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Not if he treats me badly, which is what you said the richer/taller man would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:54 AM
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​ We only talked about the college professors. Don’t add other ones because I specifically said women don’t really find academic rigors that attractive…they’re maybe neutral at best. All those jobs require being good at school. And you started out by saying smart people are always rich. So I'm just letting you know that's a stupid thing to say. But the point was, when you’re unable to have them (aka hitting the wall), and if you were lonely and horny, you’re not gonna go for the 5’2 balding jani…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:08 PM
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I'm currently not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:31 PM
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Not better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:29 PM
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​ Academic proficiency isn’t actually a good indicator of the kind of intelligence women deem attractive. Yes, all those college professors who just can't get dates.... Let's not move the goalposts. Not every smart person is chasing riches. I’d date angelina jolie and megan fox at the same time too. But it’s not what I’m talking about Ok, well unlike you, I've successfully dated men that value my opinions and feelings and that I'm attracted to. Maybe you should lower your standards from celebrit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:58 AM
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Nah, the red pill in it's purest form is just good advice. But the manosphere took it to another level.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:06 AM
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No. I don't date people I don't want to have sex with. I will date a guy who values my opinions and feelings and who I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:05 AM
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​ Wealth is an extremely good indicator of a person’s intelligence. Yeah all those stupid idiot college professors... And if you’re gonna say that you’d rather be single than be forced to choose a 5’2 balding janitor or an uncaring Chad as a cop out, only know that you’re able to say it in the first place after giving the latter countless chances to ‘change’ and getting fed up Nah, never dated anyone I wanted to change. Not interested in that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:04 AM
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Bro, if you actually read what I'm responding to, it's manosphere content not the red pill. And if you're gonna pretend like the manosphere isn't full off woman hating you're in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:01 AM
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Richer = better intelligence Not at all true. Her opinions and feelings don’t matter because she can be easily replaced but the reverse isn’t possible….so she will NEVER be equal to him Thank you for proving my point with this statement. :) I'll only be dating men that value my opinions and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:57 AM
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Inferior as a human, not inferior as in shorter or poorer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:44 AM
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Taller richer and stronger doesn't mean "better" as in not seeing them as an equal human being whose opinions and feelings matter just as much as another man's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:42 AM
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It also teaches men to think of women as inferior to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:34 AM
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It's not deep down. We recognize the value of youth. It's rammed down our throats from birth. Doesn't mean I want to be followed to my car after work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:43 AM
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That's awesome for you. But this does make you an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:15 PM
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When it comes to dating/relationships specifically? Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:10 PM
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ND does make it harder, that's the point. ND people have to work extra hard, and depending on the severity of their diagnosis, it may never be possible to achieve desired results.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:06 PM
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Sadly, it's a feature not a bug. Especially for the military and sex work. Much easier to get an 18 year old to sign their life away than a 25 year-old that understands the repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:10 PM
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You: being ND isn't the reason for why you struggle at dating Also you: being ND is absolutely the reason you struggle at dating oh and you're lazy and you suck and I hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:07 PM
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To be fair, I don't think men or women are mature enough to join the military at 18 or do sex work or go into crippling debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:05 PM
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Ok well this is a non issue for them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:11 AM
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Sure, bro. Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:09 AM
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I'm from the US, so it's a thing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:46 AM
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It's the opposite. Most women cannot have multiple orgasms. Google tells me it's 15%-45% that can. psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/202109/how-multiple-orgasms-occur-and-who-has-them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:27 AM
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I don't disagree, but there would be overall more children if it was financially easier to have them, because the I can't afford kids people would have them and be more willing to have more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:01 AM
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Here's the thing. They're desirable over there because of money/green cards. Sure, there are exceptions for attractive men, and there's always the chance of finding something genuine. But "average man" in the US is only more attractive than "average man" abroad because of resources. Perhaps marginally more attractive than local men in some countries due to height/skin color. So those relationships (usually) are going to be transactional. Which is totally fine as long as everyone is a consenting …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:00 AM
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Idk, but plenty of guys here are more than willing to do whatever it takes to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:56 AM
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If she's going to lose interest in you for not paying for her meal was she really that interested in you? Unless you're really hot, stuff like that really does make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:42 AM
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Then it's despite his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:06 AM
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I would say not paying can be what fucks it up for some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:02 AM
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Audiobooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:01 AM
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TIL women want no meaning in their lives and men don't like to feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:00 AM
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she’ll have more orgasms than the average man will ever have. Obligatory not all women can do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:57 PM
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Abusers don't need women. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:48 PM
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I've heard of passport bros making the mistake of marrying one of those women and coming back to the west...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:47 PM
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I cannot judge the man for keeping a woman the only way that he can which is by convincing her that he outranks her and therefore she should be happy to have him Yes you can. What's wrong with you? Please let's not condone abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:35 PM
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But this is bad, because abusing women/men/people is bad....right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:17 PM
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I mean I guess, but it's probably better if they get rejected by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:16 PM
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But what if you were actually a disgusting man? Then fooling a woman into thinking that you outrank them might be your best strategy for getting and keeping a woman for a while. Disgusting as in unattractive? If that's the case you're better off getting rich/higher status or going abroad. Being an asshole and unattractive is not a strategy that works well. I personally love women too much to use that strategy of disrespecting women, but I had to stop acting like women outranked me before I could…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:49 PM
