonder how damn common that is?! | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 06:04 AM |
| 2 | 6 Feminist Myths That Will Not DieMen Going Their Own Way. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/16 06:02 AM |
| 2 | I used to be able to watch Cops but this is painful. They both admit to assaulting each other, and even that she started it. He's going to jail. Wtf? Even the cop saying "Don't worry, it's not your fault." So she gets comforted, and he goes to jail?Yea man. I'm working on evicting my wife from my (house) and life. I haven't and won't cohabitate with her again at all, but opted for small hidden audio and video recording on myself during child custody exchanges. I think if I ever feel like cohabitating with another woman (right now I'm pretty fucking disillusioned) I will have some kind of recording in and out of my house. It feels more important to have cameras inside your house than outside for 'security'. I was luckily acquitted last week… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 08:07 PM |
| 2 | I used to be able to watch Cops but this is painful. They both admit to assaulting each other, and even that she started it. He's going to jail. Wtf? Even the cop saying "Don't worry, it's not your fault." So she gets comforted, and he goes to jail?I agree with you man, I saw that same bitchy smile that her emotions and distorted view of reality can actually CONTROL and hurt him while basically conforming the world around her to her own brand of crazy. She's never going to change, grow, or get well at that rate. It isn't 'first aggressor'. They don't give a fuck who is 'first'. The cops even seemed to believe that what kicked it off was her slamming her phone in his head. The law is 'primary aggressor'. And unfortunately it isn't even base… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 06:55 PM |
| 3 | I used to be able to watch Cops but this is painful. They both admit to assaulting each other, and even that she started it. He's going to jail. Wtf? Even the cop saying "Don't worry, it's not your fault." So she gets comforted, and he goes to jail?A campaign aimed at stopping women hitting men might have a very good impact - as you only need to convince them to do the bare minimum expected of a human being in civilised society - not initiate violence. I think it would be a great idea, as female violence against men is a very common predecessor of violence against women (something we can all agree is a bad thing). Well fucking said! | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 06:45 PM |
| 1 | "The Male Privilege" episode 215: the true gender gap about which you very rarely get to hear about it in the news: the life expectancy gapTell that to the "Violence Against Women and Children* Act".. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | "The Male Privilege" episode 215: the true gender gap about which you very rarely get to hear about it in the news: the life expectancy gapWow, yea. I rarely notice how biased something is until the gender / argument is flipped like that. And imagine the outrage if somebody said: "Other things being equal, men's and women's intelligence is fairly close; however, men earn normally more because of their tendency to engage in more dangerous professions. Therefore, any place where men earn less than women indicates a serious problem." I have been through a meat-grinder of MRA issues personally affecting my life now and even costing me … | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 05:18 PM |
| 1 | "The Male Privilege" episode 215: the true gender gap about which you very rarely get to hear about it in the news: the life expectancy gapGreat and informative posts man! Thank you very much- | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 05:08 PM |
| 1 | "The Male Privilege" episode 215: the true gender gap about which you very rarely get to hear about it in the news: the life expectancy gapHaving said that, it's probably good advice for all genders and all countries to not have your partner hit you. Haha. Yea, I fucked up there, wish I'd known better, but now I do! ;P (I had mixed experience on it in the U.S. south. Wife was the only one violent, I was visibly injured and bleeding and separated myself from her 3 times without defending myself... the last time she came and found me she threatened to call the cops. I locked myself in another room, came out when she had called them, … | /r/MensRights | 01/08/16 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Dr Jessica McCarrick, a Senior Lecturer in Counselling Psychology, thinks more should be done to support male victims as many don’t report the violence they suffer for fear of themselves being the subject of false accusations.I don't know what it is about me or about 'me' with an 'n'. It's like I can't feel bad 'for me', not that unlike how society cannot feel bad for 'men'. I did lay some of my woes out, but in general I feel pretty damn blessed. I couldn't be really any happier about how things worked out. I was acquitted. I have shelter, food, etc.. and I've been somehow arranging good unofficial custody with my wife (she's trying her damndest to pull me back in and reconcile). In truth though, I'm pretty fucking … | /r/MensRights | 31/07/16 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Man forced to pay child support, despite DNA that shows he is not fatherSure. But I think that it is you putting the 'moral reasonings' on it and not even due to other commenters points on CS not being controlled to spend on the kid. The moral reasoning about "if the kid considers you its father" is void... because this guy WANTS to see his kid, but he cannot even fight for custody, they say nope, you aren't the dad. The real dad that doesn't pay shit, gets custody claim. The dad that is stuck with the CS bills gets a tiny visitation that his wife has been refusing … | /r/MensRights | 29/07/16 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Dr Jessica McCarrick, a Senior Lecturer in Counselling Psychology, thinks more should be done to support male victims as many don’t report the violence they suffer for fear of themselves being the subject of false accusations.The first problem is that men don't even realize they were assaulted because they aren't taught to think women can rape. I think they aren't just not taught I think they are taught the exact opposite and that the laws are literally written in a way to near completely negate the possibility in whole. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/16 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Dr Jessica McCarrick, a Senior Lecturer in Counselling Psychology, thinks more should be done to support male victims as many don’t report the violence they suffer for fear of themselves being the subject of false accusations.Uhhhmmm... What?! More men should report? Sure, I get that. But the problem isn't the 'victims' to fix in this case. Hear me out. A couple days over a month ago my wife kept starting crazy confrontations, then slammed a door into me and I stood there not defending myself while she could walk from my front to my back shoving, pulling, squeezing, and scratching me. Had bruises around both arms and finger marks on both sides of chest and back. Then, after I walked off for the 3rd time in her confro… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | "Men aren't empowered by victimhood. The male version of victimhood is simply _failure_. Opening up doesn't do anything for a man. All it does is let everyone know you're defective, and can be culled from society."Jesus man! I'm seriously glad you made it through that and to a better place-- What a fucking accomplishment! I only have respect for that | /r/MensRights | 29/07/16 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Discussing MGTOW with AnterosI definitely agree, I'm actually not very familiar at all with the MGTOW subreddit though if you're basing it on that. To me (and I'll point out it was a misplaced generalization and bias that I more and more have grown from) I viewed MGTOW as on the same road as TRP, but having stopped along the side and never continued on what the journey had to offer. I used to feel like it was shortsighted and misplaced to determine that you don't want women to manipulate or take over your life any more... b… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/16 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Discussing MGTOW with AnterosYea man, that is a really great analogy | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/16 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Discussing MGTOW with AnterosNo kidding.. It's shortsighted to admit 'betas are just a commodity' and then pretend that the very nature of a subject being a commodity means it has value in a market.. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/16 05:29 AM |
| 4 | Men-Only Divorce Attorney Says He's Crusading for Men's Trampled RightsI wonder if it's true, or if it's true if really they aren't just more vocal... but honestly I've thought that lawyers may be 'closer to the issue' and see more past the torn veil. My observations here and IRL are arbitrary, but I just went through an assault and false charges, about to move forward in more services with the lawyer I hired.. but my attorney, my therapist, and my pastor each understood the situation better and faster than I could explain it. The people who deal with the courts an… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/16 03:46 AM |
| 0 | Fire chief wrongly accused of sex attack freed after three years in jail thanks to loyal wife's detective workTrue, but appeals cost money. It can be quite expensive to fund going to higher and higher levels (plus you can run out of levels to appeal to). Appeals are also facing a stiffer obstacle than the first trial. Not only can it be difficult to get new evidence admissible, but judges have a default of upholding others' determinations. Now, I obviously don't know ANYTHING about this guy's situation, but I do know that it cost me 15k to appeal a bogus jail term. My lawyer clearly showed where and how… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/16 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Lesbian Couple in California Chemically Alter Their 11-year-old Boy to Prep For Sex-change SurgeryRES tagging has never had a more opportune use! Seriously though, really great outlook and conversation on the topic man! You clearly have big balls.. . | /r/MensRights | 25/07/16 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Lesbian Couple in California Chemically Alter Their 11-year-old Boy to Prep For Sex-change SurgeryHaha! MacGyver was mine too! I used to yell out' I'm MacGyver! When my friends were calling out superman, batman, spiderman, terminator, etc.. I got a couple other 5-7 year olds into the show though. I rewatched all the seasons about a decade ago in my 20's, I still don't regret my choice there, but I'm glad I didn't get a mullet haircut surgically grafted to my head like Joe Dirt at the time! | /r/MensRights | 25/07/16 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Twitter Permanently Suspends Conservative Writer Milo Yiannopoulos: Why is the twitter safety council such a hotbed of anti-gay bigotry?Oh wow! Thanks for explaining that, had no idea. Yea, rules like that are completely foreign to me (no pun intended). I'm a huge fan of Milo, but I'm a bit of a libertarian and understand (to me) private businesses have the right to deny service to whomever they want.. I know it isn't that simple, just is the gist of how I think things should be and usually are. BUT I definitely don't think laws like that UK one 'bad' or anything, I actually can see a lot of really useful benefits. I hope he doe… | /r/MensRights | 21/07/16 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Twitter Permanently Suspends Conservative Writer Milo Yiannopoulos: Why is the twitter safety council such a hotbed of anti-gay bigotry?Can you explain what you mean please? I don't understand your statement. Do you mean he has the right under UK law to somehow demand and pull all instances of his 'breaking the TOS' (or whatever)? I don't know anything about UK law and I misunderstand your statement. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/16 03:42 AM |
| 0 | DNA proves man isn't girl's father but he must pay support anywayI think reddit activism subs are honestly a great place to try to convince or argue with other redditors a point for anyone studying to pass the bar and practice law! Good luck man. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/16 02:48 AM |
| 6 | 35% of young adult men in America now live with their parentsI really think you laid that out great, expounded well on some important points and offered what I think a big key to the cause and solution. The only way I differ from your brief exposition, is I think the FED is near criminally inept. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Fantasy vs Reality: Women Are Protecting Themselves With Guns, and Feminists Are Calling It "Absurd"OHHH! Okay, yea I definitely agree with that. When you made the comment about mentally ill children buying guns I thought you didn't understand the current state of our gun laws and enforcement. Sorry, didn't catch your sarcasm in the last two comments! | /r/MensRights | 17/07/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Fantasy vs Reality: Women Are Protecting Themselves With Guns, and Feminists Are Calling It "Absurd"Well.. it IS already illegal to purchase (or possess) a gun if you are a under 18 for long guns and 21 for handguns. It is also illegal to purchase (or possess) a gun if you are mentally ill. Neither subset can purchase a gun through a dealer or by legal means through private sellers. If you are saying that sarcastically because 'they could just get them illegally', then you're right. But even if you made it illegal FOR ANYONE to own a gun in the U.S., you still have many orders of magnitude of … | /r/MensRights | 17/07/16 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Fantasy vs Reality: Women Are Protecting Themselves With Guns, and Feminists Are Calling It "Absurd"The problem with your 'argument' is that you are qualifying your BS as true when as a statement that is literally already illegal in two ways. 1) Mentally ill individuals already cannot legally purchase firearms at all. That's literally one of the questions, there are multiple lines that ask about mental illness, psychological medicines, and/or treatment or hospitalization. Also, if you purchase from an FFL, they will run a background check which will automatically let them know if you're lying,… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Today, in Texas, after 5 years of battling, I won full custody of my daughter. Don't give up.That is so great man. I truly am happy for you. I'm in the beginning. It's been a few weeks since I've seen my son. Went from taking care him every day to being unable to even contact him. My wife assaulted me, I didn't defend myself, she saw me bleeding after the first time I walked away and threatened how she 'could get me arrested', I walked away again and locked my office door. Then she called them, lied, and I did. So I have to fight bullshit false allegations of domestic violence before I … | /r/MensRights | 17/07/16 08:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm Done. It's Hopeless.Man's neurotypical thinking, the will and the lifeblood of men, may be eroding in psychosocial ways, but the very essence of 'who' we really are is tied to the reason that things ARE NOT hopeless. Regardless how painful or how impossible it seems to win-- we will not give up. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/16 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Girl comes out as boy, has a moment of clarity, so she returns to identifying as girl [comics]Thank you! Sorry I didn't look it up, could have found it with that name, but I didn't know if it'd have some other name. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/16 11:55 PM |
