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Your assumption on men being below average assumes that women only are happy with their partner if they’re attractive. A study outside of dating websites show that women are much more concerned with intelligence and personality than looks. If you project your feelings and standards onto others, your reasoning may make sense. But women don’t generally value the same things as men, and non RP people don’t generally value the same things as RPs.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 10:42 PM
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Right and I think they mean do us ugly bois ever get with the hottest women on average? Tbh statistically women date more for brains and men more for looks. You see hot women with average to ugly men often. I think what the red pill folks miss is that this men are usually good guys, not self proclaimed. If you treat a woman right she’ll date you. My aunt is/was hot, she’s older now but still considered good looking, fashionable, etc. This dude wanted to date her who is shorter, not at all hot, a…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 09:01 PM
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I don’t mean an older woman. I am older and have experienced this my whole life, and my much older mother has as well. It’s not all or even most women. But no I’m not misinterpreting, some women are jealous. Some even say this out loud. But they will talk crap behind your back and judge you more harshly because of their jealousy. I fully understand that younger women can be young and dumb and are treated a type of way for their annoying cluelessness. Not what I’m referring to.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 01:22 AM
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That’s so true. But I mean it in a different way. Not that men they date are aggressive and rude, that’s more what I was referring to when saying “treated less than human.” What I meant by the object of aggression is like cat calling followed up by verbal assault. Sexual assault in public places. Someone hitting on you or asking you out and then if you say no they either don’t take no, or try to cut you down and tell you how ugly you are or something. Also just people’s eyes on you, looking you …
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 01:19 AM
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Pretty privilege is real, although people who are not pretty don’t see some of the downsides. Such as being the target of these men’s aggressions. You can become the target of jealous womens aggression as well. Being treated like an object or valued for sexuality even when you aren’t a sexual being. Everyone is surprised if you’re smart, or another way to put it is you’re constantly underestimated. You’re never quite sure if your friends actually like you as a friend or want to sleep with you, o…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 10:54 PM
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Well that’s surely not true because the first man who said this to me was pretty darn ugly, had a minimum wage job, and no car. I hear you though. When you don’t feel you have a lot of options, you don’t have as many shady strategies. Makes sense.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 05:08 AM
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That’s good that you feel that way. I do ask men out and while they may say yes, they mention that they feel some type of way about it. They say they like to feel like they’re in a chase. I don’t like that. Once I like someone they don’t need to chase or play games.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 04:17 PM
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Well ya know there are better guides to emotional labor but since you said people needed to learn, I figured it might be more helpful to hear the perspective of someone in a similar boat. It’s hard to understand at first, but you get there.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 04:13 PM
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I have a theory from reading about how men view women from very far back in history. Men’s minds (not all) are dominated by libido and a craving for sex. Men can only see women as sex objects at some points. Men start to believe that women are purposely being sex objects because they find them to be so sexually attractive. Some women notice this and enhance their sexuality to attract partners for security and protection in a time where that was not guaranteed for unpaired women. This increases m…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 03:22 AM
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Who? Not one person. Why? Fear.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 03:13 AM
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Seems like they’re afraid of being made fun of or being made a fool. If you for instance treat someone really well and find out they’re cheating on you. You feel like an effing clown. I imagine these men just want to prevent that from happening so they never have to fail and be laughed at. Another way to look at it is sort of like when someone wants to take your picture and you make a weird face so that when your picture turns out bad you won’t feel bad cause you did it on purpose. Well these me…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 03:11 AM
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Hello there, I am a woman who does receive lots of attention and offers for dating and thought I’d give you an answer. First off, as some others have said, it’s not all women. I am naturally thin, have green eyes and smart. Makes the dudes wild. I have noticed that people who are not as thin don’t get anywhere near the same amount of attention, people who are maybe more plain also don’t get great treatment. I think that’s messed up and I honestly, as a woman, don’t much appreciate it. It feels r…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 03:05 AM
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https://radreads.co/emotional-labor-a-male-perspective/
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 02:44 AM
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I hope not. I hear men saying they are afraid of approaching women in public now. I think that needs to change if we’re to move away from online dating. There are respectable ways to ask a woman out irl and I think it’s unfair to try saying something creepy and then say all women freak out when you ask them out lol. Use more words, hello I don’t want to come off as weird but am just wondering if you’re single and would consider allowing me to take you on a date? If your respectful you’ll get res…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 02:39 AM
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