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And when they're inundated with options they start turning women down and getting annoyed at the constant "flirting" because they all know what's up and why it's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:39 PM
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Women don’t want to be with a man who is not their equal. I know what you mean, and I agree. I just don't think "treating women like garbage" is necessary or healthy. As you yourself demonstrated, exuding self-esteem/confidence doesn't require one to treat others badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:22 PM
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Reasons aren't "excuses." For example, "having kids won't make me happier" is a reason some people don't have kids. Idk why reddit today forgot what "reasons" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:09 PM
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Are they "good girls?" Or are they doing performative niceness? Or are they deeply insecure? Or are they toxic behind closed doors? Anecdotal, but I have a few women in my family that are very sweet....except to the people closest to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:29 PM
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By treating them like garbage he is signaling that he outranks them and they are lucky to have him. No, a certain type of woman feels this way. Women with self-esteem and self respect don't stay with men that treat them like garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:27 PM
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It's not an insult. It's just factually incorrect. If she's average we're all hobgoblins. She's faaaar above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:25 PM
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There's a reason for everything. You not finding joy in the idea of raising children, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:23 PM
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Income is by far not the only factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:51 AM
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I personally would pick family. I think a lot of people would.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:48 AM
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When people say "you deserve better" they mean someone that treats them well. Yes, we all deserve to be treated well. But irl, no one is telling unkempt, cheetos girl she deserves a chad for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:32 AM
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Ok, well for that to happen Cheetos and video games guy would have to get his shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:20 AM
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It’s not my job to buy you a house. It's not? Damn I thought it was. Vote for politicians who don’t flood the economy with government money if you want to lower inflation so you can afford a house. That has nothing to do with the housing crisis. Or vote for local politicians who will loosen zoning regulations in your city so the developers will build more housing. None of this has to do with having children. Well if the reason for not having children is not being able to afford housing, then yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:10 AM
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Have attractive parents is a good first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:59 AM
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The pursuit of pleasure; sensual self-indulgence. Having a child is a completely selfish act. You're having the child because you want it and think it will make you happy. Since the child is not in existence when you decide you want one, the choice is as self-indulgent as it can get. People do it to feel complete and fulfill their dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:48 AM
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We know it's false because people had more kids when they had a lower standard of living and poor countries have far more kids than rich countries. Contraception, sex ed, and societal pressure to have kids. I'm not so sure they'd be having so many kids if they had great access to contraception and sex ed. Take away the pressure and workplace sexism and I'd bet the poorest countries would have the lowest birth rates. Poor people don't have more kids because they're poor. If anything, it's because…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:47 AM
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Yes. And the fact that her face is better than the average woman her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:41 AM
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Rules 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:40 AM
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The average american woman is 5'4'' and 170lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:54 AM
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And everyone has a reason for why they're childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:43 AM
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That's just you. Lots of people don't have kids because of money. That being said, there's a reason for everything, whether its money or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:29 AM
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I don't think thats true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:29 AM
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This thread is about why people don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:05 AM
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It's not, friend. This is a discussion as to why a lot of people don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:04 AM
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Yes it is. Having a family can be a very hedonistic pursuit when you can afford a nice life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:53 AM
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Do you think if a guy’s wife started giving him sloppy seconds a few times a week that he would notice? Many men are surprised to learn they were cheated on. So....clearly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:42 AM
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It's also what I call my period, and I was on my period when I made this account.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:40 AM
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Europe is also having a housing crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:40 AM
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You want me to quote some exact figure that you can then look up or something, but that isn’t possible here Ok, so you can't prove your claim. Got it. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:38 AM
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No I'm not. Life sucked for all those moms. They just didn't have the contraception/lack of social pressure we do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:37 AM
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Ok, buddy, with YOUR girlfriend, how long did it take for her vagina to change after sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:25 PM
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Yeah, I like....can't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:25 PM
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Yeah, it fucking sucks. Back when one parent could stay home it was totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:24 PM
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Yes. They are making the choice not to have a child because they can't afford one. Daycare costs, on average $800/month. Add rent, diapers, rent/mortgage/car/bills. Then all the time you don't have to spend with your child because you have to work. Kids have to be picked up and driven around. Have medical issues. They take up your very limited free time b/c employers guilt you for taking any time off/don't give enough time off. Why would I bring a child into this mess? So they can have a stresse…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:05 PM
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It's the housing crisis and long work hours. More people would have kids if they could afford a decent dwelling and not have to live at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:52 PM
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Giant forehead, eyes too far apart, thinning hair, big nose, without tons of makeup she's mid. Most women without makeup look significantly worse than Margot without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:38 PM
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There would be no men to "bail her out" of either the pregnancy or the trauma of being pumped and dumped. Sure there would. Because even non-simps aren't immune to being lonely and horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:37 PM
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How long does it take to return to normal? Since you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:36 PM
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If so, how would you know how a vagina feels around a penis and how quickly it returns to “normal”? How quickly does it return to normal? You're an expert apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:35 PM