| 4 | How to Avoid Rape in Prison - interesting prison video showing how rape happens in jail and how to avoid it. Why aren't college students shown something similar if college rape is such a problem?IE; I don't want to change, I want reality to change FOR me... I don't want to accommodate the world to fit in, be happy, safe, or successful, I want the whole world to accommodate me! | /r/MensRights | 14/07/16 11:11 PM |
| 7 | How to Avoid Rape in Prison - interesting prison video showing how rape happens in jail and how to avoid it. Why aren't college students shown something similar if college rape is such a problem?It isn't that clear-cut. It seems the political and social push is to treat them with all the rights, respect, and power of an adult- more of all three even... while expecting lower and lower responsibilities of adults in comparison. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/16 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl comes out as boy, has a moment of clarity, so she returns to identifying as girl [comics]Where? | /r/MensRights | 14/07/16 11:05 PM |
| 5 | Wolf whistling to become a HATE crime: Police force starts recording 'uninvited verbal engagement' from men to women in the same category as racist abuse. Verbal abuse and physical approaches Using mobiles to send unwanted messages will also be within definitionWell with our luck, after they make it illegal to cat-call, they'll make it illegal to dog-call too, to cover their bases. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 08:40 PM |
| 4 | If you ever wondered how opinions on the internet are tweaked.Great job man! That is a really cool inspection of this topic, thank you for thinking, doing, and posting it! | /r/MensRights | 13/07/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Huckabee to Washington Post: "Male lives matter". 94% of those killed by police are men.Wut are you, a numberstatician?! | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 10:55 PM |
| 7 | 100% of men rape... SJW logicHoly shit! I can't stop reading that post and comments! When a girl agreed that ALL piv IS rape, but suggested not all women don't have to be raped, that they have the ability to opt out or be willing because 'while extremely difficult' to overcome the patronage and oppression, they have to opt in or opt out of most relationships... The OP replied this in one of her two part (hit both character limits) replies: If you take the example of underage girls, whether she “sought” the PIV or not doesn’… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/16 10:01 PM |
| 1 | A woman who was given probation for the rape and attempted murder of a 13 year old boy in 2011 has now been arrested for killing her husbandI've had a few states wide in depth exploration at many many city and county jails in the south eastern U.S.. I think that you aren't wrong if you mean there are benefits and drawbacks / pro's and con's to being in prison versus jail--- BUT I can say without a doubt that "most" jails are NOT "much worse" than prisons. Prison is near infinitely a scarier place, with more drama and near all the 'prison-rape'. That's where the 'real' criminals go, the convicted felons with multiple strikes, the mur… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/16 11:10 PM |
| 1 | A woman who was given probation for the rape and attempted murder of a 13 year old boy in 2011 has now been arrested for killing her husbandA judge in most trials (because most defendants don't take it to a trial by jury and I don't think all court instances would allow to anyway). So usually a judge 99% of the time, once in awhile the jury, but even then the judge has some leniency on the punishment, just not the verdict of guilty. In many of the cases where women or police are the defendants, a large part of the blame falls onto the prosecutor as well for not bringing up as serious charges as the crime's demand (and drastically le… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/16 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Emma Watson Says Being Called a ‘Feminazi’ Won’t Stop HerAre you trying to compare that to Kevin Spacey's resume? No, he isn't. I think that you were though.. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/16 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Emma Watson Says Being Called a ‘Feminazi’ Won’t Stop HerThe way I saw it didn't involve the mom really, sure on a superficial level of 'if we can help' but the soldiers were more about brotherhood and the motivation for their risk less about the mom and more about family and a family tree of men. IE- I didn't think it was because poor mom's feelings, but instead that they were ALL the men from that family and if they all die then their family tree would end, and to me that was why the government would move to relieve the last brother. IDK, that's jus… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/16 08:45 PM |
| 8 | Everyone needs to read the story of David Cassick, a 59 year old white man shot and murdered by a female cop last year. She was acquittedDid you watch the video or did I miss something? I could have sworn I just saw a female cop repeatedly tasing an old ass man while screaming GET DOWN ON THE GROUND! SHOW ME YOUR HANDS!!!! While he layed on the ground on his stomach and repeatedly tried to 'show her' his hands a little clearer. What was he supposed to do, at that point, differently? I agree that it doesn't matter who's a woman/man or who is white... but that video showed a guy I could see his hands the whole damn time and him com… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/16 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Feminists don’t challenge radical Islam because real misogynists are terrifyinglike Donald Trump at the moment, he doesn't really need to care too much about what his detractors say. Yea! Sure, the guy who has had people on payroll for decades to comb international newspapers and internet to find, source, and bring him ANYTHING said about him personally-- that guy definitely doesn't care and isn't threatened by what people say or think about him! | /r/MensRights | 21/06/16 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Just got banned from /r/relationships for saying a man deserves to know about his child before the woman straight up aborted it.While (as stated) morally I don't agree with abortion-- the point of my original post is exactly what you describe. I agree, that is EXACTLY how I believe it should legally and in reality be. My point was that if men cannot 'opt in' as women can (and they can't-- and that it would be ridiculous to let them unilaterally) then just as women can 'opt out' unilaterally, men should be able to as well. So my rambling may have convoluted things, but you and I exactly agree on how it should work, but do… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/16 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Just got banned from /r/relationships for saying a man deserves to know about his child before the woman straight up aborted it.I mean... Was just saying the reason I believe that men should be able to opt out of fatherhood is because they can't unilaterally, while women can opt out on their own. The alternative would be to let men opt in as women can opt in unilaterally. So my point was 'why' I think men should be able to opt out of fatherhood. Those were my opinions, since other people stated theirs. To further wax my opinion though, if both COULD opt in unilaterally in that hypothetical world that took my suggestion n… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Just got banned from /r/relationships for saying a man deserves to know about his child before the woman straight up aborted it.I don't know man. You're changing the goalposts of my comment. I was pointing out the lack of dichotomy and saying if X = Y for women, then X should = Y for men... If X = X for women, then should for men. I was saying to ignore that to me a fetus outside powers absent a lone woman (science, technology, doctors, government) to perform an abortion.. IE- ignoring that if left unchecked, if action wasn't taken to terminate life- life would exist... I was saying ignoring that I feel that way, it seem… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/16 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Just got banned from /r/relationships for saying a man deserves to know about his child before the woman straight up aborted it.Damn, they're good! I bet you would have posted something really honest and mean! | /r/MensRights | 15/06/16 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Just got banned from /r/relationships for saying a man deserves to know about his child before the woman straight up aborted it.I actually completely agree with you, in total. I just also believe that women in general make up the majority of the /r/relationships audience. Like SwordfishII's comment, and many others, the 'gender's reversed' advice usually falls flat. While that is mostly because (in reality) men and women are different, I think on that sub it has a lot to do with 'the audience' as well as moderators, and what makes up the good stories as you point out. They aren't sexist typically, I don't think, sure som… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/16 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Just got banned from /r/relationships for saying a man deserves to know about his child before the woman straight up aborted it.But hey, as someone with a successful 15 year long marriage, what advice could I possibly offer that would be helpful to someone asking about their relationship? Much better to let the single, lonely bitter women there give the same old "BREAK UP WITH HIM!" advice over and over and over again. Well... YEA! You DO know that the only thing many people want MORE THAN being happy or satisfied is for everyone around them to be less happy and more unsatisfied than them right? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/16 04:11 AM |
| 0 | Just got banned from /r/relationships for saying a man deserves to know about his child before the woman straight up aborted it.That's true, but there is (to me) a third life involved in this picture. Ignoring that third and equally important life (and in either event we'll pretend pregnancy is as 'life threatening' as you were), then I feel like EITHER the man should have as much say as the woman about abortion to declare that the (in that OP's case UNINFORMED) man will BE a father at least 18 years... as the man has a say of the woman being a mother for 10 months (which as much as I value that third life, that's kind o… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/16 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Reminder: Hillary has a page on her website where she promises to change the justice system in order to punish men even more harshly than women. : HillaryForPrisonShit. I'm 32, but there is a lot I miss. This is pretty awesome, thanks for the link. Dude is hilarious and hit the mark habitually (halfway through watching now and missed this one). edit- I'm digging his Mexican spiel. I'm as white as can be, but my son is half Honduran. Shit is hilarious. I knew of Paul Mooney, but been a while, unsure if I saw this one, but I damn sure enjoyed it. Dude is awesome. So much of his set draws clear parallels OR CLEARLY CALLS ON the ideas and premises and stories… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/16 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Reminder: Hillary has a page on her website where she promises to change the justice system in order to punish men even more harshly than women. : HillaryForPrisonHell yea man. I get the 'from the south' shit. Shit IS fucked down here (I'm mostly from Alabama.... nuff said). I look forward to more discussion as well. I really and truly get where you're coming from and why. You know, the thing that always hits me- right upside my head- is guys like Patrice. I mean, [this is one link of 1000] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=271gbSxVrNk) that he took the time to make. That motherfucker- he was fucking amazing. ON FIRE. He spoke between lines and clairvoyant… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/16 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Why today’s young women are just so FEEBLE: They can’t cope with ANY ideas that challenge their right-on view of the world, says a top academic. I am not posting this as an attack on women it is just that it does fit with some women's attitude these days.Thanks for putting that post together. Really good read I might have otherwise missed and good links as well. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Hillary has a page on her website where she promises to change the justice system in order to punish men even more harshly than women. : HillaryForPrisonI will try to reply better when I have time in the morning, but I definitely don't think racism can't be talked about here. It IS a men's issue. I just think we shouldn't make it us verse them or victims verse oppressors. We need to try to look at things as unbiased as possible when tackling something like racism. (Not saying I don't have biases though, saying I try to look past them). I definitely agree it is a BIG problem and an issue MANY men deal with and have as an obstacle. I do NOT think … | /r/MensRights | 09/06/16 05:25 AM |
