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| 5 | In a healthy relationship there is no reason for women to cheat.Cheaters come from broken childhoods. Notoriously abandonment issues; dysfunctional family units. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 01:53 AM |
| 6 | Did having a sibling of the oppostie gender make you more sympathetic of the struggles of the other gender?No, it made me jealous of her of how easy women have it, because it was plain as day right before my eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Best books or references to get back in the game?Mystery method | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 12:08 AM |
| 3 | what is the root cause or fear of oneitis or that you will never find someone like them again?Accomplishments being good at something. Believing in yourself. It's perception. So if your successful that creates value. The more successes you have the more value you acquire. Good job, good career, multiple college degrees or learned skills, tradesmen, Hobbies. Here's another one, Let's say your physically fit, you go to the gym work your ass off and build a muscular body that is attractive to women, this would again be another add on to your value. Dressing well is an addition. Having socia… | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 05:15 AM |
| 2 | I tend to talk to much and overshare when I approach or talk with women, any tips to reduce this ?I have had this same problem. This takes practice, but learn to turn the conversation/spotlight on them by asking them open ended questions or cold read them by making friendly assumptions about them in a statement format; then just be quiet and let them talk. Than in order to keep it going just ask follow up questions on what's said. Practice makes perfect. Literally In the beginning when I first started out cold approaching i use to bite down on my tongue gently to keep myself from blurting ou… | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 05:49 PM |
| 5 | what is the root cause or fear of oneitis or that you will never find someone like them again?Not recognizing your own worth/value/Potential | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Apprroach opportunities are very rare realisticallyMake opportunities happen! waiting around for opportunities to appear is the wrong thinking/mind set. With this attitude already giving up before even starting an attempt. This is what Luck is which is really just faint of heart. Need to grow a pair of balls and just go do it, because your future genetic offspring are at stake if you dont. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 09:06 PM |
| 16 | I’ve gotten 70% over my approach anxiety. But the person I approach seems super bored and I can’t get out of interview mode.Make statements | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone have any stories and tips for threesomes, foursomes and more…?Well when I was younger and had less responsibilities. I'd say in a month's time 40- 50 people at least. I had friends that would have huge house parties every weekend. Now that I'm older and so are my friends we get together in groups and go do something fun, no parties, exceptions are holidays of course. So now I'd say 20 -30 a month; once a week I'll get together with a group of friends. Each week different groups of friends. One week old high school pals following week college pals etc. one … | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone have any stories and tips for threesomes, foursomes and more…?Haha..of course But that never stopped me from trying 😂 | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone have any stories and tips for threesomes, foursomes and more…?If she's bi she'll have bi girl friends. So it would most likely benefit you to hang with her and her friends. She may not be that into you, but maybe one of her friends would be. You'll never know until you find out. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 01:30 AM |
| 13 | Does anyone have any stories and tips for threesomes, foursomes and more…?Sorry dont have any tips really. Just meet as many women as possible and youll eventually come across some, I did. It does help to have lots of friends that are women of course because they will help to pick up girls for you which will exponentially increase your odds of finding the types of girls your looking for. Girls like to play match maker so let them | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 01:21 AM |
| 37 | Does anyone have any stories and tips for threesomes, foursomes and more…?Find yourself a bisexual girlfriend or just be friend a bi girl and let her do all the work. Easiest way to threesomes | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss 30 days challenge - Day 4Good work ma'man! Keep going you got this! | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Any indirect game infields?I've used his patterns myself they work, but they need to be scattered throughout the conversation, not robotic one after another. They should also be catered to fit you or the topic, so steering the topic in the right direction to use the patterns appropriately helps with the vibe and flow of the interaction. Otherwise it comes off as weird, uncalibrated and just wont make sense to the girl, she'll be puzzled trying to figure you out. I suggest if you going to use them write out the structure o… | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss 30 days challenge to overcome approaching anxietyBecause they refined it over time it still all came from the same place based on the same principles which was created by mystery A.K Eric Von Markovik. Were not driving Ford model Ts any more either. | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | What are the biggest pillars in building attraction?Read the book mystery method original hand book. Actually all his books are useful. All the attraction switches your looking for are in there. Reading the books would be much more beneficial than just listing the switches off. Do yourself a favor and read them. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 11:41 PM |
| 19 | How can I take rejection graciously?Well said I've never heard truer words spoken | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 02:19 AM |