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If men find Margot Robbie average, men find most women to be invisible swamp monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:09 PM
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I mean, if she's a 9 or 10, what are they? Also 9s and 10s. I mean Gigi Hadid and Margot Robbie are not that different looking. 9s and 10s can all look different. All these women are fit with beautiful faces. A mid/average woman in real life is no where near Margot Robbie or any of these women. I think our standards for celebrities are much higher than our standards in real life because we're comparing celebrities to other celebrities not comparing them to people in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:01 PM
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Are you saying Megan Fox is not mid?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:44 PM
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Im not entertaining this Tiktok belief on mental illness, so stop right there. It's not a tik tok belief. You can google it. All mental illnesses exist on a spectrum. Someone can be depressed and go to work, someone can be depressed and be unable to get out of bed, someone will be so depressed they kill themselves. This does not mean everyone is mentally ill. That being said, it sounds like you understand that insecurity has a cause and that no one wants to be insecure. So given that you know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:44 PM
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​ Could his partner start having sex often with another man (sometimes both guys in the same day), and our hypothetical guy not notice after some period of time? Your vagina goes back to it's original state pretty quickly after intercourse, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:28 PM
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Halle Berry currently?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:26 PM
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Mental illness is a huge spectrum. There is no such thing as "truly" having it or not. Someone can have mild anxiety and be insecure. Insecurity doesn't just happen out of nowhere. It's caused by trauma, or life experiences, or upbringing, or bullying, or health, or appearance, etc. There's always a cause and people can't just erase a part of themselves. No one that is insecure wants to be insecure. But you can't just "stop."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:25 PM
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We're talking looks not personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:15 PM
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Frat party.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:08 PM
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I seriously cannot stand insecure people. Do you struggle empathizing with insecure people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:08 PM
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No one cares what age people are in college. But yeah, if you're too old and start hitting on the 17-year-olds in your classes it can get weird. But that's not because they're old and in college, it's because they're old and not attractive enough to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:07 PM
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Those of you that think Margot Robbie is mid, which female celebrities do you think are not mid? Edit: Looks-wise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:05 PM
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she's a long way from a 10 What celebrities are a 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:03 PM
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What a disgusting monster. -PPD men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:03 PM
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If no man was a simp the dating market would look the same. Women are just less horny. If "unattractive guy" went from simp to not simp he would go from needy nice guy to creepy asshole. At the end of the day women are always going to want the hottest men and men are always going to be horny enough to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:59 PM
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It's against men. Don't you know if a man wants to be a teacher he must be a pedophile. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:57 PM
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Uh no. Men don’t care about a woman’s money. Tell that to Ivana Trump's boyfriend. Or Brittney's now ex. Or every other guy on 90 day fiance. Plenty of male gold diggers out there, friend. Men have cared about women's money since the dawn of time. They just don't care about it when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:48 AM
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Yes. Sadly, the average man will never have that. Just how rich/attractive 50 year old women date hot young men. Most average woman will not have that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:26 AM
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Men don't peak at 50. Men have the most dating options at 50, though those options are limited to older women. Two very different things. Everyone peaks in their 20's-30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:58 AM
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Taylor Swift is very pretty. Margot Robbie is absolutely also very pretty. Neither are mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:22 AM
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Chill women don't. Neurotic ones do. People with a savior complex aren't chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:32 AM
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It's both. Same with toxic femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:22 AM
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No, when hot guys are assertive everyone gets what they want. When your "average guy" nerdy boyfriend is selfish he nuts after 4 minutes and rolls over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:20 AM
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How do you know the cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:18 AM
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How do you know who is a gangster at the bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:55 AM
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Many of the actors on the show were also writers/producers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:53 AM
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Chill women generally want chill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:52 AM
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Name a not mid female celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:51 AM
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White, not famous Lizzo Tess Holiday is pretty famous and well known for a shit personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:10 PM
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Most of those people would consider themselves to be health-conscious in their diet, as most people’s understanding of a healthy diet is about eating junk and treats in moderation, not cutting them entirely. That's totally fine, and not really disproving what I'm saying. You can define healthy diet however you want, that doesn't make it healthy. You're not eating treats in moderation if you are obese. Either way, the diet I am describing is a far cry from the usual rhetorical picture of an obese…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:05 PM
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I do tend to use fat as my word of choice in these convos, but sure, if you want to dial in on obese people exclusively, I can do that. That's been the conversation from the very first, original comment. I'm not dialing it up, you're dialing it down. It’s extremely easy to eat a caloric surplus of sugar and carbs, and many people do, and many people do that while also living an active lifestyle and eating a lot of veggies and protein. Eating veggies doesn't cancel out sugar and carbs nor does it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:31 PM
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There are a vast number - and a sizable percentage - of people who would fall in that group. No there isn't. You're just making that up. Of all obese people it's a tiny, tiny minority. Most obese people are not active. You keep saying fat. We're talking about obese people specifically, not overweight folks. I always find it weird when people in these posts make it out like there is one way to be fat - it’s extremely commonplace, it stands to reason there would be many ways to arrive there. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:05 PM
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I know there exist active obese folks, but this is a conversation about steriotypes and obesity not outliers. The stereotype holds true. The vast, vast majority of obese folks are not living an active lifestyle. Occasional activities, like a monthly hike, don't add up to an active lifestyle. In terms of a healthy body weight/healthy diet there are almost no obese folks save for extreme outliers like athletes of people with very rare diseases that have a truly healthy diet. It's a minority of a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:42 PM
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Totally. That's a minority of people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:34 PM
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Ah yes, because it's common for the average obese american to be an athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:34 PM