| 6 | Reminder: Hillary has a page on her website where she promises to change the justice system in order to punish men even more harshly than women. : HillaryForPrisonI agree with your comment here and voted accordingly. You are definitely not wrong that racism exists. I'm from the south, it's damn sure alive and well. But it is a far breadth away from 'everything is racism'. You weren't ever downvoted here for believing that there are black people unfairly profiled that get the short end of the stick with LEO's. No one here thinks that a black person goes their whole life (or month) without coming across a white person who thinks poor or them or says somethi… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/16 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Reminder: Hillary has a page on her website where she promises to change the justice system in order to punish men even more harshly than women. : HillaryForPrisonHonestly, if you are from south Africa and speaking of your apartheid experience, then I truly feel for you. For them, all of what you are speaking of was true. Or if you are an 70 year old guy in the U.S. Either way, I really agree and feel for you. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/16 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Tackle men when they are young.I don't think it is though... I think that's exactly HOW you create the 'monster' that that they are trying to wage war on. If women in greater number beat down and acted like enraged cops (U.S. here) when they don't get enough (over)respect... especially if they are violent against them.. That is specifically the way you raise more sons to be violent against women when he is older I believe. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/16 11:07 PM |
| 2 | So when it happens to dads, it's "normal", but when it happens to women it's oh "so very unfair"?"cheeky" FOUND THE BRIT! Edit- nice blog post. They did a great rundown on it. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/16 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: Hillary has a page on her website where she promises to change the justice system in order to punish men even more harshly than women. : HillaryForPrison? Since you are so smart- you surely are already aware that statistically women get ridiculously softer sentences for the same crimes as men... That's 'without' such a SEXIST law in place that would make certain women (and only women) receive (further) reduced sentences. I'm not about just men. I'm about women equally. Most here are. We would be 'feminists' if you people actually were what you claim to be. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/16 10:48 PM |
| 1 | TheRedPill Example. These people dont love me, last words of a dying man.Sure, he should have lied and pretended he isn't responsible for his actions. /s I didn't say being lazy and admitting it makes you a man and not lazy. I inferred men admit their actions and the only way to change is to be aware of it, not in denial to yourself, and work. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/16 05:29 PM |
| 7 | TheRedPill Example. These people dont love me, last words of a dying man.IDK man, it takes a lot more to be a man and admit one's actions. It takes being aware and admitting of shortcoming or mistake to be accountable for it, to grow and change. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/16 03:12 PM |
| 16 | Johnny Depp's now ex-wife Amber Heard was arrested for domestic violence in 2009You're right and from what I read Amber was guaranteed only half of what he made the year she was married to him (if memory serves ~40 million). That's because it goes 50/50 for all assets during marriage for California's no fault law. BUT if you claim domestic violence you can be entitled ALL the money earned/saved/new assets for the year or however long you were married. She's only going for money from the year they were married and that 'they' earned that year, she can have half, but her BS d… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 07:30 PM |
| 2 | X-Men and Fox Entertainment: The Latest Victim in the Feminazi Overreach Agenda. When Will the Beta Male Uprising Finally Happen?Many of us can't think from a bird's eye perspective it seems. It isn't that, it's pragmatism and stoicism. Those attributes are ingrained in man. In my opinion, the focus when your world is burning down around you via 'the system' OR 'personal experience / choices / mistakes' the focus in any and all should be on: 'what I have control/power over'-- rather than 'what I have NO control/power over'. Focusing on what you have no power or control or influence is the victimhood mentality, it is an ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/16 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Despite mounting evidence against Amber Heard and with her "bruise" magically reappearing and moving again, Washington Post declares Johnny Depp guilty and chastises society for not immediately attacking and dropping such a "dangerous male"but her story was Johnny through an iPhone, right? (legitimately asking) because it seems it wouldn't matter what hand he through with it could feasibly hit either eye.. I don't think he did, but all I have is gut feelings based on how sketchy his wife's story and how things played out. In the end I hope the truth is really uncovered and honored. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | This Woman Was Expelled For Allegedly Sexually Assaulting A Man On Campus... and Buzzfeed makes HER out to be the VICTIMNOPE. The privileged class won't be the ones to change this... Give me your tired and your poor.... not your privileged and falsely entitled. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/16 05:11 AM |
| 1 | feminists blaming Men for being childless... what a surpriseYea... may not have been clear, was completely a lie. I have 80k and 7, still NEITHER is enough it seems. I should have picked a different proportion | /r/MensRights | 02/06/16 04:15 AM |
| 1 | feminists blaming Men for being childless... what a surpriseha. I think he meant if there was 'low stock' of orphans in the UK for those domestic there to adopt. Honestly I'd be curious statistics for the UK and US, I can't believe there are that few young orphaned children, but I guess I've just been ignorant to it. I've met so many guys who were orphans, but in all of them you may be right- they may have been home for years until 5-10 years old and gotten pretty messed up before arriving. Plus if the 'stock' of young orphans wasn't low then I guess peo… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/16 12:11 AM |
| 1 | feminists blaming Men for being childless... what a surpriseawe man.. I only have 2 figures and 14 inches. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/16 12:06 AM |
| 3 | feminists blaming Men for being childless... what a surpriseDude, it's way harder to work from home with kids than you might think. My wife has no job at all, I have had a good career near a decade I do from home mostly, I end up doing near as much baby-care and housework as her.. but even when I make and hold strong boundaries and just don't- I still get a near constant barrage of awesome two-year-old knocking on my door or crying / getting hurt in the other room and not hearing her so going to check on him.. IDK, even if you do much better than me abou… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/16 11:40 PM |
| 2 | feminists blaming Men for being childless... what a surpriseJeeze.. I wish my sahw was half as good as your husband was.. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/16 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Glad FBI is now going after MOM's who take their dual custody children and run.Haha! That's funny man. I'm sorry, thought I'd grabbed the right name! Forgot the underscores. Nope man, you didn't get that drunk last night. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/16 02:44 PM |
| 18 | Glad FBI is now going after MOM's who take their dual custody children and run.Absolutely! | /r/MensRights | 22/05/16 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Glad FBI is now going after MOM's who take their dual custody children and run.Why be an asshole? Does that come naturally to you or does it take effort? I posted my opinion. You called me a retarded idiot. I gave you benefit of the doubt, explained the truth of these situations (this isn't the first case of it- NORMALLY I hear about it BECAUSE women hire mercenaries to kidnap their kid from MEN in their countries and are celebrated). Then you tell me that you think I'm crazy and that my son is better in the hands of my wife (who you don't know shit about and I'm in an abu… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/16 03:05 AM |
| 7 | Glad FBI is now going after MOM's who take their dual custody children and run.What I spoke of is actually a thing, that happens. Custody rights ALREADY don't mean a thing. It is HARD to get a country to eject the child of its citizen from its country. She kidnapped his child from this country, I'd kidnap my kid from the one I'm speaking of in my wife's case were such a thing to occur (it's the country with the highest murder rate in the world). I was clear in understanding that it would be as likely to leave me dead as successful, I also get that it could result in jail. … | /r/MensRights | 22/05/16 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Glad FBI is now going after MOM's who take their dual custody children and run.She hasn't been imprisoned and likely never will. Her country obviously doesn't give a fuck, the kid was kidnapped before he was a year old and he's 8 now and still not back with his dad. I wouldn't shed a tear for her if she rotted in jail, but she won't (even though interpol agreed with the U.S. courts, the country obviously doesn't care enough to do anything-- also they really don't find it a crime when an Argentinian brings their own child in the country, it's us who have the problem of kidn… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/16 12:05 AM |
| 20 | Glad FBI is now going after MOM's who take their dual custody children and run.But honestly, the real overly attached girlfriend has a great head on her shoulders. I caught a facebook post of hers in an MRA sub and she is more on our side than most men, as well as less 'feminist' than them. still though, yea, you're right. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/16 11:56 PM |
| 2 | #standupstripdown Is this picture disgusting or beautiful? BBC Exposing Social Media Hysteria & Misandry.I don't think it's 'maternal' instinct at all. You're witnessing his paternal instincts. I think as a society we easily forget that paternal instincts are as significant, loving, and protecting as any maternal instinct. Child-rearing is no more or less one than the other, they have many similarities and some stark differences, but no less love or instinct to touch, hold, save, or love. EDIT- I may have been barking up the wrong tree, I see your name is LadyDarkKitten, I can certainly understand … | /r/MensRights | 21/05/16 04:54 AM |
| 6 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)I know you are likely my age or older, you seem better put together than I am at the moment, but I've learned a lot since I was a teen like the guy you responded to (by failing and losing a lot and moving forward at my best to learn). What I realize now is back then though I definitely thought I was "significantly improving my ability to calculate" the risks I was taking. I believe that you probably have, but now twice my teenage years of experience I strongly doubt my ability to calculate the r… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that men are biologically more likely to take risks in terms of ensuring success?From research I've read, men typically have higher pain tolerance (or equal, depending on the type of pain and tests I've seen). I don't have the links, but I bet google could find numerous examples. It's true that birthing is extremely painful, but I think it is ridiculous to believe that is 'THE MOST PAINFUL' thing or experience. I'm not knocking them though, I have a wife and son and I was proud as hell of her, even with the epidural and eventually needing to get a cesarean. Here's some links… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/16 09:09 PM |
| 3 | First Successful Penis Transplant Performed in the U.S.I think they actually 'use' most the penis in those surgeries, like they mutilate it and flip it inside out, cut off pieces, use others.. I've never looked into it though, just how I imagined they probably must. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/16 07:51 PM |
| 2 | New ‘Mattress Girl’ Lawsuit: Obscene Drawing of Cleared Man ‘Displayed on Campus’To not be ignorant and accidentally get entangled with crazy- to cull the unhealthy chicks.. as far as I can tell the best we can do is break our own ignorances and get ourselves as 'healthy' as possible. Crazy, needy, messy men seem to be catnip for those kind of women. It's easy to miss the red flags that are there, when there is any iota of unhealthy (mental health, or ideal of emotional attachment, or desire for external sources over internal for acceptance, value, love, validation..). I'm k… | /r/MensRights | 08/05/16 11:53 PM |
| 11 | This B.S. floating around my Facebook feed...I don't see your point at all honestly. We live in a nation (if you're in the U.S.) with decreasing and low rape or murder of women by men. Where 'male privilege' and 'rape culture' means men are held to a higher standard and -everything- is rape and none of it is condoned or not defended by bystanders or courts... The speaker in the text is saying ALL women are so oppressed they are afraid to even speak or do anything except 'body language' and poor them we can't hear or understand their body l… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/16 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Women are superior apparently.Man, thanks for writing those comments. This made for a much better than the real article. I really enjoyed you laying out ACTUAL facts and their sources. I seriously think you should turn that into an article on that website. It doesn't belong in their comment section, you honestly put together a better article than theirs by my assessment. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 07:40 PM |
