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| 2 | Is there anything that a guy could have on his dating profile, that will turn you on?Thats a good mindset to have. Im from a country where false accusation in general isnt as ubiquitous as it seems to be in the US, but its still been a regular concern with my dominants. As cringe as it sounds, imo best practice is putting down signed and in writing where the boundaries are and then making voicerecordings before explicitly consenting and saying that you have a clear mind. Also helps if a guy "forgets" that something was a limit or doesnt stop despite a safeword. Hasnt happened to… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 10:19 PM |
| 12 | What about direct approach?Why should that girl bother? Like I said, if you are that direct, theres also no reason to say yes beyond your looks. If you talk first, maybe there is a reason for her to say yes. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 09:52 PM |
| 12 | What about direct approach?Well, if you wanna be that direct you better be really hot, cause what other reasons have you given me to consider you? | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything that a guy could have on his dating profile, that will turn you on?Great, enjoy the experimentation together! As for the community, I'm pretty private, so I really dont like clubs or meetups or whatever, my post was more about the etiquette/ground rules of BDSM and why I think a casual dating place like Tinder is the wrong spot to look for it. Especially if someone just uses it as a gimmick without actually having a clue. That probably sets you up for a 50/50 chance of either getting laughed out of the room by a girl who knows what she wants or getting sued/bla… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything that a guy could have on his dating profile, that will turn you on?Thats because most men (on OLD or elsewhere) are exactly that kind of wannabe. Exactly why you need good vetting, both for having a good experience and for not getting hurt. I guess that applies for Doms as well, you wouldnt trust someone you talked to a full 2 hours outside the bedroom to not sue you for assault afterwards, would you? Id just advise you to look in the communities made for it if you are genuinely into bdsm. Also, another reason for vetting is that bdsm is more personal than just… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 03:10 PM |
| 6 | Is there anything that a guy could have on his dating profile, that will turn you on?Actually a lot of us lol. Google bdsm. But putting that on tinder might actually be a turnoff, since there are a lot of other places (fetlife) you usually turn to if you want a partner for those things. And Tinder offers less vetting and is usually more casual, which is the opposite you want there. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 10:58 AM |
| 0 | Is there anything that a guy could have on his dating profile, that will turn you on?Your height, if you are tall (like above 6'2/6'3). Some pics/lines/interests that show that youve been around the world and have cultural interests, few things are worse than a date with boring conversation. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 10:52 AM |
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