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The stereotype that obese people don't go running and bouldering and don't eat healthy doesn't hold?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:56 AM
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Our natural wiring is to kill, rape, hoard resources, compete, and reproduce, like most other animals. Humans are animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:53 AM
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If you as a woman choose to pick a dumb, narcistic man, instead of a shy, empathetic, intelligent man, Except in real life, shy men are just as likely to be dumb and un-empathetic as outgoing men. Being unattractive and socially awkward does not equal good person/empathetic/intelligent. Being hot and good with women does not equal bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:51 AM
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Agreeableness and submissiveness and people-pleasing are all very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:47 AM
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40% wash out Still waiting to see this statistic you made up anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:43 AM
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Well this contradicts your original statement and is outdated. It's 22% not 40%, and they didn't quit the profession, they stopped working full time. It's also not "doctors" but just a single type of doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:20 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:01 AM
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Men are still privileged group Can you explain to me in what ways are men a privileged group?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:01 AM
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I made a comment on a post that suggested that men are gonna take away women's rights if something doesn't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:56 PM
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Imma copy and paste what he said just for you: "You complain "why does the solution have to be taking women's rights" but then you propose no alternative so why the hell even say this in the first place. Sorry if this makes you uncomfortable but 50% of the population is men, if there is no alternative they will inevitably pursue what is known to work in order to solve their problems, are you that shocked ?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:49 PM
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I'm sure the men here would be happy to complain about all the things women do wrong in bed. Yesterday I was chatting with someone who saw no issues taking away women's rights so he could get a wife. People do be shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:39 PM
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I believe that. But this doesn't disprove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:07 PM
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*of people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:06 PM
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Saying women like an emotional connection is a fact. Idk why you're thinking it "pedestalizing" them to say that. You're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:05 PM
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It's not. Stop listening to shitty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:02 PM
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When women first started fighting for it, what do you thin happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:00 PM
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Naw man, every other thread about that talks about making friends and having a strong social circle. You've projected your own issues on that piece of advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:02 PM
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Which is why I'm so vociferously against this idea of "being happy with yourself first". Subjecting yourself to even more solitary confinement is a batshit upside-down world answer to that problem Being happy with yourself first includes building strong, platonic relationships, friend. It's the opposite of solitary confinement and the last thing I or anyone else would recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:08 PM
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Have you gone to therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:06 AM
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propose no alternative so why the hell even say this in the first place. Men not getting women is the alternative. There are only two options. Take away the rights of other people or be single. Ladies, this right here is why feminism still matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:54 AM
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You don't care if women lose their rights?????????? Dude, wtf. And I did answer your question. Some men don't get relationships. Women aren't gift cards we give men for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:44 AM
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​ I am not advocating to take away women's rights but the fact remains that the only time in history when most men were able to get into relationships was when women had less rights lol. Yeah. So some men don't get to be in relationships. Because you don't want to take away women's rights, right? You have empathy and respect women as people and believe they, like you, deserve rights....RIGHT? Because you're not entitled to another human being, right??????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:26 AM
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I simply related my experience with some small amount of latency. So you were dishonest from the beginning and being dramatic. Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:32 AM
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Except I'd argue that (most) men aren't really privileged b/c of their gender at this point in history. Women have lots of problems related to being women, but so do men. It's very close to balanced right now. We're not there with race.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:48 AM
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40%+ of female lawyers, doctors and engineers quit the profession within 4 years of licensing. And how many men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:41 AM
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He doesn't care if the woman loves him or how she feels. He wants a bangmaid to meet his needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:40 AM
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Why is the solution to these dudes not being able to get laid always to take away women's rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:38 AM
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This is largely because many men (and women) mistakenly equate being emotional with showing emotions. You can show emotions is an emotionally mature way, or you can trauma dump your depression in a toxic way. Most people (men and women) do the latter. Men get more shit for it. But women don't lose interest if a man shows emotion in a healthy way. They lose interest when they realize that their strong man, deep down is sad, out of control, and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:13 AM
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Go to bars, meet them at school, join some clubs, church, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:10 AM
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I thought it was a nice change of pace to demonstrate that it's unfair to paint us all as one-dimensional avatars who only exist on Reddit. I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't assume anyone is a one dimensional avatar. But all anyone has is the information you choose to share. And you chose to say your life feels like going through a shredder so... Quick, call him a bunch of names, tell him he's a misogynistic scumbag, maybe we can still get a few last pops in before he does it. That'll s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:59 AM
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Ever met unhappy/miserable people in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:39 AM
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Iran, Iraq and Egypt are all quite different culturally. None of them keep women under lock and key. There's like 80+ in Iraq's parlament, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:57 PM
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No. Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:40 PM
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​ But you didn't want to think the best of me, did you? You, like many others here, simply assumed that I was a miserable lazy Cheeto-dusted couch monster who was going to invite a woman with low self-esteem to come and feed me sandwiches so I don't die of malnutrition in my degenerate funk. Bro, that's your own fault. You're the one that talked about being desperate and depressed and doing hobbies feeling like a shredder. You expect anyone to read that and be like, oh what a happy, healthy guy?…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:39 PM
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I'm talking about participating in a relationship between two people which provides mutual benefit, something which many people enjoy and find great pleasure and happiness in, something which I have been deprived of for a very significant period of time. You said you're miserable alone, find no happiness in hobbies or school and you asked what codependency is. I was really answering your question. I want the happy, just like everybody else. Doing nice things with other people makes the happy. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:14 PM