| 6 | A rare honest feministPeople here absolutely won't 'mind' your presence (we adore such things, so much so that many thought you were someone trolling us). You are MORE than welcome here. Ignore the radical extremes if they arise, they are the minority. Still though, I think you underrate simply seeing the problem. Honestly that is the problem in whole. The opening of eyes is without doubt the most significant, second to that and only to that, is the opening of our mouths. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Dad get beaten hard by his ex-MMA fighter girlfriend over having a friend over too late. She then blamed him and filed for emergency custody.haha I was wondering how that fit- Thanks for clearing it up man. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Dad get beaten hard by his ex-MMA fighter girlfriend over having a friend over too late. She then blamed him and filed for emergency custody.You're right and I really don't think this thing a fake at all. I donated before it ever hit MRA. I stumbled on the IMGUR post. I don't open my wallet often and I hope I wasn't deceived, but I DO understand the position the guy in this narrative was in. Not quite personally, or to that extent, but I do just the same. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 01:40 AM |
| 3 | A rare honest feministIf there is this perception that the MRM is just a bunch of entitled cis men out to hate on feminists and trying to put us back in the kitchen (this is what I have heard), how are we suppose to change this image? By doing exactly what you are- by opening your eyes to it. I'm an MRA, but by many people's misguided definitions I would be a 'feminist', just not the feminism of today, what it has become. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 01:12 AM |
| 3 | A rare honest feministThis is the rub. Feminism, as most people say they are- doesn't mean what it means today and they actually mean something different. This woman was a REAL feminist. Someone who desired EQUALITY, different but equal- between men and women. Today, as far as I can tell, that would be called a men's right activist in truth. The feminism of today has no place for men except in the negative. It isn't about equality, it's about lowering men and putting women on an even higher pedestal. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Dad get beaten hard by his ex-MMA fighter girlfriend over having a friend over too late. She then blamed him and filed for emergency custody.She fled before police arrived though... for a reason- THEN, as I learned from the real OP's further posts (purportedly) the woman had a collaboration at her work where people threw in money for her to hire a lawyer and she filed for emergency custody (I don't know legal names) of the daughter. One would hope the father can (and should) beat it and halt it, but it was an order to return the daughter to the mother before Monday. He didn't have a lawyer at that time. I don't know how the DV auto-c… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Dad get beaten hard by his ex-MMA fighter girlfriend over having a friend over too late. She then blamed him and filed for emergency custody.The friend was a 5 foot 3 inch girl, the victim wasn't fighting back, and the assailant was a trained MMA fighter who bit 'the friend' when she tried pulling her off, so she locked herself in the bathroom to call 911, while in there the MMA woman beat the shit out of the door to get to her, then ran away before the cops came. So that friend DEFINITELY was what made that bitch run away- she was MUCH more scared of the police than the man who wouldn't fight back or the tiny girl who couldn't stop … | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Dad get beaten hard by his ex-MMA fighter girlfriend over having a friend over too late. She then blamed him and filed for emergency custody.He likely could have. Instead, he didn't even defend himself, didn't throw a punch, didn't shove her. What he 'won' was very good evidence and one-sided proof, because he wasn't fighting for his nose, he is fighting for his daughter. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Dad get beaten hard by his ex-MMA fighter girlfriend over having a friend over too late. She then blamed him and filed for emergency custody.This one is kind of morbidly beautiful.. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Dad get beaten hard by his ex-MMA fighter girlfriend over having a friend over too late. She then blamed him and filed for emergency custody.Michigan | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Dad get beaten hard by his ex-MMA fighter girlfriend over having a friend over too late. She then blamed him and filed for emergency custody.do we need to petition the courts to treat this the same as a man? Would it do any good? | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Dad get beaten hard by his ex-MMA fighter girlfriend over having a friend over too late. She then blamed him and filed for emergency custody.You're right. The story reads that he stood there and let her beat the shit out of him. Any woman, anywhere, can do that when we don't fight back... BUT this guy was smart this time. The OP of the real post (the witness... and a chick by the looks of things) said that what was going through her friend's mind (the victim) was that he wanted things over this time, wanted proof and a good case, and of course that he clearly doesn't hit women or even defend himself. But it will help his case immense… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Woman destroys the feminist myths about rapethanks man! I appreciate that and your additions to the sub, I know they can get downvoted, but I feel like those are really important content and context that is easily overlooked. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/16 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Woman destroys the feminist myths about rapeGreat post, thank you for taking the time to write it. If I can trouble you, can you tell me the name of the report that is pasted into the first picture towards the end? I've been looking for the 'women are the aggressors 70% of the time' research. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/16 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Spotted in a UK University men's bathroomSo.. Tell me then- HOW divorce is fair, in the U.S.? What that guy just described- that is the norm in the U.S. Explain to me how that is "fair"? It isn't about controlling speech, it's about controlling nothing. If you control nothing, we are back to the actual, real patriarchy. Because men and men's institutes are stronger. But we aren't there, we are in the rule of law that we TRY SO FUCKING HARD to make fair for everyone and more fair to the underprivileged. Where a woman goes to court, in a… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/16 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Spotted in a UK University men's bathroomI... don't think that happened here... or anywhere, outside your imagination. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/16 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Spotted in a UK University men's bathroomIt is about clear sender and clear recipient. I can yell in crowded space "Gahhh, I'm gonna kill someone." The police may be called, I may be questioned, but I could legally get out of it as free speech, that I meant nothing and was just exclaiming my frustration. If however, I tell you as my wife (or whoever) multiple times that I am going to kill you, I'm going to knock you out, or threaten you repeatedly.. that is considered a threat of violence. Those are just words, but it is against the la… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/16 04:14 AM |
| 4 | A 17 year old protesters gets triggered and falls apart crying when having to face basic logic and facts that men have less rights than women in the US and the Patriarchy doesn't exist. It's disturbing children like her have been brainwashed their entire lives to believe feminist bullshit.She didn't even have a mother by the sounds of it- an undocumented worker raised her, her 17 years of enlightenment. ...but she's chastising this young Cuban descendant for hiring undocumented workers... | /r/MensRights | 24/04/16 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Jodie Foster tired of ‘the woman thing’: There’s no ‘big plot to keep women down’ - "It would be nice to be able to have a more complex conversation and to be able to look at it more than just a quota or numbers."talking about "braking him" I hope she stopped | /r/MensRights | 23/04/16 03:52 PM |
| 10 | Hit Right in the truth.Wow! That is incredibly moving. Such a mix of emotions and goosebumps seeing his genuinity in what he wrote. Seriously moving. Thank you for sharing it! He apparently did it in 2012 but this is the first I've heard of it. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Matched a girl on Tinder and had a debate for over an hour. I finally unmatched her after this.man- seriously GREAT job! I was wondering expressly about this because it smelled fishy to me in one of Gavin McInnes feminist debates he kept saying more men were raped than women. I was thinking he meant prison rape, but have never seen any statistics. Seeing you break down the other categories (without that) was very informative and exactly what I wanted to know! Thanks- | /r/MensRights | 16/04/16 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Would you all agree with the statement that women are valued in society solely for existing while men are valued based on what they can do to help others?That. THAT is exactly it. WE, us men, are why women are valued 'just for existing'. That is absolutely it, point blank. We do that for them. We give them value for existing. It isn't some feminist machination, it's literally the symptom of the cause neo-feminism fights: the patriarchy. To us, a man is what he can do, what value he offers society, but a woman adds value because of who/what she is. Now I'm not speaking in absolutes, but an attractive, sane, young woman (which is ALL relative and i… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/16 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Buzzfeed unintentionally paints feminists as idiots who shut their brains off the moment facts are brought up (pay gap myth, rights of men)Many people live in a world where feelings are fact and paint reality- while simultaneously or through that process attempt to require others to be responsible for their feelings. Makes sense they believe we would be devastated if they found us boring, as well as that 'them feeling bored means' we are wrong or on the 'bad' side of the argument. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Needle exchange program put in place... for FEMALE addicts only.... because if you have a penis and an addiction issue, you don't matterI've only ever seen 1 woman for every 10-20 men on the street anyway.. We live in different worlds and want equalization. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/16 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Needle exchange program put in place... for FEMALE addicts only.... because if you have a penis and an addiction issue, you don't matterit just hit me: Of all of the humans on earth who loved me unconditionally, there was only one who I hadn't betrayed. And she was right there in my hands! Kaboom! Damn, that's beautiful. I've struggled in the past with abusing drugs and got a little 1.5 year old now. That's powerful man. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/16 02:30 AM |
| 4 | Is nothing sacred anymore? Feminism is now going after comic book heroes who display "Toxic masculinity"Well said! | /r/MensRights | 22/03/16 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Divorcee wins 90 per cent of husband's wealth in bitter court battle. Company boss, Peter Morris, has nothing but his 'anger' to show for 25 years of marriage after a series of rulingsFor some reason.. I never can remember what that stands for, I always default for the first 10 seconds into the confusion of what I first learned it as: Maximum Gross Takeoff Weight. I actually don't think the definition here is that different.. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/16 11:40 PM |
| 2 | This seemed relevant to the Swedish Youth Group proposalYou're free to that opinion and conclusion. I believe it a little presumptuous to the way I personally read it. I think it is implying that choosing to not become a father NOW, or with THIS woman, doesn't preclude the fact that the man may wish to father children at a later point or with a different woman. Deciding you don't want to have children now (even if one thinks it 'forever') doesn't mean you can't ever change your mind. That is our choice and it would also be closed minded for her to sa… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/16 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Men should have the right to ‘abort’ responsibility for an unborn child, Swedish political group saysWell said. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/16 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Be the owner; Don't be propertyI'd never heard of Rolfing. Sure looks interesting, but there are none anywhere remotely near me I can find. I actually have a lot of medical BS against me in a serious way. A connective tissue disorder (rheumatologist believes Ehler's Danlos) screwing every part of my body and health systems and an autoimmune disorder adding to the inflammation. But the chronic pain is mostly from imbalances in muscles and tendons, nothing works right and every night things would get pulled and pressed out of p… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Romanian woman tore off her husband's left testicle after he failed to give her flowers on International Women's Day and then refused to help with the housework.Not only did he 'deserve it' (for the sin of telling her she wasn't entitled to order him around as she was), but according to her it wasn't her fault he was hurt at all. ALL she did was grab his balls with her underestimated strength (she sees now she is 'much' stronger than she thought, but) it was HIS FAULT he was injured because he wrongly pulled away as she grabbed him and pulled as hard as she could violently. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/16 06:15 PM |
| 4 | If an unemployed man happens to be white and come from a poor background, is it justifiable for a "feminist" to say that this white man deserves no sympathy because it's a white man's world and they have had it easy for a long time?The only problem I have with that is who is justifying 'their' emotions? You, me? You may be a great judge of others, but not everyone else is. Emotions don't need to be justified or judged. They need to be accepted (by that person) and let pass. Outward actions / behavior for sure needs to have consequences (which are a form of 'judgement'). The internal process needs no label, comparison, or justification in my mind. It's too slippery a slope to rate and compare pain/emotions/struggle between … | /r/MensRights | 10/03/16 03:39 PM |
