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| – | Men: would you date women if you would never get access to their bodies?Definitely yeah. The emotional connection aspect of relationships is way more important to me anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 01:15 AM |
| – | Do you feel as if you genuinely know what the majority of women want?None of that stuff factors in at all until after you're already in a relationship. The men asking what women want aren't at that point. They're asking how to get into relationships in the first place, which is infinitely more difficult than anything you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 07:45 AM |
| – | Do you feel as if you genuinely know what the majority of women want?I have no clue tbh. All I know for sure is that whatever it is, I don't have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 05:48 AM |
| 1 | A lot of guys think they should be adored simply because they are not abusers, then wonder why women (and men) dont like them.As in help to understand the state of modern dating, help to know how to navigate it and get dates. Get your mind out of the gutter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 06:40 PM |
| 1 | A lot of guys think they should be adored simply because they are not abusers, then wonder why women (and men) dont like them.That's how most incels start out. Asking questions, looking at the answers that are already there. Then they stop looking because the answers they get don't help at all. Once we take the evidence from our own experiences and use that to form a conclusion that you don't like, we're branded as incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 10:26 PM |
| 3 | A lot of guys think they should be adored simply because they are not abusers, then wonder why women (and men) dont like them.Is it "entitled" to ask why your narrative doesn't fit reality? You say most women are simply avoiding the abusive men, but we can see pretty clearly that some of the worst men on earth who believe far worse things than anyone here have no trouble getting relationships. If what you're claiming is true, why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t want relationships, they want serviceSo why are you complaining about men when you're the one using them for your own gain? Do these men know that you don't see them as people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Men don’t want relationships, they want serviceNo it isn't. You won't die without emotional intimacy. Stop being so entitled to men's minds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t want relationships, they want serviceTo people like this, only women are allowed to desire sex in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:35 AM |
| 5 | Men don’t want relationships, they want serviceThere are plenty of men who are respectful, care about emotional intimacy, and would not coerce anyone to do what they want. You're just repelling them with your hateful attitude. Have you ever tried treating men like human beings? Maybe then it would be easier to find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:13 AM |
| 1 | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?Thanks :). I think a lot of the time it comes from a place of them wanting men who respect women, are willing to do their half of the chores, aren't too controlling, and think these traits are why so many men struggle with dating. What they don't realize is there are plenty of men who have those traits but never date because they don't fit all the (in my opinion) much harder requirements to get a date in the first place. But I won't give up 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:47 PM |
| 6 | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?I'm open to learning, but so far all of my experiences have taught me what I'm telling you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 02:56 AM |
| 7 | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?I learned all of these things from women, not single men. I've known women who have told me they wouldn't date someone that isn't at least 6', and on any social media you can find posts where women complain about short men, with thousands of others agreeing that they find them repulsive. I think listing what features are attractive is what got me autoflagged, so just imagine anything that would make someone stereotypically nerdy, and those are the traits I'm talking about. The last part is just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 02:27 AM |
| 4 | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?First comment got removed so I'll keep this short. At least 6', attractiveness is subjective but some traits help more than others, and not neurodivergent in any way (i.e, adhd, anxiety, autism. I should know because I have that one.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:48 AM |
| 22 | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?Basically, a constant uphill battle where no effort ever makes a difference. I've always wanted a long-term relationship, and I'm more than willing to put in the effort for it, learning how to initiate, how to read people, how to help my chances, but no one wants to have a relationship with me no matter what I do. I've installed every dating app, put my best pics, made a nice bio, and I'm still basically invisible. Only about one like every three weeks, sometimes it'll be several months without … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:38 AM |
| 7 | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?Tall, conventionally attractive, neurotypical, the whole deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:07 AM |
| 12 | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?I'm a lifelong leftist and I can admit way too many leftists are guilty of this. Because men are seen as privileged, any problems they have are seen as less important or just demonized as them being selfish or weak. But for those men actually going through mental illnesses, bullying, abuse, financial hardship, those problems aren't "nothing" to them, and believe it or not, nobody likes being told that everything they've had to go through in life, every sleepless night, every fear, is "not import… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 07:51 PM |
| 17 | Most Lesbian or Bisexual women do NOT have more game than straight men. It is simply easier as a girl to date.Not really. It's more like most women trust other women by default, while men are automatically seen as dangerous, so we have to work extra hard to prove ourselves before we can even think about flirting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 06:35 PM |
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