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RantShankillButcher77/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 02:54 AM
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I’m 1.5 years out and am doing not much better. I hate myself, I hate my life and I don’t really want to be a part of most of it anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/26 11:05 PM
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No
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/26 07:07 PM
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I still loved my wife and never would’ve left. But she grew tired of me. It may have been my fault, but I would’ve stayed forever. I drank a bit too much, wasn’t abusive or cheating. I was/am a very involved dad. Guess I wasn’t cutting it.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 11:34 PM
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I’m 45. It’s a grind. But I’ve found a few women similar age and social history, so it’s possible to find a mate. But I haven’t found anything amazing either.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 07:51 PM
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Maybe a pet. I always had animals and had to leave my dog and 2 cats. I can’t handle a dog, so I found an adult cat that was rescue. He is my wingman and it helps to have someone to care for.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 09:55 PM
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Drinking too much was bad for me
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/25 04:41 AM
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Just filed yesterday. So right in the thick of things. Not an easy process. I was unhappy, but she pushed me out. So I was surprised. But even in the middle of things, I see it’s for the best. For most parties, at least.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/25 04:59 AM
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Awesome man. Thanks for the encouragement. Good for you!
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 04:46 PM
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Very cool. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 09:09 PM
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I need a community. I’ve been leaning on the drink and weed too much. I need to get that right too. Thanks for your support man.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 09:08 PM
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Good idea. I have been working on mantras and self affirmation stuff. But my outlook is usually negative. Gotta keep working on that.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 02:26 PM
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I’m not saying I’m good. I was literally walking aimlessly, slowly just barely maki it through life. But a quiet calm session with yoga with Adrienne was helpful. It stopped me from freaking out. It calmed my mind. I didn’t want to jump off the balcony any more. Good luck man. Life sucks, but we can do better each day.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 02:25 PM
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Thanks. Good idea. I can do some of that stuff too.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 02:23 PM
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Thanks. I had feelings of wanting to crawl back to my wife for the first time since the separation. But I know that was just desperation. I can’t depend on others to fix or save me.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 02:23 PM
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Thank you so much for your kind words of inspiration.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 02:21 PM
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Not me. I would’ve stayed in that sad sexless marriage for my kids. I miss the hell out of them and my house. But she wanted me out. So alas. I am happier in some ways but it kills me to see me kids so little. But I guess my personal relationships matter too. So finding I have value is important at this time. Realizing I can maybe get closer to someone who loves me for me. Some hope.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 12:28 AM
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That is what I mean. I need to make the situation tougher on her or just file. Or both I guess.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/25 11:03 PM
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I wanted to ask about filing first. My situation is I am out of the house for 4 months. We have 2 kids. All my money goes into our joint account. She has no incentive to file. So I think I am going to because the sooner it’s over the sooner I can start to save some cash. I am sneaking 7% into my own account lately. Just wondering if filing first will force her hand a bit. She has no incentive to dump me fully.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/25 10:15 PM
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