| 1 | The price of settling is too highif I were not trying to win, etc, why would I even be standing around with her? If you can't answer that question for yourself, then you won't be able to project attractive value or a reasonable solution to that question in her mind either. I'd say my 'reason' is to gift the other person the time/attention I've chosen to participate with them. That's not a bad way to look at it, it just sounds funny written so blunt. When I make that choice, I usually genuinely made it in wanting something in re… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 11:02 PM |
| 1 | "My feminist liberal wife wants me to be the man of the relationship and it is making me uncomfortable" [Xpost]Absolutely. I was exaggerating in word choice, but appreciate you pointing that out. That was specifically one of the hardest and costliest lessons of my life man, can't even do it for family (not that we can't ever get frustrated, but stress about controlling what we can't). I play it on hardmode still, trying to see what I need to do with my marriage to a wife with a personality disorder. The path of least resistance is looking more and more appealing. That very thing used to destroy me. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/16 07:22 PM |
| 5 | "My feminist liberal wife wants me to be the man of the relationship and it is making me uncomfortable" [Xpost]To be more fair to you, since you aren't... it does take an exceptionally self aware dude to admit such even after the fact, so I commend you. I hate seeing people lie to themselves, it frustrates and pisses me off when they miss the real message and growth. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/16 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Lesbian Couple Beats 5-Year-Old Son with a Hammer, Duct-Tape His Eyes Shut, and Kick Him Til He Bleeds, for GoFundMe ScamSometimes I wonder if we call things 'feminism' that are more like ingrained female instinct or emotional/mental mechanisms, traits, or disordered thinking inherent to both genders, (but perhaps nurtured or stronger in some women, especially those clinging to extreme feministic ideology). I spend too much time on a support site for BPD family members or SO's (or other cluster B's like NPD). The 'golden child' or 'golden children' and the 'scapegoat'. I don't see how that happens even to a femini… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/16 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Lesbian Couple Beats 5-Year-Old Son with a Hammer, Duct-Tape His Eyes Shut, and Kick Him Til He Bleeds, for GoFundMe ScamFrom what I've arbitrarily heard- they do. Maybe worse.. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/16 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Lesbian Couple Beats 5-Year-Old Son with a Hammer, Duct-Tape His Eyes Shut, and Kick Him Til He Bleeds, for GoFundMe ScamI believe we intrinsically have a calling to nurture and protect in ways that are viewed as 'maternal' in some respects. At least me, I have a very soft heart for those in need, weaker than me, or that I could try to help a need I see. Maybe that isn't maternal or paternal, maybe that is simply humanity. Whatever the case it is not 'crazy' to be filled with rage at abhorrent abuse by 'the strong' against 'the weak' (doubly so- when we ourselves may be 'stronger' than the 'strong ones hurting the… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/16 05:32 PM |
| 7 | Lesbian Couple Beats 5-Year-Old Son with a Hammer, Duct-Tape His Eyes Shut, and Kick Him Til He Bleeds, for GoFundMe ScamI don't like joking about this one or turning it into a soapbox.. personally (not like I'm saying it's wrong or you did) I just can't not think about that poor little boy who was neglected/abandoned, finally was 'a person' or wanted or had a place.. then this?! Fuck, this isn't an MRA issue to that little boy, this is some Guantanamo Bay shit on the shoulders of a little guy who had every disadvantage in the world- and then this. I have a son and am going through a hard time right now, but just … | /r/MensRights | 01/02/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | The wife and I are both DT and have come clean to each other about it.Right.. It isn't exactly a clinical test there. The troll or narcissist or autistic that wrote this exposition on his awakening to being Anakin of the dark triad ...was basing his new life and Gone Girl bonus ending on what equates to a magazine romance/personality quiz. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/01/16 02:29 PM |
| 1 | The wife and I are both DT and have come clean to each other about it.This is extremely true and really powerfully put. If OP isn't a troll I really hope he reads this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/01/16 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Dad sentenced to SIX MONTHS in jail for overpaying $ 3,000 for child support (caused by bureacratic errors)You did a really good job breaking that down into the significant aspects while remaining relatively neutral. I really learned a lot or at least left your comment with a more thought out perspective. I just wanted to compliment you, really stood out to me- | /r/MensRights | 19/01/16 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Judge throws out case of man suing a woman for tricking him into fatherhoodI didn't read that whole link, but it seemed to be focused on the crime of an HIV carrier lying about protection (more than the birth control aspect). I hope I wasn't mistaken as I scanned it pretty quickly. It makes sense a crime was committed if a person knowingly and purposefully contaminated another with HIV. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/16 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl bullies 'could be great leaders', says expert: Boy bullies to be drugged or expelled. The idea of disciplining children kindness for their own welfare rejected in support of using them for political advantage.That was a really well thought out outline and ideas. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/16 09:10 PM |
| 4 | 2014: "I hate that men are harassing me by looking at me!", same feminist 2015: "I hate that men don't look at me anymore!"Poor thing, she had quite a unique sneer back when she still got catcalls too.. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/16 08:13 PM |
| 2 | IRL I've seen a lot of men who were hit by women, but I've never seen a woman being hit by a man. Still these absurd posters are everywhereYou and I are on the same page. Good conversation, it's funny how easily one word either way can taint the tight rope required to hold our view. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/16 04:54 AM |
| 2 | IRL I've seen a lot of men who were hit by women, but I've never seen a woman being hit by a man. Still these absurd posters are everywhereWhat I agreed to wasn't to choose which side I think should pull their punch. Temper or don't, what I agree with is that either way each individual on both sides is responsible for their own actions and consequences. If you aren't God, then you never know just what they are until you earn them. The gun is always loaded. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/16 01:57 AM |
| 1 | IRL I've seen a lot of men who were hit by women, but I've never seen a woman being hit by a man. Still these absurd posters are everywhereDo what you must but never underestimate your power or your own personal ownership of the consequences. I feel you. Thank you for sharing and the quoted bit in particular I believe is apt for all parties. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/16 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Don't marry a girl with fake tits.The thing being missed is this: you are only looking at fake tits as a response to that woman's insecurity. I believe that for many of their guy partners, it speaks to their insecurity as well. Either due to his relationship dynamic and feedback in how she in turn feels.. or because an insecure man could easily feed misplaced ego-value in walking around with a large breasted girl. He won't be able to raise his value as desired if he requires 'having her' to boost his own self esteem. So while th… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Take occasional breaks from women or they will suck the absolute life out of you.This post is weird to me in total. The lesson drove it home: Lesson: I don't care how rich and powerful you are, how "alpha" you've become or what huge goals you've achieved, if you ignore the use of boundaries and let women have your attention and energy because you're too insecure to tell them "No!", they'll will suck you dry like a festering mass of putrid lusting vampires. A man is not 'alpha' at all or working toward valuable goals if he ignores the use of boundaries and lets women (or men)… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Take occasional breaks from women or they will suck the absolute life out of you.Still... It is like creating the distance between the sun and earth. I have to open myself up and let my wife in, BUT I also have to uphold healthy boundaries and keep the right amount out so her closeness/distance isn't too hot or too cold to support my life. (when I failed this in the past it was destructive to us both as I failed as a leader of myself, let alone my home) You are right though and dealing through some marriage issues I've found myself setting that as the nonnegotiable destinati… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Another case of Altruistic Masculinity that feminists won't talk about: Elevator hero wished woman ‘Happy New Year’ before being crushed to deathMan, you are right. He had talent and put time to this. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Another case of Altruistic Masculinity that feminists won't talk about: Elevator hero wished woman ‘Happy New Year’ before being crushed to deathyou are indeed from the far south huh (so's my wife, she's from 'the depths') Good post man, I really hadn't thought long on this angle! | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 04:21 PM |
| 2 | I had a horrible relationship, was abused by my girlfriend (ex) physically.. Need support and encouragement RedditI actually felt a similar affect in my relationship. Simply NOT abusing my wife back while also NOT leaving the marriage (and removing myself from the abuse) DEFINITELY changed the power dynamic when we jumped the shark. In TRP terms after that crossroad (until rediscovering 'myself' and my own set-point) I was living in her frame rather than her in mine. It left me caretaking her (my own actions chose this), trying to appease her unacceptable requests and minimize the insanity and escalation. S… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I had a horrible relationship, was abused by my girlfriend (ex) physically.. Need support and encouragement RedditIt is that sweet sweet validation they crave. The Sisyphean task of filling an bucket with no bottom. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I had a horrible relationship, was abused by my girlfriend (ex) physically.. Need support and encouragement RedditShe will drag me down and blame me for allowing it. At this point, friend.. If she drags you down again, the choice and blame is at this point, right now, only your own. She has no control over you or that. Do NOT let her in again. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I had a horrible relationship, was abused by my girlfriend (ex) physically.. Need support and encouragement RedditDude. You are NOT alone in this kind of struggle. I almost forgot what sub I am on. I have spent an addictive amount of time at /r/BPDlovedones and this story is TOO familiar. I'm not saying she has borderline disorder, I am not her therapist- but she sure as shit might from reading your posts. I am saying that you need to cut this toxic person out of your life and keep it that way and that you have displayed codependent traits which you need to tackle. Please check out that other sub, it is a s… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Why 'a dude' needs feminism!I... don't hate this kid. I looked down on him at first, he's geeky and as 'un'masculine as can be. He has bias to some important truths, but he is pretty earnest. He's basically defining 'feminism' as something it hasn't been in a couple of waves and that would be equality. Maybe when he gets a little older and more diversifies his own identity he might find more different between men and women. We aren't the same, I don't understand how anyone could tout true, perfect 'equality' from a logical… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/16 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Take your fucking glasses off.I suggest your belief glasses on a man are ugly while on a woman attractive may have been more influenced your confidence level more than realized. IE- you may have had the same 'change' going from contacts to nice new glasses if you 'felt' more confident as you did removing them. For SURE we can look better without glasses. For SURE some women prefer glasses (or no glasses). But in my own arbitrary experience, with many pairs of nice frames from to match with different looks... In specific circ… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Mother who beat her three-year-old son to death is living in a luxury jail cell with ensuite shower and her own KEY. Whilst men are locked in a cell for 23 hours a day.Jeeze... I did a PTD for some felonies. I didn't wait out years though, only a bit less than one. You really made the best decision. You held out and I have to say that wouldn't have been easy. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/15 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Dad wins full custody over child that isn't his. (Xpost-/r/relationships)Have you ever seen a real statistic on this? Now I am really interested, because what you said makes much more sense. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/15 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Insulted and ridiculed by a feminist teacherJust wanted to make sure that /u/Lithlex didn't miss your great response to him! I absolutely agree with your advice to him. Your response reminded me of a quote that sums up my inspiration in his obstacle + dream. Mahatma Ghandi- "BE the change you wish to see in the world." That is what this young man is so naturally inclined and I believe that IS something very special. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/15 08:40 PM |
| 12 | Insulted and ridiculed by a feminist teacherHonest to God. The best thing you can possibly do for 'Mens Rights' (but society and your fulfillment as well) may very well be BEING A KINDERGARTEN TEACHER. Do you realize how awesome that is?! That is truly the very thing we need, is men that are a healthy OPPOSITE of that teacher, teaching tomorrows children. I think you have a hell of a good head on your shoulders. If that is what you choose- I think it is absolutely perfect. You came here experiencing how fucked up our education system is f… | /r/MensRights | 05/12/15 03:35 PM |