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Depends what middle eastern country.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:04 PM
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​ I do. That's why I'm still here arguing. If I'd given up, I wouldn't be. Great! I mean "not given up" is a pretty low bar. All that "having been treated like shit" stuff, that's why I believe in myself enough to think it's my turn. Because I'm defiant. I'm determined. I refuse to let that past history fuck over the rest of my life. I'm also inexperienced and anxious, but I'm not going to let that stop me, I just haven't figured out the mechanism to ride over that yet. Great! Therapy is amazing…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:38 PM
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But what if the honeymoon phase ends...and you're still happy? Then great! That's not usually what happens, but hey, I'd be happy for you/anyone if it worked out that way. I could go back and forth about nihilism but I'd rather not. I'll end on the fact I've had several girlfriends and spent most of my adult life in relationships, I know I'm at my best in one and reject the belief that there's something wrong with me for being meh about the daily grind without someone to share it with. Meh is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:35 PM
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who feels very lonely because of it, isn't going to feel better with relationships? Oh I'm sure you'd feel better with one. At least temporarily. Definitely for the first few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:32 PM
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To each other, yes, openly. Not to western man they want a greencard from lol. But they'll openly hate local men. Eastern men very openly hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:00 PM
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If you experience pain when you've not eaten you gotta figure out why you don't like feeling hungry. See how nonsensical that is? Yes. This analogy is nonsense. You experience pain because you've not eaten and the solution is to eat. You experience loneliness when you're not in a relationship and the solution is to find love. The lack of relationship is not the cause of people feeling unhappy without one. You can both be a happy, complete person and desire a relationship. Which is a perfectly ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:59 PM
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No, a relationship alone won't make most people happy - but it can be the deciding factor between not giving a shit and looking forward to tomorrow. Until the honeymoon phase is over and you find yourself in a relationship and miserable. It's normal and healthy to want intimacy and to be much happier in a happy relationship....but if a relationship is the difference between looking forward to tomorrow and not giving a shit....the problem is you not the lack of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:57 PM
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Yes, it seems like an easy and west split generally speaking of culture. Do you think it's unfair to say that open man hating only exists where men have allowed it while the inverse is not true ie eastern women cannot hate on men but men can hate on women? Eastern women absolutely hate on men. I would just say eastern men hate on women at about equal rates if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:22 PM
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​ Have you tried being alone, involuntarily, for years and years, with nobody but your own company (or abusive parents, who you try to pretend don't exist), trying desperately to focus on anything you can grab hold of and pretend matters to you more than anything else in the world? Even if you love that hobby, it will eat you alive. You gotta do hobbies outside and with people, not by yourself, like a sports team. I see we have another person with a history of relationships telling us how it's d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:20 PM
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Yes. Man-hating is acceptable right now in the west. And that's very shitty and damaging. Plenty of woman-hating out there though. Just as shitty and damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:06 PM
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It means develop good self-confidence and self-awareness. Healthy coping mechanisms. Strong friend group, hobbies, and interests. Ability to support yourself financially. Throwing yourself into hobbies should not feel like going through a shredder. Idk how that's even possible, but it's definitely messed up. Being happy alone isn't about doing x thing. At it's core, it's about liking/loving yourself. A lot of people hate themselves (often unknowingly) and therefore hate being alone. You can defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:05 PM
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Wanting a girlfriend is not the same as feeling like you can't be happy without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:54 PM
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That's a recipe for disaster the second something goes wrong in the relationship, and it's pretty much a guarantee of disaster no one finds needy, desperate, partners sexy. When your partner realizes your happiness hinges on them....oof. Who wants to date someone depressed? Who's like, I really wanna find someone thats depressed unless I'm in their life? Toxic, controlling people maybe... If you're lonely when you're alone you gotta figure out why you don't like your own company. A relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:53 PM
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Both are equally shitty takes. The kind of people that think/feel this way are in need of mental health help.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:41 PM
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This isn't how benefits work. Your example doesn't make sense to me at all. Why are they making the same if they work less at the same job? Why does the person working 14 hours need benefits? Not a good analogy imo. Regardless, the people working 14 hour days in the real world are benefitting from poor people receiving benefits. And I don't mean in the feel-good way, I mean it's beneficial to our economy to give people benefits over having people starve and be homeless. Benefits are subsity for …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:53 PM
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Only a few men get back what they put in the system. Get outta here with this manosphere bs. You get schools, roads, a society without starving children, a safety net, social security, medicare, a military, a government, police, fire, medical services, a lawyer if you need one, the park that the homeless addicts destroyed gets cleaned up, disability if you need it, libraries, and......your child that you abandoned gets 3 meals a day a roof over it's head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:23 PM
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Buddy, nerds/incels/average dudes are just as likely to be narcissists or sociopaths. The idea that all narcissists are good with woman is such a weird myth. Plenty of unattractive, socially awkward people are also narcissistic and even sociopathic! You're not better because you don't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:17 PM
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Sounds like someone that's never been to a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:15 PM
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Vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:58 PM
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Lack of self-awareness isn't a gendered problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:32 PM
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That it's still not socially acceptable to get mental health help in conservative circles. I live in a very conservative area. The people here are just as depressed as anywhere else except they'd never admit to it and just drink alcohol and get angry on the daily to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:29 PM
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Don't be with a woman that's gonna cheat on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:25 PM
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Chairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:21 PM
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essentially nothing has changed except the words women use to describe polygamy. women are the main supporters of polygamy. What's changed is no one is forcing women to be a part of that and people are free to do whatever. Thats a pretty big difference. That being said, multiple women causally dating the same man isn't polygamy. They aren't married. Pretty much all serious relationships are monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:54 AM
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I mean I don't assume people are telling me everything about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:56 AM
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It's totally a thing. There was a thread on ask reddit about it a while back. Many men were equally surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:53 PM
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First time for a woman Women get post nut clarity. Idk why there's this myth that they don't. Many of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:48 PM