| 21 | Dealing with other menIts Jealously plain and simple, your doing something they dont have the balls to do. I've experienced what your talking about many many times through out the years. There's Always some guy thats jealous. I learned long time ago not to talk about or demonstrate Approaches in front of certain people because I know they wont react well from it. They just cant handle it. It fucks with their reality; they get pisst and take it out on you. I just keep it to myself and absolutely no boasting. Back in t… | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention.This is incorrect. This kind of thinking is straight out wrong. This would be attraction solely based on looks. I'd give a pass for having a shit personality, but not improving on those attributes or having them in first place or developing them no excuse. I dont agree with these comments in this thread because my two decades of experience says otherwise. This to me says lack of infield experience. I Dont care what someone saw on YouTube. Couple infield approaches being rejected proves literally… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Getting back in the game after a breakupShould always be running game, should be something like brushing your teeth to stay sharp in case of a break up that way you'll never be at a loss. The guys I know that stay sharp with weekly daily practice damn near never lose a girl ie break up because the girl senses this guy could replace me with little effort. This teaches to have the ability to create abundance at will because it is a skill like catching fish being self sufficient. Need no one to thrive survive. I'm an og P.U.A 2 decades o… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girl"The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists" on Scribd. Check it out: https://www.scribd.com/book/163640097 | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girlI was just thinking this maybe good reference material on game in general. I haven't read this book in years, but I think neil may have covered some iOis in here as well. Rules of the Game" on Scribd. Check it out: https://www.scribd.com/book/192795803 | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girli would suggest googling it..indicators of interest a long with IOD'S indicators of disinterest because they go hand in hand with each other. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girlI know because I've done thousands of approaches. Have you? | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girlIt would create an IOI if it worked | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girlHow do you know they weren't there? Were you there did you witness this interaction?? What I'm saying is most of the time indicators are present ie exception would be passive IOI's which are there if you know what to look for, but these aren't as noticeable unless your trained to look for them. There there if your paying attention, but sometimes you can create those IOI's from zero interest too ie from IOD's, but there are indicators present always. It just tends to be more rare to turn it aroun… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girlLogic? Indicators are to prevent wasting time on someone thats not interested or if the interaction starts going south (flat lining) so you can turn it around and gain her attraction ie interest again. That's the logic. Think of it like a manual that guides you on what's turning her on and what isn't. Tells you the right buttons to push or where your at interest level | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 09:51 PM |
| 3 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girlThe IOI's were there you just weren't paying attention. Trust me | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 08:51 PM |
| 5 | IOIs are only when you are already out with the girlI disagree with alot of comments here. I have 2 decades of cold Approach experience. I can tell you that some women are attracted to you just on appearance alone and will give you IOI's from a far. For example a glance, brushing her hair aside to expose her neck (preening)or a smile from across the room are indicators of interest. When she ends up next to you in proximity and even going as far as supposedly accidentally touching you or bumping into you are actually on purpose. All IOI's These ar… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Tips on Presenting more confidence?All confidence is is experience or the belief in oneself from his accomplishments. Be an achiever and you will be confident | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How to not be seriousAmuse mastery | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | I keep attracting what I don't want.If you dont know what you want than how can the universe provide. Write down everything you want in a women. Basically you're ideal women and what type of guy she would date. Then understand in order for the universe to give you what you want you must become that man for it to be granted to you. Think about this for a minute do guys that work at McDonald's date super models? No well why? Because they aren't prepared to handle a women like that. You need to be the man the universe can provide to … | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | The less I care about a women, the more interested they seemBecause being unattainable is attractive. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t?🎯 | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t?Lol.. so you can take their women off of them and laugh in their face. 😂 | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.I'd like to see the statistics on that one. Height is an attraction trigger | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:59 AM |
| 9 | How much time should I spend with her exactly?Actually leaving on a high note is powerful. Always leave them wanting more. That's how you create the chasing dynamic. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl not ordering any food, drinks etc on dates?I dated a girl just like this. I believe it comes from insecurity; Because after several months she finally was comfortable enough to finally eat in front of me. Could be same thing with your girl | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:59 PM |
| 4 | How do I stop living inside my own head when I'm in a social situation?This is the way. Well done | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?😂 | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:17 AM |
| 12 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?😂 | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Where do you meet older women? (40+)Wineries? | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:07 AM |
| 7 | Dancing approaches in clubs/barsI haven't done this in awhile, but this is what i use to do with dance floors. I used a pivot (a girl you already know well) to dance with and create a sexual vibe then have her grab a girl she likes pull her into our sandwich i work the back she works the front; after a few minutes switch. The girl almost always comes back with us that night if not another night in the future. Let the girl you know do all the work because she's in on it she down like that. Get my drift | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Dancing approaches in clubs/barsThe dance floor tends to be a trap. It usually wont work in a mans favor unless you really know what your doing ie experienced. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Dancing approaches in clubs/barsAlcohol 😂 | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:44 AM |
| 10 | This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why?Those women are damaged, you Shouldn't have that problem with a women that's mentally healthy. ofcourse you should be standing your ground when your tested by women and dont act needy which these attributes all women are attracted too which aren't toxic. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | When do you tell a girl you like her?Never, because she already knows! | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?You just need to find commonalities in your interactions, something in common. Think about this for a moment follow me, your human their human what do humans have in common?? Family, friends, pets, hobbies, jobs, careers, transportation, vacation, humor, memories good/bad traumatic, experiences, ethnicity, sports, exercise etc. I could go on and on. Just pick a few and keep going until you have something in common. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:42 AM |