| 2 | 8 ball jacket-wearing man opens up on 'slapping soul' out of girl in NYC subwayI really agree, well said. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/15 03:33 AM |
| 2 | 8 ball jacket-wearing man opens up on 'slapping soul' out of girl in NYC subwayThat's really cool, interesting input and past job. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/15 02:09 AM |
| 4 | 8 ball jacket-wearing man opens up on 'slapping soul' out of girl in NYC subwayI miss my old job where I got to beat the shit out of leo's on the regular. Doing what? | /r/MensRights | 30/11/15 08:38 PM |
| 2 | A Beta that is good at something/respected in some way is literally offensive to women.I bet it sounds like Chocolate Rain. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Strength even if you cheat.Man, I feel the same way- but still. This was a great speech. I'm going through a hard time and I'm reading that shit for a while. The sad thing is people like your intended recipient might read that and be discouraged or offended but it actually reads as motivational as you intended. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | My son asked me, "Dad, how did you know how to be a great dad when your father wasn't?"Great write-up. I really needed to read this right now. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/15 10:51 PM |
| 1 | My son asked me, "Dad, how did you know how to be a great dad when your father wasn't?"There are people with nothing that feel blessed and people with everything that feel deprived. Because we can rarely be both, it's hard not to be biased. What a succinct way of stating it. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/15 10:48 PM |
| 2 | My son asked me, "Dad, how did you know how to be a great dad when your father wasn't?"Homes can be motherless even when a mother is still present in the home because there can be psychological issues with the mother at play that cause the same effects of abandonment as actual abandonment does. I was interested in this link- I don't know how long my marriage can go on. I can't accept the unacceptable and I can't enable her.. but she can't get through denial of her BPD and issues. That bit there is most troubling to me and most like the neglect my son gets even living in a home wit… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/15 10:47 PM |
| 1 | What is a positive, masculine spin on "vulnerability"?I don't believe that is stoicism. This reads like something I very much relate to. Coming from whatever my family is, I learned to not have needs, I was always proud of not being needy and never showing emotions (or controlling them) there was no room for it. To the point where I didn't feel or really know how I felt. I still have to fight that. It is the opposite of stoicism and it is the opposite of 'not' being vulnerable (at least when I let that influence me). Could it possibly be more like … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 04:17 AM |
| 14 | Dying Slowly; The State of The Average ManThis observation isn't so much that men are the main caregiver of their children (I am a father- there is NOTHING unRedPill about choosing to spend time with and raise your children), instead that they are an agent or extension of their wife's will. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Don't just practice abundance mentality - become the king./u/MuertaPinata , I extremely appreciate you taking the time to get this all out, you did great and I cannot convey to you how sincerely I needed to read this today. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 04:01 PM |
| 1 | LADY BLOCKS IN MY TRUCK, ASSAULTS MEI definitely agree.. I don't care if she is identified and I think she should be, was just guessing what the other user was referring to when he mentioned it being against reddit rules. I think you are right about the sources he used to identify her though, likely would be fine regardless. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/15 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Husband wants to know why men can "flirt" and women can't in a marriage (read: hypocrisy)Good for you man. I appreciate this response. So.. when I was dealing with an abusive fiery latin wife diagnosed BPD and C-PTSD- I have to tell you I got DANGEROUSLY 'beta'. There can be no more 'beta' than so beta beta's call you beta. I was codependent. I made myself responsible for my wife's feelings and sheltered her from the consequences of her actions. I literally stopped feeling feelings. My opinions didn't matter, nor did my needs and I went about filling them by trying to be 'perfect' a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/09/15 08:46 PM |
| 3 | LADY BLOCKS IN MY TRUCK, ASSAULTS MEMy wife has some issues, at the moment diagnosed C-PTSD and BPD. I've experienced enough to at least be well practiced in controlling my own temper and actions in these crazy shitshows. I thought the same thing about this guy talking threats of calling police and trying to keep arguing about the moral of the story and getting her to move it himself. It was and would always be completely unproductive. I also think this woman sure seemed a lot like how my wife acts in a tantrum, how she can flip i… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/09/15 01:43 PM |
| -7 | LADY BLOCKS IN MY TRUCK, ASSAULTS MEpersonally identifying information about others. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/09/15 01:35 PM |
| 17 | Soldier uses GoPro to prove domestic violence from wife.I am so sorry that you went through that man. I hate that it happens to anyone, but hearing your story here, now, man it is just so unfair. On the plus side- if there is anyone I would be willing to spend 33K to never see again, she'd be near the top of that list. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/09/15 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Mineral deficiencies are extremely common in the 1st world. If you’ve never specifically examined or addressed this, you’re likely suffering and don’t even know it.Oh, I had no idea.. I really need to learn more about this stuff. Thanks for the conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Mineral deficiencies are extremely common in the 1st world. If you’ve never specifically examined or addressed this, you’re likely suffering and don’t even know it.For me I think it was potassium when I was working in a styrofoam hole on the beach doing construction. At night my legs would feel like charley horses when relaxed. I started eating more bananas and it wouldn't happen those days. I'm just legitimately interested, I don't know much about this stuff. Seems like a lot of deficiencies can cause this. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Girl is upset when the man she repeatedly attacked detains her for the copsYou can only buy alcohol there (at state stores) or at restaurants. No gas station beer, no liquor stores other than the 'rarer' state stores. I hate travelling in PA or NJ. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/09/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Federal judge says California early-release program can’t exclude male inmatesI think a large part of toxic fathers is 'not being there' and this certainly doesn't help. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/09/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | [General] Male reporter becomes a "misogynist" by asking if Serena Williams is OK, somehow instructing her to smile by being concerned for her wellbeingthen that isn't equality is it..? More like inequality to promote a specific statistic to be equal to something chosen. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/15 06:25 PM |
| 1 | [General] Male reporter becomes a "misogynist" by asking if Serena Williams is OK, somehow instructing her to smile by being concerned for her wellbeingHuh, never knew all that. What health problems common to steroid use does she have? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/15 03:50 PM |
| 1 | [General] Male reporter becomes a "misogynist" by asking if Serena Williams is OK, somehow instructing her to smile by being concerned for her wellbeingIf it became an Olympic sport and if men and women competed on the same teams... there would be almost NO female players, it would be near impossible to make the cut as a female. That's why segregated sports are best for them. (non segregated is obviously great for us) | /r/MensRights | 15/09/15 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Sean Connery, aka James Bond, swallowed TRP in 1965He isn't talking about 'escalation' and getting emotional. He's saying skip all the bullshit, don't pass her test- don't even care.. That when she is being a bitch and testing his frame he doesn't like to waste time. He warns her he isn't playing, then he reminds her he's in charge and she falls in line. I don't advocate hitting women, but if he does this completely without emotion or stepping out of his frame I fail to see how he has. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 11:18 PM |
| 2 | A lady slaps man on live TV. This was third such recent incident on Indian channel. Each time previously the assaulted man used to restrain himself while the anchor would also try to put blame on man. But this debate was different. The victim male retaliated and I liked equality :)I really appreciate your contribution to the conversation. You've brought up some great topics and have personal experience to draw on. I'm really commenting because I appreciate when men act like men. You acted like a man today, you were called out on being unnecessarily antagonist (the cocksucker thing) and you really didn't get your panties in a bunch at all. You responded like a man and instead continued to really added to the conversation, thanks. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/15 10:06 PM |
| 2 | A lady slaps man on live TV. This was third such recent incident on Indian channel. Each time previously the assaulted man used to restrain himself while the anchor would also try to put blame on man. But this debate was different. The victim male retaliated and I liked equality :)Thanks for the explanation! | /r/MensRights | 14/09/15 10:00 PM |
| 2 | "Had [victim] been a woman, [District Attorney] said, the injury might have been prosecution worthy"Sorry I kept editing it while you were responding. I really don't consider 'feminist' a dirty word or a cutdown on any individual or personal level. I don't think most feminists are on-board with what (admittedly) I imagine most leaders are. I don't think feminists are bad, but the movement itself and the headlines (the extremes) and much of the results are very much 'negative' to me. I just think feminist is too broad. Every woman has a part of her that says 'yea, I'm a feminist because I care … | /r/MensRights | 14/09/15 09:50 PM |
| 4 | "Had [victim] been a woman, [District Attorney] said, the injury might have been prosecution worthy"I just think "men's rights" sounds like a group mostly concerned with men's rights... while feminist (in its current 'wave' or at least as generally discussed) typically is about women's rights.. Neither are a bastion of 'equality', but rather two sides of a scale and what I hope the silent majority of both are working towards is balancing it, because typically when they take from one side they give to the other. Feminist is a dirty word to me, but not because 'we' use it. We use it because ther… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/15 09:35 PM |
| 9 | You are better then every girlThe important takeaway here is that frame and confidence is as important as money/status/looks. Jeeze.. MoneyStatusLooks comes in here thinking the thread is about him, but /u/Kill_Your_Ego is really saying Inflate_Your_Ego to believing you're better than women to influence feelings of hypergamy. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 02:09 PM |
| 3 | RP truths get upvoted and BP comments get downvoted in an outside subredditAwesome video links. That story is pretty nuts. I wonder if it's fake though, the nature of it and all. Lemme get this straight, You're complaint is he cooks too often... too well...? -Yea.. He made me gain weight. Haha EDIT: you know what I particularly love about that video? That woman is incredibly honest. She is confused or doesn't understand her motives, but she is very truthful and blunt in them. It screams to me that her behavior along the road to divorce was trying HARD to 'push' her hus… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Girl pressures boyfriend into commiting suicide, researches methods, and after his death becomes "mental health advocate." Defense attorney argues that dead boyfriend 'brainwashed...an impressionable young girl.'They could.. they also let the DEA use their system to try to incriminate people on drug charges (then lie about it in court and do a kind of 'backwards' investigation to make it look like it was 'police work' and not the super secret spying program lead that got them in the right place and right time). The reason it will never be used to stop suicides and will be used to arrest drug users-- attempted suicide isn't a crime. Actual suicide kind of is, but the perp is dead. How the hell do you exp… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Cuddles and yapping are tools of dogs, not menYou're right! I don't know of legality, but certainly gets public. Found out my pastor had ED and was trying to have an affair with a churchgoer for years by reading the publicly posted divorce brief (or whatever it was called). There were financial 'secrets', statements about the other person's therapy session's diagnosis, all kind of personal info just from googling the name of my pastor. It seems kind of shitty of me to read it, but he was a friend and I worked with him until he suddenly anno… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 10:32 PM |
| 7 | As a father of two girls and one boy this set me off this morning on FB.No kidding.. and girls will always choose to go scantily clad trying to get looked at. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/15 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Felony charges for student who admitted she made up sexual-assault claimsForcibly?? So.. In the UK the police go out and rape a bunch of men to try and see if any of them raped a women who claims rape occurred? | /r/MensRights | 20/08/15 10:25 PM |