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So you were still hooking up for 'normal' reasons, such as attraction and sex. No, I was doing it because everyone else was and it was thrilling. Hooking up wasn't really necessary to get attention and I wasn't doing it because I wanted to have sex. The sex just wasn't bad one of the times, which is what I mean by good experience. Everything was consensual and respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:11 PM
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Really? What would men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:43 PM
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The first guy was attractive and it was a good experience. The second was fairly attractive but it was not good. I find the best experiences (for me) have been within relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:42 PM
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Yes. My freshman year college friend group had a very...progressive culture around hooking up, which I no longer agree with. I've hooked up with guys just "for the experience"/for the thrill of it/because it was encouraged and I did it to "fit in". I expected the actual sex to be bad. One time it was a good experience. Another time it was worse than expected. That was enough for me to learn it's not worth the risk. After a friend got assaulted during a hookup I never did it again. That same girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:26 PM
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It's just biology. If women had the same sex drive as men there would be abandoned babies on every corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:19 PM
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Women can open Tinder and find a top tier guy to hook up with. No, they can't. Top tier guys have enough options they don't need to sleep with average women. They can get a guy out of their league, but not a top tier guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:18 PM
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High value men aren't immune to breakups and divorces. In fact, they're the exact same men as average men, just hotter and wealthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:19 PM
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It's the same quality of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:23 PM
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Women say that no matter what age they are. Fit 21 year olds say that. Cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:43 PM
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Most feminists are "sane." Sane people tend not to spend all their time voicing their every shitty thought online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:09 PM
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This is why I always say, that despite what the RP claims, men just want a mother they can fuck not a teenage virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:07 PM
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18-21 year old men aren't full grown adults. Or women. People that expect teenage men to act like adults at 18 are shitty or stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:05 PM
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In my grandparents' village in Siberia everyone worked the farms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:03 PM
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Women will have children with literal broke criminals if they're hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:35 PM
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Doesn't mean he's not settling. Feeling lucky you got something doesn't make that thing your first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:34 PM
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I was never catcalled. Go to any big city and walk down the street by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:48 PM
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The default is young. You have to actively search for MILF because the default is a young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:45 PM
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He's settling too. I'm sure if "man" had to pick between "average woman" and "hot woman" he'd pick "hot woman." But "hot woman" isn't interested so he settles for "average woman." Everyone that isn't really hot gets fat and settles in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:42 PM
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Since visual attraction is not that important to women in genera It is very important to women. Men settle with visually unappealing women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:40 PM
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It's always nice to see men that think this eventually realize that if a woman takes care of herself, she'll be swimming in good options well into her 40's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:38 PM
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You only think you understand someone based on what they've told you or shown you. No... The person you understand the most of all and share a bed with can be fucking your best friend. Yes. This isn't a revelation. You only know about people what they want you to know. Incorrect. Maybe you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:12 AM
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I'm glad you took the time to inform the people of PPD that you can't read minds? People can understand each other and not know each other's every thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:06 AM
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Depends on the woman. Hoping he'll change his mind, in denial about her feeling, etc. This is kinda a separate issue tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:05 AM
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Women can't be understood at all You ^
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:03 AM
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They both are techincally fuckzoned at that moment. That's not being fuckzoned. That's just casually dating. Fuckzoned is when the girl wants to date and the guy has made up his mind that he doesn't, and just wants her body for sex, and treats her accordingly. Very different than a guy having sex with a girl he likes and is getting to know. If there is no lying involved then yes, the woman makes that choice. Just how men make the choice to be in the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:39 AM
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Women can't be understood at all and it's a waste of time trying. Just because you don't understand them doesn't mean they're hard to understand. You can't understand women. Which means you can't understand people in general. Lots of men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:37 AM
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Is sex not a form of intimacy? It can be, but when you're in the fuck zone, it's not. You're just a living means to an end. Like a really nice vacuum or a sponge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:26 AM
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"Fixing stuff around the house for scraps of attention" does not equal nice person or good person. He's just desperate, which is unattractive. Desperate, needy men are capable of being just as cruel and mean and horrible as "chad." They're just also unattractive. So it's a worse deal for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:09 AM
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tall jacked It's this and his confidence, not him being "bad." If he were a mean racist and ugly and insecure he would be called a creep and avoided at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:08 AM
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Wanting a serious relationship/being in love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:06 AM
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The risk of divorce. You sacrifice career for family, and if you divorce with no protections, you end up poor and way behind career-wise. And the older one is the harder it is to build a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:44 PM
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Of course it means something. Anyone that says otherwise is lying. Of course women like attractive, wealthy, men with strong, confident personalities, which is 99% of romance protagonists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:36 PM
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It doesn't but if a woman/man makes sacrifices in her/his career to have /care for children marriage helps offset that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:28 PM
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Sure. This doesn't go against what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:39 PM
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That doesn't make it not male nature. When those men have a choice, they're not gonna choose the needy/desperate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:11 AM
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I will also say, if you are the best sex of a woman’s life, you won’t see much drop at all in desire after the honeymoon phase. This is super untrue. The honeymoon phase has a lot of hormones released that stop and her libido returns to normal and gets lower as she gets older. Then add kids and stress and it doesn't matter who you are, sex frequency will go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:40 PM
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Visceral attraction can overcome a lot of issues that appear. This goes away after the honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:52 PM