| 4 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?Yeah dont want unattractive creepy guys approaching them. Pretty obvious, who does!? They want the attractive guys Approaching. Women love attention especially in person ((Cold Approaching)) All people like and need human to human contact/connection that means in person interactions. There are many scientific studies proving this. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | What are Some Good Conversation Fillers Right After Opening ?Books with info on state's, country's different cultures and pastimes are a great places to help form ideas to form stereotypes. Now if you learn to make those stereotypes humorous in some way that would be useful. Plus it really helps with connecting to people from different backgrounds because you are familiar with their heritage. They feel your one of them, from the same place same understanding, helps build rapport. Then you can love or hate the same things from that place culture together. … | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What are Some Good Conversation Fillers Right After Opening ?They maybe gimmicky, but they work. Stereotype books sorry I dont have any recommendations,but I would think books that talk about different cultures would be useful. Stereotypes are just generalities like country music is almost always about the same things alcohol, women, hardwork etc. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | What are Some Good Conversation Fillers Right After Opening ?Books (The cube) is a personality test. There are several palm reading and body language books. Those are useful as well as they help to gauge her responses as your reading her; will give you insight to her thoughts. There are others i read many years ago. I can't think of the names at the moment. If you search I'm sure you'll find some. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youYes what you said is true,but ask yourself this what is the caliber of women they are attracting and how many? That's the difference your over looking. Yeah its work to look like a Greek God, but people will treat you better and especially respect you more. I have several friends that are very muscular and scores of women fawn all over them. My guys lays counts are in the hundreds, but they also have social skills too (game). Muscles alone wont get you many women, but if its included it makes a … | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youGood on you brother for training for 50 mile ultra marathon. Keep at it your on the right path to greatness, that's awesome. Ok so for meeting wealthy people either (A) online apps, create a great Instagram will help to get you noticed, use LinkedIn, use all the social platforms to get connections etc. (B) go hang out near or in where wealthy people frequent, restaurants, clubs, bars, clubs VIP section or (C) go get a side job on the weekends or late evenings at prestigious high end clubs (golf,… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Pulling girl with friendsI have had excellent retention from girls from bars and clubs far more than majority of guys I know. I also stand out like a sore thumb because I peacock hard. Dressed to the nines with all the flashy rassle dassle. I challenge any woman to forget me..lol I even tell them that..Haha | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Pulling girl with friendsThat's where photos and call back humor comes into play. Funny caption on the snap and what ever you do just dont be boring. Stand out be different be out Landish be Fun because that's why she's there in the first place to have FUN. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | pills/ drugs to help me overcome anxiety?Here are some additional anxiety reducers all backed by science to help with that fraught feeling. Echinacea Angustifolia, Theanine, Rhodiola Rosea, Ginseng, Ashwagandha, Fish oil, B Vitamins, Magnesium, Gaba, Taurine, and Arginine, Citrulline along with B.C.A.A's (Branch Chained Amino Acids) all help with anxiety also. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | pills/ drugs to help me overcome anxiety?Lavender helps with anxiety. I use to use it when I first started out doing cold approach many years ago. I'd buy organic lavender flowers in bulk bags off of Amazon. Grind them up in a coffee grinder and take one table spoon full and wash it down with a redbull, coffee or rockstar energy drink basically what ever energy drink I had nearby to counter the sedative effect. It Worked well for me. After a while I got so use to approaching I didn't need the lavender anymore because I desensitize myse… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:50 PM |
| -3 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youCan you bench 400 lbs and squat 600? Start there That's just one idea. I'm sure I can come up with more..haha Another one would be do you spend your time hanging out with and learning from wealthy people because they are friends and mentors to you? I could prolly keep going. These are things that should already be goals if your not there yet. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youThere's always room for improvement trust me. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach overrated now?Lol..No, dating apps are overrated now. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What are Some Good Conversation Fillers Right After Opening ?Cold read her, by making statements you assume about her. Make observations of how she's dressed, her behavior, facial expressions and the answers she gives you on those statements/questions you ask, etc. Read some cold reading books along with anything that is related to reading people like body language, palm and hand writing analysis, psychology books, the cube book (which is a personality test) they will all help. Then go practice on everyone and I mean everyone not just women; this will hel… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Playing with fire interviews Adam Lions Two weeks ago. https://youtu.be/twTrrGiRXtY | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching still common?Beauty is in the eye of the beholder my friend. It's all perception and there's always a way to adjust perception. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:28 AM |
| 0 | How far in advanced to set date is too far?I disagree, wasting your time on someone trying to get them to like you is weak and shows desperation she'll notice it; that's timid. A man with purpose succeeding in life accomplishing goals, breaking boundaries/barriers doesn't have time or the energy to waste on someone that's maybe interested. Either she's in or she's out. In my opinion someone desperate to make oneone like them lacks options. A man with abundance doesn't waste his time because he doesn't have too. Choose your mindset. I kno… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How far in advanced to set date is too far?I've never met a woman that needed reminding in my personal experience. If she needs reminding she's not that interested period. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:05 PM |
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