| 6 | When rape jokes are funnyIt isn't exclusively myth. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/15 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Another female rapist excused using words like "relationship" and "sex": Woman arrested for sex with juvenileThen 16 year olds would be getting sent to jail by the parents of their 14 year old girlfriends. In my opinion whatever age my child is no longer my responsibility should be the age of consent. Statutory rape has less to do with men's rights than it does our desires. I'd imagine that men like us made the law so we'd have legal recourse to control and protect our daughters. The real problem is less about 'what age' in the age of consent debate and more about how when the perpetrator is a man he i… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/15 09:38 PM |
| 2 | If rape culture existed....I think that is more due to the nature of the events. Murder is loud and often relatively 'public'. I don't believe in 'rape culture', at all, but rapes obviously do occur to both men and women. In both instances though, it typically occurs in private, relatively quiet, and in secret. The murderers themselves rarely video their own crime. With rape being more selective in who is typically present, why would you expect many rapists to record their crime? The facts: Rape culture isn't real, BUT ra… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/15 04:32 PM |
| 2 | A girl shared this on my Facebook. I am very proud of her.Why... I had no idea I was being raped and assaulted so frequently! Goodness- my tender feelz have been violated by my watch, dogs, the birds outside, and many a person abusing me through a telephone call while I slept. Get me mah lawyer! | /r/MensRights | 20/08/15 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Woman thinks her guy friend is being an 'asshole' because he's no longer doing nice things for her after she rejected him."He never had things going on, he was free and would have just been sitting at his house! He just wasn't passionate about things like me or struggle with the things I struggle with!" The old 'the world stops existing when I leave the room' puzzle most of us solve before pre-k. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Lifeguard gets attacked by group, woman shouts "sexual harassment"It is the equivalent to a cop saying "I feared for my life!" Of COURSE they understand the words they are saying- they are screaming social/legal Olly Olly Oxen Free. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Lifeguard gets attacked by group, woman shouts "sexual harassment"Man, Paco is a hell of a dude! He wasn't a big guy, he wasn't even particularly 'talented' at fighting... but he sure as hell didn't hesitate risk and throw all himself in there to get hurt and help for his fellow man. One good dude right there. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 04:31 PM |
| 1 | FDNY recruit failed her way into $81,000 desk jobYea, but... that's not a secretary, that's our office managerial assistant?! | /r/MensRights | 27/07/15 09:38 PM |
| 5 | AWALT: My unicorn betrayed meit probably doesn't stack up to getting some alpha peepee. peepee... am, am I doing it wrong guys? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Oregon man falsely accused of sexual assault - commits suicide while police issue restraining order and kick him out of his house.I didn't imply that. Now, don't quote me, but I have a theory that not everyone who talks about killing people on the internet is a monster or a murderer. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/15 06:57 AM |
| 5 | Oregon man falsely accused of sexual assault - commits suicide while police issue restraining order and kick him out of his house.Because he wasn't 'the monster' the judge and woman viewed and treated him as. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/15 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Oregon man falsely accused of sexual assault - commits suicide while police issue restraining order and kick him out of his house.Do we as a society not see how dangerous this actually makes it for women? If we are such realistically 'more dangerous' than and to women, then why the hell would they so egregiously incite impotent rage legally? Clearly, physically, we are not relegated to that same impotence. I've never hit a woman and can't imagine anything short of warranted self defense that I would (same as I could say my actions have been with men). Well.. even I can understand how a man who never abused his wife, was ch… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/15 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Billionaire paid $100k/month in child support for child that wasn't his after a one month marriage. Wife wanted $320k/month.I've got to be honest.. I got distracted thinking that this guy wasn't just near, but impregnated Elizabeth Hurley in her prime.. an attractive professional athlete courting billionaires... I should be reading this guys blog.... Good post OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Stoicism 101: A Primer on How to BeYou just defined multiple religions.. Christianity included. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/15 10:21 PM |
| 1 | I immediately lose all respect for men who take their wives name in marriage.Even before I 'unplugged' I was always one foot in one out at least in specific ways.. I think any rational person would be. When my wife was pregnant with my son I was thinking and talking with her how fulfilling it is in this deep-seated intrinsic way. I am proud of who I am, my lineage, my name. The only way we pass on a name in society is through men and always has been. The only way I would have full/true descendents was to have a son. Now there will be future generations carrying on MY nam… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 10:20 PM |
| 1 | The Uncanny Valley Between Alpha And Beta MalesIn my experience, they'll eventually believe what they want to believe.. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 03:24 PM |
| 10 | The Uncanny Valley Between Alpha And Beta MalesOr as is often said here- make it about you and your desire. I like your X. Rather than you have a beautiful X, or the passive You look great. I like your ass in those jeans, the focus is on you and what you like. The value to the looks are those you give, not some currency held outside your judgement. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Ask a veteran consumer behavior researcher anything.Wouldn't your test more infer that women you find to have a high SMV 'converge to a boring type of profile'? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 09:52 PM |
| 20 | The Uncanny Valley Between Alpha And Beta MalesIf her tests cannot confirm to her you were not born a wolf, then she wouldn't know or care the difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Mattress Girl just made a porno...and called it performance art.Wasn't that clearly a novelty account and sarcasm? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 05:15 AM |
| 1 | White knight gets his ass kicked in a bar, goes sobbing to r/TrollXChromosomes for validation and hugs. This is what happens to your brain on feminism.Then... By Jove- he isn't really an equal gender role / feminist! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Marriage…. if you have too… think about itMan, that is a great reply, thank you for sharing and expounding and quoting. I've liked reading some posts on your blog too. You know what is funny to me, though it is I guess common sense, the first change I made, the first advice I give to guys in the subreddit support group I spent a lot of time in learning about my wife's problems, the same thing I tell guys starting out here- we HAVE to love and accept and trust ourselves. We literally cannot offer or accept those things from anyone else u… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Marriage…. if you have too… think about itThat is a great post. I follow similar extrapolations with TRP- I strongly agree in its foundation of self responsibility, self improvement / constant progress, leading in our own lives and relationships, self assessment, self trust and filtering what I internalize. To really follow TRP, I believe one would by definition not swallow every idea from everyone, there is great truth here, but to be a man is to look in your own life and decide what you need and need to do to get where you want- who y… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Marriage…. if you have too… think about itThis sounds like a cop-out... plenty of women thirty years ago abused / divorced their husbands or cheated and stayed. There have been discontented husbands (and wives) as long as there's been marriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Marriage…. if you have too… think about itThis is great OP. Thanks for taking the time to write it up. I'm in the process of redefining my own marriage- I've been working on me half a year, it's finally starting to rebalance the marriage, but we have a LONG way to go. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 04:01 PM |
| 1 | 29, jobless, living at home -- what to do?You are right about the edit.. I had second thoughts on that bit and you confirmed it- deleted/edited. Thanks for the input | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 03:16 PM |
| 1 | 29, jobless, living at home -- what to do?This is a great run-down. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 07:40 AM |
| 3 | 29, jobless, living at home -- what to do?Every line you wrote seems to absolve you of guilt and responsibility for every step and consequence. Do you really believe this to be the case or am I reading it wrong? Rather than focus on how you are the victim, the responsible 'turn over every stone' advice and pushing of your folks (poor you, while they support you), and the injustice of being fired that had NO correlation to you or your performance / behavior- THEN how that destroyed the ONLY job interview you have been to since JANUARY. T… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/15 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Duet partner suddenly ditches me. How should I respond?You sure are able see with clear perspective and debate without devolving into defensiveness and attacks. I thought I was in the manosphere rather than the boyosphere, but I just hope I can be as emotionally calm and secure as you one day. To be clear, one can be butthurt letting people walk all over them and giving them the silent treatment, so butthurt they can only rely on defensiveness, insults, or emotional responses... OR one can be capable of controlling their own emotions and filtering w… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Duet partner suddenly ditches me. How should I respond?It may possibly even bring to light her own wrong behavior (because I promise you she doesn't see it as the grave sin you do).. it likely won't, but why not try. I'd do it for me and not her though. Hmmm. Maybe you read in portions. The point isn't to fix or help her. The point is being steamrolled and rolling over and playing dead isn't ALWAYS the best or most TRP principle.. I was saying this guy should do what he feels like he needs to do for HIMSELF, rather than the outcome it would have or … | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Women really ARE children.You are exactly right. Before I found TRP, and I'm not an often poster here, but the principles I see in TRP I'd begun growing and changing to live by in a BPD support subreddit. There, we have the understanding these situations with that girl in the youtube are 'TANTRUMS' like a child. It is emotional immaturity, the lack of proper emotional tools (babies and children should learn), healthy coping mechanisms, self-soothing (like a baby), and faulted attachment issues. You literally have to trea… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Duet partner suddenly ditches me. How should I respond?That is exactly all I suggest- you doing what YOU need/want. It isn't our mission or responsibility to raise, better, or help improve such women... my point was only if YOU feel like you'd like to (since you expressed how pissed off you were). To me, I would have previous to change, just been bitter and angry. Faded away to silence, not wanted to see or talk to her, cut her out of my life passively. Sometimes that IS the best course. There are times now though when things are said or done and I … | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Women really ARE children.I had no idea that DUI device was what she was referring to. Thank you very much for sharing and you are right. It also rather lends more weight to her potentially having a personality disorder (I see her behavior more as a personality disorder or C-PTSD or something than a 'chemical imbalance' type), but such self destructive behavior and/or drug dependence is also correlated in such things. From the news article I read on this video, the mother VERY MUCH raised her daughter in the 'victimizati… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Women really ARE children.You know, I've never heard it laid out before, but that is EXACTLY what I dealt with in my own relationship. I tried to appease that before working on and changing myself (to negative consequence), but even afterward that is an ongoing attempted tactic I have to shut down and walk past. You are completely correct, I noticed in on the micro scale, but didn't correlate it to the macro. Great point! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 04:17 PM |
| 3 | I hate my mother because of what she is doing to my stepfather. He broke down to me today and they are getting a divorce.This is GOOD advice /u/TreeBeats_ | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 06:43 AM |
| -4 | Duet partner suddenly ditches me. How should I respond?I don't know.. It depends on how 'close' you guys were to me. These other guys are right, radio silence has its place and all that. I'm all for no contact... BUT no contact is only there to protect US (or waste our time), not them (or their time). How much do you need protection from her? In total honesty, if it was me, I would still try to get a gig there, right now. I would ALSO tell her exactly what she did that was screwed up and disrespectful. I'd inform her that she is NEVER going to come … | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 06:35 AM |