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It's male nature too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:50 PM
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It's not anyone's fault, it just is. Like yeah, it sucks for those men that women don't want them....but like women are and should be allowed to choose who they want and don't want. It's just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:48 PM
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a charming and non-creepy way I think the point is unattractive men come off as creepy with the same approach as attractive men. Which is totally true. And it doesn't matter how charming you are, for 99% of men if you're unattractive you won't get women at nightclubs and bars. Then there's the whole thing of being "charming." It's incredibly hard for someone to learn to be charming if they naturally aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:47 PM
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So according to you, you commit to someone you lust after and that's love? You can't love someone without committment? Cause I personally think love should come before commitment...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:30 PM
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According to your logic you can't have love before commitment because that's "lust"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:32 PM
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Short flings doesn’t mean more love, long term commitment does. Disagree with ya on that. People fall in love pretty quickly, but that doesn't always result in long term commitment, unless you think you need to be together long-term before you can fall in love? I don't think anyone thinks that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:17 AM
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Indifference isn't something they "do" to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:21 AM
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Unless you happen to be an elite female weightlifter or something I think most women can manage physical tasks on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:18 AM
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Pretty sure the girl on the right is Crystal Harris, Hugh Hefner's widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:16 AM
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She's still gonna consider him conventionally ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:14 AM
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People fall in love more times because they aren't getting married to their first boyfriend. People marry for love more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:13 AM
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From my step-dad. Public harassment (largely from older men) started shortly after and decreased in my early 20's when I started to look like an adult, which is when I started to get more attention from men my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:11 AM
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​ Men are at the bottom of our social pyramid IN REALITY. Patriarchy is a laughable boogeyman used by the most successful political movement in humanity's history, that is an unchallenged world champion of Oppression Olympics, with nobody to ever challenge that in sight. Feminist's version of patriarchy isn't reality, but that doesn't make the patriarchy not real. It existed and exists in many parts of the world (outside the west). It's just a system of government where men hold power and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:57 PM
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Patriarchy doesn't cater to "men" and never has. Patriarchy caters only to rich/powerful men. Patriarchy is why men, not women, were sent to die in wars or were slowly worked to death. Patriarchy was never a system for "men" it was a way for men in power to exploit people as much as possible. It put both genders into shitty roles and exploited both to the maximum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:50 PM
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That's why (and many other reasons) I'm not a feminist. The patriarchy isn't just what kept women from having equal rights. It also is what forced men to die in wars, and destroyed men's bodies for cheap labor. The only benefactors of patriarchy are the people at the top
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:47 PM
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Working class men aren't the oppressors in patriarchy. They're also the oppressed. The oppressors are rich men/men in power. Regular men and women both suffered tremendously, and still do. Women are still not being forced to die in wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:44 PM
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No, that makes zero sense, as patriarchy is touted not simply a system created by men, but a system CREATED FOR MEN. No, feminists that don't know what they're talking about say that. It's a shit system for everyone. And the "for men" bit is not a minor thing, it's foundational, as without it, you cannot blame a random person of certain gender of being "privileged" just for having a dick and identifying with gender given at birth. Men are not privileged in patriarchy, rich/powerful/high status m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:41 PM
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Fun fact, patriarchy is terrible for men too! Gender norms are partly why these things happen!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:26 AM
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I did. The genetic difference is that they hold on to fat because of going on long journeys in the past when food was scares. The genetic difference ultimately results in them having a slightly slower metabolism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:46 AM
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he still views her like she was when they met This isn't true. Huge amounts of men cheat on perfectly good women, and many more would if they could. Humans aren't naturally monogamous. Men are biologically programmed to wanna have sex with as many women as possible. When she hits menopause, he's gonna lose attraction, resent her, and cheat if he can. The men that don't are a minority. There's nothing wrong with this (male nature) unless we're lying about it. Women need to accept that for most me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:05 AM
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But how they react to food compared to non-pacific islanders is genetic. They have a slightly slower metabolism meaning they need slightly less food. If that's a predisposition to obesity, then 100% of old people are predisposed to obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:59 AM
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I can't speak for new york, but this is not a thing for the average California woman. I'm pretty sure it's not for the average NY woman either. You're just in some weird social media algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:54 AM
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This article is a great discussion of the genetic element, addressing how their genetics haven't changed while BMI has. https://gizmodo.com/how-a-powerful-obesity-gene-helped-samoans-conquer-the-1784266550
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:13 PM
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It's not mass, it's fat. It's not genetics, it's calories. Feel free to link anything that proves otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:56 PM
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Can you link me any study/website/article that supports your claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:30 AM
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No I'm saying that their body is less able to efficiencly process the calories Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:56 AM
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You're making this up. How so? Is 100 calories of processed food going to effect them differently than others?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:54 AM
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Are you saying Native Islanders require fewer calories to gain weight? You have anything to back this up? Because from what I understand they're just consuming too many calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:29 AM
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They were not an obese nation until their land was destroyed and they were forced into reliance on cheap processed food. It's not genetics. It's just food/calories in/calories out. Genetics is things like their large body frames, but that has nothing to do with obesity and body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:12 AM
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Dude, the facts are that they all had normal BMIs and were nowhere near the fattest nation until their land was destroyed by phosphate farming so people were pushed into consuming cheap, processed food as unprocessed food became too expensive They might have large body frames but that has nothing to do with body fat and obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:08 AM
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There are genuinely people that believe things like this to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:50 AM
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Theres a really sad history as to why that is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:06 AM
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Hey, I know some of them wouldn't, which is great. But a majority totally would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:25 PM
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This is like when men say don't ask women for dating advice—don't ask men for dating advice as a woman. The whole submissive thing is what they think they want....but it's not what they go for or actually want. In my experience, and despite what anyone says, men strongly prefer women that are not submissive, especially sexually. They want women that are very sexual, confident and take charge in the bedroom. They want a woman that wants them, initiates, and does the work, and then lets them be li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:57 PM
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He's like 100x hotter than any 40 year old on OLD in my area. Good for him..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:47 PM
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would you fuck a 14yo if it was legal? also, would you rape if it was legal (undeniably evolutionarily favorable). would you prefer to has as many LTR partners as possible rather than just one? I think we both know that they would if they could, and when they could they did. For hundreds of years. And in places where they can....they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:46 PM
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Fun fact, the US is not the fattest nation, it's not even in the top 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:42 PM
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Sure. I just see a lot of men say women don't like emotional intelligence, but then the "emotional intelligence" is "I cried to her for 3 hours about how my life sucks and I'm worthless and depressed."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:39 PM
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Not at all. Someone that gets angry and screams at you for burning dinner is not emotionally intelligent. Someone that cries because you said you didn't like their haircut isn't emotionally intelligent. Someone that trauma dumps on people isn't emotionally intelligent. Being emotional is not the same thing as being emotionally intelligent. Emotional intelligence is being able to understand other people's emotions and being able to understand and manage your own emotions in positive and healthy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:10 AM
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I've had men lie about being taller multiple times with tinder dates. I personally don't care about a few inches as long as he's over 5'5'' so it's all good. If he lied and said he was shorter I'd be more put off because that means he's too socially inept to know most women like tall men and that's weird, but neither would be a deal breaker. I did have a guy lie about his weight (skinny in pics and heavy irl) and that was a deal-breaker instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:14 PM
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Looks and money will get you women. Emotional intelligence will get you a happy and healthy long-term relationship after you get a woman. But emotional intelligence won't get you women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:09 PM
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There are not many men looking for old and wrinkly women. Most men are because most men can't get 18-24 year olds. So unless you're Chad, you will be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:07 PM
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Weakness is not emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:06 PM
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With this kind of thinking the end of the honeymoon phase is gonna hit you really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:05 PM
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Most jobs that put your lives at risk/destroy your aren't honorable. But they have to pretend like they are to get men to do them and keep generating profit off your bodies until they're done with you and throw you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:26 PM
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As other commenters have said, plenty of jobs destroy your health and/or put your life at risk. The difference is that society decides that some exploitation is degrading while other exploitation is honorable. It's all about perception, which is what "sex work is work" is trying to change. Choosing to be a sex worker should be seen as a career choice. Sex/creating sexual content is a service people can choose to provide. It's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:24 PM
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Socialism won't change anything. It doesn't matter what political system you have when the people on top are greedy/corrupt. It's not the system that's the problem, it's humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:01 AM
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It's definitely work for many. Some are exploited, some are working in the field by choice and are happy with that choice. It's not more exploitative than a lot of other jobs for a lot of people. This is excluding people that are trafficked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:59 AM
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It's a Christian school and they have their own requirements just like another job would require a certification So you'd be ok with liberals firing people for not agreeing with them? Let's say they label it a "liberal job." Now it's all good? Or if liberals use a very progressive interpretation of christianity to fire conservatives, that's ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:22 PM
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I'm just giving you an example of conservatives firing people they don't agree with. It doesn't matter if it's a christian school, Amazon, or a mom and pop shop down the street. Firing someone for not meeting your religious standards or political views is all the same. Believing in sky daddy doesn't make it any more right or wrong, nor does it justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:33 AM
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She got fired because they don't agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:41 PM
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It doesn't matter how much money you have. It matters how much you spend on her. She's not gonna care if you're a billionaire if you won't marry her/spend money on her. Money is only attractive if it's shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:32 AM
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Like the christian school that just fired a teacher for getting pregnant out of wedlock? Damn leftists....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:08 AM
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I think what she means is she finds men that call themselves alpha males toxic, which is different. I think an actual "alpha male" knows better than to call themselves that. They're just gonna be a confident person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:06 AM
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why would you say that at all then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:43 AM
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Where did I say that it does?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:04 AM
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True. People want to force monogamy on us, but it's not what is good for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:18 AM
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Yep. People are finally free to marry for whatever reason they want and leave whenever they want. Humans aren't naturally monogamous so this is what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:46 AM
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Those are the ones making exorbitant amounts of money. Your average sex worker doing it by choice is 100% not making exorbitant amounts of money. Go to r/SexWorkerSupport if you wanna get a more realistic idea of what it's like. Most sex workers (that aren't exploited/trafficked) make very average amounts of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:47 AM
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Yeah, it's stupid. Lots of sex workers work by choice and don't feel exploited. It's weird how some people will go out of their way to victimize people that aren't victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:08 AM
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The guy from the Blank Space music video!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:06 AM
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Lol they still choose to do it. There are many other jobs not to mention ways of saving money to get out of these situations. If you take out all jobs that exploit people you're left with like three jobs. I'm on your side about sex workers and their clients, but we all need better worker's rights, including sex workers, which desperately need legalization so the exploitation/abuse of legal workers can be reduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:42 AM
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And I think consumerism has tricked many here to view their spouse as some sort of ornament or product Because in the past marriage was all about attraction and true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:38 AM
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Most women aren't going to know who Sean O'Pry is. If you say he's the guy from the Blank Space music video they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:37 AM
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