| 6 | Women really ARE children.This woman in the video is NOT neurotypical. I thought my wife had Borderline Personality Disorder.. and she might, but only recently began treatment. After one visit with her the Dr. was sure she 'at least' has Complex Ptsd (which is very similar in a lot of ways, but also could be comorbid). This video is something I'm infinitely familiar with. I don't believe this girl is neurotypical. I realize women can be more emotional, more immature (men can be these things too, but we'd be lying if we d… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Need some help boys, I'm fucking up the calibrationAlso, I really can relate in the beginning to feeling guilty to 'say no'. I can understand not wanting to make boundaries at first, believing that they keep others away or 'in a perfect world' I shouldn't need them.... I was wrong. I should feel guilty saying yes when I cannot or do not wish. Doing so makes me dishonest. It makes me bitter and judge the other person (who did nothing wrong- they requested something and I CHOSE to do it). No one can make us feel or do anything. It only leads to fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Need some help boys, I'm fucking up the calibrationThere is a difference. Is it selfish to put your oxygen on first before helping others in a plane? I call it being selflessly selfish. It is pragmatic. We feed ourselves so we are stronger. We fill our needs and have integrity for us... But honestly in the end we are of more use and strength and health for those in our lives. It isn't selfish by default to be a leader and we must start by leading our own lives. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 02:47 PM |
| 1 | scored low on MACH-IV test. I want to be better. Where do I start?Literally anyone trying to 'sell you' anything- anyone with anything to gain, because people are selfish and alone in their heads. The obstacle I see is that before a man gets over 'nice guy' syndrome (to which I don't mean not being a 'nice' guy).. then he is trying to get everyone to sell him something at distorted prices. Have you read No More Mr. Nice Guy? It seems apt. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 07:57 AM |
| 1 | scored low on MACH-IV test. I want to be better. Where do I start?I'm INFP personality.. that isn't important, it just is useful as in directions. You can get great directions to where you want to go, but they are useless if you don't know where to start following the directions from. There is nothing 'wrong' with your personality... there is also nothing 'evil' about people 'playing' you. No human being can take from another. We all have free agency. We give that power away. In the most fundamental way: The reason you feel like a doormat, the reason you feel … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 07:45 AM |
| 1 | If you are a guy, whether you accept it or not you are in an "open relationship."You know what is funny.. In nearly any other forum, I do not mention this. This brings the disrespect of people who are not RP because it subverts the system. It wasn't my motivating factor, but it has always been something I am cognizant of. In a real way, ours does not fall into 'Marriage 2.0.' In our power dynamic, it is that perfect world where she never had the power and while gorgeous, was beneath me in real societal ways. I don't think she has higher SMV than I do and I DO think that is i… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 04:42 AM |
| 1 | If you are a guy, whether you accept it or not you are in an "open relationship."Don't get me wrong- I really think you are right, here and before. I just also believe women (and some men can be this way, but more commonly women) can have reality shaped or retroactively changed based on emotions. I ALSO believe that these stark changes in emotion can be shockingly rapid and quickly transitioning. I do agree with you, yours is the plan of action in any circumstance, mine is more an ideology, or the 'why'. Why sometimes a man could still be surprised even cognizant the divide … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 01:03 AM |
| 1 | If you are a guy, whether you accept it or not you are in an "open relationship."You aren't wrong in your math, but it CAN be a surprise. I believe this is the case not because of what you said (all you said was right), but because of a separate element. That representation of reality is what we see, women usually see this as well.. but we'd be lying if we didn't understand sometimes they live in what I'd deem an unreality. A place where emotions rewrite reality and memory and perception. In this way, I am sure many men with their eyes wide open have been surprised. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 07:28 PM |
| 2 | If you are a guy, whether you accept it or not you are in an "open relationship."I don't buy OP's post verbatim but it has some truth in it. Women 'can' commit, but we cannot depend on it or dominate them into it, not truly, we can make ourselves and our world attractive and they can choose our world. The feeling I'm getting from this post is that you seem to think this is inevitable a temporary thing, that she will jump ship as soon as something better shows up, and that I should always be ready for this reality. I find this to be like living in fear. The thing is, we canno… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 07:19 PM |
| 3 | If you are a guy, whether you accept it or not you are in an "open relationship."There were some great parts to this post OP. I don't buy into the 'open relationship' aspect, but it reminded me of part of my own mantra. Rather than the relationship being open because she has the ability to ruin it... I just enjoy this moment fully for what it is, as far from fear or longing as possible, and it is only possible knowing everything is temporary and finding pleasure and contentment in that. A BIG part of what helped me at the start- something transformative to the difference bet… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Need some help boys, I'm fucking up the calibrationI am NOT a TRP guru.. but my life has taught me where you failed was simply this: I don't trust myself any more. You are right that The problem is I'm not in control of my feelings and my actions. The reason is possibly that your motivations are external and it lets others control/influence you too greatly. If we do not trust ourselves, no one can. If we do not respect ourselves, no one can. If we do not LOVE and take care ourselves, we can't expect either or give either. I realize 'love' isn't … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Q&A Thread: Newbies, ask away.Well.. It didn't even work out that great in Adam's personal life- not even in a perfect world. I think fundamentally this stems from the feminist movement and the feigned 'gender equality' that is about inequality in many real ways. The leave it to beaver generation had women pigeonholed and more submissive to their men (generally) and men were seen and heard (generally again) more as the leaders of their home. I DO think this is a newer phenomenon en masse, but it stems mostly from the feminiz… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe women are less valuable than men?Oh man... So "separate but equal" should be the mantra and FINAL SOLUTION to the gender debate?! man that made me lol in your reply to the one concerned about phrases historical context. I actually agree with your point, I just had to say that your verbiage was masterful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/15 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers, why do many of you say dread game doesn't work for women?This is a great post in your true solution, the expounding on other manipulations and how/who it works, and the OP's failed purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/15 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers, why do many of you say dread game doesn't work for women?You just described methods you believe you could use to manipulate a man, then now you describe how it is 'not' manipulation because in your example the girl wasn't 'flirting'. The dread game in your example wasn't the woman's self improvement. The dread game/manipulation would be "trying" to dangle oneself in situations with specific men, specifically targeted as 'better than' the SO to elicit the specific response you desired. There is no "dread game" in self improvement. The dread game is in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/15 04:23 AM |
| 2 | An ex-PUA said that most promiscuous men have issues (!)Because plans are cheap.. I doubt he or his friends told girls they thought them ugly and a number for just a night either. In all honesty I suspect he could be looking for a LTR, I just think he's fronting PUA to get it. I don't think it is bad to work on ourselves and be more attractive, but the focus should be ourselves rather than other's perception or our value to others.. when we instead focus on seeming more attractive it is fake and aesthetic and the people we want in our lives don't kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/15 01:38 AM |
| 1 | An ex-PUA said that most promiscuous men have issues (!)If he had a PUA auro you could smell... then why would him answering your accusation/question 'oh yea, I find them filthy- but was one.. I'm evolved from that and looking for long term relationships" NOT be part of his pick up game adapting to you? I'm not saying people can't change, everyone changes every day. I just wonder what makes you so sure he changed in that way if you literally could tell he was trying to PUA you, then answered you in the best possible way to move things forward with yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/15 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Oh, reddit! Pre-emptive ban from a sub I've never even visited. Care to guess why? LOL.huh.. I was banned from there yesterday. My first Subreddit ban. I only visited once and made one post that technically doesn't break their rules.. but wasn't exactly nice to a woman that abused her family and righteously left due to her overflowing entitlement: You are so right. If I was that boy, I'd grow ever proud that the last thing I did to that deadbeat was spit in her face when she absolutely deserved it.. If she had said goodbye when she left her family and stole their pets, the kid mig… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Oh, reddit! Pre-emptive ban from a sub I've never even visited. Care to guess why? LOL.TRP living, at its core is NOT about hate (or even women) at all.. rather self-acceptance, self-growth, self-responsibility.. at least to me it is not at all about hating or disrespecting women in an unhealthy way, but instead valuing and respecting yourself in a healthy way. The people who see that as a hate message must have very fragile foundations or be reading between lines and adding meaning to tangential posts. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Men are bad.To be fair.. we talk about women quite a bit in TRP too. I didn't turn my marriage (to a beautiful but twisted) woman around by focusing on her. What you said was true and in essence I took the focus and control from her and put it on myself. It did make me more desirable to her, my self respect made me more respected by her.. when none of the focus or goal related to her. I guess I'm saying I really agree with your statement, but I think it is something we need to be careful of to not be thinki… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | "Can I make it?"Man, thanks for the post, that speech is on point. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Marriage: Red Pill on Hard ModeI very much screwed up. I didn't know of red pill, but took responsibility in my life, bettered myself, respected myself, and attracted a very beautiful woman I ended up marrying. Four years later, it becomes very clear she has borderline personality disorder. I didn't even notice as I did all the wrong moves. I dropped all my self respect and didn't realize, I had the wrong idea of marriage and tried the wrong ways to make her happy. I ended up walking myself into codependency- I do think BPD w… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Why you should listen to stand-up comedyThis is good advice. I noticed the same trend when I started working with Patrice Red Pill'ing up my headphones. A better mood, good example of a strong role in conversations or with the standup lessons in a parable-like joke. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 03:24 PM |
| 2 | I am a 19m with too many beta tendencies in a LTR with an 18f who may have BPD. Need adviceI will point out that it is theoretically possible to be with someone with BPD, whilst enforcing your own boundaries. But it takes god-tier self-awareness and probably you'd essentially be deciding that you were going to make BPD-psychiatry be your life's work. This.. this is no damn joke and painfully true. I recently realized my wife's behavior and issues were not even in the spectrum of normal. I didn't know of BPD until a few months ago. When I learned, after some vicious armageddon tantrums… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How to divorce a womanThere is no high road with her, she is a barbarian horde already inside your gates wandering around in all the sensitive areas. This is my point, you are right, she is the barbarian horde already inside my gates. My strength is in recognizing that and understanding that if I want her to leave I need to leave the gate open to make that the path of least resistance rather than corner her in my sensitive areas [that sounds dirty], and trying to fight to the death. I can't really argue with your com… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 09:17 PM |
| 0 | How to divorce a womanI'm not saying to not protect yourself, I'm saying I'd try to be (or appear/act) upright and make it easier for her to leave as quickly and dignified (and peacefully) as possible (rather than obstruct her and push or to her 'force' her to play a game of who can hurt who most). My woman is manipulative and those things you describe, she has a personality disorder trying to tear us up (that specifically accentuates her inability to see or parse empathy or others' feelings, be chaotically impulsive… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How to divorce a womanI agree. Plus, all that added attacking (back and forth) or if you successfully obstruct every aspect of her starting a life separate from you.... Then OP would just be assuring he has to deal with her longer and more than necessary. I'd rather pay more money to have someone like that (a girl who would do those things) in my life a minute more than necessary. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm really messing things up with a good man.Jeeze.. You are like a not-crazy version of my wife. Literally all the things in your OP amaze me because you are so cognizant, you recognize when there is something irrational, you give credit to him and blame to yourself where due, you consider and value his opinions and feelings, you even understand your body and his insecurities. Seriously, I know you wrote the OP and stuff thinking you are out of control or messing things up- but I see someone trying the right things in the right ways for t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/14 06:08 PM |
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